I just needed space? Then you step out You do not kick your postpartum wife out along with the baby
@anonmouse15
3 ай бұрын
He's got the stock standard "anxiety" defence, though.
@jsb15853 ай бұрын
If you needed space, why not go for a walk, sleep in separate beds, or put matters on hold until you were ready to discuss what had happened? Kicking your wife out of her own house after she responded to years of provocations from MIL was such a major fumble.
@Heydodoakskdkdjf
3 ай бұрын
I was gonna say that. Asking for space doesn’t mean kicking out the LITERAL VICTIM of the violence that he claims triggered him. Oh, he’s triggered? Then he can manage it like a grown adult without compromising the emotional and physical safety of his wife. What a pathetic excuse of a man.
@MommahKat
2 ай бұрын
Yea like his partner had just been fucking ASSAULTED and she honestly had more to fuckin process at that time than he did who wasn't even there for the whole thing. She needed his comfort and attention as she processed shit in that moment but he was selfish and made it all about himself instead of his partner who was attacked.
@francinetitherington4060
2 ай бұрын
Good on her getting away from this thoroughly untrustworthy excuse of a husband. She deserves far better.
@Nerdbookworm3 ай бұрын
“I’m not covering for my mom” *proceeds to cover for his mom in every possible way
@boneymeroney26743 ай бұрын
2nd story. The wife's update was perfect.
@low-keydrama12603 ай бұрын
2nd story: No matter how much OP pleads and tries for reconciliation, it’ll never undo that sort of betrayal the ex and her baby went through. They were kicked out because the ex was defending herself due to BEING ASSAULTED FIRST. HE didn’t even hesitate and kicked her and their newborn baby out of their home. Ex will never be able to unlive that. Hope she’s living her best life
@TheNijikazegirl
Ай бұрын
Well now he can just go back to mommy for the rest of her life...cause that is all he is good for now.
@boneymeroney26743 ай бұрын
1st story. It smelled like drugs before the spoons in the bathroom.😢
@anonmouse15
3 ай бұрын
"Eu tu, junkie?"
@H4V3N
3 ай бұрын
@@anonmouse15Another reason why Jenkem is based
@southernflight50783 ай бұрын
How does a normal personal take time to think things over? You go for a walk or you spend the night on the couch or in the guest bedroom. You do not kick out your spouse. That woman is doing right by herself with that divorce.
@dakotasan87193 ай бұрын
Man, if it were me, David would be needing a mortician, not a doctor.
@denis3208
3 ай бұрын
I'm glad I'm not the only one that feels that way
@cavey0013 ай бұрын
S1: Sounds like mom made a string of errors in her life. Mother of the year, there. /s
@pawel26693 ай бұрын
The husband story. He has proven that he handles difficult situations as well as a landmine. If i was his wife, i would be scared to leave my child with him, worried that if a chihuahua rushes towards him, he might throw the baby at it and run away,
@TheNijikazegirl
Ай бұрын
If he has any kind of visitation it needs to be supervised at all times.
@elkeweiss78973 ай бұрын
I want the wife in story 2 to get an award for defending herself.
@lindsay19893 ай бұрын
Story 2. Good for the wife. OP f’ed up big time
@JoeJoe0o3 ай бұрын
2nd story dude is completely the AH.. he really put out a freshly abused woman who just had a baby because he was in his fee fees
@candaceowens4553 ай бұрын
Tell you mom that letting her boyfriend abuse her son is as bad as her getting abused as a kid
@dipalikhodke79263 ай бұрын
Lol op got karma 😂
@juliearmfield26343 ай бұрын
He wanted her to leave so he could have some space.. Well she gave him what he ask for. The lesson from this story. " be careful what you wish for you might just get it"
@supertrinaturalilostmyshoe46842 ай бұрын
Oh my God the fact that he kicked her out is a big no-no. You don’t kick your wife out unless she’s a threat to you or your baby, but she wasn’t a threat to you or your baby. She only defended herself against your mother big whoop. she punched your mom. She’ll get over it. She’ll heal but now you’ve lost a wife good job bro, two OP oh my goodness of the year award goes to not that guy
@emileelewis46672 ай бұрын
The part in the 2nd story that piss me of the most. Is that the husband keeps saying that he " can't handle violence," but it was only triggering to him was the wife punching the mother?? Even when the mom slap her belly so hard, everyone could hear it? And he even down played the slap when he first explained it. Absolute bastured He shows just how much he sides with mommy still!
@sweeety969
29 күн бұрын
I'm still mad at them for putting the niece on the spot in their stories. They didn't need to go on about her weight and eating habits like that. Felt like OP was almost trying to blame her being hungry for this all happening. Even if he wasn't what was the point of fatshaming her on the internet?
@jazzie-sanbelle993 ай бұрын
2nd story op needs to be in NC with his mother and go to therapy with his wife,.
@LD-bj4xc
3 ай бұрын
He isn’t deserving of the chance to change in his wife’s eyes which is tragic since having a happy family is best, but can you blame her?To be honest if I was her I would have gave him a chance but I’m not her so I don’t really know
@LD-bj4xc
3 ай бұрын
Actually nvm I read some more about what he said on Reddit and she 1000% should divorce him,he never really even took accountability or actually tried to think about how his wife felt at all
@RylieRiddle
3 ай бұрын
Yes to NC because emotional Incest is disgusting, but No to the therapy with the wife. She deserves better than this man. He just needs therapy for his trauma but he can do that alone.
@anonmouse15
3 ай бұрын
His mother says "Jump", he says "How high?"
@kaiikuza8863
3 ай бұрын
Wife has a side she said he left out some info
@sa-n-kaАй бұрын
Its funny how hes excuse is "the violence scares me" but have no problem kicking out the victim of the violence. The only think i would said is "your dad must be proud of you" bc OP is the same as his dad
@lynngrant5333 ай бұрын
2nd story - OP, YTA!! You would have received divorce papers from me too. You sir, are a major jerk.
@jemase79313 ай бұрын
Buddy, if you needed space, you needed to take a walk
@JustLilKeko2 ай бұрын
I feel like the people in the first story who had the audacity to message her how horrible she is for not going to the cops or CPS has never been in the system and it shows. Especially considering she mentioned that her younger brother has autism. It's like you're begging for her to put them both in a position where they're abused just separated so they don't even have each other. Assuming this is in America the system we have in place for these kind of things is absolutely trash and completely riddle with abuse and trafficking cases. Is this already let's do the trauma of being in the system one time why would she want to subjugate her brother to this s***. Y'all need to do more research before you go curse out a f****** 17 year old doing her best
@jazzie-sanbelle993 ай бұрын
Sorry but op lc/therapy can fix the overwhelming problems and mom needs it more than op at this point, and I can't try forgiveness without having done this 1st...
@msichanahuzuni3 ай бұрын
It's terrifying how quick people are to call CPS.
@Shmeages2 ай бұрын
Story 2 I get that you needed to process that but kicking your wife out after the way mom was treating her yeah homie ya dug ya own grave
@sweeety96929 күн бұрын
Why is the niece catching strays? None of this was her fault, wtf OP? He really thinks he can scapegoat the fucking kid who's as much as victim of his mom, because if she wasn't hungry none of this would have happened? That shit was inevitable. His mom would have found one way or another to bully his mom. They don't need to shame and shittalk the kid, fuuuuck. If it was actual concern for the kid then they would be discussing it with her parents not talking shit about her behind her back on reddit. I hope the poor kid never finds the damn story.
@llomellamomario2 ай бұрын
2nd story: so, after a year of abuse, she defends herself and your response was to make your wife get out? Just like when a bully finally gets punched, and the principal admonishes the one that defended itself.
@annnichols30913 ай бұрын
Why didn't the husband who felt he needed space take a walk after forcing everyone BUT his wife and baby out of the house????
@poohbear45153 ай бұрын
The second OP kicked his ex out was the moment she finally realized that she wasn’t raising two kids, but three. Mommy’s special boy wanted space? Oh he’s gonna get plenty while ex can live a better life away from him and far away from that garbage in of sh-t.
@jjnix95173 ай бұрын
Op in the second story is completely trash, he should forfeit custody and let his wife move on since he will never be a man.
@ian67373 ай бұрын
That sound like my mom ex husband.
@firegod_27833 ай бұрын
Change the voice for when your reading comments because it got confusing
@kaeyasfavoriteeyepatch59243 ай бұрын
LMAO you don't just get to kick your wife and baby out of their own home because you "need space." What the hell was he thinking? He couldn't just lock himself in a room to cool down? Or walk out to get some fresh air for a few minutes?
@lya96773 ай бұрын
Story 2 If reddit comments were miles/km, OP would have been yeeted out of space
@Barack_Obama03 ай бұрын
Hey Voice second story OP wife made a post her name is u/ThrowAwayWifeNBaby
Пікірлер: 62
I just needed space? Then you step out You do not kick your postpartum wife out along with the baby
@anonmouse15
3 ай бұрын
He's got the stock standard "anxiety" defence, though.
If you needed space, why not go for a walk, sleep in separate beds, or put matters on hold until you were ready to discuss what had happened? Kicking your wife out of her own house after she responded to years of provocations from MIL was such a major fumble.
@Heydodoakskdkdjf
3 ай бұрын
I was gonna say that. Asking for space doesn’t mean kicking out the LITERAL VICTIM of the violence that he claims triggered him. Oh, he’s triggered? Then he can manage it like a grown adult without compromising the emotional and physical safety of his wife. What a pathetic excuse of a man.
@MommahKat
2 ай бұрын
Yea like his partner had just been fucking ASSAULTED and she honestly had more to fuckin process at that time than he did who wasn't even there for the whole thing. She needed his comfort and attention as she processed shit in that moment but he was selfish and made it all about himself instead of his partner who was attacked.
@francinetitherington4060
2 ай бұрын
Good on her getting away from this thoroughly untrustworthy excuse of a husband. She deserves far better.
“I’m not covering for my mom” *proceeds to cover for his mom in every possible way
2nd story. The wife's update was perfect.
2nd story: No matter how much OP pleads and tries for reconciliation, it’ll never undo that sort of betrayal the ex and her baby went through. They were kicked out because the ex was defending herself due to BEING ASSAULTED FIRST. HE didn’t even hesitate and kicked her and their newborn baby out of their home. Ex will never be able to unlive that. Hope she’s living her best life
@TheNijikazegirl
Ай бұрын
Well now he can just go back to mommy for the rest of her life...cause that is all he is good for now.
1st story. It smelled like drugs before the spoons in the bathroom.😢
@anonmouse15
3 ай бұрын
"Eu tu, junkie?"
@H4V3N
3 ай бұрын
@@anonmouse15Another reason why Jenkem is based
How does a normal personal take time to think things over? You go for a walk or you spend the night on the couch or in the guest bedroom. You do not kick out your spouse. That woman is doing right by herself with that divorce.
Man, if it were me, David would be needing a mortician, not a doctor.
@denis3208
3 ай бұрын
I'm glad I'm not the only one that feels that way
S1: Sounds like mom made a string of errors in her life. Mother of the year, there. /s
The husband story. He has proven that he handles difficult situations as well as a landmine. If i was his wife, i would be scared to leave my child with him, worried that if a chihuahua rushes towards him, he might throw the baby at it and run away,
@TheNijikazegirl
Ай бұрын
If he has any kind of visitation it needs to be supervised at all times.
I want the wife in story 2 to get an award for defending herself.
Story 2. Good for the wife. OP f’ed up big time
2nd story dude is completely the AH.. he really put out a freshly abused woman who just had a baby because he was in his fee fees
Tell you mom that letting her boyfriend abuse her son is as bad as her getting abused as a kid
Lol op got karma 😂
He wanted her to leave so he could have some space.. Well she gave him what he ask for. The lesson from this story. " be careful what you wish for you might just get it"
Oh my God the fact that he kicked her out is a big no-no. You don’t kick your wife out unless she’s a threat to you or your baby, but she wasn’t a threat to you or your baby. She only defended herself against your mother big whoop. she punched your mom. She’ll get over it. She’ll heal but now you’ve lost a wife good job bro, two OP oh my goodness of the year award goes to not that guy
The part in the 2nd story that piss me of the most. Is that the husband keeps saying that he " can't handle violence," but it was only triggering to him was the wife punching the mother?? Even when the mom slap her belly so hard, everyone could hear it? And he even down played the slap when he first explained it. Absolute bastured He shows just how much he sides with mommy still!
@sweeety969
29 күн бұрын
I'm still mad at them for putting the niece on the spot in their stories. They didn't need to go on about her weight and eating habits like that. Felt like OP was almost trying to blame her being hungry for this all happening. Even if he wasn't what was the point of fatshaming her on the internet?
2nd story op needs to be in NC with his mother and go to therapy with his wife,.
@LD-bj4xc
3 ай бұрын
He isn’t deserving of the chance to change in his wife’s eyes which is tragic since having a happy family is best, but can you blame her?To be honest if I was her I would have gave him a chance but I’m not her so I don’t really know
@LD-bj4xc
3 ай бұрын
Actually nvm I read some more about what he said on Reddit and she 1000% should divorce him,he never really even took accountability or actually tried to think about how his wife felt at all
@RylieRiddle
3 ай бұрын
Yes to NC because emotional Incest is disgusting, but No to the therapy with the wife. She deserves better than this man. He just needs therapy for his trauma but he can do that alone.
@anonmouse15
3 ай бұрын
His mother says "Jump", he says "How high?"
@kaiikuza8863
3 ай бұрын
Wife has a side she said he left out some info
Its funny how hes excuse is "the violence scares me" but have no problem kicking out the victim of the violence. The only think i would said is "your dad must be proud of you" bc OP is the same as his dad
2nd story - OP, YTA!! You would have received divorce papers from me too. You sir, are a major jerk.
Buddy, if you needed space, you needed to take a walk
I feel like the people in the first story who had the audacity to message her how horrible she is for not going to the cops or CPS has never been in the system and it shows. Especially considering she mentioned that her younger brother has autism. It's like you're begging for her to put them both in a position where they're abused just separated so they don't even have each other. Assuming this is in America the system we have in place for these kind of things is absolutely trash and completely riddle with abuse and trafficking cases. Is this already let's do the trauma of being in the system one time why would she want to subjugate her brother to this s***. Y'all need to do more research before you go curse out a f****** 17 year old doing her best
Sorry but op lc/therapy can fix the overwhelming problems and mom needs it more than op at this point, and I can't try forgiveness without having done this 1st...
It's terrifying how quick people are to call CPS.
Story 2 I get that you needed to process that but kicking your wife out after the way mom was treating her yeah homie ya dug ya own grave
Why is the niece catching strays? None of this was her fault, wtf OP? He really thinks he can scapegoat the fucking kid who's as much as victim of his mom, because if she wasn't hungry none of this would have happened? That shit was inevitable. His mom would have found one way or another to bully his mom. They don't need to shame and shittalk the kid, fuuuuck. If it was actual concern for the kid then they would be discussing it with her parents not talking shit about her behind her back on reddit. I hope the poor kid never finds the damn story.
2nd story: so, after a year of abuse, she defends herself and your response was to make your wife get out? Just like when a bully finally gets punched, and the principal admonishes the one that defended itself.
Why didn't the husband who felt he needed space take a walk after forcing everyone BUT his wife and baby out of the house????
The second OP kicked his ex out was the moment she finally realized that she wasn’t raising two kids, but three. Mommy’s special boy wanted space? Oh he’s gonna get plenty while ex can live a better life away from him and far away from that garbage in of sh-t.
Op in the second story is completely trash, he should forfeit custody and let his wife move on since he will never be a man.
That sound like my mom ex husband.
Change the voice for when your reading comments because it got confusing
LMAO you don't just get to kick your wife and baby out of their own home because you "need space." What the hell was he thinking? He couldn't just lock himself in a room to cool down? Or walk out to get some fresh air for a few minutes?
Story 2 If reddit comments were miles/km, OP would have been yeeted out of space
Hey Voice second story OP wife made a post her name is u/ThrowAwayWifeNBaby