What habits you have (or have had) seem very "INFJ" related?

@MegaCyberleader

4 ай бұрын

synthasizing a new me. Im very differnt than I was say 3 weeks ago.

@jessmason2112

4 ай бұрын

Sincere, hardworking, empathic, logical, deep, intuitive, sensitive and creative.

@robin15092

4 ай бұрын

Absorb environment/emotions -> feel/rationalize -> make conclusions -> behave accordingly. But other people are always one step ahead in "living" life. For me it looks they are fast forwarding the movie, but miss important clues.

@vince1012

4 ай бұрын

Very specific habits that confirmed (& annoyed me) that I might be an INFJ. I do listen better than most but I share sometimes more if there's a purpose. Would you cover how the other MBTI's interact with INFJ's? Also, what's the best way to interact with them?

@rudysdream

4 ай бұрын

absolutely keeping things weird…. Side note: check out Terance McKenna the brilliant psychonaut. (a INFJ’s dream)

Trying to 'explain less and act more.' It was initially disappointing to understand most people won't understand what I'm saying and thinking. For years, I thought it was because I thought I wasn't doing a good enough job of explaining. Now, I just don't care. Not caring has been liberating. Thank you, Wenzes, for helping me and others see this.

1:24 You think in mindset solutions when it comes to others 3:08 You leave get-togethers rather early 6:22 You have the urge to overexplain yourself 11:08 You have obsessed over a romantic interest for a long period in your life 16:08 You listen way more than you share

@dsantita635

4 ай бұрын

thank you!

@thewatchtower8330

4 ай бұрын

Damn. This is me in a (very little) nutshell, although I try to evolve in certain fields, like f.e. to leave get-togethers early. Now I bring people together of which I think they could get along and that it would be a good thing in their lives, so then I must stay. I regret that I organize those things mostly, but I think that goal is more important than my feelings.

@themountainsandthesea4121

4 ай бұрын

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@lindateuling7862

4 ай бұрын

I like the way you list the points and the locations. It's a help in reviewing.

@DonTrump-sv1si

4 ай бұрын

#6 You kindly make a list of the topics in the video with time stamps.

Once i discovered i am INFJ-a & what that entails.... BOOM, no more over sharing, no more explaining myself, no more trying to fit in..... because i am who i am & it won't change, even if i wanted to. In fact i do not feel bad that my business is growing, my hobbies are an expression of me & that some people just don't like me...😁

@rc9266

2 ай бұрын

exactly at first I thought great Im cursed ...Lol! but everything fell into place and my drum beats just fine for me and those willing to share my expierience and view of life! the shallow world can drown in a cup of tea for all I care!

@Not_all_as_it_seems

2 ай бұрын

@@rc9266 Ha yeah, a cup of tea is still too deep for them though, you are very generous! 🤣

I feel like I have to explain every little detail because I see things from so many different sides that other people may not see. Life has so many different nuances, and things aren't black or white. I also always feel the need to fix problems for others by giving them the solution, even if they just wanted to vent. I want everyone to be happy, have all they need, and be kind to everyone. Unfortunately, others don't always care to be nice. That's when my dark side comes out. I'm super nice to everyone until someone crosses the line with others. Then the claws come out. People should be careful not to mistake kindness for weakness.

@thewatchtower8330

4 ай бұрын

I do so too. For example: my emails were way too long at my previous job. I try to keep in mind I should temper myself in that.

@rc9266

2 ай бұрын

I found fixing machines more rewarding then trying to fix people who refuse sound advice after they asked for it!

@jikook7457

2 ай бұрын

@rc9266 I get that, but I love them, and it's hard to let someone walk off a cliff if I can put up a sign warning of caution ahead.

I accidentally came across this, and I am a 64-year-old retired (INFJ) Counsellor. I have never heard of an INFJ life coach what a great video

@thespiritualjourney1252

2 ай бұрын

Karen may I ask for your advice? As an INFJ, I'm 25 and doing IT in a rapidly growing company so there is plenty of career potential, good pay, but of course the stress and responsibility that comes with it. But there is no opportunity for helping others which is my burning hearts desire, I try to unconsciously help others and be too nice etc., but that doesn't help. I have my spiritual life also so rarely have time for fulfilling this need. I'm debating quitting IT to get into counselling, just so I can help people - I'm so 50/50 with it. Any words I greatly appreciate. Thanks, Balarama

Both my wife and I are INJFs and we have experienced all the 5 points you mentioned. I wish when I was a lot younger I would have understood I was an INFJ - my life started making sense once I realized it.

I tap out socially after an hour. My brain shuts off but I can't leave yet because I am with my husband who is visiting his large family. His is an ISFJ. With any other group he is one of the first to leave, but not with his family. I can only take an hour at social gatherings. So I have to decompress for days afterward. I enjoy 1-1 a lot more and can stay longer with that person if we are having an interesting conversation.

Emotional energy is scarce and precious, use judiciously. 😺

The effort INFJs put into explaining themselves could be a result of having Tertiary Ti,. Since INFJs so badly want to understand things, it leads them into falsely concluding that others also want to understand things.

@marygb777

2 ай бұрын

Dang. So true..

@lucky_i.i

Ай бұрын

You seem to be so right!! Most of my life (I'm working on it now) I've explained people things IN DETAIL exactly because THAT'S HOW I want people to explain things to me and THAT'S HOW I need to know things in order to understand them. Needless to say, my generous good deed was never appreciated, people respect and admire those who EXPLAIN less than it should be explained...strangely!

I recently told my kids, "I can tell you what I know, but I can't give you who I am." This, I think, encapsulates the notion that no one, not even family, can fully understand the INFJ. It's not a bad place to be, just the reality of the situation. Of course, it is family that knows you the best.

Yes yes yes yes and yes. Wish I'd known I was an INFJ earlier in life.

True. I obsessed over a childhood crush for many years. When he finally noticed me, 30 years later, reality didn't come close to fantasy.

@amyitis

4 ай бұрын

I know, what a mean trick your mind plays of looking at potential. I was obsessed with an old friend for over 10 years.... finally happened and only lasted 2 months before I left. Time to get our minds into reality

Sharing leaves me with a vulnerability hangover. Doesn’t feel good. 😝

@rc9266

2 ай бұрын

then only share the unimportant!

Mostly, I tell people what they want to hear when I choose to deal with them, otherwise, I no longer give a hoot if others like me, or understand me.

Being an INFJ is the best personality type to be on this planet. To have the power of courage over fear, a well crafted integrity-based living system, intuition to readily identify excessively self-interested people, and soooo much more. I went from a dire search for peace in my college years, to a lasting serenity and understand that my path is profoundly good, meaningful and that frankly, it is too bad the vast majority of people do not understand this excellent approach to life. It is a choice on how you want to handle your INFJ type though. There are many high profile people who are INFJ, both great and some evil. Take the pressure off yourself and just try to make the world a slightly better place, look forward to engaging in meaning, not explanation.

I dont leave early i stay to help clean up or pack up or whatever...I need to make sure everything is well and taken care of then I leave

@jennacuracoa

Ай бұрын

Exactly how I feel unless it's a huge event with a lot of people

@carolparsons4794

9 күн бұрын

I feel the same. I cant leave it unfinished

I don’t what it is, but her facial structure, her teeth configuration, her eyes, they all align with her personality… I love it - very cute, very beautiful, very insightful.

I started leaving birthday parties early at about at age 7. Maybe I’d last forty minutes, then I’d have to walk out. Parents looked at me like I was crazy. I was just bored and irritated. I thought Pin The Tail on the Donkey, blindfolding a kid then spinning him around in a circle was abuse disguised as fun.

@marcp.1752

4 ай бұрын

I never celebrate my birthday since i was 14. It felt odd. My friends...well, they haven't been deep enough for my taste. It felt too superficial for my taste. I get crazy when i have too many ppl around me. It drains me emotional, psychologically. All that B$, gossip & chitchat, it's overwhelming. Therefore, i always have my lunch alone. (or with my gf before, but this is a thing of the past)

@sukiyakking9138

4 ай бұрын

@@marcp.1752 i feel the same way.

@marcp.1752

2 ай бұрын

I've had my last b-day "party" with 14- and told my friends (after having a cinema 99% for ourselves, plus 1-2 other ppl) this is it - there's no more birthday celebration ever again, it sucks, i don't want it anymore. My friends found me crazy, i've found it total ordinary. And Now >3 decades later, still...that was the perfect choice as kid.

Sometimes it's childhood trauma keeping you obsessed with that romantic interest. My reasons to be obsessed were also things I didn't get from my father. I think our INFJ and trauma can go hand and hand. But hearing it in this way takes the pressure off the trauma but the trauma helps to pinpoint the issues a lil more quicker. Not everyone is an INFJ and they also get into dating (not healthy) patterns and obsessed w potential partners.

@sspencer4036

4 ай бұрын

Agree, the term Limerence covers what you explained. Very eye opening.

@marcp.1752

4 ай бұрын

And more worse is, you don't get a possibly relationship, that kind of person, because you've grown older...well, anyway. Sometimes, meditation could be helpful. As long, as you're fine with your own thoughts, your inner & outside world, it's fine.

@mariaayala6000

19 күн бұрын

@@sspencer4036 I had never heard the term limerence. 👍

As for habit #2 For me, I would differentiate between get-togethers in which I participate willingly and with joy and those that I attend because I live in a society. If I'm meeting my dad's side of the family (with whom I have a great connection), I will need to recuperate AFTER but I'm staying as long as it's socially acceptable, and then some, because these meetings ground me, fill me with life-energy and usually become core memories. If my best friend is organising a party, then I'm the first person there, and the last one to leave, too, staying to help clean etc. (though I might not talk much by the end). If we're talking "courtesy" socialising ("I don't hate you and can't find a way to refuse the invitation, nor do I crave your company and conversation is a bit of an effort"), then I'm obviously one of the first out, unless I find a way to help out in the kitchen or with any practical things away from the crowd (just let me out from behind that table pretending to enjoy participating in the inane conversation). That might be because I socialise very rarely, but if I feel connected to someone, I will stay up until the wee hours even if it's not prudent, I'll go hungry to keep the conversation going, I'll put off other plans if possible. However, if we mean get-togethers that drain rather than fuel, then obviously I'm out as soon as I've fulfilled the social obligation.

As a senior citizen in the group (I'm sure there are others) I enjoyed hearing this and comparing it to my actions when younger as opposed to now - and especially after having cultivated Fe for about 63 years. Also, a mitigating factor was having to deal with two chronic conditions - mononucleosis in the 20s and lupus starting in the late 40s. Let's just say that made the habit of leaving a party early easier to understand! 🙂 All these points resonated with me, but especially #3 - having the urge to "explain" things. I often felt obligated to do this at home. However, I soon learned that it wasn't as necessary as my family led me to believe. It was a big relief to find out, while studying systematic assertiveness training that one of the "assertive rights" was that we are not obligated to give a lot of excuses or reasons for our behavior. And I learned and saw thst for every person who demanded an explanation, there were probably 20 who didn't. So if I needed to change plans or make different decisions, I found that by saying, "I have the details if you need them, but I am (going to, not going to, etc ... whatever) Usually that's taken care of most "explaining." and there's been no bad reaction.

#5, i do listen to others far more than I share. But, lately a new interest actually wants to hear about me, wants to find out things about me. It seems odd to me, but we do share in-depth, far more than I've shared with my lifelong friends, far more than with my husband, far more than anyone else. To be emotionally intimate is good for me at this stage in my life. I actually like it--but only with this particular person.

Thank you! The overexplaining and oversharing, the obsessive relationship experiences (limerant attachments, anyone?,) and feeling like nobody gets me no matter what I say, it just hit home. Feeling misunderstood vs not caring about being understood is something I'm working through now, and I'm greatful for this video because it actually kind of answered a question I posed to the universe earlier today. 😂 I really appreciate your work, it has helped me tremendously in seeing my core self and appreciating myself for what sets me apart instead of internally moping about 'not fitting in'. The comment sections of your content are one of those few places I really can feel comfortable authentically opening up about my experiences and my progress in rediscovering my core self.

@theADHDinfj

4 ай бұрын

Couldn’t agree more about her and also the comment section in her videos 🎉🎉🎉

@marcp.1752

2 ай бұрын

I do know since all my life, i am HSP. Well, at least that i am different, since pre ground school. Figured out, i am INFJ serveral years ago - and since then, i see whileas life is always being, what it is - this way. Nowadays, even at work, i don't give a damn, over-explaining myself. ppl don't get me quite often, they do have a different mindset, and different own drum set, they're following, too. It's ordinary, to be misunderstood. Ordinary ppl can't look over the plate, sad but true. They simply dont get it. It doesn't make sense.

I enjoy being a INFJ...I LOVE LEMONS TOO!!

spot on. i always feel i need to explain myself, and then i get to a point where i feel i am over explaining, and at the same time, i don't feel i need to apologize for who i am. but yet i do explain myself, in hopes of being understood. this is enlightening. some people may never understand and the infj needs to give themselves a break.

100% accurate. I’m just about always the last person to show up & the first to leave a gathering. Large groups make me uncomfortable & what you said about not having the capacity as an INFJ to help a lot of people is also accurate. I’ve come to the conclusion that I’m glad not everyone reaches out to me for guidance & support. If they did I’d probably commit myself to a psych ward.

TO ME IT'S ALWAYS OF HOW I CAN BE LEFT ALONE😂😂BUT, ALSO BE SOCIAL AT THE SAME TIME. EVEN IF I AM HELPING YOU. HOW CAN I HELP YOU TO CHANGE YOUR MINDSET ETC SO YOU CAN NOT COME BACK TO BOTHERING ME WITH THE SAME ISSUE. NEGATIVITY IS SOO DRAINING FOR ME💯💜♓️

Explaining explanation? is truly in a way powerful

That "tea" situation is exactly what happened when my friend started struggling at work recently. She expected me to bring a cup of something, not any of my advice which she didn’t ask for in the first place. Explaining myself... nobody is willing to wait for the answer or expression (mostly) and if I take a shortcut, nobody understands it. And I understand.. there is nothing to complain about, but it sucks a lot.

Yes all Five Points. Found that looking for Emotion from other People very hard to shake. Not much internal emotion ( save for Music) , hopeless ' Junkie ' on others moods for a Long Time.

all of them, and I outsmarted a psych doctor who decided to gas light me. So im good.

@JB52520

2 ай бұрын

When one sees enough of them, one becomes familiar with the process they use. It becomes apparent when personal feelings get in the way of professional detachment. Some have an agenda (like recruiting for religion or veganism), and some just don't like a challenge. It's too bad I haven't met one with an agenda to end loneliness, but for some reason they never introduce their clients no matter how isolated and touch-starved. Isn't it sick that there are rules against it? Or maybe they just don't care. One simple action at no cost, and everything is better. But maybe the cost is not being able to sell antidepressants, antipsychotics, ECT, hospital stays, ketamine, and suboxone for the self medicators. Despair is profit, as long as we don't die.

This is me 💯! I have as I've matured, and especially after learning of being an infj, begun to implement a lot of these things. Great advice as always!😃

How to deal with sharing with others rather than being the one who listens, helps solve issues etc. I’ve been aware and tried to say more of what’s about myself, and I realised they don’t want to hear it, they want me to listen or help not talk about myself. This has happened several times, my conclusion is that few people genuinely listen or are interested to listen.

Beautifully on point ❤thank you❤

The part about relationships was spot on! I have recently been just realizing I am addicted to the yearning. It is the ultimate problem which can’t be solved.

My sister came to see me a few months ago. She stayed at a cottage (I have a 1 BR) and each day she visited she understood I needed a little down time. We hadn't seen each other in 14 years. We had SUCH a wonderful time together. So much so she is coming next month to visit.

My cousins affectionately joke that I'm always the first to leave. I can't help it. When I've had enough I just go. I don't care what is happening.

I love this video. It's 100% what I have experienced. What is really helping me out is my writing and performing. The more I sing, do public speaking and share my creativity, the more I am energized. I am manifesting what I desire. I am meeting new people and opening new doors to opportunity. By being my authentic self, I am helping others get in touch with themselves. My INFJ, Dark Lilith , Pluto essence is very intoxicating, but only when it's on full blast all the time. If I try to control that part of me, it just looks manipulative and insane instead of inspired.

The ignorant people consider you insecure as an INFJ because we constantly explain ourselves. It can be a huge turn off for the ladies.. In my experience, I have so much vast information. I can't put into one sentence..

Spot on with all habits you listed. Thank you for reaffirming these thoughts yet again 😊

Guilty AF, especially from that 3rd point. Thank you again Wenzes

This brought me to tears within a way that truly hits home A place I haven't checked in for quite some time

Love is so rare but when found it truly lights the mirror of my soul.

Thank you Wenzes. You explain my INFJ-ness so well. Your video’s are study material that I treasure. You have changed the way that I look at myself and that has changed my life, step by step ❤️.

I definitely leave early. I did so @ my most recent choir performance. My younger INFJ friend stayed though. I tend to always drive to get togethers, so I can leave early. I also prefer a mindset change when helping people, but I can comfort as well. As a counselor in training, both are valued in my field of study.

LOL I laughed out loud for #4--obsessing over a romantic interest. For years, at least 20, a person who lives in another state has been my obsessive interest. yeah, the thing is, he breadcrumbs me every once in awhile and I get hooked again. lol oh well, it's been fun and interesting. we see each other every three years or so.

Very nice Wenzes 🎉

Sooooo true ! I’m learning to feel comfortable not explaining myself anymore…

Super video. Sympathetically displayed. That is me, right there. Instant like 😃

All of this information,explains who I am & the way I see others and the world.

Oh I was smiling and laughing along with every point Wenze described. Did I have to listen to each one as described? Sure, an added reminder even to the point of responding who cares when trying to explain over and over, they just won’t get it, what they will get is the action I take for myself, for me which was counter productive to be a pleaser, I am going to hurt someone… not really, when I stand my ground, I am loving myself more and gaining confidence to get stronger… so people won’t get me, oh well. It will be through my intent of my actions to what I want… a learned step by Wenze from this channel. Did I learn something new as an INFJ, sure takes practice, work, and love of self to continually grow as an INFJ, yay yippee 🥳

you catched me!

Yup. Excellent especially leaving early after having a lovely time!

HABIT #2: YOU LEAVE GET-TOGETHERS RATHER EARLY I don't do this. Then again, I don't engage in alot of Social Get-Togethers; because, I have No Social Life. I have very strong Negative Energy; and, I avoid others because of it. Even at Social Get-Togethers. What I have experienced as a High Schooler was that I could hang out with my friends for a few Days in a row; but then, want to spend a Day to myself, or away from them; even when, they ask me to engage in a Group Thing that I would like to do with them. In Large Get-Togethers, I would hang around a group for a bit; then, find another group to hang around for a bit; and, so on. The only reason I would want to leave a Get-Together is because there is Bad Energy at the Get-Together; or, there is a Bad Person/Group at the Get-Together; or, my Negative Energy is affecting the Get-Together.

seems receiving clarification beyond any doubts is the daily m.o. & yr explanation maxed this up... W o w... ty...

I love this!

Re: #4, I have a bad habit of obsessing over guys at work as a way of getting through the mundanity of my job. Unfortunately I can’t switch jobs right now because there’s a lot of benefits to staying, and I really need the stability at the moment. Developing an obsessive crush seems to be the only thing that’s gotten me through most of life 😅 I also did this to get through school..

INFJ can be a lonely place. My heart was broken 22 years ago, I’m 44 now. Been on one date since. Im a handsome yet humble man, complimented often. My friends no longer show up. I can trust very few with my energy. The rest I am very easily deterred by their own. Solitude is both my curse and my sanctuary. I honestly love being me. I pray there is someone who I may let in. Shatter the walls before I perish from this Eden.

Very true!

I feel like this was reading my mind, but you're a power house all on your own. I thought, gosh what a conversation she and Jay Shetty would create! Guess who was in the feeds! Jay!

You blew me away with #4…. A short story is here; if anyone wants to read it. (not about the romantic obsession; about the foreign countries part)

@jlm517rocks

4 ай бұрын

dittos...more than once...duh...

Interesting, I have all of these. I have taken the test a couple of times. Sometimes I am INFJ and sometimes INFP. It apparently boils down to a couple of questions and the mood of the day.

Very interesting perspectives. Your explanation helps identify whether I am an INFJ or INTJ. Everyone exhibits all aspects to a certain degree, but these two types are strongest for me. It mostly depends on the context. My INFJ is strongest around those closest to me. I often "feel" other people's headaches when I get within a few feet (without even looking at them, it only requires close proximity). When I move away the "headache" goes away for me. This has only happened with 2 people so far (both in my family). I also tend to listen to the speech rhythms, tone, inflections, and other aspects when someone speaks than the words they use - also true for what they write. However, as a software developer, I tend to be highly analytical. I've been described as a very analytical in almost everything outside of personal relationships (science, history, etc.).

Ok... First things first. I despise the over use of acronyms, they are a waste of time and a distraction to an otherwise interesting conversation. I've always had an insatiable thirst for knowledge. As a child I taught myself to read at 4 years old. By the time I started kindergarten I had read a 10 volume set of book's that explained so much about human nature and the motivations at play that the only place I felt comfortable was in the company of people much, much older than myself. What I understand now is the fact that so much of what I see in others is a pure lack of understanding the repercussions of both action and in-action on themselves and others (very disappointing!). I'm not sure how this topic found it's way into my "suggestions" but I'm grateful, (I think?). Introspection seems almost a hobby that is far more interesting than the clown show that humanity has become and, in away I'm disappointed in myself for that attitude. At least I have a better understanding of the reactions of others to my personality thru this video. I've been called a sigma male, an introvert, a blah, blah, blah... but what the he!! is the full meaning of "I.N.F.J." and why the secret code, what makes a silly label so important? Going on 70 years old I'm at peace with myself "but" life is still better shared with a likeminded woman. It's a balance thing... A very wise friend once said of my plight "Wish with one hand, pick up rocks with the other and see which one fills up first"! Well... I'm still a rock hound. Almost forgot! Thanks for the video Wenzes.

You are simply super ❤

I was 15 when I met this guy I knew I wanted to marry. 9 years later I was!! Happily married for 12 years. Maybe I have mye infj traits to thank for my patience. 😊

💚Thank you. Thank you 💚👏😊

Omgosh the leaving is totally me

Great videos! are there any other people out there who are both INFJs and on the Spectrum (Asbergers)?

I tend to be as a vacuum cleaner for negative energy, It's the only way i can understand people and i need a lone space after. This is why i have never been really into relationships that have been functioning. Even if i meet the same person every day can be exhausting.

Thank you so much, I love your videos and they really help me understand myself more. I am curious about Habit #4 because I am currently in that obsession with someone. It is hard for me to understand what you mean by shifting that focus and power to myself. I really believe my life would be stronger and better with him in it. He can learn from me and I from him but it has been going on in my mind for a long time without much happening in the real world.

I'm an INFJ for certain.

Leave gatherings early? Why go, I was there a week ago. Lol

I never knew that the way I am has a definition and a label and I never cared to know if there’s any. I dissent about the 4th habit. I am SO pragmatic when it comes to romantic relationships, that I find really silly getting obsessed over someone who we can’t be with: it’s not productive at all. Being faithful to who I really am is what has always counted, regardless to anyone’s opinions. I don’t think that trying to put a label on categories of people is useful indeed because, depending on many factors like families, sports, school, teachers, trainers, books that we read, music that we listened to, the profession that we chose and the skills that we chose to develop, and many other factors, one can become what I call “a multilateral person”.

I really like your short hair style. ❤

If people are more worried about the fact they are or aren’t because I’ve understood everything and I’ve done testing and I’ve been enlightened by how much I actually do know. Thoughts become actions eventually

God Bless you ❤️👁️❤️

Shes soo pretty

A tortured soul that's all I am today.. trying to heal for tomorrow

Habit #2. Omg. It’s so me….

I was always late and left early

i have 4 out of 5 of these. the 2nd one is weird for me cuz i will stay in social setting for a long time. i dont necessarily feel uncomfortable. i have this underlying fear because i have no clue how long it will before i get any social interactions,people dont like to spend alot of time with me. sometimes it will be months between any social events for me,so i feel like i need to spend as much time as possible because i know i will be starved of human connection for a very long time.

@pitulanek

4 ай бұрын

Same! If it's a good social interaction, I want to squeeze it to the last drop because it's hard to predict when the next one will happen.

I swear mankind has to place a label and categorize everything and everyone to make it easy to deal with, I literally have to look up what INFJ even means. People are more complex and placing labels on them I think is a bad idea, it makes that person think they are X and others think they are X, when maybe they really aren't, or are just going through something at that point in life that makes them seem to be X.

I like to think that that's not our madness, most of the people are just dumb or shalow. They just don't see, or don't want to see bigger picture. I stop explaining myself long time ago.

I feel bad about not having the same capacity as the ISFJ to care for people Our role is a different one however... It's good to be mindful of that

💯 6:47

Merci Wendy j'étais un amoureux imaginaire. Je vais mieux.

I stopped explaining myself cause i will give the truth onnce and then if ppl lie i tap

How about just taking the Myers-Briggs test?

crystalline guidance with raisia her song I AM you will like it and thanks for what you do.

I don't know, it's all so complicated and weird being an INFJ. Can I try being another type instead? lol.. I have no social life, cannot relate to social butterflys.

Yep 😂

Like any other human beings infjs are at the depth of their minds first human and then they're different so much so that they become rare people who have a rather specific minds that make themselves by their own habits developed since they started to realize about the difference that they make characteristically but seemingly enough indifferent to what most people would plunge into needful action in real time but infjs I don't know, have a reaction time much more than others to get in touch with a needed action and this laggardness finds infjs in a sphere which is small and so tough that they struggle in companies which don't like the kind of inertness infjs possess, by and by they become almost unexplored by most people who are more at extroverts enjoying life in a general way and they make larger portion of any community and being nearly out of the mass their system makes a tumbling block to find their own community a little more larger and larger to find same kind of people who understand themselves very well and this probably makes a world of difference for anachronistic infjs to unfold themselves! I believe, there's always a darth of understanding people around infjs but this darth doesn't matter much to any infj whether in single or in a small group until they, especially the loners, are in a difficult spot to get home their pov to the throng they are still didn't have to work on such events and being very introverted they start struggling to find some who understand their special language! Special because what the struggling infj wants to make it understand in their way to have it done but now they are fish out of a water where different fishes abounds in, maybe better, if not the best, in a given communion! Sometimes it becomes so intense that the infjs never thought of because, at least it occurs me, that most of the time people like me loves to be in a daydream far far away than real world where down to earth people rule the roost when an infj broods over her prince charming, writing a few lines for him what appear farfetched to most real people, or thinking of a picture in their mind much so abstract before they're made, or even venture into something which other always fear to at a given time in life and now think you try to put on track such a personality like putting a derailed coach on its track again! Now you must strive to find some breather by saying approving words like, this will pass! You know world War l passed, ll also passed and we have fifty six at hand and it'll also pass but even the warmongers don't know how much time they require to give us a world when there'll be no war zone and none of us have difficult to reach where we actually belong to give vent our very self with unmatched joyfulness! 😂😂❤❤ Love is in the air, I'm sometimes beside myself to expressions that does very much mismatch my very much and when I find myself to unfold I try my best not leave anything unexplored to recompense my folies out of infj rage!

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I'm pretty sure i'm INFJ but sometimes get INTJ on the tests. Do you know the best types of girl I should be dating?

INFJ is natural born sage

love animals dont eat them

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Would anyoe explain the acronyme?