Normal Girlfriend vs INFJ Girlfriend
INFJ Girlfriends be like... (comedy sketch)
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@TrueSunara
Жыл бұрын
You must be covering all the NI doms first? 😁
@JunieBug
Жыл бұрын
I'd love to see more INFP stuff.... Not like I'm an INFP or anything. Asking for a friend.....
@suburbohemian
Жыл бұрын
Oh yeah, as an INTJ mom that was hysterically accurate....especially with letting them wear what they want and lettng their grades be something they learn ownership of...
@mailill
Жыл бұрын
Keep the INTJ stuff coming, please. What about a video with INTJ bf with INFP gf? Yes? (Or INTJ bf with INF bf - or INTJ gf with INFP gf, gender doesn't really matter)
@esperance2814
Жыл бұрын
Omg this is literally me 😂
My favorite part about being an INFJ is that we’re supposed to be all squishy and touchy-feely - which we are - but we are also brutally analytical. 😂
@heavnxbound
Жыл бұрын
That’s very true 😂 I sometimes get accused of being INTJ because of that.
@reneegraber
Жыл бұрын
Haha! Squishy and touchy-feely + brutally analytical. That’s accurate. 😄
@tinaperez7393
Жыл бұрын
Love it! Exactly! 😂
@whisperingwooper1763
Жыл бұрын
Factsss! It confuses me sometimes feels like I have two different sides my emotional side and my very analytical side they can definitely clash
@tybulmer4034
Жыл бұрын
Literally a touchy feely psychoanalyst....
As an INFJ, this is too relatable. INFJ’s do have that lovey-dovey energy, but we can also be very realistic and judgmental to the point that it’s comical
@watchingvideosnow
Жыл бұрын
Yesssss. Loved how you worded this :)
@megatronchan1282
Жыл бұрын
Yes, yes we do😌
@melissaelffmoff3105
Жыл бұрын
Yes often look back and laugh quietly to myself!
@RogueMamaStitcher1
Жыл бұрын
Agreed 😂
@StephanieLevan
Жыл бұрын
My entire life is a joke, so I just have to laugh at it, at this point. INFJ love ❤
“Oops I missed the turn, I was distracted.. I was thinking about stoicism”. This one got me, I’ve never felt so understood 😂
@lettierenak5213
5 ай бұрын
Me too that one was great for me
@hanatoh2119
5 ай бұрын
Me too! 🤣🤣🤣
@kalasue7
5 ай бұрын
Me too. I laughed so hard but usually I’m thinking of stoicism or how I could transform the roads with better public transport infrastructure.
@alexandrac.6352
5 ай бұрын
Right!!!??? 🤣🤣
@TheLavenderLover
5 ай бұрын
I laughed OUT LOUD for that one too. I see I am in good company here liking this comment haha!! 😂🎉
"sorry, i was distracted....i was thinking about stoicism"🤣🤣🤣 he is too accurate
As an INFJ, I can confirm that the majority of my closet is navy and dark colors. I cannot believe how relatable this video is
@dkh3834
Жыл бұрын
Especially dark colors😅😂
@correoordinario2010
Жыл бұрын
Mine is brown 😂
@OCDiva01
Жыл бұрын
Me only owning black or white
@Gabrielle-bb2zq
Жыл бұрын
Actually, I have a lot of different colors like white, red, yellow, blue, green, orange... but navy is really cool.
@f.s.9833
Жыл бұрын
ENFP here: mine is black, navy blue, white, electric blue, red. That’s all
I adore you. As an INFJ female, I can say everyone I’ve ever dated has found me to be refreshingly weird. Once I finally embraced my weirdness I became much happier.
@JesusComesFirst_21
Жыл бұрын
Totally relatable, I'm definitely a weirdo myself
@Indian_P.O.V_Canada
Жыл бұрын
oh glad i know now. I'll have to accept 😊😌😅
@achlys2116
Жыл бұрын
I am an entp and an infj girlfriend actually seems like... well just perfect. Like damn that thought process..woww
@Lulu._.1
Жыл бұрын
that makes me really happy for you! as a fellow female INFJ i think i’m currently trying to achieve that :)
@jamielawrence4749
Жыл бұрын
This is helpful! I will embrace it, too. I've spent so much time trying to tidy the edges of it. But seeing this video makes me proud! Lol.
“I don’t have to listen to you to know exactly how you’re feeling. Okay, so here’s what you should do.” 👌🤣
INFJ girl here. The texting one and not having the heart to tell them the truth is so accurate
As someone who has 90% navy clothing and thinks too much about stoicism, this is accurate
@merlin8647
Жыл бұрын
90% blue and 10% black😂
@npcmcishark7379
Жыл бұрын
@@merlin8647 Dark blue specifically, and 1% light blue for vareity
@phaneron
Жыл бұрын
My closet looks like a cartoon characters
@lunarodriguez7590
Жыл бұрын
Same.
@MaryDunford
Жыл бұрын
I can't do blue. It makes me look like rigor has set in. Otherwise, this sketch is scary accurate. 😅
I’m an INFJ woman and all of this is ridiculously accurate. Except for the all my clothes are navy part. All of my clothes are gray.
@ghostsheet777
9 ай бұрын
😂😂 i was like "mine are black actually" but yes other than that he read me like a book
@AmandaBabyyyyy
9 ай бұрын
All mine are black lmaooo
@aquaseahorselove3939
9 ай бұрын
The idea is that all our clothes are a neutral color and we aren't fussy. Mine are all mostly white. 😜
@pashakdescilly7517
9 ай бұрын
I'm an INFJ male. I get criticised (often tacitly) for liking colours. Men are supposed to wear greys and blues.
@lrwiersum
8 ай бұрын
Omg !! Best comment on the internet. Your deadpan humor just cracked me up !?
I love your videos about INFJs. I am an INFJ and I have felt misunderstood my entire life. My family has often shamed me or made me apologize for being an introvert (they think I'm rude or aloof because they are all extroverts on steroids). You actually seem to understand what I am thinking, how I feel, and why I am how I am. I know that I'm "weird" compared to other people, but at the same time people gravitate toward me. Strangers will tell me intimate details about their lives, then confess that they have no idea why they told me their secrets. My family calls me a "freak magnet" and belittles me. I cannot help who I am, nor can I change who I am.
@bethb.6813
6 ай бұрын
Yo. Please consider setting up a little more distance from folks who are judging you in a hurtful way. You don't need that negativity. My suspicion is that you may be young and think you have to take it. You don't. And you don't have to fight either. Just see them less often, for shorter periods. It may help you to stop reciting their judgements. It may help to practice with friends or strangers how to politely correct assumptions, while not engaging about the mean thing that was just said to you. Good luck.
@abcdefghijk8925
6 ай бұрын
It's cause y'all have little ears attached to your heart & ppl can sense that.
@Alta90
6 ай бұрын
No te sientas mal, yo también me he dado cuenta que atraigo gente que necesita ser escuchada o comprendida (autistas, síndrome down, personas ansiosas, etc).
@ukemeedet3070
5 ай бұрын
I love you, platonically. Keep being you. P.S. I wrote 'platonically' so I won't scare you off. -An INFJ.
@AshleyB-xh1qh
5 ай бұрын
I totally relate. My family teases me too but mostly for being absent minded bc I am always thinking so sometimes I feel like I do things on auto pilot so I forget where I put things 😂 I finally found the perfect career as a hairdresser bc people don't get as freaked out that they're telling you their entire life story (trauma dumping lol) bc everyone expects their hairdresser to be a counselor as well. And I really don't mind. When I worked at a grocery store however, it would get real awkward when they'd open up like that in the 2 minutes it took to check them out 😂 Also I'm pretty sure most INFJ are neurodivergent (in the best way)
I am an INFJ Female and this is 100% spot on. I own 10 of the same shirt in 10 color variations of blue and green. My husband teases that as soon as I find a shirt I like I just buy all of them and wear them for 10 years until they are rags and I need to go find all new ones. I love your videos. I binge watch them int he corner of my screen while I work.
@MariaFlores-qn8yv
6 ай бұрын
SO relateable! I'm wearing the lavender version of a blouse I bought last april! I've got navy blue, light blue, lavender and just bought the deep purple one! ✨
@crazysingingchick
3 ай бұрын
I am the same way!!!!
@skittles2
2 ай бұрын
Mine is all white. I didn't know it was a thing until I came across this video. I just thought I have zero fashion sense. But that's probably also true.
@transitionsnc
2 ай бұрын
OMG. I'm an INFJ woman and I do the exact same thing!
@ksquid1457
2 ай бұрын
I do the same! I was goth in high school, which I loved, but --ain't gonna lie -- there is a part of me that was just happy all of my outfits matched 🤣
As an INFJ wife, I've done the "we're having a disagreement, but we can stop the conversation because it's probably something I just need to work on myself" response to my husband many times, lol!
@Von_DBL
Жыл бұрын
As an INTJ, I would love to hear that because I would do the same on my side but not telling it. 😁
@rebecabocanegraramos4419
Жыл бұрын
@Flavien I'm an infj and my husband is an intj, and is awesome, thank God when we argue it is something like this, or like a conversation more on detailed about something we are annoyed about, but there is never yelling or making feel the other one bad, just a process of growing for each of us. Making the other see what could need more work in other to be the person God wants him or me be.
@rasheedamuhammad144
Жыл бұрын
Most accurate 😂😅😂
@5050TM
Жыл бұрын
"It's probably just me. Sorry. Yeah pretty sure it's just me." Said this the other day because I was being genuinely over sensitive.
@elysebuehrer5981
Жыл бұрын
I’m an INFP, but that one hit!
I almost spit out my coffee at “I was thinking about stoicism” 😹 this is gold
@ericalane7220
Жыл бұрын
Same girl, same.
@bookenjoyer3970
Жыл бұрын
Literally me but thinking of existentialism instead 😂
@phieulink91
Жыл бұрын
Hahaa me too 😂😂
@bizzlecrafts
Жыл бұрын
Literally have the Stoics app on my phone so I can mentally roast them each morning. Except Epictetus, he's pretty reasonable.
@loriandfaith
Жыл бұрын
Golden!
contacting somebody from the past and being upfront about why I haven't cut them off yet is so real 😭
@cindithomas7440
19 күн бұрын
Hey, some of us crave closure and many times the only way to get it is to give it. So once you've said your piece, you can move forward
“I missed my turn, cause I was thinking about stoicism”… so true 😂❤
As an INFJ female, I can confirm the 100% accuracy of this video. While we might've dated emotionally unhealthy people, as we progress in life, we're intuitive enough to sift through hours of content on phycology and childhood trauma work so that we end up with healthy partners. 😅 I can also confirm British television is mostly all I can stomach because it's relaxing. Intense or violent stuff is too stressful. 😂
@janad996
Жыл бұрын
I relate to all of that, watched a horror movie and got stressed out for 3 days, better chill watching relaxing stuff from now on
@queerantine69
Жыл бұрын
I don't relate to the navy blue. I love colour 😂
@Julia69016
Жыл бұрын
All I want is to watch Peaky Blinders but I don't want to dedicate days of rhetoric and a month of emotional involvement.
@wittymystic7361
Жыл бұрын
I'm the same; however, I do enjoy a splash of color in my clothing, especially during spring.
@rachellechavez9739
Жыл бұрын
I'm so mad that I can't get a degree from all the psych lectures I've covered here and medical journals.
'I only have the emotional capacity to watch *insert show/film* for the 3rd time' and skipping over stressful parts is hilariously accurate 😅 I feel so seen 💕
@Zamek13
Жыл бұрын
😅 Same
@m.m.4565
Жыл бұрын
Yessss that was soo relatable it was spooky. 😅 sometimes i watch new shows but look at all the episode descriptions to prepare myself for whats to come if the show is too suspensful/stressful.
@isisribeiroaesthetics3667
Жыл бұрын
literally me if there's too much stress in the movie I'll probably try to distract myself because it just gives me too much anxiety and I can't stay still and that suck for me as a film editor T_T
@JosieGoyangi
Жыл бұрын
Yes! When my partner and I watch anything with violence or too much suspense, I just read Romance Webtoons during stressful scenes 😅
@youbelonghere74
Жыл бұрын
@@isisribeiroaesthetics3667same omg and I wanna be a filmmaker 😭 I had to watch so many stressful films for my film course
Omg the cry about the anniversary is hilarious 😂 that infj girl is so me I can’t remember things my friends told me yesterday or at the beginning of a conversation
As an INFJ I've never felt so called out in my life. LMAO!
As an INFJ that has WAY too much black clothing in my wardrobe, I resonate with the “just found out all my clothes are navy blue”
@audrinaparshall3294
Жыл бұрын
Mine is a maroonish pinkish purple? I don't know the name of it but it's apparently the only color I own now 😂
@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439
Жыл бұрын
I've NTENTIONALLY told myself to add more colour to my wardrobe in last 5 years, but here I am wearing a navy blue top and black pants . I have to be more intentional next time
@Moi-io7yi
Жыл бұрын
I alternate between black and navy blue. But recently I've tried to add a little more colour to my wardrobe while somehow still managing to squeeze in something black or navy blue.
@AL-pk2mu
Жыл бұрын
Black is my favorite color.
@cxyk
Жыл бұрын
All four seasons of clothing: Black
I love INFJs. They all are so self aware and also very caring while standing their ground and not confusing being selfless to sacrificing their own space. Also, they are really like cats lol they feel your sadness or stress and immediately know what is the best for you to do. Best advices by INFJs.
@AmidalaEmma
11 ай бұрын
yes, my ex bf used to describe me as like a cat
@misseshia2842
10 ай бұрын
Aww🥰 How sweet! As an INFJ being described as a cat would be so cute. I either get ignored, called silly, screen saver, or weird. My Bosses are irritated by me and my co-workers like me. My family and friends are used to my "quirks".☺
@ASch-re8fo
10 ай бұрын
Ey, I'm not. I'm definitely a golden retriever. Yes, we also exist 😜😊
@BlondebitchCastiel
10 ай бұрын
Bro I feel so appreciated rn 🥺🥺😭
@GleamDrawz
10 ай бұрын
Kinda got the first part wrong…. I am not self-aware and I most of the time think being selfless means the same thing as sacrificing your soul to whoever's around you’s mercy..
😂😂😂😂 “I was distracted because I was thinking about stoicism” So true! INFJ girlfriends are the best girlfriends.
I'm INFJ-T and 90% of these not only were so accurate but incredibly funny. Nailed it😅😅😅
Not the "Im upset but it has more to do with me so let me just process it" and the "I don't have the emotional capability to watch certain movies." That's too accurate 😂
@wanderin-wonder
5 ай бұрын
I'm an ENFP but these 2 traits are spot on for me too.
@vaultdweller4020
5 ай бұрын
I’m INFJ and I love fucked up movies like Oldboy so idk if I qualify for that one 😭
@arelysarelys2515
2 ай бұрын
Yes . I blame it on me for not being strong enough to not let stuff affect me.
As an INFJ I can relate to the antique store. I was in a museum which held ancient dead bodies they dug up on display and while everyone else was enjoying the morbid display all I could think about was how disrespectful it was to put them poor souls on display instead of giving them a respectful buried plot 🤷♀️
@YeshuaKingMessiah
Жыл бұрын
As an INTJ I can’t understand why u want the shells of humans buried instead giving up the treasures of discoveries they hold for us now. The human has been gone from that sac of flesh for millennia. They don’t care what u do with it.
@christinadavies2490
Жыл бұрын
@@YeshuaKingMessiah well I guess your more scientific then spiritual. Some people believe the nature of the type of burial that a person has decides on how the soul sleeps. How do you know that the person slaying on that slab is at peace with people staring at them day to day in a museum? You wouldn't know that unless you could speak to their soul
@yesplatinum7956
Жыл бұрын
I doubt they will have any issues finding a body in the future but it’s my dream to become the next Lucy
@audrinaparshall3294
Жыл бұрын
I relate too! When I was a kid I loved the little house on the Prairie book series. Well I found the first one at a thrift store and bought it to re read. Well after finishing it there was a family tree of the linage of the Ingalls family etc. From the 1860s I think, well it hit me how long ago they lived and how they had lived and died so long ago, and how one day I am go to die too... yea it triggered an internal crisis. 😭
@alejandrathompson7687
Жыл бұрын
@@audrinaparshall3294 stop it. Ur mentioning is reminding my internal issue of that ….lol..
“I only have the emotional capacity to watch the great British bake off of the third time” Omg lol 😂 I relate so hard.
This is the funniest thing I've seen in a while. Stop it.
Do an INFJ Dad or INFJ Boyfriend sketch next 😂😂😂 This is so funny!
@FrankJames
Жыл бұрын
ok!!!
@selena1638
Жыл бұрын
@@FrankJames Do on maybe ISTJ mum or ISTJ girlfriend? This is so amazing
@facgce960
Жыл бұрын
INFJ dad would be so interesting!!
@DanLaw559
Жыл бұрын
As an INFJ male, the gf one was pretty similar. That's gotten me in a lot of trouble though. Maybe if I knew I was an INFJ back when I was younger, I could have explained myself better. However, I do like your suggestion. I'm also a dad.
@cotton-fly
Жыл бұрын
@@FrankJamesthis is the most INFJ response down to the amount of exclamation points so the asker knows we come in friendly lol. (Ps: I’m also an INFJ) hehe 😊
I don't even have a boyfriend but this is 300% me. The "I'll just work it out in therapy next tuesday" made me wheeze, scream and cry at the same time 🤣🤣🤣
@cherieswannhanson1482
Жыл бұрын
One time I was in my feels, and my husband at the time said why are you mad at me. And I legit said I’m deciding if I need to be mad at you I’ll probably work it out myself so just let me have some space for a minute. 😂😂😂
@michellecruznyan
Жыл бұрын
@@cherieswannhanson1482 😂😂😂 Like... I mean... isn't it just logical? Why would we start an argument when it's probably just a matter of perspective??? 🤣🤣🤣
@cherieswannhanson1482
Жыл бұрын
@@michellecruznyan absolutely! Maybe I’m just hungry. Maybe aunt flow gonna come tomorrow. No sense stirring everybody up until I’m sure.
@midloran
Жыл бұрын
Gotcha love the creative profile picture
@leahtheanimationfan40
Жыл бұрын
Most of the time if I'm upset or irritated with my boyfriend, it's a "me" problem. And we usually work things out on our own. He's an ISTJ and I'm an INFJ
This is, of course, hilarious. “It’s the rarest type.” And yet here we all are. 🤔 😂❤
I didnt know us infjs are so freaking blunt xD it all makes sense now 😅
I’m an INFJ woman who got engaged to my INFJ fiancé last November. We have the most analytical, logic oriented, pragmatic relationship. Our first conversations were about the biggest things in life and then slowly we began to work our way down to small talk. I was definitely this type of girlfriend 😂
@laurabarber6697
Жыл бұрын
I'm so happy for you both! 💝🙏💝
@berserkerbard
Жыл бұрын
@@laurabarber6697 Thank you 🙏☺️
@c_mendes
Жыл бұрын
Omg that’s so cool! Im happy you found each other
@NightNekomata
Жыл бұрын
I just found out my bf is also an INFJ! Very interesting and makes so much sense!
@yuyang444
Жыл бұрын
Congrats!! I was lucky enough to find another INFJ friend recently, starting at the secrets of the universe and then working our way down is SUCH a mood 😂
That "it turns out all of my clothes are navy blue" stabs me in the heart, I said that to myself almost every time I need to pick clothes.
@paolavalentina5798
Жыл бұрын
omggg I am an INFJ who has an entire wardrobe full of pink.
@pariahmouse7794
Жыл бұрын
@Paola Valentina haha, pink is the only colour in my wardrobe, the rest is black and grey...
@anisatms1308
Жыл бұрын
Most of my clothes are navy blue , black ...༎ຶ‿༎ຶ
@laurag7530
Жыл бұрын
I busted out laughing at that line
@elochkaa831
Жыл бұрын
Same, i felt called out😭
Thank you for making me realize i have a normal INFJ behaviour. I always thought i was some kind of weirdo.
The "thinking about stoicism while driving" made me guffaw out loud to any empty room, because it's Sunday, and honestly, why go out where there is people when I can stay home and be alone whilst wearing no pants?
“I don’t need to listen to you to know exactly what you’re feeling, so here’s what you should do.” OMG!!! I’m dying!!! 😂🤣
@indigogalaxy6341
6 ай бұрын
I had to go apologize to one of my friends LOL 🤣
@LuxValkyrie
4 ай бұрын
It’s true though!! I usually do!! 😅😅😅
@EmmalineLHoffmeister
3 ай бұрын
My husband is the normal girlfriend, and I am the infj. This is literally every day when he gets home from work. After 25 years he actually says, "You don't have to fix it, just listen. You can even zone out if you want, but act like you are listening." I do actually have to listen, though, because every so often, he ends with a heavy breath and then says, "Okay, tell me how to fix it the fastest way possible."
@KathrineJKozachok
2 ай бұрын
Guilty! 🙋🏼♀️
@nutthaporn_nw
Ай бұрын
Lol on this. So true. 😂
Lots of relatable points in here. The most relatable is when the INFJ pivots from sympathy to "now here's what you should do" - I always have a game plan for everyone.
@m1m1_
Жыл бұрын
but not for myself :,)
@scratchoriginalsdh
Жыл бұрын
That one made me laugh pretty hard.
@fraewn2617
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@Octavia_84
Жыл бұрын
The now what you should do is part actually killed me😂
@lindac6919
11 ай бұрын
Right? That's when I knew it really was me.
Lmfao the antique store! I felt that to my core, I went into one with my sister in Florida a couple of years ago. I said “geez they sell dead people’s stuff, I wonder if any of it is haunted… how would you know?” And the staff just looked at me like what I said was dark 😂😭
Thinking about stoicism, the British bake off, the father wound 😂😂😂 accurate AF😂😂😂
This is female INFJ,Noone knows how happy an INFJ feels being something relatable to them and so accurate. That stoicism and social media diet is so real. Frank, looking forward for more INFJ stuff Thank you so much...😊
@funonabun2970
Жыл бұрын
right? I was like, oh man how does he know?? xD
@Userm2155
Ай бұрын
Right! And it’s funny because it’s all mostly true.. especially the this is what you should do and the Steven one.
As an INFJ woman this is so accurate 😂 Except for the boring clothes part, I am a part-time fashion stylist
@ladyeam
Жыл бұрын
Same 😃! I love fashion and I only wear the "deeper" shades of color in the winter.
@trishnikasrija11
Жыл бұрын
Apart from the clothes… more than required
@just.callmemack
Жыл бұрын
I have so many clothes but I stick to my favorites on a cycle but I love colors but choose to wear neutrals have the time because it’s less effort most days
@shoshanna8475
Жыл бұрын
Funny, as a woman engineer, all my clothes are navy (lol). Now in my late 50s and with remote work, everything I buy is pink, lavendar, or red (with frills, lace, and ruffles...)
@JupiterN624
Жыл бұрын
I have been on some radical clothing journeys… I think, really, I am trying to appear normal. I would only wear grey if I could just be left alone and didn’t have to go places.
I lost it when you said distracted by stoicism ....I was seriously just watching YT vids on that the other day hahahaha
stoicism....you are hysterical, fun, and accurate 😂
As an INFJ, I can confirm that eliminations and just endings of TV shows make us nervous. We always expect the plot twist and also end up hiding our eyes for half of the show. Edit: thanks for the likes!
@just.callmemack
Жыл бұрын
I have entire C-dramas (40+ episodes) that I have watched to their entirety with the exception of the last episode because I don’t want it to end or I know the ending will upset me so I put it off for years now… now I have to watch them all over again because I feel ready 😂😂
@smason3541
Жыл бұрын
I just quit watching TV and movies altogether.
@peepsgacha4378
Жыл бұрын
So it's not just me!!!
@peepsgacha4378
Жыл бұрын
@@smason3541 BRO same 😂
@Akeoo7009
Жыл бұрын
@@just.callmemack being an infj i can relate, but then my anxiety would never let me sleep peacefully until i finish watching that last episode lol
I’m actually embarrassed how I’ve said or done almost every single one of these, my friends comment on my grey and navy wardrobe, and I skip any game show to the end elimination cause it’s just too much for me 😂 My parents also banned me from antique stores cause I wouldn’t stop commenting on the “dead people’s junk”
@SomeRandomGuy777x
Жыл бұрын
Fascinating. You can sense different energies from these old items if you try to feel it after salt cleansing your hands. (Check quareia for more) Not all dead people leave bad energies behind. - enfp
@heavnxbound
Жыл бұрын
@@SomeRandomGuy777x Energy is the capacity to do work, not a mystical aura :)
@SomeRandomGuy777x
Жыл бұрын
@@heavnxbound Lol, I knew a science sceptic would turn up. You can call it a sensable mystical aura if you prefer that instead of energy. Energy for me means all types of energies, physical, non physical and multi dimensional (interpenetrating emenation of creation source) Cross dimensional is not measurable for the time being, might never be. But its all an aspect of moving(energy) mind. Which does not fit well into the post-modern reductionistic paradigme no. I am well aware.
@Kate98755
Жыл бұрын
i don’t know why people want to pass stuff on, i’m missing the reason…my mother saves everything, has journals from her trips….and she’s sent them to us, why would i want to read about someone else’s vacation? yes i relate to dead peoples stuff
@cherylp.3347
Жыл бұрын
Ha ha, I’m like that. If reality tv, movies, etc get too intense I’ll look it up online to find out how it ends. “Oh good! She survives, yah she didn’t die.” Or ,” great I’m glad he won the competition, I’d be upset if that other narcissist guy won.” Or, good I can finish watching the movie because she does end up with him! 😂
Not me - an INFJ - researching stoicism and 2:20 spot on 😂 this is so good
"what day of the week is it? ... is it tuesday? IT'S FRIDAY?!" me all days of the week
"I don't need to listen to you to know EXACTLY what you're feeling..." is my favorite line of all time 😂❤
@RESMITHcarpentry
Жыл бұрын
HAHA right?
@pirateslife4me
Жыл бұрын
Truer words never spoken
@Liminal_Galaxie
Жыл бұрын
Always followed up with "now here's what you should do." Accurate 🏆
@jumpinggakflash2313
Жыл бұрын
It’s so true though. Lol
@kuhekaizen3426
9 ай бұрын
But people are very annoyed by this. And they dont listen and it i have to watch it going vorher Down the road.. how do yall do it that they want your advice?
As an INFJ that was so accurate in each part. You showed the struggle very well About forgetting the days of the week That's so true, I constantly have to check what the day is. btw thanks for the effort you put in, I love your content.
@rebeccacaldwell2065
Жыл бұрын
Same
@allisongallant9829
Жыл бұрын
Same!
@Darkness-ng8lv
Жыл бұрын
As an Intj who has an INFJ brother. That is the most accurate thing I watched about infjs
@sketchflix6425
Жыл бұрын
That's more like a human thing than a personality thing, right? No offense intended. I'm an INFJ-T. So.. just saying...
@PriHL
Жыл бұрын
I think the people in the drugstore yesterday were 200% more INFJ than me - they said it's already the 6th of April (it was the 4th) :) But maybe it was actually the 1st :)
Frank! THANK YOU for the best laugh session I have had in years. When you said, "It turns out all my clothes are Navy Blue" I completely lost my sh**t for like 10 minutes. I seriously have not laughed this hard since I can remember, so thanks for that, I needed it. (Here's a clue: I would NOT be the normal girlfriend.)
you got me real quick with the black coffee 😂😂😂
As an INFJ wife, I can say this is accurate.
@savesoil3133
Жыл бұрын
Oh yes, the 'is it Tuesday? It's FrIdAy???' Especially 😄 #SaveSoil #ConsciousPlanet
That "its Friday??" Part its totally relatable as an infj....there was a time when i even forgot my marriage anniversary and my husband was very upset at that😂
@RogueMamaStitcher1
Жыл бұрын
Oh yeah, definitely forgot a couple anniversaries myself , but my husband was right along side me forgetting too. My mom was amused she remembered before we did. 😅
@tessarae9127
Жыл бұрын
Lmao. Maybe that’s why I got married the day after Christmas, pretty hard to forget that, and no need to feel like we must buy extravagant gifts etc 😂
@Littlebird11
Жыл бұрын
I went for a year thinking I was 33 years old only to find out that I had been 32 the whole time..
@flippetskater
Жыл бұрын
I forget my own birthday. (And I get really anxious about other people's birthdays, because I forget them too, but they get upset about it, and I hate the upset. WAY too much responsibility for me. 😄)
@tessarae9127
Жыл бұрын
@@Littlebird11 omg haha 😂 I try to be friends with people who know that I will probably forget birthdays and such, but won’t hold it against me. Oye though I beat myself up for having an entire conversation with a new roommate and not once remembering to ask their name or introduce myself 😅😅😅
Well, looking at it THIS way, I'm a dang GIFT! 🎉 Thanks for the perspective shift.
Oh man, the last one stapped me! 😂
This is so painfully accurate. But we INFJ women definitely need more representation. Thank you!
@e.j1997
Жыл бұрын
are u kidding? 90 percent of mbti content is about infjs
@blanqui2040
Жыл бұрын
@@e.j1997 I haven't seen that but even if it's true, it doesn't mean is right representation. I do have seen a lot of stereotypes. Edit: Also I've seen much more "representation" of men, not women
@blanqui2040
Жыл бұрын
@@sonyastephens7583 Me too, and I feel most INFJs like quality things. But even then I feel like it is not something shallow or frivolous, but rather we have certain motives/deeper reasoning behind it.
@blanqui2040
Жыл бұрын
@@happydaze7386 are we really that few? I don't know the statistics
@andreimircea2254
11 ай бұрын
@@blanqui2040 Third rarest personality type in the world (as of 2018, a lot of places have the 2008 data which says we INFJ’s are the rarest).
You've really nailed that INFJ perma simultaneously incredulous, sad, unamused, concerned look😆
@lobalee1873
11 ай бұрын
Yeah, but also why he gotta call us out like that though? 😩😅
@bonnacon1610
10 ай бұрын
Resting INFJ face.
@purpleplatypus97
10 ай бұрын
I think he is one! If you search his videos by the oldest, it starts with an INFJ new year depression video. Makes sense why we feel so seen now. 😂❤
I expected most of them to be miss, but most of them are spot on actually
I love how brutally honest she is lol
Hi, INFJ here! That last part brutally wounded me, cause yes my ex had the same toxic traits as my father, and yes I broke up with him when I came to the realization that the relationship wasn’t going anywhere. Good night, shoutout to all my fellow INFJs’ who went through the same dilemma glad I wasn’t alone!
@user-oj5bw7sl8p
Жыл бұрын
I spent big part of my adult life, trying hard not to get involved with the guys, who had the same nasty character, as my father did.
@myself1122
Жыл бұрын
@@user-oj5bw7sl8p and I'm still single because I don't wanna end up with a guy who have same trait as my father
@TessChueh
Жыл бұрын
Mine was like my mother 😂😢😅😂
@tessarae9127
Жыл бұрын
That one makes me cry 😭😭
@ladycharlotte8693
Жыл бұрын
It’s messed up but we tend to marry the parent (in personality) that you don’t get along with
As an INFJ female, it is so nice to know there are more people like this. Two years ago I met another INFJ female and being friends with her has been like slowly uncovering we have this type of thing in common 😂 In my case, I only share my weird side with people I trust I guess :)
@PeterKnagge
9 ай бұрын
As an INFJ male, I also think it is nice to know that there are more people like this. Do you often wonder what the world would be like if the whole world was all INFJs? Hang on wait, what day is it?
@itsallabouthumanity6448
9 ай бұрын
I would love finally meeting another INFJ , it can get pretty “lonely” sometimes especially bc I am so ridiculously good at being alone but I also want to communicate with like-minded people or people that can bring value into my life and are themselves interesting and “weird” ( in a good authentic way) and yep I relate to the trusting part !
@samanthameraz8437
9 ай бұрын
hello! im an INFJ female, age 19. i struggle to make friends and struggle to relate to my peers, although i have a deep need for connection and intimate conversations. i feel empty during small talk but i can't seem to find many people who feel comfortable discussing the topics i ponder on every day of my life. i feel lonely quite often, even when i'm around others. people often tell me i go off on tangents and even make jokes to try to "get me to shut up", i always laugh and quite down but i'm curious what it would be like to have a conversation with someone just like me, someone who isn't just trying to watch the movie but also pause, reflect and talk about the little things that happen in the movie, i know this is a bit weird, like someone reaching out to you through a comment section on youtube weird but if you'd everrrr like to perceive each other's existence and maybe even talk about what it's like, my instagram is @xcybersamx but follow my personal if you'd like to see a closer look at the way i see things (linked in main instagram bio), tiktok is @cybersamm, i would LOVE to follow back so please let me know if you do. again i know this is weird, because even i think it's weird, but i am seriously so desperate for someone to ask "what're you thinking" and not be surprised or dismissive of my actual answer, it would be nice to be honest of what im actually thinking for once, and not always actively trying to simplify it in fear of intimidating or making my peers uncomfortable.
@blinx_edits
8 ай бұрын
yeah same lmao
@bethb.6813
6 ай бұрын
Tell me about it. I once talked with someone giving me advice. He raised a question of how people wear all of these masks. I didn't bother to argue. But, if you're an INFJ, you know that it's less like a mask and more like a mirror. We shine back at people what they shine at us. It's not to be rude, or even to hide. It's more like too much effort to over share. We just stick with what we have in common with the person we are talking with. So, it's efficient. However, if you have to go into a more public sphere, then as an INFJ, you have a dilemma as to how to remain authentic in this bigger, more complex space. I haven't figured that one out yet.
Are you spying on me? That was unbelievably accurate.
The Great British Bake-off one got me so good
I'm an INFJ and I really relate to watching the british bake off for the third time without elimination parts because I love repetitious activities but hate it when people get isolated/cut out of the program 😂
@samf.s.7731
10 ай бұрын
Yep, I feel you there. That was too real 😅
@bcarine8908
10 ай бұрын
Lol yeah I am only interested in how the cakes and pastries look 😂. I can't handle my favorites getting the boot 🥾
@plantagardenforever
10 ай бұрын
Same!
@sarahnewton2267
10 ай бұрын
Ohhhh so being an INFJ is why I relisten to Harry Potter audiobooks over and over but skip over the brutal endings. Same with movies.
@idiotic-qf7b
9 ай бұрын
my boi
I didn't realize skipping the emotionally heavy parts of programs was an INFJ trait 😂😂 lmao I feel very represented
@za2959
6 ай бұрын
So true.
@dollface6843
5 ай бұрын
So so freaking true! I like rewatching Outlander but the rape scenes you gotta be a psycho to watch those again 🤣🤣
The upset part and brings it on therapy is me. 😂
Not the great British bake off, navy blue, procrastination, and personality of our dad 😭 that was too accurate oml
The rewatching cooking and baking shows every week because I don’t have the energy to scroll Netflix is so accurate 😂
@ksquid1457
2 ай бұрын
I have been obsessed with Food Network ever since high school, at least. It's just so neutral and nice to have on in the background. Plus, I've learned a surprising amount about cooking and baking!
“It turns out all of my clothes are navy blue.” I ugly laughed so hard. 😂😂
@lifenotbills
3 ай бұрын
Currently, all my clothes are out of giveaway bins…so they are whatever. Which I’m pretty sure is the same as them all being navy blue. 😂
@susanjones8489
2 ай бұрын
Mom to me: Susan, why can’t you dress nicer.
Did you just document my life? This is so meeeeee
Omg I’m so glad I found this video and your channel! I feel so seen😂 and it’s so cool that INFJs are the most rare they said!
Being an infj female these three things fit me well: - forgetting the "special" dates (my memory is short and is willing to work only with super important stuff) - not paying attention to small things about myself (but I'm quite observant of others) - most on my clothes is neutral colored Because of that, some people think I'm mean to them. I'm really not, I'm just phlegmatic by nature haha
"I don't need to listen to you to know exactly what you're feeling." That hit me 😂
I'm dying - the navy blue wardrobe is so accurate
“I was thinking about stoicism” 😂 That is sooo me 😂
INTJ here married to an INFJ. Today I learned that having an INFJ girlfriend is exactly like having an INFJ husband.
As an INFJ: absolutely dead 😂😭😂💀 THE TEN YEAR LONG DRAINING TEXT CONVERSATION OMGGG😂😂😂😂 Also THANK YOU for making it honest and real instead of an "oh they're so mystical and gossamer" thing. I mean, we have our moments, but yeah it's mostly "all my clothes are navy blue" and "I don't have to hear your whole thing, I know what you're feeling, this is what you should do". 😂
@assassinsbleedacwalkthroug9947
Жыл бұрын
the 10 year long conversation part is so depressing lol, you can just imagine that guy thinks she likes him or something :( ::: XD
@maddart4445
Жыл бұрын
That last part is so true for me. I would never wear navy but black? That’s my jam.
@violetlight8138
Жыл бұрын
I have a 10 year text conversation too. He's nice but, omg..crazy and I feel I need to be his friend. Sometimes I just don't answer the text messages because he bugs me so bad.
The last one made me gasp! I mean the accuracy though...😢
Am seriously gonna die from how RELATABLE this is for me even without being a girlfriend 😂
Haha I am INFJ I just recently learned- this is pretty hilarious. How nice to read all the comments and realize I’m not alone. I definitely feel like a stranger in a strange land with most of humanity.
@nathaliadiaz832
11 ай бұрын
When I started to read the comments section, I also thought "wow, I'm not the only one" 😂
@Kiki15578
11 ай бұрын
Same I finally realised that all the contradiction in my head, not concentrate or lagging behind in conversation, the emotion attachment I have to something even it's small and a lot of stuff I couldn't explain before, I'm not alone
@KeylynLM
11 ай бұрын
Have you considered taking the Raads-R Test? A lot of INFJ are very very High Functioning Aspies. Myself included. My iNTJ is also Aspie and he’s what led me to get my diagnosis, though a diagnosis is not required ;) He came at me talking about all the BIG things most people would never talk about. We dove very deep from our first conversations, onwards. It still continues 8 years later, endless conversation and theorizing ♥️
@emilyjohnsen5715
9 ай бұрын
There needs to be a support group for all of us INFJ’s out there! LOL We are the rarest of the types and gotta stick together!
@benazirshabnam1690
9 ай бұрын
@@nathaliadiaz832same 😂
"it turns out all my clothes are navy blue" is so true!!! 🤣🤣🤣 Got me laugh out loud!
@samwarner2668
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, I felt called out by that one. 😂 I buy a 6 pack of t-shirts once a year. Same brand, usually all black but some years I have bought a pack of variety of colors 😂
@raqlew7021
Жыл бұрын
Omg same! What is the correlation to infj? I’m curious. I don’t own anything in color 🤣
@user-tb2mf5of4j
Жыл бұрын
😂 I gasped when I heard him say that! So true!
@elenachristian9860
Жыл бұрын
@Raqlew No idea why, but yeah. Lots of navy blue. Sometimes I switch it up, and wear black. I amalso Italian, though, so my accessories are colorful. But they must match, and have a theme.
@lynn2551
Жыл бұрын
My wardrobe is mostly jeans and plain t-shirts. I got a few floral shirts for summer and I don't like them.
I'm actually shocked how on point he is being an INFJ female!!! ❤ THANK YOU!!!
The Great British Bake Off bit is way too accurate :'D
I'm smiling because a lot of these are so accurate 😂 "is this Tuesday...?" Realising that at least half the clothes in my cupboard are navy blue. "I can totally understand where you're coming from. Here's what you should do." Um yes.
@sapphiredeanna146
Жыл бұрын
I also have so many generally blue clothes. Never thought that just an INFJ trait lol
@Reen2669
Жыл бұрын
Mine too! Is there some logic behind the blue clothing?
@polaroid2305
Жыл бұрын
r we the same ppl bc I also have sm blue but never my favorite colors ?? we must start a theoretical investigation
@araeast6923
10 ай бұрын
Blue is generally calming, maybe that’s why?
The reaction at the antique store is 100% accurate for me. I go to estate sales and get very sad when I see an individual or couple’s belongings laid out for sale, it’s so sad 😞
@hanayuuki790
Жыл бұрын
Although I didn't relate as much for the antique store but i do relate when it comes to abandoned places. Antique store just reminds me of how it used to belong to someone and makes me curious the story behind them. I never really thought of the death part.
@misseshia2842
10 ай бұрын
It is sad. I wonder who in the family passed and then I wonder if they would care that their things were being sold.
@Iera_Thaumaturgy
10 ай бұрын
@@hanayuuki790Same, as well that I don’t really see that Death as a bad thing, we don’t know what comes after it so i’m just fascinated by the thought as I see antiques where they are now, if that makes sense? And after that thought I go into a spiral how cool it is that it dates back to so many decades and that people from those times actually touched and possessed these things.
@theladynextdoor313
10 ай бұрын
As one who loves antiques and estate sales I must say I feel the same. The death doesn’t bother me but I do think about the history of the item and what that person’s life must’ve been like when I go into these places. It also makes me incredibly sad to see photos and other certain things that I would have cherished from my family members but nobody else in this person’s family wanted at all at estate sales. I always thank the deceased person for their treasures if I buy something. Then I smudge before bringing it in my house lol.
@plantagardenforever
10 ай бұрын
@@hanayuuki790 Same
You are just the absolute best! Thank you so much for roasting people like me in this insightful and really funny way.
I hate how called out you make me feel 😂😂
I would only change all blue clothes to all black, but the rest is so on point that it made me laugh and be scared, at the same level XD
@Squintillions
Жыл бұрын
Same
@laurenqueenofwolvesnicole
Жыл бұрын
I feel so related to right now lol
@Xaforn
Жыл бұрын
Gotta love the black. My mom wouldn’t let me wear black when I was younger, she always bought extremely bright colors, it was painful….
The antique shop is sooo accurate .. thinking about all the dead people and their lives .. I actually might remove the teapot lid and put the teapot to my ear maybe I will hear some of the voice were in their houses 😢
@OliviaBloomLuxuryCo.-hn1do
2 ай бұрын
Me an infj looking at all my thrifted furniture wandering if I should get rid of it cuz negative spirits might be attached to it even though I saged it😂
@chelsealeigh2417
Ай бұрын
Loved that 😄
@delilahirizarry9276
Ай бұрын
I thought I was the only weirdo
@Ana-lq9jp
Ай бұрын
I was in an antique store and saw a wonderful old mirror and literally said "Wow - think of all the things it's reflected in its lifetime!"
@MeganD-jc8rz
Ай бұрын
My people I thought I was a freak. Perhaps I am.
You see me, haha, very relatable, definitely spot-on!
"i was distracted.. i was thinking about stoicism. " love that
This was scarily accurate! And as an INFJ therapist, "I don't need to listen to you to know exactly what you're feeling. So now here's what you should do..." is embarrassingly close to my approach with clients.
@justme4037
Жыл бұрын
How is it to be an INFJ Therapist? Is it very stressful or overstimulating sometimes?
@wasnlos2676
Жыл бұрын
That does not sound like a good approach at all.
@spyraalexandra5742
Жыл бұрын
I had to learn to take a seat as a friend to just listen. I know I can feel how they feel, but it's valid to let them say it. I also started asking if they want advice or a story before jumping in. It's hard when all you want to do is stop the bleeding and fix the problem 😂
@winterwaffle16
Жыл бұрын
I literally came across your comment when he said it
@yoongisrose6968
Жыл бұрын
@@wasnlos2676 it's kinda funny ngl because even when I was a child INFJ you feel people's emotions so much more intensely like your living through it, feels very uncomfortable when you're young. As a therapist though I still just sit and listen an then sometimes I repeat the same things back to people until they themselves realize there issue, after that I wait till they look like they want to change what's happening
I've seen INFJ skits in social media and usually don't think they're very accurate, but this is spot on in ways I wasn't expecting! 😂 Even though I'm always trying hard, I feel like I never have the thoughts/behavior that people prefer, which can be discouraging. But seeing things portrayed by someone else helps me realize there's nothing actually wrong with the way I work!
@tori_spera
Жыл бұрын
I think it works so well because Frank is actually an INFJ himself.
@laimaravillon895
Жыл бұрын
Exactly! ❤
@your_grandma2441
Жыл бұрын
I barely open social media even if I do, my fyp is full of panda videos, cat videos and anime and mangas..... I'm mostly on youtube
ahhh the tv series one is like when people dont understand why ill play the same game 9 times but dont have the energy to start a new one
“i was thinking about stoicism” 😂😅
I'm sending this to my boyfriend and all my friends so they can deeply understand me without having to actually talk to them. Thanks FJ! 😊👍🏽
@GENRTS
Жыл бұрын
Hahaha could have been a good meta scenario in this video
Lol as an INFJ this made my boyfriend laugh and say, "Girl, you've been exposed"😭🤣
Oh my goodness, the part with the ring being the focus and the INFJ is only thinking about the relationship and can see how far it will go is so me! Lol