Autistic person here. I can assure you that being on the spectrum is not an excuse to be rude to people. Autistic people can be just as kind as people who aren't.

@jackpowwe9012

7 ай бұрын

Depends on severity, but from the story she definitely knew better.

@zephyrthorne266

7 ай бұрын

I'm autistic too and I agree. 😊

@Isaac_sk8s

7 ай бұрын

I can confirm👍

@jamesunderwoood8412

7 ай бұрын

Yea no she’s completely in the wrong. First if she was so autistic to not even grasp the concept of right and wrong, she shouldn’t have a partner. So I don’t buy that it’s with such severity. Secondly, people with autism can struggle with concepts that come easy to others, like I struggle to notice certain social cues. This isn’t that though. Her following up her comment with, “what it’s the truth?” Is a recognition that what she said was hurtful and is trying to justify it. Maybe that works if your a kid, but an adult knows better than that, she’s just weaponizing her condition.

@AmericanBaker

6 ай бұрын

Came here to say this. I'm also autistic. And I'm not a mean and rude person. She knows what she's doing especially because it has been pointed out.

For the one about the mom kicking her daughter out because her pervert husband is attracted to her, first of all, owning up to mistakes involves not feeling like your actions were justified. If you "own up" to a mistake but are still making excuses about it, you never really owned up to it at all. Second, she states that she doesn't blame her daughter and isn't abandoning her, but she clearly is. She's siding with her asshole husband over her own daughter.

@crystalgemgirl731

7 ай бұрын

Ikr? Seriously!? There's NOTHING to save, he's a disgusting pervert and she SHOULD have had him arrested! She's a TERRIBLE mother. I've seen a dog give birth, but that doesn't make it a mother.

@thesuperdk513

7 ай бұрын

@@crystalgemgirl731 This is exactly why there should be a license for parenting.

@crystalgemgirl731

7 ай бұрын

@@thesuperdk513 Agreed.

@madaraisbetteethannarutohe8136

6 ай бұрын

Exactly! And did anyone else noticed how the mom was well-versed in therapy speak so that she could blame the daughter for her completely reasonable reaction to the situation?! That mom is clearly a gaslighter and abuser

@thesuperdk513

6 ай бұрын

@@madaraisbetteethannarutohe8136 I wouldn't call her an abuser, but yes she is definitely in the wrong.

The story about the sister in law with the cake….yall she literally said that to a literal CHILD. That’s fair game at that point to me

I’m autistic - sometimes I don’t always recognize when something I’ve said is rude but nothing at ALL like that woman & not to mention if someone points it out to me, I apologize! Cause it’s the decent thing to do! That’s an excuse to be rude. I could never imagine being so horribly mean, especially cause I know how it feels to be called awful names myself. OP is SO nta but sadly I know how family like that can be & she may have to accept that she may not get to see her brother that much, but if he’s okay with being with someone so mean, maybe she’s not missing out on much.

For the one about the autistic sister in law I feel that it's not okay to enable her bad behaviour. I understand that she doesn't get tact, but this is something her parents or now her husband should have tried to teach her until she gets it and not go "well, she is who she is, what can you say?" Autistics are not incapable of learning manners, it just takes longer sometimes and this is why it's so important to find ways to make her understand why what she said was wrong. Maybe it was mean of op to call her sister in law fat, but I feel like this could also have helped her understand what she just did to her baby nephew. Being autistic does not give you the right to be mean to others, she really has to learn what is okay to say and what isn't.

Cheating is horrible... it's soul crushing... heartbreaking....she deserved what she got.... wish you a happy life OP👍

The one with the boyfriend proposing, there was an update: OP didn't tell her and the friend initially accepted the proposal until she realized none of her friends or family were there only his. Also the ring was engraved Mrs his last name and she had already told him she would not be changing her last name if they married. She spoke to the friend realized he was a controlling asshole and broke up with him. He had the nerve to tell her she owed him the cost of the ring because he had it engraved with her name 🤨. She declined 😂.

Please! Shelly knew what she was saying was rude. Funny she did when it OP said something back to her.

Oof one day I consumed 1000 mg of caffeine in a day. Then a week later i watched a video by chubbyemu about someone going into kidney failure from 1200mg in a day 🙃 it was a terrible experience but thankfully it was more spaced out. Caffeine good till caffeine bad

@RenTheWren

7 ай бұрын

The dose makes the poison :)

This was uploaded on my birthday. :)

Mental conditions, no matter what they are, are not an excuse for bad behavior. Yes, they might help to explain behavior, but they don't excuse it. My nephew is autistic but still understands right from wrong. If he does or says something that is considered rude we point it out to him and he usually apologizes. Sounds like that lady is just trying to use her condition as a get out of jail free card for anything she does.

tysm for making these videos!! i love putting these on in the background while im doing homework or cleaning my room, the stories are always interesting and i love your narration

the last one killed me😭💀

I’m autistic. Autism is not an excuse to be a dick,ñ and it doesn’t completely rob you entirely of empathy or tact (it may be impaired, but never absent). Shes using her autism as weapon to be awful, which leads to many of the discriminative things autistic folks face in society. She’s not mean because she’s autistic, she’s mean because she’s mean and nobody else but OP told her to eat a wasp.

@littlewarrior4527

7 ай бұрын

Yes exactly I'm on the spectrum to ... love your complete honesty If it was her just not understanding tact the moment someone let her know hey what you say is hurtful she would have just apologized because that's what people do when they don't want to hurt people But saying Oh but it's true it's just rubbing the salt in the wound to be cruel I'm a very completely honest myself but honest people are honest with themselves and realize when something is none of their d*** business ... If I don't like someone's outfit I keep that to myself because it's none of my business It's their outfit it makes them happy they feel good in it and that's all that matters Me not liking the outfit is non of my business so f*** my opinion LOL When someone is truly just an honest person we are also honest with ourselves and we know when something is not our business And you're right this woman is using autism as an excuse And it's wrong it's very wrong and messed up because she's hurting innocent people and as you said it gives other people with autism a bad name it gives people a misconception about people with autism which ends up hurting A whole community of people that are not even involved with her Drama a****** b******* LOL I'm tired While typing Yes so if I sound a little off my apologies ..... And I'm tired keeping my words together I'm trying to express my thoughts gets a little more difficult And at times gives me a good laugh at myself in the morning But hey love your comment and I fully agree with it

i hate when people use a learning disablity as a excuse to be rude af. id be calling her out to and i have it.

If someone makes a dig at my body or the people who i love and care for. Ofc im gonna come back at them. If you dont want me to comment on your body then dont comment on others. And her being on the spectrum is no excuse especially once she told her that its rude and to apologize.

If my SO EVER said that he was attracted to and could not handle himself around MY daughter, no matter her age, he would be out so fast that his head would be spinning. He would be lucky if the only reason his head was spinning was trying to understand why...my first instinct would be to protect my daughter with whatever level i needed to do so. Seriously, confusion would be preferable for him than hospitalization!

i hunt for deals to, i mean i got a dress that was normaly $78 for around $12 with a clerance deal and rewards from a store i go to all the time, i have friends that we joke about it. Another friend who dose not know about my clothes hunting deals asked me "who did have to sl**p with to get such a good deal" then laughed.

8:54 As an autistic person (high functioning, but still), being autistic doesn't give you a pass to be a jerk. Plenty of autistic people at the very least know how to be tactful when conversation, so there's no excuse for just being a douche for no other reason than to be a douche.

Don't be making Fun of people if you cannot handle it back

IS NO ONE GOING TO TALK ABOUT THE LAST STORY??? 😭😭😭

@saminewlin4523

4 ай бұрын

Nope

34:55 They're all Sisters! OP and them have already.... It's not big news....

Second first 1 minute after posting

As someone with autism, I'm not like that at all. Sure, my mindset is different from others and I tend to not have a filter, but, I don't give a diddly what shape or size you are, if you're nice, we'll get along.

Didn’t he already

she was saying was rude

I can understand she is autistic , but that’s not an excuse to be rude

ᴛʜᴇ 𝟸ɴᴅ sᴛᴏʀʏ ᴜᴍᴍ ᴀʀᴇ ᴜ ᴏᴋ? ɪ'ᴍ ᴠᴇʀʏ ᴄᴏɴᴄᴇʀɴᴇᴅ

S1: YTA. OP's bitterness and hatred towards Sister is just oozing between the lines. The kids were FINE. OP overreacted massively, and ruined a wedding.

@joharlan303

7 ай бұрын

Completely disagree. Her children are extremely young and it could've been a lot worse.

@eliciabonnie

3 ай бұрын

You have to be a troll because that comment is ridiculous...