My Family Friend's Daughter Falsely Accused Me of SA Her, and My Entitled Family Disowned and Kic...

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00:00 1st story:
AITAH for not wanting to reconnect with my family who disowned me 22 years ago? (FarAmount3834 in r/AITAH)
05:37 2nd story:
My (43M) daughter (21F) won't speak to me, I want her back in my life (NosferaTouffe in r/relationship_advice)
14:37 3rd story:
My (38M) SAHW (40F) has been treating our Son (12M) poorly and favoring our Daughter (9F) ever since I complimented his cooking. How should I handle this? (Tough_Measurement345 in r/relationship_advice)
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  • @legiontepes3474
    @legiontepes347424 күн бұрын

    Fake accusations should be punished with a sentence as long as the one the innocent man would have gotten.

  • @chantalalexander

    @chantalalexander

    24 күн бұрын

    Agreed. I think the reason why it legally hasn't been considered as a viable punishment, is probably because some people who actually have been SA'ed do sometimes unintentionally misidentify attackers. However in cases like this where the false accusation is purposely and willfully done, folks need to go scorched earth. It is not just the amount of time that someone wrongfully accused has to suffer with, it's essentially a loss of life. Your reputation is ruined, you lose friends and family, you risk losing jobs, college placement, etc., and even when proven innocent there are people who still don't believe you.

  • @Shuichisaihara5499

    @Shuichisaihara5499

    24 күн бұрын

    @@chantalalexanderI know that too. I watched an episode of forensic files where a young girl misidentified her violator as her uncle, but was actually her grandmother’s neighbor who look similar to him. Thankfully the uncle had his name cleared by his now ex wife who did what the system were too lazy to do. Investigate properly

  • @SnerMerNer

    @SnerMerNer

    24 күн бұрын

    They’re more worried about dissuading potential future victims than they are about protecting actual current victims.

  • @jacobbakos3140

    @jacobbakos3140

    24 күн бұрын

    To its maximum with no parole

  • @jacobbakos3140

    @jacobbakos3140

    24 күн бұрын

    @@Shuichisaihara5499misidentification and lying are different things. There are too many cases where it’s an easily proven lie and there’s zero consequences

  • @Sandcastle21
    @Sandcastle2124 күн бұрын

    “You remember you have children other than your wife” 🥶🥶🥶

  • @Yoonji9212

    @Yoonji9212

    24 күн бұрын

    That was cold af😂

  • @_junedays_1614
    @_junedays_161424 күн бұрын

    Story 2: “You have other children than your wife.”

  • @Tuco_Salamanca3

    @Tuco_Salamanca3

    24 күн бұрын

    My jaw dropped 😂🔥

  • @a_noelle8595

    @a_noelle8595

    24 күн бұрын

    😂😂😂 that was hilarious

  • @blueroses4373

    @blueroses4373

    24 күн бұрын

    Lmao

  • @kiko485

    @kiko485

    24 күн бұрын

    I cackled at that. 😂😂😂

  • @vanzy01

    @vanzy01

    23 күн бұрын

    💯👍🏿

  • @mimiwhite1963
    @mimiwhite196324 күн бұрын

    WOW the dude screwed his wife instead of being on time to meet his daughter to reconcile. I hope the child bride leaves him. Interesting that is 21 year old daughter is marrying a "boy" while his wife was an adult at 18.

  • @dogguy8603

    @dogguy8603

    24 күн бұрын

    I have a good relationship with my family and I would be freaking out if I wasn't early (but still ontime) who tf are these people?

  • @vanzy01

    @vanzy01

    23 күн бұрын

    💯👍🏿

  • @Vikashar

    @Vikashar

    21 күн бұрын

    That's a really good point

  • @mikearroyo3961

    @mikearroyo3961

    4 күн бұрын

    Only one word to describe the guy " Loser Moron". Well, two words. It's a guarantee that she will eventually cheat on him.

  • @IthlinnePewPew
    @IthlinnePewPew24 күн бұрын

    My favourite part of the 2nd story was when his new wife was an adult woman when he met her, but his daughter's fiance is a boy...

  • @samoea19

    @samoea19

    24 күн бұрын

    Right.

  • @vanzy01

    @vanzy01

    23 күн бұрын

    💯👍🏿

  • @pauldavisjr.3284

    @pauldavisjr.3284

    20 күн бұрын

    This!

  • @beckystanavich3217

    @beckystanavich3217

    20 күн бұрын

    I didn’t catch that part, how old is he?

  • @pauldavisjr.3284

    @pauldavisjr.3284

    19 күн бұрын

    @@beckystanavich3217 I think he said that he was 40 or 41

  • @BubblegumGirl366
    @BubblegumGirl36624 күн бұрын

    Story 2: Notice how when Op talked about his daughters fiancé he calls him a boy. But his wife who is likely the around the same age is a woman. Yeah that is the sign of a predator

  • @mohamedemad2051

    @mohamedemad2051

    20 күн бұрын

    What? 😅

  • @wickesentertainment2377
    @wickesentertainment237724 күн бұрын

    Another case where the family failed to investigate properly over false accusations. He should have sued the family member for falsely accusing him.

  • @Mathlover15

    @Mathlover15

    24 күн бұрын

    Makes me wonder why the police were never involved if the family was so certain that OP was guilty. The supposed victim could have also sued him so why weren’t lawyers involved? This whole thing is so stupid. But I do wonder why this woman lied in the first place, what did she gain from it? Attention?

  • @thesweettooth6667

    @thesweettooth6667

    24 күн бұрын

    ​@@Mathlover15some people think that they are doing one last kind favor before exiling the person. Not to mention the person at fault would talk about how they don't want attention. I was a witness to one of these events my friend was accused by his cousin.

  • @SnowyWolborg

    @SnowyWolborg

    24 күн бұрын

    ​@@Mathlover15I guarantee that the so-called victim didn't want the police involved, because when you do that, you have to start explaining yourself, and present some kind of evidence. And she knew damn well that evidence did not exist against him.

  • @ExCommie

    @ExCommie

    24 күн бұрын

    ​@@Mathlover15it was his birthday and the b couldn't stand someone else getting the attention so she made a 1d10t1c remark to get all the attention and it succeeded. She had to be a narcissistic attention seeking b.

  • @peepawfart

    @peepawfart

    24 күн бұрын

    ​@SnowyWolborg it gets kind of tricky when you take into consideration that a lot of actual victims don't get the police involved, either, because 9 times out of 10 the police will tell you "you don't have enough proof so it's a waste of time and we can't do anything". There was literally a case not to long ago where a woman was assaulted, and the police refused to help her because they thought she was lying, even though the hospital literally tested her and found proof of an assault. Most victims aren't even lucky enough to reach the hospital on time. Especially children who can't drive themselves. I just wish you guys would stop generalizing rape when it is an incredibly complex, hard to prove crime. It's something that happens behind closed doors. It isn't as easy as murder or a punch to the face.

  • @DarkButz
    @DarkButz24 күн бұрын

    Story 3 - "cooking isn't a man's job" 90% of all restaurant chefs and cooks: Ayo, what the fuck?!

  • @tatkkyo9911

    @tatkkyo9911

    24 күн бұрын

    Yup. Cooking is the job of those who want to eat.

  • @Ruby-ko6pr
    @Ruby-ko6pr24 күн бұрын

    bruh, im 20 and still dont think of myself as an adult, i have no life experience, how can a 18y be an adult?

  • @partyshoes2917

    @partyshoes2917

    24 күн бұрын

    I didn't start feeling like one until I was 25- 26

  • @STAYATINYARMYSIN

    @STAYATINYARMYSIN

    24 күн бұрын

    It’s not and it’s weird that the world thinks that an eighTEEN year old is an “adult” it’s just another excuse for these creepy ass old people to justify getting with a young person

  • @loganblackwood2922

    @loganblackwood2922

    24 күн бұрын

    Some people continue to feel that way and generate no life experiences either. At some point, we have to go by the biological reality and the legal definition, lest we just consider people who fail to grow up as children even if they're 20, 30 or 40.

  • @animegamer501stthelastyeet8

    @animegamer501stthelastyeet8

    23 күн бұрын

    21 is a safe bet for both men and women any younger is just a crime socially.

  • @georgeprchal3924

    @georgeprchal3924

    23 күн бұрын

    And yet some people want 16 year-olds to vote. We're not hobbits who's adulthood begins at 33.

  • @derherrgraf6001
    @derherrgraf600121 күн бұрын

    ,,She was to cute to ignore" Ugh. Disgusting at its finest

  • @SapphireExile
    @SapphireExile24 күн бұрын

    Second story: The whole wife being half his age thing aside, which is absolutely disgusting by the way and basically him banging someone who's the same age as his former daughter, how tf did OP not see this coming? He literally told his daughter that he wished she hadn't been born. Not only does someone have to be completely heartless to say that to anyone, let alone their kid, but it more than likely also affected the daughter mentally and emotionally. It probably made her wonder who else might think the same thing about her, and gave her one or more mental breakdown. OP needs to leave his former daughter alone. He burned that bridge by saying that one thing, and there's no coming back from it. OP: My WiFe WaS bEiNg CuTe So I hAd tO bAnG hEr WhEn I wAs SuPpOsEd To MeEt My DaUgHtEr. ^ That's what OP sounded like in my brain. That's where his priorities are, his groomed child bride. Fucking gross.

  • @avaphynx
    @avaphynx24 күн бұрын

    In second story op wife will end up figuring herself out in her late 20s. And she will leave him.

  • @billjacobs2799
    @billjacobs279924 күн бұрын

    3rd story, OP mental abuse is still abuse, get your son out of the house and away from the toxic mom. By showing favoritism to the sister the mom is mentally abusing the son. It also sounds like the mom is filling the daughter full of bs about her brother. Mom is causing the family to self-destruct, and the blame is totally on her.

  • @RylieRiddle
    @RylieRiddle24 күн бұрын

    S2: anytime a parent says their new SO was friends with their child, it says groomer. Doesn't matter if they were 18, they creeped on their child's friend. 22 years between him and his wife. That's just gross.

  • @johnnyhall9154

    @johnnyhall9154

    24 күн бұрын

    It was so hard to even listen to the dude's experiences

  • @goldyd144

    @goldyd144

    24 күн бұрын

    I think the only time a situation like that could be valid if the child's friend is at least 10-15 years old than them (like a work friend, church friend, etc), and the child is at LEAST 25-30+, and the child introduces them _for the purpose of pursuing a romantic relationship._ OP is was just very obviously a creep, and I have no idea what he was expecting from Reddit when he ran there to play "woe is me."

  • @eric98292

    @eric98292

    24 күн бұрын

    Even if you give him the benefit of the doubt, it's clear he cares more about himself than her. What a pile of crap.

  • @vanzy01

    @vanzy01

    23 күн бұрын

    ​@@eric98292💯👍🏿

  • @lamargordon6017

    @lamargordon6017

    23 күн бұрын

    ​@@goldyd144in other words, this situation is only ok if the friend is well past the wall?

  • @AkA553
    @AkA55324 күн бұрын

    He met her at 18 his wife is a matured adult so she made an matured decision to marry a man of her father. Nice joke 😂😂

  • @armaggedon390

    @armaggedon390

    24 күн бұрын

    No, he *married* her at 18. He met her earlier.

  • @Sg190th

    @Sg190th

    24 күн бұрын

    ​@@armaggedon390what's the timestamp

  • @stirrednotshaken4837

    @stirrednotshaken4837

    24 күн бұрын

    7:39 … he explains he met her when she was 18, not a minor and a friend of his daughter. 🤢 I won’t ever understand why grown ass, middle aged men think it’s appropriate to get involved with a girl who is freshly legal, or friends with their children. Come on, there are plenty of people out there who are closer to your own age to meet and hook up/marry. Let the young girls/boys enjoy their lives before they even consider getting married to someone. This girl graduated high school and immediately got involved with a man in his 40’s. Where’s the parties, college sororities, hanging out with friends, finding her dream job, etc.? She’s not going to extend her wings because he will be holding her back cause he’s already “been there, done that”. 🤦🏼‍♀️

  • @georgeprchal3924

    @georgeprchal3924

    23 күн бұрын

    ​@@stirrednotshaken4837I forgot they raised the age of consent to 35.

  • @lamargordon6017

    @lamargordon6017

    23 күн бұрын

    ​@@stirrednotshaken4837some women's dream is to have an established older man take care of them. He also mentioned she was sort of shy, so she probably had no desire to sleep around with guys she met at parties and college sororities.

  • @aleksandarvil5718
    @aleksandarvil571824 күн бұрын

    2:00 ; 2:10 *_"Too Late!!! 22 YEARS TOO LATE."_*

  • @stardustkevin7322

    @stardustkevin7322

    7 күн бұрын

    Heh incredibles reference

  • @MichaelJEngelmann
    @MichaelJEngelmann24 күн бұрын

    It’s immature for a grown adult to lust after a child and then marry them as soon as they’re “legal.” It’s legal for adults to sleep with literal minors in some countries, still doesn’t mean it’s right. Religious or not, it’s morally wrong. It’s manipulation.

  • @the83rdtrombonist60
    @the83rdtrombonist6024 күн бұрын

    Forgiveness is not for the accuser to have, it's for the victim to give. People need to stop the "woe-is-me" 💩 when the victim won't forgive them.

  • @gospelelvis6136
    @gospelelvis613624 күн бұрын

    S2 - His wife was 'too cute' so he missed his meeting to try and reconcile with his daughter? I call BS on the whole story.

  • @SnowyWolborg
    @SnowyWolborg24 күн бұрын

    Story #1: There is literally no reason to reconnect. These people have been out of his life for longer than they were ever in it. 22 years is a lifetime. OP needs nothing from these people and they can stay gone.

  • @cashwat210
    @cashwat21024 күн бұрын

    “You have children other than your wife” lmao

  • @mevan883
    @mevan88324 күн бұрын

    S2, I just hope OP's daughter doesn't live in a state with grandparents rights.

  • @drifter139

    @drifter139

    24 күн бұрын

    I don't think it would matter if the daughter can make a case he is neglectful and possibly mentally/emotionally abusive

  • @laralynwittusen5468

    @laralynwittusen5468

    24 күн бұрын

    Grandparents rights are usually only when the grandparent has an established relationship with the child.

  • @WardenSpectreCommander
    @WardenSpectreCommander24 күн бұрын

    Story 2 if any of my parents tell me they wish I wasn't born. You can't EVER WALK THAT BACK!!! That parent is forever dead to me!!! She was sweet to meet up with him ,I would have told my grandparents let this ride and leave it alone.

  • @HubiKoshi
    @HubiKoshi24 күн бұрын

    That last story. It makes me wonder, was the wife cheating/using drugs/booze before the whole thing fell apart? Because the way she just started abusing her son was such a weird shift in personality. Did the way OP complimented her son's cooking hit her in some insecurities maybe?

  • @Mathlover15

    @Mathlover15

    24 күн бұрын

    I’ve heard stories of moms being in a one sided with their daughters but I’ve never heard of moms competing with their sons, at least on this level.

  • @smokinggnu6584

    @smokinggnu6584

    24 күн бұрын

    I think it's more a case of the wife seeing her own cooking and domestic activities as her sole reason for being in the family, plus the whole rigid gender roles thing, and she saw her son as a threat to her station when her husband complimented their son on his cookign a little too much. Some people can get really, *really* weird about shit like that, to the point of tearing apart families. They take any kind of change to family dynamics like that really badly.

  • @verygooddeal4436

    @verygooddeal4436

    23 күн бұрын

    ​@@smokinggnu6584i thought the same thing. She seems to pride herself over her cooking and to be the go-to person in her immediate family for her cooking and has some insecurities or existential crisis or something for that position to be taken away from her. For this reason, altho I think OP made the right decisions for his kids, I honestly think he acted poorly towards his wife and was not being the proper supportive husband. It sounds like he was just telling her she was wrong (which he shouldve done) but not asking her why she was acting like that (which he shouldve also done). Doesn't justify wife basically throwing her life away afterwards, but it does offer a bit of explanation

  • @devanjohnson3560

    @devanjohnson3560

    13 күн бұрын

    ​@@verygooddeal4436he did ask her why she did it but she didnt give him an answer

  • @minisamuri2
    @minisamuri224 күн бұрын

    2:05 tbh the best comeback to that would've been "You're right, we *WERE* family. Past-tense. We aren't family now"

  • @morganleanderblake678
    @morganleanderblake67824 күн бұрын

    Second story HAS to be a rage bait. No one is that utterly incompetent at basic self management. New Wife got groomed, and they've made a dynamic that replaces the daughter. It's gross. and probably to the daughter it feels like he was creeping on her too.

  • @animegamer501stthelastyeet8

    @animegamer501stthelastyeet8

    23 күн бұрын

    I actually know people like that.

  • @georgeprchal3924

    @georgeprchal3924

    23 күн бұрын

    Hogwash, she knew what she was doing.

  • @austinfowler2707
    @austinfowler270724 күн бұрын

    Story 2: im more uninterested in age gaps like that as long as everything is above board. But its the language he uses, calling his wife a woman while his Son In Law is just a boy, that gives me the ick.

  • @alfredmarcos1761
    @alfredmarcos176124 күн бұрын

    That second story, wow...he's such a manchild

  • @Burningflame97
    @Burningflame9724 күн бұрын

    OP in 1st story is NTA. He has every right to disown them, even to the point of changing his last name. They threw him out for dead over an empty accusation.

  • @BarbaraCrippen-b1x
    @BarbaraCrippen-b1x14 сағат бұрын

    It's crazy how family dynamics can get so twisted. The guy who told his daughter he wished she was never born and now wants to reconcile is just mind-blowing. This was a compelling watch, thanks for sharing.

  • @boneymeroney2674
    @boneymeroney267424 күн бұрын

    Eye roll warning for story 2. 😂

  • @mr.halfright

    @mr.halfright

    24 күн бұрын

    Dude's trying so hard to justify himself, but every new piece of info he gives us just keeps showing how terrible he is, as a father and as a person

  • @aleksandarvil5718
    @aleksandarvil571824 күн бұрын

    Story #1: OP = NTA Aunt & her husband = MVPs 💯😘 The World's Smallest Violins 👌🏻🎻👌🏻🎻👌🏻🎻👌🏻 for bio - _family_ 😂😂

  • @OfficialREVENGEMusic
    @OfficialREVENGEMusic24 күн бұрын

    Story 2 has to be fake just because of how cartoonishly tone deaf an evil op is. Story 3: the wife was obviously looking for an out. She clearly resents her son, and her husband. This was clearly more than just feeling threatened by her son's cooking capabilities. What validates this in my opinion, is the fact that she went on a total bender and cheated on her husband with a younger guy. She's very clearly a clinical narcissist, and should not be around her children at all.

  • @tdexth
    @tdexth24 күн бұрын

    S2 op is disgusting. Plain and simple.

  • @karinnightmare6700
    @karinnightmare670024 күн бұрын

    As an sa victim the first story makes me wanna vomit this is the shit that makes it so people didn't believe me.

  • @oneuup2490
    @oneuup249024 күн бұрын

    So this man was perverting on his daughter's friends more than likely it was still married to the daughter's mother at that time starting an affair with a child, and then end up marrying that child. And the reason that she is not leaving it's because more than likely you're taking care of her and she doesn't have her own s*** together.

  • @papaquesito
    @papaquesito24 күн бұрын

    Second story: I'm literally 19 and am still living with my parents. I'm learning how to take care of myself everyday and how to be an adult with a job and shit. My older sister is 25 and shes also young, but theres so much mental growth from 18-25. Let alone from 18 to fucking 40. Bro is creepy, and the way he talks about his wife too. That she was "too cute" and he "couldn't help himself." They did't even date for a whole year before getting married. Weirdo... I hope he stays away from his daughter, and that her friend matures healthily to find someone who isn't perverted.

  • @animegamer501stthelastyeet8

    @animegamer501stthelastyeet8

    23 күн бұрын

    No they were dating. He just didn't want to say it was before 18. 💀

  • @xeternalflowerx1978

    @xeternalflowerx1978

    6 күн бұрын

    The biological reality of being an adult is different to life experience yes she’s an adult but she’s not that experienced yet

  • @artemislove2941
    @artemislove294123 күн бұрын

    who gonna tell second OP him and his wife aren’t jay and gloria from modern family. the girl wasn’t even out of the usual college age

  • @L4zyBumone
    @L4zyBumone24 күн бұрын

    The last story makes me a little bit concerned, the fact that the wife goes from cooking with son -> get jealous of her son because OP compliment the son's cooking -> turns into the son's bully -> cheating and do drugs to the point she almost become a post-person in a seemingly short span of time. I have a theory that the cheating and drugs part was an ongoing issues WAY before all of this started and that the wife's friend is feeding her BS the whole time to encourage such behavior. OP needs to get the full custody, I just can't see the wife can be trusted with children anytime soon if her reaction to her child showing talent is emotionally abusing them

  • @artemislove2941
    @artemislove294123 күн бұрын

    “i met her when she was eighteen” that’s BARELY the line

  • @Midgetbear-nk1fe
    @Midgetbear-nk1fe24 күн бұрын

    Story 2 is either rage bait or trying to justify his sins to himself

  • @lavendersans2972
    @lavendersans297211 күн бұрын

    Him: 18 is an Adult Also Him: She didnt even introduced me to the "BOY"

  • @JoeyA1
    @JoeyA124 күн бұрын

    2nd story OP 🤦 she gave you a chance and you blew it

  • @darkxemjas2910
    @darkxemjas29107 күн бұрын

    The family knows that it's too late to apologize, and shouldn't even bother making the attempt. I mean, OP had just turned 19 when they kicked him out. And they're only trying to reconcile with him after 22 years of no contact, when he's 41. And all because the "victim" revealed that it was false months earlier. I mean, what do you think would've happened if the "victim" had died in a car crash or something a couple of years ago? Before she got a chance to reveal the truth? Would OP's family still try to reconcile? I highly doubt it. Not to be a family anyway.

  • @dtownblastinsalvi62
    @dtownblastinsalvi6221 күн бұрын

    Story 2 I find it funny op calls us immature when is the immature one so hypocritical he is

  • @mrsw2923
    @mrsw292324 күн бұрын

    Story 2. Me me me me me. I wanted. I needed. I emotionally abused my daughter and no I want her back. NO.

  • @katherinehutton9870
    @katherinehutton98704 күн бұрын

    When ever you have to say "legally an adult" your in the wrong. Plus it is your daughter's friend.

  • @dollsite
    @dollsite24 күн бұрын

    imagine you're an 18 yr old and ur father comes up to you with a surprise, he is marrying a woman and you're excited (or not) to meet ur new stepmom, n ur stepmom is ur 18 yr old friend 💀 oh lord..

  • @MichaelJEngelmann
    @MichaelJEngelmann24 күн бұрын

    Can’t wait til I hear from another Redditor story how she left him. Someone keep me updated.

  • @failingartist3524
    @failingartist3524Күн бұрын

    Story 2 worst dad ever he'd rather be with someone his daughters age and expects everyone to be ok hos parents kinda screwed too

  • @echenexcetera5702
    @echenexcetera570224 күн бұрын

    2nd Story: the wife is playing the long game to get to his inheritance imo

  • @ARcinder
    @ARcinder24 күн бұрын

    Story 3: The wife is 40, so it could be narcissism caused menopause. Id say it why most woman who cheat at 40 do so then after a while after their body return to normal hormonal levels they regret their actions and dont understand why they acted that way. Still, not an exist.

  • @JP-eh4ee
    @JP-eh4ee24 күн бұрын

    Story 1: so what did the family do to that fake sexual assault beach

  • @9LiveEmpire

    @9LiveEmpire

    23 күн бұрын

    and why did she do it >< ?

  • @jedimando9258
    @jedimando92589 күн бұрын

    That man in the 2nd story clearly thought with his penis not his heart. Its very clear thats all hes thinking with, dont even bother anymore because the damage is done and made it clear the daughter came 2nd or even not at all

  • @Toka972
    @Toka97222 күн бұрын

    I don't like when victims don't aim for retribution simply because they moved on... This is self centered reasoning - it's not only them but also potential other victims. That woman who made false accusations need to be sent to jail, pay compensation but most importantly, she needs to be prevented from raising any kids. It's a necessity for society before they learn the same tricks. This is so much worse than what op make it look like or how he feels about it now. It's a common practice because women are very rarely held accountable for this - so much so that it puts the credibility of other women that are real victims of this.

  • @artemislove2941
    @artemislove294123 күн бұрын

    there’s smthing soooo creepy about second op saying “she just looked so cute”

  • @ljubavojvodinac7391
    @ljubavojvodinac73913 күн бұрын

    If someone gets false accused of SA, post the false accusers full name, then full home addresses and their yt channels and finally their faces on social media and ignore the hate from other people you get, because false accusers dont deserve anonymity! PERIOD!!!

  • @glenmassey3746
    @glenmassey374619 күн бұрын

    S1. Keep very little contact, if the children visit their grandparents set a rule of not pushing to use the children as a tool to reconnect. S2. Daughter is right to go NC. S3. The woman needs to be checked into a drug abuse program before she's even considered for visiting the kids. Don't let her visit without supervision.

  • @hattimounattimou8258
    @hattimounattimou825824 күн бұрын

    "you are reminded that you have children other than your wife" 💀💀💀

  • @Mara_Jade-Skywalker
    @Mara_Jade-Skywalker15 күн бұрын

    I only got to the title of the second story. Bro did NOT pull punches.

  • @laurelrhodes744
    @laurelrhodes74424 күн бұрын

    S3: it’s crazy how some of these posts start out seemingly so petty, but then turn into a dumpster fire. The compliments towards the son’s cooking was probably the straw that broke the camel’s back on some bigger issues. The wife’s friend is the biggest villain in the story though. Wife’s actions are inexcusable, but would she have done it without the “friend” whispering in her ear?

  • @l.b.9522
    @l.b.952224 күн бұрын

    Personally I believe in forgiving and forgetting, forgive the people/person so they are released from my mind. Then forgetting about them and moving on with my life without them in it.

  • @m.c.9419
    @m.c.941913 күн бұрын

    Story 1 - I'll give her extra points for choosing to pull this stunt on op's birthday so he'll never enjoy another birthday for years without remembering the day his "family" kicked him out and abandoned him. Poor op. At least not everyone was against him. I don't know if I could force myself to see those douchebags but forgiveness? Ooof. Op's brother has audacity in bulk to pull the family card on op after what they put him through. Their cries would have pissed me off more than their apologies. Story 2 - This op sounds like his mom dropped him on the soft spot when he was an infant. The double standard hypocrisy is outstandingly disgusting but not as op trying to pretend he's a regretful dad after saying to his daughter's face he wished she'd never been born. That bridge is completely nuked. I also love all of the excuses op has made for marrying someone barely out of high school. She only chose to be with op because she's an inexperienced idiot. Op is a freaking predator. I really hope his wife has an epiphany she can still do better at her age. I "love" that op sounded so desperate for reconciliation but that didn't matter to him as much as getting laid. Story 3 - NTA. Op's ex-wife is legitimately a psychopath. Op may need to monitor his daughter so she doesn't follow her mom's self destructive path. The timing of when she got those divorce papers is completely irrelevant. She would have reacted the same way because she's the kind of woman that doesn't want to go back to either living with her parents or downgrading to an apartment and a minimum wage job.

  • @Vikashar
    @Vikashar21 күн бұрын

    Never go in against a Sicilian when cooking is on the line!

  • @Nikcel72
    @Nikcel7213 күн бұрын

    Story 2: he called his daughter's fiance a boy, but says his child bride is an adult. The irony. I hope this is fake.

  • @justinballou2203
    @justinballou220311 күн бұрын

    People don't seem to realize that false SA accusations are just as evil if not more so than actual SA, and defending the false accuser is just as bad as defending actual SAer. not only that, automatically siding with the accuser is in fact a form of betrayal. It should be understandable (if not completely justified) why the man is unable to forgive.

  • @MichaelJEngelmann
    @MichaelJEngelmann24 күн бұрын

    Wow. I’m totally not surprised the age gap marriage story, I’m not surprised they married months in. It’s almost like all these older men know the younger will leave them so they entrap them in marriage. It’s not as easy to leave. And you can still catch the younger in that honeymoon phase when they’re dating.

  • @markanthony1004
    @markanthony100419 күн бұрын

    Story 1: Anybody accuse our sons or daughters of something like this the last thing me and my wife are going to do is just outright believe the accuser without solid evidence. Now if real evidence is presented then they can deal with the consequences on their own. Other than that prove it

  • @Sg190th
    @Sg190th24 күн бұрын

    Why is the aunt encouraging to forgive and forget? Sure, forgiving just to let go that pain. But you never forget and reconnect with those who believe a person over their own flesh and blood IN SAID FLESH'S BIRTHDAY! I mean, I doubt this story is real anyway. 10:30 Yes, you aren't a pedo. However, you are old enough to be her dad. That's weird.

  • @SenatiaA

    @SenatiaA

    24 күн бұрын

    She is not telling him to let them go but to move on and keep living his best life.

  • @Sg190th

    @Sg190th

    24 күн бұрын

    ​@@SenatiaAIn that case, then I agree with the aunt.

  • @Fangroth

    @Fangroth

    19 күн бұрын

    I honestly hope you are right and that this story is fake. It's painful and I don't want it to be truth. OP family basically burned 🔥 the bridge between them by believing someone outside the family over him and now they expect him to forgive and forget ? Nope. What goes around comes around they should have the same kind of forgiveness they gave OP when he need it: 0.

  • @mt8956
    @mt89564 күн бұрын

    Fucked up So he never found out why the wife was acting all strange

  • @IzzyPR2010
    @IzzyPR20103 күн бұрын

    No one mentioned that the young wife might have screwed OP on purpose just to make him late for his meeting with his daughter? He's still a douche regardless, I mean he didn't care about his daughter until he heard she was getting married and then he wanted to make up in order so that he could walk her down the aisle but he blew that. Saying he wished she was never born pretty much blew any future chances, you can't walk back from that.

  • @morganleanderblake678
    @morganleanderblake67824 күн бұрын

    last story has got to be some sort of brain tumor/latent mental health thing.

  • @muhammadbadawi1454
    @muhammadbadawi145424 күн бұрын

    S2: sounds like a rage bait but if it's not I don't know why he's upset for not walking her down the isle? Didn't he already walk his new wife down the isle?

  • @MrsSerene
    @MrsSerene24 күн бұрын

    Story 3, "I didn't say anything as my wife and I never argue.", it's good that he didn't start a fight infront of the children and what a terrible wife/mother

  • @markthomson1816
    @markthomson181622 күн бұрын

    2nd story needs chris hansen asap

  • @KDawg92801
    @KDawg9280122 күн бұрын

    Story 2: I’m 22 years old and I’m still a kid at heart

  • @deadite3879
    @deadite387921 күн бұрын

    My goodness even if your kid did as someone its never a good idea to fisown them like that. If you do all your doing is removing any suport system that could help pull them up from that behavior.

  • @chromonose
    @chromonose22 күн бұрын

    2nd is just wtf did i just heard?? 18 years old.

  • @dontaiignis5046
    @dontaiignis504610 күн бұрын

    Story 1 is sad but im with op they didn't even hear him out. Story 2 op is the worst in pretty much every way and 100% groomed his wife. Story 3 op is definitely doing the right thing with leaving her she will only get worse

  • @crypticscriber276
    @crypticscriber27614 күн бұрын

    Adelaide represent!

  • @ambientwishwalker8908
    @ambientwishwalker890817 күн бұрын

    17:01 Damn it might be hard being that woman's son . But atleast dad's there to keep things alright.

  • @yaelius_pnglife
    @yaelius_pnglife6 күн бұрын

    Second story is awful. What a terrible father.

  • @justinianandtheboys998
    @justinianandtheboys9983 сағат бұрын

    2nd story keeps on getting worse and worse

  • @9LiveEmpire
    @9LiveEmpire23 күн бұрын

    erf i would have like to know why the girl decide to accused OP of SA in the first one >

  • @lazallewillemse3617
    @lazallewillemse361724 күн бұрын

    S1: It's good not to crawl back to the people who believed an outsider over one of their own. They disowned him back then and now have the nerve to play the family card. Good riddance to bad rubbish S2: Shouldn't have given the father another chance. Maybe I'm wrong but could it be that the wife deliberately sabotaged his chance to reconcile with his daughter? Doesn't seem like sounds sad about losing his last chance though. He's probably gonna whine again when his wife leaves him for someone else S3: the stupid friends say the wife is too good for him. I say OP is too good for her. Some men probably wouldn't bother to save the marriage but he did. He tried to save their marriage and she blew it. She can cry, beg and scream all she wants. There's no coming back from what she did

  • @AdubsVAmeep
    @AdubsVAmeep24 күн бұрын

    You posted the second story already

  • @user-gn5op7pi1k
    @user-gn5op7pi1k24 күн бұрын

    The third story I wish I could meet the son if he's older than 15

  • @jazzie-sanbelle99
    @jazzie-sanbelle9922 күн бұрын

    S1 nta keep nc S2 just let go ,lc and suggest family therapy after a while and acknowledge how much you hurt her S3 nta go lc until she catches some idea of the toxicity you choose not live with

  • @pauldavisjr.3284
    @pauldavisjr.328420 күн бұрын

    So let me get this right second op. Your wife is a grown woman yet your future son-in-law who is approximately the same age as your wife is a boy.

  • @ianmoritzplatapino3684
    @ianmoritzplatapino368424 күн бұрын

    Story 1 op should've told his ex family 22 years too late

  • @barneytaylor9338
    @barneytaylor93384 күн бұрын

    Story 2. Question. Was the ex an ex before or after his relationship with his child bride started.

  • @RashidAli-fb3se
    @RashidAli-fb3se23 күн бұрын

    story 2: i tried to be understanding of op but he still made me mad at him near the end of of story 2 he is the Ahole

  • @RashidAli-fb3se

    @RashidAli-fb3se

    23 күн бұрын

    op marrying his wife 18 I could move around that and also marrying her in spite of his daughter and ex-wife's opinion I could work with that although the daughter opinion matters but ops ex-wife opinion doesn't matter he was right until he told his daughter who was coping with his marriage somewhat and needed time to get used to it that he wished she was never born and ignoring her and also being late to the meeting just to bang his wife he just had to ruin in it and thus in the end my verdict was op was the ahole

  • @devanjohnson3560
    @devanjohnson356013 күн бұрын

    Idk how i feel about the second story cuz yeah its an 18 yo with a 43 yo which legally yeah its fine but not morally at all now idk about the other tjings said tho like him banging the teen before she was 18 like where did they get that from? And also its very possible they really did meet at his house meeting his daughter now everything else he did was fucked and was playing victim when he literally fucked the one day he had to reconcile up, now i judge the old dude but not as harshly as the others since the girls 18 and can make her own decisions and if dating an old man makes her happy, good for her ig, i mean you do see a lot of older woman barely im their twenties doing the exact same thing with no backlash, as i said im not going to defend everthing else he did but pulling out random accusations out of there ass like him molesting the girl b4 she turned 18 as we have no proof wether he did or didnt

  • @devanjohnson3560

    @devanjohnson3560

    13 күн бұрын

    Also many youmg woman wether 18 or in their twenties might choose to date older men due to maturity and to be lead on what to do in life and whats to be expected

  • @itsremychestopstairin2497
    @itsremychestopstairin24978 күн бұрын

    She wasn’t a minor I would have looked at it differently she was 18 i gagged like whet?🤔

  • @boneymeroney2674
    @boneymeroney267424 күн бұрын

    I still ❤the countdown tunes.😊

  • @jansdavisbelerts1196
    @jansdavisbelerts11964 күн бұрын

    2nd story op is very delusional and selfish

  • @user-kv2dz5cz1q
    @user-kv2dz5cz1q24 күн бұрын

    Last one. Dump that 304

  • @tioraytm
    @tioraytm11 күн бұрын

    S2 - No you should have mended your relationship with your daughter big time the moment you said what you did. But you should have not got involved with your daughters friend without taking it very slowly and talking at length with your daughter with the option of stopping if your daughter could not handle it, or not. I honestly don't know but stopping it I think would have been the best decision but again I just don't know. Worlds have collided and you stepped over a huge boundary. Also you are not a child molester or a groomer but just should have not got involved with her friend. That is just stupid comments. I get it. I am almost 54 and I still get 19 year old's trying to date me but I have not touched a woman for almost 10 years. For me women of any age will try to get with any guy no matter their age if they think you have money. When asked why I don't have a GF I tell women I am already sick and tired of my next gf's crap which is the truth.

  • @georgeprchal3924
    @georgeprchal392423 күн бұрын

    Is the second person Jada Smith?

  • @deadsouljaguar7041
    @deadsouljaguar704124 күн бұрын

    I don't know if I could continue listening to story 2 without having a disgust look on my face. OP is a fricking predator. Edit: Nah, I can't listen to it anymore. I'm gonna skipped to the third story

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