Maybe a basket of vegetables is the new way of showing you love someone. Cost of living is definitely an issue here in Australia.

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

What a cute idea, yes! How nice would it be to receive a basked of fresh local grown veggies!!!

Christine here from The Bucket Garden, NZ. I totally understand what you are going through, my summer season was a complete nightmare due to so many backyard gardeners selling at below cost. I have had to pivot my business, which will hopefully show the fruits of my labour coming into spring. NZ is struggling, cost of living, recession, new government. It’s all playing its part. I thank you for your honesty and enjoy your videos. I love that you’re just so down to earth. Kia Kaha (stay strong)

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Oh I love how you said Kia Kaha! Thankyou! Im sorry your season was horrible :( Its so hard to compete and most customers just don't understand what's going on they just want cheap (especially now). Really tricky to navigate being undercut to the point it affects your business. I hope the pivot goes well!

@christineallan9577

11 күн бұрын

Onwards and upwards. I’m still going to plan for flowers this coming season but also growing the specialist flowers as seedlings to sell to those that are selling flowers. I also have my stepdaughter’s wedding to plan for as she is getting married in my garden, 2 years of planning ahead but I’m going to enjoy the process.

I will watch anything you put out, you're a breath of fresh air and enjoyable to watch.

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Thankyou Kim! That’s very sweet of you 🤍🤍

Thank you for your honesty. I started off with a Facebook page 3yrs ago which I still use, selling bouquets. The amount of scammers really started getting to me. I then had the idea of retirement villages etc, so contacted all the ones within half hour drive. I now do regular workshops with them. Charge for flowers, time and petrol. Using dried at the moment until my fresh start blooming in spring. You spoke of joy... The joy I see on the faces of the elderly when they make their own creations is truely beautiful. I'm now venturing more along that path. Regarding veges.... I am hopeless, so if you started making videos about growing own veg, I'm up for it ❤️. Regarding HRT... It literally saved my life and sanity.. Wish I had started on it earlier. Worth a try x

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Oh I love this idea!!! The more I learn about HRT the more I think it’s a good idea. There will be more veggies!!

Thank you so much for your honesty, Phaedra. I can’t tell you how much I can relate about the business side of things. Wow it’s been hard. I know we’re not very established but this last year I definitely noticed sales dropping. Diversifying income has been so important (including KZread) and now we’re planning on growing more food this year too. That being said, we definitely couldn’t live without Scott’s income right now. I think you have so much value and information to share on your YT channel, and can absolutely see it growing immensely to support new growers. Have you thought about offering online workshops, courses or seminars to your audience? Might be another way to share your knowledge at a more in depth way that would be so useful to others 🥰 Thanks again for sharing and wishing you all the best for the next season!

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Awww Robyn thankyou so much! It's nice to have another KZreadr friend! I have thought about online courses and I have a couple ideas I just haven't had the time to put into it... maybe now I will have time!

💯 avoid Woolworths and Cole’s as much as possible

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Im working on it! I used to.. but the home delivery got me back. Now at least I'll have more time to do groceries!

Just watched the video and you are just amazing Phaedra! Like everyone else has said - love your complete honesty - please don't change! I get so tired of watching the videos where everything grows perfectly, etc. That is not the case on my flower farm for sure!! Failures happen!! I will tell you I'm in my 3rd year - a very small flower farm (3/4 acre) in a very small rural town in the USA. I have a flower stand here at my house that my husband built where I sell pint and quart jars filled with flowers (both mine and supplemental greenery and things I don't have room to grow). I keep my price way down by doing the small jars ($8 and $15 each). My goal like yours is to spread joy - so keeping my cost low I encourage people to buy an extra for someone who is hurting and they do!! I also donate any leftover jars to our local Cancer Clinic for staff and patients receiving chemotherapy as I was in their shoes last year receiving treatment for Lymphoma. I sell on average 60 jars each weekend and most weekends I sell out! I am fortunate that my husband does have a steady job (though not high paying) - and we live modestly so I am able to have the flower farm as my retirement job with my social security income. We lost money the first two years building infrastructure and with cancer last year I had to hire someone which ate any profit. BUT, we are double in sales this year over last! Our town is avg/poor in nature (being rural) but people totally support local small businesses like mine and the local veggie stands! I had the absolute best comment on one of my posts last week - a customer wrote "This is the JOY of Oconee County"! And that is why I do this! If you want to see the flower stand or how my jars look - you can go to Facebook and put in Confetti Flower Farm and you will see The Little Yellow Flower Stand! You won't see me - I never post pics of me - it's all about the flowers, always has been and always will be! And regarding the earrings - how about actually putting dried flowers in them - not just photos - it's huge here in the states (ck ETSY). You have such beautiful flowers and that might be another income stream - just a thought! Also, I am a book cover photographer - and I sell through Self Pub Book Covers online - maybe ck that out as an additional income stream! And for the menopause, I made it through wonderfully taking Maca Root from Peru! It's amazing! Bless you dear Phaedra - you will find your purpose!

@phaedragardeness

11 күн бұрын

Tina! You have such a lovely business model, I love it! So glad to hear things are going well with your business and your health (I hope!). I had a look at your page, your arrangements are gorgeous! I loved those blue hydrangeas and also the stand is so cute and it eye catching too. You also do a great job posting regularly (and your photography is great too). Thankyou for your ideas and your lovely comments too, not just on this video xx

@tinalee7650

11 күн бұрын

@@phaedragardeness Thank you for always being real Phaedra! When I was going through chemo last year, you were the only one I watched because of your sweet attitude! I literally waited for your posts to come out so I could just relax and enjoy them and not think about how awful I felt - they gave me hope and the encouragement to go on and keep my little farm alive for when I was healed. Yes, I am in total remission from both Lymphoma and Colon cancers - thank GOD! Thanks for cking out my page too - I just love what I do here and my community is so supportive!! I received the 12 buckets of the blue hydrangeas from friends and neighbors - can you believe that!! I don't like the photos on my page - they are just iphone shots (no time to shoot good pics!) - my book cover photography is pretty decent - I have over 125 book covers published and some by famous authors like Danielle Steele, John Hart and Nicholas Sparks .... that might be something you want to think about with your talent!! Thanks for writing to me - I just love you and your sweet family!! hugs - tina

I’m also a 5th year flower farmer located in Los Angeles, CA and I compete with the LA flower market which is the largest in the continental United States. It’s always slow this time of year here in the states as people are on vacation. The cost of living is outrageous so no one has time or money for flowers right now. I’m still not giving up. Florists have shared it takes 10 years to start knocking down doors in the floral industry.

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Thankyou for sharing this, 10 years sounds like a lot but I feel in this industry it really isn't. Im happy to hear you aren't giving up!!

Same here in Germany. One out of three is struggling to pay the rent. Am growing vegetables, berries and slow flowers in pots.

@phaedragardeness

11 күн бұрын

Hello!!! Wow thats so cool you are watching from Germany. I love the idea of slow flowers in pots!! one out of three is pretty bad, I wonder what the stats are here now you mention that. Happy growing!

Oh, and on the perimenopause feelings, I can totally relate. Started at 40 for me too and still transitioning at 52! You’re a wonderful human and the world is a better place with you in it. Just be kind to yourself and take it gently. I kinda think you are already answering your calling without realising it - sharing with us and helping people feel more connected on a personal level. Wellness, love, connectivity, humanity, all the parts of being a human navigating the world and living an authentic life.

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Argh thats a long time to go through it isn't it! Awwww that is such a sweet observation to share with me that you think I could already be realising my calling. Im going to ponder on this a bit. yes im all for trying to share this journey authentically. Something I love is the human experience, mine, others, all of it. To me it is so fascinating. Thanks Jennifer xx

being satisfied is the accomplishment, it is the success. Congrats.

@phaedragardeness

11 күн бұрын

Thankyou! that is so true. you always share a positive outlook thankyou!

Ugh. I'm so sorry your flower business isn't thriving. I live in Upstate New York in the US and I was nodding as you talked about groceries, utilities and everything else that is essential being so expensive. I work full time so my flower business is just a side job that I've done for a few years. I sell at a farmers market. I've definitely noticed a decline in the sales of fresh flowers. I press or dry whatever doesn't sell. My framed pressed flowers seem to sell better than the fresh flowers. People don't mind buying a gift for someone else but they've stopped buying weekly flowers for themselves. That's my theory. I'm starting to pivot towards focusing on growing only those flowers that press or dry well. For next season I may give up on fresh flowers all together and switch to craft and art festivals instead of the Farmers Market. Hopefully I can find a different type of customer there that has a bit of spending money. I wish you luck on your new path. It sounds like you're going through what some call a midlife crisis but I call it an evaluation. When you look at where you are compared to where you wanted to be. It's good to redefine goals and figure out what you really want out of life.

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Thankyou for your insights Michelle! That is a very good point that people will still buy presents, I think you might also be onto something offering long lasting flower gifts! Oh I’ve been going through a mid life crisis for the past decade 😂 I’m feeling like I could be on the verge of something soon though.

I am all here for the personal side of your channel. I love hearing about your life and I love gardening so, win win! I hope you find joy in whatever new or additional venture you go in to 💗

@phaedragardeness

11 күн бұрын

Thankyou!!! Thats so nice to hear!

Hey there! Just discovered your channel this morning and watched your first couple of videos and now this one. Going to continue on and watch them all. I love your honesty and joy and contentment and the way you communicate. Have just moved to my own little farm and trying out cut flower gardening while I keep up my day job. You are inspiring. Thankyou for the content you provide. It may sound weird but it strengthens my resolve and it’s almost like a validation of my own work to myself within my own little patch. Wishing you the very best as you continue on in whatever form or direction you choose.

@phaedragardeness

Күн бұрын

Georgia Thankyou! That’s so nice of you!! I know what you mean, I watch others on KZread and it strengthens me and encourages me too! So happy to hear I’m helping in that way too x

A fantastic honest video. Thank you for sharing. I'm a year 2 NZ flower farmer so very overwhelmed but it is my joy and I just know I have to do this. NZ is going through the same issues. No one has any spare money for flowers 😞. I'm about 10 years older and all the big questions you discuss - Why, what am I doing etc etc. are all so healthy to go over. Here's what I think as a 53 year old. If you need income pick up a part time job in something you can stand. Garden centre etc. New people, new connections! Then work part time on your flowers and veg and keep on with youtube. Push on the giving idea, it will fill your life with more love. Get onto HRT!!! I've been on it for 2 years and it's been great. Feeling very level and driven. Still a little tired at times but the symptoms are much less. Create more income from part time work and youtube. Enjoy flowers for the utter Joy they give you. KZread - more videos on floristry skills for DIY home and weddings.

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Oh you are sweet thankyou! It's so overwhelming in the beginning but it does get easier! Once you've figured out the unique timing of your own farm and climate it's so much better but of course that takes a few seasons to work out. Working at a garden centre could be good, I could learn a lot there. yes im going to start looking for a Dr to start the HRT process with :) Thankyou for your lovely comment xx

Totally relate to prei menopause it's a ride. I never thought my body could hurt so much. Thanks for being honest, and absolutely stress is such a bad thing at anytime but when you are in peri menopause the stress seems to amplify it. I am on Instagram and I've tried to show honesty and real life on my account. It's not pretty but it's honest. In the last few years we've had some huge struggles. And massive lows but also some beautiful times. Please keep doing what you do, I really enjoy your channel 🐝🌻🌼

@phaedragardeness

11 күн бұрын

Id love to know your instagram account if you wanted to share that here! Others might like to know too! Thankyou for your lovely comment Nicole xx

It's less about recession and more about the widening of the wealth gap. The USA is not in a recession but people are constantly referring to the 'tough economy'. The economy is doing ok. The rich are getting richer as the rest of us are being distracted by the shiny objects being thrown around. Whether the economy is in trouble or not, if people believe it's bad, then they are less likely to spend. That being said, the US flower industry is worth over 6 billion dollars and not shrinking - so someone is making some good money (back to my earlier point).

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

It’s frustrating isn’t it.

@citymousestudio

13 күн бұрын

@@floweringevergreen3584 My point is the wealth gap is getting larger and regardless of the economy., regular people are finding it harder to make a good living while the rich are getting richer. A recession may come and go but this fact isn't going to change.

Hey Phaedra, thanks for the chat. That's what it felt like - just sitting around the fire, chatting. ❤ My husband and I have owned a restaurant for 7 years and this is the hardest time we've had, financially. Even worse than covid because we were able to get grants from the government for having to close at the time. I feel for you because I understand the heart and soul that goes into making your own business a success. We just have to keep adapting and trying new things and being open to opportunities that come along. I love your ideas. I feel the same way as you do. I wish you the very best with your future endeavours, and I look forward to watching more of your wonderful videos. Cheers ❤

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Michelle thankyou for sharing that. You must feel worried about your restaurant, I hope you can ride it out and it all works out. I really feel for small business right now, it's just so hard.

@michelleadams1210

13 күн бұрын

@@phaedragardenesswe'll be fine. My husband has had to look for extra work though, and I've decided to grow more produce for our restaurant. We have enough space on our property. I just don't have a heap of experience. We will do what is needed. We also have a food van. If all else fails, we can do just that instead. I'm a bit like you, I think it would be hard to work for someone else again. Cheers ❤

I had no idea Melbourne Bushfood closed down! I have a bunch of their plants in my garden and I love them. That's such a bummer. I'm sorry it's so tough at the moment. I haven't been here for very long but I really love your videos.

its the same here in NZ. We are cattle farmers and have seen the cost of living affect us too here on farm. Agriculture interest rates are higher than residential so we are seeing interest rates from 7-12%. The price of fuel, fertiliser, animal health, stock feed etc has all gone up yet we can not sell our cattle for more than what they were selling for years ago. I saw an article here in NZ that said something like the supermarkets here make 4cents profit for every dollar sold and that something like 68 cents went to suppliers and 28 cents were for the supermarkets costs therefore leaving them with 4 cents profit. However in order for them to make sure they make their 4 cents they just put the prices up. Suppliers have to compete because the supermarkets just going to buy from the cheapest supplier. People wonder why meat costs so much but i can assure you the farmers aren't seeing any of the money. Ive noticed many shops closing down. Ive even heard of shop owners being abused by other shop owners (e.g a boutique store where both shops may sell the same brand) because one shop has decided to put something on sale and the other shop cannot afford to do that. Its sad to see how people cannot afford the basics. I dont know when it will get better over here. I dont have much advice. I follow some other flower farmers here in NZ. Some sell Seed, some also sell prints of photos of their flowers, i remember when i was at highschool we use to have rose day where everyone could anonymously send someone else roses and i think at the time maybe they were $2 each and the florist would bring them all to the school office and certain kids would organise them and deliver them to the classrooms. The local florist use to cream it on those days. I wonder if something similar could be done at a school near you obviously at a reasonable price that made sense for you? all of the kids used to love it! Could you also look at doing in person workshops? Floral arranging or workshops on how to flower farm? We have a flower farmer near by that has done something similar and had great success - follow @handsinthedirt_ on instagram. Also what about selling seedlings? plant sales/tuber/bulb sales. It seems to be more popular these days for everyone to start getting into gardening and growing their own. I know i have with dahlias and the price of dahlias here in NZ are ridiculous. One piece of advice ive learnt with farming with the ever changing prices and weather is that a decision made early is a small decision. If you leave making a decision to later on it can end up being a very large decision. E.g theres a drought forecasted sell your cattle early before you run out of feed and every other farmer tries to sell theirs or your struggling financially - ask for help or make the desicion to say go back to work off farm rather then say leaving it til later and the decision having to be wether you actually sell the farm. Im sure this could relate to flower farming also. A decision made early has the greatest impact. :)

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

I imagined the farmers are getting the worst deal out of all of this. Its awful because its going to push farmers out of business then we will have even less variety and less quality meats. How cute is that rose day idea!! Roses are so expensive here (especially the red roses used for valentines but maybe this wasn't done on valentines day?), I don't think kids could afford it but I do love this idea its so sweet

Everything is so expensive here on Vancouver Island. The groceries stores here are a pure monopoly, which is the same for you it sounds like. Our house insurance has sure jumped this year too. Does Australia have property tax? Here, buying locally grown veggies and fruits is way too much. Another place I’ve really been seeing increases is at the nurseries. Flowers are so expensive to buy now to grow in my yard. An idea I always think when I see your yard and your stunning trees, is why don’t you become a wedding venue? It’s a big change, but it may be another idea where you can have flowers, AND make money as a venue.

@phaedragardeness

11 күн бұрын

Oh Vancouver Island looks so pretty! We do have property tax, the government introduced new ones recently too. We do have amazing trees! I should talk about those in a video because there are some big issues with gum trees. Yes !! We have thought about a wedding venue! For very small weddings and elopements. It's definitely on our radar for the future. We have some really nice spaces on the property I haven't really shown yet.

I think that in every challenge there is opportunity- it will come to you... Your very smart-enthusiastic and you got this! I started a Gift Basket business in 2000...after failing 2x's prior...I knew I had a good product but I was in the country and could not get people in my town to buy from me. They thought they were pretty and nice but no buyers...to be honest the first time they were pretty pathetic but the second time I tried they were spot on...after I dissolved the business- maybe 2 years later I had a real estate friend ask me if I still did "those baskets." I told her no but I still had my supplies, how could I help? She had all the gadgets- all the promo stuff they acquire (a whole closet full!!) She asked me if I could do anything with what she had. It intrigued my creative side so I said I'd give it a shot and I told her I'd do it for free. I just wanted to see what I could creatively do... I took a Frisbee and turned it upside down and built a gift basket from that and a few other things she had. I added a few crackers, cookies and a fabulous bow on top...SHE LOVED IT! I LOVED IT...and she asked if I could do all of her gift closings. She worked in a city almost 60 miles from where we lived, but this lead to other real estate agents reaching out, then mortgage brokers, then insurance companies, then title companies, then I started targeting Money Management Brokers and the thing just grew...until I sold it in 2009... People are still going to want and need gifts...if you want to service the public then you just need to figure out a way to make that work...or maybe think outside the box...throw all your preestablished and set ways of thinking about your business out the window...we are in a global recession...and yes, people are hurting... Phaedra, there will always be weddings, birthdays and funerals... small businesses just like yours will be looking for new ways to market....is there new construction in your area? Maybe nursery plants-perennial plants might be the way to bridge you thru this recession...are there resorts or hotels in the area- maybe floral sprays to these upscale businesses is the way to go... I know you had the PETROL (I think that is what you called it) is there a way to re-work that outlet? Keep trying-keep shooting the video's-keep us in the loop...take us along as you try to figure this out...and you will figure it out...I have no doubt...but you have to make money to keep your family afloat during this time... Another thought I had about the multiple streams of income...dried flowers- dehydrated petals for weddings-use the dried flowers for jewelry-wax scents-sachets-and I'm sure there are ideas I'm not even thinking about. How can you sell an "experience" at your farm? Is that doable? Keep thinking outside the box! You got this... Now, I just need to figure out how to message you about perimenopause....girl...lol

@phaedragardeness

11 күн бұрын

Wow that cool how your business took off like that! Unexpected I bet! I like the idea of the "experience" at the farm. It would be amazing if we could put a little tiny house up near the flower field and rent it as a B&B... that would be really amazing but also very expensive to set up! smaller experiences, I will think on that. Thankyou for your kind words and ideas Tonia!

Oh Phaedra, owning and running a small business can be brutal at times, and I applaud you for knowing when the time is to move on and not flog a dead horse. We've been there, and admitting defeat can be gut wrenching, embarrassing and just flat out sad....but there is always HOPE!! You're definitely an ideas Lady, and I know you will come up with something to carry on with. Let me say that you have a great ability to teach, and I think that could be something to think about, coupled with your arty skills and love of all things pretty. One thing I will say, and you would already know this.... when the economy is down, people are looking for affordable options and sometimes we just have to restructure what we do so that it becomes affordable...then when the economy is prosperous again, you can go back to your original business model. Jeremiah 29:11 Take care lovely xx Cathi xx

@Serendipity_Strawberry_Farm

11 күн бұрын

I couldn’t agree more. As the economy struggles sometimes you have to see it as a time to rest and recover and pivot temporarily. Ive watched many YT accounts in the United States go deep into creating more content as they have had their incomes drastically reduced and they aren’t offering subscriptions they are just producing more online content that people struggling everywhere in the world are trying to teach themselves and are learning it through watching YT videos. My understanding of people who use YT to create income is to increase their content and get more subscribers and more people interacting with their platform and Phaedra has a natural gift of not sounding annoying (some YT Ive stopped watching due to their voices or their content just becoming really boring to watch….brutal but honest) Phaedra has a lot to offer that people would engage with during this journey she is embarking on and I will definitely stay engaged as I enjoy her content. My own theory is just keep smiling and sharing wisdom and wisdom comes with age :)

@phaedragardeness

11 күн бұрын

Thankyou so much

@phaedragardeness

11 күн бұрын

Awww thankyou!! Thats nice to hear that Im not annoying hehe. I'll keep trying to not be! I will get more into KZread now I think. Maybe this spare time is what I needed xx

@Serendipity_Strawberry_Farm

11 күн бұрын

@@phaedragardeness I know a little something about spare time now, something I hadn’t had for some 16 years while I had the Mogo Lolly Shop. Even after working 70-80 hour weeks, losing everything inside and outside of my business to the bushfires I still pushed myself to get my doors back open while helping many families that had lost everything, plus trying to navigate insurance companies for my business losses and the lose we had at home. I pushed my body to the brink of collapse and when my Canberra landlord decided that he wanted his building to move his own business into in Mogo I was angry that all of my hard work would result in nothing as there was no other building for me to relocate to due to the devastation of the bushfire. My husband said I needed a break and we had been trying to repair our land after the bushfires but as he worked full time as a store manager and I worked so many hours we did what we could. Financially I didn’t need to work for a little while but decided recently that soon I may become known as the crazy flower lady so I took on 10 hours a week which I thought would be perfect but Im soon realising that I can’t work with companies that are disorganised fools….and they are a big company but have just got no idea how to schedule etc. My husband said to me the other day that I need to contact these people and tell them that Im quitting but I am one of those people who doesn’t like quitting things. I have to make a decision as in only a few short weeks I will begin the process of starting our seeds and I know in my heart that I am happier and healthier than I have been for a few years by the decisions that were made for me rather than the ones I would’ve chosen for myself. Our bees will be here in just a few short months, Im still building their native feeding garden at the moment and my husband has finally started working 4 days a week rather than 6 so that means we are both here repairing and caring for our land and building the dream I had to walk away from 20 years ago when my first husband and I divorced and I had to close down my flower and cattle breeding business. Take this time to not see anything as failure just see it as someone else forcing your body to recover and deal with the beginnings of menopause. Take flowers and surplus vegetables to your local market and create YT content from the many things you’ve done. Don’t beat yourself up, that is something I had to say to myself after having to close my Lolly shop, we get one go at this life there’s no second chances. Sending a kiss for each cheek and a hug….You’ve got this 🥰

Winters are usually a quiet time. I’ve basically shut down my flower stall. I still grow and sell plants but it’s always more quiet in the winter.

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Hello! We have been fairly steady through winter in the past. Last year it got quiet then this year it seems almost non existent!

I don't think I need to add a comment, the ones I have read here are everything I would have said. Enjoy your rest, it's winter! If it's a recession yes the rest may be a bit longer but not forever, so you are on the right track to finding your joy in whatever your next sideline/hobby turns out to be. I have been looking up the meaning of the winter solstice (which we just had) and found this. "The symbolism of the Winter Solstice, with its longest night and the promise of increasing daylight, can be a powerful metaphor for hope, renewal, and the triumph of light over darkness." So too, will your flowers in your garden start waking up now that the days are getting longer and your orders may start coming back in. Regarding your HRT idea, have you looked at natural therapies such as "Happy Healthy You", founded by Lisa Curry Kenny? She also has a book you can get at Big W. Love everything you put out on this channel and yes your photography and videography is amazing! x

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Oh I love that about Winter Solstice, so beautiful ✨ 🌙 🌷 Thankyou! I haven’t seen Lisa Curry’s stuff, I’ll check it out!

Phaedra why aren’t you doing vegetable subscription boxes? It would only have the produce each week that is in season. We will be doing this to make sure that we have an income stream all year. We built our greenhouse high tunnel for this reason. We are doing other major things here that will help people to grow themselves.

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Hello! We have a lovely couple in town (our very small tight knit town) who do this exact thing. They have been doing it for years now. So im not sure how the community would react to this. But a couple of others did suggest veggie gift baskets as an alternative to gifting flowers and I do feel like that could be something to try!

@Serendipity_Strawberry_Farm

12 күн бұрын

@@phaedragardeness Maybe put your excess veg out the front in a stall and let people purchase who may not be looking for a subscription. A family that I know grow the vegetables that go into Canberra every week to be delivered as part of a Canberra vegetable box subscription. As the group independently couldn’t grow everything that was needed, they buy from other small farms to make up their subscription boxes every week. Or take your extra and do the markets every weekend and as the flowers will still bloom take some with you and sell them a little cheaper. I understand and appreciate the gift box vegetable concept but my concern for you is that if people aren’t buying flowers for themselves or to gift why would they gift vegetables.

@wendycullingworth3879

11 күн бұрын

Perhaps collaborate?​@@phaedragardeness

I sell bouquets at two farmer's markets in my area. One is a rural town and the other is in a more upscale neighborhood. I'm noticing that there are fewer people purchasing fresh flowers and opting to purchase produce and food products instead. Last year at the upscale market the flowers sold out. Not this year. I also noticed an increase in buyers using cash instead of their cards. I don't know what that means other than interest rates are higher and people's cards might be maxed out or saved for important items instead of impulse buys. I love your idea about sharing. When I lived in the suburbs not one of my neighbors knew how to grow veggies. They all said they couldn't keep anything alive. I get it, some people don't like to garden. But if things continue like they are, everyone should be able to grow at least tomatoes. Personally, I think tomatoes are the gateway drug to gardening veggies. People need to learn the basics. Sun, water, nutrients, when to plant when to harvest. Out in the country more people have veggie gardens. But perhaps you could foster community. What if everyone grew different things and then shared. Teach kids to grow veggies and flowers. Can you have workshops on your farm?

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Thankyou Patricia, Those are all such great ideas! yes I want to encourage people to grow veggies, and share what they grow! I think growing flowers it's easy to see how you can gift those and brighten someones day. Gifting veggies is also touching.

Why don’t you offer flower & photo packages?

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

We could that again. I did offer this in the past and it didn’t really go far. Then I think I’ve been so busy trying to set everything up and making money I didn’t focus on other things. So this gives me time at least!

I love your honesty, iam so sorry to hear the flower farming isn’t quite what you thought it would be. My dad has a saying “ the sun will shine”, iam a great believer that life changes when you need it to and if you keep a positive mindset you will be okay. I can’t wait to see where your life goes from here.

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Oh Caz I love that your Dad says that! The sun will shine. How true. We love the flower farming, but the flower selling is the tricky part that is kind of falling apart. Im excited to see where my life goes too!

Taking stock and learning how to pivot, supplement, and keep moving towards something that you love (ie that doesn't feel like work)...some growers make enough money with their video alone, some make money filming other content makers in their gardens...while some open shops and/or website. People ALWAYS need food - and you do have a farm - and if you have a greenhouse you're ahead of the game during winter. Community outreach and encouraging to buy local (ie.CSAs and farmstands etc.)...flowers ARE a luxury item, but you can sell plant starts. Don't give up, don't give in - be a solution and don't get bogged in the mire - find your mission - teach people edible landscaping that combines food and flowers...donate your excess to community centers/churches etc. You will find your purpose...just live in an abundance mentality...and pray (a much overlooked answer)

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

I agree we need to just move with things and be able to pivot :) Id love to make enough money from videos to live off, that would be really cool. Our local community is very supportive and have purchased from us, its just most dont have extra money anymore. Even people with larger incomes tend to have higher debt so they are in the same boat. Anyone with kids is really struggling. Thankyou for your encouragement!

@mdorn6592

13 күн бұрын

@@phaedragardeness I will keep you in my prayers...I've enjoyed your videos. *Succulents and dried flower sales are an option during the off season. Best of luck to you and your family

Hi Phaedra This is my first video of yours and I'm sending you a hug. Here in the UK we are in a recession and about to go to elections. Cost of living is hard, and I too have stopped buying flowers as a treat. But !! My friends and I are buying vegetables on line or like me from a local shop that delivers home grown from local allotments/farms. There are less air miles, less pesticides, the choice is seasonal and the quality is really good and most importantly for me supporting local. I have always had the motto use it or lose it. So go for vegetable delivery and good luck. x

@phaedragardeness

11 күн бұрын

Hello and welcome!! How nice of you to leave a comment the very first time you watched me!! Thanks for the hug too. I love that you are supporting local!! Im getting back into it now, and it's exciting. it feels good! xx

@whereseagullsfly8250

11 күн бұрын

@@phaedragardeness Wonderful xx

Love your down to earth personality. Hope things get better for your business. In these tough times, flowers bring so much joy and hope.

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Thankyou Donna!

I'm in South Australia and just building my new flower farm for Spring planting. I'm lucky that we have a best friend who owns and runs a fresh produce market for me to sell at. Things are getting tough though and times are looking bleak for so many. We are in the midst of a housing crisis here, with many families homeless and living in their cars or couch surfing. I love the idea of giving and am part of the Grow Free community on fb with the motto "take what you need, give what you can". It's a way of community sharing and helping those in need without any hardships having to be disclosed - so many find it shameful and won't ask for help. It's such a pity.

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Hello! Wow so exciting to be starting flower farming! Its amazing! So good you have a sales outlet ready to go too!!! We have a housing crisis here too, with the same heartache of families homeless. There are little communities that have popped up places (like along the river and places) where families are camping together. It's nice they are together but what crappy circumstances to have to be camping in. I will see if we have a Grow Free around here, thankyou!

You're floundering for sure. But don't despair, you aren't the only one. Far from it. I am much older now; and I've been through a lot. Back when I was floundering, I asked everyone for advice except The One who knew best. I wish I had known then what I know today. Why wouldn't I ask The One who made me and established my purpose in the first place? I look at it now as a reason I am still here - that is to learn and grow as He has ordained. Further, I think we should all pray for wisdom at any age.

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

E (I know your name and love it but acknowledge you may want to keep it private so I’ll use E too🤍), Thankyou! Yes 100%! I’ve been praying 🙏🏻. Sometimes answers or direction take time though, and sometimes we have to flounder for a bit first. Hope it comes to me soon though.

@ECole-le7we

13 күн бұрын

One other thing I have learned over the years is that whenever I ask Him a question, He answers. Sometimes it's right away, but sometimes I have to wait longer than I would hope. He is teaching me patience!

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Yes!! I have learnt that too. And He WANTS us to ask Him!!

Phew, real talk! Lovely by the fire. Look at this huge number of beautiful comments on this video, with gratitude, encouragement, commiseration and well wishes. I love spaces like this where people realize how much they are not alone. Hopefully some fresh ideas get borne too! I wouldn't be surprised if your florist business can pop its head up again in the future. Curious, do you think your location (less populated) has something to do with fewer sales? I'm not a flower seller but have been experiencing the pinch recently while doing necessary house renovations and repairs, those costs have gone up massively, like doubled or probably more. I noticed flower costs went up a lot too (in the past what, 10 yrs?). I wonder if people are growing their own flowers more?? Anyhow for the time being it's an amazing position to be in to have land, fertile soil and an operational farm along with at least one good job and family happiness. Love those ideas for giving to people who need some love from the community! Those kinds of endeavors don't pay good wages but who know what good may come from it 💕

Hi Phaedra, I’m sorry for your problems. Since Covid our country has been destroyed. I’m so mad with the supermarkets with the prices that they charge and the profit they make and in the next breath our politicians have given themselves a pay rise. People are buying the necessities than buying things like flowers. I’m a luckier person because I’m on my own since loosing my husband and my children have grown and left but my utilities are high and I still struggle to pay them. My loving husband made sure that I was taken care of financially thank god for that. Keep the flowers for anyone who needs bouquets but maybe explore growing more vegetables to sell at your own roadside store out front. I’m growing more vegetables than buying them at a supermarket. Thank you for sharing Phaedra, give yourself a break you have done well supporting your family in hard times.❤love Marie

@noragoss5857

13 күн бұрын

Phaedra…what a blessing you are to your Utube followers . I can tell your goal is eternal, not earthly. I live in central US and have followed your videos because of your honesty, beautiful flowers and gorgeous bouquets. Thanks for introducing me to Australia. You are a great ambassador for your country.

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

@noragoss5857 how lovely of you thankyou so much!! Thankyou for recognising im chasing eternal goals!

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Oh the politicians and their outrageous salaries THEN their pay rises! It makes me sick too! Your husband is so sweet for leaving you in a nice situation like that

I've always thought any job can be meaningful and satisfying, and sometimes beautiful. Even when it's not great at the moment, later reflecting upon it and learning from experience and people makes life as good as it can be. You seem to be building a beautiful life. Your idea about donating flowers made me teary.

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Thankyou Maricel! That is true, it's all about perspective isn't it. I think this might be the new direction - A Beautiful Life (for me and anyone else I can make it beautiful for!!)

Thanks for your honesty. I think you’re made for being in front of the camera. You’re so natural in the way you converse. I think you should pursue / persist in the KZread side of things. Love your videos.

@phaedragardeness

11 күн бұрын

Wow thankyou so much Rebekah! Im going to try put more time into it now!

Hey sorry to hear. Things have been tight in Canada for the last couple years. The cost of living is also pretty high, especially groceries. The thing about recessions is that they don't last forever. Hopefully next year will be bountiful.

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Thanks Daniel, you are right, they don’t last forever!

I’ve noticed that flower farmers that are popular in nz keep sales going through sales of dahlia tubers and speciality seedlings/plants during the colder months before they can start doing events and bouquets in the warmer months. Your videos are awesome, best wishes

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

It's smart how some flower farmers have the extra ways to make money! Ive had it on my mind but I havent really done much about it. Maybe this will push me. Ive only done the dahlia tuber sales. I'll take some time to work on this now at least. Thanks for your nice comment!

It's noticeable here in NZ to, cost of living is high, lots of our shops have closed down we have a lot of empty shop fronts in our main street of our small town. I get my groceries delivered to its cheaper than me driving to town tbh. But I do go to a local organic vege farm for most of my veg, i grow some aswell but mostly I grow flowers. so far just roadside stall and some in a small grocery store that I do trade for (credit from the store) also getting a small customer base built up who message to order so am wondering if I start a website for people to order from I'll see how this next season goes. My partner works full time as a self employed builder so we do have a mostly stable steady income from that fortunately.

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Hi Jess, thankyou for your comment! Yes ive heard it's pretty bad in NZ too :( I love getting my groceries delivered! I think I'll work on supporting more local now too though, it could keep another business afloat. Love how you trade flower for store credit in a grocery store thats amazing!! Gees makes me think I could supply a few places with flowers for their counters in exchanged for my beloved hot chocolates hehe. I do recommend a website. Anything that makes it easier for customers is a good thing and a website is a nice way to keep things organised. Google will direct people from out of town to your website too.

Great discussion, interesting times we live in for sure. Folk will still buy for gifts if not for themselves, good ideas for that scenario. Also there is so much more pressure on shop fronts that I believe opportunities will continue to present for the small business with less overhead. I’m thinking people still need / want special event flowers, perhaps offering buckets of flowers for people to arrange themselves may be another option. I’ve built my large garden with the thought that if the economy goes very bad I’ll easily transition to Vegies and will have plenty to share. I enjoy your content and creativity and look forward to the next stage of your journey, best wishes.

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Thankyou Glenda! Ok the flower buckets might be a goer.. I could trial that when the season starts for sure. I am really happy to be adding veggies back into my garden and I feel like it's going to be nice to share those too. Thankyou!

I think you're on the right track. Giving of yourself to others is very emotionally satisfying and uplifting. I live in the states and am just setting up my farm for next year. We are fortunate enough that my husband has a just started a well paying job and we've been able to purchase a new home. At this time I do not have to return to work, but with things also being very expensive here (housing and food are outrageous) and our upcoming election, (which is it's own sort of craziness) I am sure I will have to in a few months. I may also have to "rethink" my farm strategy depending on the outcome of the election and economy (really, it's crazy). Maybe you can think of a "buy one donate one" for your flowers and veggies. You could have a list of worthy causes that the purchaser could chose from for the donation. I wish you all the best of luck on your transformation!

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Thankyou Sue!! Buy one donate one is a good idea. I’m writing down everyone’s ideas 💡. How fun to be setting up your farm!! Congratulations on the big purchase and this new lifestyle!!! Yep.. we are following your election closely..

I share the tight budget situation, I'm not running a heater this winter to save money, and I am COLD!! If I am in this situation I can see why people can't buy flowers. Flowers are soooo beautiful but most likely low on the list of purchases. I feel for you and Moroni, it's a tough gig.

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Oh my goodness that is awful for you :( We have our heater on and im a bit scared for the bill (we have some solar panels though and it does help.. and it's been sunny. so fingers crossed). I hope things get better for you xx

Ditto here in USA. Economy, recession...all of that. It's really a global issue now. I pivoted and I'm growing more food. I must have the flowers to keep the pollinators and birds happy and in return they help keep the pest pressure down. I try to grow enough so that after I can, or preserve somehow I can help others. i barter for example beans for eggs since I don't have any hens at the moment. Hang in and use what knowledge and skills you've aquired to flesh it all out to benefit all. xoxo

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Thankyou Cathy! I want to get chickens, we are working on an idea for that :) Yes, flowers and vegetables growing together is the plan!!!

It's hard this time of year, I know many small businesses are struggling

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Its so sad watching as one closes after the other :(

Google algorithms punish you for closing even for a short time. And we're in school holidays where extra funds are going towards activities and holidays. I definitely think those two factors come into play in a huge way.

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Oh crap. I didn’t close on Google but I’m sure the seo in the website talks and I had the pop up we were closed.

@christy.franklinhomestead

12 күн бұрын

​@@phaedragardenessYep the algorithm is big brother. 🫠

If you haven’t looked her up yet, Dr Marie Claire Haver is a great resource for menopause care. Her book the new menopause is great. I’m thinking this is my year to push for hrt as well. Good luck to us both. Is there a native stingless bee you could look into introducing onto the property??? It would probably help heaps with pollination be it veg or flowers. Contemplating while you have time to think is a smart thing to do. I know you said you don’t want to do the daily grind, though is it possible to do a temporary contract work over winters to earn a little?? A couple of days a week?? Enjoy the colder weather. We’ve actually been given a real winter in Brisbane this year. It’s so weird.

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Ive been listening to podcasts where Dr Marie Clare Haver is being interviewed! she did a great with on Diary of a CEO. I havent read her book though I should get it. I think we have a good amount of pollinators, a lot of people have bees around us! Im not sure what job I could do as a temporary thing. Moroni said to me today he thinks I should take time off working for a few months and work out what to do while he works. Isn't he sweet. He feels like im on the verge of something and need to keep my mind free so it can come to me!

@FridayKetchup

13 күн бұрын

@@phaedragardenessthat podcast she did is one of my favourites. Moroni is a good, kind man. Thank goodness our tax season and the fallow of winter coincide. Get the admin and prep done so you can bound forward with confidence when spring rolls around. I always feel like these moments of ennui are kind of like pulling back a rubber band. Looking back to make forward momentum with purpose.

@phaedragardeness

11 күн бұрын

Im really feeling more and more like I needed this rest too.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts Phaedra. Life is hard for so many right now. Here in NZ we are basically the same as you, business closing, people struggling with the cost of everything. By the way you don't look 40😉. I look forward to whatever content you put up.

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Thankyou Yvonne 🤍. I thought NZ might be very similar to here. I’ve got some kiwi friends here who have said the same too.

Best wishes.Sorry you are having a stressful time.

Hi, so first of all I love your heart for wanting to serve… you’re obviously hearing from God in asking yourselves what’s the purpose or mission and wanting to please The Lord. In America there’s a KZread channel called Roots n Refuge (not sure if you’ve heard of it or even watch it) anyways she’s very popular and has approximately 600,00 followers. She grows vegetables but doesn’t sell them she just shares her family’s journey and teaches. When she first started out she only put up a few videos sporadically (I want to say for the first year or so) then she made a decision to make her channel a full time job meaning she made videos a couple times a week or more and when she did that her channel took off and of course making more money. I think you have that talent!Your funny and you can teach have a lovely family so Just make videos, I think you can make a great living. God Bless and will keep your family in prayer😊🙏

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Thankyou Teresa!! This made me feel so happy!! I know Roots n Refuge (well not personally but I watch them)! yes I love what they do, that would be amazing to be able to do that too :) Thankyou for your encouragement and believing in me!

Love you and your flowers!! Wish I could give you a hug. Hope you can figure out a way to have an income and also something fulfilling for yourself 💕

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Awww Kathleen you are sweet 🤍 thankyou.

Yes! New ideas and adventures but keep it going so you can pivot back into flowers when the economy picks up. See if you can register as a charity…

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Im wondering if I close down the florist shop for the rest of winter to give myself the thinking space and open up again in Spring... see how things are then?

Hi I’m sorry to hear your business is struggling. It’s difficult everywhere atm. I don’t think we are speaking enough about these difficulties. Could you grow baskets of vegetables for clients.? Just like you struggle they might appreciate veg rather than flowers.

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Hi Christine! Thanyou xx Yes! Someone else mentioned this idea too and I love it! I will see if I can grow enough to do this in the warm season!!!

Have you considered re-opening your roadside stand sales channel? In addition to your online sales channel? I think it targets a different customer. On your website you can have an option for a donation bouquet. The economy is challenging here in the US too. Had an irrigation contractor here to make a repair and he said it was very slow for him too.

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Hello! Thankyou for your ideas! I really think the roadside sales is over. Its extremely challenging with all the weather (for us, we got sick of being out in the elements all the time) and many of those customers were buying flowers for themselves, which people just aren't doing anymore. We will still do it for Valentines and Mothers Day though!

I'll ring you tomorrow.x

@phaedragardeness

11 күн бұрын

Thankyou for the chat!

Hi I'm in Gippsland and I understand what you're going through I'm a florist living on property I also had the idea of growing my own but I don't believe that this is a good time at the moment. I was wondering what if we create groups of florists that work together.

@phaedragardeness

11 күн бұрын

Hello! It's definitely worth starting to grow your own now! You'll learn so much from it and it will cut down your flower costs in the warmer seasons. If you already have customers and orders coming in, it's a great idea to grow some of your own flowers!!

Maybe you could focus on the special holiday sales like Mother’s Day, Easter, Etc.

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

We will still do those!

Increasingly difficult times it seems right across the world....and certainly personally we all will struggle at times in life...Phaedra❤,.... theres many things one could say, but who really knows the plans for our lives and how long we are here for but our Creator, Himself!? A miriad of scriptures come to mind but ponder on...' seek first the kingdom of God , and all these ( all your needs) will be added unto you'....what does it mean? Who formed us Psalm 139? And whats our purpose and where are we going when life here ends? All these questions cover much of what you mentioned, ..... Seek the Lord, His wisdom is beyond measure. He will lead you when you seek Him with all your heart and soul🙏🏼

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Thankyou so much Janelle! Gees I love it so much we have such a nice community here and so many faithful people and likeminded christians too! I think I got so busy I stopped relying on the Lord as much as I used to. this has been a wake up call and I really appreciate your words xx

Our economy is the US is struggling as well ...but the people with alot of money.....its not affecting them ofcourse....I keep saying I dont understand how people are making it right now...groceries are outrageous in the stores....and it feels like no one is saying anything but I pray things change as well

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Hello again! People here are talking about it for sure :( But yes.. those with a lot of wealth I think are doing quite well out of it.

What if you had a bridle registry where people could gift a part of the brides flowers. Like you could gift a table centerpiece. Menopause is brutal and definitely affects your emotions. I hope whatever you do is successful and love your idea about charity. Here in the US there are plenty of farms that have corporations sponsor flowers to nursing homes etc. your KZread is always uplifting

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Thankyou! Great ideas! I love that idea for the bridal registry! Ive taken wedding flowers off the menu for now though but I'll remember this for future!

Thanks

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Oh my goodness thankyou so much this is so kind of you!!!

Diversity is the key ❤

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Yes!! I am working on this now!!! Thanks Sarah :)

Love your videos whether u keep your business going or not...if you keep growing.....I will keep watching !!

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Aww thankyou Nikki!

$40 FOR EARINGS 😊😊

@phaedragardeness

11 күн бұрын

Wow really? I feel like I'd have to think twice paying $40!

🦋🦋🦋

😢 l was a little shocked & sad to hear all that because it seemed to me that you were going really well now. I know the economy is terrible, but could this lull just be temporary, especially being winter & the fact that you have been away. I too, am really angry at supermarkets & the way they treat growers. It's totally disgusting. I worry that before long all our fruit & veg will have to be imported ......so much for supermarkets going on about proudly Australian grown etc, while in the meantime, they are rapidly putting Australian farmers out of business. I'm not sure what business to pivot too. I am lucky in that l am retired, but l did spend last winter making some crafts to sell at a local market &, while l enjoyed it, it was quite labour intensive & l hardly sold any of it. For me, selling flowers has been much more profitable. Not enough to sustain a living though, but l don't really need to & l wasn't trying to. Really hope things pick up for you.❤

@phaedragardeness

13 күн бұрын

Thanks Diane