Such a good message. I realized I said “sorry” as everything from a way to interject their thoughts into a conversation, to a way of prefacing any request for help. When something bad happens to someone, I’m merely listening to their story, and I had nothing to do with it, I’ll say “ that’s unfortunate”.

It's not weakness,it's called having manners

I feel like I was just magically transported to Canada for 1 minute and 17 seconds

Like saying sorry makes you any less of a person.

@paulaw418

4 жыл бұрын

It doesn't. But why say 'sorry' when there's NOTHING to apologize for? Why say 'sorry' when you really mean, "Excuse me?"

@surajsingh-gb9ry

4 жыл бұрын

@@paulaw418 you really are obsessed with this, don't you. Saying sorry doesn't always mean apologising. And even if you say it the world not going to end. Its ok its fine. No one gives a shit about that. Please just let it go.

@harleyquiinnnn

3 жыл бұрын

@@surajsingh-gb9ry I dont understand why you feel offended by women self-reflecting. Like, this ad wasnt even adressing you. You are one of these men that feel threatened by the idea of feminism and flood all the comment sections of these videos huh?

@surajsingh-gb9ry

3 жыл бұрын

@@harleyquiinnnn did u just assume my gender... reeeeeeeee.

@turtleboy3674

3 жыл бұрын

@@paulaw418 tbh for me and everyon i know "excuse me" and "sorry" is the exact same term

here because of weylie and sophia!

@llera_navi

5 жыл бұрын

same!

The Japanese and Canadian would like a word with you Pantene.

@Haha-if9qf

Жыл бұрын

You mean like every south American and Asian country

This ad had a big impact on me, thank you - Be kind, but straightforward, and dont fall into the habit of submitting yourself by apologizing for every little unnessassary thing

@mattimicusshufflizecki10

3 жыл бұрын

Never knew using manners, sharing a blanket and waiting for someone to finish before interrupting was because women are submitting themselves to men...

@harleyquiinnnn

3 жыл бұрын

@@mattimicusshufflizecki10 There's a different between being kind and overapologizing. Men are very good at just taking the things they want and women should be too

@harleyquiinnnn

3 жыл бұрын

@@mattimicusshufflizecki10 Waiting for someone to finish? You clearly didnt understand what this was about at all, you were busy feeling offended by the idea of feminism threatening your manhood

@mattimicusshufflizecki10

3 жыл бұрын

@@harleyquiinnnn Any examples (first comment)? I always find myself apologising over something that wasn’t even my fault as a man.

@mattimicusshufflizecki10

3 жыл бұрын

@@harleyquiinnnn She literally interrupted the man and didn’t even say sorry. Also what about the “sharing the blanket” point I made. You think that’s what makes women empowered, by taking the entire blanket and letting the man sleep cold?

Why do I feel like most of the negative comments are by guys who feel uncomfortable when exposed to patriarchal norms? This stuff is real. Honestly, many women are tired of always being overly polite in order to appear feminine

@bustamantedavid

2 жыл бұрын

because we men are tired of being taken as an example as bastard beings who rot the lives of women. I give you a big 🖕

@SkankHunt42isback

Жыл бұрын

Men say sorry too, or is your vagina too big to realize that?

@michaelmitchel3471

Жыл бұрын

how is it patriarchal when it's a wans issue?

@michaelmitchel3471

Жыл бұрын

woman's*

@NumbDigger22

8 ай бұрын

if you want to be masculine prepare to be treated like a man or surrender your priviliges

So, apologizing for interrupting is a bad thing? You know, men are expected to do that too, right?

@paulaw418

5 жыл бұрын

No, men say "excuse me," women say, "I'm sorry!" Never say SORRY when you REALLY mean, EXCUSE ME.

@Auditioneere

5 жыл бұрын

@@paulaw418 no they don't...if you were raised right you say I'm sorry or excuse me, it's interchangeable.

@paulaw418

5 жыл бұрын

@@Auditioneere it is not interchangeable, they are 2 separate words with 2 completely different meanings. If you haven't wronged somebody there's no reason to be "sorry." Just stop apologizing for simply existing or being. But you're right about one thing, it is learned behavior. Girls learn it from women and then carry it into womanhood themselves. This isn't something men "do" to women, or even expect from women; it's something women do to each other. We perpetuate it ourselves and it is time for us to stop doing that to ourselves. You men need to chill. This isn't about you, it isn't your fault, & you can't fix it; this is all on us.

@Auditioneere

5 жыл бұрын

@@paulaw418 um no, women and men do it. I don't know where you grew up but both genders where I'm from say excuse me or sorry because they're not rude. And I'm a girl so don't assume I don't know how women work. I was never taught to say sorry because I was a girl, I was taught to say sorry because it's the polite thing to do. Politeness being turned into a political statement on patriarchy is absolutely retarded.

@paulaw418

5 жыл бұрын

@@Auditioneere Who the fuck said anything about patriarchy? You're the only one bringing that shit up. Not once did I say this was the fault of men! It's all in your goddamned head! Why the fuck should anybody say "Sorry" because some guy shows up late for a meeting at work and asks everybody else to scooch down? Why did they all apologize for his lateness? Weird! Where was his apology for being late?

I really wish Pantene would be "sorry" about the animal testing they perform.

@whynot9933

4 жыл бұрын

Shots fired.

@quennydelossantos2986

2 жыл бұрын

Pantene does not test our products on animals. Pantene is actively working closely with governments around the world to provide alternative research methods that eliminate the need to test on animals. -Pantene

@Thawah

2 жыл бұрын

@@quennydelossantos2986 If you look at every other google result under that one, it all says Pantene does test on animals. They sell in mainland China, and mainland China requires animal testing. Brands will *never* flat-out admit that they test, and will instead put out a statement to save face, and it's always worded sketchily so they can hide it. Never trust brands to self-report and be honest about something that could cost them profits. Sadly I wish they weren't the first google result because well-meaning people will buy their stuff, not knowing.

@emmajones9

2 жыл бұрын

​@@quennydelossantos2986 Pantene themselves don't, but unfortunately in order to sell in certain countries they may have to pay external companies to do the testing for them. Hence why they say they are "actively working closely with governments around the world to provide alternative research methods," rather than just not selling in those countries. Profit before morals.

@No-cg9kj

6 ай бұрын

@@quennydelossantos2986 bull fucking shit.

Hogging all of the blankets is ALWAYS something to be sorry for. The very last scene is just nonsense. The rest of the message is on point.

Female-empowered advocacy? Nearly every case is where a polite, well-raised human being would apologize. There are 2 examples int here where sorry is not warranted, and 2 where the man should also have said sorry. The "Be Passive Aggressive & Shine" message at the end is just encouraging assholisis.

@cube66

6 жыл бұрын

Exactly. You'd think this would be common sense...

@Heather-ko2lv

5 жыл бұрын

Saying, "Good morning, do you have a minute?" is far from passive-aggressive. Some of these examples may have been borderline (taking all of the blanket, for example), but none of the switched scripts were impolite. And nobody should feel compelled to apologize when they are cut off or pushed off an armrest.

@harleyquiinnnn

4 жыл бұрын

This is straight-forwardness, not passive aggressiveness. It sounds like you're projecting your own experiences on this... I agree that saying sorry is a polite thing to do but it's more about the whole mindset that women often have that they put themselves inferior to others because it's a woman's task to be extra kind and taking care of things.. It's just about owning your right to speak up more - if you say sorry or not that's not that important to the message. As long as you are kind and straightforward. For any gender. :-)

@whynot9933

4 жыл бұрын

@@harleyquiinnnn Man you're very good at mental gymnastics.

@harleyquiinnnn

4 жыл бұрын

@@whynot9933 bitter much? Grow up love

Do women always apologize? Lmao 😂

Title should read "How to end up alone"

This was much-needed love it!

A hug for the creative mind behind this concept :) Thanku! For not letting us feel any lesser. #sorrynotsorry

@BestAuntieEver

3 жыл бұрын

How you choose to feel is your responsibility. No one else's.

I don't think the insight of literally saying "I'm sorry" for everything is true, I do think sometimes women feel kind of ashamed for asking for what they deserve (in a general way) but don't see that reflected on the situations. I don't relate to this campaign, don't know what does it have to do with Pantene and also feel that does more harm than good.

@lisenid9488

Жыл бұрын

That’s the whole point of the commercial. I appreciate Pantene adds and messages promoting confidence. Why would it be harmful. It’s not promoting anything damaging.

Why is this not captioned? It would take 15 minutes to make sure the captions are correct.

AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Women are constantly saying sorry for things they shouldn't, especially in situations where they are acting as a person in authority. Be proud of what you have to say because it matters, and don't let anyone make you feel like you need to apologize for being yourself and expressing your opinions. GO GIRLS AND WOMEN!!!

@slashbash1347

6 жыл бұрын

No. No, they aren't.

@whynot9933

4 жыл бұрын

🐖

This video is SO underrated

Pantene! Not impressed. You're too gender sensitized. 😠 Next time, I will use Head & Shoulders! 😄

@harleyquiinnnn

4 жыл бұрын

Perhaps you read the common "men-against-women"-concept in here, too. Perhaps that's what you dislike. I certainly like that it tells a gender who tends to fall into this habit to stop submitting themselves by apologizing for all little unnessassary things. It's telling them to be kind and straightforward but not to make themselves smaller. The same goes for all genders, women just appear to have more tendencies to do it. Or would you elaborate on what you dislike? :)

@whynot9933

4 жыл бұрын

@@harleyquiinnnn I definitely say the opposite is objectively true based on your very own standards.

@harleyquiinnnn

4 жыл бұрын

@Joe Ç wow incel alert both of you? Lighten up kids

@harleyquiinnnn

4 жыл бұрын

@Joe Ç well then hope you don't have any kids because you sure don't sound like a good father

@harleyquiinnnn

4 жыл бұрын

@Joe Ç I think it was very original :)

Este comercial es tan estúpido 😂

"Female empowerment." What the fuck is that supposed to mean anyway?

Ugh. I really can't stand wokeness. So cringy.

ALL THIS PATRIARCHY!!!

@paulaw418

5 жыл бұрын

Nope. It's something women do to themselves and each other.

@DamitFeelsGoodtobeaRaider

5 жыл бұрын

@@paulaw418 i think all the spazzolas call it internalised misogyny lol

@surajsingh-gb9ry

4 жыл бұрын

@@paulaw418 wouldn't it be good if they show just one example where they are saying sorry to each other. Not always to men.

@paulaw418

4 жыл бұрын

@@surajsingh-gb9ry SURE, absolutely. Because that happens too, but not as often.

@hellogoodbye4061

3 жыл бұрын

@@paulaw418 Whoa, man-hater, you're everywhere with your trolling of us lowly males! Sheesh, everything isn't always about you!

Identity politics in hair commercials...

Who the hell was asking you to apologize for anything?

@maayanrosenbaum

5 жыл бұрын

the patriarchy!!!!

5 жыл бұрын

Hahahahahha the patriarchy 😂😂😂😂

@paulaw418

5 жыл бұрын

Ridiculous! They're not accusing men of anything. This isn't about men! This is about the silly little habit most women have where we apologize for shit when we didn't do anything wrong. Or saying "sorry" when we really meant "excuse me."

@mu-12

5 жыл бұрын

That's exactly the point; no one was even asking them to apologize, but they felt the need to apologize anyway. The commercial is supposed to be about women realizing this and breaking that habit.

@simpbeforeusleep

5 жыл бұрын

@@paulaw418 Yeah nobody cares when women say sorry either.

I LOVE THESE COMMENTS SO BAD !

Can't tell if this ad is meant to be a joke..Apparently barging into a room (with closed doors & without knocking) is ok... & leaving the other person in bed without a blanket is what a strong woman should do?.. or shutting down a person's new idea to go back to an old one in a rude manner (crushing their creativity) is within a woman's rights? though ive seen "empowering" videos where a person presented as a women discussed new ideas & got told no, & got talked over in the board room & that was sexist .. so why is this acceptable.. why shouldn't that person say sorry for speaking over three person already talking at the car? those apparently aren't things you should apologize for anymore? how weak of me to apologize for not waiting my turn to speak? Any decent human being no matter what gender they identify with should be apologizing for those things... This video is NOT empowering at all.. what about people who get upset that a person who appears to be male didn't hold the door open for them? or pull out a chair .. or pay for their dates meal.. or they cried in a movie or they used make up to cover a blemish or they wore a pink shirt ... yes there are things we have to apologize for as women.. perhaps you should have used ones like saying SORRY I LEFT MY BRAND NEW UNOPENED BOX OF TAMPONS OUT IN MY OWN HOME ..ones that we legitimately have to apologize for that isn't just a basic human decency apology.

@paulaw418

5 жыл бұрын

You need to watch it again. The couple at the car, the woman was talking first, she did not interrupt him. And nobody barged into any room. Most of the times women say, "Sorry!" A simple, "pardon me," or "excuse me," would suffice. & if it's not your fault, accept the "apology" or the "excuse me" with grace and a simple nod of the head, rather than an apology of your own. How about the guy who shows up LATE for the meeting and asks the women to move down for him? They all say sorry, sorry-sorry, sorry. Sorry for WHAT? For simply being there? Sorry for already existing in a space that a man wants to occupy? What IS that about?

@alexanderdelarosahidalgo3092

5 жыл бұрын

@@paulaw418 i think you're the one who needs to rewhatch the video again

@hellogoodbye4061

3 жыл бұрын

@@paulaw418 This feminists man-hate cup overfloweth!

@hellogoodbye4061

3 жыл бұрын

@@paulaw418 Looks like men are correct that women obsess about absolutely nothing...this ad and the P Webbs of the world who defend confirm this.

@hellogoodbye4061

3 жыл бұрын

@@paulaw418 You're fun, in a sick kinda way. Let's keep playing....but always remember (now is everyone paying attention?)...sheesh, it's not always about you!

More man-bashing inane silliness about how women as so, so oppressed, all disguised as empowerment.

@paulaw418

3 жыл бұрын

There's no man-bashing there, it's not even about men! Sheesh not everything is about you!

@hellogoodbye4061

3 жыл бұрын

@@paulaw418 What planet are you living on? This ad promotes the propaganda that WOMEN are always apologizing to MEN because MEN make them feel all oppressed and stuff. Just another "poor, poor, pitiful me" feminist dreck. And yes, men are naturally the target. Sheesh, not everything is about you!

@hellogoodbye4061

3 жыл бұрын

@@paulaw418 I don't know any women in my life that apologize.. even when they are wrong. Not my mother, not my wife and not my colleagues.. wtf planet do these people live on? LMAO 5

@hellogoodbye4061

3 жыл бұрын

@@paulaw418 Damn, just noticed that you trolled this video two years ago and here you are, defending man-bashing feminist ads for, um, for, um, EQUALITY! No one takes your feminism seriously today, you've devolved into little more than a small, yet quite vocal, vile and viscous, subset of society that the general populace (the other 95 percent) simply ignore. Sheesh, not everything is about you!

@paulaw418

3 жыл бұрын

@@hellogoodbye4061 aint no man-bashing, you goofball!. This isn't even about men. Holy fuck not every fucking thing women do is about men!

El libro de Agustín Laje me trajo aquí

whata load of shit. Between this and Gillette, I wiped out all P&G products from my family's shopping basket

I do this this. Guess what, IM A MAN.

Ederne trop beau

AMAZING COMMERCIAL!!!!💜💜

Oh, Come on, really? is Everything about empowered?

Good message!

Gibbs rule #6!

This is an incredibly empowering commercial and is something that I have always noticed myself, when in groups with girls. Woman often come up with lines such as "Sorry" "or I don't mean to bother you, but here's my idea", or "I am not sure if this right". These lines while they may be out of politeness, I believe they actually originate due to a lack of confidence. Not because woman are not confident in themselves, but they are afraid of being looked down upon or not listened too. Which all is totally reasonable, and does happen. But, it does not mean woman should high and always have to take a back seat.

Just stick to telling what your product is and quit preaching. That commercial, and others you can't comment on, don't entice me to buy your product in the least.

Fakkeeee

Look at this comment section full of men misunderstanding and feeling offended by everything that speaks about gender. That doesn't speak for emotional maturity

@hellogoodbye4061

3 жыл бұрын

Nothing like insulting men to help clear the air between the genders...That doesn't speak for emotional maturity.

@harleyquiinnnn

3 жыл бұрын

@@hellogoodbye4061 how did i offend you love. i simply said the majority of men here misunderstand it severely

@hellogoodbye4061

3 жыл бұрын

@@harleyquiinnnn First off, I equate being called "love" to cat-calling and we lowly males know how feminists feel about cat-calling, so please cease and desist. Okay, with that said, you "simply said" that men lack "emotional maturity" because they, GASP!, had the audacity to question the negative stereotyping in this woke ad...damn, man-hater, if you do not view that as an insult to men, then your feminist indoctrination runs too deep. Alas, it will take decades to deprogram you at this point. Yikes!

@harleyquiinnnn

3 жыл бұрын

@@hellogoodbye4061 you seem to have some issues... lmao

@hellogoodbye4061

3 жыл бұрын

@@harleyquiinnnn Ah, the feminist man-hater modus operandi - the insult coupled with an inane "lmao"...you see, the moment has arrived when a lowly male calls you out and exposes you as a feminist fraud and you fall back in a tepid defense of trying to demean me and laugh me off. You suffer from a lack of emotional maturity. Nothing more, nothing less.

What a joke.

I don't think women apologizes so much.. zz.. instead they will give a bad look to make you feel sorry. Lol

Kaká

This hits home... #yikes

@Emma-py3si

4 жыл бұрын

@Joe Ç lol

@Emma-py3si

4 жыл бұрын

@Joe Ç shanks