Thank you for your video. I randomly came across this in the perfect timing. I searched for a thredup video and came across your other channel, where you me mentioned this one. First video was a video on grief. Today we had to put down one of our dogs. They are like our children. This year we have lost several loved ones. Something definitely lead me to you tonight.

@thegratefultherapist

3 жыл бұрын

This is so perfect!! Thank you for sharing this with me. I have a whole series of grief videos on this new channel. I definitely mention the real grief of losing a beloved pet in other videos. Thank you Xo Quenby

Thank you- I lost my big brother 2 years ago and my mom 1 year ago. It's been rough.

@thegratefultherapist

3 жыл бұрын

Hi Diane, thank you for your comment. That is so much loss for you in a short period! Please take good care of yourself!! xo Quenby

This was so helpful Quenby... working my way through your list. Am sharing these with my 2 sisters 💙

@thegratefultherapist

2 жыл бұрын

Oh thank you so much for the feedback. Xo Quenby

You are good with what you do. Like really, having you as a friend would be good.

@thegratefultherapist

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you I appreciate you watching-- Quenby Gallahan, LMFT

Hi I'm a reseller I had KZread on while taking photos today and run across you other channel. I lost my son. His cause of death is undetermined. He was found in the woods decomposed. I get relief working cause I can think of all the things. I feel alone. I feel like nobody really gets how I feel. I also feel judged. Seems like I'm to happy or on the other side...need to snap out of it. I have 3 other children. A great marriage. I went to therapy a few times. To this day I've not left my home alone. Sometimes I feel nuts.i am the one who served the food at funerals before. I did all I could for everybody. If I go to town it seems people keep there distance. I think they my not know what to say. It so lonely and I miss my child.

@thegratefultherapist

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this comment. Sorry it took me so long to get back to you, we were evacuated all week due to CA fires. Did the therapist you say specialize in grief? I highly rec a specific grief counselor, also A "bereaved parents" group. When I worked at hospice, the grieving parents really needed each other. Being with others who really get it is important. Sending you strength for getting through this. xo Quenby

@sunshinerain6426

3 жыл бұрын

@@thegratefultherapist She was with the hospice house.

Thank you Quenby for this video! 🙏 The past four years have been a roller coaster ride for me with dffferent difficult situations arising. The most recent is my fur baby passing away 8/20/20🐕😪 and health issues. The pandemic too since this social distancing has been very hard on me. Take care and God bless.

@thegratefultherapist

3 жыл бұрын

Oh I hear you! I mentioned pets in my last video but sorry I did not mention it again here.It is REAL grief. Sending strength your way and sorry it's hard. I feel it too. xoxo Quenby

@castelsposhcloset7166

3 жыл бұрын

@@thegratefultherapist Thank you Quenby for your kind words. 🙏 I will watch your other video. 👍

Thank u

@thegratefultherapist

2 жыл бұрын

You are so very welcome xo Quenby

Hi my name is Sarah reid this is one of the feeling I am having 😂and they come back and they purses them and this is my first year I can’t show my emotions and I feel afraid I am alone everyday and could it happen to me

@thegratefultherapist

Жыл бұрын

Hi Sarah, I encourage you to find a counselor. You are worth it. You can feel better. Find support in your area.

@sarahreid9206

Жыл бұрын

Hi have got the school conslor now thank you

My dad is on life support :( it doesn’t feel real

@thegratefultherapist

2 жыл бұрын

I am so sorry Clair. And yes, it is normal for it to feel unreal. Take very good care of yourself. Quenby