That is a very unsafe and toxic situation. You may need to get a restraining order. This behavior with your sister and your ex is mentally off. Stay away from them.

Every so often, I'll wonder how life would have been if I'd had a sister in addition to brothers. Then I listen to something like this and decide I am _quite_ happy being sisterless.

And for whatever reason this is giving me extreme anxiety. As someone that has a mom who is obsessed with keeping me informed on what my married ex boyfriend does or doesn't do because in her mind "it's something I need to know" and the idea of being on OP's shoes scares the living heck out of me.

The thing about any place in the U.S. (not sure where this is taking place) that has “Grandparent’s Rights Law” is that there has to be a substantial relationship between the child and their grandparent. In this case I am not even sure if they even met, but even if they did it would not be a substantial amount of time. So GR would not apply in this family’s case.

Look everyone, I'm editing this after spending about an houre typing it, I'm sorry if this is bad and if you have a stroke reading it: Part 2: OP as stated gets engaged to him. Her sister tells her "it's just a phase" and that she'll get over him. Op tells her that if she attempts to pull anything again she'll cut her off. What does the sister do? Makes the op the maid of honor at her wedding and she's forced to walk with her ex. The sister sets her husband up with another girl and says it's fine to explore since they aren't married yet. They leave the party and she tells the rest of her family she's going no contact with her sister. Her brother and dad understand and her mom, minus two attempts, hasn't tried anything. Sister tries something to get op to talk to her, none of them work and theu haven't spoken to each other in I think 6 years. Part 3: Op announces that her and her husband are pregnant at her mom's birthday party with the first baby girl of the family and everyone but the sister is happy. Her mom notes this and asks her to come over for tea. She doesn't want to go but decides to be positive and goes anyway. On arrival she notices her sisters car but still decides to go in. Inside is her ex, sister, sisters husband, and mom of the ex I think? The ex says he was trying tk be romantic but she just "couldn't understand". The mom of the ex said she was being dramatic, she said her sister apologized and she just hurting her sister dor only wanting the best for her. Her brother in law/sisters husband says she needs to grow up and be an adult since she's having a kid now and her mom starts reading a letter about how she's sad her daughters aren't close anymore, and how even though her sister was wrong she meant well. She texts her brother, dad, and husband and doesn't say anything to them until her brother gets there. He grabs her stuff and tells everyone else that he's disappointed and disgusted. Part 4: OP waits in her brothers car till her husband and dad get there and is just crying at that point. She doesn't know what else happens in thay house, but sends everyone, bar her mother an email saying she never want to see them again with her lawyers number/contact information and says if they do the police will be called. None of them have spoken to her since but her dad told her that her mom and sister are really upset. They say they want to repair things and they want her sister to be in her babies life and maybe even be the godmother. Her dad is staying with her brother and although they are on her side, some others aren't. Some mutual friends are asking questions because her sister seems really upset and is basically telling people that the ops husband is keeping her from the family. Part 5: Op posted about it on Facebook and now her ex, his brother, and her sister are being dragged down. She met up with her mom to lay some ground rules; therapy, family therapy, clear boundaries, no telling her sister about her, separate holidays, and most importantly if she tries anything like that again she'll also be cut off. Her mom thought it was extra but decided to go with it because she thought that ment she could immediately see the baby. Op says it was a process and that her mom needs to prove herself. Brother and dad refuse to talk to the sister and have apologized for not stopping it earlier. Husband decided to go with anything she decides. Her mother in law doesn't think it's the best idea to cut off the other grandmother but it's ultimately her decision Part 6: Just a little past context; The op and the ex broke up at 18 and he is currently 37. He's been in several other relationships and has had two kids with another woman, but never married. Her sister thinks it's romantic since he's never wanted to marry anyone else. But he was also obsessive with his childrens mother, that was before the sister started him up again with trying to get with the op. Brother barely talks to him unless it's about their shared nephews or just not to be rude. Both of her parents seemed to be on her side but it was only the dad. On the day of the "tea party" the mom sent him off because "quality time" and now he's upset because he was lied to. Basically the mom continues to say that the op is a bad person and that she will fight for grandparent visitation or even legal guardian ship and some other stuff happens. THE END I'm tired, I've never been paragraph guy and i never want to again, good bye

@DoesNotConcernYou

15 күн бұрын

There is a link to the full version so you didn’t have to “be that guy”.

@my-chemical-romance

14 күн бұрын

​​@@DoesNotConcernYou yes they do, not everyone wants to spend 8 minutes watching/listening to a video and would much rather just take a few seconds to read it

@my-chemical-romance

14 күн бұрын

Thanks! You rock! 🎉