I don’t know how as a father, you can allow your wife to terrorize your own son.

@brendamoon2660

2 жыл бұрын

A person like her would never marry a man who would stand up to her. Narcissistic women only marry weak men, the kind of men who are happy to let their kids take the heat from her because it gives them a brake from being "in trouble" with her.

@xSuccubunnyx

2 жыл бұрын

It's not about the son. The son is merely a casualty in this. This MIL has it out for her son's poor wife. Every single part of this was intended to bully her and only her.

@tealablu3759

2 жыл бұрын

@@xSuccubunnyx it’s not about him, but I with he could’ve put his foot down. I know he said he was in therapy for it, but the result was insane

@xSuccubunnyx

2 жыл бұрын

@@tealablu3759 I said it wasn't about him. Lol

@Goldenxbih

2 жыл бұрын

@@xSuccubunnyx She’s just agreeing

“Season two neighbor steals baby” got me 🤣🤣

@mr.worldwide5869

2 жыл бұрын

Es

@mr.worldwide5869

2 жыл бұрын

Es tev tev

@mr.worldwide5869

2 жыл бұрын

Es

It's because THEY think they're BETTER parents than the ACTUAL parents, so they are "entitled" to take the child for "the best".

@Fingerscrossedout

2 жыл бұрын

☝️This!!!

@anonomous8649

2 жыл бұрын

Yesss I'm having my baby soon and we're going low-contact with my dad because he's just one of those people who thinks the only right way is his way. I plan on trying to be as gentle a mom as possible and my dad has straight-up told me I' a wimp for that. Like, sorry I don't want to subject my child to the abuse I went through?? No matter what it's so important that new parents set FIRM boundaries with the grandparent. Your days as a momma's boy and a daddy's girl (etc.) are over when you have a child to protect and your parents are pushing their limits.

@livewellwitheds6885

Жыл бұрын

absolutely!!! peak delusion

@livewellwitheds6885

Жыл бұрын

@@anonomous8649 that sounds tough, but no/low contact is definitely the way to go. best of luck with the delivery!

If you ever feel like you cannot trust someone with your child, I recommend that you make a list who is NOT allowed to pick up your child from daycare and school. Some people will be bold enough to do this again in later years, and when they know you are at work and the child is being watched by your trusted individuals. Always be vocal about who is not to be trusted around your kids. Hope this helps anyone.

@Amayalace90

2 жыл бұрын

This is a very good idea, I will do this because my MIL is very unstable and has a very weird obsession with our son who is now 5 years old and have had no contact for over 2 and a half years for her pain pill addiction and alcoholism. We have a 1.5 year old daughter now who she hasn't seen. This list idea will definitely be a big help because my husband's mom is just bold enough to do something like this even though we live 3 hours away from her in a different county.

@salomi311

2 жыл бұрын

where I leave you can't pick up a child iy your not on alist of the people who CAN pick up the chils

@Amayalace90

2 жыл бұрын

@@salomi311 same here but there is always that off chance that the toxic person or inlaw is friendly with someone at that school or daycare. I mean my MiL is friends with alot of cops in her area where she lives and I could definitely see her Pulling some crazy shit and the cops siding with her. Thankfully we live no where near her.

@sarahmrqss

2 жыл бұрын

@@salomi311 same. where i work, we ask the parents to tell us who is going to come and pick up their child. and then, when this person comes, we check their ID. if the parents didn't inform us beforehand, the kid DOES NOT LEAVE.

@sarahn3394

2 жыл бұрын

As a bus driver, tell us as well. Pictures are worth a thousand words.

I don’t understand why the mother is not in jail. She kidnapped a child isn’t that a felony??

@darkflame7142

2 жыл бұрын

I think it's either a 2nd degree or 1st degree felony

@cowboyjr6996

2 жыл бұрын

She explain why. The reason was because was very well known and most of the town thought she was a good person which is why she didn’t get arrested

@Mitchell2311

2 жыл бұрын

@@cowboyjr6996 still she should have been arrested

@MarieJes23

Жыл бұрын

@@cowboyjr6996 she did got arrested, but she didn’t get convicted

SUPER SUSPICIOUS that the MIL is reaching out once the wife is pregnant again. They should have a complete lockdown on baby info, they may have someone passing information on to the MIL who is in their circle.

My MIL has a nursery at her house, but she built it because our nephews live on the coast, and we live on the prairies. Our nephews and SIL live at her house when they come to visit, and will stay for a month at a time, so she wanted to ensure that the boys had somewhere safe and cozy to seep when they come visit. There are stable ways for grandparents to have nurseries set up, but this is totally not it 😬

@AllieSierdsma

2 жыл бұрын

The situation you mentioned makes sense Or like my grandparents have extra rooms in house and I live next door to my moms parents so growing up I’d go over and hang out and basically stay over when ever I wanted but she had a bed and stuff in what used to be my moms room … which is normal cause it’s fun

I was kidnapped by my grandparents. They lost my custody in court because they ignored evidence of abuse, but also my grandparents were kind of religious nutbags. It was a bad situation for me either way.

@laurabrady84105

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry all that happened to you. ☹️

My mother in law actually did this to me. Stole my baby but found a legal way to do so. They were wealthy and they hired a big shot lawyer stole my baby when she was 6 weeks old. I never got her back. They manipulated the courts. My daughter is now almost 15 and still lives with them. She called cps made shit up I fought for years. But this can happen.

@kasualbeauty309

2 жыл бұрын

Obviously this story is very long and fucked up but this is the sum of it.

@emelinepetitot618

2 жыл бұрын

@@kasualbeauty309 wtf I'm so sorry this happened to you it's so sad and fcked up... Are you doing better ? Do you have any contact with your daughter ? That's really horrible :c

@Fingerscrossedout

2 жыл бұрын

Jesus, I'm so sorry!!! Wtf... I hope you can meet her again 😞

@vindamawarrose9500

Жыл бұрын

Those bloody rich families are so fucked..

(I can't help but share my story lol) A little context I have one older brother and 3 younger sisters my mom really wanted another boy but she kept having miscarriages. I was pregnant with my first baby at 20 years old, my mom said if it was a boy she was going to file for custody because she didn't like where I lived (we lived with my husband's older brother and his wife in a 5 bedroom house to save on rent) unfortunately my mom passed away 4 months into my pregnancy but sometimes I can't help but think what would have happened if she was still here. P.s. I ended with 3 daughters and no boys feels like there was a reason.

@erikasol4002

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry that you went through that. Hopefully you are doing better. I would have fought my mom if she ever said that to me.

the BEC acronym is so funny to me, it makes me die every time i hear it

plus imagine waking up and your newborn being gone. You don’t know at first that it was ur family. That’s terrifying

Wait omg, how common is this? Because I was kidnapped by my grandma as a baby and I thought that was a crazy one off thing!

@Klynker

2 жыл бұрын

So was I, but I wish it had been successful..

@wardenmageamell8334

2 жыл бұрын

My grandparents took me! It honestly shocks me when I see other people with similar stories out in the wild.

@yanelig5282

2 жыл бұрын

From what I know, most kidnappings are done by family members.

@alexandriapugia7720

2 жыл бұрын

Same here. Grandparents took me too.

@thatonedog819

2 жыл бұрын

The majority of kidnappings are done by family members.

Dont keep spare keys anywhere. Plan A keep up with your keys, plan B call a locksmith to let you in. If you have a key hidden out side somewhere you might as well not lock your door

@janani1826

2 жыл бұрын

The neighbour having a spare key works very well if you trust them though. We have done that for years. I totally agree with the leaving it outside thing tho

@Mitchell2311

2 жыл бұрын

I agree as well but you should give your spare key to a trusted family member or neighbor just in case you lose your key

The entire sheriffs dept would have to hold me down to keep me from destroying my mil if she kidnapped my baby in that way. There’s no way in hell I would ever have any contact with her or anyone who supports her.

I can’t imagine having to go through that. That mother is either having a mental breakdown, or she’s that intent on punishing/one-upping her DIL. First, no way she was going to get custody. They literally could test right then and there if she was concerned about the mother using drugs. And considering that the mother just went through a traumatic experience (labor) and will be dealing with PP issues, no judge is going to let that hold up in court about her looking a certain way at her child. Someone obviously doesn’t understand how HARD it is to get grandparent rights. I feel bad for the DIL. I’m sure that even now, she’s experiencing guilt over not knowing her baby was gone. She’s pregnant with her second one, so I’m hoping that she was able to go to therapy. The fact the mother got a slap on the wrist for kidnapping is disgusting. I honestly am glad she moved, because I would have recommended to the young couple that they move as far and fast as they could if that wasn’t the case.

i really hope the baby took no trauma from this as everything that happens while the mom is pregnant and in the few moments/months after birth (when babies are on „survival mode“) has a big effect on their worldview in terms of trust, surviving and safety. Being kidnapped even if it wasn’t physically harmed could make a child develop trust issues deep down as their sense of basic trust and safety could get hurt.

@NameName-yj7lp

2 жыл бұрын

Hopefully they just like forget, awful things happened when I was little and the bad feeling like pushed the memories in a little box into the back of my mind.

@hiruki8

2 жыл бұрын

@@NameName-yj7lp compartmentalizing is sometimes necessary, but it's ok and recommended that you talk to a professional about it. Hope you're doing ok, and find the resources you need (if you don't already have them).

My nephew is 3 months old. My mom still calls him "our baby" and says "when we were pregnant" or "we had to have a c-section because our baby was so big and (sisters name) is a small woman but we are doing much better now" and "we have decided to breastfeed" it hurt my sister so much. But luckily her and her husband live several states away and my mom has a pathological fear of plane travel so unless my dad (who has his own issues but is not completely delusional) plans it with my sister that he will drive her down (mom also has a pathological fear of bridges and won't drive on them) they are safe from escalation of the behavior. I on the other hand live 30 min away from my parents and they are a huge reason my husband and I have chosen not to have children. Not the only reason but a real big one.

Sounds like my mum. I fell out with her before and she threatened to fight me in court for my kids because I wanted to cut her out of our lives 🙄

@jazzilopez2209

2 жыл бұрын

ugh what a bec

“Bitch eating chicken” have you seen the tik tok with the wound “have you ever hated anyone so much you hate everything they do? ‘Look at That bitch over there eating her chicken’”

"She couldn't abuse that baby is she desperately wanted too." The idea of imagining someone would want to desperately abuse a baby so bad they do it in the hospital is like satire comedy. Then I realize people like that likely exist and I'm sad for humanity.

This is part of the reason why new moms feel like the can't ask for help. Absolutely maddning!

Showed the first story to my mom and asked what'd she'd do. She said she'd end up in jail 😂

The first thing you learn with toxic in-laws is to never keep a spare no matter how much of a pain in the ass it is. I’d rather bust my window than find out for the millionth time they found another way to get a copy to my house without my knowledge.

My mom was convinced my dad was going to run away with me when I was a baby, so she did it first. There was no indication that he would have run away beyond her parents telling him he should take full custody of me because my mom was dating a women. Shit's insane.

“Good standing in the community so she got a slap on the wrist” wtf she kidnapped a baby!!! She had a nursery set up it was premeditated!!

That is absolutely terrifying. I'm so glad the parents didn't throw hands with the grandparents. I don't know if I would've been able to hold back

Love this shorter minutes videos

In the UK we are advised to keep baby in the same bedroom as us to prevent cot death (SIDS) is that different in the US? I don't think someone could have walked that close to my bed and picked up baby without me waking up?

@taylorgrace1723

2 жыл бұрын

we do keep them in a bassinet when very young but they tend to move on to a nursery within a few months (depends on the parents)

@brittanylockwood6085

2 жыл бұрын

It’s the same in the US. They recommend that you keep them in a bassinet, pack n’ play, or a mini crib next to your bed for the first 6 months, or until baby can roll. They technically then “advise” moving to a crib or pack n’ play for the remaining 6 months in the same room. So in the same room for a year. But it depends on the parent, and their particular living situation. But I agree. I like to think I would wake up if someone grabbed my son from his bassinet attached from my bed.

@zaxia_psg

2 жыл бұрын

From what I have heard, most parent who do not get maternity leave for a baby, or have only a month tend to move baby out of their room sooner so that they can sleep better. But in cases like that baby gets ignored for a portion of the night.

@brittanylockwood6085

2 жыл бұрын

@ Pink_Sock_Girl I have never heard of that. I only get 2 weeks of leave when my son is born (due this month) and I would never move him out just so that I could sleep better. Not knocking people who do, but I have personally never heard of someone doing that. I would sleep less knowing that my baby is not next to me. But I guess it depends on the parent and their parenting style.

@julierichardson800

2 жыл бұрын

@@taylorgrace1723 so same then. It's 'safe sleeping advice' so not everyone does, it depends on circumstances etc

My grandparents did this to us when we were babies! My dad was at a temporary job posting overseas, and my mum was in university. My maternal grandparents had come to visit and help out bc she was just re-starting university after my birth. Then when she was at school, they put us in the car and took us to a hotel. My mother didn't have a car, and lived for weeks getting only weekend visits with her own children when her dad would pick her up and take her to come see us. Then he said "why did you have children for someone else to raise?" as though he hadn't taken us away from her. Then she called my dad who came down for a weekend and showed up at my grandparents' and took us away. My mum spent the next 3 months without us, but at least we were with our dad (overseas) instead of being dangled in front of her face by her insane parents. She didn't talk to them for the next 3 years (until my younger brother was born) but we never visited them, any visits had to be at our house, and with our dad present.

The sad part is depending on the state and county she absence could have ended up with the baby. It just takes an egregious accusation on child neglect or abuse by am immediate family member and they absolutely will take that child while investigating. It's sad and broken. Watch take care of maya and that was a hospital not even family member

I hate that they always say that they will post updates, or the actual story here in the channel and in the description there is almost NEVER the links!

I lived in North Carolina and my parents live in Texas so, my Mom only visited once and my wife acted like a itch. She went off because my Mom cleaned the kitchen. My wife wakes me up screaming at me. Telling me to fix it, I'm like fix what? Later she admitted that she didn't like my mom, because if I loved my Mom I loved her less. I told her it didn't work that way, and she didn't belive me, and said it absolutely did! What do I do about this mess?

@amysue1616

Жыл бұрын

Don’t have a baby with this woman. No.

those parents are psychotic…i couldnt even imagine a parent stealing my child. thats so nuts.

Y’all definitely need to do more of these

There's a difference between "enabling" and participating. Standing by and Letting your wife make condiming comments about your wife, and wild accusations about your newborns safety to you, and not saying anything about it is enabling. Knowing she has an entire nursery set up with the intention of kidnapping said newborn from you, even if he didn't take part in the actual kidnapping, is accomplice, at least, it is not "enabling"

Truly crazy people convince themselves of strange things

there’s actually a case where a kid was kidnapped by his grandparents and the parents only found out 20 years later that he was only a state or two away

Move immediately! No spare key!

My neurodiverse brain can't handle the acronyms. I've been banned from at least one subreddit for actually spelling out words. It takes me longer to remember the acronyms than it does to just type the words.

It is important to have someone hold onto a spare key for you.

@mrsanonymous414

2 жыл бұрын

I don’t even have a spare😂😂 shit, my in-laws taught me a long time ago as long as I kept a spare they’d have a copy without my knowledge.

When she said "kidnapping babies" I said out loud "it's a trend!!!"

Post the update and the links plz :D

👏🏻restraining order.

OMG!! My mom is a BEC!! The more you know💫

i live for this podcast

i thought BEC was B eating chicken from tiktok

Don’t get me wrong, this would be terrifying!! But it could make for a great movie!

Get a restraining order against the mom!

This is why my sister will never be around my future babies or kids she tells everyone I’m crazy because she’s actually crazy and I know she would pull some shit like this

When I tell you I’D be the one going to prison if some weird family members took my baby..

Wow, You Tube really let them get away with the f-bombs! Haven't heard any before!

I was kidnapped at the age of 6 by my drug addict biological mom.

Thank God my MIL saw taking care of my baby too much work. It used to irritate me...but now it does not .

Really scary thing 😨

My cousins would be MIL (if he weren't an asshole who can't recognize something good for him and screwed it up) made her daughter spill coffee so she could claim assault and steal the daughter while baby momma was in jail and then tried to not give her back when baby momma was out of jail

If you watch Jane The Virgin this story is soo similar to when Jane had Mateo and the evil step mom Rose kidnapped Mateo 20 minutes Jane had the baby .

They had a nursery waiting U lost me

Guaranteed furniture moving would be happening, parent or not. And no spare key!

I feel like my mil would do this with my unborn baby and that scares me.

@mrsanonymous414

2 жыл бұрын

My heart goes out to you.. stay calm and keep your distance

It’s honestly sad how she only had a “slap on the wrist”

@maybeforgetful4732

2 жыл бұрын

I'd take it to federal or state court so her standing in the community isn't a bias

Is this a re-upload, I swear I saw this last week?

@TwoHotTakes

2 жыл бұрын

We do full length eps and then individuals stories :)

Just a funny thought. Are you sure you’re not a kid she kidnapped and got away with it lol

@animenation2500

4 ай бұрын

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Is someone doing dishes in the background?

Yeah seriously this isnt The Sims lol why would you give your spare key to your neighbor. Immediately got bad vibes when I heard that.

@nataliegiles2554

2 жыл бұрын

They didn't get the key to the neighbor, the mom found their spare key outside

@beckabelle5927

2 жыл бұрын

@@nataliegiles2554 must not have listened to the full story cause they said they gave it to their neighbor at the end.

@RyeRyeTooFly619

2 жыл бұрын

Multiple reasons, to check on the house while your on vacation, emergency where someone has to get in the house and you aren’t home. Pet sitting etc

My favorite podcast ever

I've never watched a video where y'all actually link the stories, or as you say in this video link similar stories, in the KZread description. None of them

I’m so glad my grandparents are bat shit crazy

I thought BEC was b***h eating chicken

Is this kidnapping? My brother and SIL had my niece Alice, SIL couldn’t walk for ages (something went wrong) my brother got sick and SIL got sick shortly afterwards and I was called to watch her and problem is I couldn’t be around sick people as I have a condition with the addition of a cold it’d be lethal and both are aware so I brought her back to my house after telling my brother where I was going and later SIL called screaming at me claiming I kidnapped her even tho baby’s dad knew where she was

@bellaluna9572

2 жыл бұрын

Problem us that both parents should be notified preferably have it in writing. If mama isn't told ( even by her own hubs) she's gonna freak and rightfully so. You may think it's no biggie bc u know where everyone is but she doesn't and that's scary

@gracelopez9158

2 жыл бұрын

While I can't speculate on a father's feelings about this, many mothers tend to have an intrinsic fear of someone taking their child, and it's even worse if it's someone they know bc that means that person was allowed in their home. I'm not accusing you of having some diabolical plan to kidnap their baby, but be conscious that if both parents are involved in the child's life, then both parents need to be informed. Just reaching out to the one you're related to doesn't cut it once they've built their own family unit.

Mujer loca

"BEC"... I think NOAC would have been more memorable "nails on a chalkboard". Even if the sound doesn't annoy u, everyone knows the phrase.

Eh, I hope this violation didn't/doesn't affect other pregnancies

Holy shittt... 😦

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