When my wife was pregnant, I saw her baby belly and thought "That's my baby in there, my wife is the strongest, most beautiful creature on the planet." I have never looked at another woman the way I look at her.

@mrsanonymous414

3 жыл бұрын

You know. This gave me a lot of perspective just now. My husband and I haven’t had a child yet, but, it brought a whole other dimension to something he’s said to me; “I’ve never met a girl like you”. Just made me think back to all of my projects I show him, handy work, philosophical convos- all of it. Made me see myself in the light I think he sees me in. Thanks for that new lens. Godspeed

@keepingitlowlow9506

3 жыл бұрын

Jon, me too, when my wife was pregnant all I saw was this beautiful Queen, my eyes did not see anything else, I was too infatuated with her, I felt almost to the point of being hypnotised by her aura, like at that time and moment, only me and her existed....we've been divorced for 5yrs now.

@angelaroddy3768

3 жыл бұрын

The world needs more men like you and my husband he says the same thing. We've had 3 kids and any time I've left unhappy about my bold after having kids he always made sure to tell me how strong I am and that I'm the most beautiful person to him

@miawhelan7385

3 жыл бұрын

When I was pregnant with our daughter, my partner looked at and looks at me the same way! He always tells me “you carried my child and created the most beautiful kid on the planet, nothings gonna ever change that”. That’s how you know you have a real one ❤️❤️

@shayisbored

2 жыл бұрын

I hope that the next guy I'll be with would be as good as you. My ex used to fat shame me whenever I eat too much or even when I gain a little weight. He was so controlling that I can't even get my hair colored or even cut it short. I realized that he was so toxic a year ago and confronted him. He made me feel like I was always the wrong one. That I'm a bad person. I broke up with him and I felt so free.

SIL should have no contact with their child until their child is older. Even if she can't physically hurt the kid, she can definitely say some things and put some messed up ideas in that kid's mind. SIL is dangerous.

@stellaceleste7999

2 жыл бұрын

right!? my gma never rlly hurt me physically (except for this one instance but that doesn’t matter) but she def said some things and did some things indirectly to make me feel less wanted then my older brothers

@oliviamendel9419

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah definitely I witnessed sadly that some grandmas tell the children that their mom is Bad etc

@tashagayle3064

2 жыл бұрын

Holy shit I didn’t even think of that, good point.

@Hofberaterfuchs

Жыл бұрын

My thought on this also was, that SIL could put something in OPs drink to abort the child. I would never let her in their home again.

@005Amergin

Жыл бұрын

Narcissist playbook

I don’t know how you can ever get past this and have a normal relationship with the SIL ever again. It’s one thing to make the nasty comments she did, but to concoct this scheme to try and destroy a marriage, especially with a kid on the way, truly despicable

@candyrox2023

3 жыл бұрын

I wish nothing but karma

@AishiCheemo

2 жыл бұрын

@@candyrox2023 Same

@Maverick4267

2 жыл бұрын

SIL deserves a taste of medicine

@raniemaharanie53

2 жыл бұрын

Ikr? I never knew this kind of story exist in real life, I'd only read it in novel only. I think the SIL kept encouraging her friend until her friend became delusional.

@tealablu3759

2 жыл бұрын

@@raniemaharanie53 or SIL and friend were cut from the same cloth. Sounds like Nicole and her friend on 90 Day fiance. I’ll remember the friend’s name the second I hit send Nicole sent her friend to give her bro Pedro a lap dance while his wife was in the states. Then filmed it. Then SHOWED THE WIFE

Her behaviour is disgusting. It’s either she’s in love with her brother and knows she can’t act on it so is trying to live vicariously through her best friend. Or she is treating her brother like a father figure, and because his dad doesn’t choose to have a relationship with her because she’s not his real daughter, she feels that with this new baby, she will no longer have a father figure because that will be his actual child and not her. Either way, she needs to go to therapy. P.S. OP’s husband is honestly a dream in a million nightmares, I love the way he handled the situation.

@solivia503

3 жыл бұрын

She was a product of an affair, to me it seems like she is trying to recreate that scenario with her brothers family. Its really sad, she needs therapy to process her childhood trauma instead of taking it out on her brother and SIL.

@kaypeachy3051

3 жыл бұрын

I agree with this 100% it’s obviously something that she might not even realise she’s feeling, either in love or that’s her father figure

@itsjooby

3 жыл бұрын

I see it more as a control thing. She feels so disconnected from her brother, seeing how she was raised & the fact that she was had as a result of an affair and are only half-siblings, that’s why she clings to him and stays so close to him. She does see OP and the baby as a threat because they are “outside variables” that would inevitably cause her and her brother to distance a bit. So instead of accepting her brother and his wife, then soon-to-be child, she wants to insert her own controlled variable. Her close friend. If she manages to wedge her close friend- someone she knows personally and is very close with, someone she probably also has an easy time controlling- between her brother & his wife and child, she’ll have all the more control over the situation, the family, and the man himself.

@sophiazeeland3636

3 жыл бұрын

I agree i think she is in love with her brother too

@katelyncapistrano7726

3 жыл бұрын

@@sophiazeeland3636 yikes 😬

Never leave this "SIL" alone with that baby EVER! 👏👏👏 Sadly Jealous people have been known to do harm to the baby before 😤😤😑😑

@Stepherziis

2 жыл бұрын

Omg yes! I was thinking the same thing.

@ceasarsalad2388

2 жыл бұрын

I wouldn’t allow the sil in my life let alone near my baby. The husband should tell his sister to f’off.

@JuGirl10

2 жыл бұрын

I was thinking this exact same thing. She’s obviously dangerous

this story is... insane. but i'm SO happy that the husband confronted his sister and her friend, and i wish the best for their family!

Chloe is literally the worst kind of woman.

@MADEbySOUL

2 жыл бұрын

The SIL has my vote. To encourage one’s friend to breakup a marriage, your own brother no less, plus be so mean to a pregnant woman.

@morgan5130

2 жыл бұрын

@@MADEbySOUL Two terrible people are apparently friends; if you ask me, it doesn't sound like much of a coincidence ...

@bribnkr13

2 жыл бұрын

She’s the kind of women the rest of us are fearful of. The ones that tear relationships apart

@abbyadams7300

2 жыл бұрын

@@bribnkr13 but they’re also usually the most insecure ones out there, they have to steal other women’s husbands/boyfriends to fuel their ego because everyone will always look at them as the rebound/second🤷🏻‍♀️

@lanyg.6492

2 жыл бұрын

I know one!!!! Something pretty similar a happened to me!!!!

The sister clearly needs therapy to work through her childhood trauma. That should be the condition on her being allowed back into their lives.

@ihanakaunotar2741

2 жыл бұрын

Yep, no one wants to be the product of infidelity.

@naruhinastarr

2 жыл бұрын

I definitely agree that she needs therapy, but if it was me I wouldn’t want anything to do with her anymore, even if she goes to therapy. However, I know that not everyone is like me lol. I’ve had so many toxic people like this in my life, I will cut anyone off who hurts me like this, even though they go to therapy. It’s not worth it to me. They may lie about attending therapy, or may even manipulate things in their sessions, so yeah, definitely not worth having them back in my life, but if my husband still wants a relationship with his sister, that’s fine with me. I have that choice to not talk to her again

@tealablu3759

2 жыл бұрын

@@naruhinastarr I’m with you. I would constantly worry that she’s pretending to be good to be able to see her brother. I couldn’t look at her the same way again. And I wouldn’t have been able to look at him the same way if he didn’t defend me or if he had entertained Chloe. I get that family is important, but I’m your wife who you chose to marry. I’m carrying your child, *our* child, and expect respect. Hell, I’d expect it even if I didn’t have a bun in the oven

The vicious contempt that the SIL has for their unborn child sadly sounds like projection. Her birth revealed her mother's infidelity and "ruined" their family. All that trauma and guilt, plus probably feeling like her brother is the only person she truly has in this world, probably unearthed some dark subconscious feelings she's had about her own place in the world. I mean, those words of " IT is going to ruin everything," and he should have "dragged Her to the abortion clinic when he had the chance". Sounds like some serious parallels of her situation. It's twisted and tragic and that girl needs some serious help. And don't let her anywhere NEAR that baby!

@clarkquente8092

2 жыл бұрын

Completely!!

@oriyanbarnes

Жыл бұрын

Damn that's a good analysis

@IWouldHaveGoneWithYouToTheEnd

Жыл бұрын

I was thinking the same thing

@KiSaty

Жыл бұрын

Wow this comment is so scary because it feels like the truth! Excellent insight and I agree keep her away from that baby 😤

@cassandramalfoy

Жыл бұрын

Same. That couple and the wife’s family needs to do anything legal to keep her toxic insane SIL away from her, their baby and inner family. What if she tried to harm or kidnap their child?! Or lines worse worse? Don’t trust her. Or her friend.

Her husband is a 💎! He stood up for his wife and child over anyone else. Your loyalty lies with the family you choose, because out of everyone else, you chose to marry that woman, you chose to start a family. You can’t choose your blood family, but you can choose who becomes family. I wish this marriage and this child an amazing life, they deserve so much more than this demented SIL.

I’m pregnant and hearing how awesome her husband is made me cry because my hormones are everywhere too 😂

@o0laieta0o

3 жыл бұрын

Same 😭 and when she called her a whale 😭😭😭😭 Omg I've been struggling so much with my body changes it would have destroyed me.

@ruby_d00

2 жыл бұрын

Congratulations 🥳❤️

@amandacorona9644

2 жыл бұрын

SAME! The comments about her weight and how husbands start cheating when their wives are pregnant had me so enraged!

@loverofeverythingbeautiful3610

2 жыл бұрын

How ya doing, Mamas? 😊

@angelicazra

2 жыл бұрын

omg how was everything? hows your baby

Shady as f**k……childish that the sister doesn’t even consider how her actions could impact the baby if they actually broke up……just like she was affected when she was a kid.

@gabbylandry7589

3 жыл бұрын

holy shit ur right

@itsgeyo2044

3 жыл бұрын

When someone goes through a traumatic experience they either solve it or inflict the same on others. SIL definitely belongs to asylum.

@elenamandarina

2 жыл бұрын

She doesn’t even see the baby as a human being, for her it’s just an “IT”

The entitlement of the SIL to not only come over to “swim” and make the wife uncomfortable but to bring along a potential house wrecking friend is unbelievable. But the fact he loves his pregnant wife so much to try and repair the damage that has been done before it’s too late, just warms my heart!

Never EVER leave that baby with her alone. If she will say she should of been dragged to an abortion clinic, she might hurt the baby. Also good for the husband 🙌🙌👏👏

Oh I would flip my shit. Easy fix thou, drain the pool. No reason to come.

@jennaredfield

3 жыл бұрын

They didn’t swim anyways though

@rawanhomsi5336

3 жыл бұрын

@Jenna yeah but now what would be their reason for coming over again?

@jesmeyer732

3 жыл бұрын

Yep they could cite for “safety for baby” as a reason

@Marytran91

2 жыл бұрын

Chloe doesn’t need the pool to swim lmao

SIL might’ve apologized, but the issues she has with op and the baby are still there & now that it’s somewhat ruined her relationship with her brother that amplifies it. Op needs to put hidden cameras around her house when the baby is born for safety. Sil shouldn’t be trusted.

@loverofeverythingbeautiful3610

2 жыл бұрын

ALL THE CAMERAS. AND don't let her in sight of the baby. WHEW!

My husband would never catch the flirting but if some girl touches him he would run away screaming “eeeewww she touched me. Baaaaaabbbeee she touched me and her hands are probably dirty” as he runs trying to find me 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@kuroneko3837

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 that's so adorable and funny 🤩

@banishasinha141

2 жыл бұрын

That's so cute 😭😭

@dnfrizz

2 жыл бұрын

If I grow up and don’t get a man like that then I don’t want him

@loverofeverythingbeautiful3610

2 жыл бұрын

Mine is the same. 😍 He'd flip out. 🤣

@jeanblaaa

2 жыл бұрын

Lmao how cute

My husband and I don’t go to couples counseling or anything but we do periodically do “relationship maintenance” where we have a free discussion about anything we’re feeling or thinking. Most times it’s pretty uneventful, but the few times we really needed it (like during stressful big life events) it has been helpful to be on the same page!

@TwoHotTakes

3 жыл бұрын

Love this!! We all should do check-ins like this from time to time. Might have to try this!

@Maddluv4eric

2 жыл бұрын

Girl GO TO COUNSELING so it can be eventful!

@tasneemedwards2574

2 жыл бұрын

@@TCh3962 OMG thank you , I'm downloading this NOW .

@tealablu3759

2 жыл бұрын

I have an online bf. Istg, if we didn’t talk openly when shit was bothering us (usually me, cuz he’s so laid back and I’m an anxious lil nugget who needs reassurance), we would’ve broken up at least a couple of times. Talking it through, sometimes we just have different understandings of what’s going on, and it’s perfectly valid. Talking to him gives me his perspective, and he gets mine. And it’s so necessary because a lot can get lost over text. Like when I was already miles ahead mentally and panicking over one of us having to move before we had anything serious between us. My brain was getting close to pulling the kill switch because I was scared. We talked through it (it is indeed to early to worry about it. We’re just taking it slow, no pressure. Before stressing out over it, let’s meet in person and see if the spark is there. He does enjoy talking with me and wouldn’t be wasting my time if he didn’t think there was potential. Etc) We also have serious talks that are happy. We’ve talked about kids- very light-hearted, laughing about it. He knows my timeline and isn’t scared off by it (I’m reasonable). I know he wants kids at some point but isn’t rushing. And he wants his first boy to be JohnAndrew. 🤷🏻‍♀️ not my first pick, but I’ll just push for an Armenian middle name 😂

@Uyangauya

2 жыл бұрын

There’s a great book called The Marriage Checkup by James Cordova (my professor from undergrad) that really is interesting. He likens marriage checkup the same way you would with an annual checkup for your health. It’s best to do preventative care than treatment after something has already occurred.

This reads like a movie. I could picture every little look SIL and Chloe shared. OP should write a screenplay

@monjaahrens8777

2 жыл бұрын

This would be an awesome lifetime movie. The half sister would be in love with her brother because he gave her all the attention and love she could've gotten from her not-father. It needs to be eskalated to the SIL pushing the MC down the stairs and then coming to live with them "to help around the house"

hearing her husband worry about stressing out the wife but also not wanting her to think that he was interested in chloe was so refreshing bc i swear in all the other stories like this the husband/wife is always clueless

@AikoFox

Жыл бұрын

It really was refreshing because when they first started the story I was worried it would end badly with the husband being or acting clueless and super defensive over his sister, cheat and it end badly with him turning on the wife. It should be the norm for the significant other to stand up for the other.

is this not sexual assault? the fact that the husband asked her to stop touching him and she didn’t is definitely assault. i feel awful for the couple. the audacity of some people is ridiculous.

@marmoreno5873

3 жыл бұрын

Yes is sexual assualt

@InTheNameOfLife1

2 жыл бұрын

100% !

@703Fefe

2 жыл бұрын

I think it’s harassment more than assault… but yes it’s not right

@naruhinastarr

2 жыл бұрын

💯 this

@victoriashevlin8587

2 жыл бұрын

@@703Fefe she's making physical contact without his permission. If a man was randomly groping a womans breasts without permission and continued to do so after being told no, you would agree its sexual assault. It's the same when it's a man. Assault requires physical contact. If there's contact, it's not harassment, it's assault.

The SIL needs help. I would not let her near the baby unless she goes through some serious therapy. I also think it was cruel of the father to completley disregard the little girl when he found out she was not his. If my math is correct, she was 6 or 7 at the time... Imagine losing your father like that, except he is really not gone. What a messed up story. I am not saying this to excuse what she did. That was unacceptable and creepy.

Ahh I’m torn because I soooo want to say that this is a fantastic man. But realistically him not cheating and not allowing his half sister to shit talk is just the bare minimum but unfortunately the bare minimum doesn’t usually happen so I’ll go with a big kudos to him.

@opheliaforgetmenots

2 жыл бұрын

exactly what i thought. the fact that it took a while for him to take action and just told the sister and sister’s bestf to apologise for them to be back in op & husband’s home is just crazy. it’s great that the husband suggested taking couple counselling tho.

@loverofeverythingbeautiful3610

2 жыл бұрын

Right ✅?! My hunny told me "Why wouldn't you deserve to be treated like this? (As he does.) I cried for days from happiness. ❤

She not only did this in front of his wife BUT IN A BIKINI in front of his pregnant wife. She also really wanted to play off the wife’s insecurities and that’s DISGUSTING. She really calculated this one carefully.

I feel like I’m not seeing many people talking about this, but there’s a major lesson here: communication. We need to talk to our partners in positive and healthy ways when we are upset and uncomfortable. Definitely helped these two a lot and let to that happy ending!

They need to document all of that. He’s a lawyer. If he told her once to stop touching him etc and she continues it’s harassment.

@nianichole2856

Жыл бұрын

It is, but even the most law savvy/ grounded people are blind to their loved ones- sometimes even in extention to their friends. Always consult an outside source if you feel in any way uncomfortable or off about another person.

The SIL is literally scary. She shouldn’t be let in the house, I feel she could hurt the wife or baby

It sounds like the sister has some uncomfy feeling towards him and thats why she's encouraging her friend to break up the marriage. Cause if she can't have him, Noone can

Shes acting like an older child having a sibling come in to the world, she doesnt want to share her brother

Sounds like she married a great guy with plans on not repeating the mistakes of his parents.

The husband is so wholesome I’m so happy he noticed it and pointed it out to his wife. I can’t believe this girl wasn’t ashamed to be flirting with a married man .

@100alexiastar

2 жыл бұрын

IN FRONT OF HIS PREGNANT WIFE TOO LIKE???

Sister in law or not, she’s never be allowed in my home after the first comment. No. I don’t get why people think that because people are “family” means you have to put up with their bullshit. No.

@cherrynicole4511

2 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY

The only reason she apologized was because her brother was mad , not because she truly felt bad for what she said or did !

@lanyg.6492

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly

This is bizarre!! The same thing happened to me! Except i am not pregnant or married. My boyfriend is an astrophysics major and i am a Law student. So we both are busy in our studies but we manage to meet every week. He introduced me to his friends group at college once and i noticed one girl was really rude to me. I ignored her because handling her attitude is not my business but i did ask my boyfriend if she was like that in general. He laughed and told me she is a sweet person and i got sus of her. In our dynamic i am the observant one and he is the oblivious one. I met up more with his friend and she would jab at me about my hectic schedule and how i dont understand his interest and how we are not compatible. That was the day i decided that b*tch was done for. I talked to him and he admitted he felt uncomfortable and i knew for him i had to do it.I confronted her in front of everyone and she tried to play the victim card but i came prepared for the argument. I was ready to throw hand at her if not for my boyfriend holding me back. She got embarassed and all of his friends took my side and told her how disgusting it was and everyone noticed it. Safe to say, i am famous as the crazy protective girlfriend at my boyfriend's college and no one messes with him.

@linahernandez442

3 жыл бұрын

That’s amazing I love that lol hate girls like that

@itsgeyo2044

3 жыл бұрын

@@linahernandez442 ik. Its so disrespectful especially to the people in relationship. People like her always cross their boundaries and i am glad i am always ready to throw them back.

@raelatable8798

3 жыл бұрын

props to you dude. it sucks so much because girls should build each other up instead of trying to hurt each other. Im sorry she did that to you.

@itsgeyo2044

3 жыл бұрын

@@raelatable8798 thank you for your kind words💖 you are right. Girls should try to lift each other instead of trying to rip each other apart. Not everything is a competetion.

@loverofeverythingbeautiful3610

2 жыл бұрын

This is amazing. He needs verbiage to repel her immediately upon crossing his path. You've got the words, girl, use them. Poor guy. He's just trying to be a decent man!

Can we appreciate how supportive the husband was for op? A lot of men never even think about couple therapy stuff bc of toxic masculinity, and not only that but he apologized for getting defensive again, he sounds so amazing, i love them

I am so glad the husband brought it up... what a weird situation to be in

What annoys me is when people question or completely disregard other people’s feelings about someone. Ex: when my fiancé and I started dating, someone tried picking him up and really questioned whether we would last after he said that we were the real deal. Chloe obviously took that farther by being handsy, and both situations just annoy me. You shouldn’t have to justify why you don’t want to be with someone. No is a complete sentence.

@loverofeverythingbeautiful3610

2 жыл бұрын

AMENNNN. 🙏 I don't even look at another man that way. I'm into mine, he's into me. Anyway, the answer is always no. Don't chat me up, either. My hunny doesn't understand it when they flirt, but I do. You can dream, hunny, and that's all.

Her sisters comment about her cheating husbands would be my opening statement to that whole convo

I'm so proud of the husband because he admits that he is defensive towards his sister and he wants to make sure that they can talk about anything now that is a healthy relationship ❤️

Damn, the sister needs some therapy ASAP. The things she is saying is something I would expect out of a jealous child.

SIL sounds like a jealous child who’s getting a baby sibling. How embarrassing for her 🤦🏽‍♀️

SIL would never be welcome EVER in my house. Even if she apologized. It's done after that abortion comment.

When y’all said you acknowledge the female more when talking to couples I was so glad I’m not the only one. I work at a Sunday school and check children in and teach them etc. I have to talk to parents dropping off their kids so they can go to service and I always ask the mother and look at her. I’ll only slightly look at the dad so I don’t seem like I’m being an a-hole

@nannoreul

3 жыл бұрын

I did the same when I was a server at a finer dining establishment! Popular romantic date night spot and some women would get pissy if you looked at their husbands for longer than one second.

@87883

2 жыл бұрын

I do the same as a form of respect for the woman and I appreciate women that do the same for me! It’s just respectful. I also noticed men do this with me and my husband also! When we are out men look directly at my husband as they speak an rarely make eye contact with me it’s very obvious they are doing that and it’s just a respect men have for other men.

@shaquilleoatmeal4061

Жыл бұрын

those aren’t your friends

The SIL and Chloe sound perfect for each other.

If my future SIL ever said my husband should have dragged me to the abortion clinic I would go ballistic

@kimberlyjones8152

2 жыл бұрын

Right omg especially cause its her body he can't make her get an abortion that's just sick 🤢

The SIL is jealous of the relationship and is scared of being replaced by this new family dynamic.

what kinda pisses me off it’s that SIL was treating the baby and saying it was messing everything before and after and should’ve been aborted cuz she herself was an illegitimate child who just as well could’ve been treated like that

Would this be considered a self-fulfilling prophecy? Cuz she wants recreate the past for whatever selfish reasons she wants to believe/confirm about herself and adultery and relationships. That would be considered one, right?

i literally hope SIL watches your video because that would maybe help her see this situation from a different point of view! really enjoyed this episode because, as you said, it had kind of a happy ending. finally a husband that isn't a POS! 🤩🙌

the husband is so absolutely supportive of his wife and their relationship together seems to be so healthy that it gives me faith in humanity.

I would be seriously concerned that the SIL would snap and come try to harm the wife and their baby. She really needs help and shouldn’t be left alone AT ALL with the baby. Regardless of an apology or not.

the SIL sounds like she’s in love with him but trying to live through chloe, not only that but has a possessive nature due to not having a father, aka daddy issues, i believe the husband did the right thing.

That’s the babies future Aunt... that’s scary that you as a new parent would want your family around and near by to help if needed. Any time she offers help or XYZ you have to think there is a plan behind it.

“Chloe would receive a lifetime ban”😭😂😂

The fact that Chloe still continued to come onto the husband after he told her to quit is honestly embarrassing af

I’m so happy he noticed and was concerned about the wife’s feelings, fucking GOALS

Now that is a high value partner, nothing to do with his job, but his willingness to put their relationship and communication as a first priority, being willing to put in the hard work to continue building and strengthening a healthy relationship...im happy for both of them, they're both doing great and i think they have a great life ahead of them

I feel like the SIL is trying to hurt the baby by breaking them up and keeping the husband away like what happened to her growing up because the husband had two parents in a way.

Both of them should have been permanently banned. I don’t care who is his sister , she’s banned too🤣 blood isn’t everything!

She is totally in love with her half brother, and jealous of his wife and the life they have.

WOW. I am SO happy her husband stood up for her. Good grief. Those girls are disgusting... 🤢🤮

OP's Husband is such a supportive and loving significant other.... he is truly a dream and what every person deserves as a life partner!!!! Also, the SIL sounds very insecure and is very traumatized from being an illegitimate child so she is projecting those feelings on to her brothers family. She is treating her brothers child and her own niece or nephew as she was treated by the dad and how she could have been treated by the brother. All in all, she sounds like she could use the therapy!

OP’s husband gets an A+. hubby handled this amazingly and i can tell they have a strong relationship that will get stronger with therapy

I love how Lauren spent the entire reading speechless and making increasingly shocked expressions Anyway wouldn't it have been hilarious if the husband also made a reddit post

Ohh just heard the update!! 🙌🙌🙌 This is so gross on sooo many levels. But given the brother is protective over the sister, I think recordings of comments and behaviors are going to be needed before he believes and understands the wife's concerns. Goodness I hope this goes well for the wife and those 2 aren't allowed to visit for awhile

She is acting out in fear of loosing him but her behavior did exactly what she was trying to stop

I’m willing to bet she only apologized because it’s the first time her brother has been mad at her. She’s definitely not regretful of her actions. The ending is so satisfying though. The only thing that could be better would be for the husband to tell the sister the rift between them is 100% her fault and no one else’s.

2 things 1-Chloe may be abusing Sils insecurities of losing her only father figure 2-Chloe hasn't realised she will be in the exact same position that op is of she got with ops husband

Oh wow! The husband is a keeper! 💯!

I’m accidentally rewatching and the first biggest red flag was quarantining for two weeks to use someone’s pool…..

The effing audacity flirting and being half naked for nothing in HER home, my god dude I’d be throwing hands istg I’m so heated

Honestly my man became more in love with me and found me more attractive being pregnant and after (his words not mine) the pregnancy has made our relationship grow stronger 100%

The problem I hear is “he brought it up instead of me having to do it.” Marriage, you shouldn’t be trepidatious to share feelings EVER. If you’re both honest and communicative.

Honestly I think that the reason Chloe didn’t take him seriously is because he spoke to her privately. She probably would’ve taken it more seriously if he shut her down out in the open and I think it would’ve been more appropriate too considering the fact that she was being flirtatious and inappropriate in the open.

Why would a child of infidelity encourage that kind of behaviour 🙄 She’s brazen.

omg this story was absolutely insane, i haven’t stopped thinking about this story for a while...

It sounds to me like the sister has been holding on to a grudge that her brother got to have a good relationship with their dad and she didn't and now she wants to try to ruin his marriage. Either by tempting him to cheat, or setting the wife up to sound like she's against her, or even just by making the wife uncomfortable enough to want to lash out. Like if she can't have a nice happy family because of infidelity than no one can. Especially her brother who didn't get scorned and rejected by their father

yes! be this husband! notice issues! be on the same page as your partner! actively try to make a healthy family!

You don’t change the oil when your car starts running bad, you change it so it won’t run bad... love couples therapy as a maintenance! That SIL is friggin crazy 😱😱

So glad the husband said something and confronted his sister and her friend. SIL is totally unhinged and very scary tbh. Chloe is rude and would never be allowed in my house again. Was worried the OP wouldn't have her husband behind her, and was so happy to hear that not only did he support her, he was the one to bring it up first and confronted them both.

What a supportive and baller husband

Emotional incest can be between siblings, not just parents and children.

@lanyg.6492

2 жыл бұрын

💯

I love this man !!!! Get you a man like this!!! I’m literally tearing up!!! He clearly loves his wife and really is committed to making this marriage and not only work, but enjoyable to be a part of!!! XoxoX

What little sister would treat her Pregnant SIL like this. I love my older brother and as soon as he and my SIL were expecting I realized I would take a bullet for my SIL. She brought my niece into this world and she is AMAZING! Why would anyone want to wreck their siblings happiness like this? Who feels no love for their future niece/nephew!?

It’s so great to hear an example of a healthy husband-wife relationship. They handled the situation so well and they responded maturely. They even communicated clearly and made resolutions on how to handle the SIL from then on and how they can strengthen their relationship. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

I’m the exact same way! If I’m ever with a hetero couple, and the female is uncomfortable I make sure to make her comfortable and acknowledge her more so she knows I’m not a threat! I’m a female and I know what it feels like to be insecure! It doesn’t feel good! I want to uplift other women and make them feel powerful and beautiful and strong, because I wasn’t always all those things. XoxoX

The sister definitely has a weird and creepy thing for her brother.

I'm sorry, but there's so much irony in the SIL referring to the pregnancy as a way to "trap" her husband and that she should've been dragged to an abortion clinic.

We also don't know what cloe was told by the sister in law.....

@oliverphantom4417

3 жыл бұрын

Sister in law could have been saying encouraging things to Chloe as the husband says no. This could all stem from Sister in law

@gemmaperry9140

3 жыл бұрын

Don't care. No decent person goes after a married man with a baby on the way- end of. She's clearly morally bankrupt.

@carlasouza5306

2 жыл бұрын

@@oliverphantom4417 right

@carlasouza5306

2 жыл бұрын

@@gemmaperry9140 I agree with you... but there are some people with high manipulation tatics and some that are easy manipulated....

i absolutely adore this man. he’s so incredibly caring and self aware. oml

Wow she has so serious issues!! The SIL needs some help asap. They shouldn't allow her back in there lives with out therapy maybe they can even go to some together once she works on herself for awhile. I feel like she could be a danger to them all after the things she said.

The sister obviously has some issues that she needs to work through, I don't think I could ever trust her again after something like that. This sounds like a whole lifetime movie

I think the SIL was deflecting the self hatred of what happened in her childhood onto her brother's family. I believe the trauma she endured from her mom cheating and her brother's dad not wanting a relationship, caused her to feel that the baby is causing problems in the brother's marriage and to abort the baby. I think that perhaps that's how she felt her brother's dad felt about her (being aborted) and is now deflecting that hate onto the baby. So sad. I hope SIL gets help cause she seriously needs it and I hope the family can have some healing.

I want to know more! I'm having to remind myself this is someone's real life b/c I'm like "what happened when the SIL showed up? How insane does she get??" Good luck to all of them and if it gets better I reeeaally hope she updates again.. even tho it sounds like she won't.

This is one of those stories I think would be really good as a movie. Therapy positive, happy ending, doesn't paint op or her husband as toxic people so it could be educational to see how a good functional relationship works.

Benefit of the doubt, seeing the actions ( half sister’s behavior) To add. Then Little Miss Chloe going along. Then having my husband put his foot down. Lastly too add fuel, the half sister and the things she said. For me, she’s lucky I’m pregnant Secondly- Adult Babies should be kept in a mental hospital.

The words from the SIL can never be taken back or forgotten. Even if they patch things up, those words are haunting. Never trust her around the baby ever!

People make some really weird things to pregnant women and new moms. The SIL is as bad as the friend. Good job on the hubby for dealing with it.

Similar to what happened to me, so I told the friend, yes please get with him bc I’m leaving and I need him to leave me alone! 😮 Now I’m extremely happily married to someone else ❤some blessings come disguised.

Husband is a keeper 👍