Much easier to teach a child than fix an adult.

@theresafleetwood4962

4 жыл бұрын

Well said and pointed out. Can you imagine an adult behaving like that. They need to understand NO. 👍🇬🇧

@lydiapetra1211

4 жыл бұрын

@Teresa Calarie seriously?...my mom disagrees with you...lol

@jessicalewis5953

4 жыл бұрын

preach

@ahoymate5059

4 жыл бұрын

TRUTH!!!

@tamarasaldana8027

4 жыл бұрын

@@lydiapetra1211 your mom, have, the arma secreta, right?

If you raise your children, you can spoil your grandkids If you spoil your kids, you’ll have to raise the grandkids...

@kat2025

4 жыл бұрын

The gospel truth 🙌

@sweetdeception5185

4 жыл бұрын

Yes ma’am

@bocah_abad21

4 жыл бұрын

Whoa..

@acaciagirl

4 жыл бұрын

Facts!!!!

@GoddessPower777

4 жыл бұрын

I like this!

No verbal or physical abuse - just discipline. You rock!

@zataishasims9732

3 ай бұрын

I agree however depending on what they do they will get disciplined and should.

@Cornstarchrr

3 ай бұрын

And posting it on youtube for the entirety of the internet to look at so her friends at school can laugh at her on her tantrum! Best parent ever!

@leavemealone5130

2 ай бұрын

Nothing wrong with physical discipline

@leavemealone5130

Ай бұрын

@@LaylalovesUnicorns-rp9ie no there isn’t. There’s different ways to parent

@leavemealone5130

Ай бұрын

@@LaylalovesUnicorns-rp9ie doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with it since it’s one of the most effective

Thank you. I’m sick of people calling it a “meltdown”. It’s a temper tantrum. He is stern without being mean. He is doing his daughter a service ❤

@graceharper6384

9 ай бұрын

Indeed. If he did not discipline her now, she is the one going to suffer in her adult life. He is teaching her to live life the right way. Parents these days do not have time to discipline. That is why we have brats who feel entitled.

@leobriccocola8141

8 ай бұрын

Is there some deep difference between a meltdown and a temper tantrum?

@pareeshaslaughter6798

8 ай бұрын

I do that same thing when my boyfriend tells me no in target...so I think I can relate. 😂

@haannguyen4402

8 ай бұрын

@@leobriccocola8141tantrums have a goal meltdowns don’t

@haannguyen4402

8 ай бұрын

Infamous store tantrum

"I ain't going to argue with a kid" that's probably the best point of this. He made a lot of good points, but that was my favorite.

@walusitumbeko4051

4 жыл бұрын

Have you seen the video of a mom and her kid arguing? Its crazy whats going on

@beverleeedgin9070

4 жыл бұрын

The world needs more dads like this!!!! Great job daddy 👏

@samanthajackson5695

4 жыл бұрын

Aaww good Daddy he is you can tell by the way he don't care to wipe her nose on his T Shirt and calls her his princess but his words are the most true words I've ever heard

@LilCraftyNook

4 жыл бұрын

I know, right?? I have seen videos where the mom will get in a huge debate with a 3 year old and I’m like, 😬🙄 What are you honestly teaching them by doing that?? This man was totally fair with her.

@sydneykelly5387

4 жыл бұрын

He's an awesome dad and she is adorable

Kids are smart. Talk to them, no need to beat them.

@yupdatsme8586

4 жыл бұрын

Clearance Couponing Deals & More This! I would never beat my kids

@africancake6660

4 жыл бұрын

Tell that to an African mom😂😂😂

@XxRosexX96

4 жыл бұрын

African cake - lol, same!! 😂😂😂

@dinomorell5163

4 жыл бұрын

There's a difference between Spanking & beating your kids.

@adamcourtenay5437

4 жыл бұрын

Its easier to teach them without pyshical punishment not going to lie, it takes way less emotion and less energy. That being said the parents that cams before best not enforce that on me because they started that and then make laws to prevent it, which is hipocrasy at its finest

This is what real gentle parenting looks like. 👏🏼👏🏼

@HayleySulfridge

19 күн бұрын

EXACTLY. People love to equate it to permissive parenting or not parenting. It’s actually teaching the kids to regulate their emotions, have a consequence, and get it together ❤

@machovoce6826

10 күн бұрын

Not at all.

It is so nice to see a MAN correcting a "crybaby"! Good job ! It can be done, hands off, yes sir.

Never ONCE did he raise his voice. That’s something right there.

@xxxod

3 жыл бұрын

But WTF is in his ear...

@pokaay3163

3 жыл бұрын

@@xxxod an earring? Idk I didnt see anything besides that

@xyxx._.7548

3 жыл бұрын

@@xxxod i think its a tattoo

@xxxod

3 жыл бұрын

@@pokaay3163 Dude his left ear has like some playdough in it

@Steven19886

3 жыл бұрын

Like he would raise his voice when filimhg hisself

" But baby, she's just 2 years old " Yep ! And the perfect age to learn how to behave.

@oceaniamarina365

3 жыл бұрын

Exatly !👶

@Zeldafan1ify

3 жыл бұрын

Oh yes i hateeeeee when people say that, particularly those little old ladies who think because the child is "cute" it needs to be spoiled rotten 🙄

@art_vandelay7845

3 жыл бұрын

There’s a reason they call it the terrible twos

@etashajafril5112

3 жыл бұрын

PERIODT!

@Emma3n3

3 жыл бұрын

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Now THAT is a parent. Dad of the century right there. He spoke nothing but truth. I can only imagine the number of people (parents or not), who would condemn this man. Funny thing is, there are so many so called adults in this country alone who have spoiled their child from birth to a certain age then decide after so many years of spoiling them to start disciplining them and then wonder why they won't listen or behave. In that regard, this man should teach a class.

What surprises me most about this, is that the comments are almost entirely positive and supportive of this man. That's almost as rare as a good parent. Keep it up, people, you are all winners today!

@ItsJustMe256.

8 ай бұрын

Facts man too many trolls and uncalled for disrespect

I like how he talks to her like a person and not a child, they respect that

@scorpioplutonmars8774

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely!!!!!!👍🏻big thumbs up

@theartoffactz6845

3 жыл бұрын

What??? Bro that is a child how he talks to her is just his way of being a father

@mrcead

3 жыл бұрын

@@theartoffactz6845 if it needs spelling out, he's explaining himself and teaching her at the same time without losing his shit. Many parents just bark orders, seriously

@williamallen7836

3 жыл бұрын

Not at all. Everyone these days likes to view children as just adults in small bodies. Children do not have that same reasoning abillities. Which is why reasoning with small children rarely works.

@alpsalish

3 жыл бұрын

@@williamallen7836 I think you may be right and wrong. Kids don't learn anything if you model your parenting behaviour after them. They do need a parent who is willing to teach from an adult perspective otherwise, there is little cognitive development. You are correct that a child's ability to process things like an adult is lacking, but guiding their behaviour as an adult and treating their decisions as though they have consequences is very important.

She understood every single word he was saying to her. It all up to how the parents first react.

@crazyboy585

4 жыл бұрын

Indeed 💪

@tayleshiablake466

4 жыл бұрын

That's right sister

@rayqwonjackson3474

4 жыл бұрын

You will not want to see how my parents would react in this situation

@leesher1845

4 жыл бұрын

I don’t think that she understood the term suck it up.

@louiseh6561

4 жыл бұрын

That’s what I was thinking. She knows she was wrong and she’s ok about it!!

OMG I LOVE this man! That is how it's done. No child abuse just discipline. LOVE IT

@priscillastevens2196

10 ай бұрын

Amen!

@Synkronist

9 ай бұрын

EXACTLY! Kids need discipline, but people mistake that for meaning physical abuse. This man is a great example to dads out there.

@blackwater4100

9 ай бұрын

except presenting his child to the whole world

@haannguyen4402

8 ай бұрын

@@blackwater4100he’s educating the horrible parents in todays world

@anesumawoyo6969

8 ай бұрын

in Africa we beat

Spoil the kids, let them rule the house, then send them to school to act like fools 🙄 Thank you Dad from a teacher! 😉

@masterscheme1

10 ай бұрын

Nah humanity would collapse as we grew more immature and dumb... we smarter than that... and worked way too many eons to allow that...

She is just a typical healthy child testing her boundaries. But the father dealt with it so well, unlike many parents today. You can tell her cry was a fake cry. But she is still a cutie.

@patriciarowe3431

3 жыл бұрын

screamqueen,,,,,,, ONE LOVELY, REAL FATHER AND MAN...... AND YES , SHE'S BEAUTIFUL.....

@galier2

3 жыл бұрын

@Tabora Exactly. My daughter tried exactly 4 times when she was around 1 year old. As I didn't nudge at all with her antics and as she discovered that it was only drawbacks, i.e. it didn't advance her "want", she realized quickly that it was better not to do tantrums: smart child. My older son, now 22, still hasn't completely understood the lesson: not so smart child.

@lfk76

3 жыл бұрын

@Soft Breezy Day She is crying to test the boundaries and to get her will through, only way to properly learn kids that this doesn’t help is just this way. There was absolutely no publicly humiliation in this fathers actions. Totally correct behaviour. And saying that he is breaking his daughter down or similar is just unfortunately the kind of nonsense some people of today use. That’s why we have so many adults even that totally lack manners since they don’t know the boundaries. Your children will love you if you are a good parent and this is being a good parent, loving, caring and can also able to discipline the child.

@snowflakes107

3 жыл бұрын

@Soft Breezy Day who tf are you to them? Their aunt? It doesn't in the slightest feel like you're a parent with the shit you said.

@BlackForlornRose

3 жыл бұрын

@Soft Breezy Day honestly I stopped reading when you mentioned too much on what YOU did but I took a second round and you're still basically doing what the man did. In no way that was feeding his ego but the way you're bragging about what you did sent a diff message tbh

This is why absent fathers are such a problem we need more dads like this guy.

@mzmiau1421

4 жыл бұрын

Totally not trying to be rude but you see he has a mixed child? I feel that black men don't love their black children as much as these "mixed" kids. I see more black babies with no father's but the mixed ones with them and the mothers way more often..... Like .... That shit makes me sad af.

@spacefertilizer

4 жыл бұрын

Lifeless Love: Not my experience from friends and exes in Sweden that are mixed. But their fathers were from different African countries and not settled in Sweden like a couple in America might be already settled in America so that might make it different though. But their fathers often left too.

@mzmiau1421

4 жыл бұрын

@MindYour OwnBusiness I mean there's a lot of other races that do this ya know don't get me wrong I don't want to offend anyone if I indeed did. It just seems like the black man is ashamed to have their own. Are white people trophie tokens to claim or any other races than bkack?? What makes someone not love what they created regardless of hardships that are happening to one's self?? And I'm just asking in general as a thought. There's also mothers out there doing the same thing ya know!?? Like. Why are people sooooooo.....fucked up. This was indeed a good video though but unfortunately someone is going to watch this and do the complete opposite.

@HeatherBDentureDiVa

4 жыл бұрын

Yes totally true. Kids need both parents. I raised myself and I was lucky I raised myself right. My kids dad have been in and out their life and now since their grown he wants to be in their life. Kids need both parents and they need to be taught respect, manors and love. Not being spoiled is a must. Too many spoiled kids. I grew up in the ghetto and homeless and I wanted to give my kids what I never got to have but sometimes they get spoiled and they need to learn right from wrong. I agree with this guy 100%

@nadt5547

4 жыл бұрын

No. It isn't the absent fathers that are the problem. It is the mothers blaming everything on the absent fathers that's the problem. Mothers in this situation need to step it up and teach those kids right from wrong. Period. I had an absent father and it changed nothing in my Mothers eyes on her expectations of me. I thank her every day for that. Now that I'm an adult....haha.

Needs met first. Hungry kid? Tired kid? Short fuse. This is him teaching his kid to self regulate. He's being her safe place while she calms herself down. Strong CHILL Daddy teaching his Princess how to adjust her crown, hold her head high, and walk proud, even when she's tired or overwhelmed. Love and Grace based parenting is so beautiful! Bless this family! ❤

Love your style man. That's how a parent needs to act

I nominate this guy to be the moderator of the next presidential debate.

@Caroline-eb8ig

3 жыл бұрын

ABSOLUTELY!!!! GOOD ONE!!!

@missmoxie9188

3 жыл бұрын

I second that

@lindah5432

3 жыл бұрын

You know you need to teach an on-line class!😁

@welp5468

3 жыл бұрын

I strongly agree. That debate was the worst thing I’ve ever watched

@onceuponanexploration6048

3 жыл бұрын

Please. Run for office or principal of a school. We need him!

This is the moderator we needed for the presidential debates.

@cherrijohnson2277

3 жыл бұрын

Ok lol

@izzalp

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@LemonheadsOG1725

3 жыл бұрын

Omg yeah

@ashnim3597

3 жыл бұрын

yess😅

@SisterLiyah

3 жыл бұрын

😅

High FIVES to you Dad for how you handled the 'attitude adjustment.' with patience, calm voice, consistency, and the child learning a lesson on "logical consequences". Using force on a child might end the situation quicker but often leads to deep resentment and an angry child who grows into an angry adult and repeats the pattern. You get a GOLD star!

@EggmondChad

5 ай бұрын

Shut up paulette

That's exactly how I raised all my kids. I wouldn't put up with them acting like that at home or in public. He's doing exactly the right thing!

The tone is gentle but firm. The meaning is clear. Best dad ever!

@empressjoolz

4 жыл бұрын

Agreed sistah..🇯🇲🇨🇦👋🏾

@trbrm6319

4 жыл бұрын

But with due respect I just feel that the lecture is a little bit too long...oh well...whatever...what do I know!!??

@ahjahlilulaamadeus3632

4 жыл бұрын

That's a dad who was strong enough to raise kids without Supernanny's help.

@speakingallmytruth9278

4 жыл бұрын

That nose cleaning, love this!!

@speakingallmytruth9278

4 жыл бұрын

@@trbrm6319 is it because you'd rather not talk. Most of the explanation was to us, as to what he was doing. However that man can dialogue with his child the entire shopping time if needed be. With all due respect.

Taaadaaaaa a parent that actualy cares how his childs current actions are going affect future actions.

@remygirl-mn5kk

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you! The stuff I’ve seen lately with people i know is crazy.

@NanaD-ve9tt

4 жыл бұрын

Good dad! Plus she’ll see she can’t push your buttons and get her way. She will know she can talk to you without you flipping out every time and that’s important for a little girl to know she can go to daddy and talk. Great job dad!!!

@HugsXO

4 жыл бұрын

@@NanaD-ve9tt You make such a great point about the little girl being able to go to her Dad with anything.

@ruthannabauer1022

4 жыл бұрын

@@NanaD-ve9tt👍👏 Take AMEN, Donna! This young father reminded me of my Daddy. He had the same opinion that encouraged me to NOT settle for 2nd best & instilled in me to KNOW that I had great worth, 1st as a child & then as a woman. I could tell him ANYTHING & never face ridicule or judgement. That made me see my worth to the Lord & how much He loved me! It also instilled respect in me for Him, God & authority, something in great need of these days. I'm so proud of this young Daddy who possesses such wisdom & common sense! He needs to give classes to today's parents, DESPERATELY! God Bless this wonderful young Father & his precious family. Take care of yourself & family & stay healthy & safe, Donna.

@NanaD-ve9tt

4 жыл бұрын

Ruthanna Bauer 🕯☮️💟🙏🏽blessings to you and your family from your friend in New Jersey

His face while she’s whining. Lol. He’s a good dad! He uses discipline with his words. She will appreciate him. I feel she’ll have good communication with him as she gets older. You don’t want your children to fear you, you want them to *RESPECT* you. There is a difference.

This may be the absolute best dad I’ve ever seen. Saving this for when we have children ❤

@dariusftw3378

10 ай бұрын

how is shaming them online good parenting?

@user-wj9si3on6t

10 ай бұрын

@@dariusftw3378 That's not shaming, it's parenting and the guy is sharing his thoughts and experience with other people and parents. Good learning opportunity for all parties involved.

@user-hk7un1cg9v

10 ай бұрын

That's right. He did the right thing by taking his daughter out of Walmart because being in the store is a privilege.

@PanHaszaman

10 ай бұрын

@@dariusftw3378 it flew right over your head didn't it?

@AS-ex8zr

9 ай бұрын

@@dariusftw3378 he’s not allowing his daughter to throw a fit or get her way. It’s an example for other parents to stop coddling their children to the point of spoil.

He blamed himself for his daughter's tantrums saying that parents are to be blamed for spoilt kids, and then he went on and taught his child a lesson. Love it.

@Monica-fj5jz

4 жыл бұрын

Good. I was just thinking that. I always blame the parents or people who are caring for the child for the child’s learnt behavior. 🤷🏻‍♀️

@roberttaylor9563

4 жыл бұрын

When you care.....it shows, it is what parenting is about,be an adult first....when you pass THAT TEST....then be a parent....not the other way around.

@devilmecare

4 жыл бұрын

He blames other parents for letting their children get away with bad behavior.

@user-yf3jh5tn8w

3 жыл бұрын

And is the real true..... we give them everything as we think it will make them happier then you were when you were younger .... but is the biggest mistake as they climb the mountain and god knows how to put them down. The worst is when one parent spoils them and the other parent is strict ( what happened,,,, child gets confused 😐)

@chesterhiggs5537

3 жыл бұрын

Proverbs 22:6 Train up a child in the “way” (singular) he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it. Proverbs 22:15 Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him. Proverbs 23:13 Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die. Proverbs 23:14 Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and shalt deliver his SOUL FORM HELL GOD

He talks to her like a person and not a little child. He’s teaching the lesson of a child to a child but he’s doing it in a way that doesn’t baby her. What a great man and dad. Edit: Yes, I am aware that children are people. I guess I should’ve used the word “puppy” instead to make that clear. But there _is_ a difference in how little children are spoken to in comparison to everyone else. It’s called “baby talk.”

@msyvonnehopson89

4 жыл бұрын

💯💯💯💯👍😍

@silverbells4732

4 жыл бұрын

I grew up with this type of upbringing. and I turned out well.....

@iinlove118

4 жыл бұрын

Ok that baby talk is unnecessary , back and forth talk is not good when you want to discipline your children.

@tidela4714

4 жыл бұрын

IIn Love11 I never said it was (back and forth). And definitely not at that age. The guy said it himself; they need to know who’s boss. However, if it’s with an older child, like late teenager ... In my experience, seeing their side of things might be best depending on the situation. When my mom was teaching me how to drive, at one point we were on a busy road and I’d accidentally missed a turn. I then made a right turn when she told me to take a left, and she started yelling at me for not listening to her. When I tried to explain my side, she interrupted and started yelling for talking back to her, naturally making me upset. However, after she’d gone inside the store and come back, she’d apologized to me for not letting me get my piece in. She let me explain. New driver jitters plus being scatterbrained plus the mistake caused me to start freaking out, so I made the nearest and safest turn in a lot so I could catch my breath. I didn’t understand how to make that left turn because I’d never done it in that situation before. She’d always told me that if I got too emotional or nervous to drive, I needed to find somewhere safe to stop so I could regroup. She ended up apologizing and saying that I was right and did the right thing. One could say that’s not a good way to teach a teenager discipline, but I disagree because it depends on the situation. That moment taught me how to make up and get over an argument with someone calmly and without yelling. Talking things over maturely. I love my mom very much ❤️

@VirgoMe357

4 жыл бұрын

I agree. Sometimes spanking is not the answer.

You are one of the best dads I've seen on youtube. The world needs more fathers like you. Awesome job.

I work at Walmart 😂, and because of that Sir, I want to thank you for being a great parent. That is one of the nicest, sweetest time out I've seen. Bless you both.

He keeps his voice calm yet stern. This is fathering.

@helenkimishis

4 жыл бұрын

Or weed 😂jking

@HopePhotoG

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Not yelling

@randomuser5914

4 жыл бұрын

It should be parenting, both parents doing this. Doesn't need to involve yelling, whooping, cursing, cuz that's all lazy parenting. This dad took the time to put in the work.

@HopePhotoG

4 жыл бұрын

@@randomuser5914 I think spanking is needed tho. Not always. And if you're angry...calm down before you spank them. Both are needed for good balance.

@childofthemosthighgodtoya6447

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly

Take notes. This man loves his child. And he's teaching his child. THIS is how to PARENT!

@gbyrd1970

3 жыл бұрын

Amen!

@incorrecterror

3 жыл бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾

@candacesmith6183

3 жыл бұрын

K...

@JeromeProductions

3 жыл бұрын

YEP

@lionelsimmons2168

3 жыл бұрын

Amen

I respect this dad! He's taking responsibility for his daughter and holding her accountable in a calm, nonchalant way. We need more dads like him!

She's fortunate to have him as her father. We need more parents like him...

This reminds me of something Dr. Phil will say: You’re not raising children, you’re raising future adults.

@xavierarmstrong963

4 жыл бұрын

Geo Dude which is a child ... just saying

@serenity3034

3 жыл бұрын

Xavier Armstrong Which they turn into adults sooner, in a blink of an eye 👁.

@serenity3034

3 жыл бұрын

Maria Lindell 💯

@phoeberulesall1294

3 жыл бұрын

Much like Dr. Phil, this guy is exploiting a minor for entertainment/to feed his superiority complex. Someone with supposed impeccable parenting skills sure as hell hasn't thought of his daughters privacy and future implications of this

@DaI-rx3xg

3 жыл бұрын

Phil's a fraud. Remember the catch me outside sorry episode? That was scripted and Phil was promoting that for them

His daughter is gonna grow up to be the smartest, most confident, most successful woman.

@DamianSzajnowski

3 жыл бұрын

@@sarahgardner312 sometimes you win, sometimes you learn, appreciate mistakes

@OfficialMyxomatosis

3 жыл бұрын

She will also be able to talk her way out of anything. :) Speaking from experience. Thanks Dad (Rip 1953-2006). You raised me right in our short 26 years together. I have never stopped loving you, the life lessons you taught me, the straight up education, and being able to never "need a man" to get anything done. Oh!!

@user-bw4vh3kv2s

3 жыл бұрын

@@sarahgardner312 Dont Blame your Dad your Grown Now maybe you have trouble understanding why things are done as they are

@tinagriffiths4002

3 жыл бұрын

Myxomatosis BEAUTIFUL, May He SIP🙏🏾😍

@OfficialMyxomatosis

3 жыл бұрын

@@tinagriffiths4002 Thank you. I hope you are happy and healthy. :)

Always remember you’re not raising kids, you’re raising an adult. They’re already kids, now they have to learn how to be adults people want to be around.

Gotta say, You are an amazing father! More parents need to see this advise.

Can we acknowledge how this man never once raised his voice

@multifandom_comfort_charac6894

3 жыл бұрын

Your name confused me for a moment 😂

@budhivalirakieten4421

3 жыл бұрын

@@multifandom_comfort_charac6894 sameeeee

@heidibaltom8138

3 жыл бұрын

Yes as someone who has confict problems i cant stand raised voices it scares me. So i really appreciate that.

@breezy3127

3 жыл бұрын

He said he raised his voice in his house but not in public

@Ash_Rein

3 жыл бұрын

He did not raise his voice. But he was very aggressively toned. He also judged her very very negatively. She is a child. She’s not a fool. She’s not whining. We can have the same boundaries and be non-aggressive Her desires and feelings are valid. That doesn’t always mean she will get what she wants. Processing feelings in a healthy way will allow her to let go and except more quickly. His response to her and his words to her might be taken ass he doesn’t care about her. Or he may not be someone she is comfortable opening up to in the future.

This is a wise, patient, measured and strong parent. No yelling, screaming or hitting, just no nonsense, loving discipline. Kudos to this dad.

@FreeSpirit47

3 жыл бұрын

@Romeo ThePLUG Mostly true, however, the cycle of abuse has to end somewhere. I had a very abusive mother, father. Verbally, physically, emotionally. My mother would sometimes keep me home from school long enough for the welts, bruises & cuts to heal. My father finally stopped beating me when I was 16, grabbed ahold of his belt from his hand, hit him in the face with the buckle. 16 stitches on his face. He never tried to hit me, again once he got a taste of his own disciplinary technique. My mother would "discipline me" by withholding food & water. I was so skinny because of this.

@FreeSpirit47

3 жыл бұрын

@Romeo ThePLUG The cycle of abuse CAN be broken. I got some intense counseling & broke the cycle of abuse. My 4 kiddos got firm, loving discipline without spankings. Without even time outs. They wrote sentences, often. If they were fighting, I would sit them both down to discuss, talk it out, calmly, with thought, with reason. With both refraining from name calling, accusations or "making faces." All 4 are grown adults, happily married, educated, doing what they love in their careers.

@msweetness2202

3 жыл бұрын

@@FreeSpirit47 😢

@3N3NAmI

3 жыл бұрын

I love how you didn’t say crying because no matter gender and sex they are allowed to cry but other things like screaming and hitting are not it.

@riannatripp6594

3 жыл бұрын

Kudos

Thank goodness for a sensible father that’s not putting up with tantrums!

I have watched this clip at least 5 times, and I never tire of it. This is great parenting, especially for a father. ❤

He not only talked to her like an adult, he talked to her with respect, addressed her with Mrs., pumped her up and made her feel good. That was some smooth, classy Jedi shit.

@diegofonseca6708

3 жыл бұрын

Ms/miss not Mrs lol Mrs is for married females

@delilahduckett7448

3 жыл бұрын

Awesome dad. She will remember him with love

@cosmo2852

3 жыл бұрын

I laughed at 3 things from this. How dad said, "Uhh, I'm still cute, but still." How the daughter quickly looked into the camera when dad asked "you do know what happens again when you lie?" And lastly, the Jedi reference you made!

@jonathanntulume9298

3 жыл бұрын

Man mum used to call me Mr even sometimes she still does hahah

@smart3519

3 жыл бұрын

Ok

"Walking with your Mom is a privilege". Thank you Dad, for honoring your daughter's Mother.

@BlxxdLeaf

Жыл бұрын

I was just thinking that, also reinstalling responsibilities that some kids fight against as a privilege will also help them grow up to be more responsible. I know some kids I grew up with that would throw tantrums because they had to go to the store. This man is a perfect parental role model. His children's futures are bright.

@kathi13

Жыл бұрын

Wow🥺 how he honors the mother

@josenahector8369

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!

@ACS402010

Жыл бұрын

And yet he said right out of his own mouth that his own mother beat the sh|t out of him. So yes, "honour" the mothers....the world's most perfect beings. 🙄

@kathi13

Жыл бұрын

@@ACS402010 did he say that? Hmmmm..🤔🤔🙄

You really love your kids when you take time to teach them! You are showing her you love her! So proud of you as a parent!

Preach Dad!,, We need more parents, especially dads like this

She's happy because her wise father has set boundaries, made her aware that she is powerful by deciding to get control of her emotions, and therefore feels both loved and good about herself.

@mahmoodulhasanbhaiyat5874

4 жыл бұрын

Wow, what a deep and insightful remark.

@juliestarks1279

4 жыл бұрын

This is how I parent my kids when they were younger but I gave them whoopings 2! I was very strict as they were growing up, now I’m like a hippy parent now.. give them freedom, they are independent and self sufficient. I get compliments on how well behaved my children are. I also parent them different as they were growing up because of their different personalities. You have to do what works for the child. You do want them to be adults who are emotionally balanced.

@angelstarfire

4 жыл бұрын

@@juliestarks1279 any advice? I want to be strict but not have to rely on whooping all the time. I'm nowhere near ready to be a parent but it's good to know for the future

@marialindell9874

4 жыл бұрын

@@angelstarfire Do not yell or create a negative relationship with a kid first off. You should find a healthy way of making the rules clear and understood. Also like when you promise something, do it and don't fail your kid. Teach them proper sex-ed if you are American and make it clear that you will give some cash for protection when they get to that age. Like "Take the trash out and you get XX amount of money" and you do it. Teach them how to manage money (helpful). Let them socialise and advice on how to be a good friend. If you notice a friendship is not healthy anymore, talk to your kid and explain the situation in a respectfull manner. Do not force your own beliefs on a kids, if you cannot do that then you should not be a parent. *DO NOT* set up cameras in their rooms or take their phones away for the night (the phone thing is fine, but there is a time when we start dating and getting crushes and late night talks are very nice bonding time if it has turned into an addiction, try solve what has cause it and correct the behavior in a healthy way. I am addicted to my phone, because currently it is the thing to help me cope with my depression and anxiety. I can stay away from it and be fine, but having it means that I have an escape route. Thus I can function better.). Setting up cameras is borderline nearing controlling and abusive parent behavior. It makes us hate you more. This is all from the point of someone from a "strict" family that never had official rules. I have never really had a time to come home because I never went out. In the cases I did go out, I informed my parents and they would call me when I needed to come home. If I was late, I would not be screamed at, but talked to. (Be calm when doing the talking, yelling makes it worse) My parents would explain that I needed to be home on time and after that I would just continue on with my day. Do not have a karen-freak out. My mom is known as a helicopter parent and mentally abusive. She chose what I would wear until I was 13 and would force me into a religion (christianity, I am atheist). I had to grow up when I was 5. I was never truly a child. I knew the rules and expectations and just went on about existing. I never went out because I did not have friends. The last time I hung out with a friend was in december of 2018, because my strict mother never lets me out. She gives me no privacy. I was 14 when I spent time with friends. I'm 16 now. Severe depression, suicide ideation, undiagnosed ED and anxiety proplems later I know I can never be a fully fuctioning adult. Both of my parents come from physically and mentally abusive households and they never hit me and try to be as good parents as possible, but they have proplems too. Like my mom hoards newspapers and her being a not so good parent comes from the trauma she experienced. My dad tries not to yell, because he was yelled at. He tries his best to provide for me and stay in my life because his own father got a divorce and his mother started sleeping around with highly abusive men (one of them almost beat her to death when my dad was younger). If you really want to be the good type of strict parent, please go find videos of teens who have unhealthy strict/abusive parents. Tiktok compilations have good examples and there are plenty on KZread. Hear the kids out and try understand what they feel like and how the parents may be in the wrong. Thus you can prevent being the abusive type of strict and your kids will actually like you. Strict parents think being stricts makes good children and adults. Truth is, strict parents make the most skilled liars. There is a very fine line you need to master for them to be healthy adults and not liars. We know we can live our own life when we lie and our parents never let us be free. We always have to watch our every step or we can be locked inside our house and our food can be taken away if be disobey. Do not hit your kids. Ever. No matter what the reason, never hit them.

@TheFlacapreciosa

4 жыл бұрын

👏👏👏👏

“Don’t give them what you never had, teach them what you wish you were taught.” - I honestly forgot

@robertsims1617

3 жыл бұрын

good point because this is where so many of us parents have felled..

@duumek201

3 жыл бұрын

Bruce Lee was it

@7bimbim

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you sir I honestly forgot

@themizaru

3 жыл бұрын

shouldn't it be " give them what you never had...?

@thenuetrix6574

3 жыл бұрын

I think it was Bruce Lee who quoted that

That is a great father. Hats off to this father and his parenting skills. So many people can learn from this young man's message! Thank you for sharing this video and schooling so many.

@serinadelmar6012

9 ай бұрын

Great father apart from the hygiene, spreading bacteria on his clothes

@bobk2899

9 ай бұрын

@@serinadelmar6012 Perhaps you saw something that I didn't. Aside from him picking his daughter up off the car after she calmed down. With that being said, it's amazing that you have someone that is that patient and firm but loving with his daughter. Yet you can always count on some hater, trying to find anything to be negative. Grow the hell up!

@adamlilly2548

8 ай бұрын

​@@serinadelmar6012says the lady alone in her car wearing 2 masks

@serinadelmar6012

8 ай бұрын

@@bobk2899 hater? bizarre take I’m talking about hygiene, it’s a little different.

@serinadelmar6012

8 ай бұрын

@@adamlilly2548 said, some deluded moron on KZread with not the slightest iota of comprehension nor even grasp of reality.

If you wrote a book, I'd buy it! Respect from one father to another. Correcting my two year old sons bad behavior has been a problem for my wife and I. He's are second son and he's a little wildman. This has been greatly inspiring. Pen that book bro!

I felt like he was talking to me, too. I stopped crying.

@himanshukamble957

3 жыл бұрын

dude xD

@iwasnotfound5448

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂

@lydiafigueroa729

3 жыл бұрын

Me too!

@myvettebeauty

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@bosschic39

3 жыл бұрын

Carolyn Walker!!🤣🤣🤣🤣 for real!! Me too!!

Your a better father than just giving a game and let it be. Your awesome

Ah, she's cute, especially when she's trying to stop crying, and conversing with dad. But what a great dad. Well done, dad. You're talking words of wisdom, and it works perfectly.

Shes got a father. God bless.

@karenkaren3189

3 жыл бұрын

Too many kids don’t have a dad and that’s one of the biggest reasons so many people are out of control.

@realitychick8903

3 жыл бұрын

I am so proud of the ''fathers '' that are really taking care of their ''children'' and not abandoning them or leaving it all up to the mom-- OR just being a part time dad..I am so happy to see them RULE FATHERHOOD and doing a fantastic job.. amen to that~~~!!!!..-- hope more follow-- too many guys were just leaving their offsprings to the world or some other person and hell was beating down on those babies HARD... Please -- if you have a baby -- TAKE RESPONSIBILITY... GOD BLESS...

@undercrackers56

3 жыл бұрын

She's got a great father and because of him she has a future.

@camtan7270

3 жыл бұрын

My dad got lost at a gas station

@mariaclayton9892

3 жыл бұрын

@@karenkaren3189 Yes! They have to stick around long enough to do this. They don't and that is why we have the problems. I agree.

As a teacher, I get so sick of dealing with kids who never hear "no" at home and then expect to get away with whatever they want in the classroom. I've talked to soooo many parents who let their kids run the show. This guy is doing it right.

@yeshs1964

4 жыл бұрын

I'm a teacher an get this always! It's like you're teaching them rules they've never come across before

@Bbrock1984

4 жыл бұрын

Wow!!

@mikajendreas

4 жыл бұрын

Yesh S what a nightmare. So you basically clean up other parents mess daily! I would lose it! Hats off to you 💕🙌✊👏👍🏼

@dreshany1345

4 жыл бұрын

I am not a teacher but I have come across this numerous times as a nanny. What I found to be most effective, was to make clear what your expectations are. You could probably write them down on a large poster board and display it in the classroom. If a student breaks a rule you can refer them to the classroom rules and ask them what rule they broke. Tell them that this is their last chance and if they do it again the punishment will be X? Insert disciplinary action. From the very first day of school talk with them, explain the rules and consequence for misbehaving. As you are going through the rules ask the student why each rule is important. I would also make it clear that your approach to discipline is different from what happens. Simply say that their parents aren’t here, you are in my classroom and therefore responsible for following class rules.

@yeshs1964

4 жыл бұрын

@@dreshany1345 yes great idea! I do this, setting expectations and sticking to consequences!

What a good Dad. I can’t find one mistake he made. Lord, PLEASE give more children good Daddy’s like this one! God Bless you, your beautiful daughter and everyone you love.

@carl5438

10 ай бұрын

Black fathers are the most involved per Pew research. Look it up.

I’m totally with you Dad. Excellent job. You are setting the right expectations and teaching her the right lessons. People don’t realize that they do NOTHING good for their kids by spoiling them. That’s hurting them in the long run. I remember someone said years ago… “I’m not raising a child, I’m raising an adult.” In other words, we are raising our children to be fully functioning adults, not grown immature children. And there are plenty of immature grown people out there pretending to be adults. And nobody wants or needs any of their foolishness. Our kids are going to have to run this world one day. We need them to be prepared to do that.

he told the truth. many parents are too busy trying to be friends to their children instead of teaching and disciplining them. good job dad

@jonathansalcido5208

3 жыл бұрын

Or they want youtube to raise them and give them the bare minimum of attention.

@livelongenoughtoliveforeve1114

3 жыл бұрын

They shouldn't be mutually exclusive

@silverhours

3 жыл бұрын

You can be friends with your child while also being stern enough.

@mizzunderstood333

3 жыл бұрын

Sure right lord knows I’m a living witness!!! Live and learn do things different they respect you better with discipline, it’s ok to say No, too many yes is a bad setup and if u want it earn it!!!

@starlane3146

3 жыл бұрын

And it helps to have both parents in the household.

She's going to be a strong woman because of her daddy

@zombrz

3 жыл бұрын

Jesus loves you ❤

@warmachine3295

3 жыл бұрын

@@thedancingmoonfoxy7272 Jesus loves you too

@bighenry8405

3 жыл бұрын

@@zombrz jedus died for me

@77DAdams

3 жыл бұрын

@@bighenry8405 yesssiirrr

@CB-iu6wh

3 жыл бұрын

hes abusive. you idiots have no idea

Omg when she was happy at the end, SO ADORABLE! Great job DAD STAY BLESSED!

Strong work Dad. Need more of that to guide our youth. Wondeful example of being a father.

The calmness in his voice is what really does the trick.

@meganrascoe3227

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah it’s something about his voice that’s calming but you know he means business lol

@annagitana1

3 жыл бұрын

He’s very confident. He handled that beautifully. He didn’t hit his child. He was just firm. No need to hit kids. You can still be firm and confident in raising your children. He did so well.

@TheRibofJESUS

3 жыл бұрын

@@annagitana1 I disagree. This was not a situation where the child needed a spanking. Depending on the age of the child and the severity of what the child did, a spanking can be completely necessary.

@BeastHunter2121

3 жыл бұрын

My kids knew when my voice got low there could be a problem.But when I gave the 👀s there was peace on earth.(No spankings involved)

@Ididdat

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheRibofJESUS what? Y'all saying the same thing pretty much?

We're not raising kids, we're raising adults.

@myribunt5261

3 жыл бұрын

This is an amazing quote!

@donkeykong2.0

3 жыл бұрын

some ppl r just kids in adult bodies

@JamesUmbrello

3 жыл бұрын

Simple but Deep.

@op8995

3 жыл бұрын

@@myribunt5261 that garbage blew your mind?! 🤣🤣🤣 Your gonna have so many baby daddy's in the future. Just know when they say they love you..they mean it 🤣

@peteydoggen

3 жыл бұрын

@@op8995 in where in that sentence did she say it blew her mind

A copy of this should be given to every parent, it's sublime.

Good old fashioned discipline. Without the drama and trauma. Love it. ❤

She’s SO LUCKY to have him. She’ll feel safe with him when she gets older and it matters. I wish I had had a dad who cared about me like he cares about her.

@justmepraying

4 жыл бұрын

You are like me but we do have a father who cares and his name is God and his son and our saviour is Jesus just call on him and he will answer you. God bless 🙏🇺🇸❤

@nohelya347

4 жыл бұрын

Michael Price For reall💀😭 I just let them have their moment tho😂🤷🏻‍♀️

@gunnerm8534

4 жыл бұрын

Christina Walke What has this got to do with faith... fatherhood is shared by any man of any religion/background

@LauraAnne95

4 жыл бұрын

💯 I firmly believe that a loving, caring, supportive dad, who makes a little girl feel safe and loved, is HUGELY connected to how that girl develops as a woman, and how confident she feels about herself, among other things (like the kind of partner they choose). Of course NOT ALWAYS....but A LOT of the time this is so true. ❤️ I was one of the lucky ones who had an amazing father..I’m sorry you didn’t have that experience 😔 but you can always make your kids feel like that ❤️

@GabrielleTollerson

4 жыл бұрын

same.. I grew up with neither of my parents being emotionally supportive and always belittled me

This is true parenting. He is not entertaining that child he is raising an adult.

@lindaobserves7550

3 жыл бұрын

BRILLIANT!

@kimharrington4231

3 жыл бұрын

And he did it without spanking, humiliating or tearing her down. And there was a big smile at the end. He is such a good parent.

@donstory5097

3 жыл бұрын

@@kimharrington4231 Facts.

@adela7912

3 жыл бұрын

👏👏👏🏆

@simskiara

3 жыл бұрын

@@kimharrington4231 Thank you!!!!

God bless this father and his pretty baby!!! God bless the whole family!! 🙏

That's why real dads are so important in the house.

@QoQabai658

3 жыл бұрын

And i wish i could give you a hundred more likes. 👍

@lici5209

3 жыл бұрын

Because a women can't do the same? Of course kids need a dad, but for parenting to work both parents need to be able to do exactly that.

@vaeaqueen2105

3 жыл бұрын

@@lici5209 stop trying to make this about moms, everyone knows what moms do, it's not common for dads to do it, understand the point before you respond.

@lici5209

3 жыл бұрын

Didnt make it about moms. My point was good parenting can only happen when both are on the same page. Love to all good parents out there ❤️

@luked2115

3 жыл бұрын

It's why we need real parents in general.

“Cuz you’re a big girl” he uses good positive language to reinforce it when she stopped crying, makes all the difference, what a good father

@no_name4415

3 жыл бұрын

I liked that a lot. Threatening to beat your child when they act up can cause them to fear getting in trouble, which usually leads to not having the best relationship with their parents. In worse situations, the kid acts up when they dont have parental supervision because the only thing they learned from the beating was that they shouldn't get caught, not getting caught means not getting punished.

@ok-hd5bb

3 жыл бұрын

motivate your kids that they are better than that.

"Miss Scream-a-lot" cracked me up. What a cool dad!!!!!

What a loving/caring father. It takes patience and hands on skill to deal with children today. Dad, you hit a home run. You hit that baseball out of the park. It's a great feeling to know when your child is listening and willing to be a mini mature person. God bless you, sir.

I love that he’s actually communicating with his child in a very calm yet stern way without yelling at her, cussing at her, or threatening her.

@idkneo

3 жыл бұрын

kzread.info/dash/bejne/Y4mKwaluqNWrdaQ.html.

@naya4050

3 жыл бұрын

Uh i hope my little sister would actually listen to me like this little girl here. For me as her big brother even if i try to communicating with her in a calm way she just keep yelling and say "NO!" And she just keep crying and make me feel guilty always. I just want her to be listening to me when i try to communicating with her but no she just doesn't want to listen and throw a tantrum over and my parents keeps spoil her ugh!

@MzCrystal-7

3 жыл бұрын

Yes I love it

@lixinxin

3 жыл бұрын

@@naya4050 yeah, your parents being inconsistent is why. You will have to be more stubborn than her.

@naya4050

3 жыл бұрын

@@lixinxin ikr!

The little girl is really cute , the father is talking to her and not yelling at her , there is a difference , he’s respectful the whole time and he is funny 😄

@kuddelkate

4 жыл бұрын

I understand what you mean, but he does not respect her feelings and manipulates her as if she was an object that he has the control of. He does not show love to her but tells her, that if she does not cut down her feelings, she will not be recognized. Her sad feelings dont bother him. Even though we as adults also sometimes have sad feelings and just need somebody who understand. Great is that he does not yell at or hurt her, that he got her out of the situation and talks to her like with an aduld and does not spoil her. But the signal he teaches is not what i would like to teach my child, like "if you dont act like i want, i dont love you"

@aderlinejohnson8566

4 жыл бұрын

Different races shouldn't mix wtbs all children aren't cute

@Brooklynishere__

4 жыл бұрын

kuddelkate Here’s the thing though. He didn’t manipulate her. If he manipulated her than all Parenting tactics are manipulative. Throw a tantrum in Walmart? >> We’re gonna sit outside until you calm down. It’s teaching her that he will not tolerate that behavior and when she acts that way she will have a consequence. Letting her cry it out helps her with emotional control. “Are you done?” It’s the same thing as letting her cry it out. He didn’t “cut down her feelings” she was throwing a tantrum in Walmart. Which is never cute. What was he supposed to do?

@TFGcine

3 жыл бұрын

aderline johnson different races shouldn’t mix? Lol get offline and go read a book.

@jaysi8057

3 жыл бұрын

@@kuddelkate how would you do it if your kid start acting out in walmart? and in a situation where they don't stop just because you tell them to.

Emotional intelligence, patience, common sense. You aren't born with these things. They are learned through demonstration. Kudos to you, Dad.

Sir you handle like a stern disciplinary without abuse! You talk to her with honest & respectful . Yet your tone was extremely direct. Your daughter grow up to be intelligent handling herself in the very same way!❤

That’s a level headed calm man parenting his child the right way and he loves his child.

@mazalaliyan37

4 жыл бұрын

I love this!! Good job dad 👍

@geodude7116

4 жыл бұрын

She will turn out great because he loves her and disciplines properly.

What a wonderful, understanding dad. Pity more didn't take a leaf out of his parenting book😊❤

Dad is showing respect of Dad He is their to love you Teaching is LOVE

Someone hire him to teach a parenting class.

@tay3842

3 жыл бұрын

I just hired him yesterday

@cindymathewson1346

3 жыл бұрын

also teach parents how to parent!

This dad is a rock star. Seriously, this is how it's done.

@TheCherylish1

3 жыл бұрын

My thoughts exactly he should teach parenting classes

God bless you, sir! I love that you are an influencer and giving people someone who will support them in proper parenting skills. So important in today's world.

How wonderfully that was resolved and how sweet the two of them are together walking back to Walmart💕Wish there were more wonderful dads out there🥰

The look of “ unbothered “ on his face.✅

@carikabester6310

3 жыл бұрын

He looks offended Don't raise my eyebrows like that when I'm unbothered

@changingmyself

3 жыл бұрын

@@carikabester6310 I think he looks resentful, but I agree, definitely not unbothered.

@blazingblasian4257

3 жыл бұрын

Thats the iconic 'I'll wait till you done' face

@TheRibofJESUS

3 жыл бұрын

@@blazingblasian4257 Facts lol

@elizabethfish5593

3 жыл бұрын

@@blazingblasian4257 best user name ever, girl 👌😎

This country needs more parents like this. That is a good dad.

@MrJereJo-Gaming

4 жыл бұрын

And then his girl will cheat on him

@rae4828

4 жыл бұрын

Joel Jeremy you good bro?

@jeslynx

4 жыл бұрын

Joel Jeremy tf...

@cindyellis765

4 жыл бұрын

My hero!! If only more parents would take this kind of responsibility with their children our society would be able to move forward.

Good parenting Dad. You are spot on. The look on dad’s face is amazing, patient waiting for his child to stop crying. 👏👏👏👏👏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️👍👍👍👍👍👍

This young man is absolutely correct. And articulated it better than I could have. Act accordingly

I love the fact that he said he doesn’t need to beat his child like his mom did to get her to behave. I pray more people will get it!!!

@wtfjesus8251

3 жыл бұрын

This Father does not pray, this Father has begun to act. Stop praying and start doing something!

@Soso-yr5kf

3 жыл бұрын

It's stupid ppl like u that's hurting the next gen

@candace6893

3 жыл бұрын

cali Recklezz how so? if we hit our children what will be the benefit? and does that put weight the cost?

@lai8831

3 жыл бұрын

cali Recklezz not everyone reads the bible yk..

@Soso-yr5kf

3 жыл бұрын

@@candace6893 Prov. 3 Verses 5 to 6 [5] Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. [6] In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.

“Wipe the stress off your face” I’m definitely using that one

@tinasally379

3 жыл бұрын

I love that too 🤣🤣🤣

I loved this a few years ago ... and I still enjoy watching this Father/Daughter adjustment time...lol My parents were quite firm as well, especially with 8 kids in tow. All my parents had to do was give us *THE EYE* and we'd straightened up in a heartbeat! Like my father would say... *"I speak once, Amen. If I have to speak again, there will be "special effects" felt.*

Best parenting I’ve seen in public, Good skills go along way when you teach a lesson gives the child a choice to make a decision & understand that her choices will be hers. ❤

This father is a dying breed. Refreshing to hear a parent want to parent and not give in just because they don't want to hear their kid scream.

@Flamerider68

4 жыл бұрын

Amen! It kills me to see parents coddle their children to death especially an out of control child. Then, turn around and buy them expensive game consoles, cell phones, etc. A child without rules and/or boundaries is a child without any respect.

@naomiuchiha0906

4 жыл бұрын

Proud that my dad is one of em

@mmc9828

4 жыл бұрын

@@Flamerider68 Amen!

@mmc9828

4 жыл бұрын

@@naomiuchiha0906 Consider yourself lucky, which I'm sure you do. :-)

@sara_ec3858

4 жыл бұрын

I'm actually like that with my kids,believe me,it works,no spanking is necessary more screaming at them,it causes fear amd no trust...believe me I dont have a good relationship with them Ig because my dad had anger issues idk. But parents need to learn from this dad

This child is old enough to understand verbal communication and this father did very well. He didn't hit her, didn't raise his voice, didn't abandon her, he didn't threat her, he let her "cry out" but without leaving her side. When the child finally calmed down they both moved on without more sermons. That's discipline not punishment.

@eaglesalldayable

3 жыл бұрын

The punishment is taking the toys away for how the way they act up you have to do it that way Cos they will remember if I act this sort type of way I’m going to be in trouble. And I won’t get what I want!! If I cry for it that is how you raised your kids.

@judithdavis9191

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly! He is disciplining not punishing. Patents today scream, call them names and hit them which end up being a horrible message to send to a child and as they grow to they rebel. I never had to get hit because my parents did the same thing, I brought you out here to calm down, your upset so you need to take a break and chill out here. Then we will go back in if you calm down. That's how I discipline my children. You talk to your children not scream and yell. He did a good job helping his child calm down. Good dad! ❤️

@skipper19741

3 жыл бұрын

Well addressed Taylor ,, My atmost respect to ya all

@ominous-omnipresent-they

3 жыл бұрын

@@judithdavis9191 That's something parents have always been guilty of, unfortunately. That being said, I do agree.

@Raiden4019

3 жыл бұрын

Pure stoicism! The best form of tough love!

You are disciplining in tough love, we had to do exactly what your doing with my daughter 42 years ago when she was 2!!! No silver spoon in her mouth, we taught hard work, respect for your elders, listen in school, do not sass the teacher, etc., just like I was, even in a house of choas, we were still instructed by my parent's, grandparent's, everyone in the family!!!! Props dad, that's being a dad, no matter where you're living!!!

You go youngman!! U are a good father!! And I'm so proud of you sir!! I see the love you have for your daughter!! Wish there were Dads like you! A huge high 5 sir!!😊😊😊😊

The unbothered look on this father’s face 😂😂😂

@scarpien

3 жыл бұрын

That is SOOO me. lol I related to him the instant he did that.

@koltred

3 жыл бұрын

cus hes a man with a goal and a plan, to him its just being a father. a real man doesnt have time for his emotions to ruin his plan

@niijigod3864

3 жыл бұрын

@@koltred right

@ivyroldan6405

3 жыл бұрын

My son who is now a daddy and disciplining his son. When he was 3-4 y. As we’re crossing to the other side of the street my son collapsed in front of traffic and threw a temper tantrum. I dragged him onto the sidewalk and let him continue to throw his tantrums. He decided to take a peak by the side of his eye 👁 and when our eyes 👀 meet. I just to him. “You finished? I’m ready to keep walking”. He stopped crying, got up and took my hand 🖐🏻 that was the end of that.

@sharonbartley808

3 жыл бұрын

Same way

The main thing is that he didn’t spoil her by giving her a treat... or he didn’t pamper her. He just talked to her like she’s just another person. Good job man!

@G7130

4 жыл бұрын

Yep, you can’t reward children to not misbehave.

@anonymousjohnson976

4 жыл бұрын

Big Chungy Human: And he didn't spank or yell at her.

@bigchunkyhuman3769

4 жыл бұрын

Actually... when my toddler brother was crying... I tried this, and when I said “are you done?” He quickly changed his mood. Cause I was asking him a question instead of pampering him. And then he said “with what?” And I said “with crying. I’m not gonna put up with you crying for no reason anymore”. and he was like “yea. I’m done” and got back to playing😂 I swear I’m not lying!

Awesome dad right there. Dr Phil…whether you like him or not…one of my favorite words of advice to parents, “Don’t reward bad behavior”