If a lady wants to be happy in life, she must be self dependent, always work on self improvement and overall growth in life. This way she has very less relationship troubles in parents house and in-laws house and she eventually gets respect from both the houses. Shifting focus from small small relationship problems (expectations and hurt) to continuously working towards improving overall quality of life is the key. There may be times initially when you are misunderstood but worry not, soon others will start respecting you. No-one messes with you and you get everything in life from money, health, good relationships and a peaceful mind.

@nishrinvaghjipurwala4061

6 ай бұрын

Sir mere pas ek beti do bete he Tino bachche videsh me settelled he Mere pas tun prooerty he jo me tino ko dugi Par shart te he beti bete tino muze same ammount kharacha bheje Beti ko apna huq chahiye to use jimmedari bhi leni hogi Seva bhi karni padegi esa nahi hona chahiye ki seva to bahu aur beta kare aur nanad sirf huq jatane aa jaye Abhi abhi big b amitabh ne apni beti ko bunglow diya to usi time bete ko bhi de dete ek bunglow Beta bahu to sath rahe seva kare fir marne ke bad milega to ye galat he

@simranseera9279

6 ай бұрын

@@nishrinvaghjipurwala4061 Mam apko zabardasti sewa karake kyu unko pareshan karna hai, jab bhi aisa time aye jab physically apko unki zarurat ho wo aa jayenge ap hi ke to bache hain. Apke pas property h ya source of income hai to ap apna kharcha khud hi bear kar sakte ho, kisi ka ehsaan kyu Lena hai. Apni passive income pehle khud par lagao, ache se jiyo, care taker or house helps rakho, ghumo firo. Jo baccha apko zyada time de or apke zyada kaam aye use ap apni taraf se expensive gifts ya gold de diya karo unko acha lagega. Remember Jo bacha apke liye present rehta hai wo zyada emotional hone ki vaje se aisa karta hai use koi laalach nahi h. Koi or bacha shayad itna emotional na ho or uski busy life ho. Beti ho ya beta ap hi ka hai, unko judge mat karo, or unka haq barabar rakho.

@seemakaushik7815

6 ай бұрын

Agar aap apnay sabhi bacho ko equal property ma hissa datay ha roo sab ko jimadari bhi equal uthani padagee

@moviegoers9645

6 ай бұрын

That’s good 👍🏻 advice

@green.frugal.minimalist1316

6 ай бұрын

Hi Simran...you are right but a little problem is here... when a women don't engage on petty issues of family and focus own her own life improvements and career development thn most of the time husband became insecure... why?..because when the wife focus on herself, her career, her self development etc she definitely rise to a point where she gain respect from others but because of it her husband becomes insignificant in front her achievements which most mon can't tolarate... men actually love when his wife mind and engage his own families issues and even quarrels.... I see it through my personal experience.

1. Generally, husbands ask the wife to make a good relationship with the sister. Please do not destroy the relationship with your spouse due to relatives and other people. Live in a separate and nearby house than your parents if you need to 2. Saas/Sasur and Maa Baap are different. They have their own great place in life but please do not consider them as same and equal. Our behaviours cannot be the same with both 3. Similarly Beti and Bahu are different

@classynari

3 күн бұрын

Alag Ghar m rehne Lage toh sasural valee aur bolte h ki bete ko alag krdiya ......koi mana nai Kiya hai bete ko rehne ko saas sasur k sath but problm tab hoti hai.....jab bahu ko faltu m parshan kiya jata h

I have 4 sister in laws....Sara din phone pe report leti rehti hai. 😢😢

@user-xu4fw4wi5h

10 күн бұрын

जब सास ससुर के हाथ पाव न चले तीन तीन महीने बेटियों के पास भेज देना

@SandeepKaur-nv7bk

6 күн бұрын

Same here

@ReenaDevi-ep3rh

6 күн бұрын

Same here

@priyankapattanaik5414

6 күн бұрын

Phone charge karna band kar do

@praveshkajal6894

6 күн бұрын

बहुत बढ़िया सलाह-मशविरा है ये तुम भी सोच लेना किसी घर मे तुम भी nanad हो

Saving money is not the only reason to stay with parents. Many sons spend more money( than rent) to be with parents due to 1.under society pressure 2. To be declared good son n brother

@jaikumararora9541

7 ай бұрын

Ekdum sahi kaha. A son does bot get respect in society if he separates himself from his parental house. And also many a times itself parents does not allow their son to live in another premises, even if it is next door apartment.

@sstalks469

7 ай бұрын

I live with my parents and it's super expensive. My nephew (2) stays with them hence net expenses are more. Plus I have a nepali wife she just knows to spend and spend and spend cos all of her cousins are married to foreign nepali and I can't match their expenses. Over all my net saving is 0. I can't even buy a god dam playstation 5

@varunmittal3617

7 ай бұрын

​@@sstalks469 sad

@arjunsworld205

7 ай бұрын

Meri nanad ke saas sasur nahi hain .. They celebrate nearly all festivals with us . She has a big family in sasural but hardly meets her brother in laws or their families. But my FIL and Mil dont ever say any thing . सारे नियम क़ानून दूसरों की बेटियों के लिए होते हैं ।

@naina763

7 ай бұрын

Some parents dnt let do der sons job.... Kyu ki... Agar ladka jayda kama lega... Tho parents se paise kaise mange ga... Son n dil ko daba k rakhne ko ek humare neighborhood mai hi... Dey dint let there son get job wen he was young.... Saying ki tuje kya jarurat hai paiso ki... Wen he aged usko acha job nahi mila... N bauth late uski shadi ki gaon ki ladki se..ki woh ladki ghar k Sare kaam karegi... Now that man don't have enough money.... He is having 2 kids... Now he have to depend on his parents... Dis toxic Indian parents r😢😢

Sau baat ki ek baat. Rishta wohi sahi hai jo khushi de, shanti de. warna..... Har kand ke peechhe kaam, krodh, moh, lobh, aur ahankar hai.... Aur jaha ye saare aa gaye use situation or relation me satark ho jaaye.... Thodi doori banani jaroori hai.

Sisters only we can break this joint family cycle, study hard get a job and have enough to get your house. This does not mean you don’t respect your in-laws, this means you have respect for yourself.

In my opinion, it’s emotional insecurity that comes in the way of drawing boundaries. Sometimes parents are manipulative and keep playing favourites to exhibit control, which ruins all relationships. If they make both children independent in every way, a lot of issues will be resolved. 😊

@FlowersAmazing

7 ай бұрын

Very true! Manipulative parents... and they love to play favoritism! Pure narcissists!

@shilpis6304

7 ай бұрын

Parents are always manipulative

@seemakaushik7815

6 ай бұрын

Not always

@ayushimishra1912

6 ай бұрын

True

@ninanani4085

6 ай бұрын

@@seemakaushik7815 u r lucky, rare. Bhai behno ka apas ka jhagda hi maa baap ki wajah se hota hai

This type Duniya Dari ka knowledge actually useful for our Generation

My sister in law is the head of the family in my in law family, she visits here more than 8 months in a year , she is too much pampered and spoiled….

@itsvpk11

4 күн бұрын

You should start living separately with husband if too much trouble.. or best move to another city for job as excuse 😉

Parents ne ladke bahu k chkkr me Apni beti ko mayke aane se mna kar diya Na vaar na tyohar Bcoz bahu ne shart rkhi k pehle apni beti ka mayka khatam kro tab apke bete ka ghr basaungi Bina kisi galti k maa baap ne sab khatam kr diya Shukar hai self depend hu Sasuraal vale ache hain Otherwise mayke valo ne to aisa haal kr diya tha... Ab insaniyat se bharosa utth gya hai Jab apne maa baap aisa or skte hain to ..... Par chalo sabar hai Bhgwan apne aap dekhega Jisne jaisa b kiya Or humare sasural me alag hisab hai Beti ko beto se jyada hissa diya gya hai Uske baccho ko humare baccho se jyada Or bola gya hai k beti sbse upar hai....

@Anitajolly222

7 күн бұрын

Bilkul mere khaani jaise h apki khaani

@AnjaliShrama-ld7cv

7 күн бұрын

Bhut interfere krti hogi tum Bhai or bhabhi k bich tbhi asa bhabhi ne bola hoga vrna Bina bat ke kyu asa kregi vo ....

@ishasingh820

7 күн бұрын

​@@AnjaliShrama-ld7cvit's not the case always. Sometimes Nanad kitni bhi achi kyun na ho Bhai and bhabhi Kahane doondhte usko blame kare ka so that they do not visit at all.

@vizulchaudhary422

4 күн бұрын

Apne bhabhi k sath kuch galat kiya hoga ki bhabhi itna irritate hogi apse ki ana thk band krwa diya ..nanad bhi kha km hoti h unko mayke m bhabhi pr order chalane hote h

@gaganmukund2515

Күн бұрын

​@@vizulchaudhary422 Mere hisab ajkl kisi ko itni fursat nhi h mayke Jake order chlaye bhabhi prr ......

My husband build house but because of my sister in law's influence I was asked to shift to rented house with my two babies! My mother in law stays in three storey bungalow alone. I live with children in 2BHK While husband works abroad.Some people are pure evil.

@amol9616113945

6 ай бұрын

Very good move or decision. Let your mother leave alone .

@divinesoul1313

6 ай бұрын

2BHK me Shanti hai na?

@neelamkhorwal5637

6 ай бұрын

Aapke pati ko aapne nahi uski maa ne Paula hai....usko izzat do pehle Pyar khud se mil jayega

@amol9616113945

5 ай бұрын

Very good decision 😂

@amol9616113945

4 ай бұрын

Mere yaha bhi same huwa hai

Sometimes money is not the problem but if son share his thought of having his own personal house next to them even that klesh happens .Very next day Mil will call her all relatives " Bahu nay mera beta cheen liya , kush to jadu tona kiya hai bahu nay .Like every bahu is having special kala jadu classes

It is not always due to financial problems.. This happens.. It also happens when nanand is over possessive about her brother ..she doesn't consider her bhabhi as a family..

@archanashinde1764

6 ай бұрын

She always thinks bhabhi is outsider. Bhabhi also takes the whole responsibility of family in a financial way that too taking care of house..but she is still outsider for her

@wowser2153

6 ай бұрын

@@archanashinde1764it is a problem in India that bahu has rights in property acquired by husbands parents. She should only have right on her husband’s income.

@themagicisreal9910

6 ай бұрын

Same

@Gshgshshs123

2 ай бұрын

My story

You deserve nobel prize for such type of awareness

@shashiputhran8605

16 күн бұрын

True🙏

Its the practical reality. ..well explained .Bahu is also a daughter of her parents. ....and same thing applies to her as daughter when she visits her parents home

Best thing ye h ki jb bhi nand festivals pr aaye vacation pr aaye tb bahu bhi apne ghr me jaye festivals, vacation celebrate krne very simple

@KK-yj4oo

6 ай бұрын

What a Idea Mind blowing 🤣🤣

@jyotiprajapati2837

19 күн бұрын

Tab tak nanad ghar ka kabada kar degi

@Anita-wg2bu

18 күн бұрын

How will the children will have bonding

@rinkudevi3545

3 күн бұрын

Hamare ghar to sare festival per nand aati hai bahu festival per mayke chali Gaye Kam kon karega ye rewaj he nahi hai

Even sister in laws are jealous of Bhabi status sometimes And they deliberately create problems even if everything is going smooth

@abhaysoni926

6 ай бұрын

Right.. ..

@divinesoul1313

6 ай бұрын

Maine dekha hai bahu log jealous krti hai...nanad se.

@archanasingh7215

6 ай бұрын

Very true

Woowww...such a great knowledge for our society🎉😊Amazing❤🎉

Very well said.,sir. But please put some light on interference by bahu's parents,sisters brothers and relatives. These days boy's parents are staying away but girls' parents live with their daughter. Also one scene you have missed is when nanad is young and unmarried,then what should be the approach of parents.

@lawanyaarvind2810

15 күн бұрын

Well said

Excellent advice sir, being independent is this only solution to these problems

Kdva h but true h … I am one who have four nanad and this video changed my whole process of thinking thanks sir it’s really needed for me and such women who like me

My mom has thrown me under bus and treats daughter in law as daughter. I lost job and only earning member of the family but no help from mother or brother even though she is investing crores of money for him while I am begging for job. Even though I haven't fought for anything 😢

@yeontankieomma5112

6 ай бұрын

Same sister pr sabko bahu sahi lgte hai 😢

@swatishukla5184

6 ай бұрын

@radha consider talking to advocate

@SaritaSingh-dx8lv

6 ай бұрын

Typical Indian mother 😂😂😂 yeh hain humari tyag ki murat

@radha4615

6 ай бұрын

@@swatishukla5184 Thankyou, but unfortunately she is way more smarter than me. Both parents have already transferred everything in his name. He and his wife too have quietly brainwashed them, while I have been struggling with trying to make my family survive.

@radha4615

6 ай бұрын

I mistakenly assumed parent love is rightfully obtained. But we need to play political games , not be genuine with our feelings and put up fake drama to win them throughout life. Parents too can be manipulated for material gains, and that too without doing any hardwork and only drama. I am too late to understand things.

Nand aati hai or suddenly sb bigad jata hai

@vizulchaudhary422

4 күн бұрын

Same here 😂

Sir i m also a nanad i m separated with my husband due to his extra marital affair but in my case my bhabi used to copy me which is very annoying she’s doing competition with me even i m not saying anything i m living my life with all hustles😞

@divinesoul1313

6 ай бұрын

Same...meri cousin sister ki bhabhi bhi usko copy krti thi...😂😂😂 same nail paint...same kapse...meri mausa mausi ko 10 saal se ek roti tk bna k ni di...abb meri cousin London chli gyi h after marriage....abb bhi vo koi kaam ni krti

@archanabelokar9586

6 ай бұрын

I am also suffering this problem.

@niharikalifeatbangalore2772

6 ай бұрын

Same my bhabhi is bad chudail me kuch ni bolti toh bhi pareshan karti hai

@naseemfatima3740

7 күн бұрын

Kuch nai bus ignore kare value na de

Great insights! Still, most parents don't consider giving property to daughters. They pretend they don't know. If they think daughters have in-laws' property then why there is a need for property from the maternal home? In such a case how to convey and convince the daughter's parents? This is such a crucial topic to discuss

@hemagupta5943

6 ай бұрын

If daughter can take the property of her parents, she should also be ready to take responsibility of her old parents!

@Bhaumik564

6 ай бұрын

Ys exactly

@ARMINK6969

6 ай бұрын

Exactly​@@hemagupta5943

@nehasingh658

6 ай бұрын

@@hemagupta5943 that we daughters always do. Put insight on what I asked. Not your gyan

@wowser2153

6 ай бұрын

@@hemagupta5943it is quite common to see bhabhi calling nanand to come take care of sick in laws . But property is for bhabhi

Sir ur recent webinar on will was very effective and in shirt time got lot of insights ...great work

I wish everyone parents understand this ❤

Why are most of your example with the assumption that the daughter in law is a non working dependent lady. Even when she is contributing her 50% along with husband , living separately abroad, the Nanand can influence her parents to hate the DIL by sowing the seeds of jealously and insecurity. She will be called names like extremely independent, beta chor, family breaker etc. Parents always trust the daughter no matter how close the DIL is with the in laws. The Nanand always has a benefit of doubt and upper hand with parents!

My real sister life was ruined by her sister in law and mother in law, now she is all alone 😢

@ruksananajmi6957

13 күн бұрын

where were you. Why didn't you support her

Indian men want to live with their parents in the same house. One reason is money, another major reason is that they do not want their wife to be the boss of the house

Excellently explained..

बदलते परिवेश में सोच बदलने की जरूरत है जिस तरह ताली एक हाथ से नहीं बजती उसी तरह रिश्ते भी एक तरफा नहीं चल सकते l अगर उसे परिवार कहते हो उसे बनाए रखने की ज़िम्मेदारी सब की बनती है l क्लेश से अच्छा है दूरी पर रहो कम से कम रिश्ता बना रहेगा l

@KanchanKanwar-pf1ng

2 күн бұрын

हम तो परिवार से काफी दूर रहें फिर भी प्यार बना हुआ नहीं रहा, मायके में बेटियो की चलती है वहां प्यार खतम हो जाता है

Husband and wife should have their independent house,bhale hi wo chhota ho

Aapki vajah se life mein goals sahi directions mein aa paaye hain. Abb samajh aata hai separate real estate ka value

Meri nand to mere ghar se 10 minute ki duri pe rheti hai,meri saas har din puri ghar ki story btane jati hai,meri nanad ko sab pta hota hai, fir wo aake puchti hai kaun aya tha ye kyu kiya 😂

@abhaysoni926

6 ай бұрын

Meri dadii bhi apne beti ko sb batati hai aur unki beti enko😂

@nehagupta9267

6 ай бұрын

Same here 5 min distance only

Amazing uncle ji.. serious topic PE bhi hasa dete ho aapa.. aapi ki sari videos dekhti hu mai.. maaza aa jata hai..

Bahut sahi gyaandiya h guruji.❤🎉

Jo brother financially weak hai khud per confidence nhi hai parents ki godh mein baith ker rule krna chahte hai wo apni bahano ki respect nhi ker paate. Bahan agar bimar bhi hoti hai to equality ko kayam rakhne ke liye bhai bol deta hai meri wife bhi bimar hai wo kaam nhi ker sakti is tarah se pura ka pura ek pariwar barbaad ho chuka hai.

Beautiful analysis sir god bless you

Very honestly said Awesome 👍

Sir good morning, really u r great the way of conversation between saas n sister in law . Very nice, after 21year of my lofe i now understand tht mother in law is saas not my mother. But anyway i feel if i do good thn god is there. But sir very nice explaintion. 💯💯💯

Jaise hi parents daughters ke liye equal property rights declare krte hai verbally bhabhi ke gharwalo ke wahan se farmaan aa jata hai older age mein maa baap ko phir daughter hi dekhe chaahe uska ghar base ya ujar jaaye. Childhood se 50 50 gender equality parents agar bolte hai to bhaiya log puri ki puri responsibilities gusse mein aaker bahano per thop deti hai sir.

@SaritaSingh-dx8lv

6 ай бұрын

Depends bhabhi kaisi hai aur bhai kaisa hai, maine 50-50 divison hote dekha hai and kisi ne object nahi kara But jo log ache nahi hain woh achank se ache nahi ho jayenge, aise logon se dur raho bas, jiss din in se dur jao,uske baad kabhi contact mat rakhna Sab ko budha hote hi, bhai-behen sab yaad aa jate hain, acknowledge hi mat karo

@SaritaSingh-dx8lv

6 ай бұрын

You have the option of going to court aur apka bhai bura mat maniye ga dande ki bhasha samjhne wala hi lagta hai, he seems far too arrogant and egoistic

@teenakhosla5033

5 күн бұрын

Har koi court nahi jata....kuch jagah nand bhi pareshaan hoti hai and bhai bhabhi maa baap ko bhi pareshaan karte hai....bechare maa baap bacho ko Kasht na ho isliye court to kabhi nahi jate aur sab sahte hai😢😢😢😮😢😢😢

@vizulchaudhary422

4 күн бұрын

parents agr half property daughter ko dege to old age m daughter karne k name PE peeche kyu jat jati h ...Karo apne maa bap ki seva. .Bhai property lega tb bhai karega ..bhn bhi legi to apne parents ko bhi dekhe ..ldkiyo ka vo kam h property m adha hissa lege ..pr karege kuch nhi karne k liye bhai bhabhi h

Well said Guru ji. I have two nanand and when they come our home they can't say anything but in in-laws house they display lot of nakhare 😂

Sir apki bato me 2 bate non practical lagi 1-agar ladke ki bahen apne ghar aake janbuz kar bhabhi ko oareshan kar rahi ya faltu ke drame kr rhi hai idhar ki udhar kar rhi hai to wo sabse pehle apne bhai ka accha nahi chahati she is a really bad person 2- agar jis ghar me baap ki nahi chalti pehle to baap ni or second agar baap ko pta hai ki yeh meri ladki yaha aake thoda overreact karti hai to usse apne ladke or bahu jo unhe khana de rhi hai dwai de rhi unka khayal rakh rahi uska oadh lena chahiye or day one par apni ladki ko confront krna chahiye ki beta yeh acchi baat nahi agar esha karogi to yaha jada ane zarurat nahi hai kyoki budhape me ladka or uski bahu khana pina deta hai take care karta hai na ki wo ladki wo 7 day ko aati h or faktu bak bak karke chali jati h jisme uski mummy uska sath deti hain kyoki women are emotional creatures to wo apni ladki ka path lengi baki male jo hota hai usse practical hoke decision lena chahiye to lead his house I can talk about this or zada but aaj ke liye itna hi

🙏🏻Thanks a lot for bringing up this topic .. Its so relatable and true🙏🏻

Sir has has ke rona aya video bahot achha laga aapne muzhe khudko sochane pe majboor kiya hai thank you so much sir 🙏🙏pranaam🙏🙏

What if a married girl with two kids is working in mayka(exact same location, govt job) and with a long distance relationship husband. If she get 2 days holiday then she always go with husband and come back. In mayka she is doing 90% of household chores (of whole family) and her own(with kids) all expenses by her salary. But if she asked her parents and brother to arrange a rented house in nearby city. They asked to not to live anywhere else. If she have to live separately her husband should be live with her otherwise they don't allow her to live on rent.because ye unki ijjat ka sawal h.but husband refused to live there because he is that sanskari boy of family who can't left their parents and bhai bhabhi. Her bhai bhabi always mentally, emotionally torture her and parents asked her to live accordingly. They always taunted but can't arrange a rented house. Beause if they does so unke ghar k kam kon karega.Everyone has taken her for granted.

@naina763

7 ай бұрын

Just focus on urself.... Use ur hard earn money on u n kids..... Move out... N ask husband to stay with u or come for holidays at ur house...

@wowser2153

6 ай бұрын

Have patience. When children grow up a little you can move out . This may take 10 years, but 10 years is not a lot in 80 years lifetime

@PreetKaur-gu6wu

6 ай бұрын

Ma'am jitna jaldi ho ske aap alag ho jao Bcoz ye sab aane vale time me apka Aisa haal bna dega K aap kahoge meri life k itne saal barbaad ho gye.... Apka surname dekh kar lgta hai aap Haryana se to nahi ??? Jitna marji kar lo Mayk vale aapko hmesha for granted lenge Na apki nokri ki koi ehmiyat hai Na apke baccho ki Vo nokar jaisa behave krenge humsha Apni bete bahu ki timardaari krwake Ek din laat maar denge Kisi par trust na krna Na maa baap par hi Sab moh rkhte hain ladke ka Ladkiyaan jitni marji self depend ho jayein Vo humseha neeche hi rahegi Bahu anpadh hai to bhi kahenge unki gulami kro Or anpadah in the sense Gaali de to bhi sun lo

@Divya_86

6 ай бұрын

Be strong and move out

@universalcuteness7783

Күн бұрын

1. Sath rahoge toh bache ki b dekhbhal hoti rehti ha or kahi na kahi apko b Thora support rehta ha unse.Kabhi jarurt pari toh vo help b kar denge logo k dar se toh isme apki b bhalai ha. 2. Or agar jyada he problem ha toh bol do me khud rented house dhund leti hu. Rent or sari expenses jab apko hi bear karne ha toh. Fir koi rok thorina lega.

Sir, please make a 20 hour course on this and teach this as a course in all Tier-1 MBA colleges in India. If you want I will help you get connected. MBA colleges help people succeed professionally. But if people are not happy in their personal life’s, they will never do well professionally. Hence, this should be introduced as a core course along with Accounts, Finance, Statistics etc.

Action nd consequences its like u have experienced all this by yourself really enjoyed the concept make more

Even if someone can afford living separately, still they cant if parents emotionally manipulate him and take it as a ego thing that how can u move out... Iska kya kare Ps : In all ur videos u make it sound easy if u have money,... It sounds like gf leaves u, have more money.. Parents problem have more money, any other problem have more money... But in reality even if u have more money and have the choice to be independent ... There are other psychological and emotional things which takes place and impact ur mental health And if it was so easy with money then why only rich ppl with depression and anxiety are there with therapist, counsellors etc.

@varshajogriya

7 ай бұрын

Exactly move out kr b gye na to mobile hai uspe maa behen sab rote hai ki haaye alag ho gya to beta cheen liya maa budhi ho gyi dyan nhi de rha joru ka ghulaam blah blah to udr I feel if husband mature hai to kahega bhai mummy tere paas daddy hai to main b to ek hee hu iske liye main b akela chor du to kaise chalega

@neha_ankolekar

7 ай бұрын

Because only the rich can afford counselor and therapists 😂

@varshajogriya

7 ай бұрын

@@neha_ankolekar true but I think they aren't resilient enough mentally as well...middle class bandaa ya Garib admi apna fate samjke will accept biggest of tragedies but idr choti choti baat pe therapist speed dial pe hota hai ...padosi ne volume badaya anxiety hota h call therapist...kutta bimar h ghar me depression ayega inko call therapist .....koi scene dekhke trigger hue call therapist ....kisi ne comment paas kia call therapist k bhai muje trigger kr dia ...so yeah mentally resilient nhi hote that's countable too

@sanj15246

7 ай бұрын

@@neha_ankolekar yes but my point is they also don't have it easy, if other things are not sorted.

@tsjoshi

6 ай бұрын

The job of money, is to provide the options. It's the person to decide which option to choose. If there's no money, there are no options. As simple as that.

Excellent video very practicle like all your videos 🙏 superb

Thank you so much amitji

😊 very true, the first one. Her husband will say- din ko raat if she says so.

Best video we need more of this

4:54 is epic 😅

@bunnyman_5454

7 ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@arindombhattacharjee725

6 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

Very well explained ....guruji

Kya Baat hain. So TRUE n so clear

Socially no one takes blame not son no wife no daughter in law but lot of frustration at home

U r the most clarity giver person of India

By God pure video me hassi nhi ruki But itna sach kisi ne nhi bola hands off 🙏🏻

Mind-blowing 😊👍

Very true, nanand who don't have their own family troubles a lot,,, see same kind of family then proceed further

100 baat ki ek baat aaj k time me bahu ka samajhdar hona he kaafhi ni or ni b ho to chalega but bete ka samajhdar or ek achi personality hona bahut jaruri ho gya h ager bete ki soch achi h to kisi b ghar me saash,,namad or bahu dushman ni bnegi thoda bahut jaghda hota h thk h but Mahabharata vhi hoti h jha beta galat ka saath dene lge or biwi k sath hum aapke h kon❤❤ kabi b aap log observe karna jha family me sub thk h nand b aate h sub normal chal raha h vha humesha beta samajhdar milega......ager humare parents beti k saath saath beto ko b ghar parivaar ki smjh de to kbi aisa hoga he ni jo hota aarha h gharo me ..... Sab excuse hote h ki nanad ne ye kha saash ne ye bola bahu badmash h vgera vgera ❤ but ashli vjah ghar k mard hote h jo ghar ka mahol jante huye b koi action ni lete Verna kisi ki b himmat ni hoti ki ghar ko sarkash bna k rakh de or last me ladies bol de humne to kuch kiya he ni❤ saash nand to baad k h phle husband to biwi ko izzat kre baaki sub ache hote h......❤ Bhaadh me javo😂😂😂😂

What an amazing topic you have chosen to disclose the reality. I have been through similar situations for the past 2.5 years. My husband took stand when I told him you might get second wife but my son won’t get second mother. I was in hell depression. My SIL used to talk(and the process is still the same) with my MIL for hours and I have became an independent Advocate maid who was giving everything to them and they were not happy at all. This is the situation I was facing when I was taking 0 financial help from in laws including my husband. I left that big house in terms of area with the belongings given to me by parents. And that big house is on my name And now living in small house with limited furniture but I am peaceful. I can peacefully pray. Why I decided to not pursue legal procedure was because I wanted to give time to my Marriage. And now my Brother in law got Married and my MIL got The carbon copy of herself in the name of my Devrani. And my MIL realised my importance now she says pure khaandaan m tum jaise bahu nahi aai. But that golden was ruined and I have been through a lot

I have four sisters in law. Three of them have husbands that live far, far away, like in different cities or different countries, and they stay at their parents' house all year long with their children. One of them have constructed a house just nearby and she lives there. But her son and daughter as well as her are always in the house, crowding it. One of the sisters in law comes here very rarely. But the others are here all the time. My husband and I have decided that we will shift and build a house nearby Inshaallah, because it's almost impossible to live here. We were living on rent but I'm currently living here because of my baby which is due soon.

Great topic sir ✌✌✌✌✌

Sir.. Kitne saral aur sidhe sabdo me itni badi baat samjha di aapne... Kash ki logo ko samjh aaye....... Exactly middle class me hota bhi kuch aisa hi hai..........

Very true but incomplete Separate live temporary solution hai. Problem based on mindset Improve mindset n give some guidance about family member role boundaries

@deepeshbajpai4423

7 ай бұрын

What mindset? Boundaries form only when you start living separately, living in house of parents and also showing tantrums don't go hand in hand

@simranseera9279

7 ай бұрын

Mam, when you are in a toxic environment, it becomes difficult to improve your mindset. Therefore, sir suggests to first cut that cord (live separate) and then work on improving your mindset, result will be fast and best. Why one should crib and have grudges for others? Live your own life the way you want and never complain or have grudges for others. This state of mind reflects in relationships also and you are in good terms with others all the time.

@simranseera9279

7 ай бұрын

@@shwetabhardwaj4066 yes mam you are right and I admit everybody should know his/her limitations. Your thought process is good but also needs a little bit of reconditioning and perspective from others persons point of view. And I admit that some Nanads go beyond their limitations but still how we want our life to be is always in our hands.

@gassyalways

7 ай бұрын

Why seperate living temporary solution?

Sir, aap saas- bahu k rishtey ka mimicry bohut accha kiye.....so hilarious.....( and harsh truth of middle class people)

Excellent video sir Mere yahaan dono example hain meri sister in-law or chacha sasur ki beti ka dono ne abhi tak mayke m cantrol kar rakha hai but sabke karmo ka apna hisab hoga

Super.....meri bhi bhabhi ka muh phool jata h mere mayeke jane se jbki maine aj tk usko kuchh nhi glt bola ..bahen to apna hisaa bhai k liye chhod deti h fir bhi bhabhi 1glass pani tk nhi deti nanad ko..

@jayd6098

Ай бұрын

Agar bahen bhai ke liye mayeke mein hissa chor rahi hai to yeh koi sacrifice nahin hai. agar mayeke mein hissa lena hai to apne sasural wale mein se bhai ko hissa de.

@shalinisingh503

10 күн бұрын

Acha hai tum judge a video dekh ke aye ho😂 phele toah bet it’s kya sacrifice kart hai Tosha who bhi dekhlena bhai toah bas 10 rs kharch karne pe biwi se izzazat lete hai sara kharch beti ke kande par dalke bhag hate hai

@babitapandeykrk8558

8 күн бұрын

Ek glass pani yei to problem h .. mayke jaakr khud bhi ek glass paani liya ja sakta hai na kitchen se.. yhi se to problem start hoti h.

@Babirawat89

7 күн бұрын

Mujhe to mere mayke se na sasural se kuch chahiye 😅 Humne mehnat karke khud ka chota sa ghar lia Aur hum happy he usme Mere fil ne hume nikal kar Sil ko rakh diya So never depend on mayka and sasural Khud mehnat karke property lo ,hardwork always pays Never expect from ur in laws and bhai bhabhi That's the key of happiness Khud me mast raho

@RahulMishra-cv8lp

7 күн бұрын

@@babitapandeykrk8558 tum trevel krke Mayeke jati hu bag rkh k khud hi kitchen me pani logi...Ajeeb soch h tumhari....koi guest aaye tumhare yha to usko gate bhi bolna khud khol k jaahir h jo ander h wahi open krega...jb wo baith payega tbhi to pani utha k piyega ...nonsense

She takes every decision its their right ac😊according to family

Bahut si mothers beton se rishta banakar rakhti hain kyunki bete accha kamate hain. Fir bete se paesa anth kar betiyon ko deti hain . sir is topic pe video banao.

apki saari baate bilkul sahi hoti hai kash apki tarah he sab hote

Sometimes Nanad is villian because she takes care of father/mother/ parents and son and daughter inlaw wants their property only so waiting them to go from this world asap

Totally agree 👍

In my relation family, muslim,the parents separated divorced daughter to stay in another flat to make son & DIL happy.The son continues to live with parents. Unmarried/ divorce nanands are treated badly by brothers & DILs in Muslim community.

@krutikah1468

7 ай бұрын

In all communities women’s problems are almost same

@godman6591

7 ай бұрын

@@krutikah1468in muslims they are more

@varunmittal3617

7 ай бұрын

2nd marriage is accepted in muslim community than in hindu. I think you should try for 2nd marriage if they wish and help them earn living

@krutikah1468

7 ай бұрын

@@varunmittal3617 did you forget to read the word “almost” in my comment

@shaheenpatel8452

6 ай бұрын

Not true ,the bahus have to do all the work mostly, the nanads are supported by their parents, maybe in some cases the nanand is treated badly but in most cases the bahus are the ones who are doing all the work

Please make a video on unmarried or divorced brothers of husband in the family.

In a known case to me, Parents kept something for themselves and fixed some X assets for sharing among brother and sister. X was devided by two and then from daughters share they deducted the marriage expenses as on date and gave it to the son, who actually spent on that marriage.

@gyanendrasingh7016

6 ай бұрын

Seems like a good way to divide it.

@monishasekar4716

6 ай бұрын

Genuine and practical parents!!!

Bohot sai bataya aapne

Ekdum sahi kaha aapne sir ❤❤🙏🍫 Aise bhi baap hain singhania jaise jinhone sab bete ko de diya ...jisne unhe nikal diya

thats why me and my husband stay in abroad very far from my sil. she is pure evil but har sher ko savasher mikta hai. that savasher is me 😂😂😂😂😂😂

I got the answers for my office Kalesh here by analogy. Thank you so much.

GURUJI make a video on AI the changes, opportunities and its effects..Indian Mindset and World view !!

@LR-yj3kp

7 ай бұрын

No need. This not AI channel

@amazing3954

7 ай бұрын

@@LR-yj3kp Guruji is helping with all the topics... Thn Why avoid AI Let's knows his insight !!!

Aapke video ke hisaab se maa baap ke saath rehne wale ladke se bilkul shadi nahi karni chahiye

@cloud_Engineer

6 ай бұрын

Agar aap unke maa baap ke relatives ko sahan na kar paavo

@aman3232

6 ай бұрын

Yes ultimately because they are not going to understand, better support them with money and stuff otherwise politics ke liye ready raho, Aur apni family se dur rhna chahiye girls ko bhi

@JhalliQueen

6 ай бұрын

Bilkul nahi

@abhaysoni926

6 ай бұрын

​@@aman3232bhai bahut poltics hota hai families me 😂.. pt abhi kya hoga jb hm jaise naye ladko ki shadi hogi but ab hm log apne parents and others ke saath Hui politics smjh chuke hai toh in future'acche se deal krenge taki politics na ho 😂😊

@aman3232

6 ай бұрын

@@abhaysoni926 people might change but politics will remain same bss kirdar badlenge aur bhai jitna smjhle ladai jagde apke haath mein nahi apke ghar ki ladies ke haath mein hai

Great video, Mazza agya, Sir if possible try to make a video on..after parents death where will nanand go, when bhai n bhabhi are hard core selfish since the time of parents, inspite of nanand, taking all responsibility of both parents in their illness n hospitalization financially as well.*Nanand having good respective family life, but still feels the emotional needs for Mayka for 1or 2 days in a year or so.Bhai only calls when he is in some financial or support need n then blocks the call till next need arises.

नमस्कार गुरुजी🙏

Insanely truth ! Shocking that missed this out episode and It ruined !! Itna sach that already suffer karne k bad apne maa baap k gjarme ... Kaise lesson nahi milti ha pata nahi. What steps need to take to prevent beautiful relationship!

Sir need one video on topic where in-laws want to shift with the couple - they are old and alone and son wants them to shift in new city - how to maintain dynamics and privacy issues

@monishasekar4716

6 ай бұрын

Just keep them some where near your neighbourhood!!!

I liked before starting 😊

Good analysis 👍

Its the first time i am disagreeing with him. Nanand is not here for holidays. She is here to fulfill her duties as a daughter. Baitho papa ke sath, ma ke sath. Take them for walks, medical checkups, visit relatives. Be a good daughter. Dont expect your mom to make gulab Jamun for hours and break her back. Dont leave your children on your bhabhi to feed, clean entertain your kids 24x7. What does holiday mean? Room mei baith ke mobile chalana? Be considerate. And why does he expect bahu to take care of all guests. I have seen bahus spending hours in the kitchen and cleaning after because of these "guests". I think the son should help her out in cleaning chores afterwards atleast.

@vibha-ff1ee

4 ай бұрын

Your comments are very logical otherwise yaha sabhi aurat khud ko victim hi dikha rahi hain

Zabardastttttt Mazzaaaaa Aa Gayaaaaa 🔥🔥🔥

Daughter have equal rights in Father property. If Brother have problem he take another house for her wife.

@archanabelokar9586

6 ай бұрын

Daughter ko uska property rights de do O alag rah ke parents ka care karegi

@Xyy_ZZ

22 күн бұрын

Yes rules should be same for girls and boys

Good information 👍👍

Excellent 👌

Money doesn't matter sir in my case my husband do' nt want to leave my in laws.he is very caring and loving for my in laws.he is very obedient person towards his family

Dev Rani and Jethani ka case study

The sister in law being a woman has to help even when If she comes to her parents house ,a little helping doesn't harm ,a bahu cannot do all the work

Sir,we need these v important life tips to be given to everyone before marriage it's a must! Life gets he'll with these sasural politics!