Picking a Partner

Welcome to the First Episode of Shop Talk, where Adeolu Adefarasin along with guests Lynxxx and Stan Nze talk about what they are looking for in a partner as well as what they expect of themselves

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  • @sylviasworld9397
    @sylviasworld93976 жыл бұрын

    The woman they are describing, are they preparing themselves for her? She will also have the type of husband/ life partner she wants. Are you that? They should not assume just because they are make they qualify. The guy in the barbers chair especially. Lynxx is already working on himself and you can tell.

  • @sylviasworld9397

    @sylviasworld9397

    6 жыл бұрын

    * male

  • @ese4741
    @ese47416 жыл бұрын

    PREACH LYNXX PREEEEEACH... Too many shallow minded fellas out there missing out on GOOD WOMEN because she's not a "SLAY QUEEN" ...shop talk is a good one.

  • @amandaebieme4893
    @amandaebieme48935 жыл бұрын

    Wow, I thought that haircut was never going to end lol.

  • @tayoabereoje4289
    @tayoabereoje42895 жыл бұрын

    Yes, please let’s talk about that submission thing. Guys are throwing around that word these days like it’s their right. Whol’ up! You be my papa? You send me go school? You give me food? So I no know you from nowhere bhet I go throw my brain and all my years of self-development in the bin because you think submission from me is your right?? Oga, you dey dream o. Submission is earned. In a marriage. And by the way, he who wants to be the first must be the last. When you’re ready to make sacrifices for your family, you can expect submission.

  • @princesshephzibah5894

    @princesshephzibah5894

    5 жыл бұрын

    Preach to me honey, pls... Get up to par, then we can know whether submission will hold water.

  • @holyfariankido
    @holyfariankido6 жыл бұрын

    Lynxxx always speaking the honest truth as usual. I enjoyed the episode with all your different perspectives.

  • @adesuaadebo-young5836
    @adesuaadebo-young58366 жыл бұрын

    Looking forward to more ! , It's good to know that there are men who look beyond the physical and realize that a solid foundation with Christ should be the basic criteria for picking a partner.

  • @MichaelEMJAYJohnson
    @MichaelEMJAYJohnson5 жыл бұрын

    Lynnx sounds like someone you'd want to have as a friend. Dude is cool and insightful.

  • @oojewole8349
    @oojewole83496 жыл бұрын

    Lynxx is a beautiful guy and he speaks facts man!! 😍

  • @coolcat4life2000
    @coolcat4life20006 жыл бұрын

    This is truly amazing. However, I must say I was left wanting. Maybe 17 mins is not enough time to truly portray your thoughts but there were many times when the guys were sharing great thoughts and advice but were interrupted or cut short by the guy asking the questions. I especially wanted to hear where the gentleman in pink was coming from when he was building up his views on dating a person within the entertainment industry. All in all, this was a breath of fresh air. I was about to pour me a glass of wine when all of a sudden, it was over. 17 mins? We want more please. I'd love to use the episodes for my girls' sleepover post-discussion fun topic. God bless you all.

  • @roxkeke2607
    @roxkeke26076 жыл бұрын

    Grown men talking👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @Datcoolgaffy
    @Datcoolgaffy6 жыл бұрын

    proud of you Adeolu

  • @GracefullyKaren
    @GracefullyKaren6 жыл бұрын

    Conversation 👌🏿✨☺️. Life partner is never perfect. Always a work in progress 👏🏾👏🏾. .

  • @danielxbentley
    @danielxbentley6 жыл бұрын

    If my Barber Shop was as fresh as this ehn. I'd cut my hair every week. Asides that, Love this show! The idea, the set & the conversation. Big ups.

  • @user-nh8fz4uc4h

    @user-nh8fz4uc4h

    6 жыл бұрын

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  • @NicoleNjoku

    @NicoleNjoku

    6 жыл бұрын

    odé 😂

  • @GracefulKnots

    @GracefulKnots

    6 жыл бұрын

    lol

  • @everythingisjem
    @everythingisjem6 жыл бұрын

    This was great, enjoyed watching it, tho I wish guys would also talk about 'loving' their women as that to me is an even greater responsibility than 'submission'. Great job! x

  • @Memkoh

    @Memkoh

    5 жыл бұрын

    OMG!!! I was literally saying this to my friend! It's something I really need to touch on in my videos. Men need to remember that to love is a greater responsibility than for a woman to submit. Plus, if you love a woman the way Christ loves the church, she will move the earth for you (in my friend's words).

  • @sisilara801
    @sisilara8016 жыл бұрын

    Eye-opener!!! This for me is the best episode so far. Their realness cut through like a knife. Lynxxx, Stan and Adeolu, my kind of men, nothing beats being real, keep it up guys!!!

  • @eyewuenemurphy-akpieyi2623
    @eyewuenemurphy-akpieyi26236 жыл бұрын

    So i sent my sister this youtube video and this was her reply, ''Lynxxx sounds finally grown up The moderator too is mentally mature The one cutting hair I wouldn't touch with a pool stick''..... Which is true. #myopinion

  • @xxmamaxxable
    @xxmamaxxable6 жыл бұрын

    Looool! Really loved this!!

  • @onyinyechijioke
    @onyinyechijioke6 жыл бұрын

    Love this show! Love it!

  • @tobithelma2039
    @tobithelma20396 жыл бұрын

    Finally!!! I've been waiting for this. Well done.

  • @nkybaby3839
    @nkybaby38396 жыл бұрын

    lynxxx really do hate this hair net thing. he talks about it all the time😂😂😂

  • @amakaanne302
    @amakaanne3026 жыл бұрын

    This was really interesting! Next episode please!!

  • @ifeomajenny4475
    @ifeomajenny44756 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely love this. I hope a lot of people get to see it.

  • @chubbokobah5601
    @chubbokobah56016 жыл бұрын

    I like the show; the simplicity of it. I'd def follow it

  • @okeoluwabunmi2384
    @okeoluwabunmi23846 жыл бұрын

    Love love love this

  • @liyahweh
    @liyahweh6 жыл бұрын

    Ice cream factory!!!!! My God. I've been watching all of them videos. I'm happy I subscribed to this channel ❤️

  • @Pendiscorner
    @Pendiscorner6 жыл бұрын

    Very very good.👏👏👏

  • @Luludzie
    @Luludzie6 жыл бұрын

    Loved this! Watching it for the second time.

  • @Luludzie
    @Luludzie6 жыл бұрын

    I came back to this! This episode was refreshing.

  • @amakachigbue
    @amakachigbue6 жыл бұрын

    This is great!! So 2 eps in and there’s still the running theme of “knowing yourself first!”

  • @bukolasolanke4627
    @bukolasolanke46276 жыл бұрын

    .... buh the inside the AC no dey work😂😂...

  • @ladymayy
    @ladymayy6 жыл бұрын

    This show💜💜Waiting for the episode where you guys will invite ladies😉😁 Can I get an Amen!!

  • @marriagefamilythewordtv3025
    @marriagefamilythewordtv30254 жыл бұрын

    Love this guys.. please keep it up!

  • @funmilayooshunwusi2962
    @funmilayooshunwusi29626 жыл бұрын

    This is real talk. I hope a lot of guys get to see this. Well done.

  • @tonkatonka5284
    @tonkatonka52846 жыл бұрын

    I find myself nodding to every point raised. wow.... beautiful! real talk, grown men. good stuff. there's hope 😆

  • @eunicebello7330
    @eunicebello73306 жыл бұрын

    Oh wow! This is really nice 👍. I like that there's a shift

  • 6 жыл бұрын

    I love this Great show 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 lynxxx is too honest 😍

  • @iibiikata6108
    @iibiikata61086 жыл бұрын

    Finally!!! The show is ON. PS: lynxxx was dropping great points right there

  • @teecee3250
    @teecee32506 жыл бұрын

    Thank God there is still hope! People still get sense like this...these days you can't even have an intelligent conversation. Clap for yourself y'll. Lynx anytime he talks👏👏👏 God indeed changed you.

  • @peggyezumah6363
    @peggyezumah63636 жыл бұрын

    This is an awesome funny but indept show. Big ups Adeolu, Lynxx and the guy cutting his hair

  • @amei150
    @amei1506 жыл бұрын

    Wow thank you guys

  • @salt2420
    @salt24205 жыл бұрын

    I'm not surprised to see comments about being "submissive" I'm convinced I'm not like most women my age seeing that this word has such a negative connotation among my age group. While they abhor the idea of being submissive to a man, I actually understand it 🤷🏾‍♀️. I mean, being submissive actually comes naturally when you are in love or care for someone, it manifests in the little things we do, we just overlook it. Simple things like doing him a favor, performing small tasks he asks you to do, just the little things and of course the more obvious such as ironing his shirt, cooking for him etc. ( because we're at "whipped" stage). It's just innate for us women, we are nurturer, "womb"men, mothers. Maternal instincts kick in when the love bug bites. The fear and resistance, I think, comes from being submissive to the wrong type of men which is justifiable, no woman wants to submit to a dictator. I can only speak for myself, as a woman submission would be sort of like a "love language" for me personally, to Express my appreciation to a good man who has proved himself trustworthy of my vulnerability. My submissiveness would also mean that I'm not afraid to be lead by him because I see leadership qualities and God in him. (Security) Submission can be a deep and spiritual thing, which is why I believe the Bible instructs us to practice it with each other (husband and wife) so be careful in choosing your partner

  • @nellyjoseph2857
    @nellyjoseph28576 жыл бұрын

    They all look for the flesh, all of them and when you try to tell them to be more spiritual and abstain. They all run... They all say they want more than the physical but its all crap. I may just be single for a while.. Sobs

  • @Funmi_Richards
    @Funmi_Richards2 жыл бұрын

    Watching this in 2022 and I'm happy Stan Nze got what he wished for a friend, he was not forming for 😁 Blessing

  • @onukwubirieberechi8594
    @onukwubirieberechi85946 жыл бұрын

    I love d discussion.....

  • @thefleetfooted
    @thefleetfooted6 жыл бұрын

    But most serious lifters don't gym for gyal. It's for us. We want to look the best we can and be the strongest we can be. It might be your motivation at the start, but it typically doesn't last. The effect that weights have on your body and the positive experience of chasing and achieving goals is what keeps a lot of us going.

  • @amakabeibe
    @amakabeibe6 жыл бұрын

    This hair ,them no dey barb am finish?

  • @SkidCudi

    @SkidCudi

    4 жыл бұрын

    that hair na actor once is finish is over actor no dey die 4 movies

  • @daviddaini9351

    @daviddaini9351

    4 жыл бұрын

    lol

  • @hatigal
    @hatigal2 жыл бұрын

    Omg! Watching this again after watching Stan Nze’s marriage story 😃😃😃

  • @akpevwe__o
    @akpevwe__o6 жыл бұрын

    I love the sure already 😀

  • @feykem7459
    @feykem74595 жыл бұрын

    "Most times you don't find the content you need in the spec you want"- WORD

  • @mickaellep.f.3955

    @mickaellep.f.3955

    4 жыл бұрын

    It goes both ways chiiile..women get passed on and so do men..based on this very fact. There is are a lot of mismatches out there because too often the specs take over the substance especially in the younger years 20's and early 30's.

  • @thefleetfooted
    @thefleetfooted6 жыл бұрын

    Man like Lynxxx ya kna!

  • @adefioyesururah1778
    @adefioyesururah17782 жыл бұрын

    Nice topic

  • @LLeemahscorner
    @LLeemahscorner6 жыл бұрын

    These guys are smart and seem well grounded and while they are all eye candies, lynxxx mehn! My kinda guy...just fyne anyhow, sabi God and con get 6packs! Choi...lol

  • @asiyaali5083
    @asiyaali50835 жыл бұрын

    i like Stan Eze. Great actor.

  • @jhevmc
    @jhevmc6 жыл бұрын

    Interesting how they skillfully moved the focus away from the question of what constitutes a submissive woman.

  • @thisisfifi247
    @thisisfifi2472 жыл бұрын

    Not Stan saying that and being married to an actress now😂. He definitely called it.

  • @tomilolaolotu880
    @tomilolaolotu8806 жыл бұрын

    ahhh loved this so much! It is so refreshing to hear real talk from a guy's standpoint :), when is the next episode out??

  • @adeoluadefarasin

    @adeoluadefarasin

    6 жыл бұрын

    tomi olotu a new episode will drop this Friday.

  • @seesha31
    @seesha316 жыл бұрын

    This is too much handsomeness in one room.

  • @Boluwatifebig
    @Boluwatifebig6 жыл бұрын

    Lovely job guys! On a lighter note though, this bros hair nor dey gree lower?

  • @nownow3672
    @nownow36726 жыл бұрын

    I just wonder why a barbershop would have that type of flooring.

  • @Omangozika
    @Omangozika5 жыл бұрын

    Any guy that mentions “submissive, submission “, there’s a high chance that he’s a narcissist!!!! Trust me I’ve been there😄😄😄 People need to know that submission isn’t a physical thing, it’s a spiritual thing....

  • @15jenifa
    @15jenifa6 жыл бұрын

    dear Lynxxx...........

  • @hakeemlamidi1816
    @hakeemlamidi18166 жыл бұрын

    YO.I FUCKS WITH LYNNX MAN. You just have to know and understand yourself first before anything.. That just sums it up.

  • @princesshephzibah5894
    @princesshephzibah58945 жыл бұрын

    No woman will want to be ordered around. We, women are Also looking for substance. @lynxx the submission of Stan Ike's context isn't going to work. Even if get married to a woman who is a submissive person...one day she will rebel...everyone has got to work on themselves

  • @marianasamu1478
    @marianasamu14786 жыл бұрын

    This guy don dey cut hair since aha

  • @cherylmason3274
    @cherylmason32742 ай бұрын

    I am willing to be summit to.my husband

  • @jenniferobiakor2691
    @jenniferobiakor26916 жыл бұрын

    How is it possible that the barber didn't smile

  • @cutesnubable

    @cutesnubable

    6 жыл бұрын

    Jennifer Obiakor 💁🏾girl my thoughts exactly

  • @pearlstewart8991

    @pearlstewart8991

    5 жыл бұрын

    No joy very dry

  • @chiamaka_barbara4820
    @chiamaka_barbara48206 жыл бұрын

    This is one long haircut!

  • @adefioyesururah1778
    @adefioyesururah17782 жыл бұрын

    Having ur hair cut at d same time talking. Is it healthy?

  • @chibaby0306
    @chibaby03066 жыл бұрын

    My goodness lynxxx I'm born again but im sorry I u r freaking hot😍😂😂

  • @ayomikunoguntola7058
    @ayomikunoguntola70585 жыл бұрын

    Lynxx😍😍😍

  • @dekemidiaries5646
    @dekemidiaries56466 жыл бұрын

    👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @chibaby0306
    @chibaby03066 жыл бұрын

    Lynx I'm your wife, find me biko loll

  • @keniizuka
    @keniizuka6 жыл бұрын

    Why put FIFA on the screen and not play it??? Was teasing me the whole time. I reckon everyone in that room can easily beat Adeolu

  • @gingerb9997
    @gingerb99975 жыл бұрын

    Who’s the guy in glasses...?i like him....Mr if you read this message n u single .....then say hi..:)))

  • @shirlsshirls8594
    @shirlsshirls85945 жыл бұрын

    Who is the man with the glasses?

  • @elsieonyejekwe3132

    @elsieonyejekwe3132

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lynxx a Nigerian musician

  • @giovannasonni770
    @giovannasonni7702 жыл бұрын

    What?

  • @mimaesthetic2517
    @mimaesthetic25175 жыл бұрын

    Mm, usually mankind is quick is ignore and disobey God, but I see every culture on earth totally agrees about the submission thing... Which makes me think that the submission we talk about is totally ungodly and not God's definition. God's path has always been the narrow road that People don't want to travel on, yet all almost the entire male population want to obey God is the submissive wife department... Mm.

  • @giovannasonni770
    @giovannasonni7702 жыл бұрын

    Submission? For what for him? He dreams obviously one really woman doesn't see him I have not words. The only intelligent is lynxxx

  • @ogasontop
    @ogasontop6 жыл бұрын

    So non married guys talking about choosing a partner lol

  • @zobachizobam3496

    @zobachizobam3496

    5 жыл бұрын

    You know!!

  • @morolakemomodu6171
    @morolakemomodu61715 жыл бұрын

    Stan Nze is shallow

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