Im just here to stare at Sharon Ooja's fine self...

@carolinenanaama

4 жыл бұрын

@Sandra Danso are you me??😂

@gracetchabi

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly 😂😂😂

@Fav984

4 жыл бұрын

Am telling you

@noelashaoona

4 жыл бұрын

Me too

@tanishanightingale

4 жыл бұрын

Sandra Danso she is very attractive indeed!

50/50 is impractical and unfair to women. You will be contributing 50/50 in finances and when it comes to manual labor in the home you’re like 99/1 where 99% falls on the woman. Women who agree to such madness are shooting themselves in the foot. As for me, I refuse to do it. Balance is key and 50/50 is not balance. Unless we go 50/50 on chores too .

@Dan-qt4xb

4 жыл бұрын

Waffle

@joannieyvettebessem4813

4 жыл бұрын

It's not even. About the chores. It's about us bringing all of us to the table. So it's 100/100.

@journee8724

4 жыл бұрын

Yes you are correct in that sense....whats more important is agreement between both partners....efforts can't always be equal

@fadewahab3943

3 жыл бұрын

say it louder for d ones in d back abeg

@aoraandmore

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely spot on

lol interesting Topic, i just loved Mimi more because we think alike. Very practical and realistic. Timini is a typical Nigerian man.

@ritamichael4381

5 жыл бұрын

She thinks wise and mature and I love her.

@sussanlawrence6635

4 жыл бұрын

Timini is just irrational...he doesn't want to provide yet he wants to be the head... What a 'head'🙄😏

@GrowwithFifi

4 жыл бұрын

Scratch that...he's a typical Yoruba man.

@Ediblefacez

4 жыл бұрын

@@GrowwithFifi he is not yoruba, he is from bayelsa

@tanishanightingale

4 жыл бұрын

Sussan Lawrence exactly!!!

Mimi has a lotta maturity and sense...Timini and Sharon are still in the having fun phase ...Western generation has taken their brain away 😂😂😂

@MonaDanna

4 жыл бұрын

Very true.

@Official_Vickkhie

2 жыл бұрын

Mimi is very mature,but, all of them were making solid points

Love Mimi's opinions !! Why's koye quiet? ?? I feel like he has a TOTALLY different mindset & doesn't wanna stress it 😂

@Churchgirl_Fiona

4 жыл бұрын

& I actually side with him.

@obabee2474

4 жыл бұрын

Too quiet

@wajutomeevovo4138

4 жыл бұрын

Dude is a spoil sport

I love mimi already. her responses are very practical ( in her own words). I need a girl like her in my life so that we can both build an empire together.

@chukwuebukachukwuokpala331

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂 those ones do like simp like you

At the end of the day, there's no one way to have a relationship. It all comes down to what the couple is comfortable with. There can't be that whole, only the man should.... or only the woman should..... thing anymore. There is no right way, just different ways that are right for you.

Ahh Timini fell my hand in the end ohhh. Mimi is so realistic and practical, I love her! I was expecting Koye to be more talkative lol. Sharon babyyy girl for life!

I like Mimi - she's practical, mature and very reasonable.

Mimi issa voice of reason. Timini made both good and annyoying points. He also made the conversation interesting. Did Koye speak at all?

Mimi is the real MVP of this show, learnt a lot from her

"What's good for gogo is good for gaga". Words I live by

@NicoleJay

6 жыл бұрын

i literally died looooool

@ayeniodunayo2664

6 жыл бұрын

Olanrewaju Folarin you are bad 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@ifueksiddd3307

6 жыл бұрын

😂

@folas124

6 жыл бұрын

i came here for the comment that will point it out

@NyarRailakende

5 жыл бұрын

😭😛😝😜😁😛😝😜 Mr. Folarin..u made my day ohh...I'll use that phrase everyday..Respek from Iceland Reykjavik Kenyan 🇰🇪🇮🇸

Mimi's responses are top notch. Timini made the conversation fun

I enjoyed it. Very silly topic but Timini made the conversation fun

i honestly loved this conversation. as for me 50/50 rule on finances for a couple is a NO. women have more expenses than men do and they are expected to do even more in a union like cooking, taking care of the house and birthing the children, Generally Women endures a lot to be honest and are always left emotionally, financially and physically drained by men. i find that a women is in her best when the bills are being taken care of by the man of the house ... men who expect to have a traditional women (the one who cooks, clean and take care of the home) should also work hard and be traditional man (PROVIDE FOR YOUR WOMAN AND CHILDREN).... Men and Women ARE NOT the same nor equal , feminism might have fooled many in thinking we are we really are not.Women, please sit firmly in your femininity and watch how things fall into place.... peace and love

@PCSPITTER4NY

4 жыл бұрын

Reality is that you cannot take care of a family in one salary because of inflation. You need 2 incomes. My parents both paid the bills and they been together over 40 yrs.

@dare2be520

4 жыл бұрын

@@PCSPITTER4NY That is why i mentioned the traditional perspective of it, Different strokes for different folks. all i am saying is, if men are looking for 50/50 they should also be willing to share in the household stuff and do as much as women do..

@PCSPITTER4NY

4 жыл бұрын

@@dare2be520 in 2020 most men have lived alone and are used to doing house cleaning. Stop buying into negative propaganda about men. We clean

@dare2be520

4 жыл бұрын

@@PCSPITTER4NY lol okay, no problem then

Timini thinks it's the mans place to have the final say concerning certain decisions but yet he believes in the 50/50 rule. To me that's contradictory.

@nafeesaharamide493

6 жыл бұрын

exactly, he wants to be the head decision maker yet he doesn't want to be the sole provider

@discover-u2927

6 жыл бұрын

Can provider and leader be mutually exclusive. Honest question...

@tamunotonyeigbani1015

6 жыл бұрын

"I'm a man,I'm a man" until its time to pay for groceries 😂

@nafeesaharamide493

6 жыл бұрын

+Discover-U no, they are not, with big positions come big responsibilities

@discover-u2927

6 жыл бұрын

Tinuke thatonegirl I agree, Tinuke. I'm putting my madam on an allowance, going forward

Only Mimi made sense all the way. Koye, wetin happen?

I love mimi, she’s so intelligent, full of wisdom❤️❤️

I love Mimi’s facial expression at the end lollllll when Timini spoke about the ‘man being a man’ in relation to decision making.

@ajkeshy7517

4 жыл бұрын

Princess Ashinze lol exactly

Me rolling my eyes at Timini's opinion.

I love Mimi she is so practical and rational especially that talk of moving into her house situation. My opinion if he moves in for practical reasons he will pay the rent

@chrisoghenetegamaloney5799

6 жыл бұрын

Elizabeth Odey what’s good for gogo is good for gaga also .

@lisabethvlogs

6 жыл бұрын

chris maloney hehehehehe if I hear!!!! That's my opinion ooo. He has to pay except maybe at that time, He is going through some hard times. Except, I repeat except..... He is paying bro... Thank you Oh oh wait a minute are Goo and gaga twins neeeyy?? 😁

The guy that quoted the Bible is hilarious. Where does that exist in the Bible. In btwn, Timini and Sharon are giving us the coded Banky W and Adesuwa vibes💕💕💋

@khairahbashirr724

4 жыл бұрын

How were they doing that ? People have been saying so but I didn't see it..

@becky_andyking5827

2 жыл бұрын

I wonder where he got that scripture from

What is the name of the lady in green . She had some good and mature points

@dawoduomolola3672

4 жыл бұрын

Mimi Onalaja

Pls how can I marry Timini? I'm shook at how on point his mentality is. Edit: nvm he has said he's a man too much lol

@marychristina3413

6 жыл бұрын

Aby Knapp right. Girl I felt d same way. After a while I was like "uhh nop"

@ndaniTV

6 жыл бұрын

Wow, what's the tea?

@abyn6189

6 жыл бұрын

NdaniTV he believes in sharing finances, I was down for that. But then he also believes in making the final decision as a man 🙄 pls as we sharing, we must share everything. Including decisions. I just thought he seemed really chill and progressive but in the end he seemed to be a typical African man 🤷

@rashidaotoootoo136

6 жыл бұрын

Aby N eiii go see his mama

@vncube1002

6 жыл бұрын

lol that back pedaling!!

Why did Koye 10 come to occupy space here? And the presenter should have drawn him into the conversation by directing questions at him. Cornelia O' Dwyer is still my favourite Real Talk presenter but I like the show and will still keep watching.

@kessa9755

6 жыл бұрын

Victor Olugbemiro i agree the presenter should have included him in some way.

@lisabethvlogs

6 жыл бұрын

He is certainly not the type that chips into conversation without be asked

@Rebrandiishworld

6 жыл бұрын

Yes... as if they left him out

@ivyterver9601

6 жыл бұрын

lmaoo to occupy space

@Chiamypie

5 жыл бұрын

God bless you, I still miss Cornelia.

Correct me if I am wrong, but almost everybody in the Focus Group seems to be in the entertainment industry. Their responses seem not to be far from each other. They should have spread the profession so as to get different views. Anyways, good show!

@IreneUmeoke

6 жыл бұрын

Eric Anidiobi yeah.... i dont mind being there 😊😊 do you if you dont lets berra shoot our shot maybe they might see this and call us

@ericanidiobi

6 жыл бұрын

Life of Irene hehehehehe. Oya let’s go na. I have a lot of things to offload.

@mideblack7843

6 жыл бұрын

Eric Anidiobi i agree... Bring a banker, Teacher, Doctor and farmer.. The dynamic go change.

@ericanidiobi

6 жыл бұрын

I am telling you!

@unyknetworks

6 жыл бұрын

You have a very good point

In marriage each person has to give 100% all of the time. All opinions should be heard in a relationship and a decision has to be made. Both people have to compromise a little and find a middle ground, as long as ‘core principles’ are not compromised.

Will it be 50/50 cooking and domestic cores too as well as looking after our babies and toddlers ?

lol...love how Sharon Ooja slid in that "no" after Timini's monologue @16:11!

Koye doesn’t like noise, see as he is listening.

@media21production17

6 жыл бұрын

he just came to eat. hahah

@trudytriad4574

4 жыл бұрын

@@media21production17 😂😂😂😂

ugh i love this...my girl k'ola holding it down! missed you. lol shalewa and Timini are funny. mimi is is smart.

Loved how logical Mimi was aswell

Sharon: first of all I'm not dating you if you are living in your father's house Timini: bla bla bla ...btw I'm not living in my father's house. Issokayyy ☕️

@honeytrionia7299

6 жыл бұрын

Lol. Giving us Banky and Adesuwa vibe in codes 😁

@mercyadoda4683

5 жыл бұрын

I don't think there is anything between them

@Fairygod-Planner

4 жыл бұрын

Guy is shooting his shot😂

Wawuu.. Timini is just being funny..He made the show lively...sharon, I just love that lady..Mimi,very matured and always practical

Mimi was very realistic and I love that and for timini he sounded like those old Africa men that do claim they are the man in everything. Sharon was very interactive as well but koye was just quiet that is too bad.concerning the rule of 50/50 I don't think it possible but what am gonna say is each partner should make sure they take up responsibility and make each other feel comfortable at the end of all.thanks more vibes

I guess we may all be used to Koyes comedy skit.... But just by watching this we can easily understand that he is on the quiet side. Or wont just talk like the others... So the host should have able to make it work and engage him more 😊

Real talk is back 😍😍😍, please help us do something about Gidi up too 😋🙏🏼👏

I agree with Sharon. No man that is still leaving in this parents house allowed in my life. PERIOD!

@PCSPITTER4NY

4 жыл бұрын

There are alot of 30 + women living with their mom. I'm just saying. My current gf is 37 and lives with her mom. If men thought like women then I wouldn't have met such a wonderful lady

😄 Our first REAL TALK epic quote for this Season, “What’s good for Gogo is always good for Gaga.” Gbammest! 👊🏽#WhatsGoodForGogoIsGoodForGaga #AreGogo&GagaTwins?

@TonyAdigwe

6 жыл бұрын

Eniola Abumere lol... that got me too. New word on fleek😄

@deborahonabanjo7822

6 жыл бұрын

Like! It just stuck like a tattoo! Don't blame him, that is how the baba understands it lool

@ginikachiokoro9181

6 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂 I legit burst out laughing

@khadeejahyusuf3563

6 жыл бұрын

weakened me. Lmao

@fillingswithtobydonut

6 жыл бұрын

I laughed out loud tbh

The man can make final decisions IF he has genuinely taken the opinions of his woman into account! Not imposing his on her

@mariamandifang7461

6 жыл бұрын

Timini thinks it's the mans place to have the final say concerning certain decisions but yet he believes in the 50/50 rule. To me that's contradictory.

@jeremiahkamara8895

4 жыл бұрын

Gbam!

@opeyemio705

3 жыл бұрын

👌

Timini : Mimi is the kind of girl that will take care of me when I'm broke I need a girl like mimi Sharon: EVERY GIRL WILL DO THAT EVERY GIRL WILL DO THAT 😂🏃🏾‍♀️

@nakuyajjemba6804

5 жыл бұрын

And he is like abegiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii

@nakuyajjemba6804

5 жыл бұрын

😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

@makindegloria9857

4 жыл бұрын

As in..... I also saw dat..... Sharon lyks Timi joor

That haircut on Timini is the only thing he brought around that I love and love 😍. The entire 50/50 thing with no reference to house chores and childbearing and rearing is 🚮 but then again... To every man his own 🤗

I pretty much love Mimi. She's speaking my heart

Oh yeah, I just love the sync in their conversation, especially Sharon and Mimi, they're the ideal matured, realistic, forward looking women, and wife material too...Thumbs up to the host, nice show

Timi we pray that too much sense will not kill you! really liked his perspective and his angle to answering the questions

I'm just here to witness Sharon and Timini chemistry ❤

Shout out for Mimi straight up love way of talking and expression

"What's good for 'Goo Goo' is also good for 'Ga Ga'".

The guy with the glasses was awfully quiet... wonder why the host didn't try to sway the conversation his way... she made it so awkward to watch seeing everyone speaking and one person just ghosting away. #tough.

@MM-pi5iu

5 жыл бұрын

Princess Yin oh my goodness u very critical. Some people are more listeners than talkers .

@dabzzy

4 жыл бұрын

Awfully quiet 😩🤣🤣

The 50/50 rule will be great if the man can carry the pregnancy for 4 and half months...I will give him the last term to delivery😂😂😂

@Va-WaBwanaYesu

4 жыл бұрын

Bless Beulah 😂😂😂😂😂

@ekiagboghidi3051

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks my sister 50/50 my foot

@Tam974eva

3 жыл бұрын

this is the comment I was looking for!! lmaooo

@yayoolulope

3 жыл бұрын

Wow...it's like you took this out of my head...don't mind them

@thehunted316

3 жыл бұрын

Do you carry pregnancy all the days of your life? Dont be lazy, go get a good job so you wont be complaining about things that should come naturally.

They all grown but, the one with the mature mentality and wisdom is Mimi. Sharon and Timini are going with the flow, what feels good right now ( might be fun first, until reality hits )

The same timini said "this is not the 70s" when it came to the man footing all the bills. Yet he is making comments like "I'm the man, the decision is final" you keep contradicting yourself. In this 2018? Lol u sir are a jokester. Being a man does not automatically equate to having sense

@abdulhaqqomoyele9197

6 жыл бұрын

Mary Christina k

@hopeafolabi6223

6 жыл бұрын

thank you!!! he was just talking crap

@maddieadeka2401

6 жыл бұрын

Mary Christina e

@GrowwithFifi

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly dear!

@bolajiaina95

4 жыл бұрын

Mary Christina Exactly

I love this. I can't say yes or no for the 50/50 rule, especially since I'm not old or mature enough to be in such a relationship right now, so my opinion will surely change. When you talked about the scenario of being promoted and moving to another place, I totally stood with what Sharon said "what are my options there",very intelligent. Timini said he feels it's just like every other decision but you have to let someone have the final say. I don't entirely agree with that. Moving your entire life to another country is very different from deciding where to go on weekends,or what to buy etc,this is her picking up her entire life(and the kids if there are any) and moving it for you, so I think you both should reach a decision TOGETHER. Whatever works best for you both, although she most probably will compromise. Anyways I really love this and they all spoke intelligently. Also, my respect for Mimi has quadrupled! Can't wait for more👏🏽👍🏽

Timini is a real African man... very transparent

I could have sworn Sharon and Timini were dating. I could have sworn!

“Do what is practical” I like that 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

Mimi is so mature, practical and realistic. Timini going off and. On with points. Sharon is just going with the flow What's up with koye??

Sharon is so amazing❤❤ everything she said is spot on

I completely share the same opinion with timini

I agree with timini. The man is the leader and while you may not always agree, the man makes the final decision

@opeyemio705

3 жыл бұрын

God ordained it that way but a good leader genuinely consider the opinion of his team (wife and children) and weigh the impact it will have while making the final decision.

I am actually that Timini could actually say his mind on the man having the final decision without feeling like people would come back at him.

I love my girl Sharon for dayssssssss 💕💕

I came here to watch Sharon and I'm not disappointed. But, Mimi issa voice of reason

Mimi is vocalizing my thought process. totally agree

as for me, "what's good for googo is also good for gaga"

To be practical like mimi stated, one person will give a little more... In the end. It's fluid. It's not written in stone..

timini's voice uussshhh !!, great conversation and i agree with sharon; love is sharing and u shld be able to compensate each other cus 50-50 doesnt always work in case one doesnt have at one point !!!

Do you notice Timini looks at Sharon when He talks, same with Sharon

Lol a 50/50 home is never a peaceful home. They have the highest divorce rates. Women prefer a provider. That will never change 😴

@PCSPITTER4NY

4 жыл бұрын

Lies divorce rates are high all over the board.

@wajutomeevovo4138

4 жыл бұрын

Not women ... YOU prefer a provider

@mimia.4810

2 жыл бұрын

@@wajutomeevovo4138 No, women.

I love the lady in green. Very matured and real.

I love the conversation. My husband and I are married professionald I feel 50/50 individual to different couples.

When I see Sharon aka Shalewa and her boyfriend does that mean skinny girl in transit is coming any time soon

@bellemode4530

6 жыл бұрын

yh...season 5 is currently in progress

@paulinekelly7343

6 жыл бұрын

Belle Mode yayyyy great news

@michellegomez5429

6 жыл бұрын

Belle Mode Yeah we know that but when will it debut? By this time they woukd have aired.. Man if they debut in September that will mess up my line up shows for my country 🇺🇸 shows & my web series.. I'll have to try to watch at work...

@Nzunghe

6 жыл бұрын

They wrapped up shooting already so I'm hopeful anytime soon they'll debut

@feyikemi6426

5 жыл бұрын

@@bellemode4530 we just need season 6 for shalewa and Mohamed

Sharon is so serious😂😂😂

love timini’s hair and i can’t watch koye w/o thinking of his character so i laugh whenever I see him

Wonder why koye didn't get involved as much into the conversation. Love the show though.......good topic

Dear Ndani tv we need you to start a show for Sharoon, mimi, abimbola, bisola and timini .......they will be interesting host for people to watch.Thanks in advance

I love this show and thumbs up to Timini I know men who feel relaxed when they get support in finances, it all has to do with communication and agreement but i don't think i'll want to open up on my finances when marriage sets in. Team Sharon

Bring these guys back for more episode i really loved this so much xxx

Timini ooo! You're a superstar

why the hell is timini contradicting himself ? you want to be the man make all the decision but when its time to pay the rent you opt for a 50-50...being a man and in charges means being able to give your lady security...

@GrowwithFifi

4 жыл бұрын

I'm wondering the same thing like what's all that 😂

@mimia.4810

2 жыл бұрын

This is why I won't agree to 50/50 relationships. At the end of the day, men still will behave like men. Despite you paying half of the bills, he still wants you to submit to his authority and he still expects you to do wife duties. There is no such thing as 50/50. Gender roles will always kick in.

I believe in the 50/50 rule to the extent that it promotes equality in relationships. In terms of finances however, I feel the income of both parties should be considered.

@zeeebee7949

6 жыл бұрын

Shitta-Bey Oluwanifesimi what you said! 👌

Addressing Real Life issues. I Love it

can timini just keep quiet lmao and koye is probably just like wo e ma ko ba mi

@jokeadegoke3637

4 жыл бұрын

LMAO

That man in the yellow shirt is definitely a miser.

Totally enjoyed this episode, love love the new host and the guests as well ...till next time

Just remembered there's a fourth person present halfway through the video. Miss host why did you leave him behind? Pull him into the convo! He reminds me of myself coz I find it hard to join in when there are strong and opinionated personalities in the room. 😢😢

The girl in green made sense👌🏾

love this show!! The host looks mad familiar

I think they should have flipped that promotion question and said what if the woman gets a promotion paying her how ever many times more and she has to relocate, what then will the guy be as understanding that you love your job and you've been working hard for this and its your dream?

Is like it’s the man that believe they should pay and the ladies want to split the bill... Thank God for the advanced thinking of nowadays

when the presenter said the bible said he who finds a wife. did you guys talk on marriage or relationship.

Loved thisss! Great engaging convo. Sharonnnnn! You are looking sooo sweet sis! What closureee?!

I don't expect my man to pay the house bill all by himself, we'll pay it together. For me 50/50 means we are paying the bills together but you also have to cook n clean. If you want 50/50. We are gg all the way. You cannot expect me to pay everything half with you and you're not lifting a finger, not even to wash your own clothing. I think that it should be sth ya'll negotiate, whatever fits the couple but for me this is how it would be.

Mimi is so smart and mature!

Koye just went for the food and drinks 😂

50/50 rule is ok. As long as we also split chores 50/50. If am cleaning this week he's cleaning next week..

Interesting discussion. Monthly allowance.......hmmmmm

I fell in love with this Mimi lady #nohomo...smart girl!

Absolutely love Sharon, I’m a big fan but sister girl, if you were paying rent for “your” house and someone moved in with you in that same “your” house, the rent has not increased, it’s still the same so you can not say that the person moving in with you should pay the rent for “your” house😂😂 last last na for the person to carry his load and go. Ah ahh wetin concern agbero concern overload?

@chrisoghenetegamaloney5799

6 жыл бұрын

NANYa ILEKA haha 😂 no come kill me with laugh 😂 let come n be going oh jare

@nanyaileka1772

6 жыл бұрын

chris maloney but check am na😂😂

@peridozq9390

6 жыл бұрын

NANYa ILEKA It’s about balance and respect which is why timini said he will never do that. A man should not have to move into a woman s abode unless under fire circumstances and short term only. We make so many mistakes in relationships and wonder why it doesn’t work.

@peridozq9390

6 жыл бұрын

NANYa ILEKA * dire

Does this 50/50 thing also mean house hold chores?? As in, I cook today he does dishes, he cooks tomorrow and I do dishes. Do you see where I'm getting to? What about when it comes to decision making, 50/50 that now means there's no head of the house right?... I agree with Sharon... Man will take the rent, I take the small bills like food, cable etc. Same way he won't always have to cook clean etc, just once in a while... P.S, the chores won't apply in Africa because most have helpers, but in the UNITED KINGDOM we don't have ooo.