Normal Husband vs INFJ Husband

just a comedy sketch about what INFJs are like as husbands and totally not a documentary about my actual life, i swear.
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0:00 Man Cave
0:13 Shoes
0:27 Listening
0:45 Chores
1:04 Arguments
1:23 Boys’ Weekend
1:37 Mr. Handy

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  • @FrankJames
    @FrankJames10 ай бұрын

    terlet

  • @n4ymzyt908

    @n4ymzyt908

    10 ай бұрын

    Infp next pleassse

  • @misscutie5531

    @misscutie5531

    10 ай бұрын

    ENTP next please ...

  • @edenroger534

    @edenroger534

    10 ай бұрын

    🚽

  • @n4ymzyt908

    @n4ymzyt908

    10 ай бұрын

    The infj urge to stay alone even after marriage

  • @ArcaneGinger

    @ArcaneGinger

    10 ай бұрын

    Apparently, "Terlet"... translated into English by google.. is "Area'. Cool

  • @sw9618
    @sw961810 ай бұрын

    Peak INFJ: encouraging others to have a healthy social life just to get some alone time to enjoy our existential crises.

  • @antigloboshlomo

    @antigloboshlomo

    10 ай бұрын

    based

  • @pinkroses135

    @pinkroses135

    10 ай бұрын

    😂

  • @arindam1249

    @arindam1249

    10 ай бұрын

    yes

  • @katiethompson4532

    @katiethompson4532

    10 ай бұрын

    Omg....so funny....so accurate!

  • @mjci3507

    @mjci3507

    10 ай бұрын

    So accurate@@katiethompson4532 As an INFJ I would always ask my family if they were going out, or away, so I could have some "alone time" and solitude.

  • @TheMaverickMind-Ultc
    @TheMaverickMind-Ultc10 ай бұрын

    "I love you but I need some solitude" is the dilemma every INFJ struggles with.

  • @doriag6605

    @doriag6605

    10 ай бұрын

    My husband, is an INTJ, that works from home now after the pandemic and there are days when I am wishing that he would just go to the office, so I can be alone again. I need solitude!

  • @nellautumngirl

    @nellautumngirl

    10 ай бұрын

    It's ok, I understand you. -INFP

  • @pinkroses135

    @pinkroses135

    10 ай бұрын

    Or we can sit quietly and reasonably spaced in a dimly lit cool room like weirdos

  • @joanelouadih

    @joanelouadih

    10 ай бұрын

    I'm an ISFJ and love my time alone. Mother to an INTJ male and a ENFP female. I love them both, but the ENTP personality can were me out!

  • @morghan_

    @morghan_

    10 ай бұрын

    Seriously felt that in my soul 😂

  • @smileyface1956
    @smileyface195610 ай бұрын

    I'm female infj, buuut the number of times I think about why good things happen to bad people is just...... 😂😂😂😂

  • @silverxpanda5852

    @silverxpanda5852

    10 ай бұрын

    Dude same! I’m always off rambling about how unfair the world is. One person could’ve been making fun of another, they may be strangers to me, but if I feel the receiver getting hurt I give a long speech about why this world sucks for minutes to my friend xD

  • @Sahdirah

    @Sahdirah

    10 ай бұрын

    I just want the rest of the billionaires to take a submarine trip, is that too much to ask 😤

  • @hidum5779

    @hidum5779

    10 ай бұрын

    it's because they are willing to do things other "good" people wouldn't.

  • @Poodle_Gun

    @Poodle_Gun

    10 ай бұрын

    As a female INTP, I make sure their "wins" are always empty and short lived.

  • @delabride

    @delabride

    10 ай бұрын

    I can relate 🤣🤣🤣👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

  • @pkgod99
    @pkgod9910 ай бұрын

    "Why do good things happen to bad people?" As an INFJ, I think about that quite a lot. It's honestly really unfair and insane how not as many people question that.

  • @louisejoel

    @louisejoel

    10 ай бұрын

    "There is nothing fair in this world" Billy Idol

  • @sasukecooper

    @sasukecooper

    10 ай бұрын

    I’ve thought about that enough to come to the conclusion that good things happen to bad people to give them a false sense of security so that when the bad thing happens it’s just worse and everything falls apart and they wish they were dead but really they’re just gunna have to exist in the shitstorm of consequences that they created.

  • @nicholecampbell1451

    @nicholecampbell1451

    10 ай бұрын

    It's really pretty simply explained by Murphys Law. You're welcome now you can move into more productive thinking. You won't... but you could. ❤

  • @geauxgaia

    @geauxgaia

    10 ай бұрын

    Yessss merit and all that unquestioned unscrutinized jazz!

  • @bellastone-le9eb

    @bellastone-le9eb

    10 ай бұрын

    Let's go deeper into that subject. 😂

  • @leech1355
    @leech135510 ай бұрын

    My friend is an INFJ and I can confirm they are the F type most intolerant of other people 😂 as an INTJ, it’s the foundation of our friendship

  • @talaomaluko6749

    @talaomaluko6749

    10 ай бұрын

    Misanthropic feeler lol

  • @Poodle_Gun

    @Poodle_Gun

    10 ай бұрын

    My only issue is they rarely see themselves as part of the problem, and that's why I hit it off with them at first, but the friendship never lasts. I think it's an Ni dominant thing (out of touch with their place in the outside world), but it's also a high Fe thing, because those types tend to be more self-righteous. It's usually a deal-breaker for me, but not everybody is for everyone. I need to be around either primary thinkers or types that are similar to mine.

  • @pinkroses135

    @pinkroses135

    10 ай бұрын

    Yes! 😂

  • @hidum5779

    @hidum5779

    10 ай бұрын

    @@Poodle_Gun I disagree. They don't always feel self righteous. That can be a characteristics of some of those people, but not all. Yes Ni is dominant but that doesn't mean they consider themselves as right in every situation. The actual problem with feeling types is that they can analyze a problem and can get to what went wrong purely based on feelings, but they have troubles with finding a solution to a problem. Their idealism in their own world can be overwhelming and they would be scared of taking the first step too. It's like a stalemate in that situation for them. That's where the thinking types shine, since they can provide a practical (and often non perfect) approach to such situations.

  • @kresovk5

    @kresovk5

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@Poodle_Gun I don't know where did you get that, but in general, that's not *NF* thing. Since NFs prioritise projecting, they are more likely to understand opposing point of view, since they'll visualise it. Not to mention, INFJ aren't leading with Fe, it's parent function (as in, it's to set boundaries), they are less likely to talk about opinions. Not that they don't have them, it's just not as interesting as the system they want to describe. Sincerely, calculating INFJ. Check Love Who's 20 words for INFJ, he does well describing it.

  • @keithfries
    @keithfries10 ай бұрын

    The twist about the Man Cave INFJ is that, while sitting outdoors in the wild, they spotted a deer walking by. So, he did watch the game...

  • @kyerinn

    @kyerinn

    10 ай бұрын

    I see what you did there.

  • @victoriousjoy9338

    @victoriousjoy9338

    10 ай бұрын

    Ha ha!! That's good!

  • @ptyleranodon3081
    @ptyleranodon308110 ай бұрын

    INFJ husband here. This was painfully accurate 😂

  • @Peeweez0

    @Peeweez0

    10 ай бұрын

    Agreed, I have some reflecting to do now... alone in my mind

  • @marissabulso6439
    @marissabulso643910 ай бұрын

    “Please…I love you, but……I need some solitude.” I felt that to my INFJ core. 😂

  • @maryamshaaban74
    @maryamshaaban7410 ай бұрын

    The amount of times I've set my parents on dates and ended up having to do their chores just so that I'd stay by myself at home is astronomical 😂

  • @christaverduren690

    @christaverduren690

    10 ай бұрын

    Well played parents, well played..................

  • @StrawberryAqua

    @StrawberryAqua

    10 ай бұрын

    I loved washing dishes and listening to music on my parents’ date nights.

  • @Ash-bc8vw

    @Ash-bc8vw

    10 ай бұрын

    Dude totally relatable

  • @wmason1961

    @wmason1961

    10 ай бұрын

    Your parents are genius.

  • @maryamshaaban74

    @maryamshaaban74

    10 ай бұрын

    @@wmason1961 actually, I am 😌 Because my parents actually prefer to stay home and watch TV. So I keep pushing that they need to change things up or buy something or push them to meet up with their friends lol

  • @OccultistLord4812
    @OccultistLord481210 ай бұрын

    As a INFJ, I can confirm I'm thinking more about talking about the problem than actually talking about it.

  • @ceilinh6004
    @ceilinh600410 ай бұрын

    "Let's spread the suffering around." Words to live by. Thanks, Frank.

  • @LysippeLee

    @LysippeLee

    10 ай бұрын

    If the INFJ's had a motto..😂😂😂

  • @onusgumboot5565

    @onusgumboot5565

    10 ай бұрын

    Are you talking about socialism here?

  • @gnosis8142

    @gnosis8142

    Ай бұрын

    @@onusgumboot5565 - no, that's Creating Suffering.

  • @tabithamcintyre4570
    @tabithamcintyre457010 ай бұрын

    I'm the INFJ wife but you're speaking my language sir 😂

  • @solarisan_
    @solarisan_10 ай бұрын

    Entire mindset summarized: “Nobody realizes that some people expend tremendous energy merely to be normal.” ― Albert Camus Being “intuitive” might be cool as an idea spread online. Irl, you always need to adjust your functioning in a way that is far from “normal” for you and your mindset.

  • @madeline906

    @madeline906

    10 ай бұрын

    Isn't this the truth! Wow.

  • @JuliusGuruJG
    @JuliusGuruJG10 ай бұрын

    Salutations to all fellow INFJ's! Always remember you're appreciated and that trying to help everyone else out is just as important as helping yourselves out 💚

  • @antigloboshlomo

    @antigloboshlomo

    10 ай бұрын

    >always remember you're appreciated CAP

  • @JuliusGuruJG

    @JuliusGuruJG

    10 ай бұрын

    @@antigloboshlomo wdym cap

  • @faolan2174

    @faolan2174

    10 ай бұрын

    1:26 A smart INFJ knows that by taking care of others, they're *also* taking care of themselves.

  • @JuliusGuruJG

    @JuliusGuruJG

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@faolan2174facts

  • @pixiethebug

    @pixiethebug

    10 ай бұрын

    I've had friends tell me I need to take care of myself more. I do just fine... By running myself into the ground helping everyone else so they leave me alone. 😂😂😂

  • @MetaGiga
    @MetaGiga10 ай бұрын

    This isn’t just the husband. This is also the wife. - Me, a female INFJ

  • @valentinaembers5713

    @valentinaembers5713

    10 ай бұрын

    Yes 😂😂 -Female INFJ here too

  • @snowwonder9814

    @snowwonder9814

    10 ай бұрын

    Same. The getting the partner out of the house is sooo true! So is the sitting alone outside! Except, I actually am good at fixing things. At least compared to my boyfriend lol.

  • @quickgirl80

    @quickgirl80

    10 ай бұрын

    For real! That’s what I was thinking too! 😂

  • @elise85391

    @elise85391

    10 ай бұрын

    Exactly, I’d be like, oh that’s great honey, go fishing with you’re friends, but on the inside I’d be thinking: mwahahahaha😈 now I can spend all weekend reading with nobody to distract me And instead of shoes, I’d buy too many books. Which at this point would cost about the same as a few pairs of shoes😢

  • @elise85391

    @elise85391

    10 ай бұрын

    I’d like to sit alone in an environment that gives outside vibes and feels like I’m in nature, but is actually inside bc bugs

  • @AuntieBubbles
    @AuntieBubbles10 ай бұрын

    If I had a dollar for each time I've had that exact same "call the plumber/no, you'll figure it out/I told you we should've called a plumber" convo... I could have paid a plumber. *cries inside*

  • @d.chattegrise

    @d.chattegrise

    10 ай бұрын

    I'm sure there's an INFJ plumber out there.. who would say... "Thank you... again. You, my regular client." haha @FrankJames

  • @alexadsvieira
    @alexadsvieira10 ай бұрын

    "I need my solitude, please." So true. 😂😂😂

  • @ZeldasLoftwing
    @ZeldasLoftwing10 ай бұрын

    Both my boyfriend and I are INFJ.... we're going to be such a weird couple, and I'm all for it 🤣

  • @gabrielaisabelvillamor8617

    @gabrielaisabelvillamor8617

    10 ай бұрын

    Blessed are you to have another INFJ SO! 😍🙏

  • @madamredbush

    @madamredbush

    10 ай бұрын

    How is the dynamic between two INFJ partners? I’m an INFJ married to an ENTP and we were both wondering how it would be for two INFJs.

  • @susanrodriquez3757

    @susanrodriquez3757

    10 ай бұрын

    @@madamredbushaffliative sparks flying everywhere both good and bad. High in comaraderie low in natural chemistry which would have to be solved over an extended period of time. If anyone could do it an Infj can lol.

  • @50--11

    @50--11

    10 ай бұрын

    Can you buy us a house?

  • @ZeldasLoftwing

    @ZeldasLoftwing

    9 ай бұрын

    @@madamredbush I like to think we have a cool dynamic. We really like our inside jokes, we both get incredibly drained by hanging out with other people for to long, we both really value communication, and we like to send each other memes 😂. Idk, I think its a pretty introverted but fun dynamic, and we both have fun little quirks that compliment each others personalities nicely.

  • @Dragon_BeBop
    @Dragon_BeBop10 ай бұрын

    INFJ woman here & I can confirm that I have asked my partner many times to go & hang out with his friends so I can have my alone time. 😅 BTW, you're so damn funny!

  • @simplyfantastic5777
    @simplyfantastic577710 ай бұрын

    As an INFP married to an INFJ, spot on.

  • @guybeauregard

    @guybeauregard

    10 ай бұрын

    Good god how do you two get anything done? 😂

  • @alyssayoung7129

    @alyssayoung7129

    10 ай бұрын

    Same here, dating INFJ though

  • @mdhv0508

    @mdhv0508

    10 ай бұрын

    Hows your relationship going? I Cuz I'm an INFJ and my girlfriend she's an INFP

  • @shaynata6331
    @shaynata633110 ай бұрын

    "I love you, but I need some solitude" I'm INFP but it's so much me.

  • @smule77

    @smule77

    10 ай бұрын

    Same. - INTJ

  • @kattissmall8373

    @kattissmall8373

    10 ай бұрын

    Well, it’s an introvert thing. Any personality type with an I at the front does the same thing. Even some of the more introverted extroverted types like ENFPs do that as well.

  • @KrisRN23935

    @KrisRN23935

    2 ай бұрын

    Funny thing is, my husband is an INFJ and I'm an INFP. But he wants time away from everyone but me (he hates not having me around) and I'm the one wanting alone time.😂

  • @shaynata6331

    @shaynata6331

    2 ай бұрын

    @@kattissmall8373 Thanks for the information!

  • @shaynata6331

    @shaynata6331

    2 ай бұрын

    @@KrisRN23935 Lol😭😂

  • @pinkroses135
    @pinkroses13510 ай бұрын

    Why clean your laundry when you can get distracted with cleaning your soul? 😂 classic intuitive space cadetness

  • @a.katherinesuetterlin3028

    @a.katherinesuetterlin3028

    10 ай бұрын

    INFP mystic-type person here...and this is totally me! And then I'm like, "sh**...I'm out of clean undies/shirts/jeans...😅" 😂 So, apparently, an INFP/INTP/INTJ is never late with their laundry, nor are they early. They do their laundry precisely when they mean to. 😂

  • @pinkroses135

    @pinkroses135

    10 ай бұрын

    😂 I could see how introverted feeling and extroverted intuition would have a similar result

  • @RetroGamer-95
    @RetroGamer-9510 ай бұрын

    INFJ Husband: "Why do good things happen to bad people?" Me (also INFJ): I've been wondering about that for a while now

  • @annmarie_
    @annmarie_10 ай бұрын

    I couldn't handle being with an INFJ man. I need someone to get me out of my head! 🤣 ~INFJ

  • @pinkroses135

    @pinkroses135

    10 ай бұрын

    Yeah we'd really get lost in the abyss like that picture of the kids holding hands walking into a black hole

  • @matthewhildebrandt1901
    @matthewhildebrandt190110 ай бұрын

    Frank, I love your videos! But, it is a bit disconcerting to watch my INFJ mindset play out on screen so accurately. 😂

  • @user-zs5tp9zi6n

    @user-zs5tp9zi6n

    10 ай бұрын

    Same

  • @Aashka_The_Mystic
    @Aashka_The_Mystic10 ай бұрын

    "Let's spread the suffering around." INFJ 😅

  • @youngcrone456
    @youngcrone45610 ай бұрын

    My partner is an INFJ. Today we were in IKEA. He gets overwhelmed by too much choice, but I do not. I realized today that the reason he gets overwhelmed by too much choice is that he actually THINKS about each and every choice! Also the plumber thing. I do know this about him, so it's good that my sons are pretty good at fixing stuff.

  • @kaiyakershaw1028

    @kaiyakershaw1028

    10 ай бұрын

    Omg, yes! This is me! I analyze ALL the choices and it’s exhausting and overwhelming. I love the idea of IKEA. I’ve been once. It was like an amusement park: thrilling and fun for the first 30 minutes, then way too much and I need to go home, but I feel bad not spending more time there given the cost and energy involved in getting there, so I’m just completely overwhelmed and miserable for the rest of the outing.

  • @Riblette33

    @Riblette33

    5 ай бұрын

    Yes! You hit the nail on the head. Each choice is heavily considered and weighed, and yes it is exhausting and time consuming. I have a plan when I'm shopping to get exactly what I need and then I leave. I leave feeling fatigued otherwise 😂😂

  • @DaddyBearXXXL

    @DaddyBearXXXL

    Ай бұрын

    As an INFJ I love choices but I hate being rushed in deciding. I like to take my time and analyze each choices. So it is not the fact that their is a lot of choices, it is the fact that I cannot spend all day deciding. I could get lost in Ikea for hours before I decide. But my partner likes to be in and out. Meanwhile I am like doing all my "well, what about .."

  • @cemitchell6496
    @cemitchell649610 ай бұрын

    Female, infj here. Doing it all in my head and still needing everybody to just go away.

  • @StephanieJeanne
    @StephanieJeanne10 ай бұрын

    Yay! I was hoping for more of these! Now we got the hubby's POV. I loved the part where he's going to fill in what the wife would say in his head, and then they can talk about it later when it all blows up in his face! Thanks for the laughs, Frank! 😂✌️💜

  • @FrankJames

    @FrankJames

    10 ай бұрын

    Glad you liked it!!

  • @jahayrac8636

    @jahayrac8636

    10 ай бұрын

    I felt this so much with my husband 😅 like I'll have an issue and discuss it in my head and then not say anything at the time because time passed. But then when the issue returns I'll have subconsciously gathered enough evidence to prove my point to where I'm launching nukes lol it's not pretty and it's unsettling for us both but dang, it's effective.

  • @brianaboche7994

    @brianaboche7994

    10 ай бұрын

    I lol’d fr at that

  • @krysanne8986

    @krysanne8986

    7 ай бұрын

    Yeah that one resonated. Not a husband. Or even a guy. But definitely an infj

  • @realdragon
    @realdragon10 ай бұрын

    "Let's spread suffering around" I can get behind that

  • @knowyourlove5613
    @knowyourlove561310 ай бұрын

    By the time you’re 45 you will just call the plumber. Or the wife herself will call the plumber.

  • @VYMQGSOH
    @VYMQGSOH10 ай бұрын

    As an INFJ husband myself, I'm definitely going to show this one to my INFP wife. She thought it was pretty attractive that I do actually go outside and sit or lay down on logs, rocks, etc- out in the woods and other places in nature, while never seeing anyone else do it where we live. Most guys here just make their money, go home to play video games or to a bar, then sleep and repeat. Others go to the gym and do things in the cities, Or simply sit on their porch or work on a car often. But a man who would go into the forest and sit for hours on a log meditating and overthinking about things? People only see me doing that around these parts, and to them it's a mystery that they aren't sure they want to unfold to behold.

  • @kyerinn

    @kyerinn

    10 ай бұрын

    There’s something to be said about unfolding the INFJ mystery… 😉 I mean, we can only disclose so much about ourselves. I do envy you for having so much nature nearby!

  • @victoriousjoy9338

    @victoriousjoy9338

    10 ай бұрын

    But this is one of the many things i love about INFJs!! ENFP here.

  • @mdhv0508

    @mdhv0508

    10 ай бұрын

    Being an INFJ I can understand that, I live in a city which actually very crowded, also it doesn't have any natural places you know... it's been a year since I got out to relax...

  • @victoriousjoy9338

    @victoriousjoy9338

    10 ай бұрын

    That is such a rare and beautiful thing though!

  • @RhymeandRamblings

    @RhymeandRamblings

    10 ай бұрын

    How did you and your wife meet? With both being an introvert that sounds like a great match but tough to find.

  • @nishatasnim8681
    @nishatasnim868110 ай бұрын

    As an enfp...I really am amused by the Infj ...they really are a perfect fit for me...mbti never lies..😮😮

  • @dlcarbonneau3750

    @dlcarbonneau3750

    10 ай бұрын

    and we in return find the enfp really entertaining

  • @helena8465

    @helena8465

    10 ай бұрын

    My sister is an ENFP and I'm an INFJ. Really, we are such a fun and weird duo! ENFPs, stay fun and positive and don't let the INFJ introvertness discourage you!

  • @INFJSpanishcoach-gv6jb
    @INFJSpanishcoach-gv6jb10 ай бұрын

    "Normal husband" VS INFJ husband😂😂😂Frank you're being childish but in a positive way

  • @Aashka_The_Mystic
    @Aashka_The_Mystic10 ай бұрын

    I'm an INFJ and plumbing is my weekness, like i can't deal with water but i can fix just about anything else lol

  • @HappilyAnonymousGirl
    @HappilyAnonymousGirl10 ай бұрын

    I always cherished the times I had the house to myself growing up. I’d sing terribly as loud as I could 😂

  • @johnplaysgames3120

    @johnplaysgames3120

    10 ай бұрын

    Although I was a relatively good kid and a decent student, there was a period of time in high school where I started ditching school just so I could be home alone while my parents were at work. I didn't do anything crazy; just painted, wrote, read, watched tv, and/or played some games... but I was home alone and it was glorious.

  • @lisa_gay
    @lisa_gay10 ай бұрын

    FRANK: "Honey, I need ideas for next week's video!" WIFE: * grins and pulls out HUGE notebook *

  • @abubakr8824
    @abubakr882410 ай бұрын

    Please do each cognitive functions individually,as an INFP your explanation is so good

  • @samlynx2016
    @samlynx201610 ай бұрын

    I'm a woman but I was absolutely called out with the 'having a conversation in my head and trying to fix it by myself.'

  • @VondaInWonderland
    @VondaInWonderland10 ай бұрын

    Thank you for helping me see that there are actually flaws in my INFJ friend. Without you I would think that she was perfect ❤

  • @kyerinn

    @kyerinn

    10 ай бұрын

    Aww! None of us are perfect, that’s what makes us all interesting! 😊

  • @helena8465
    @helena846510 ай бұрын

    My dad is the official mechanic in the house, but he has a lot on his plate. At some point, I got tired of waiting for someone else to fix the toilet so I ended up watching a KZread on how toilets work. Needless to say, I fixed the toilet 😎 --INFJ girl

  • @ianaxel1111
    @ianaxel111110 ай бұрын

    The one in the red shirt is Frank in real life

  • @FrankJames

    @FrankJames

    10 ай бұрын

    hee hee

  • @Courtney6
    @Courtney610 ай бұрын

    INFJ wife here and I would try to fix the toilet because I hate calling people, especially people that need to come into my home for some reason. DIY forever.

  • @ruthmcilmoyle4941
    @ruthmcilmoyle494110 ай бұрын

    I love the mix and display of plants behind INFJ husband. Yes, I was thinking mainly about the plants during this piece.

  • @yopestevens1505

    @yopestevens1505

    10 ай бұрын

    Hilarious, so was I! INFJ here, always analyzing every little thing :)

  • @mostrosticator
    @mostrosticator10 ай бұрын

    Wish I could express myself as well as can Frank. I vicariously live through you.

  • @LifeAdviceSite
    @LifeAdviceSite10 ай бұрын

    Yessss....I always wonder how people carry on affairs and have so many shoes. Too much chaos for my INFJ brain! 😂

  • @nicoleestigarribia3131
    @nicoleestigarribia313110 ай бұрын

    yess nothing better than getting a new FJ video ❤

  • @arunimajana9564
    @arunimajana956410 ай бұрын

    My bf is also INFJ.... And i am an INTJ ....... Love your videos....... You are sooooo adorable ❤

  • @JohnDoe-pg9oq
    @JohnDoe-pg9oq10 ай бұрын

    I’m an INFJ husband and I have an INTJ husband. I can tell you that we’re the perfect match. ❤

  • @Indigo_Raven_Tiff
    @Indigo_Raven_Tiff10 ай бұрын

    ENFJ wife and forest sitting is my jam. It's taken me a LONG time to realize this us a form of self care and I deserve it.

  • @avril.227

    @avril.227

    10 ай бұрын

    Thanks for reminding me after I’m done thinking for 3 hours. INFJ, with my coffee (on the phone), I’m going to continue this later today on my hike in the forest 😂😅

  • @snap.-_-
    @snap.-_-10 ай бұрын

    😂 im totally gonna send this to my boyfriend. Its literally all the things i do under 1 video

  • @feno.
    @feno.10 ай бұрын

    I'm not a husband yet, and I already did some of these things 😂

  • @elizabethfox3769
    @elizabethfox376910 ай бұрын

    I'm an INFJ wife, yet I can 100% relate to this INFJ husband. I've either done, or thought of, everything you've outlined here LOL

  • @katemadelyn0905
    @katemadelyn090510 ай бұрын

    0:22 😂😂😂😂😂😂 1:08 😂😂😂 that voice 1:22 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Awesome video!!! As usually!!!

  • @nula14
    @nula1410 ай бұрын

    Oh .... female INFJ here. LOL, Frank, you sound like me!

  • @eskayh7734
    @eskayh773410 ай бұрын

    Relatable even though I'm a INFJ girlfriend. I need the solitude and I'm calling the plumber regardless if my BF thinks he can fix it himself or not (he's amazingly handy but I'm not taking that chance and neither should he).

  • @johnnymidnight2982
    @johnnymidnight298210 ай бұрын

    INFJ. Three pairs of shoes. That's it.

  • @gnosis8142

    @gnosis8142

    Ай бұрын

    I have 1.

  • @YoureMyCherryOnTop143
    @YoureMyCherryOnTop14310 ай бұрын

    You know the weirdest coincidence is that our boy is a INFJ & a dad

  • @gotnopxssionwhatsoever
    @gotnopxssionwhatsoever10 ай бұрын

    AYEEEE WHERE MY FELLOW INFJS AT?

  • @wendyg.2664

    @wendyg.2664

    10 ай бұрын

    👋🏻👋🏻

  • @faolanliath6687

    @faolanliath6687

    10 ай бұрын

    💚🐺💚

  • @sparklingblaze5520

    @sparklingblaze5520

    10 ай бұрын

    HERE!!!!

  • @elrem5598

    @elrem5598

    10 ай бұрын

    RIGHT HERE🔥❤️

  • @kyrie6035

    @kyrie6035

    10 ай бұрын

    Present!

  • @catherinedavidson7145
    @catherinedavidson714510 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂. My ESxx partner - I don't like leaving you alone. Please, PLEASE! Leave me alone!

  • @MrStrocube
    @MrStrocube11 күн бұрын

    Omg, the bit about thinking about everything you’ve ever done wrong till you’re wracked with guilt is dead on.

  • @turquoisetranquility
    @turquoisetranquility10 ай бұрын

    That was awesome FJ 😂! So funny and so carefully crafted! Also the description 😆👌

  • @mimimimz6719
    @mimimimz671910 ай бұрын

    Having a conversation in your mind is a real thing for INFJs. I know I do it alllll the time.

  • @johnplaysgames3120

    @johnplaysgames3120

    10 ай бұрын

    Yesterday, I had a conversation in my mind about not being able to stop having conversations in my mind. INFJ-ception.

  • @mimimimz6719

    @mimimimz6719

    10 ай бұрын

    @@johnplaysgames3120 👍🤣🤣🤣

  • @mydailyangel
    @mydailyangel10 ай бұрын

    Love it- yup I just went into the woods yesterday.. lolol

  • @SugarBooger10
    @SugarBooger1010 ай бұрын

    We can then talk about it in a few weeks when it all blows up in my face 🤣🤣

  • @frogosplayer1
    @frogosplayer110 ай бұрын

    Me an INFJ wife encouraging my husband to go have a boys night out so I can put the kids to bed and just enjoy some solitude for one night 😅 When he tries to "break the news" that he'll be late home I'm like "don't worry about it." Because it just means more time for me to read/game/write/watch anime by myself and recharge

  • @jillross6331
    @jillross633110 ай бұрын

    Too funny! I'm an INTJ with an INFJ husband. 95% of the time we are two minds with one thought, but every once in a while, I am reminded of the fact that he is a FEELER and as such is prone to irrationality (IMO). That argument one hit WAY close for both of us, though.

  • @susanlisson7066
    @susanlisson706610 ай бұрын

    This INFJ woman has a lot of shoes but gets overwhelmed when trying to find the right pair.

  • @milosv1574
    @milosv157410 ай бұрын

    I have 3 pairs of black coloured similar shoes, and I do "rotation" every time I need to wear them in a specific order, so no need for choice.

  • @Toothily
    @Toothily10 ай бұрын

    As an ENFJ, I’m happy to help with the toilet, and also the existential dread

  • @wendyg.2664
    @wendyg.266410 ай бұрын

    I already know this one's gonna be GOOD! 😃😉

  • @kwei5981
    @kwei598110 ай бұрын

    I thought I was the only one that with only three pairs of shoes I was happy in fact me and my husband are infj so they aren't many shoes at home 😂

  • @Cuteemogirl94

    @Cuteemogirl94

    10 ай бұрын

    As a INFP I only have 2 pairs of shoes 😅

  • @isbahrafay4059
    @isbahrafay405910 ай бұрын

    The fact that he's an infj makes this even more amazing.

  • @lulaypp7816
    @lulaypp781610 ай бұрын

    It's funny because people say that my INFJ father is a super attentive listener and he does always appear to give proepr responses and reactions to things. But most of the time he wasn't really listenting and have to ask my mother a while later who said what XDDDD

  • @yopestevens1505

    @yopestevens1505

    10 ай бұрын

    It's a carefully honed skill, practised with ease by the experienced INFJ. Some of us are exceptionally good at it ;)

  • @JasonMoir
    @JasonMoir10 ай бұрын

    Now I'm concerned about my own shoe management.

  • @kyseth87
    @kyseth877 ай бұрын

    My day was not planned to wake up and be attacked

  • @whofandb
    @whofandb10 ай бұрын

    The 'conversation in my head' part is so accurate!

  • @ClubENTP
    @ClubENTP10 ай бұрын

    You just get funnier and funnier. You really should try stand up comedy and film it. You're a RIOT!

  • @joanelouadih
    @joanelouadih10 ай бұрын

    As always, thanks for the laughs! You are amazing. 🙂

  • @kymelatejasi
    @kymelatejasi10 ай бұрын

    Oh my gosh, that last one! I've had that happen way too often and am currently going through it with my position at my job. I knew I wouldn't be good at it, but no one will believe it until they see me actually crash and burn.

  • @NGMonocrom
    @NGMonocrom10 ай бұрын

    As someone who is an INFJ, and who found out late in Life.... I don't like how accurate this video is. Still gave it a thumbs-up though.

  • @Shadokix
    @Shadokix10 ай бұрын

    I want INFJ person, I wonder where they could be hiding. 😂

  • @pinkroses135

    @pinkroses135

    10 ай бұрын

    Somewhere scenic doing this 🤔🤨😕😵‍💫🦌🌲

  • @yopestevens1505

    @yopestevens1505

    10 ай бұрын

    Well.....they have invisible cloaking devices. There's probably one standing right next to you :)

  • @VongolaChouko

    @VongolaChouko

    3 ай бұрын

    In my room, watching MBTI videos...

  • @darkspice6339
    @darkspice633910 ай бұрын

    As a female INTJ, a male INFJ is all I've ever needed as a life partner lol

  • @Rxanne28
    @Rxanne2810 ай бұрын

    Oh my GOD! 😂 That "Are you upset? What did I do this time?" had laughing. That one sounded just like my Husband lol! 😂

  • @Cuteemogirl94

    @Cuteemogirl94

    10 ай бұрын

    Yeah my ENTP husband always believes that everyone is against him and wants to attack him 😅. As a INFP I get upset over a lot of things (because reallife is not as magical as I would like it to be XD). (he always believes it's about him before I told him the reason )

  • @g3e_0.o
    @g3e_0.o10 ай бұрын

    THAT'S SO TRUE! why does good things happen to bad ppl...I've always thought of this😭 -INFJ

  • @PENGUINGIRL1210
    @PENGUINGIRL121010 ай бұрын

    The last one is very me 😂 I try my best to fix something, thinking it will be easy, and I somehow make it even worse than it was before. I’m so jealous of ISTP’s natural ability to fix things and make it look easy 🙃

  • @sadasivan6159
    @sadasivan615910 ай бұрын

    Hilarious🤣

  • @-gia111
    @-gia11110 ай бұрын

    I love infjs so much theyre half of my brain at any given time

  • @victoriousjoy9338

    @victoriousjoy9338

    10 ай бұрын

    Me too! Are you ENFP?

  • @TheWaterlily2012
    @TheWaterlily201210 ай бұрын

    Ha ha ha, so funny! I had to interact with someone (that I normally don't) yesterday that has made me sit here all day and think about how they are incapable of ever getting what I am and that a lot of it is because I am an INFJ with FEELING and that person doesn't have any of that in a real, deep-down sense and how I can't understand people like THEY are. Have a nice weekend Frank! :)

  • @victoriousjoy9338

    @victoriousjoy9338

    10 ай бұрын

    But that is exactly why you are so interesting! The complex mystery unfolding!! It's delicious!! ENFP here.

  • @TheWaterlily2012

    @TheWaterlily2012

    10 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for the kind comment! :) @@victoriousjoy9338

  • @KhushiKumari-wg7xw
    @KhushiKumari-wg7xw10 ай бұрын

    Frank James new video 🎉 oh God I'm always crazily excited for his video's, 🧡it really help me to learn English language 😊

  • @hidum5779
    @hidum577910 ай бұрын

    I'm confused between INTJ and INFJ, and this sketch makes me feel like it is how I may have been in my past. Not all of that is relatable though. I wonder what exactly am I😮‍💨 I can definitely have overwhelming feelings, but thinking about practical solution is my strong suit too. Just what the hell

  • @hidum5779

    @hidum5779

    10 ай бұрын

    @@catcrimson8900problem with MBTI is that humans are certainly more complex than the 16 brackets they're being put in. Also people can switch personality with time, place or even arbitrary things like while switching a language.

  • @sabinapociennik9672

    @sabinapociennik9672

    10 ай бұрын

    Hi, I recommend to you checking cognitive function, it explains a lot since infj and intj share only two the same functions, and other two are different. For example infj have Ti and intj have Te in their stacks (sorry for any mistakes, English is not my native language).

  • @duglife2230
    @duglife223010 ай бұрын

    "And it's probably gonna be more expensive than it was before." I knew he was going to say that. lol.

  • @jofromoz
    @jofromoz10 ай бұрын

    Oh my lord, that is so true it’s scary. I’m that infj, never actually consciously met one in person, still searching…..

  • @UndeadAlv
    @UndeadAlv10 ай бұрын

    I agree that whenever I don’t understand the choice of somebody, I don’t directly tell them to stop it or that they are weird I genuinely ask them why they do it and try to tackle the weak points I find in their reasoning, and if I find out I just don’t get it, I just try to stop caring lmao

  • @rachel14rod

    @rachel14rod

    10 ай бұрын

    You're intj?

  • @UndeadAlv

    @UndeadAlv

    10 ай бұрын

    @@rachel14rod I’m an INFJ

  • @Elven.
    @Elven.10 ай бұрын

    I'm gonna marry one, I'm done with humans. INFJ wife is waiting here love!

  • @IMakeBeautifulThings
    @IMakeBeautifulThings10 ай бұрын

    Pretty accurate except the last one. My INFJ husband will do anything to avoid spending money on services, or having to talk to the landlord. He always tries to fix the toilet, washing machine, computer etc 😂

  • @annanowak1805
    @annanowak180510 ай бұрын

    This is hilarious. Very good acting.

  • @kiyashi85
    @kiyashi8510 ай бұрын

    I feel like normal husband is an ISTP

  • @michelegraham1181
    @michelegraham118110 ай бұрын

    An INFJ wife already knows how to fix a broken toilet.

  • @yopestevens1505

    @yopestevens1505

    10 ай бұрын

    Even if she will never need to, lol!