I can see her as a runaway model. She's got that unique look, and her facial features are really symmetrical. It's so sad that she's so insecure and nervous. She needs a boost of confidence and self-esteem!

@ams1877

6 жыл бұрын

true but how???

@ams1877

6 жыл бұрын

Jessica Lee lots of things for her to learn but there should be workshops

@cree_VI

6 жыл бұрын

she is 27 yo, it's almost the end for models carrier. She didn't work hard any of work...

@SeldimSeen1

2 жыл бұрын

A modeling career is realistic for her if she can find the right help.

@syh478

Жыл бұрын

uh... she looks like a guy/horse... she would get eaten up in the industry. At least the asian one

she honestly could make it as a model her facial features and expressions are great, only if she put in the time and effort to become a model would she succeed. i feel really bad because you can tell she needs some help with her self confidence. nevertheless, i hope her dream comes true once she puts effort into it

@jul2447

6 жыл бұрын

True

@parkjimin9756

6 жыл бұрын

Nam Balloon are you in youtube 24/7 ? I see you everywhere 🤣

@elris452

6 жыл бұрын

Park Jimin honestly

@tomomo285

6 жыл бұрын

Nam Balloon exactly I see you everywhere lol

They say that they haven't seen a case like hers.... But she literally feels the most relatable person 😂😂😂😂😂😂

@weirsten749

3 жыл бұрын

they meant that they haven't seen a case like hers on there show (hello counselor)

To me she seems to have depression. The lack of motivation, the fear of failure, the impersistence, low self esteem, isolation. I think the mcs need to work a little bit harder to see the problem from both persectives. A psychologist would really help her. 5 years is enough time to fall too deep into such situation to the point you cant get yourself out of it alone. I went through a similar case thing and it was extremely hard to do anything alone.

@LaurenHulton

6 жыл бұрын

ninanini 101 (Sorry, I wrote so much! I always do this haha) I agree. I just think she needs someone who can understand that and help her out of it, she's probably scared to communicate her feelings with anyone she even knows. I feel the same, I right now am isolated, I have little confidence and no friends, yet like her huge dreams. Although I try my absolute best, there are times when I think my life is useless and already failed. It's to the point where if I am to face people or talk with them, I put up this facade of happiness, confidence and comfort. From my experience of what I'm going through now, she just need to stay stong no matter how much she struggles if she's really determined. Hopefully she'll do better. I also hope you're doing really well now are as happy as you can be! :)

@multijxde1855

6 жыл бұрын

If that’s the case I have depression as well . I think she just needs some motivation that’s all .

Korea needs to vocalize mental health more - people need easier access to help if they need it.

@haylz27

6 жыл бұрын

Yep, it's still a huge stigma. My Korean friend said some places won't even hire you if you have had any type of mental illness such as depression.

@BossBabies3

6 жыл бұрын

yup.for example. Nam Tae Hyun ex-winner mmber

@sitisalwabintirosli1903

6 жыл бұрын

YA

@sitisalwabintirosli1903

6 жыл бұрын

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@gyeonghuisong5307

6 жыл бұрын

In Korea if you went to see a psychologist o someone to treat your mental illness. It would have been recorded in your health record. Most employers would just straight up question you if you have a mental illness, or they would have checked on your health record. The thing is mental health is still a taboo word in korea. They think that having a mental illness will stop you from functioning like a normal person (though in some severe cases it can happen).

poor girl looks like she has anxiety / depression i hope they take this into consideration

@fatimaamellouk1686

6 жыл бұрын

tbh I believe that that's how it is seen everywhere !! in my place too ppl don't even call us depressed or mentaly ill but "crazy" (as ppl with brain isseus), they don't take it srsly and sometimes it's even a "shame" for the family!!! .. it's just like a mess.. a bad one.

@parkjimin9756

6 жыл бұрын

PandaDoll true thats why i dont approach anyone & here in my country if you have mental illness mostly likely u cant get a job .

@Didishie

5 жыл бұрын

yes exactly, the first thing that came in my head was anxiety, because she has all these fears even before trying, wish she could receive the proper help and move on from this slump, she reminds me of myself too which made me more emphatic even

not wanting to generalize, but from her explanation it seems like depression to me. the lack of motivation, low self esteem, etc. I always wish this show has decent psychologist instead of just letting all the mcs talk.

@agustin5855

6 жыл бұрын

Erna Setyaningsih ikr,it's fine to have celebrity as guest,but they need someone who really know how to help them.

@elris452

6 жыл бұрын

Erna Setyaningsih honestly. it really seems so. and i agree i love the mcs and all but they need a psychologist sometimes ngl

@erikafontes849

6 жыл бұрын

Agreed ): a problem like that is not simple. You can’t just “challenge yourself” to do something... but I guess they don’t know a lot about depression, anxiety and everything else. I just wish they would read our comments and try to change this aspect of the show (hire a psychologist!)

@GabyBong

6 жыл бұрын

Erna Setyaningsih I agree but I feel like a psychologist wouldn’t want to go on hello counsellor for some specific reasons or some worries from hello counsellor don’t require a psychologist. It would be a good idea If one came once in a while though.

@hafizhzulhilmi3953

6 жыл бұрын

Nam Balloon gosh i see you everywhere😂😂 at HSR2

I'm surprised that it seems none of the mcs understand fear of failure

@mauveclover9416

6 жыл бұрын

jelly yeah they r such ass

@gyeonghuisong5307

6 жыл бұрын

jelly I mean why would they? They're successful now because their desperation and effort overcame their fear of failure. Though it would have been nice to have hosts that would emphatize with the guests

@csoniah4432

6 жыл бұрын

I think they do , they mentioned it before in other episodes their story before becoming famous and gow they built a career but the thing is : She didn't even try once to be scared of failing .

@ronc9413

6 жыл бұрын

jelly Having a fear of failure is fine but then how will she become a model? The MCs are just being realistic. She needs to overcome her fear if she really wants to be a model. Otherwise, give up on that dream. She needs to do something soon because she is not getting any younger.

@Yeongeun891228

6 жыл бұрын

jelly No one understand?

She's like me but different case. I wanna be success but I don't have motivation, I don't like study and I don't know what is my passion 😌 And I feel so sorry for my parents to have a daughter like me. Sometimes, I just wanna die than life like this. I also curious, what am I living for?

@anthoniaoffor3873

6 жыл бұрын

How I usually motivate myself: I clear my mind and be at peace with myself then go for walks or sleep. Sometimes I close my eyes and visualize what I want for my future then I make to do lists and cross out anything I've done. It's okay to have things pending but not for too long; Two to Three weeks maximum and you should be fine. Trying new things everyday helps as well and out of those things one may just stick to you. I never liked cooking but now I love and I always look forward to doing it. I believe you can try. Everything is step by step and even with mistakes, just keep pushing. Fighting!

@miaim

6 жыл бұрын

I feel like many people are like that but i guess you can try many many different things and see what makes you feel that special spark it might take a while but eventually you will find something that will make you really happy and you’ll work hard for it , get successful and make your parents even prouder. You can do it we are not all born knowing what we should do you have to figure it out through experience and hardships of life. You can and you will do it just be patient and when you found that one thing gather as much information as you can and go for it Goodluck

@joyitadarling5815

6 жыл бұрын

Sorry if I'm coming from left field, but you are here to love and serve and appreciate the diverse, pained and colorful world around you. Express yourself in healthy ways and talk to a therapist if you need to. Take care of your body since it will help the war with your mind. The brain becomes so much more useful when it is on your side. I am rooting for you 💖✨

@joyitadarling5815

6 жыл бұрын

Don't say you feel bad for your parents 1. They love the heck out of you regardless of what you've done 2. You are important right now, regardless of if you are good at studying or have a passion and you will progress in the future if you push forward. Your life always means something. Redefine your perspective and let love nourish you. Practice being grateful for what you do have. Things get better, love.

@lilacstudio3243

6 жыл бұрын

Kim Yoo Mi this is the same for me

I’m an introvert . My father always tease me for being shy in front of the others,and other things that an introvert cannot do. And he always ask me,”why You..blablabla.... even i can do it”,”you dont need to be shy you just have to talk to them,they dont bite”. Talk to other people, make a first move,debate. Those are the hardest things for me, I dont ask to be born like this. But this is who i am. They just don’t understand.

@silviameow

6 жыл бұрын

Two subues I understand what you´re going through, cause I’m just like you too 😫.

@AGULL

6 жыл бұрын

Two subues same 4 me 🙈

@angelancheta

6 жыл бұрын

i used to be like that too but i learned how to overcome it by having a strong mentality. just try saying whats in ur mind without thinking about what others will think about u. trust me. it'll be hard at first but you will learn a lot from these hardships

@silviameow

6 жыл бұрын

yellow sponge yes, i totally agree with you ^^. I also started to change myself little by little, but only change my weaknesses side of being an introvert. So, don’t feel bad if you are an introvert. Because I believe, we, an introvert also have our own benefits or advantages.

@mejjune2849

6 жыл бұрын

I am an Intro too and my friends even more. But I am the one who always has to pay for them cause they are shy af I am the less shy one.But tbh shy people have the kindest hearts💕. They always take care of u behind your back. Being with introveted people is soo much more easier they don't tent to get in embarrissing situations. I can just listen my music an d do my stuff. No one talks to me. This is really a good thing

I hate that it seems like some people are just shaming her and shaming her and shaming her. She isn’t stupid, none of you have to go “This is the real world!”. Yup, in the real world, people have to deal with issues like this though. And coming from someone who has it, it seems like she COULD have depression and/or anxiety. If you don’t understand someone then don’t speak so harshly on their problems.

@carminemisery

6 жыл бұрын

E'Dawn's Universe Thank you for this. I'm pretty sure she does suffer from depression because she resembles myself in every single way, and I've been severely suicidal for years now. What really hurt me was how much the MCs looked down on her without properly trying to understand her situation.

@DawnsWorld

6 жыл бұрын

kimchihun Exactly. I’m pretty sure they’re a little bit more closed minded about mental illness over there. I hope she finds the help she needs instead of people who are just mouthing at her. As much as I love watching this show because it can be interesting, at least half of the time, this show does nothing and is kind of nothing in general. And I hope that you’ve been coping well with your hardships, I and others will hopefully become well and healthy with you ❤️

@carminemisery

6 жыл бұрын

E'Dawn's Universe I couldn't have said it better. I live in a country where there's still a huge stigma around mental illness, but I think Korea is even less understanding when it comes to this. I love this show, too, I like the comedy and all, but I wish it had an actual counselor there, and that the MCs wouldn't be so hard on the guests because some of the situations that appear on the show are pretty serious, and the MCs could do even more harm if they were to approach every situation so harshly like they did in this episode. I wish companies wouldn't ignore the mental health of their idols and trainees, either. A lot of people are aware of Kibum's eating disorder and Peniel's stress-induced hair loss for example, but they're not helping the idols in any way. Talking about Jonghyunie is a very sensitive topic, at least for me, so all I can say is that I wish companies would take mental health into consideration, and get their idols proper (medical) help to avoid another potential tragedy. I'm so sorry for rambling, I guess I just needed to get it off my chest. Thank you for listening to me. I'll be cheering for you, my friend. I hope everything is going to get better for you in the future. You are a very mature person, you deserve happiness in your life 💕

@DawnsWorld

6 жыл бұрын

kimchihun EXACTLY. So many people over there rather say “Get over it” as if it’s as simple and easy as that. If it was, Jjong would still be here along with some actors who recently passed and people who suffer with various types of conditions and illnesses wouldn’t have them anymore. It’s not that easy. It’s an on and off struggle so I wish that they would take it seriously. It’s sad that so many idols have to be scared to put their problems or illnesses on blast and when they do, no one takes it seriously. If it does get taken seriously, so many people end up not caring and forgetting within a months time. It’s sad that people in Korea and other places in general can’t get the help they need. And it’s fine, everyone needs to ramble at some point. I’m glad that you’ve let out some frustrations and hopefully you’re not tense. I wish happiness to you too, you’re the type of people that we need more of 👌🏾

@elaineebays6172

6 жыл бұрын

I dont shes cut out for this sort of work mentally, and its just really been giving her negative energy. Overall I don't think its meant to be for her and thats okay too. Some things just dont work out. Maybe once she is past the age for pursuing modelling, she can then put this thought to rest and be able to finally pursue something else thats more available to her and will bring her more joy.

"I won't make it this time. Let's do our best." Really like Jaewan's attitude, maybe in every challenges we face in life, what matters most is that we do our best, becuase even if we fail, doing our best is more important than passing itself :)

Awwww, she's so pretty and her character is so adorable! But she screams depression and I hate that that's not really a concept Korean television pays attention to. :( If she couldn't get therapy from somewhere, she wouldn't be quitting jobs every other minute and drinking so much. This needs to be a K-drama.

For all you asking why she keeps looking to the side, she's looking at the people next to her for reassurance because she doesn't want to directly look people she doesn't know in the eye. She's a very shy girl and this can be seen as anxiety.

I don't think it's depression, for me it's just low self-esteem I think she hasn't found her passion yet, but she has to work on loving herself more ....

@SeldimSeen1

2 жыл бұрын

My daughter was diagnosed finally with "clinical depression." This woman has all the same symptoms.

Interesting to see that the youngest guest there asks a question instead of placing blame. It's kind of jarring to suddenly see that bit of gentleness, but I honestly think that it was something the girl needed the most.

@bigsad1462

5 жыл бұрын

Urmm I thot you commented this on the idol room ep with nuest w?

I feel sorry for the brother likewise to the sister.she need a proper counselling.It look likes that she is under depression.Those who are lack of confidence or low esteem are have the possibility to go for depression.

@cree_VI

6 жыл бұрын

i want to see what she will do if parents and brother would cut her money and she will be left on her ass. She feels comfortable and want to have fun while parent's an brother are feeding her. But when she have to move her finger she feels depressing and low confidence.

Ooo imagine a bold eye look on her and a flowy colorful runway look!!!!! All she needs is that confidence

Since lee sang min used to be in slump before. Hes gave the wisest and good advise to the guest and the listeners. I just feel good to listen to his talks 😍😍

Honestly, I was a bit sad because i failed at my first try on pursuing my dream. Yesterday I was soo sad and i talked to my parents about it, because i don't want to give up. This program today made me feel more encouraged to try once again and to not give up on my goals. If you really want something, don't give up! Let's be happy and make our dreams come true! Fighting

she look like she would be a great model honestly, I hope she'll make it

Just because your tall doesnt mean u are meant to be a model. In the case of the girl shes lowkey delusional not because the fact that she aspires to be a model but the fact that she puts all of lives responsibilities on one side only dealing with it "when she becomes a model" she aims for to be something but doesnt do anything to achieve it

@katieliang2165

6 жыл бұрын

ayooo wassupp roll like a buffalo a lot of people in Asia have a lot of tall models because being tall is really beautiful to them. That girl’s height is basically perfect for being a model in Asia

@multijxde1855

6 жыл бұрын

Yeah but since I was young everyone has told me I should be a model because of my height and people have believed I actually am one . But I live in America and I’m not Korean , but maybe over there height is looked even more up upon then over here. I guess height is important ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

@elaineebays6172

6 жыл бұрын

It doesnt actually seem like she wants to be model. She has no passion for it. She is almost just trying to because everyone else says she could be. This isnt the person she herself wants to truly be

@linnil

5 жыл бұрын

She also said that she enjoys being on stage in front of people

@enkhjine2221

5 жыл бұрын

Many people would have enjoyed being on stage for once for the sake of feeling the freshness but it doesn't mean all of them belong there.

He is a good brother... Good for him...

Can we talk about how great of a brother DongJu- shi is. I can feel how much he cares for his problematic sister.

@THE-gd6qn

6 жыл бұрын

Shi Wu I agree

@SeldimSeen1

2 жыл бұрын

She is not the problem. That she is not getting the help she needs is the problem.

@mizzchoc10

2 жыл бұрын

@@SeldimSeen1 I actually thought he was a horrible brother. How can you be so dense and blame her. obviously, the poor girl is dealing with a deeper issue and uses drinking and clubs as a way to cope. I commend her for being brave and showing up.

Why arent they uploading the full episode anymore they do it in 3 parts like i just wanna watch them all at once lol

@mamamo4723

6 жыл бұрын

does kshowonline have english sub?

@mizizz3793

6 жыл бұрын

TypïcålNësså yeah. Its all subbed

@miki2849

6 жыл бұрын

Ughhh watching on websites is such a pain for tablet users lol it’s much better in KZread I wish they’d just post the full epi for all countries again

@2am_cinderella

6 жыл бұрын

The full episode is available to me on their channel though ? All the others too. That's weird, maybe your country doesn't have access to some video. I know KBS banned access to some :/

@emhage

6 жыл бұрын

Probably divided into smaller parts to sustain interest from ppl with less time to watch. May earn more ad revenue too.

I felt like crying when she cried.

Let her family and friends be aware of her...shower her more love and attention to boost her personality...encourage her to persue her dream...

@cree_VI

6 жыл бұрын

i think good kick to her butt and cut off money would be the best motivation to be more responsible

Im so thankful for this episode to remind me that I'm not the only one who's going through this. 🙂

Had similar problem. I’ve wanted to become an actress, but I was too shy to go to lessons. However, at one point I just realized that there is no point of making myself unhappy by bothering about others. Last month I had the pleasure to play in the national theatre of my country and I’m still a senior.

Not so late squad where you at??👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻

@zuleyhadundar7456

6 жыл бұрын

heree

all i want to do right now is just stay at my bedroom & crocheting all day. i don’t have motivation to do anything, even talking to people makes me feel exhausted.

Best episode tbh. Encouraged me greatly to actually work hard for my dream.

The brother should a model😋💖 Plus he's so fashionable

Omg I'm watching at like 144p and I didn't recognize Wanna One until the end when the MC mentioned "I'm glad Wanna One is here today"

i honestly think that if she tried just a little bit everyday, took one step everyday, she could be successful in whatever she puts her mind to. even if she’s depressed. i’ve learnt that we should never let depression prevent us from doing our best, no matter how hard it is. i hope she knows that too

mostly the hardworking people are more successful than a talented one.they strived and dont complained bec.they know that someone deserved in that position..and by that mentality they 've been loved by many.

일단 키도 크고 얼굴도 개성있고 매력있는데 가장 중요한 도전정신이 없고 게을러보입니다

@user-xf1ij9rb7j

2 жыл бұрын

개핧같은데

I strongly relate to her because I'm in the same crisis as she is. She's showing signs of depression and anxiety which is disheartening because no one on the show seems to understand that her internal conflict runs deeper than pure laziness. Lack of confidence, motivation, low self-esteem, self doubt, and the fear of failure is a formula for inaction and this inaction leaves people stuck in this autopilot lifestyle, often for a very long time. Then, it leads to isolation and feeling detached from the world which makes it even more difficult when you try to get back on track. It gets lonely and eventually, you lose hope and give up on trying. She has a dream but her mindset renders her hopeless. It truly is a brutal mental war and I hope that she finds a way to get out of it.

For me she has a very pretty face and I don't understand why they think the opposite. Her facial features are not just interesting, she's pretty.

I can relate with her seriously, I also having that low self esteem and always not confident whether I can be success or not. I hope the girl can overcome her concerns and boost her confident.. and wannaone is a compatible guest for this episode they were so desperate and working so hard to achieving their goals as wannaone member , especially minhyun who being a trainee again despite he's already debut for six years before, ong who did several part time job for living and keep working hard even tho he was not sure whether he can debut or not. and jaehwan, the individual trainee who keep progress even tho he only know how to sing before.

Not only her brother frustrated, She is more frustrated with herself. She is the one who is struggling But the brother acted as if he is the one suffering You think she is not?!

@MrBezazel

6 жыл бұрын

Yeah she's suffering, but I think he's there to have her acknowledge that her suffering and not doing anything is also affecting others too. It's one thing to do something that affects yourself only, but when you're hurting and stressing others out, they have all rights to let you know that it is happening. Besides her brother, I think he's representing his family as a whole who is worried about her well-being. Additionally, his friend who was reprimanded for his work recommendation and the "spy" friend are affected too.

@cree_VI

6 жыл бұрын

didn't you hear how her parent have to work hard to keep her ass comfortable! She is 27 yo. She like to have fun, but when need to put some effort to work, then no no, i feel depressed, i feel bad... I also have various issues, but i understand that i am adult and i have to work, i have to put lot of effort, i have a battle every day with myself, but i wan to be independent. I don't want to see my old parents struggling in work

@bigtiddygothexegf

5 жыл бұрын

@@cree_VI EXACTLY it's like putting a burden on your parents

I have depression and anxiety, I’m honestly very similar to this girl. I lost most of my drive and determination so my grades started slipping. She truly needs professional help because it’s extremely difficult to get over that by yourself.

"sometimes i intensely don't feel like doing anything" this is a clear sign of depression and they make a joke out of it? not cool. addiotionally, the entire time it was so obvious that she had depression but people just shut her up by making a joke. This is not a joke and they need to realize that most importantly her family needs to realize that. ALso i notice some people mention about the stigma of mental illness, people need to realize it exists and address them appropriately. nuff said.

I think that she definitely can make it as a model but it’s frustrating that she doesn’t try and I know it’s because she has low self-esteem so I do hope that she starts to love herself first and I think that will give her the confidence she needs to work to achieve her dreams. The brother should not be too harsh on her and give her time and his support. That is what she needs.

Just dont feed your depression.. i myself have encountered a lot of depression but just believe that theres always a sunny day after the rain.. always look forward.. practice yourself to be more positive..

I could understand this girl feeling. Its very hard to achieve things you want when you are lack of confidence and lacking in so many things. I’ve been tease by my schoolmates bcs of my look. Thats how i bcm pessimist and lack of confidence. So i could understand this girl. Actually, we want to do it but to think again on how lacking we are, we feel like, we need to be good first, then only we could achieve our dream. Everytime we are trying, we will always “how if i fail this?” “This is hard, i am not sure i can do it” this is how we think. They need to understand, this is not easy for her too. I keep telling myself, why am I like this? why cant i do better? I keep thinking that way. Maybe shes not ready to face this world with that kind of confidence, she’s struggling too...

@sophiayamagughi

6 жыл бұрын

aigooHan that and depression

More like he can be a model...😍

She looks unique in a good way! i see her becoming a model

I REALLY WANT TO BE THERE AND GO UP TO HER AND TELL HER TO USE THE GREAT FEELING SHE HAD WHEN SHE WAS UP ON THAT STAGE. Because by the looks of it she had lost that feeling, the very feeling that got her wanting to become a model, now all that is left is the sentence "I want to become a model."= ( Dreams are beautiful and i hope she cherishes that miracle of a moment.

She had a perfect face & figure for a model. I wish her good luck , fashion clothing like ZARA & others have models very similar to her. Or go to Europe or UK she can be hired easily as they always looking for Asian ( oriental ) models on their catalogues.

I'm a model and quite an introvert too but in runaway or photoshoot, it is important to act professional not looking all shy and have low self esteem. I hope she gets her confidence back🙏

She is beautiful! Unique and would make a great model. She just needs self esteem.

The older brother is so sweet. Wish I had one like him

In a sense I am a lot like her, I want to be successful but I lack the self es stem and motivation to do so. I have a had a hard time getting out of bed and always pondered my life's meaning. I still have no passion and motivation. No childhood to build passions from, that being said, I have such a hard time trying to sympathize with her because of the fact that she is putting it on to other family members. I can empathize with her but regardless you can't do that to others

I am also diagnosed with anxiety and that female in this episode is really similar to me in terms of her behaviours :/ I do hope that she can get the help/encouragement that she needs!

guys remember: this is an entertainment show. even if they are able to empathize (which they probably are as every Korean, experience stress and pressure at school and the guests who are usually idols are well...idols...and have gone through the harsh trainee experience.) they wouldn't go that deep with the issues, as they want the audience to laugh, not be bored.

Did you see how she trying to calm herself by shaking her hands and deep breaths? Her low self esteem, zero energy to do anything, fear of failure. It all screams depression and anxiety for me.

It’s so sad she is depressed and lost in life and they are just criticizing her and saying she’s lazy. She needs support...

💟💟💟Hearts and Kudos to all the people who get up every day even if they are ugly and sad and do their best and smile and help others. Even if not many people recognize or help you I hope God blesses you.

You're beautifull.. You're doing good.. Be confidence good girl.. I wanna hug her.

I feel the same way as her. I don't have any confidence in myself. I'm only in high school and I still don't know what I want to do when I grow up because what I wanted to be when I was a little girl I don't think it's going to be possible. I want to do the thing I love but I just can't do it and I'm scared to do it.

@kyisblue2021

6 жыл бұрын

Liliana Martinez I totally relate and I'm in high school too. My dreams are very unrealistic so I find myself giving up on them and trying to achieve something more...conventional :(

anyone else not use to those pillows.

@circlerie

6 жыл бұрын

Vannah Tan i was used to the fruit plushies

@vannasuper1

6 жыл бұрын

same lol i would always look at how each person would be holding it

I recently watch problem child with psychiatrist brothers. They said korean ppl very skeptical with professional psychiatrist. They hate ppl know they meet and ask help from them. So, this kind of show eventhough it's lack of professional touch but at least ppl have desire to come out to share their concern publicly. They must be have professional behind the scene to support them. It's just i hope the writers n producer, each time they receive n decide which concern to air, they invite a suitable guest like this one, they should invite one of korean model, so they can give a reality advices.

I can relate to her on a personal level and it pains me to watch her being put in the spotlight like that. I know how awful she must have felt.

If she worked hard then I see her as a model she is blessed with height and good features don't lag gain more confidence !

This woman isn't depressed. She's self absorbed. She grew up hearing compliments and receiving money based on potential.

This is so relatable and I hate it. If you've never felt like her you can't judge her, I'm currently going through it and I'm finally getting better but it took me almost a year of doing basically nothing out of fear and insecurity. All that she said was exactly what I've been through and even though it may sound stupid or exaggerated it really is hard to deal with and since most people around you don't get it most of the time you do it alone so eventually you start closing yourself to others. The part where she was talking about the fight and what her brother said to her was heartbreaking and I understood her completely I even started crying (how embarrassing). The thing is, at least for me, there were days where I felt pathetic for not being able to go out, I told myself that maybe I'm just lazy and I felt even more pathetic, I felt worthless, weak and since I don't have many friends there were days where I felt completely alone and now I'm finally getting better :D I finally decided what I want to study in college (or I guess you could say I finally got the courage to do it) but to be honest I'm terrified. I have social anxiety and I'm super stressed and scared but I'm working hard on it. It's not easy, it's even harder when you're trying really hard and people you care about, especially you family, tells you you're weak or that you're not doing any progress, etc. Thankfully, they've been supportive they just get stressed sometimes. The point is I'm much better now, I finally feel like I'm doing some progress in my life and facing my fears but I had professional help and I really think she should get it because if it wasn't for it I don't know where I would be right now emotionally so it really worries me that she's dealing with this alone since her family clearly doesn't understand how hard it must be for her. (I understand why they're worried but I think they should listen to her and not assume she's just lazy and playing victim when she's clearly going through something hard too.)

@juliee4868

6 жыл бұрын

Wow this was way longer than I thought. Hehe sorry I just got emotional I guess :)

I completely understand her. When you really want to do it, but have no confidence so you think you can't make it and not giving a try to it. And it's of course a burden but you can't help but thinking you can't do that I think she needs some medicine. I mean, her mental health now needs to be taken care really really good. It Will getting worst once you avoid it. Because in the future, you will have a very down self esteem, you can't do anything with commitment, and can't barely walk from the past. That is very dangerous for her health. Hope she Will get better soon

She’s just like me, very depressed and anxious... I hope she find someone to actually help

I relate to this girl so bad. My dream is to become an actress but my confidence is so low and on top of that I have ADD which means I have difficulties to actually do something. That results in me not doing anything about my dream and I stay insecure and feel like I'm hopeless. Even though this girl might not have ADD, I feel so badly for her. I don't think she is lazy or anything, she just has a low self esteem and needs to think more positively about herself.

she is pretty relatable:)

I want to be a model too,,

Minhyun 😘😍😘😘😙😘😙😘😙😘😙😘😙😘😙😘😙😘😙

She needs to be realistic. For every 10 girls that want to become a model, maybe 1 actually has a chance. What then? You need a backup plan.

@sunnygirly2k4

6 жыл бұрын

Exactly. A contingency plan is always a good idea and a lot of models have degrees.

@quidproquo82

6 жыл бұрын

sunnygirly2k4 the career of a model is several years at the most. She's honestly delusional

@sunnygirly2k4

6 жыл бұрын

Exactly.

@CutieMoli

6 жыл бұрын

You're idiots if you think she doesn't know that... she has a degree and she had had several jobs. She's just depressed and feels like nothing is worth trying.

@cree_VI

6 жыл бұрын

she like to party and have fun, but she don't like to work

"OH MY GOD KISS" - Edward you are me, and I love you!

I am literally going thru the exact situation. Lack of motivation, no self esteem, hope, not trying enough or at all. It's been going on for three years and now I see my life crumbling apart because of me If u have ever been in this situation, how did u overcome it?

When you are scared of failure you just won't do. You don't quit your job mid way. She's an adult and she should go through with her decisions, deal with her responsibilities. 25 jobs she quit. 5 years just lazing around... That's the real matter, not her confidence. She's 27, if she wants something she really should work for it or give up and just give up. She doesn't have the will to work as anything, she just doesn't feel like doing anything. She just wants to have fun and ignore her responsibilities. God damn it.

I have watched this years ago and I was like "how can they be like this??" But now, I can totally relate. Its the total opposite of me back then to nowadays. Its not bcos I want to have fun, I dont even go out if not needed. its just I have lost all confidence and will to do anything. Eventho I have so much I wanna do, but I just lost all motivation to move. And I am fully aware of that, but instead of doing anything about it. I just procrastinate.

@colorfulmaji4595

2 жыл бұрын

@@vatsalasaxena4725 hi thank you for ur kind words! I appreciate it so much 😭 But to answer, its not bcos of the pandemic. It started in mid 2019 until now..😢

@colorfulmaji4595

2 жыл бұрын

@@vatsalasaxena4725 yes you can say that its bcos of the pandemic bcos if not bcos of it, things could have been processed in no time. But somehow the pandemic actually gave me reason not to think/stressed about it. I mean I am telling myself that its ok bcos there is pandemic.😢 2018 I had to giveup my small business so I could study (2nd course but technical course only for 1yr), but it wasn't really my choice to go back study.. 2018-2019 I studied. I was fine despite not wanting to do it, i focused on my studies And other things i needed to do. But after graduation, thats where I got lost. 😔 I couldnt go anywhere. I was supposed to go to another country to work but my application wasnt processed until now. 😔 I totally got lost bcos I dont even want to go abroad to work. I was only forced to. I tried to think of things to do, for my sanity while waiting but I just cant seem to do them. All I do is tell my self promises and lies of doing it tomorrow. You know things like that. But I never did make them happen. I just lost all the will to do anything. Sorry its too long. And you dont have to reply but thank you for asking! 🥺

@AbhishekKumar-vf3ig

2 жыл бұрын

@@vatsalasaxena4725 So are you engineer now?

@AbhishekKumar-vf3ig

2 жыл бұрын

@@vatsalasaxena4725 I want to become teacher. Im happy you are pursuing what you want to do. So do you like acting or direction ( your reason for joining film school) I wish you good luck 🍀😊 Don't forget me ha after you become successful 🙃

@AbhishekKumar-vf3ig

2 жыл бұрын

@@vatsalasaxena4725 Thank you so much :). I want to be a middle school teacher. I also write short stories. What is the genre you prefer for writing stories? ( Love/ mystery/ science fiction etc) Yes. I also promise i will not forget you. 😊. Let's work hard for our dreams 🙃

If you don't have what it takes to be a model then don't keep saying you are going to be a model. It's like saying I want to be rich without going to work and lay around all day doing nothing. I can understand if she's insecure and now depressed because she tried so hard and failed but she never did. A lot of people are insecure but they try it and work at it. She doesn't even work enough to support herself. She's lazy and so irresonsible that she can't pay her phone, rent,etc. I don't know how people can sympathize with her in the comments. She doesn't have depression, she still have fun and hangs out with friends.

@cree_VI

6 жыл бұрын

i thinking the same

@sophiayamagughi

6 жыл бұрын

I'm sure she does have depression. I'm exactly like her, I don't do crap and yeah sure I am lazy but I also have depression as well that prevents me from doing shit EVEN MORE. In her situation, it's going to work and stuff. For me, it's chores and going to school because I actually feel like crap going to school everyday. Don't think- yeah shes just lazy blah blah. That's like the last thing she or anyone whos in her situation would want to hear. You can call her lazy, but don't push away the thought that she might and possibly has depression. I play video games with friends when I've got nothing to do. That's fun to me. But does it overall make me feel generally happy? No. Will i still feel like shit right after? Yes.

@InfiresTaekook

5 жыл бұрын

Sophia Yamaguchi ikr some people just don't get it.

@anarchsnark

5 жыл бұрын

she may have depression, but there would be times where she is better and she works for her dream. All these years and she hasn't had any modeling gigs? Has no personal connections? Never took classes? She doesn't practice by herself because she couldn't even strike a pose in front of the MCs. Shoot I have depression and while depression often obstructs my craft, I've still work for it and work to manage my depression because getting better means I can do my craft. If she is depressed she has to work on that, her family is working themselves to the bone and she goes out night clubbing, not working for her dream or her mental health? They point out the night clubbing example, but she's not working for it in other times of her day or life. I don't think she wants to be a model that bad.

@JMBBrasil

3 жыл бұрын

you don't understand because you never been there. All that was said, and all her behaviors are a clear indicative of depression and anxiety. Also, the ignorant judment you are making is very common.

i cried especially when seongwoo wiped off a tea its so sad

People in Korea take getting a job for granted - its so hard for me to even get a reply

@bu834

5 жыл бұрын

princesspanda22 not all though . many koreans are also struggling to even find a job , let alone a well paying job too

@SaraH-jn5db

3 жыл бұрын

@@bu834 exactly, I have smart, well educated friends who are struggling to find full time work, she was just incredibly lucky you get so many jobs

sangmin should become a permanent member tbh i rly liked him on this show

Minhyun worked so hard for 101

Sorry, i gotta ge honest with you all and she is not the runaway type of model , fashion magazine model or lifestyle model ... Just because you are tall it doesn't mean you can become a model, i'm not trying to be rude here just honest and that doesn't mean she can't model at all she could do hand modeling or body parts modeling, maybe a few advertisements or take pictures for clothes catalogues ... I wish her the best! There are projects where they choose unusual people to become models and she is really unique, she should be more confident but is really hard in the beauty industry not to compare yourself with others :/ is understandable even the biggest models did that at least once in their lifes , fighting girl 👏 don't give up!

Why is this concern my life? Lol I’m 5’11 and have always been tall my whole life. Everyone around me would always say “you need to be a model”. Unlike her, I do live a healthy lifestyle and workout 6 days a week. But modeling is a tough business. I guess I just don’t know where to begin. Maybe I’ll send in a concern too 😋😁

honestly, she's not lazy. she's just depressed and she herself and people that are close to her didn't even realize that. i feel bad for her. said this a lot of time but i will still keep on saying this, i think it's about time for this show to invite psychologist/counsellor as one of their guest as well

I just hope that they will stop comparing because not everyone is the same. She isnt confident for a reason and people will not always understand that. I feel bad for her because no one really understands her.

I really feel for the girl with modeling aspirations. She looked good in that picture. She doe not need "Hello Counselor." She has many symptoms of "classical depression." She needs to see a doctor and to stay away from alcohol.

Which means she had actually approached her family bout her struggle, but they didn't catch it. It's time for her to let go of that dream to be a model because it's toxic for her. I like this quote by ryan, If you're not happy on the journey, you'll not be happy when yo reach it. I've experienced the same thing and my life felt much better when I let go. Some things arent meant to be and we have to accept it. Naturally the mcs wouldnt get her, they hold a similar if not the same dream and they thrived and succeed. For the mcs, getting there is hard for them and to maintain the reputation once youre there is not easy either. It's a continuous effort and if you cant go through it now, you'll have harder times in the future. They've experienced it so they know how that world works. I hope the woman has become better now 😊

I'm just like that but with art instead of modeling. And it really seems to be depression. I wish that she can get help and get better so she can succeed in her dream.

*I see so much of myself in her*

depression & anxiety.

When you have low self esteem, it's hard to think positively about yourself no matter how much you try.

People are saying that Korea should open wider views to mental health. I think this show is doing that by showing that people have problems and should not be ignored. This lady seems to have the same problem as me. I don't think she cares to be a model, she is just doing because someone told her. Yes, she is not trying hard towards her goal. I wish that she reverses her situation though.

I can relate to an extent...my parents make me eat at night and stuff so...

This might be depression. I know those feelings of hers and if she gets help she can make it. I will never change my opinion that this show needs real professionals to help and give advice to people who come here.

Here's my experience on this case. I am both a depression sufferer and a dream achiever. I can almost put myself in her shoes, almost. I have been doing little progress to become a singer and dancer ever since I graduated high school, and its been hard. Its hard to get out of as habit that you are so well used to, but I don't mean to critizise the girl, but Sangmin is right, the girl has no genuine drive to become a model. Listen to her statement: "I will give up if things don't work out." A person with as much passion as Wanna One, Sangmin, BTS, Seventeen, any trainee, any person achieving their dreams out there would never say that, even me. I see it as my only way, that failure isn't a step down but a step up. Having a dream in your heart and wanting to make it a reality is the best feeling, but we hear the work is massive, we hear that the work is draining. But if you really REALLY want it, you will make as step towards it, even the smallest one. Even me taking dancing lessons that I never thought I would ever take because I was scared to face the world, because like her never once took that opportunity to think about stepping out of my daily habit of "sleeping in, or working part time." That is the difference between genuine passion and the idea of aspiring to achieving a dream. For those that want to achieve your dream, I ask you to look in your hearts, and ask yourself. "How much do I want this?", because this dream is not a need, a will, a must. No, its a life necessity. A life necessity to change yourself for a better you subconsciously as you achieve this dream. And when you feel inspired or light up when you talk about your dream, you know then that that dream of yours is not just a goal in life, but a dream that is meant to be reality. (Sorry for the long comment)

@THE-gd6qn

6 жыл бұрын

Double Ambition thank u

Btw I think she doesn’t want to be a model ppl kept telling her that she should be one so once she graduated she felt like that was all she could do so maybe she now feels that she doesn’t want to be a model but because that’s what ppl kept telling her she hasn’t thought of anything else, and is just shuffling along, she’s just now realizing that modeling doesn’t just come to those who are tall. But i don’t know that’s just my two cents🤷🏿‍♀️

sad that the MCs couldn't see that she's really struggling with her self esteem, and possibly mental health..... she hasn't done much to become a model, but she still wants to be a model, dreams about it and will not quit that path, so she must have her reasons why...the heart of the issue is that she feels bad about who she is and how she looks. thankfully they got around to talking about this towards the end, and Seongwu seemed to realize the girl's real problem and gave a supportive answer! Wanna One and Yeongja talked about how hard they worked and persisted... but to even do that, you need a certain amount of belief in yourself! which this girl didn't have, that's why she's unable to take steps forward...

im cryingggg minhyun