Where's the rest of the story? To the best of my recollection they put off the wedding indefinitely. But they ended up going on the honeymoon trip since much of it was nonrefundable. After coming back from France and decided to stay together, marriage was off the table for the foreseeable future.

@Kloburste88

13 күн бұрын

Several months after the original posts came out, I messaged OP to inquire what had happened with the therapist. He mentioned that it looked like she was going to lose her license.

@yeetlord7610

11 күн бұрын

​@@Kloburste88what is the post name

Usually I’d say OP is completely valid in all his feelings about that journal, he doesn’t have to read it if he doesn’t want to But OP needs to understand, if that journal contains her thoughts before during and after the beginning of her sessions, it could contain so much more than just her potential cheating, it could reveal other people’s intentions, what happened when he wasn’t looking Besides from finding closure on the matter he could have gathered more than just (the therapist is the issue) he could have gotten more details If nothing else he could rightly confirm everything, either way it’s worth a read

Op needs to read that goddamn journal. It's like saying you have a murder suspects itnerary and lists everywhere they went and who they talked to but you'd rather just be mad a murder happenes and someone has to pay.

I'm completely on ops side

Wow! I started this story fully on op's side but at the end all I can think is that he must be stupid. I understand the feeling of betrayal but at this point the only option is to read the journal and see what it says. I'm not even saying that it will magically change all his feelings and they'll get back together like it's some sitcom but actively avoiding reading the journal is just stupid and Petty. He is acting as though he just found out his fiance had been sleeping with his best friend, their entire relationship even though nothing happened other than she was manipulated into asking him a very stupid question and asking for a change in their relationship that he never would have gone with. At this point he should just read the journal and after hearing everything he said which mind you is biased from his own personal viewpoint against her. I still think that giving her another chance wouldn't be bad as long as you set a bunch of ground rules between the both of you, and like he said, the concession she was offering seem way too much and like they wouldn't make for a good relationship. So just have a healthy balance and start the relationship over.

@christianbarrr9936

12 күн бұрын

You make it sound so simple. I guess you have never felt betrayed at all in your life. The moment someone you trust betrays you, even if it is only a professional relationship, makes you want to have nothing to do with them at all. It is worse when it is family, and the absolute worst is when it is someone you love. That kind of betrayal can't be fixed with "it wasn't my fault, it was her idea." She needed to put her foot down and say she would never cheat on her fiancée.

@christianbarrr9936

12 күн бұрын

Also, it is more of the fact that she actually expected him to go along with the "open marriage" at all. You would think that she would know what kind of person he is since she was gonna marry him.

@yeetlord7610

11 күн бұрын

I disagree with your opinion it is too short sighted,yes he gets benifits but is marriage about benefits or loving each other just thought of having intimate relation with others is no no to a person in love

@yeetlord7610

11 күн бұрын

You make her seem way too innocent like dude, it's like you are saying her brain isn't developed enough to understand that saying open marriage isn't a deal breaker