“DO IT FOR DAN” strikes again, ladies and gents😂😂😂😂😂

@cameron765

Ай бұрын

Do it for Dan is the meme of these channels

@DiamondBlock-kc8oz

Ай бұрын

what is do it for dan? been coming across this phrase a lot recently

@fuckthisshitagain

Ай бұрын

Do it for Dan is Inspirational aight 🤣

@cameron765

Ай бұрын

@@DiamondBlock-kc8oz It's a story where the family crap on one son and in priorities the second son Dan in the story because Dan was the favorite it's a 1h story

@parthpatankar5655

Ай бұрын

​@DiamondBlock-kc8oz it's a Very popular reddit saga abt the op's family trying to give his house to his brother The op is u/camper_nomad

hold on wtf?? So OP's dad would have done the same for OP but kicked him out of the house???? Bruh the hypocrisy

@Olimar92

Ай бұрын

Not hypocrisy, Dad was lying.

@C.G.Gaster

Ай бұрын

The guy was just trying to make op soften up to convince op that they should help.

@Ramen_Kenpo

Ай бұрын

What is op

@Maninawig

Ай бұрын

Honestly, he is either lying or that far up his own butt that he became delusional enough to believe his words.

@TheOtherNamesWereTaken123

Ай бұрын

​@@Ramen_Kenpo original poster

If OP confessed to using the money for college, 100% dear ol' dad an Derek would have made him pay their boss.

@jakeryan4545

Ай бұрын

That's the only thing I could think of for Dad and Derek's actions to make any sense. Like OP, to me it seemed like a really weird and overly complicated solution to a problem with way easier ways to solve it. Like you have a new born son/grandson. I feel like saying that your new born son/grandson is starving is just as good of an excuse as stealing money to pay for a kids college. Even with the fact that apparently the boss knew the mother and I guess knew that the grandson wasn't biologically the mom's.

@domvasta

Ай бұрын

But would that have been believable at all after the way his Dad had treated him? "Hi Boss, I risked my job, my son's job and jailtime to steal money from you, so I could pay for college for the other son that I psychologically abused and kicked out before his 18th birthday because he was taking up space that I wanted to house my grandson and that was inconvenient for me, but here he is to confirm that story"

@domvasta

Ай бұрын

In a situation like that, to avoid getting a criminal record, I'd take out a second mortgage to pay off the debt, clear my own name and try and get my job back and get a written agreement from the son who stole the money that he will pay me back in full plus the interest and confess that he was doing it all on his own.

@sarahmarie1986

Ай бұрын

​@@domvasta But how would the mother's friend even know any of that? To him the kid might just have gone away for college, was maybe even ungrateful to his father, who was still willing to risk his livelyhood for his late wife's ungrateful son.

The rare one where the child from the previous relationship is prized over the child from the new relationship.

@b4amg

Ай бұрын

this isn’t rare lmao💀 this is usually how it goes in these Reddit stories

@SweetLikeChocolate1101

Ай бұрын

In most Reddit stories, it's normally the child from the new relationship prized over the one from the old

@VladimirE.-is2ee

Ай бұрын

That's because I'm pretty sure OP is the kid of that CEO. I mean, he even came to his mother's funeral? And offered him a job offhand when on a random phonecall?

*Won't Somebody Please Think Of Dan!?*

@katheryntalbot6679

Ай бұрын

One of my favorites

@SenseiRaisen

Ай бұрын

"Do it for Dan" became a meme among this type of stories now. But also give a leverage to tell the experience of people who went through the same kind of bs. I had a semi "do it for dan" type of story but in a less degree, but for a cousin ... who i also refuse and my parents has like a "come to Jesus" moment just instantly after refuse and said my reasons. My parents want to gift PC parts i have from my old repair service to a cousin who was a jerk and a bum (now day he turn this around after had some fall down with his ex). I didn't, because i profit from those parts. Even more when he stole my AV cable from my PS2 in the past. I point out that very thing and remind them that "despite the PC was use by my godson too, he still hoard it in the past". They semi-got mad at the begin but i ask them one question: "would to you prefer to do the same for my bum of an aunt (his mother), who didn't do anything else but complain about us and negligent my cousins?" ... my mother kinda stare in silent at me for a moment before realize what i mean with that. Also one of the moment i genuinely had the "Money" excuse everytime i had the "what cost you?" excuse bs my mother spit, and her realizing why i keep those PC parts. Now day with inflation economy she is glad i said "money" as an answer for why i don't do "X thing" to someone. Down the line, that same PC went to my godson who has ADHD. And to him i don't had problem to repair his PC for free and gift any part he need in case of repair.

@vanzy01

Ай бұрын

😂

@mountainman5173

4 күн бұрын

LMAO I was thinking the SAME THING 🤣🤣🤣🤣

I actually laughed out loud when the dad said they would've helped OP out. We all know he wouldn't lift a finger.

@suryave

Ай бұрын

Not lift a finger?? They would testify against OP and try their absolute hardest to give OP the harshest sentence

@mantelumgamingloilol123

Ай бұрын

@@suryavewhat sentence? Op wasn’t the one who stole

@suryave

Ай бұрын

@@mantelumgamingloilol123 I never OP stole anything, I am saying they would 100% fram OP and try their best to get OP convicted on false charges

@mantelumgamingloilol123

Ай бұрын

@@suryave oh

It's really sad when the best thing the father could've done for his son is kicking him out...

Wow. This could easily be me and my family. My older brother was the golden child and dad bought him houses and cars. Never did anything for me but abuse me and beat me. Treated me coldly. I shed no tears when my dad died

@wickedashley

Ай бұрын

Same sorta. Except my mom hated both my brother and I. Now she is confused when we both don’t want anything to do with her… like you were a tyrant and abused us both. Why would we want anything to do with you???

@dcg590

Ай бұрын

Have you done a dna test? Mom might have some explaining to do. And she’s just as bad for allowing you to be treated poorly. I’m sorry.

@joet7136

Ай бұрын

Don't blame ya. I wouldn't either in the same position.

@Gumbier_Than

Ай бұрын

You're surrounded by much better folks now right? So much better your shared-blood strifers aren't even worth mentioning? 🥺

The fact that the dad an Ops hald brother knew why he said no without him saying it speaks volumes. They knew they were wrong. Good for OP fir standing firm.

@sammyf0x

Ай бұрын

Yes, and still they never apologize, just staight up demand OP to lie.

@ryueditx

Ай бұрын

The spelling mistakes are killing me

@christopherbull7856

Ай бұрын

Op should told his mums friend that they begging him to lie for them.

The fact op felt guilty, despite how he was treated so horribly, makes me think they have slight stockholm syndrome

@andrewryan4417

Ай бұрын

or just a good conscience. After all, the abuser is still flesh and blood.

So he said he won't help because their criminal's and they think he is the asshole even tho they are literal criminal's, narcissistic people are a special breed

@domvasta

Ай бұрын

Well the Dad isn't necessarily a criminal, just an abusive asshole of a parent who is trying to throw his other child under the bus to try to save the child who jumped in front of the bus.

Just because you have someone’s dna that doesn’t make them a parent. A parent would care about their children.

What a surprise the brat who got away with everything when he was a kid, thought he could get away with everything as an adult and still kinda does considering he’s begging his brother to help him and thinks it’ll work

Both are going to runaway. Blaming Op for everything

Im disgusted at the mindset of "We're family only if convenient for ME"

That Last Line Made me Emotional 🥹

Actions Have Consequences.

Truly a "Do it for Dan!" Special

@stkfoods8754

Күн бұрын

Before anyone says anything…I would like to announce that this was a dare👆👆so do not think of anything much

Man, it would've been a good plot twist if Derek's mother saw what OP was going through and changed her heart for the better to be a good mother figure for OP.

Both should go to jail, NOPE, not your problem. It's called integrity must have gotten that from your Mom. Forget these people, NTA, cut ties. Block access to social media, phones, etc

Accusing OP of "ruining their lives" because he "has a grudge". Lmao, no, you ruined your own life by committing a crime, dude! 😂😂

Damn......Dirty Dan Schneider strikes again.

I guess the main lesson from this story is to not take people for granted, and above all else, never 🔥 bridges unnecessarily, because you never know when you might need to cross them.

His mom sounded like an amazing lady and in death, her kindness is still felt

For such a young man he’s so mature and logical about everything

I’m very curious about what the police would have actually done if the dad had called the cops trying to get OP out of the house. OP was under 18 still so the dad would be calling the cops in an attempt to get them to help him neglect his own kid. Unless the dad made up a story about violence or something I don’t think that would go how he wants.

Another "DO IT FOR DAN"

@Gumbier_Than

Ай бұрын

I remember that story. 😂

op should have said "as you told me when i was little, suck it up and deal with it, that is what boys do"

They made their bed and now have to lay in it.

Jesus christ, the dad and brother are selfish and stupid. The boss is incredibly lenient and generous in not taking legal action for a couple of MONTHS to give them time to pay back the money, and they are still trying to weasel out of it.

Well I can't say the father and the brother didn't deserve what they're getting. I mean seriously they were given a job and they decide to steal from it? also I agree with op! if the money hasn't been spent just give it back! plus what's op going to do? just because he No the CEO doesn't mean he can suddenly make the Debt go away! that's up to the CEO. and they really expect him to do anything for them after the way they treated him his entire life? They really deserve what they're getting.

@pamlew338

Ай бұрын

No, they deserve OP getting them to text or say there little plan then giving the text or tape to the CEO. Then testify because the only relationship he'll ever have with them is being used and abused then thrown away

@sirmatsdubois2509

Ай бұрын

@@pamlew338 Definitely. but I think he's taking the High Road by staying out of it. they're already in enough trouble as it is. plus it would be much easier for op to just clean his hands of them and leave them behind. you know like they like to do with him

@TowaruTsura

Ай бұрын

They can't pay it back. Money is gone. I don't believe the sob story for a second, they stole from that job and blew the money on something stupid, assuming it wouldn't get missed.

I would've said "Womp womp" And hung up 😂✌🏾🤷🏽‍♀

It is always the grandparents that back them up they are goated fr

I'm just glad OP got a happy ending from this via the internship/job offer, and from the very employer that dad and "golden child" tried to scam. I really do hope that they both go to jail for their actions.

NTA, they can pay back the money Derek stole or dad can lose his job (he will anyway), Derek can be charged with embezzlement and go to jail. Derek's with won't be able to be a stay at home Mom, she'll have to vet a job.

Am I the only one thinking the his “uncle” could actually be his father. But she didn’t want to say anything because side she was truly in love with his “dad.” So, his dad resented him for exaisting because he thought OP may not be his child.

Honestly if im op i would call the moms friend and tell him everything about the " dad" and how much they "messed with op" and how much they're trying to mentally abuse op now and how theyre trying to emotionally blackmail op.. spill everything.. " i dont want a dad in jail" thats a good statement if he actually was your dad he wouldnt have booted you out just because....

What a spineless guy. He had the golden opportunity to completely shut it down and still gave them the easier way out. He should have called the employer, explain the situation and if he gets another word of contact he would call the cops himself. Or he could have called the cops and told them not only did his father and brother commit embezzlement, they’re actively harassing him to commit fraud. Get ahead of it before they have a chance to spin the story otherwise and lied to the cops.

Man I feel so bad foe the OP like how can someone do this to there own son. Like reslly and the nerve of this guy using that to try win over his son. Like please good for OP to stay clear

Ummmm no. Stay outta it cuz you'll go down with them. Also, you're probably right and I believe that lie won't fly. It's their mess not yours

If I were OP, I would have 4 words for dad and Derek: "Don't drop the soap." I would also tell mom's friend how they asked him to lie for them and say the money was for his college...

12:08 I got no words, there's so much wrong with this. Stealing from the company that took you in when you had no work, that your own wife/mother was friends with the owner, and you dare demand the child you threw to the wolves to bail you out? Lmao, just fucking wow.

They deserve to go to jail....you dont owe them nothing

Family... I love how people think that word entitles them to absolution from the people's lives they ruin. Bonus points for anyone who knows where that quote is from.

@kristashafer93098

Ай бұрын

It’s from Yellowstone, S2 E3, Reek of Desperation. Beth said it to Jamie.

THE AUDACITY?? THE AUDACITY!!!

If OP is 6 years younger than his half-brother how can OP and his half-brother be in the same building at any point?

@christinesavage4837

Ай бұрын

Middle school & high school often share a building.

16:00 bro was struggling for whole 2 minutes XD

I would call the family friend and make sure your position is known. Revenge may be a “dish served cold” but, it also tastes good.

Is nobody gonna talk about how OP's mom died and then all of a sudden was present at his half-brother's wedding??

@aplaszc

Ай бұрын

this! whoever the moron is that makes these ai stories should at least proofread cause they're getting more and more unbelievable

You don't deserve all the pain If What matters in your Own hands is Everyone's trouble.

If their house is paid for, then dad should think about a 2nd mortgage.

So they abused you relentlessly and then expected you to lie to get them out of the hole they dug? Yeah hell no, if the company finds out you lied to saved them you could go to jail with them

The dad is a cruel piece of trash and so is the son. They have the absolute nerve to demand help from op after years of abuse. It wasn’t just “messing them around”. Op shouldn’t feel guilty. The father and half brother did this to themselves.

I would have ignored them completely.

"I was supposed to start college in a couple of weeks and that was already going to be taken care of." Okay. By whom? The maternal grandparents? A trust left by the mother? He's pretty vague on this point. Regardless, I don't understand how this cover story was supposed to make any kind of difference in their predicament. If you steal money and then use that stolen money to buy a present for someone else, that doesn't make the recipient of the present responsible for stealing and/or paying back the money. Were they hoping to somehow manipulate the situation so that the payback money would be taken from OP's college fund? Was that even possible? And if he had a college fund to take from, wouldn't that clearly demonstrate that there was no need to steal money for his college in the first place? There's no actual plan in this plan.

@Olimar92

Ай бұрын

I don't see why the source of the college fund means anything. It's just a nugget to say "They are lying, and I know that." The point of the lie was to try and get the CEO to give them more time to pay back what was stolen. They already had a couple months to try and pay back the debt without the Lawsuit, but they wanted more time. Why? obviously because Derek has already spent the money and it will take more time for them to try and get the money to repay the debt.

@zardox78

Ай бұрын

@@Olimar92 It means something if the plan was to eventually take from that college fund to pay back the money. If it was in a trust, then presumably no one could touch it, maybe not even with OP's say-so. If it was just coming from the grandparents, the same restrictions might not apply, but _they_ would be the ones who needed to be convinced to help. If more time was the one and only motivation for telling this lie, then what's the point in involving OP at all? How should he know where his loving and generous half-brother was getting all this money from? They didn't need his blessing just to lie about it. He wouldn't have even known any of this was going on if they hadn't alerted him to it. And why would they assume that a sob story would add any time to their deadline?

No see I wouldn't trust them not to lie, so I would've reached out to the employer who was my mom's friend and told him EVERYTHING and then begged to just press charges, that they need the wake up call.

I’d reach through the internet and slap the OP if he agreed to that asinine plan. Receiving stolen goods is a crime. Not KNOWINGLY receiving, just receiving them at all. So by agreeing that they did that “to help with his college” would not have been a wholesome thing to warm the boss’ heart, it would have opened the door for that company to sue all three of them. And since the OP has money for college they would have seized those assets, broken the required amount down three ways and as soon as the brother and father found their thirds, the OP would be trash floating on the wind again. Remember kids; when someone says “quick, tell them you were part of our crime” you reply with a laugh then walk away.

Op actually is giving his mother too much grace bc she allowed the abuse to go on.

You are doing the right thing don't get involved in their BS plus they were horrible to you your entire life the only reason they reached out to you is to save their sorry busts period

I’d say “Don’t drop the soap,” and start laughing.

Sounds fake. Way to similar to another story also involving the parents and getting kicked out, having their sister moved in with the baby occupying OP's room instead of the guess room and having grandparents involved. Only difference was the mom didn't die, sister didn't moved in with bf in the end, OP moved to aunt's house, parent's chewed out by the aunt once found out, grandparents threaten parent's inheritance, sister reached out to apologized for never doing anything to stop the abuse happening.

12:00 why do people in these stories always say the “only reason they haven’t been sued”when this is a criminal offense? you report someone to the police for and later you file the civil lawsuit once they’ve been guilty makes it so much easier

@TowaruTsura

Ай бұрын

Yea, they wouldn't be going to jail either.

No. The father already proved he would not be there for his younger son by kicking him out before he was a legal adult. No contract was made for people like this.

It seems like OP of this story inherited all of the brain cells and common sense and even the HEART that his father never once used.

Dad: You're not bringing any money back home so suck it up and do your chores. OP: Tell thst to your Fave son, DAD

Well, isn't this the consequences of my own actions. Op's dad and his brother are terrible human beings.

Lol let them both rot in jail.

I’d say accept the offer, go to the office with them and when they finish up the made up story of stealing money for you.. just deny it in front of the boss .. be petty.. let them have it .. will save you from them constantly trying to provoke you to help them out ..

Nah i would call my lawyer for mistreating a child then live with my awsome grandma

It’s weird that OP’s dad thinks that OP would be inclined towards friendliness, except for being angry about whatever. But… OP is fundamentally indifferent, unless there’s some kind of reason for him to give a fuck. And at no point have either of them done anything to warrant that kind of friendliness. The kindest thing he had to say about Derek is that Derek didn’t pick on him for a whole day, on Derek’s wedding day. So unless dad and/or Derek can cite ANY example of a reason OP should exert any effort at all… OP won’t do shit.

Thats wome of the craziest gaslighting ever.

If he is six years younger than his older brother how the heck did they go to middle school together? Did the brother fail middle school for six years straight? 😂

@mrFiiSKiiS

Ай бұрын

Plots are hard for these poor creative writers. Six year age difference, went to middle and high school together. Tried to explain to them, but doesn't know the difference between civil and criminal court. Tries to make himself the victim, but writes himself as such an insufferable prick that I want to pick on him.

@Olimar92

Ай бұрын

Middle and High School were in the same building.

@phasorthunder1157

Ай бұрын

It looks like it was a combined Middle School / High School.

@smsff7

Ай бұрын

Middle/highschool were in the same building

@xirochamber5863

Ай бұрын

@@Olimar92 so he meant to say he went to a jr high school not middle school/ highschool.

dad: son you gotta help us we're going to go to jail! son: i miss the part where thats my problem.

I really want to know what happened to his family

Didn’t want to share his dads love? Well now he will be getting a lot of loving from big Bubba in jail 😂

Im guessing if they had gotten OP in on their play they would hsve thrown him under the bus in a heart beat

Another "Do it for dan" Spinoff

Do not help people out on something that large. Because if you do help them out they will instantaneously throw you under the bus again

If OP had agreed to lie then they may have pulled from his tuition money to pay back the debt when the father and brother inevitably don't return the money and the CEO sues to get the money back

istg if my dad would threaten to call cops on me i will hold a grudge foreverrrr..... like i am sure i would have acted petty and convinced the ceo to file lawsuit againt dad and bro by telling him the full story just to get back

Really confused on the mom timeline. She dies and comes back to life for the wedding??

"you are only doing this because we treated you badly when you were younger" duh, like, obviously. Before I started to get into reddit stories I used to think my family is complicated, but no more, after hearing this tales I now believe I have a very well structured and loving family composed by normal people that have common sense.

9:55 he can't kick you out without notice you've had resistance for q8 years he needs to evict you through proper channels, the cops won't do shit, you could scream threats, bring drugs into the house, mo e in a gf, the cops won't do shit until you overstay the eviction notice.

8:18 "Despite her condition" Yeah, being dead is quite a serious condition.... No one thinks these stories are real, right?

Waaaaaah i feel guilty for not helping people who treated me like shit my entire life Waaaaaah

My situation isn’t as bad as that, and my parents have helped me out at times, tho most times with some sort of recompense, but my bro is definitely the golden child and gets everything he wants and treats my parents like crap even tho he’s older than me, over 40yo, married with 3 kids and still lives at home with mom and dad… the hypocrisy is real people and it sucks. Thankfully I have my grandma to help me like OP had his. Hope things work out for him and his dad and bro get what they deserve in the end

"I'd hate to have a father in jail". The thing is, OP wouldn't have a father in jail. They'd have a selfish, enabling jackass in jail who's such a coward they try to have other people get him and his rusted golden child son out of trouble. No love lost there.

The op wasn’t petty enough

Ops mom really should have gotten her kid out of that environment way before now. I get loving your spouse but if they're hurting your kid you need to ditch them.

I seriously doubt the story happened. OP could have sued them both for abuse and neglect and won.

dude congrates for the job

Dad: please son, I don’t want to go to prison Me: well I didn’t want to be picked on for years and later kicked out just because of favoritism but here we are

both of em should rot in jail

If he folded and helped them he’d be the biggest idiot

“Do it for Dan” ahh story

We should make a chatgpt story bingo card for these.

Dad:suck it up When I fight back Dad: Oi mate what’s that for grounded Me so u tell me to suck it up but not him Ight bet

In what universe can a lawsuit cause you to go prison ?????

Wait? How many years was this kids elementary school that he was going there with a dude six years older than him?

must be related to dan and his family