Normal Girlfriend vs INFJ Girlfriend

INFJ Girlfriends be like... (comedy sketch)
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  • @FrankJames
    @FrankJames Жыл бұрын

    watch "Normal Mom vs INTJ Mom" next 👉 kzread.info/dash/bejne/lGSO0KSbhtK6Yqg.html

  • @TrueSunara

    @TrueSunara

    Жыл бұрын

    You must be covering all the NI doms first? 😁

  • @JunieBug

    @JunieBug

    Жыл бұрын

    I'd love to see more INFP stuff.... Not like I'm an INFP or anything. Asking for a friend.....

  • @suburbohemian

    @suburbohemian

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh yeah, as an INTJ mom that was hysterically accurate....especially with letting them wear what they want and lettng their grades be something they learn ownership of...

  • @mailill

    @mailill

    Жыл бұрын

    Keep the INTJ stuff coming, please. What about a video with INTJ bf with INFP gf? Yes? (Or INTJ bf with INF bf - or INTJ gf with INFP gf, gender doesn't really matter)

  • @esperance2814

    @esperance2814

    Жыл бұрын

    Omg this is literally me 😂

  • @Rosie-uf5ox
    @Rosie-uf5ox Жыл бұрын

    My favorite part about being an INFJ is that we’re supposed to be all squishy and touchy-feely - which we are - but we are also brutally analytical. 😂

  • @heavnxbound

    @heavnxbound

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s very true 😂 I sometimes get accused of being INTJ because of that.

  • @reneegraber

    @reneegraber

    Жыл бұрын

    Haha! Squishy and touchy-feely + brutally analytical. That’s accurate. 😄

  • @tinaperez7393

    @tinaperez7393

    Жыл бұрын

    Love it! Exactly! 😂

  • @whisperingwooper1763

    @whisperingwooper1763

    Жыл бұрын

    Factsss! It confuses me sometimes feels like I have two different sides my emotional side and my very analytical side they can definitely clash

  • @tybulmer4034

    @tybulmer4034

    Жыл бұрын

    Literally a touchy feely psychoanalyst....

  • @lemmontree_aly
    @lemmontree_aly Жыл бұрын

    As an INFJ, this is too relatable. INFJ’s do have that lovey-dovey energy, but we can also be very realistic and judgmental to the point that it’s comical

  • @watchingvideosnow

    @watchingvideosnow

    Жыл бұрын

    Yesssss. Loved how you worded this :)

  • @megatronchan1282

    @megatronchan1282

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes, yes we do😌

  • @melissaelffmoff3105

    @melissaelffmoff3105

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes often look back and laugh quietly to myself!

  • @RogueMamaStitcher1

    @RogueMamaStitcher1

    Жыл бұрын

    Agreed 😂

  • @StephanieLevan

    @StephanieLevan

    Жыл бұрын

    My entire life is a joke, so I just have to laugh at it, at this point. INFJ love ❤

  • @MiclaineElise
    @MiclaineElise6 ай бұрын

    “Oops I missed the turn, I was distracted.. I was thinking about stoicism”. This one got me, I’ve never felt so understood 😂

  • @lettierenak5213

    @lettierenak5213

    5 ай бұрын

    Me too that one was great for me

  • @hanatoh2119

    @hanatoh2119

    5 ай бұрын

    Me too! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @kalasue7

    @kalasue7

    5 ай бұрын

    Me too. I laughed so hard but usually I’m thinking of stoicism or how I could transform the roads with better public transport infrastructure.

  • @alexandrac.6352

    @alexandrac.6352

    5 ай бұрын

    Right!!!??? 🤣🤣

  • @TheLavenderLover

    @TheLavenderLover

    5 ай бұрын

    I laughed OUT LOUD for that one too. I see I am in good company here liking this comment haha!! 😂🎉

  • @chaylicedominic414
    @chaylicedominic4142 ай бұрын

    "sorry, i was distracted....i was thinking about stoicism"🤣🤣🤣 he is too accurate

  • @caroline6461
    @caroline6461 Жыл бұрын

    As an INFJ, I can confirm that the majority of my closet is navy and dark colors. I cannot believe how relatable this video is

  • @dkh3834

    @dkh3834

    Жыл бұрын

    Especially dark colors😅😂

  • @correoordinario2010

    @correoordinario2010

    Жыл бұрын

    Mine is brown 😂

  • @OCDiva01

    @OCDiva01

    Жыл бұрын

    Me only owning black or white

  • @Gabrielle-bb2zq

    @Gabrielle-bb2zq

    Жыл бұрын

    Actually, I have a lot of different colors like white, red, yellow, blue, green, orange... but navy is really cool.

  • @f.s.9833

    @f.s.9833

    Жыл бұрын

    ENFP here: mine is black, navy blue, white, electric blue, red. That’s all

  • @TheWhiskeyRomance
    @TheWhiskeyRomance Жыл бұрын

    I adore you. As an INFJ female, I can say everyone I’ve ever dated has found me to be refreshingly weird. Once I finally embraced my weirdness I became much happier.

  • @JesusComesFirst_21

    @JesusComesFirst_21

    Жыл бұрын

    Totally relatable, I'm definitely a weirdo myself

  • @Indian_P.O.V_Canada

    @Indian_P.O.V_Canada

    Жыл бұрын

    oh glad i know now. I'll have to accept 😊😌😅

  • @achlys2116

    @achlys2116

    Жыл бұрын

    I am an entp and an infj girlfriend actually seems like... well just perfect. Like damn that thought process..woww

  • @Lulu._.1

    @Lulu._.1

    Жыл бұрын

    that makes me really happy for you! as a fellow female INFJ i think i’m currently trying to achieve that :)

  • @jamielawrence4749

    @jamielawrence4749

    Жыл бұрын

    This is helpful! I will embrace it, too. I've spent so much time trying to tidy the edges of it. But seeing this video makes me proud! Lol.

  • @carrlafleurfamilyaccount8575
    @carrlafleurfamilyaccount85756 ай бұрын

    “I don’t have to listen to you to know exactly how you’re feeling. Okay, so here’s what you should do.” 👌🤣

  • @taylortimeless
    @taylortimeless29 күн бұрын

    INFJ girl here. The texting one and not having the heart to tell them the truth is so accurate

  • @npcmcishark7379
    @npcmcishark7379 Жыл бұрын

    As someone who has 90% navy clothing and thinks too much about stoicism, this is accurate

  • @merlin8647

    @merlin8647

    Жыл бұрын

    90% blue and 10% black😂

  • @npcmcishark7379

    @npcmcishark7379

    Жыл бұрын

    @@merlin8647 Dark blue specifically, and 1% light blue for vareity

  • @phaneron

    @phaneron

    Жыл бұрын

    My closet looks like a cartoon characters

  • @lunarodriguez7590

    @lunarodriguez7590

    Жыл бұрын

    Same.

  • @MaryDunford

    @MaryDunford

    Жыл бұрын

    I can't do blue. It makes me look like rigor has set in. Otherwise, this sketch is scary accurate. 😅

  • @miriam8376
    @miriam8376 Жыл бұрын

    I’m an INFJ woman and all of this is ridiculously accurate. Except for the all my clothes are navy part. All of my clothes are gray.

  • @ghostsheet777

    @ghostsheet777

    9 ай бұрын

    😂😂 i was like "mine are black actually" but yes other than that he read me like a book

  • @AmandaBabyyyyy

    @AmandaBabyyyyy

    9 ай бұрын

    All mine are black lmaooo

  • @aquaseahorselove3939

    @aquaseahorselove3939

    9 ай бұрын

    The idea is that all our clothes are a neutral color and we aren't fussy. Mine are all mostly white. 😜

  • @pashakdescilly7517

    @pashakdescilly7517

    9 ай бұрын

    I'm an INFJ male. I get criticised (often tacitly) for liking colours. Men are supposed to wear greys and blues.

  • @lrwiersum

    @lrwiersum

    8 ай бұрын

    Omg !! Best comment on the internet. Your deadpan humor just cracked me up !?

  • @user-nw8qc2bn1w
    @user-nw8qc2bn1w8 ай бұрын

    I love your videos about INFJs. I am an INFJ and I have felt misunderstood my entire life. My family has often shamed me or made me apologize for being an introvert (they think I'm rude or aloof because they are all extroverts on steroids). You actually seem to understand what I am thinking, how I feel, and why I am how I am. I know that I'm "weird" compared to other people, but at the same time people gravitate toward me. Strangers will tell me intimate details about their lives, then confess that they have no idea why they told me their secrets. My family calls me a "freak magnet" and belittles me. I cannot help who I am, nor can I change who I am.

  • @bethb.6813

    @bethb.6813

    6 ай бұрын

    Yo. Please consider setting up a little more distance from folks who are judging you in a hurtful way. You don't need that negativity. My suspicion is that you may be young and think you have to take it. You don't. And you don't have to fight either. Just see them less often, for shorter periods. It may help you to stop reciting their judgements. It may help to practice with friends or strangers how to politely correct assumptions, while not engaging about the mean thing that was just said to you. Good luck.

  • @abcdefghijk8925

    @abcdefghijk8925

    6 ай бұрын

    It's cause y'all have little ears attached to your heart & ppl can sense that.

  • @Alta90

    @Alta90

    6 ай бұрын

    No te sientas mal, yo también me he dado cuenta que atraigo gente que necesita ser escuchada o comprendida (autistas, síndrome down, personas ansiosas, etc).

  • @ukemeedet3070

    @ukemeedet3070

    5 ай бұрын

    I love you, platonically. Keep being you. P.S. I wrote 'platonically' so I won't scare you off. -An INFJ.

  • @AshleyB-xh1qh

    @AshleyB-xh1qh

    5 ай бұрын

    I totally relate. My family teases me too but mostly for being absent minded bc I am always thinking so sometimes I feel like I do things on auto pilot so I forget where I put things 😂 I finally found the perfect career as a hairdresser bc people don't get as freaked out that they're telling you their entire life story (trauma dumping lol) bc everyone expects their hairdresser to be a counselor as well. And I really don't mind. When I worked at a grocery store however, it would get real awkward when they'd open up like that in the 2 minutes it took to check them out 😂 Also I'm pretty sure most INFJ are neurodivergent (in the best way)

  • @EmmalineLHoffmeister
    @EmmalineLHoffmeister6 ай бұрын

    I am an INFJ Female and this is 100% spot on. I own 10 of the same shirt in 10 color variations of blue and green. My husband teases that as soon as I find a shirt I like I just buy all of them and wear them for 10 years until they are rags and I need to go find all new ones. I love your videos. I binge watch them int he corner of my screen while I work.

  • @MariaFlores-qn8yv

    @MariaFlores-qn8yv

    6 ай бұрын

    SO relateable! I'm wearing the lavender version of a blouse I bought last april! I've got navy blue, light blue, lavender and just bought the deep purple one! ✨

  • @crazysingingchick

    @crazysingingchick

    3 ай бұрын

    I am the same way!!!!

  • @skittles2

    @skittles2

    2 ай бұрын

    Mine is all white. I didn't know it was a thing until I came across this video. I just thought I have zero fashion sense. But that's probably also true.

  • @transitionsnc

    @transitionsnc

    2 ай бұрын

    OMG. I'm an INFJ woman and I do the exact same thing!

  • @ksquid1457

    @ksquid1457

    2 ай бұрын

    I do the same! I was goth in high school, which I loved, but --ain't gonna lie -- there is a part of me that was just happy all of my outfits matched 🤣

  • @jostreet214
    @jostreet214 Жыл бұрын

    As an INFJ wife, I've done the "we're having a disagreement, but we can stop the conversation because it's probably something I just need to work on myself" response to my husband many times, lol!

  • @Von_DBL

    @Von_DBL

    Жыл бұрын

    As an INTJ, I would love to hear that because I would do the same on my side but not telling it. 😁

  • @rebecabocanegraramos4419

    @rebecabocanegraramos4419

    Жыл бұрын

    @Flavien I'm an infj and my husband is an intj, and is awesome, thank God when we argue it is something like this, or like a conversation more on detailed about something we are annoyed about, but there is never yelling or making feel the other one bad, just a process of growing for each of us. Making the other see what could need more work in other to be the person God wants him or me be.

  • @rasheedamuhammad144

    @rasheedamuhammad144

    Жыл бұрын

    Most accurate 😂😅😂

  • @5050TM

    @5050TM

    Жыл бұрын

    "It's probably just me. Sorry. Yeah pretty sure it's just me." Said this the other day because I was being genuinely over sensitive.

  • @elysebuehrer5981

    @elysebuehrer5981

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m an INFP, but that one hit!

  • @sarat9567
    @sarat9567 Жыл бұрын

    I almost spit out my coffee at “I was thinking about stoicism” 😹 this is gold

  • @ericalane7220

    @ericalane7220

    Жыл бұрын

    Same girl, same.

  • @bookenjoyer3970

    @bookenjoyer3970

    Жыл бұрын

    Literally me but thinking of existentialism instead 😂

  • @phieulink91

    @phieulink91

    Жыл бұрын

    Hahaa me too 😂😂

  • @bizzlecrafts

    @bizzlecrafts

    Жыл бұрын

    Literally have the Stoics app on my phone so I can mentally roast them each morning. Except Epictetus, he's pretty reasonable.

  • @loriandfaith

    @loriandfaith

    Жыл бұрын

    Golden!

  • @jacintapham4824
    @jacintapham48248 ай бұрын

    contacting somebody from the past and being upfront about why I haven't cut them off yet is so real 😭

  • @cindithomas7440

    @cindithomas7440

    19 күн бұрын

    Hey, some of us crave closure and many times the only way to get it is to give it. So once you've said your piece, you can move forward

  • @MJ-rk7kv
    @MJ-rk7kv7 ай бұрын

    “I missed my turn, cause I was thinking about stoicism”… so true 😂❤

  • @mldesou
    @mldesou Жыл бұрын

    As an INFJ female, I can confirm the 100% accuracy of this video. While we might've dated emotionally unhealthy people, as we progress in life, we're intuitive enough to sift through hours of content on phycology and childhood trauma work so that we end up with healthy partners. 😅 I can also confirm British television is mostly all I can stomach because it's relaxing. Intense or violent stuff is too stressful. 😂

  • @janad996

    @janad996

    Жыл бұрын

    I relate to all of that, watched a horror movie and got stressed out for 3 days, better chill watching relaxing stuff from now on

  • @queerantine69

    @queerantine69

    Жыл бұрын

    I don't relate to the navy blue. I love colour 😂

  • @Julia69016

    @Julia69016

    Жыл бұрын

    All I want is to watch Peaky Blinders but I don't want to dedicate days of rhetoric and a month of emotional involvement.

  • @wittymystic7361

    @wittymystic7361

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm the same; however, I do enjoy a splash of color in my clothing, especially during spring.

  • @rachellechavez9739

    @rachellechavez9739

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm so mad that I can't get a degree from all the psych lectures I've covered here and medical journals.

  • @imurcatmom
    @imurcatmom Жыл бұрын

    'I only have the emotional capacity to watch *insert show/film* for the 3rd time' and skipping over stressful parts is hilariously accurate 😅 I feel so seen 💕

  • @Zamek13

    @Zamek13

    Жыл бұрын

    😅 Same

  • @m.m.4565

    @m.m.4565

    Жыл бұрын

    Yessss that was soo relatable it was spooky. 😅 sometimes i watch new shows but look at all the episode descriptions to prepare myself for whats to come if the show is too suspensful/stressful.

  • @isisribeiroaesthetics3667

    @isisribeiroaesthetics3667

    Жыл бұрын

    literally me if there's too much stress in the movie I'll probably try to distract myself because it just gives me too much anxiety and I can't stay still and that suck for me as a film editor T_T

  • @JosieGoyangi

    @JosieGoyangi

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes! When my partner and I watch anything with violence or too much suspense, I just read Romance Webtoons during stressful scenes 😅

  • @youbelonghere74

    @youbelonghere74

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@isisribeiroaesthetics3667same omg and I wanna be a filmmaker 😭 I had to watch so many stressful films for my film course

  • @coolbeansgreens
    @coolbeansgreens5 ай бұрын

    Omg the cry about the anniversary is hilarious 😂 that infj girl is so me I can’t remember things my friends told me yesterday or at the beginning of a conversation

  • @roserichards1460
    @roserichards14607 ай бұрын

    As an INFJ I've never felt so called out in my life. LMAO!

  • @snowleopard2288
    @snowleopard2288 Жыл бұрын

    As an INFJ that has WAY too much black clothing in my wardrobe, I resonate with the “just found out all my clothes are navy blue”

  • @audrinaparshall3294

    @audrinaparshall3294

    Жыл бұрын

    Mine is a maroonish pinkish purple? I don't know the name of it but it's apparently the only color I own now 😂

  • @ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439

    @ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439

    Жыл бұрын

    I've NTENTIONALLY told myself to add more colour to my wardrobe in last 5 years, but here I am wearing a navy blue top and black pants . I have to be more intentional next time

  • @Moi-io7yi

    @Moi-io7yi

    Жыл бұрын

    I alternate between black and navy blue. But recently I've tried to add a little more colour to my wardrobe while somehow still managing to squeeze in something black or navy blue.

  • @AL-pk2mu

    @AL-pk2mu

    Жыл бұрын

    Black is my favorite color.

  • @cxyk

    @cxyk

    Жыл бұрын

    All four seasons of clothing: Black

  • @mrslundy1535
    @mrslundy1535 Жыл бұрын

    I love INFJs. They all are so self aware and also very caring while standing their ground and not confusing being selfless to sacrificing their own space. Also, they are really like cats lol they feel your sadness or stress and immediately know what is the best for you to do. Best advices by INFJs.

  • @AmidalaEmma

    @AmidalaEmma

    11 ай бұрын

    yes, my ex bf used to describe me as like a cat

  • @misseshia2842

    @misseshia2842

    10 ай бұрын

    Aww🥰 How sweet! As an INFJ being described as a cat would be so cute. I either get ignored, called silly, screen saver, or weird. My Bosses are irritated by me and my co-workers like me. My family and friends are used to my "quirks".☺

  • @ASch-re8fo

    @ASch-re8fo

    10 ай бұрын

    Ey, I'm not. I'm definitely a golden retriever. Yes, we also exist 😜😊

  • @BlondebitchCastiel

    @BlondebitchCastiel

    10 ай бұрын

    Bro I feel so appreciated rn 🥺🥺😭

  • @GleamDrawz

    @GleamDrawz

    10 ай бұрын

    Kinda got the first part wrong…. I am not self-aware and I most of the time think being selfless means the same thing as sacrificing your soul to whoever's around you’s mercy..

  • @lifenotbills
    @lifenotbills3 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂 “I was distracted because I was thinking about stoicism” So true! INFJ girlfriends are the best girlfriends.

  • @Serenity_escapes
    @Serenity_escapes6 ай бұрын

    I'm INFJ-T and 90% of these not only were so accurate but incredibly funny. Nailed it😅😅😅

  • @minhachusain5500
    @minhachusain5500 Жыл бұрын

    Not the "Im upset but it has more to do with me so let me just process it" and the "I don't have the emotional capability to watch certain movies." That's too accurate 😂

  • @wanderin-wonder

    @wanderin-wonder

    5 ай бұрын

    I'm an ENFP but these 2 traits are spot on for me too.

  • @vaultdweller4020

    @vaultdweller4020

    5 ай бұрын

    I’m INFJ and I love fucked up movies like Oldboy so idk if I qualify for that one 😭

  • @arelysarelys2515

    @arelysarelys2515

    2 ай бұрын

    Yes . I blame it on me for not being strong enough to not let stuff affect me.

  • @christinadavies2490
    @christinadavies2490 Жыл бұрын

    As an INFJ I can relate to the antique store. I was in a museum which held ancient dead bodies they dug up on display and while everyone else was enjoying the morbid display all I could think about was how disrespectful it was to put them poor souls on display instead of giving them a respectful buried plot 🤷‍♀️

  • @YeshuaKingMessiah

    @YeshuaKingMessiah

    Жыл бұрын

    As an INTJ I can’t understand why u want the shells of humans buried instead giving up the treasures of discoveries they hold for us now. The human has been gone from that sac of flesh for millennia. They don’t care what u do with it.

  • @christinadavies2490

    @christinadavies2490

    Жыл бұрын

    @@YeshuaKingMessiah well I guess your more scientific then spiritual. Some people believe the nature of the type of burial that a person has decides on how the soul sleeps. How do you know that the person slaying on that slab is at peace with people staring at them day to day in a museum? You wouldn't know that unless you could speak to their soul

  • @yesplatinum7956

    @yesplatinum7956

    Жыл бұрын

    I doubt they will have any issues finding a body in the future but it’s my dream to become the next Lucy

  • @audrinaparshall3294

    @audrinaparshall3294

    Жыл бұрын

    I relate too! When I was a kid I loved the little house on the Prairie book series. Well I found the first one at a thrift store and bought it to re read. Well after finishing it there was a family tree of the linage of the Ingalls family etc. From the 1860s I think, well it hit me how long ago they lived and how they had lived and died so long ago, and how one day I am go to die too... yea it triggered an internal crisis. 😭

  • @alejandrathompson7687

    @alejandrathompson7687

    Жыл бұрын

    @@audrinaparshall3294 stop it. Ur mentioning is reminding my internal issue of that ….lol..

  • @BeverlyandPeach
    @BeverlyandPeachАй бұрын

    “I only have the emotional capacity to watch the great British bake off of the third time” Omg lol 😂 I relate so hard.

  • @ladyhollow_
    @ladyhollow_Ай бұрын

    This is the funniest thing I've seen in a while. Stop it.

  • @heesuhill8198
    @heesuhill8198 Жыл бұрын

    Do an INFJ Dad or INFJ Boyfriend sketch next 😂😂😂 This is so funny!

  • @FrankJames

    @FrankJames

    Жыл бұрын

    ok!!!

  • @selena1638

    @selena1638

    Жыл бұрын

    @@FrankJames Do on maybe ISTJ mum or ISTJ girlfriend? This is so amazing

  • @facgce960

    @facgce960

    Жыл бұрын

    INFJ dad would be so interesting!!

  • @DanLaw559

    @DanLaw559

    Жыл бұрын

    As an INFJ male, the gf one was pretty similar. That's gotten me in a lot of trouble though. Maybe if I knew I was an INFJ back when I was younger, I could have explained myself better. However, I do like your suggestion. I'm also a dad.

  • @cotton-fly

    @cotton-fly

    Жыл бұрын

    @@FrankJamesthis is the most INFJ response down to the amount of exclamation points so the asker knows we come in friendly lol. (Ps: I’m also an INFJ) hehe 😊

  • @michellecruznyan
    @michellecruznyan Жыл бұрын

    I don't even have a boyfriend but this is 300% me. The "I'll just work it out in therapy next tuesday" made me wheeze, scream and cry at the same time 🤣🤣🤣

  • @cherieswannhanson1482

    @cherieswannhanson1482

    Жыл бұрын

    One time I was in my feels, and my husband at the time said why are you mad at me. And I legit said I’m deciding if I need to be mad at you I’ll probably work it out myself so just let me have some space for a minute. 😂😂😂

  • @michellecruznyan

    @michellecruznyan

    Жыл бұрын

    @@cherieswannhanson1482 😂😂😂 Like... I mean... isn't it just logical? Why would we start an argument when it's probably just a matter of perspective??? 🤣🤣🤣

  • @cherieswannhanson1482

    @cherieswannhanson1482

    Жыл бұрын

    @@michellecruznyan absolutely! Maybe I’m just hungry. Maybe aunt flow gonna come tomorrow. No sense stirring everybody up until I’m sure.

  • @midloran

    @midloran

    Жыл бұрын

    Gotcha love the creative profile picture

  • @leahtheanimationfan40

    @leahtheanimationfan40

    Жыл бұрын

    Most of the time if I'm upset or irritated with my boyfriend, it's a "me" problem. And we usually work things out on our own. He's an ISTJ and I'm an INFJ

  • @aswithinsowithout
    @aswithinsowithout3 ай бұрын

    This is, of course, hilarious. “It’s the rarest type.” And yet here we all are. 🤔 😂❤

  • @liayesung5721
    @liayesung57213 ай бұрын

    I didnt know us infjs are so freaking blunt xD it all makes sense now 😅

  • @berserkerbard
    @berserkerbard Жыл бұрын

    I’m an INFJ woman who got engaged to my INFJ fiancé last November. We have the most analytical, logic oriented, pragmatic relationship. Our first conversations were about the biggest things in life and then slowly we began to work our way down to small talk. I was definitely this type of girlfriend 😂

  • @laurabarber6697

    @laurabarber6697

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm so happy for you both! 💝🙏💝

  • @berserkerbard

    @berserkerbard

    Жыл бұрын

    @@laurabarber6697 Thank you 🙏☺️

  • @c_mendes

    @c_mendes

    Жыл бұрын

    Omg that’s so cool! Im happy you found each other

  • @NightNekomata

    @NightNekomata

    Жыл бұрын

    I just found out my bf is also an INFJ! Very interesting and makes so much sense!

  • @yuyang444

    @yuyang444

    Жыл бұрын

    Congrats!! I was lucky enough to find another INFJ friend recently, starting at the secrets of the universe and then working our way down is SUCH a mood 😂

  • @karin1402
    @karin1402 Жыл бұрын

    That "it turns out all of my clothes are navy blue" stabs me in the heart, I said that to myself almost every time I need to pick clothes.

  • @paolavalentina5798

    @paolavalentina5798

    Жыл бұрын

    omggg I am an INFJ who has an entire wardrobe full of pink.

  • @pariahmouse7794

    @pariahmouse7794

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@Paola Valentina haha, pink is the only colour in my wardrobe, the rest is black and grey...

  • @anisatms1308

    @anisatms1308

    Жыл бұрын

    Most of my clothes are navy blue , black ...༎ຶ‿༎ຶ

  • @laurag7530

    @laurag7530

    Жыл бұрын

    I busted out laughing at that line

  • @elochkaa831

    @elochkaa831

    Жыл бұрын

    Same, i felt called out😭

  • @RickieJei
    @RickieJei2 ай бұрын

    Thank you for making me realize i have a normal INFJ behaviour. I always thought i was some kind of weirdo.

  • @briatrixkiddo8338
    @briatrixkiddo833811 күн бұрын

    The "thinking about stoicism while driving" made me guffaw out loud to any empty room, because it's Sunday, and honestly, why go out where there is people when I can stay home and be alone whilst wearing no pants?

  • @AmyLarson
    @AmyLarson9 ай бұрын

    “I don’t need to listen to you to know exactly what you’re feeling, so here’s what you should do.” OMG!!! I’m dying!!! 😂🤣

  • @indigogalaxy6341

    @indigogalaxy6341

    6 ай бұрын

    I had to go apologize to one of my friends LOL 🤣

  • @LuxValkyrie

    @LuxValkyrie

    4 ай бұрын

    It’s true though!! I usually do!! 😅😅😅

  • @EmmalineLHoffmeister

    @EmmalineLHoffmeister

    3 ай бұрын

    My husband is the normal girlfriend, and I am the infj. This is literally every day when he gets home from work. After 25 years he actually says, "You don't have to fix it, just listen. You can even zone out if you want, but act like you are listening." I do actually have to listen, though, because every so often, he ends with a heavy breath and then says, "Okay, tell me how to fix it the fastest way possible."

  • @KathrineJKozachok

    @KathrineJKozachok

    2 ай бұрын

    Guilty! 🙋🏼‍♀️

  • @nutthaporn_nw

    @nutthaporn_nw

    Ай бұрын

    Lol on this. So true. 😂

  • @karhart6663
    @karhart6663 Жыл бұрын

    Lots of relatable points in here. The most relatable is when the INFJ pivots from sympathy to "now here's what you should do" - I always have a game plan for everyone.

  • @m1m1_

    @m1m1_

    Жыл бұрын

    but not for myself :,)

  • @scratchoriginalsdh

    @scratchoriginalsdh

    Жыл бұрын

    That one made me laugh pretty hard.

  • @fraewn2617

    @fraewn2617

    Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely!

  • @Octavia_84

    @Octavia_84

    Жыл бұрын

    The now what you should do is part actually killed me😂

  • @lindac6919

    @lindac6919

    11 ай бұрын

    Right? That's when I knew it really was me.

  • @Blueetwooo
    @Blueetwooo5 ай бұрын

    Lmfao the antique store! I felt that to my core, I went into one with my sister in Florida a couple of years ago. I said “geez they sell dead people’s stuff, I wonder if any of it is haunted… how would you know?” And the staff just looked at me like what I said was dark 😂😭

  • @lilmysticmama3048
    @lilmysticmama30489 ай бұрын

    Thinking about stoicism, the British bake off, the father wound 😂😂😂 accurate AF😂😂😂

  • @mansid4141
    @mansid4141 Жыл бұрын

    This is female INFJ,Noone knows how happy an INFJ feels being something relatable to them and so accurate. That stoicism and social media diet is so real. Frank, looking forward for more INFJ stuff Thank you so much...😊

  • @funonabun2970

    @funonabun2970

    Жыл бұрын

    right? I was like, oh man how does he know?? xD

  • @Userm2155

    @Userm2155

    Ай бұрын

    Right! And it’s funny because it’s all mostly true.. especially the this is what you should do and the Steven one.

  • @emcash7042
    @emcash7042 Жыл бұрын

    As an INFJ woman this is so accurate 😂 Except for the boring clothes part, I am a part-time fashion stylist

  • @ladyeam

    @ladyeam

    Жыл бұрын

    Same 😃! I love fashion and I only wear the "deeper" shades of color in the winter.

  • @trishnikasrija11

    @trishnikasrija11

    Жыл бұрын

    Apart from the clothes… more than required

  • @just.callmemack

    @just.callmemack

    Жыл бұрын

    I have so many clothes but I stick to my favorites on a cycle but I love colors but choose to wear neutrals have the time because it’s less effort most days

  • @shoshanna8475

    @shoshanna8475

    Жыл бұрын

    Funny, as a woman engineer, all my clothes are navy (lol). Now in my late 50s and with remote work, everything I buy is pink, lavendar, or red (with frills, lace, and ruffles...)

  • @JupiterN624

    @JupiterN624

    Жыл бұрын

    I have been on some radical clothing journeys… I think, really, I am trying to appear normal. I would only wear grey if I could just be left alone and didn’t have to go places.

  • @NoDowdyMall
    @NoDowdyMall8 ай бұрын

    I lost it when you said distracted by stoicism ....I was seriously just watching YT vids on that the other day hahahaha

  • @tammysecord3255
    @tammysecord32556 ай бұрын

    stoicism....you are hysterical, fun, and accurate 😂

  • @emorygrace7
    @emorygrace7 Жыл бұрын

    As an INFJ, I can confirm that eliminations and just endings of TV shows make us nervous. We always expect the plot twist and also end up hiding our eyes for half of the show. Edit: thanks for the likes!

  • @just.callmemack

    @just.callmemack

    Жыл бұрын

    I have entire C-dramas (40+ episodes) that I have watched to their entirety with the exception of the last episode because I don’t want it to end or I know the ending will upset me so I put it off for years now… now I have to watch them all over again because I feel ready 😂😂

  • @smason3541

    @smason3541

    Жыл бұрын

    I just quit watching TV and movies altogether.

  • @peepsgacha4378

    @peepsgacha4378

    Жыл бұрын

    So it's not just me!!!

  • @peepsgacha4378

    @peepsgacha4378

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@smason3541 BRO same 😂

  • @Akeoo7009

    @Akeoo7009

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@just.callmemack being an infj i can relate, but then my anxiety would never let me sleep peacefully until i finish watching that last episode lol

  • @sethvandycke904
    @sethvandycke904 Жыл бұрын

    I’m actually embarrassed how I’ve said or done almost every single one of these, my friends comment on my grey and navy wardrobe, and I skip any game show to the end elimination cause it’s just too much for me 😂 My parents also banned me from antique stores cause I wouldn’t stop commenting on the “dead people’s junk”

  • @SomeRandomGuy777x

    @SomeRandomGuy777x

    Жыл бұрын

    Fascinating. You can sense different energies from these old items if you try to feel it after salt cleansing your hands. (Check quareia for more) Not all dead people leave bad energies behind. - enfp

  • @heavnxbound

    @heavnxbound

    Жыл бұрын

    @@SomeRandomGuy777x Energy is the capacity to do work, not a mystical aura :)

  • @SomeRandomGuy777x

    @SomeRandomGuy777x

    Жыл бұрын

    @@heavnxbound Lol, I knew a science sceptic would turn up. You can call it a sensable mystical aura if you prefer that instead of energy. Energy for me means all types of energies, physical, non physical and multi dimensional (interpenetrating emenation of creation source) Cross dimensional is not measurable for the time being, might never be. But its all an aspect of moving(energy) mind. Which does not fit well into the post-modern reductionistic paradigme no. I am well aware.

  • @Kate98755

    @Kate98755

    Жыл бұрын

    i don’t know why people want to pass stuff on, i’m missing the reason…my mother saves everything, has journals from her trips….and she’s sent them to us, why would i want to read about someone else’s vacation? yes i relate to dead peoples stuff

  • @cherylp.3347

    @cherylp.3347

    Жыл бұрын

    Ha ha, I’m like that. If reality tv, movies, etc get too intense I’ll look it up online to find out how it ends. “Oh good! She survives, yah she didn’t die.” Or ,” great I’m glad he won the competition, I’d be upset if that other narcissist guy won.” Or, good I can finish watching the movie because she does end up with him! 😂

  • @Sosofloflo
    @Sosofloflo6 ай бұрын

    Not me - an INFJ - researching stoicism and 2:20 spot on 😂 this is so good

  • @fallenvictory9
    @fallenvictory93 күн бұрын

    "what day of the week is it? ... is it tuesday? IT'S FRIDAY?!" me all days of the week

  • @amberkasa
    @amberkasa Жыл бұрын

    "I don't need to listen to you to know EXACTLY what you're feeling..." is my favorite line of all time 😂❤

  • @RESMITHcarpentry

    @RESMITHcarpentry

    Жыл бұрын

    HAHA right?

  • @pirateslife4me

    @pirateslife4me

    Жыл бұрын

    Truer words never spoken

  • @Liminal_Galaxie

    @Liminal_Galaxie

    Жыл бұрын

    Always followed up with "now here's what you should do." Accurate 🏆

  • @jumpinggakflash2313

    @jumpinggakflash2313

    Жыл бұрын

    It’s so true though. Lol

  • @kuhekaizen3426

    @kuhekaizen3426

    9 ай бұрын

    But people are very annoyed by this. And they dont listen and it i have to watch it going vorher Down the road.. how do yall do it that they want your advice?

  • @heliak4042
    @heliak4042 Жыл бұрын

    As an INFJ that was so accurate in each part. You showed the struggle very well About forgetting the days of the week That's so true, I constantly have to check what the day is. btw thanks for the effort you put in, I love your content.

  • @rebeccacaldwell2065

    @rebeccacaldwell2065

    Жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @allisongallant9829

    @allisongallant9829

    Жыл бұрын

    Same!

  • @Darkness-ng8lv

    @Darkness-ng8lv

    Жыл бұрын

    As an Intj who has an INFJ brother. That is the most accurate thing I watched about infjs

  • @sketchflix6425

    @sketchflix6425

    Жыл бұрын

    That's more like a human thing than a personality thing, right? No offense intended. I'm an INFJ-T. So.. just saying...

  • @PriHL

    @PriHL

    Жыл бұрын

    I think the people in the drugstore yesterday were 200% more INFJ than me - they said it's already the 6th of April (it was the 4th) :) But maybe it was actually the 1st :)

  • @paulaneary7877
    @paulaneary78772 ай бұрын

    Frank! THANK YOU for the best laugh session I have had in years. When you said, "It turns out all my clothes are Navy Blue" I completely lost my sh**t for like 10 minutes. I seriously have not laughed this hard since I can remember, so thanks for that, I needed it. (Here's a clue: I would NOT be the normal girlfriend.)

  • @licha1184
    @licha1184Ай бұрын

    you got me real quick with the black coffee 😂😂😂

  • @sydneyalisonbaker
    @sydneyalisonbaker Жыл бұрын

    As an INFJ wife, I can say this is accurate.

  • @savesoil3133

    @savesoil3133

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh yes, the 'is it Tuesday? It's FrIdAy???' Especially 😄 #SaveSoil #ConsciousPlanet

  • @RidaMahmoodpaksaudivlogs
    @RidaMahmoodpaksaudivlogs Жыл бұрын

    That "its Friday??" Part its totally relatable as an infj....there was a time when i even forgot my marriage anniversary and my husband was very upset at that😂

  • @RogueMamaStitcher1

    @RogueMamaStitcher1

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh yeah, definitely forgot a couple anniversaries myself , but my husband was right along side me forgetting too. My mom was amused she remembered before we did. 😅

  • @tessarae9127

    @tessarae9127

    Жыл бұрын

    Lmao. Maybe that’s why I got married the day after Christmas, pretty hard to forget that, and no need to feel like we must buy extravagant gifts etc 😂

  • @Littlebird11

    @Littlebird11

    Жыл бұрын

    I went for a year thinking I was 33 years old only to find out that I had been 32 the whole time..

  • @flippetskater

    @flippetskater

    Жыл бұрын

    I forget my own birthday. (And I get really anxious about other people's birthdays, because I forget them too, but they get upset about it, and I hate the upset. WAY too much responsibility for me. 😄)

  • @tessarae9127

    @tessarae9127

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Littlebird11 omg haha 😂 I try to be friends with people who know that I will probably forget birthdays and such, but won’t hold it against me. Oye though I beat myself up for having an entire conversation with a new roommate and not once remembering to ask their name or introduce myself 😅😅😅

  • @constancematthews3834
    @constancematthews3834Ай бұрын

    Well, looking at it THIS way, I'm a dang GIFT! 🎉 Thanks for the perspective shift.

  • @Username74-b8h
    @Username74-b8h2 ай бұрын

    Oh man, the last one stapped me! 😂

  • @blanqui2040
    @blanqui2040 Жыл бұрын

    This is so painfully accurate. But we INFJ women definitely need more representation. Thank you!

  • @e.j1997

    @e.j1997

    Жыл бұрын

    are u kidding? 90 percent of mbti content is about infjs

  • @blanqui2040

    @blanqui2040

    Жыл бұрын

    @@e.j1997 I haven't seen that but even if it's true, it doesn't mean is right representation. I do have seen a lot of stereotypes. Edit: Also I've seen much more "representation" of men, not women

  • @blanqui2040

    @blanqui2040

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sonyastephens7583 Me too, and I feel most INFJs like quality things. But even then I feel like it is not something shallow or frivolous, but rather we have certain motives/deeper reasoning behind it.

  • @blanqui2040

    @blanqui2040

    Жыл бұрын

    @@happydaze7386 are we really that few? I don't know the statistics

  • @andreimircea2254

    @andreimircea2254

    11 ай бұрын

    @@blanqui2040 Third rarest personality type in the world (as of 2018, a lot of places have the 2008 data which says we INFJ’s are the rarest).

  • @LL-muddy1
    @LL-muddy1 Жыл бұрын

    You've really nailed that INFJ perma simultaneously incredulous, sad, unamused, concerned look😆

  • @lobalee1873

    @lobalee1873

    11 ай бұрын

    Yeah, but also why he gotta call us out like that though? 😩😅

  • @bonnacon1610

    @bonnacon1610

    10 ай бұрын

    Resting INFJ face.

  • @purpleplatypus97

    @purpleplatypus97

    10 ай бұрын

    I think he is one! If you search his videos by the oldest, it starts with an INFJ new year depression video. Makes sense why we feel so seen now. 😂❤

  • @p28-nx4qs
    @p28-nx4qs4 күн бұрын

    I expected most of them to be miss, but most of them are spot on actually

  • @eleanorjones26407
    @eleanorjones264076 ай бұрын

    I love how brutally honest she is lol

  • @somemydayy
    @somemydayy Жыл бұрын

    Hi, INFJ here! That last part brutally wounded me, cause yes my ex had the same toxic traits as my father, and yes I broke up with him when I came to the realization that the relationship wasn’t going anywhere. Good night, shoutout to all my fellow INFJs’ who went through the same dilemma glad I wasn’t alone!

  • @user-oj5bw7sl8p

    @user-oj5bw7sl8p

    Жыл бұрын

    I spent big part of my adult life, trying hard not to get involved with the guys, who had the same nasty character, as my father did.

  • @myself1122

    @myself1122

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@user-oj5bw7sl8p and I'm still single because I don't wanna end up with a guy who have same trait as my father

  • @TessChueh

    @TessChueh

    Жыл бұрын

    Mine was like my mother 😂😢😅😂

  • @tessarae9127

    @tessarae9127

    Жыл бұрын

    That one makes me cry 😭😭

  • @ladycharlotte8693

    @ladycharlotte8693

    Жыл бұрын

    It’s messed up but we tend to marry the parent (in personality) that you don’t get along with

  • @ysabelherreragonzalez7937
    @ysabelherreragonzalez793710 ай бұрын

    As an INFJ female, it is so nice to know there are more people like this. Two years ago I met another INFJ female and being friends with her has been like slowly uncovering we have this type of thing in common 😂 In my case, I only share my weird side with people I trust I guess :)

  • @PeterKnagge

    @PeterKnagge

    9 ай бұрын

    As an INFJ male, I also think it is nice to know that there are more people like this. Do you often wonder what the world would be like if the whole world was all INFJs? Hang on wait, what day is it?

  • @itsallabouthumanity6448

    @itsallabouthumanity6448

    9 ай бұрын

    I would love finally meeting another INFJ , it can get pretty “lonely” sometimes especially bc I am so ridiculously good at being alone but I also want to communicate with like-minded people or people that can bring value into my life and are themselves interesting and “weird” ( in a good authentic way) and yep I relate to the trusting part !

  • @samanthameraz8437

    @samanthameraz8437

    9 ай бұрын

    hello! im an INFJ female, age 19. i struggle to make friends and struggle to relate to my peers, although i have a deep need for connection and intimate conversations. i feel empty during small talk but i can't seem to find many people who feel comfortable discussing the topics i ponder on every day of my life. i feel lonely quite often, even when i'm around others. people often tell me i go off on tangents and even make jokes to try to "get me to shut up", i always laugh and quite down but i'm curious what it would be like to have a conversation with someone just like me, someone who isn't just trying to watch the movie but also pause, reflect and talk about the little things that happen in the movie, i know this is a bit weird, like someone reaching out to you through a comment section on youtube weird but if you'd everrrr like to perceive each other's existence and maybe even talk about what it's like, my instagram is @xcybersamx but follow my personal if you'd like to see a closer look at the way i see things (linked in main instagram bio), tiktok is @cybersamm, i would LOVE to follow back so please let me know if you do. again i know this is weird, because even i think it's weird, but i am seriously so desperate for someone to ask "what're you thinking" and not be surprised or dismissive of my actual answer, it would be nice to be honest of what im actually thinking for once, and not always actively trying to simplify it in fear of intimidating or making my peers uncomfortable.

  • @blinx_edits

    @blinx_edits

    8 ай бұрын

    yeah same lmao

  • @bethb.6813

    @bethb.6813

    6 ай бұрын

    Tell me about it. I once talked with someone giving me advice. He raised a question of how people wear all of these masks. I didn't bother to argue. But, if you're an INFJ, you know that it's less like a mask and more like a mirror. We shine back at people what they shine at us. It's not to be rude, or even to hide. It's more like too much effort to over share. We just stick with what we have in common with the person we are talking with. So, it's efficient. However, if you have to go into a more public sphere, then as an INFJ, you have a dilemma as to how to remain authentic in this bigger, more complex space. I haven't figured that one out yet.

  • @PatriciaDeAnna
    @PatriciaDeAnna7 ай бұрын

    Are you spying on me? That was unbelievably accurate.

  • @alainaatk.6210
    @alainaatk.62106 ай бұрын

    The Great British Bake-off one got me so good

  • @shy_8427
    @shy_8427 Жыл бұрын

    I'm an INFJ and I really relate to watching the british bake off for the third time without elimination parts because I love repetitious activities but hate it when people get isolated/cut out of the program 😂

  • @samf.s.7731

    @samf.s.7731

    10 ай бұрын

    Yep, I feel you there. That was too real 😅

  • @bcarine8908

    @bcarine8908

    10 ай бұрын

    Lol yeah I am only interested in how the cakes and pastries look 😂. I can't handle my favorites getting the boot 🥾

  • @plantagardenforever

    @plantagardenforever

    10 ай бұрын

    Same!

  • @sarahnewton2267

    @sarahnewton2267

    10 ай бұрын

    Ohhhh so being an INFJ is why I relisten to Harry Potter audiobooks over and over but skip over the brutal endings. Same with movies.

  • @idiotic-qf7b

    @idiotic-qf7b

    9 ай бұрын

    my boi

  • @blanxi
    @blanxi Жыл бұрын

    I didn't realize skipping the emotionally heavy parts of programs was an INFJ trait 😂😂 lmao I feel very represented

  • @za2959

    @za2959

    6 ай бұрын

    So true.

  • @dollface6843

    @dollface6843

    5 ай бұрын

    So so freaking true! I like rewatching Outlander but the rape scenes you gotta be a psycho to watch those again 🤣🤣

  • @tasiakero
    @tasiakero2 ай бұрын

    The upset part and brings it on therapy is me. 😂

  • @monoceros.9310
    @monoceros.931016 күн бұрын

    Not the great British bake off, navy blue, procrastination, and personality of our dad 😭 that was too accurate oml

  • @Angelique.Styles
    @Angelique.Styles9 ай бұрын

    The rewatching cooking and baking shows every week because I don’t have the energy to scroll Netflix is so accurate 😂

  • @ksquid1457

    @ksquid1457

    2 ай бұрын

    I have been obsessed with Food Network ever since high school, at least. It's just so neutral and nice to have on in the background. Plus, I've learned a surprising amount about cooking and baking!

  • @erinbailey0
    @erinbailey010 ай бұрын

    “It turns out all of my clothes are navy blue.” I ugly laughed so hard. 😂😂

  • @lifenotbills

    @lifenotbills

    3 ай бұрын

    Currently, all my clothes are out of giveaway bins…so they are whatever. Which I’m pretty sure is the same as them all being navy blue. 😂

  • @susanjones8489

    @susanjones8489

    2 ай бұрын

    Mom to me: Susan, why can’t you dress nicer.

  • @kate.sunsets
    @kate.sunsets2 ай бұрын

    Did you just document my life? This is so meeeeee

  • @itskristinawithak
    @itskristinawithak5 ай бұрын

    Omg I’m so glad I found this video and your channel! I feel so seen😂 and it’s so cool that INFJs are the most rare they said!

  • @four4444Function
    @four4444Function Жыл бұрын

    Being an infj female these three things fit me well: - forgetting the "special" dates (my memory is short and is willing to work only with super important stuff) - not paying attention to small things about myself (but I'm quite observant of others) - most on my clothes is neutral colored Because of that, some people think I'm mean to them. I'm really not, I'm just phlegmatic by nature haha

  • @earlyso_music
    @earlyso_music Жыл бұрын

    "I don't need to listen to you to know exactly what you're feeling." That hit me 😂

  • @fuuturetense
    @fuuturetenseАй бұрын

    I'm dying - the navy blue wardrobe is so accurate

  • @prayingmantis5435
    @prayingmantis54354 ай бұрын

    “I was thinking about stoicism” 😂 That is sooo me 😂

  • @MarianneBrandon
    @MarianneBrandon Жыл бұрын

    INTJ here married to an INFJ. Today I learned that having an INFJ girlfriend is exactly like having an INFJ husband.

  • @shariworden3212
    @shariworden3212 Жыл бұрын

    As an INFJ: absolutely dead 😂😭😂💀 THE TEN YEAR LONG DRAINING TEXT CONVERSATION OMGGG😂😂😂😂 Also THANK YOU for making it honest and real instead of an "oh they're so mystical and gossamer" thing. I mean, we have our moments, but yeah it's mostly "all my clothes are navy blue" and "I don't have to hear your whole thing, I know what you're feeling, this is what you should do". 😂

  • @assassinsbleedacwalkthroug9947

    @assassinsbleedacwalkthroug9947

    Жыл бұрын

    the 10 year long conversation part is so depressing lol, you can just imagine that guy thinks she likes him or something :( ::: XD

  • @maddart4445

    @maddart4445

    Жыл бұрын

    That last part is so true for me. I would never wear navy but black? That’s my jam.

  • @violetlight8138

    @violetlight8138

    Жыл бұрын

    I have a 10 year text conversation too. He's nice but, omg..crazy and I feel I need to be his friend. Sometimes I just don't answer the text messages because he bugs me so bad.

  • @dwijitalize
    @dwijitalize5 ай бұрын

    The last one made me gasp! I mean the accuracy though...😢

  • @aireuoj_jujube
    @aireuoj_jujube8 күн бұрын

    Am seriously gonna die from how RELATABLE this is for me even without being a girlfriend 😂

  • @jfox9126
    @jfox9126 Жыл бұрын

    Haha I am INFJ I just recently learned- this is pretty hilarious. How nice to read all the comments and realize I’m not alone. I definitely feel like a stranger in a strange land with most of humanity.

  • @nathaliadiaz832

    @nathaliadiaz832

    11 ай бұрын

    When I started to read the comments section, I also thought "wow, I'm not the only one" 😂

  • @Kiki15578

    @Kiki15578

    11 ай бұрын

    Same I finally realised that all the contradiction in my head, not concentrate or lagging behind in conversation, the emotion attachment I have to something even it's small and a lot of stuff I couldn't explain before, I'm not alone

  • @KeylynLM

    @KeylynLM

    11 ай бұрын

    Have you considered taking the Raads-R Test? A lot of INFJ are very very High Functioning Aspies. Myself included. My iNTJ is also Aspie and he’s what led me to get my diagnosis, though a diagnosis is not required ;) He came at me talking about all the BIG things most people would never talk about. We dove very deep from our first conversations, onwards. It still continues 8 years later, endless conversation and theorizing ♥️

  • @emilyjohnsen5715

    @emilyjohnsen5715

    9 ай бұрын

    There needs to be a support group for all of us INFJ’s out there! LOL We are the rarest of the types and gotta stick together!

  • @benazirshabnam1690

    @benazirshabnam1690

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@nathaliadiaz832same 😂

  • @bluberryfrozenyogurt7017
    @bluberryfrozenyogurt7017 Жыл бұрын

    "it turns out all my clothes are navy blue" is so true!!! 🤣🤣🤣 Got me laugh out loud!

  • @samwarner2668

    @samwarner2668

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah, I felt called out by that one. 😂 I buy a 6 pack of t-shirts once a year. Same brand, usually all black but some years I have bought a pack of variety of colors 😂

  • @raqlew7021

    @raqlew7021

    Жыл бұрын

    Omg same! What is the correlation to infj? I’m curious. I don’t own anything in color 🤣

  • @user-tb2mf5of4j

    @user-tb2mf5of4j

    Жыл бұрын

    😂 I gasped when I heard him say that! So true!

  • @elenachristian9860

    @elenachristian9860

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@Raqlew No idea why, but yeah. Lots of navy blue. Sometimes I switch it up, and wear black. I amalso Italian, though, so my accessories are colorful. But they must match, and have a theme.

  • @lynn2551

    @lynn2551

    Жыл бұрын

    My wardrobe is mostly jeans and plain t-shirts. I got a few floral shirts for summer and I don't like them.

  • @adorablydysfunctional1613
    @adorablydysfunctional16138 ай бұрын

    I'm actually shocked how on point he is being an INFJ female!!! ❤ THANK YOU!!!

  • @Esztey
    @Esztey2 ай бұрын

    The Great British Bake Off bit is way too accurate :'D

  • @carolinethompson3305
    @carolinethompson3305 Жыл бұрын

    I'm smiling because a lot of these are so accurate 😂 "is this Tuesday...?" Realising that at least half the clothes in my cupboard are navy blue. "I can totally understand where you're coming from. Here's what you should do." Um yes.

  • @sapphiredeanna146

    @sapphiredeanna146

    Жыл бұрын

    I also have so many generally blue clothes. Never thought that just an INFJ trait lol

  • @Reen2669

    @Reen2669

    Жыл бұрын

    Mine too! Is there some logic behind the blue clothing?

  • @polaroid2305

    @polaroid2305

    Жыл бұрын

    r we the same ppl bc I also have sm blue but never my favorite colors ?? we must start a theoretical investigation

  • @araeast6923

    @araeast6923

    10 ай бұрын

    Blue is generally calming, maybe that’s why?

  • @juliapark5133
    @juliapark5133 Жыл бұрын

    The reaction at the antique store is 100% accurate for me. I go to estate sales and get very sad when I see an individual or couple’s belongings laid out for sale, it’s so sad 😞

  • @hanayuuki790

    @hanayuuki790

    Жыл бұрын

    Although I didn't relate as much for the antique store but i do relate when it comes to abandoned places. Antique store just reminds me of how it used to belong to someone and makes me curious the story behind them. I never really thought of the death part.

  • @misseshia2842

    @misseshia2842

    10 ай бұрын

    It is sad. I wonder who in the family passed and then I wonder if they would care that their things were being sold.

  • @Iera_Thaumaturgy

    @Iera_Thaumaturgy

    10 ай бұрын

    @@hanayuuki790Same, as well that I don’t really see that Death as a bad thing, we don’t know what comes after it so i’m just fascinated by the thought as I see antiques where they are now, if that makes sense? And after that thought I go into a spiral how cool it is that it dates back to so many decades and that people from those times actually touched and possessed these things.

  • @theladynextdoor313

    @theladynextdoor313

    10 ай бұрын

    As one who loves antiques and estate sales I must say I feel the same. The death doesn’t bother me but I do think about the history of the item and what that person’s life must’ve been like when I go into these places. It also makes me incredibly sad to see photos and other certain things that I would have cherished from my family members but nobody else in this person’s family wanted at all at estate sales. I always thank the deceased person for their treasures if I buy something. Then I smudge before bringing it in my house lol.

  • @plantagardenforever

    @plantagardenforever

    10 ай бұрын

    @@hanayuuki790 Same

  • @vforv9402
    @vforv94024 күн бұрын

    You are just the absolute best! Thank you so much for roasting people like me in this insightful and really funny way.

  • @alyb4191
    @alyb4191Ай бұрын

    I hate how called out you make me feel 😂😂

  • @lost9050
    @lost9050 Жыл бұрын

    I would only change all blue clothes to all black, but the rest is so on point that it made me laugh and be scared, at the same level XD

  • @Squintillions

    @Squintillions

    Жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @laurenqueenofwolvesnicole

    @laurenqueenofwolvesnicole

    Жыл бұрын

    I feel so related to right now lol

  • @Xaforn

    @Xaforn

    Жыл бұрын

    Gotta love the black. My mom wouldn’t let me wear black when I was younger, she always bought extremely bright colors, it was painful….

  • @jgirl7374
    @jgirl73749 ай бұрын

    The antique shop is sooo accurate .. thinking about all the dead people and their lives .. I actually might remove the teapot lid and put the teapot to my ear maybe I will hear some of the voice were in their houses 😢

  • @OliviaBloomLuxuryCo.-hn1do

    @OliviaBloomLuxuryCo.-hn1do

    2 ай бұрын

    Me an infj looking at all my thrifted furniture wandering if I should get rid of it cuz negative spirits might be attached to it even though I saged it😂

  • @chelsealeigh2417

    @chelsealeigh2417

    Ай бұрын

    Loved that 😄

  • @delilahirizarry9276

    @delilahirizarry9276

    Ай бұрын

    I thought I was the only weirdo

  • @Ana-lq9jp

    @Ana-lq9jp

    Ай бұрын

    I was in an antique store and saw a wonderful old mirror and literally said "Wow - think of all the things it's reflected in its lifetime!"

  • @MeganD-jc8rz

    @MeganD-jc8rz

    Ай бұрын

    My people I thought I was a freak. Perhaps I am.

  • @evasara7477
    @evasara74772 ай бұрын

    You see me, haha, very relatable, definitely spot-on!

  • @EmeliaSings
    @EmeliaSings6 ай бұрын

    "i was distracted.. i was thinking about stoicism. " love that

  • @MementoX1013
    @MementoX1013 Жыл бұрын

    This was scarily accurate! And as an INFJ therapist, "I don't need to listen to you to know exactly what you're feeling. So now here's what you should do..." is embarrassingly close to my approach with clients.

  • @justme4037

    @justme4037

    Жыл бұрын

    How is it to be an INFJ Therapist? Is it very stressful or overstimulating sometimes?

  • @wasnlos2676

    @wasnlos2676

    Жыл бұрын

    That does not sound like a good approach at all.

  • @spyraalexandra5742

    @spyraalexandra5742

    Жыл бұрын

    I had to learn to take a seat as a friend to just listen. I know I can feel how they feel, but it's valid to let them say it. I also started asking if they want advice or a story before jumping in. It's hard when all you want to do is stop the bleeding and fix the problem 😂

  • @winterwaffle16

    @winterwaffle16

    Жыл бұрын

    I literally came across your comment when he said it

  • @yoongisrose6968

    @yoongisrose6968

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@wasnlos2676 it's kinda funny ngl because even when I was a child INFJ you feel people's emotions so much more intensely like your living through it, feels very uncomfortable when you're young. As a therapist though I still just sit and listen an then sometimes I repeat the same things back to people until they themselves realize there issue, after that I wait till they look like they want to change what's happening

  • @IamCree
    @IamCree Жыл бұрын

    I've seen INFJ skits in social media and usually don't think they're very accurate, but this is spot on in ways I wasn't expecting! 😂 Even though I'm always trying hard, I feel like I never have the thoughts/behavior that people prefer, which can be discouraging. But seeing things portrayed by someone else helps me realize there's nothing actually wrong with the way I work!

  • @tori_spera

    @tori_spera

    Жыл бұрын

    I think it works so well because Frank is actually an INFJ himself.

  • @laimaravillon895

    @laimaravillon895

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly! ❤

  • @your_grandma2441

    @your_grandma2441

    Жыл бұрын

    I barely open social media even if I do, my fyp is full of panda videos, cat videos and anime and mangas..... I'm mostly on youtube

  • @ligglyhart
    @ligglyhartАй бұрын

    ahhh the tv series one is like when people dont understand why ill play the same game 9 times but dont have the energy to start a new one

  • @creatorNadi
    @creatorNadi8 күн бұрын

    “i was thinking about stoicism” 😂😅

  • @veronicanegronfranco
    @veronicanegronfranco Жыл бұрын

    I'm sending this to my boyfriend and all my friends so they can deeply understand me without having to actually talk to them. Thanks FJ! 😊👍🏽

  • @GENRTS

    @GENRTS

    Жыл бұрын

    Hahaha could have been a good meta scenario in this video

  • @doveyofficial
    @doveyofficial Жыл бұрын

    Lol as an INFJ this made my boyfriend laugh and say, "Girl, you've been exposed"😭🤣

  • @sherriec5258
    @sherriec52587 ай бұрын

    Oh my goodness, the part with the ring being the focus and the INFJ is only thinking about the relationship and can see how far it will go is so me! Lol