................and I thought I was lazy

@teeteesoprecious

6 жыл бұрын

Jimin's Flexible Neck idk why but this comment made me lol, best comment on this video 😂

@itsjhopenotjhorse5175

6 жыл бұрын

Me too😂

@RebeccaJ720

6 жыл бұрын

Same, I actually came here thinking that I was going to relate to the lady. I’m productive enough to keep my hygiene check like wash my hair and do laundry.

@Nico.Robin7

6 жыл бұрын

Same. I thought I was bad.

@aikies9692

6 жыл бұрын

It's good that i found a new definition of lazy........

For someone who's lazy she sure got some good skin.

@whatacutie6380

4 жыл бұрын

Shes blessed w it n has no stress thats why

@MissesWitch

4 жыл бұрын

Those genes, my oh my. Meanwhile I daily care for my skin.

@christinahasan9086

4 жыл бұрын

Its called PLASTIC SURGERY

@sofiya7786

4 жыл бұрын

Poodie the less you wash and do anything to your face the better, once a day with some soft mild cleanser is enough. My skin is great now that I am more relaxed with my skin care

@falhasc0me

4 жыл бұрын

Christina Hasan dude wtf

"they are two different dishes, but taste the same" our school canteen can relate

@zainyodus5404

4 жыл бұрын

Lol

@tyrox1342

4 жыл бұрын

So true

@novakiara6150

4 жыл бұрын

I don't even have a school canteen

@eybayby-dul

3 жыл бұрын

lmao

@annabelasare1147

3 жыл бұрын

I can relate too...🙊🙊🙊

She should definitely get checked for depression, hormonal imbalances and ADHD. It's not just laziness I feel like she is genuinely overwhelmed.

@laarniariola7559

7 ай бұрын

I agree

@semihat1630

7 ай бұрын

Autism could also be something at play here

@SmileAway21

6 ай бұрын

But it’s Korea, mental health is not discussed there at all 😂

@hellotokki839

6 ай бұрын

That's not fully true :) I have been living in Seoul for 3 years now and actually got my ADHD diagnosis here at a great clinic. I go in every month for a checkup and there are plenty Korean clients in the waiting room. While it may not be discussed much in public settings, people do discuss and take care of their mental health in private these days. Especially people in their 20s and 30s.@@SmileAway21

@flamingoxebec6336

6 ай бұрын

Agree,,, something not right about her mental state

when the husband said to the wife, "i wish you have a dream", i really thought he's such a good husband and partner. having a comitment with someone for a lifetime is not easy, meanwhile the husband have to run his restaurant all by himslef he still want his wife to have a dream she wants to achieve and just at least do the minimum share of chores she have to do as a wife. i hope everything turn out well for him.

@murfinsmommy3649

6 жыл бұрын

Galuh Rarasati u wrote such a sweet message :)

@enfpflower5751

6 жыл бұрын

Galuh Rarasati yeah me too, where can I find a husband like this? Most husbands tell their wives to stay at home (everywhere around the world there are close minded men), because they’d feel inferior if their wives would become more successful and earn more money than them

@btsismyhappiness1818

6 жыл бұрын

Where can I find a husband as caring as him? /sigh/ she's really lucky to have him as a husband if I've had him as my husband I think that I'll be hapoy cause he's very considerate and sweet

@lalakuma9

6 жыл бұрын

He's too good for her!!!

@oj1689

5 жыл бұрын

its so sad...that there are mne like this married to women who cant appreciate them..especially since there are good, hard working women waiting to be loved in the same manner.

I feel the burden on the husband side. It is not easy to take care your family after a long day of work. Playing computer games is just one way of his relaxation.

@jen5138

4 жыл бұрын

I have an older brother and I would never want such a woman as his wife. He will suffer. Gosh scary just thinking about it.

@Yahya-rm2ze

4 жыл бұрын

Ikr Like she was using that against him when all she does is watch the TV and order her husband around

@normalaharun5812

3 жыл бұрын

I think she is plain spoilt and lazy. She refused to learn to be an adult because she is so used to having other people thinking and doing things for her.

@wavy6470

Жыл бұрын

@@normalaharun5812 have you watched the video? Her mother didn't care for her, she is probably depressed

Rather than being lazy she reminds me of a child that doesn’t know about the world. Not knowing how much salt to put in the food, not knowing what to wear, etc.

@beautifulforever503

3 жыл бұрын

True

@rerai5996

3 жыл бұрын

@@beautifulforever503 she grew up not knowing what to do and was completely dependent on someone. She has no confidence in her own decision and needs approval. My neighbor is like that. She relies on my mother for the tiniest thing. These people are mostly just dealing with something extremely stressful or are depressed. Rn all she has is her husband and that's why relies on him. Take her last hope away from her and she's gone. I can understand her well. She isnt lazy she's just dealing with something big without knowing how big it is

@anthyavila9726

3 жыл бұрын

@@rerai5996 She's lazy AF. If she has some kind of condition, she should be getting therapy, not dragging her husband down by being a burden. He's not a professional, he's not going to be able to help her.

@sandraagustina8463

3 жыл бұрын

Therapy is the best if u dont know what happened at yourself.. (sorry bad english )

@cactuseliana7850

3 жыл бұрын

@@anthyavila9726 how can she go to therapist if someone (her husband) didn't bring her there when she literally cannot even shops by herself?!

The only part I got mad at was when they said she didn't sterilize the bottles for FIVE DAYS. No honey. No.

@jhopestan4517

3 жыл бұрын

I heard it doesn't really matter if you sterilize them or not as long as you wash them with soap and water and your water is clean now i'm confused

@destinychambers8459

3 жыл бұрын

@@jhopestan4517 usually no. As long as you wash it with soap and water it should be fine. That's all that was ever done to mine. But there are two problems. 1 I think that the translation means wash and not sterilize as we think about it and 2. The younger and more prone to disease and ailment the more important it is to heat sterilize bottles. While not necessarily required, it can help prevent things that are hard to kill or get rid of with regular soap and water, that would usually not cause problems but can in rare cases of immunodeficiency or compromise.

@jhopestan4517

3 жыл бұрын

@@destinychambers8459 ohhh thanks for explaining lol yeah its not ok if she isn't washing the bottles before every use I was confused bc I thought they wanted her to sterilize the bottles daily or something 😅

@totally_a_spy

2 жыл бұрын

@@jhopestan4517 I'm a bit late but you are actually meany to sterilise bottles or put them in hot boiling water if you can't

@nanaouzumaki6044

2 жыл бұрын

just washing is fine. But sterilization is the best.

Guys she has been like this before she gave birth so i dont think its post partum depression

@alexanderpascual1911

4 жыл бұрын

I think since she is a beauty compared to her husband she is kinda being a narcissist.

@-sunny3619

4 жыл бұрын

Alexander Pascual why the duck are you attacking the husband now

@lavoshakern

4 жыл бұрын

Then maybe she's had depression for a long time. It doesn't have to be postpartum.

@joannekim8433

4 жыл бұрын

I don’t know for sure but she shows some signs and symptoms of mental illness.

@Seokjinnnnie

4 жыл бұрын

@@lavoshakern This is definitely true. We obviously can't diagnose her but from her actions and answers, it sounds alot like what i went through when i was severely depressed. If this show was actually helpful they would have a therapist on the team to help her

In my opinion, she actually need a proper guide about parenting, housewife, etc. Since she lived with her grandma who did everything for her, so she didnt know how to do decision. She lacks of confidence, for example buying stuff and tasting her own cooking (she afraid its gonna taste bad), her own attire, her baby clothes. She also lack of critical thinking, like how to handle her baby. She doesn't know what right or wrong, like mixing situation where she fight w her husband and refuse to go meet her parents for dinner. She just lack in many place, and thats where she reeeaaaallly need proper guide on being an individual. Her husband need to be patient and guide her. She need help.

@samhayet4286

5 жыл бұрын

Totally agree. Very few people seemed to understand from watching this.

@uzmafaheem3315

4 жыл бұрын

U can learn cooking but she can't learn parenting and housewife manners online

@indayhobiinnightjongdae5942

4 жыл бұрын

@@uzmafaheem3315 I think her husband can help her and guide her with patience and love

@indayhobiinnightjongdae5942

4 жыл бұрын

@Destiny tran not everyone is a strong woman we have to get it and maybe she is mentally disable I am myself 20% like her so I can totally understand her. Idk how people say be strong we r not we want help what can we do🙂 u dk how it is feels

@chun_lisfii3596

4 жыл бұрын

Finally, a clever analysis

Just listening to her i feeel all the energy leaving my body, imagine living with her.

@missdiamond169

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr!!

@nukafeladina2976

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah the worst i've ever seen

@selenatamang3892

2 жыл бұрын

My anger issues can never

@okaycuttt32

2 жыл бұрын

oh my god, ikr...she's so calm but it's frustrating

@wazahwahid5790

2 жыл бұрын

Omaigod,me too!! she's so calm,i feel like slapping her face so that she'll wake up and have some emotion😅i think she's stressed out , that's why she became this way

I think she’s not really mature yet, she needs time to “grow”. So getting married for her is not a great decision, it’s seems to be too early for her

@devaniasou9596

3 жыл бұрын

I'm getting married 17yrs old and giving birth 18yrs old, and I can do anything while keeping my eyes on baby... She's lazy and not respect her husband

@divikaramie5176

3 жыл бұрын

@@devaniasou9596 periodtt, you're so rightt

@cindyduran706

3 жыл бұрын

@@devaniasou9596 they're not talking about how old she is when saying she needs to "grow" she isn't just lazy she's depending too much on her husband because she's used to have someone tell her what to do, she acts like a child who doesn't know how to do stuff, she does need to grow up and learn how do things on her own but I also blame the husband he knew she was like this and he allowed that behavior before and decided to marry her.

@devaniasou9596

3 жыл бұрын

@@cindyduran706 Yeah I know what u mean... But other people think, she's got depression or something else but I think she's just lazy and husband don't do anything and just let his wife do what she want... btw, I got baby blues and depression about my past but I still can manage everything specially for the baby (Sorry if my english so bad I'm trying so hard😊)

@vf4224

3 жыл бұрын

@@devaniasou9596 I think you are very well-raised, considering you are very mature now. That's why you and her are very different. You can't say she's lazy or doesn't respect her husband. She just does NOT know how to do things, because she lived with her grandmother before and maybe she was really spoiled. She can be 25-26 years more or less on the outside but on the inside she is just a child who doesn't know anything. She's not mature yet. We can't say a child is lazy just because the child can't cook, or can't do the laundry, or can't do the chores. Let me repeat, she is a child. So that's why her husband need to teach a loootttt of things before expecting anything from her. Her husband needs to be patient. Such a pity for the husband, but what else can he do now? He's marrying an immature woman.

After cooking , cleaning and doing dishes my mom still calls me lazy😅... I should show her this video

@imsoftdonttouchme8351

4 жыл бұрын

Typical arabic mothers , you can never satisfy them

@imjustlucky3076

4 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY IM A SOUTH INDIAN I RELATE 😥

@user-on4jz1ui6q

4 жыл бұрын

same, my mom also like that. 😂

@keyb8764

4 жыл бұрын

@@imsoftdonttouchme8351also Indonesian mother

@xxxpop9232

4 жыл бұрын

Lol😂😂 i guess we really understand eachothers situation and relate it.. Hello!!!😄😅 I am Nepalese Army💜💜 and i purple you😚 Also me: I must have gone crazy and meddle up in an unknown comment section. Actually i am bored because of lockdown T.T T.T

I'm lazy but if I don't like something I do it myself

@Ta.888

6 жыл бұрын

Irene TM nice 👍

@minakyc3003

5 жыл бұрын

why do people likes to call their self lazy like it is a good thing or makes u dIffErEnT than other people. I think u should try to help your family. Hope u guys didn't get wrong, have a good day

@ms.chuisin7727

5 жыл бұрын

Then you are not lazy. Lazy people want others to do things for them.

@huffy6479

5 жыл бұрын

Same

@t-e-x157

5 жыл бұрын

Me too! I like things in a certain way and I do it myself because people do it wrong.

I sincerely believe that there's no such thing as a "lazy" person. It's either they're going through something, a result of parenting, a mental illness, or simply a loss of motivation due to a.) lack of confidence or b) fear.

@bella-pq7zu

7 ай бұрын

exactly what I've been through right now

@milamarshall7842

4 ай бұрын

Nah she’s an abuser, straight up. She’s abusing him and her child so she can have a care free easy life. They asked her if she thinks she does ANYTHING bad and said no. If this was a man demanding his wife to do everything for him, even order food, you would not be finding her excuses.

She talks like a dead person,like her soul left her body a long time ago idk

@Irem-sf4ug

4 жыл бұрын

@WANNABE Awww:( but I think no one would beat her in talking so lifeless So you're good I guess👌🏼😂

@peachyjae9162

3 жыл бұрын

Out of sudden im worried about her babies life...how she can through it😩😳...

@m.m5436

3 жыл бұрын

i feel bad cuz around 20:00 it looked like she was ab to cry :(

@ham-sley1308

3 жыл бұрын

I love ur profile pic hehe

@Nannyfran3

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed

“She doesn’t wash her hair for 4-5 day” Me:..... what’s the problem I only wash my hair on the weekends Me:..... Me:.......... Me: oh right I’m black

@avianm.1346

4 жыл бұрын

If you aren’t hip(lol), black hair is very curly. So it takes longer for dirt and oil to reach our ends, and even when it does, it’s rare that our hair stinks. Also, washing our hair more than 3-4 times a week can be really damaging so it’s better to wash our hair 1 a week, every week.

@Alia-ys1zt

4 жыл бұрын

Im black and same I only wash my hair on Fridays! high five girll

@niyocagordon4884

4 жыл бұрын

👍🏼 so accurate

@armella.h

4 жыл бұрын

It's diffrent for asian, their hair gets oily and stinky very easily. That's an inconvenient of having a nice hair like theirs xD

@emiiilia.G.G

4 жыл бұрын

Hahahahaha girl thats me

Is nobody talking about the child? She's go to sleep while the baby is crying? Poor little baby

@utkarshaggarwal1631

3 жыл бұрын

atleast he won't remember it later. lmao sorry

@user-vp2ii3sl8d

3 жыл бұрын

@@utkarshaggarwal1631 he might watch this

@user-vp2ii3sl8d

3 жыл бұрын

In the future

@utkarshaggarwal1631

3 жыл бұрын

@@user-vp2ii3sl8d hmm point

@lalitaghising9040

3 жыл бұрын

She is a zombie with no feelings and no brain

U can see that the husband doesn’t really feel good exposing his wife this way but he really got enough I feel bad for both of them

I feel like every couple on this show got married without having dated each other long enough. A lot of them get pregnant and then get married right after and were together for less than a year at the time. That’s probably the biggest relationship lesson you can gleam from the show. Don’t jump into marriage and use protection...

@felisa1362

4 жыл бұрын

agree🙁

@user-nv9kk2qn2p

4 жыл бұрын

Jessica Pena how about you do it after you’re married for a while

@mo_7199

3 жыл бұрын

@@user-nv9kk2qn2p personal choice. some people want to know before they get married

@SantiaLingamTheAwesomeCreature

3 жыл бұрын

@@user-nv9kk2qn2p nothing is wrong about doing it before marriage. but before both parties step into that realm, they should have a calm conversation whether they're ready to have a baby in their current relationship in the case of a failed contraception. they should also plan what they're gonna do if the woman just so happens to get pregnant (abortion? raising the child?). so much of thought should go into this before taking this decision and i'm afraid not many give too much thought into this.

@user-nv9kk2qn2p

3 жыл бұрын

Santia Lingam bruh I never said anything was wrong with doing it before marriage

She should be thankful because her husband is a kind man....🙂🙂🙂

@alexanderpascual1911

4 жыл бұрын

She thinks she is too beautiful for him

@bloodyhell47

2 жыл бұрын

@@alexanderpascual1911 someone venting their own insecurity

I don't get why she refuses to taste her own dish XD she thinks very differently to most of us i guess

@shwetatapele1848

6 жыл бұрын

deetrailer I don't know why but even I don't like to taste my own food.. :P

@dobichan7548

6 жыл бұрын

Even me i dont taste my own dish . Usually i ask my mom or my brother to taste it

@bacitracin_

6 жыл бұрын

Dobi Chan then don't season it. let the husband season it. but she said "You need to season to be able to cook." they suggested to, let the dish be unseasoned so she don't have to ruin it. I think she can't come into a common sense.

@fe5398

6 жыл бұрын

Mostly i dont taste my own dish. Cause i dont think i need it. Beside i already aware with the amount of ingerdients and how the taste become. I just taste something when i try something new.

@finniethecat

6 жыл бұрын

I hate tasting unfinished food too XDD honestly that's why I prefer to bake.

I’m not a doctor but she might be depressed. Depression does that to people, I believe. The lack of energy and the laziness and all of that scream depression. I hope she sees a therapist.

@Noobgamer-bm2kb

3 ай бұрын

I don't think it's that simple. I have depression but I am not that lazy that I will keep my baby crying nor would I try to cause any trouble for anyone. She is far worse than me. I can tell that even the average depressed people don't make people this frustrated. She should get therapy fr. I think it's much worse than depression.

I am conflicted. I feel for the husband and at the same time, I feel for the wife too. Originally, I thought she was chronically lazy and had a devil may care attitude. But when they spoke about her innermost feelings, I saw the guilt, the sadness and most of all, self reproach for being useless and unprepared. Narsha understood the core of the problem relatively better than the others, which is why she burst into tears when she spoke to her. The husband loves her and their baby to pieces, but is frustrated that is wife is slow and at a loss for everything. Hence, he feels burdened and tries to destress with computer games. Both of them need counselling and a little more drive to make a warm and happy family.

She wants to have a happy family, yet she doesnt make effort to make it comes true..

@heliconialee3017

6 жыл бұрын

phio phio she too depends on her husband...I guess she is an introvert person...cant do anything by herself,so shy with ppl...she need to be stronger..

@AnaClaudia-qw6id

6 жыл бұрын

Heliconia Lee Shyness shouldn't interfere in washing the baby's bottle, cooking, or washing her hair....

@Kt-cn2rq

6 жыл бұрын

Heliconia Lee I'm kinda like her but more with dealing with people on the phone. I can never get to where really need to be. Eg. Where press buttons sent 300 different people. Just to get a simple yes or no question see if kid can go back to school lol. Seriously...

@priscellia1639

6 жыл бұрын

Introverts are independent people because they want to do everything by themselves to avoid any human contact, if possible.

@peachperfume3694

5 жыл бұрын

Heliconia Lee introvert doesn‘t mean lazy and incapable. I consider myself an introvert and I‘m not shy, I have a masters degree, multiple awards and people always compliment me on my diligence. I can make friends easily and I go out and travel a lot. There were days in the past when I was enthusiastically selling merchandise on the streets and talking to strangers all day, and there are some other days where I need my boyfriend to talk to the sales clerk while shopping because I just couldn't deal with people at times. I consider myself an introvert because it‘s super exhausting for me to interact with people all the time and I need a lot of alone time to recover. Being introvert doesn't mean being shy or lazy. An extrovert, on the other hand, thrives and get energized from social interactions. This girl is just pure lazy and too comfortable.

I don't know about depression being involved here but to me it looks like they are both frustrated with their lives. They lived together before their marriage and the wife probably had no plans of marrying him but had to because she got pregnant. She probably realised this later and hence has little to no affection for her child. Probably she blames her husband for things and troubles him by calling again and again for the same things and not doing any chores to make him regret. If that's the case she seems quite childish and unhappy with her marriage. The relationship seems to be falling apart to me and the baby will suffer because of her.

@nan6962

5 жыл бұрын

The most logical reasoning in the comment section

@user-gv7uz4wh2l

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah and I think the fact that she can go out to drink but is lazy enough to do household chores means she has serious problems. I always think that family-planning should be placed first always because in the end, the child will be the one to suffer the most. I hope that she tries to change slowly for her family and I hope that they can get to the bottom of their problems and get rid of them.

@rosagorskikh9825

4 жыл бұрын

I would take custody of the child and leave her if I was the husband

@reenezach8817

4 жыл бұрын

She's toxic to her own husband and their baby..like seriously she's so selfish,no common sense, irresponsible and not even trying to be better.stop with the excuses and grow up already.. she make a commitment as a mom and wife.she chose that life so suck it up..

@nurafifahshuhardi8240

4 жыл бұрын

She selfish

She’s laughing with everyone else makes me feel like she has know idea that she’s not okay. She doesn’t even feel embrasses at all. I feel bad for her, she seriously need help.

@priyamehra6179

3 жыл бұрын

But she has tears in her eyes. She just need some help And also she's cute

My husband was like this in the beginning of our marriage. He didn't know how to order food, talk on the phone, ask for anything, or speak to authority. He frequently messed things up or shut down and got nervous. He spent his teenage and young adult years studying, working, and going home and pretty much doing whatever his parents wanted him to do. Like a robot. He never had a chance to do anything on his own or make his own decisions so when it came to doing things on his own he froze it. It appeared like laziness at first but it was actually indecisiveness, social anxiety, and shame.

@singsing515

Ай бұрын

I think so, too. I'm not a psychologist, but one of my friends has social anxiety and depression and it actually manifests very similarly to what can be observed here. She also might have postpartum depression, it's far more common than people think.

She's a very soft talker but it's a bit of frustrating lmao

@lucia-gu5uf

6 жыл бұрын

bangtan and gfriend ended your favourite. HAHAHA ur username 💗 i love it

@deathpearl360

6 жыл бұрын

No wonder why her husband said its like talking to a wall.

@bangtanandgfriendendedyour2993

6 жыл бұрын

deathpearl360 i cant hear her clearly and it's so frustrating

@-maggielindson-3445

6 жыл бұрын

bangtan and gfriend ended your favourite. ^^^^reply to ur ursername No they didn't.

@horololosquid9309

6 жыл бұрын

it's a username can people take stuff like this more lightly lmao love your u/n anyways 👌

This should be a lesson for everybody. Married life is supposed to be man and woman working together to make it work. Make it balance. But I really dont like the wife behavior. It really irritates me. Of course i want to just sit down, watch tv, play games, but believe me, you will waste your life.

@thedarkestpath7464

6 жыл бұрын

Miracle Sonnia It's not just man and woman, it's partners working together, not every marriage is straight lol

@misoranniclea

6 жыл бұрын

comeback kid ops so sorry... I didnt mean to offend other. Yes true what u said :)

@thedarkestpath7464

6 жыл бұрын

Miracle Sonnia It's not a big deal, I just thought I should point it out.

@mykpoplevelisobsession1015

6 жыл бұрын

Miracle Sonnia True, I just feel like a lot of people (not just in Asian countries) get married just to get married. I know a lot of people in my home town that are so called "stay at home moms" but yet they do nothing just like the woman in the video. They want someone to take care of them without having to do anything. A lot of people, especially now, think that being a stay at home mom means you don't have to work hard which I feel is a bunch of bull. Whenever I watch this show with married couples and the fact that the reoccurring problem happened even before they get married makes me think even strongly that they get married just to get married. I just feel like there is either no true love in the relationship or it's just a one sided thing.

@DavidSmith-ki2we

6 жыл бұрын

Exactly!! How did she even agreed to have sex n have a kid is beyond me!! Wasn't that too much work??? She pissed me off so bad

More and more i watched this show, i became more unsatisfied about how they supposed to helping them... But they actually dont...

@anggaa1970

4 жыл бұрын

They call real counselor off stage and perform variety show on stge

@syusaurus

4 жыл бұрын

@@anggaa1970 waaaa is it true?? i thought they never have professional help for this show tho...

@ViaH__

3 жыл бұрын

choco mint they do. Hence the name "hello counsellor". They basically broadcast the situation and give advice based on their opinions, once the episode is over all three parties go backstage and receive counselling from a professional (only the ones 100% involved not just bystanders). I know there's a lot of controversy around the, but you have to watch it with your own perspective. The concerns are sent to them and they host the show, the. The concerns are sent backstage. It's all about showing how wide of a variety of issues many people face.

@fiyyhobi5937

3 жыл бұрын

yep i agree

@ireneonly

3 жыл бұрын

I saw one with a drunk father making her girls cry and they didnt help them at all....

I don't think they were even ready to settle down and have a family

She's pretty and soft spoken. I bet she going to be a good wife but she needs to change, a lot. Yes true, wife is not husband's chef or maid. But, naturally, if you're not working and just stay at home with kids, you do have to time for house chores. The husband has worked hard during the day, of course he wants to taste a decent home cook meal made by his wife..

@cassieb.3869

6 жыл бұрын

pinkynas Stay at home mom IS a job: maid, chef,nanny, driver, etc. That’s why you should respect them. She’s just lazy, she should get back to work if she doesn’t want to do the things that a stay at home is required to do.

@puterinana21

6 жыл бұрын

pinkynas i agree with you.. i know for sure she had psychology problem.. she just need someone to told her that its okay, the time is yours, i will be by your side.. geez i wish someone said to me.. 😥

@maisarahhishamuddin1089

6 жыл бұрын

yup totally true..But she soooooooooooo lazy!

@ezzatisaid

6 жыл бұрын

Chores aside, she could at least just wash her hair every now and then without being asked. Personal hygieneeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

@vanessamae736

6 жыл бұрын

pinkynas

She married a man thinking he'd be her caretaker, her parents who would take care of everything nicely. He married a woman thinking she'd help out in taking care of the house but he married a baby.

@sabbrinam

5 жыл бұрын

The only true comment

@ninepuchar1

5 жыл бұрын

(ー_ー)

@mayahusn5171

5 жыл бұрын

@Erinne Cat very simple he married an extremely unmarriagable person!!! His bad luck!

Love how Narsha see things. She must be a good listener and advisor

Baffles me that NO ONE..not a SINGLE SOUL in the audience or in the comments section doubted the possibility of her having Post partum depression. It really could be a combination of her already existing, undiagnosed neurodivergence (ADHD or autism maybe) which became worse with postpartum perhaps. It looks very different in different women but it is very likely the poor woman is going through her silent battles without even realising it's a problem; why she confidently just say "I'm lazy" The problem may be way more than just her being a "lazy" person. Laziness is always a symptom of unaddressed blockers or trauma

@singsing515

Ай бұрын

Exactly my thoughts. When I heard the word child, it immediately popped into my head. It is far more common than people think. She might also have social anxiety or a similar condition.

She is not soft spoken, her laziness just shows through her speech.

@thisisntallowed9560

5 жыл бұрын

Haha I didn't see it like that

It sounds like she's pretty severely depressed...

@shxxn4781

4 жыл бұрын

Well then his husband must have wanted to commit suicide alrdy from having a wife like her

@lolo-vh6xh

4 жыл бұрын

Her husband works sooo hard. I'm sorry for him.

@InfiresTaekook

4 жыл бұрын

@@shxxn4781 she wants to die, u think she cares? Depressed people are sick. Wake up.

@choiwyd848

4 жыл бұрын

Infires Taekook How do you know she’s depressed? Are you a psychologist? Stop diagnosing people without any knowledge.

@jen5138

4 жыл бұрын

Depress people don’t go around looking to drink and socialiSe with friends. They just want to be alone and hide from the world. Speaking from experience as I’ve been depressed before.

Many ppl say that she is in depression, but for me she is just being lazy af, because i know a girl who just as lazy as her n she is single.

@apo_bangpo2096

3 жыл бұрын

Yess and I think her husband is really being considerate to her.. rather than divorced her, he tried to find solutions for their problems.

@ayunamaweru7089

3 жыл бұрын

@@apo_bangpo2096 yes, i hope she try better from now on before the husband really sick of her attitude

@apo_bangpo2096

3 жыл бұрын

@@ayunamaweru7089 soo truee

@sr3821

3 жыл бұрын

Probably she just doesn't know how to make decision or to do basic daily things, due to her upbringing. It may make her "paralyzed" and "freezed". She does nothing because she is afraid to fail.

If she keep being lazy and uncaring like this he should divorce her. He deserves better. Imagine have to work 12 hours a day in restaurants alone and come home without food being prepared. Do not care what excuses she give out.

@sr3821

3 жыл бұрын

It's easy to say, but how about the child? When you have a child, you must think about his/ her well-being too. Adults may divorce and remarry, but young children need mom and dad. The first few years of the child is also extremely important for his/ her physical and mental health.

@moonlightpaw5868

3 жыл бұрын

@@sr3821 Divorce is not the end of the world. It up to you how to tell your kids and educate them about it. As long as you don’t turn into asshole towards your kids after you divorce, you kids will be fine.

@lisanation5119

2 жыл бұрын

I totally agree

@leyzerat4157

2 жыл бұрын

@@sr3821 The mom is neglecting the child anyways so it would be better for the child. Especially if the dad gets the custody.

@rgarciaprl

2 жыл бұрын

Agree

I think the fact that she got pregnant first is partially the reason why she doesn’t really value her marriage. The feeling that she doesn’t want to do the chores and taking care of the kid since it’s not the things that she want to do. I don’t see the husband marrying her because of love either, just an obligation because he knocked her. In simple way they’re just good people not ready for marriage and commitment.

@aq3048

5 жыл бұрын

True

My mother was raised by her grandmother, she felt alone back in those days because she didn't felt her parent's love. She was also afraid that when she has her own family she couldn't show us affection, but she demonstrated, that if u know where are your feet at, nothing else matter, because she couldn't blame on us. My mom always does her work as mom and wife. That girl isn't ready to be a mom. She's not that mature yet.

@yanjindulamculture147

6 жыл бұрын

Loreley linarez quezada you don’t have be an “Adult” to know to taste food before serving. You don’t have be terribly bright or smart to care about others.

@spectraviolet3269

6 жыл бұрын

Salute to your mum

@Kt-cn2rq

6 жыл бұрын

Elena Culture lol I never made meal for my in-laws myself because they be shocked at how bad I am at cooking. The reason may not like cooking is because maybe not taught to cook and doesn't want to kill her husband.

@letsgetthisbread1799

5 жыл бұрын

Are you creating am exuse

@jonniejonnie5710

5 жыл бұрын

Well thats not an excuse, what if it affects her child? She knows that she's a mom and wife and she should take responsibility of that. What if her child ended up like her or even worse, she's the one who would take actions for her child. Obviously I see that she's just making up some excuses and lazy (Also she should be Thankful for having a child, she should think deeply that because of her child she would stand for herself and for the child also to grow as a person and inspires her for her dream.

The husband is literally so sick of this u can understand from his facial expression

I LOVE THE WOMEN PRESENTERS WHOS LIKE SORRY I MISUNDERSTOOD WHILST TRYING TO MAKE THE WIFE’S SITUATION BETTER AHAHAAH

I feel sorry for the husband. Like hearing all that he has to do is making me so stressed. Like he is a hard-working man. Okay, but why does she really feel like a wall to talk to.

So guys, the girl doesn't cook or eat alone, doesn't wash her hair, take care of the family or have a will in general. And y'all calling that lazy. I think that depression really deep depression.

@ommaya5056

5 жыл бұрын

Ha !O no it’s flat out lazy because she was like that before she got pregnant and married. It’s mostly her parents fault cause I can tell she was spoiled so she didn’t work hard most of her life. But she might be depressed but her husband would have helped her and not put her on the show

@saintmaud_

5 жыл бұрын

@@ommaya5056 She could have been depressed before getting pregnant? The husband doesn't seem to understand this either. She needs his guidance for even simple things like ordering food, shopping, choosing a hairstyle or clothes. That's not "lazy", she's mentally unwell.

@ommaya5056

5 жыл бұрын

loona la révolution bruh really stop saying she’s depressed. Like you don’t have a psychology degree so why are you saying she depressed it’s like someone telling you your on your period when ya not like stop saying things until you have hard proof even if she has some depressing signs doesn’t mean she is depressed she didn’t say “I want to leave” and again her husband would have helped her if she was you say “depressed” when you shouldn’t be giving out people their “mental issues” or “Health problems” like that will make someone angry or depressed like ya keep saying so stop that’s hella rude

@saintmaud_

5 жыл бұрын

I'm obviously not making a professional diagnosis, it's my opinion that she's very likely dealing with mental health problems like anxiety or depression. What her husband and her described is not normal or healthy at all, you don't need a PhD to know an inability to complete simple tasks clearly points in that direction. It sounds like you think I'm insulting her, but i'm not. Struggling with mental health problems is nothing to be ashamed of. What's hella rude is you writing her off as 'flat out lazy' or even dumb/selfish like the other commenters are saying. And like I said before, the husband doesn't seem to understand she might be dealing with this, plenty of people don't know much about mental health and warning signs.

@ommaya5056

5 жыл бұрын

loona la révolution yes you do need a PhD because telling her “your opinion” about her being a depressed is gonna make her feel depressed so just keep ya damn opinion to yourself instead of making someone really depressed so you can be “right”. Plus you don’t know her history so don’t even try calling her depressed

I'm still jealous of her for her man I mean honestly I feel like, if i was lazy I would just get the " obviously only you can clean and cook cause you're a women " But this guy actually helps out

@nanaouzumaki6044

2 жыл бұрын

agreed 😊

She clearly has a form of depression which never has been treated.. Maybe since she was a teenager. And normally getting a child makes it mostly even worse... Korea rarely talks about this. It's really serious and she is lucky to have such a kind husband. Hopefully she gets some help. 😔

@chai_lattes

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, I'm so stumped by this concern. I wanted so badly to be like oh she's obviously depressed or suffering from post partum, and while that still could be true, there seems to be another underlying cause for ... everything. She seems upset with her husband, almost like she feigns ignorance out of spite because she feels powerless. But I was really confused when she said she's not at fault at all...

It's funny how people are sugarcoating their comment toward the wife but if it's the wife who has complain they'll roast him to the bone

@rickawuland1658

6 жыл бұрын

Khansa Deryqa i will roast her to the bone, she's not ready yet to get married but already pregnant, postpartum syndrome or whatever at least she should sterilize the baby's milk bottle

@yuciehayashi266

6 жыл бұрын

Can't you see her tearing up already? If they still roast her she'll bawl and the show can't go on.

@nerdybunny2367

6 жыл бұрын

ricka wuland yes! That was scary to know. The infant's health is at risk with a mother like that. Being a lazy wife is one thing but being a lazy mother isn't acceptable. Your kid didn't ask to bring him into the world when you weren't ready. But when now you have done that, take responsibility. She isn't a teen mom.

@rickawuland1658

6 жыл бұрын

Nerdy Bunny yess agree, that's what i mean, as her husband's friend has said her lazy habit has been around since before marriage, so this is not a matter of postpartum syndrome or disappointment to her husband but I think her sense of responsibility doesn't exist yet, and when she answers Lee Young Ja's question with an innocent face, make me angry Sorry my english

@christinekhoo9710

6 жыл бұрын

Khansa Deryqa couldn't agree more like omg double standards much

I don’t think she suffers from depression, I think she got babied a lot plus her actions could lead to her child being in serious danger. Not sterilising the bottle, not washing it for 5 days. The lady will only learn when her child gets seriously hurt

@lang-ed3bk

5 жыл бұрын

I believe it’s possible she is suffering from depression. I’ve always been an extremely tidy and organized person (more than the average person), but once some bad stuff happened to me in the last few years, and very quickly I became a lazy and dirty person. All of a sudden my tolerance for dirty things or broken things was really high; things was go unwashed for weeks and if things broke, I’d just go without, instead of getting it fixed. Depression, not just laziness, could be possible here.

@sakurasea1074

5 жыл бұрын

Lucky Mwabi I dont think she will learn even then.

@sakurasea1074

5 жыл бұрын

lang 1007 Yes maybe

@user-pj9ho1lv3f

5 жыл бұрын

She's the type of person that something REALLY bad has to happen for her to understand the problem.

@marisawu3646

5 жыл бұрын

I think post partum depression might be a possibility

there is no love in this relationship, they really need to divorce, like, ven tho the girl need therapy and solve her problems, she just dont care about her husband and the baby..

@kittyneko8568

3 жыл бұрын

i know right.And if they divorced i think that baby should be with her husband.💆🏻‍♀️💆🏻‍♀️That baby should not be with the wife.Maybe the baby will get sick🤒

@fatinfarhanah2633

3 жыл бұрын

@@kittyneko8568 true af

Moral of the story : don't shelter your child too much lest he/she becomes like that. Her grandma did everything for her hence she's used to being lazy and being served.

The thing is the wife still looking relax like nothing happened😅😅😅

@anushkapandey8588

4 жыл бұрын

I don't blame her. They need real counselors. All these celebs just criticized her ability to cook. I hope the husband starts working at home and starts cooking while the lady should get a job already. They should try doing stuff that the other person does to know what they're going through.

@heyitsmeh8465

4 жыл бұрын

@@anushkapandey8588 the do have and provide them professional counselor off stage

@fmamamaba1460

3 жыл бұрын

She cried tho

the husband is one of the best... when he said he wants her to have a dream its so touching i can really feel his love for his wife

As someone who also grew up dependent on those around me, I can say the struggle is pretty real. You haven't built up the confidence or critical thinking skills to fend for yourself, and then you fuck up majorly when you actually try. People look down on you, underestimate you, or minimize you, and your brain tells you all these things and worse. It's shameful. It's paralyzing. You almost want to die rather than bumble through life as an idiot.

@morjay8243

9 ай бұрын

Oh my gosh, you perfectly put into words what I've always wanted to realize but couldn't. I truly needed this. Thank you! I hope you are doing well wherever in life you are now.

Clearly she's going through post partum depression. I wish they would recognize it so she does get the care she needs.

@CherryBlossom-lc3mj

5 ай бұрын

But she was like that before they even got married

*_has anyone else noticed that KBS is using emojis on their titles_*

@catilya9120

6 жыл бұрын

kinda cute hehe

@Ta.888

6 жыл бұрын

Me thooo xD

@nandagumolung6418

5 жыл бұрын

those r so cutee

@user-pe8ik3kl8p

5 жыл бұрын

I had to scroll back up 😂 Too cute ah KBS

@Kiklo854

5 жыл бұрын

I love kbs

Wow, if this was the opposite people would be fuming against the man, here they try to sweet talk to her, give her "reasons" why she mad.

@goodmusic4731

6 жыл бұрын

Football Dynasty ikr

@venomusdrake2888

6 жыл бұрын

Football Dynasty omg exactly

@Loriani93

6 жыл бұрын

Lol thats not true, it's because this isn't an extremely bad concern. They always try to see it from both sides but especially when the concerns are a bit lighter.

@theluxuryoflife5076

6 жыл бұрын

물만두 imnida but thats shouldnt be a problem tho. She dont go to work. She's a stay at home mom. Before u ask me to live that life, yes im married, two kids age 7 and 1y6m. I work ,my husband work, but everytime after work i still hv the time to cook, take care of my childrens, clean the house and still hv time to talk to my husband every night asking how was his day. And no, my husbdand dont treat me as A MAID OR PROSTITUDE coz thats not what husband and wife are for. She's really lazy, no excuse for her. When i clean the house, my husband look after our childs. Give and take is what they should do. Im married for 10yrs now so one year of marriage shouldn't be that hard already. 😊😊

@DeletedAcc-fv9zg

6 жыл бұрын

imnida물만두 shes straight up just lazy and its not a "oh sorry he doesnt act like ur personal maid and prostitute" thing.Like how lazy must you be where u dont bother sterilizing your baby's bottle and just use it without cleaning it properly and just rinsing it with luke warm water.but yea the comment saying about how the guy is lazy and how she isnt his own personal slave and prostitute makes no sense cause if u actually bothered watching u wouldve known is more deeper than that

I think she was being spoiled by her grandmother when she's little until she grows up she been lazy by her entire life that she become dependent to those people around her she doesnt want to listen she doesnt want to learn she think she didnt do anything wrong if i were her husband i will divorce her whats the point in just keeping another person to feed if u want to have a happy family learned to respect each other, know ur own situation, decide whats right from wrong and be responsible since i was little my mom already teach me to be independent to do house chores not to be lazy if it weren't for my mom i think my step sisters would be like her they sleep all day, they are too lazy to do chores, they are angry when they are scolded my mom said that we cant stop u in marrying somebody and have a family in the future what we teach u will be a great help .

저정도면 그냥 갑작스러운 임신과 결혼 출산에 삶을 완전히 놓아버린듯 싶음. 극심한 우울증은 옆에 있는 일반인들이 못견딤. 치료받아야함

the reactions were PRICELESS after they had a bite of her food!😂😂😂

when i was young, my mum always choose what we wear. if we choose something outself, she would say its not good.it became our habit to ask her. one day, she suddenly got angry and said why can’t you do it yourself. Its was a really ridiculous situation, she made it that way and we got scolded...need to talk to the grandmother...probably the grandmother kept criticizing whatever she does, so she is very unsure of what she is doing..and need someone to check and fix it...her laziness...doubled from that..unmotivated..

@mina.k4419

6 жыл бұрын

purplehobie I totally agree, my mum would be the same, planning one step ahead. It would be frustrating trying to go along with what she told me and my siblings to do and resulted in confusion when we got older. I think with most people, they rebel also, but majority, you don't know where to place yourself, especially when you're put in certain situations and can't explain why you can't decide or explain yourself to others when asked

@JustThatLauren

5 жыл бұрын

I agree, I was the same way. Had the same struggle

@beep7634

5 жыл бұрын

purplehobie That. Is. Exactly. Me. I thought I was the only one

게으름에 문제가 아니라....우울증같은데 상담받으러 가야할듯.........산후우울증아니야....

I think she might have some postnatal depression...which might explain her lack of motivation to wash her hair, cook and indecisiveness...every decision would feel like a huge chore...

I am a lazy young wife as well, with a hard working supportive husband. We have been together since we were in High School (I’m 21..) I can tell you that despite me being lazy it all comes down to not making excuses, I lack motivation and drive, have low energy and would rather sleep in and play games all day, but my husband goes through so much, and he works so hard to get me the things I want, we go grocery shopping and he buys whatever food I want to make, and yet we still go out to eat often. He makes good money and isn’t cheap with me. He confronts me often as he doesn’t feel appreciated, but the thing is he has to explain EVERYThing I did wrong as I don’t notice for some reason? I grew up a single child with an overprotective mother who divorced and remarried. My mother would do everything for me and make all my decisions. She would tell me what to wear what to eat what to say... I feel like this affected my personality, I also moved a lot (every year we lived in a new place) so I got used to not trying on anything because I knew all my friends and all my school things.. everything would be left behind... I love my family and I don’t blame them, I chose to be this way and have allowed myself to fall in this deep hole... I started crying the other day because I realize I’m an adult and I found myself arguing with m husbands 9 year old sister.. WHY? I don’t know how to act or do so many things... I can’t fight or argue, I get emotional easily, and discouraged... My parents left the country and now I’m all alone with my husband , and I feel so sad and alone, but he is very supportive and I have to just try my best to change, I cannot slow myself to lose everything I care about just because I “don’t feel like doing things” ... I don’t know why I wrote such a long comment :( anyways... we all have to work hard on ourselves to be who we really want to become and to change for the better 😭

@thisisntallowed9560

5 жыл бұрын

Since your mother didn't let you do things on your own, you didn't learn to. Kids learn through mistakes. If a kid falls climbing something, he will get hurt, but then he'll know he shouldn't do the same mistake or be careful. But if your mother keeps you from falling, you won't learn. You might learn that it's dangerous to make decisions on your own, because you might get hurt, so it's better to rely on your mother, it's also easier. You didn't learn that it's not the end of the world if you get hurt. You won't learn how to make your own decisions, therefore you won't learn to be confident. Maybe you learned some of these things too, even if a little. Anyone who would have been raised the same way you've been would have turned exactly like you. You say you're trying your best, I cheer for you. You're good, keep going.

@meganod279

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly, I agree with the previous reply. That's a problem your parents caused to you and it has nothing to do with depression. It's the babying stuff that parents don't understand how badly it affects the kids in the future. That's why this girl in the video has no signs of depression. In your case I think you understand your mistakes but you can't change easily. But in the girl in the video, she has no idea of her mistakes or attitude. I don't understand why people keep talking about depression when it's clearly not that the main point.

@mokari9268

5 жыл бұрын

Hope your doing well now.

@SieMiezekatze

5 жыл бұрын

Keep fighting, I am the opposite I suffer from parents neglect and it makes you overwork yourself so you don't have to think, also I avoid everything and can't let people in, I just don't trust anyone. funny how our childhood make us

@armella.h

4 жыл бұрын

Be strong! Keep fighting, and don't loose yourself and your loved ones. It's difficult, but you must rebuilt your personality and understand that you're an adult with responsibilities now. Good luck in life.

I don't get why everyone is sweet-talking and making excuses for her? She is plain lazy. She might have gotten everything from her grandma and doesn't know what to do, but that's why this behavior towards her can't keep going on. She has to listen and take her responsibilities! She just can't rely on her husband 24/7 and watch TV or sleep instead... or make as much for him and her baby, that it's just enough to 'survive' (I hope you guys get what I mean). I was so frustated because they just kept talking against a wall. She doesn't realize or understand (but on the other hand, she kinda got this by explaining that her grandma raised her like this... so idk) that she is lazy and not a help for her husband and baby. Yes, her husband should be supporting her a little more, but he works till 10pm and then does the household because she couldn't done it by herself even tho she's home all day. It's normal that you would flee to gaming or something that relaxes you, after that. And yes, she has to take care of her baby but srsly, it's not as hard as it sounds like. Of course it's not easy but still more than doable. It's not much that is expected from her, but it's still too much for her. That really irritates me.

@zehl45

5 жыл бұрын

Ican'tHandleHobisBoogieBootyAnymoreSendHelp ur right and i so agree with u, like the child is only 9 months what more if that child turn 3 yrs so if the child run outside the house she would just stare and called the husband "our child left the house find her pls." 😑 nonsense theres a lot of people who raise a child and have more than one job just to give their child their needs and yet she's plainly didnt want to do everything by herself.

@souupii.3434

5 жыл бұрын

True, but she may have postpartum depression...? Maybe?

@mandychen1240

5 жыл бұрын

Ikr pls kbs just change the hello counsellor cast to ppl that can actually help them instead of airing all these problems without any solutions for the sake of ratings

@leylamamat215

5 жыл бұрын

Ha..ha..i have to agree w u

@miunya

2 жыл бұрын

You're so judgmental. You don't know how her mental state is. You can't lump people together.

I really like the way she said no instead of beating around the bush

Now i understand i don't have patience.. 😂😂😣 She was literally a dead soul😂😪

@sf9astro106

3 жыл бұрын

Oh my god i got 3 likes.. 😱 Including me... 😂😂

@l.niengboihaokip9817

3 жыл бұрын

Inspirit Aroha 🤣

I think she is having depression since we're really similar. When you think you just don't have the mental energy to do anything, you rely on others. I hope she gets better like I am.

This is so embarrassing

@joc-asmrtingles9860

4 жыл бұрын

Having a mental illness is not embarrassing, everyone is just bashing her like jeez give her some credit she probably wasn't prepared to have a baby at such a young age and nobody even checking on her wellness and even evaluating her is the fucked up part because you have to be strong and not lazy to raise a baby

@haikalian

4 жыл бұрын

JOC-ASMR Tingles No, she was lazy even before that. She admit that she was lazy, she used to being depend on someone (her grandma, friends, andnow her husband). Trust me, my mother is (almost) like her

@joc-asmrtingles9860

4 жыл бұрын

@@haikalian Is your mom depressed or lazy? People are that way when they have no hope or fun in life she's really young and should be active at that age. It honestly seems like depression because I have depression and before I had depression I went out with friends, socialized and even volunteered for the homeless people in my spare time, and after having 2 kids now I don't socialize with friends and don't even want to go out not because I'm lazy, trust me I wish I could but the anxiety and constant panic attacks made me depressed because it's stopping me from going out, have to make excuses to my friends, there is no reason for someone to just be "lazy" there are reasons.

@haikalian

4 жыл бұрын

JOC-ASMR Tingles did you hear that she went out drinking the night before? She was spoiled before, she lived with her grandma when she was growing up and her grandma did everything for her (my mom was spoiled too, her act is kinda similar with my mom). She now wants her husband do the same for her. I think instead of depressed, she doesn’t know that what she does was wrong

@joc-asmrtingles9860

4 жыл бұрын

@@haikalian Maybe she misses her freedom.. It can be laziness it can be both or she became more lazy or depressed after the kids, I don't know what you're trying to get at and convince but I'm just speaking from my experience.. Just seems like you're against depression or dismissing depression like many other Asian people.

She's not lazy she's going through something and it has something to do with her life since her childhood. I can relate to her but she's on extreme level. Sadly few people in the comment section are understanding her actual problem. Mental health is very important.

Woman: Lazy, unrefined, sloppy Comments: OMG SHE HAS DEPRESSION Like ya’ll need to stop justifying laziness cause it doesn’t correlate to depression stop throwing that word around so casually you wannabe psychologists.

@saadullahshahid5513

4 жыл бұрын

Thats true like do you guys even know what actual depression is?

@parism4656

4 жыл бұрын

Laziness and depression actually do correlate lol... but I will say not all people who are lazy are depressed

@anneharlowe1673

4 жыл бұрын

Paris M I get that but calling someone depressed because they are lazy is a very bad conclusion. not to mention a slap in the face for people who actually suffer from it and it is a very serious illness that should not be thrown around easily. Saying someone is depressed because they are just not bothered is like saying someone coughing means they have lung cancer. Diagnosis should be run by unbiased doctors on a personal meeting not by a bunch of randos and that one medical student. I get it she is a bit too chill but again we are seeing her for the first time. I know people who suffer front depression and yes they do get lazy but it much deeper than that. I can’t describe how bad it really is and it just bugs me when people throw the word ‘depression’ around for everything. Look she might be depressed but it is not our conclusion to make

@jadaalston8899

4 жыл бұрын

Anne Harlowe actually we cant judge in general on whether she has depression or not. We honestly wouldn’t know. She would have to see a psychologist.

@kritikayadav1716

4 жыл бұрын

@BTS equals seven are you okayy??? You can talk about it if you want

That's why marry when you ready not just bcs you're lonely or you want a baby -

This is the reason you should never spoil your child. My sister is a less severe case of this woman. My sister is the youngest and only have 3 brothers(including me), so my parents are a bit softer and spoil her more than me and my bros. She is by no mean what you call a 'spoilt brat' but she really cant do anything by herself. she has a really hard time communicating with other people, and she even need to ask my mother when she needs to pee,(there was a time she peed herself in our own home because of this, she was 15 or 16 that time i think). Im really worried about her future. My parents should have been stricter to her. But overall she is a really nice girl. I think she has never cursed her entire life XD.

@arzetith7898

6 жыл бұрын

Kay Dee Huh.. well i'm also the youngest and my parents also spoil me the most ( i'm 13 btw) but i do realize that i need to do things by myself but the sad thing is sometimes my parents wouldn't allow to do anything by myself and that makes me super sad :( that's why sometimes i feel so excited when i'm not with my parents and siblings, so that i can do anything by myself. And sometimes when i'm home alone i like to do the chores and take care of my pets. They never ask me for help and sometime i feel very useless. Everytime i try to help them they always told me to just sitdown. They only asked me when they're not in the house

@elshie5043

6 жыл бұрын

Kay Dee 15 or 16.....wow

@andreahl3494

6 жыл бұрын

I also have this younger sister of mine. I guess I feel a bit jealous because back in third grade, I had to wake up early to make rice for our lunch. Before highschool, I already knew how to make food and do household chores. Though I was lazy in between those times, I still tried to correct myself little by little. As for my sister, she can't seem to think for herself. She always asks "what to do next?" , "where is it located/ is it okay?". She doesn't do anything if not told every step of the way. But aside from that, she does listen when I ask her to buy/ get something for me . I just hope that she get more sense of responsibility and self reflection on what to improve so she will not stagnate.

@andreahl3494

6 жыл бұрын

Just a Hardcore fangirl :v Try to tell them your reasons. You are actually doing well since you've pinpointed your weakness. Tell them that you want to practice yourself in case you'll work far from them or that you want to relieve some stress by working. Do not be shy if they see you move around the house. Keep it up! 😄😄😄

@baconfluffy

6 жыл бұрын

Are you sure she doesn't have a mental /personality disorder? With the part about the trouble comunicating, autism comes to mind...

This is a prime example why you should wait to get intimate in a relationship so you can see a person for who they truly are. Clearly, the wife doesn’t know her role in a marriage. My heart breaks for the husband. Mutual love, respect, and attention to one another is key. One spouse works so the other one has to step up and take care of home! Come on!!!

I know this was 2 years ago but, she need to be reborn again like seriously.. danggg

A person who suffers from depression is more likely to have post partum depression after birth of a child. Usually stronger. When you suffer from depression you become numb...you don't feel or think like a person who does not suffer...you lose interest in life, cleaning, cooking, taking care of yourself is a mission. to someone who suffers it seems like a very huge task and they don't have motivation or energy to do something so small. They have no energy and the happiest they feel is when they sleep...This is why people who suffer in silence end up ending thier lives, because noone understand the suffering and battle they are fighting with in themselves. Its a war that they constantly fight in thier head. And it's very lonely because they have noone who understand what they are going through...then they are labeled as crazy, lazy, weak, and made to feel worst then they already do. My heart breaks for her and I hope she gets the help she needs mentally before she does something to herself.

@candace270584

5 жыл бұрын

Not every depressed person is lazy and not every lazy person is depressed.

@crazy97liner12

5 жыл бұрын

@@candace270584 But for some reason, her face suggests that she is in fact super depressed. I observed the husband's facial expressions at the same time and he seems the type of impatient person who'd make you feel down if you made even one mistake. Laziness isn't something ingrained into us by birth, it is caused by how we are brought up and then later on part of us becomes our fault when we refuse to change our habits. However, when you live around people who are toxic or make you feel undervalued, life becomes dull and you end up wanting to do nothing even when you want to. And that at times is how people end up committing suicide even because nobody really understands as to how blocked their nerves have become. People in this day and age really don't understand how neurological and psychological disorders work and that's a big issue. If you could just see in how stress tangles up your nerves above your spinal cord, you'd understand what I am talking about. Your brain basically stops functioning even when you want it to.

@JustThatLauren

5 жыл бұрын

Ikr. I was shocked so many people think she's awful but it seems so clear to me that she has depression.

@masonr1717

5 жыл бұрын

@@crazy97liner12 SHE NEEDS TO GO TO PSYCHOLOGIST, THATS ALL..

@crazy97liner12

5 жыл бұрын

@@masonr1717 There is a thing called "reading micro expressions". Go search it up, study it and then come back to discuss it like a rational person instead of screaming shit in CAPS. 🙄🙄🙄 Animals and humans have a different biological structure with regards to expressions. Humans have expressions with regards to smiling, sadness etc. 🙄 Actually, even animals have certain expressions but I don't think I want to discuss biology with a person like you. 🙄 Our nerves systematically react in a manner that we have adapted from our surroundings through observations so yes micro expressions tend to be similar in most people. For relevancy, you can read read up on reports where even the Homeland Security uses it. 🙄

Honestly, poor man though. He looked so embarrased and done with her I just wanted to hug him

Her laziness will impact the marriage in a long run, I hope they're doing okay now too

She’s showing signs of post partum depression. I think that should have been addressed, rather than just labelling her as lazy….

I love how she answer the questions so confident 😂she didn't even felt shame or what 😂

@NeonnaCh

4 жыл бұрын

Ikr?????

@intactsanity

7 ай бұрын

That's ego

@brda417

6 ай бұрын

Not really. Its more like she doesn't see why she even lie about it so she answers BLUNTLY

I felt mad at how lazy she was at first but it kept me wondering why she doesn't even see the problem herself. But you can see her holding back her tears throughout and when Narsha spoke, her tears finally went out. I hope they continuously tried to talk to her with open-ended questions instead of just a yes or no ones because I feel like she has stuffs buried in her mind which can actually help find the root or even help her express her emotions :( instead of being mad I'm starting to feel sad for her. I hope she finds help. This show really needs a psychologist D:

@michellekercy4430

4 жыл бұрын

I think that because everything was done for her as a child she never learned how to handle and deal with her life.

This show needs some expert not a bunch of cellebrity, it's called "Hello Counselor" isn't it?

@christiekang4878

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah I agree, it drives me nuts when the hosts and celebrities try to give their own advices to the guests when in reality they dinner have any medical degree like Dr. Phil. especially Apink eunji, she acts like a know it all

@fatimaanani2383

4 жыл бұрын

@@christiekang4878 they dont act like they know it all but after all everyone gives advices from their own experiences (if theyre not certified psychologists i mean) and the way they dealed with their own problems especially the ones they relate to but then again what you see on the show is the way they discuss their problems and the votings but when every case ends there's professional help when it's a serious case but since its kind of a variety show they explain their problems in a rather entertaining way before getting help from the professionals offered by hello counselor

@anggaa1970

4 жыл бұрын

They have it, but they do it backstage. There was an episode with depression 5 yo, and they show a footage of that child talk to psychiatric before they filming on stage. And another episode they call a beautician off stage to make over a tomboy woman.

@carolinadelahoya4324

3 жыл бұрын

Well I mean they know they aren’t going to a professional counselor so why get man at the show. They’re the ones who decided to go on the program to try and win the cash prize at the end. Instead of going to get actual help this is why the show is a variety show, which means it isn’t serious it is a show to provide entertainment.

@user-vp2ii3sl8d

3 жыл бұрын

@@anggaa1970 what did they do to the tomboy woman,what look did they gave her?

My ex-wife couldn't do anything by herself, either, even though I showed her how many times and was very encouraging and patient with her. It was incredibly frustrating seeing her make no attempts to actually do better. I felt like her dad. She was 28 years old when we married.

@flimcomedy7667

3 жыл бұрын

Damn. How's your wife nowadays your new one.

Bro. I’m a home body but I make sure the house is clean for my husband he works 12-13 hours a day. I work 8 hours a day. He’s from Morocco so I’ve learned some dishes where he’s from. Chicken and olive Tagine, Kefta, lentil soup with chicken, Harira. There’s a joy in cooking. I guess since I’ve been doing it since I was nine it’s easier but my sister who didn’t start cooking until a couple years ago has learned a lot despite it not being her favorite. Being married and having your husband work full time, it would be nice and helpful to make sure he’s fed. Also having a child and being too lazy to keep the health of the child a priority is horrible. She needs to rethink her laziness and have some drive about herself.

@manala.r.m.y6412

4 жыл бұрын

🙋 I'm Moroccan😌 I wish you happy life. 💞💖❤💓💕

@tiarajulianazhar9973

3 жыл бұрын

Yes me too, i'm from asia also.. And my husband from algerian.. Algerian and marocco they are it's same country.. I'm try to learning how to can cook algeria food and how to take care home and children also

@ayatahery1427

3 жыл бұрын

I mean if I am also working, why would I have to do all the chores ? You should divided it between husband and wife

@ayatahery1427

3 жыл бұрын

@@tiarajulianazhar9973 I hope he also learn that

when you are so frustrated, you goes "Is she as fast as a cheetah?"😂

This is not counseling they just roasted her infront of national television 😂

I washed a clothes, dishes, and sweeping the floor but my mom still call me lazy 😭🤣

Just throwing this out there but it seems like she's depressed. She probably didn't have a great sense of self before getting married and after being married and raising a kid, she seems a little lost. She's probably relying on her husband for happiness but since he's at work all the time and doesn't give her attention when he's back, she just cruises through life without much thought or emotion.

@joc-asmrtingles9860

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly.. Thats how I am.. I got severely depressed during my pregnancy because my husband always came home late from work or drinking even didnt care about my birthday, I was all alone and he would call me a fat pregnant bitch and after birth I got post partum and it still makes me angry and cant forgive him for it when I needed him the most at the time.

@shejar

4 жыл бұрын

@@joc-asmrtingles9860 girl please tell me u left him

After watching this video, I immediately clean my bedroom

here i am watching this entertainment in midnight and out of nowhere i realize that in this show it shows us that every people all over the world are suffering in many different type of problem so i realize that im so grateful for havinv a good life like if you watching it too because of quarantine and out od nowhere even though its 2 years ago haha

Damn she’s so dependent on her husband, how is she going to live the rest of her life if, god forbid, smth happens to him? She has no one to ask anymore

I am addicted to this show I've been binge watching all day lol.

I feel so bad for him. I just want to go and help him with the chores and cook for him. Imagine having to work for 12 hours and coming home to see that nothing is clean, theres no much food and your wife is just laying there. She doesnt deserve him

함께 살기 위한 조건 중에 가장 중요한 한가지는 자립인데, 모든 부분을 남편에게 의지하는 아내를 얼마나 참을 수 있을까요… 남편분이 너무 힘드실 것 같아요….

I can't imagine to be lazy as a wife like her. It frustrates me just to imagine it. She needs to be responsible as a mom and wife, how can she not know anything about parenting 😢 .. this is so sad

The words "don't give up" is really giving her that feeling 😭

She grew up with her grandma, so she probably did everything for her. Becuz of that she probably doesnt feel confidentin making decisions cuz she doesnt know how to do things

@jinstan1433

6 жыл бұрын

Nusaiba Amina ikr

@vlee7025

6 жыл бұрын

This is what old people say comfortable in first few years then suffer for the next few years.. hmmm...

@nusaibaamina4128

6 жыл бұрын

V Lee ??

@wakywaky3169

5 жыл бұрын

I see lots of ppl who r orphan child . They r even way more independent

Oh my God my stress level just increased by watching her🤧

I’m lazy but boi she’s on a different kind of level. She lacks the ability to be a wife and a mom, she’s not yet ready but she need to make herself ready and work things out. Internet exist for a reason.