“I was a mum and a wife at 20.” That. Was. Your. Choice. Not your kids’.

@mochs62512

2 жыл бұрын

Seriously. I cant stand that.

@naseemweathers8358

2 жыл бұрын

This is probably the worst mom to ever appear on Dr. Phil she is entitled narcissistic and very selfish

A parent only gets to be "selfish" once their kids are grown and out on their own.

@chloelouise4191

3 жыл бұрын

100%!!!!!

@mrscousins2023

3 жыл бұрын

Parents are for life, not just when it convinces you

@jaymimcbride5846

3 жыл бұрын

And even THEN, there's grandchildren to babysit for!!! Once you have kids you are a parent for the REST OF YOUR LIFE!!! In my opinion!

@mrscousins2023

3 жыл бұрын

@@jaymimcbride5846 that’s tight

@user-id7pc6su4o

3 жыл бұрын

@@jaymimcbride5846 i agree (at least that's how is in my country for the most people..)

I get her husband cheated on her, but it seems like she’s punishing her child for her decision to “marry young” and have children. Her daughter didn’t ask to be here.

@GSutton

3 жыл бұрын

Also punishing all the wives of the married men she's been carrying on with. How can you cry that someone cheated on you, then help someone do the same thing???

@a.k.4085

3 жыл бұрын

Top comment: 💯

@kenziehansen2424

3 жыл бұрын

Amen i wish more people just got on birth control🙃

@swimfast724

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@elora179

2 жыл бұрын

@@GSutton Easy to blame the woman, but what about their spouses?

You can have fun and go out... it's called GET A BABYSITTER. Nobody is telling her to not have fun... just handle your business and be a mom. Wow.

@cupofhope8769

3 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU

@mrdgenerate

3 жыл бұрын

@@cupofhope8769 haha you're welcome. We need to rename "common sense" to "(not so)common sense" Lmao

@idalarsen2540

3 жыл бұрын

@@mrdgenerate Fr. Common sense is not at all common. Ugh.

@frodolover58

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Huge difference between going out and using a babysitter and moving 2000 damn miles from your kid. Selfish horrible mother.

@lostcookie2109

3 жыл бұрын

Her kid is a teenager she doesn’t even need a babysitter. Just like give the teenager 30 bucks lol.

It's disgusting how she smiles while they are talking to her

@a.k.4085

3 жыл бұрын

She should have gotten therapy YEARS ago.

@katehack1677

3 жыл бұрын

Yep. That's really making me angry. Want to slap that smirk off her face while they discuss her daughters pain at being abandoned by her. Selfish.

@spacemantis5798

3 жыл бұрын

@@katehack1677 same

@Hakudohshi

2 жыл бұрын

The easiest way to explain that is that certain people smile excessively when they are uncomfortable and/or lying. She's both throughout the entire duration of this talk.

@davonheria739

2 жыл бұрын

jabba the hut got confidence

Clearly she baked a lot of cookies as a mom...she’s brought it up a half dozen times and.....well.......

@LiveByDesign

3 жыл бұрын

Edgewater Guitar Vault she ate all of them too

@nahtally.b9139

3 жыл бұрын

🤣😂

@panicattheholly13

3 жыл бұрын

Best comment 😂

@ericyoung2213

3 жыл бұрын

nice job edgewater

@jillianleda6732

3 жыл бұрын

Give her a break, she has also mentioned several times she's starving and only eats once a day, she a hungry jabba 🍪🍪🍪

I just hate how she smiles, her daughter clearly misses her, but she doesn’t care, what a horrible human being

I hate the fact that she's smiling on Dr Phil after hurting/ neglecting her kids 🤬

You can’t be selfish when you have children.....what a horrible person.

You’re children come first, no matter how old you’ve had them. Grow up lady!!

Honey, your kid isnt over 18. This isnt your time. Why does Dr Phil never point that out to her point blank. Dont use being a young mom as an excuse. It's not. I'm a young mom, totally able to recognize my duty is to my kids, not myself while they are under 18 (tbh I'll probably always be the type of put their kids first). Its not hard. You make them, you raise them. It's that simple. I couldn't even be comfy putting myself first. The faces of my kids would be in my head nonstop, and I wouldnt be able to do it.

@idalarsen2540

3 жыл бұрын

Same here, totally agree. Although I do not have kids of my own, I do have a dog and a cat. I could never put myself before them. They're always my first priority, regardless of what. Always.

@yamato6114

3 жыл бұрын

Same. I’m not a mom but this woman disgusts me. She’s using her friends as free babysitting and abandoning her child. In another video her daughter mentions an incident where her mom got drunk and she had to take care of her. Imagine that, the embarrassment of watching your own mother get piss drunk and act like a total fool in front of everyone! This woman is a terrible mother. Plain and simple.

@mandie-kimgodfree3299

3 жыл бұрын

same here, 1000% agree, I don't have biological kids but I'm raising my best friends 3 kids because partying, Men and doing drugs are her priorities, I've been raising them since the baby was 1 1/2 and she's now 13 going on 14, I never ever put myself first cuz the kids deserve better, they are and will be priority #1 till they are old and grey, their need outweigh mine. she disguise's me and she should not be a mother, parents don't get to take breaks.

@Charlie_Kelly666

3 жыл бұрын

@Reynaldo Villalobos tonnes? More or less

@TradBarbie

2 жыл бұрын

Yes!!

She could be a good mom and still go out on weekends. A teen girl needs her mom most of all. The way she treats her daughter now will affect that child’s self esteem all her life..

If you wanted to live life like you’re liberated, why have a freaking child just so they can be left in the dust and suffer from abandonment?..

Once you have children, there is never a time again you can be selfish! It's a selfless job. Shocking shocking woman

Her smile scares me

@gachaneko8257

2 жыл бұрын

Her smile irritates me. She's literally neglecting her own daughter!!!

I call bs on her story, no way another person can fit in the dressing room with her...😂🤷‍♂️

@ronaldreaganrimjobs4670

3 жыл бұрын

None of her posts have a male in it. Shes lying

This woman's amount of self-entitlement is astounding. If she had kids, it is her responsibility to take care of them. What's so wrong with sitting home and "baking cookies"? I actually would have fun doing that if I have children in the future. Low self-esteem is not an excuse for neglecting your child!

When your chin and neck combine, it's usually a sign of being overly nourished...fyi

How is she even getting dates

My mother has put her whole life on hold for almost 16 years because she cares about us. And this mother cares for her daughter on her own for 5 years and she get's to go off the rails? I don't think so...

The fact that she sits there smiling and seeing nothing wrong makes me sick

She is going to eat that billionaire out of house and home.

@lesliemcmillan2971

13 күн бұрын

You could have left the "out of house and home" part out. Probably still be true 😂

She sat and smiled the whole time fr that's wicked

@sheg1969

3 жыл бұрын

I think a lobe snapped somewhere in her shallow, cookie-laden brain.

You don’t get to just give up being a mother whenever you want

your a mom you can not be selfish especially to your children.They don't asked to be your children

'Now I'm focusing on -eating- me' - she's not missed many meals, it seems 😳

she said her ex husband cheated on her once but they carried on staying together she then went on to cheat on him 5 times. she could have left it was her choice

If this female is ONLY eating once a day, she definitely is gonna put that all you can eat bar out of business!😳😳😳

@anniewatkins7646

3 жыл бұрын

🤣

She acts like she is 12.

men are going after her because shes easy lol sorry but if you think men want to have drinks with her because she looks good or has a personality your kidding yourself lol

@rannytrom6694

3 жыл бұрын

Horny dude here, I agree

@minervaloves

3 жыл бұрын

She doesn’t look like a model but she’s alright. It wouldn’t be impossible for some men to find her attractive.

@harrisshob5819

3 жыл бұрын

@@minervaloves it wouldnt be impossible for me to win the lottery either lol

@msmichelle746

3 жыл бұрын

Also she says she has a billionaire boyfriend yet was evicted from her apartment....

@funwithgum926

2 жыл бұрын

@@minervaloves she looks like a pig but hey I guess some guys are into that 🤷‍♂️

This is one of the reasons why i feel people should not get married in their early 20's. Enjoy being single, dating, learning about yourself, school, working, traveling... your 20's is nothing but a learning curve. Don't jump from parents home to being married because it almost always never work....then you wind up saying shoulda, woulda, coulda. A lot of women say " I love my kids just wish I had waited".

This is a very damaged woman. I hope she took the help.

It would be so much better if she relinquished her parental rights and officially go. Right now this back and forth is more hurtful.

"I was a single mom for 5yrs" Wow, give this woman a medal Unlike my mother and thousands of other women who worked 90+hrs a week as a single mother for 20yrs.

My mom has 3 children, and we all are really bad yet she has the time to go have fun with us and yet she still sees friends all of the time. Nikki is the embodiment of laziness, selfishness, and greed

@psychicrenegade

3 жыл бұрын

Don't forget gluttony lol

@raya74

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

It's not your turn. It's your turn when your kids are raised. That's what having babies is about. Raising them. Not taking yourself away from them.

@raya74

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

I never did anything as much fun as staying home and raising my kids. I dreaded for school to start, and was so happy for summer vacation. Just cannot understand people having kids, then deciding they don't want to take care of them! Let's hope she does a turn-around and decides her kids are more precious than her new friends.

“I was a mom at 20” this was YOUR choice

"I was a mom" no, you're always a mom you simpleton

Your kids are still your kids...step up and be a mother!

My grandmother raised 7 children, she never had a break and never neglected her children. This clown thinks she's the first woman in history to have to take care of children

I wish my mom baked cookies every night

No she’s using her friends to not be a parent

I was a young single mom. I worked, took care of my daughter, and occasionally went out with friends. I didn't abandon her at my family or friends house for months. She's selfish.

Your confidence needs to go back to the basement, if not underneath the foundation of the building

You should have been selfish... Before you had the kids And when the kids grow up Grow up Nikki

And she's beaming as if she's on cloud 9. I really hope her friends finish raising her daughter because that's the only way she'll grow up with love and support.

Oh so it's okay for her to not want to be neglected but when it comes to her daughter it's completely wrong.

You can have fun and go out...and still raise your kid. There's literally no excuse for leaving your child on someone's doorstep for them to take care of, when that's supposed to be your job. Regardless of how hard it gets. Otherwise why have kids?

AFTER YOU HAVE KIDS, ITS NOT ABOUT YOU. AFTER YOU HAVE KIDS, ITS NOT ABOUT YOU. AFTER YOU HAVE KIDS, ITS NOT ABOUT YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!! REMINDER TO THIS SOCIETY.

Clearly she ate all the cookies she baked and being a mom doesn't mean bake a pan of cookies and life is great.... She doesn't want to take on responsibility for her child. Being a mom is loving your child...wanting to be there for them and with them. Supporting them emotionally and financially.... Taking the time to show u care about them. You are too focused on you and ppl like that shouldn't have kids. Your child needs you in her life she feels abandoned and unloved and I can see why .. you don't deserve to call yourself a mother. You love yourself and no one else. Wake up before it's too late. .. u need to repair it now or your setting her up for a world of pain. She will act out eventually to get attention... Negative attentions better then no attention. Sad.

Hey Babe...just because you're baking cookies doesn't mean you have to eat em all too.

These dudes must be desperate

How she gonna b mad that SHE had a kid and now the people want HER to take responsibility for HER OWN kid...

You can’t be selfish when you have children.

I hope Dr. Phil gave her a copy of his 2020 diet. I haven't read the book but would only bet his diet doesn't include the consumption of alcohol. Going from baking cookies to drinking is not healthy and will add on pounds. Just sayin....

Tbh, how does she perform a “sexual act” on someone in a dressing room. Like, does she have to pull up all the flab’s in that small space. I mean the guy got to be suffocating. Jeez

0:58. This is unacceptable she is blind although she wears glasses . She said in a different video “I barely have one meal a day “ what does that meal consist of a few steaks and all you can eat fries . In another video she said “I give what I can a month I have barely anything “ u go out to fancy restaurants and 7 can’t give 150 dollars which isn’t even half of what ur “one meal a day “ costs

Any one else watching this boiling up

She’s pathetic. I don’t understand how you could just hand off your daughter and never look back!!! Wtf?! How could you not put your kid first?

I need the full episode of this

You gave away your 20s by choice. What do you want, an award?

A woman that looks like her doesn’t have self confidence

Just getting out of a relationship at 41 that I was in since I was 20, kids still come first!

only thing id buy you would be a pen and set of full custody papers for your daughter

Only eating once a day. Honey, your weight and double chins say otherwise

Her daughter is not grown yet! Your job MOM is not over yet!!! You don't get to be selfish when you have children!

Once your daughter turns 18 go ahead and do whatever you want but until then do your job and be her mom

When they become parents at a young age, they want to live it out their youth when they get older.

She was a mom AND a wife at 20!? Oh that changes everything! Here's the get out of motherhood card, go enjoy yourself, it must have been taxing raising the kid you decided to bring into the world...

C'MON LADY...DATING FOR YOU MEANS RUNNING AROUND GIVING A BUNCH OF YOUNG GUYS HEAD IJS

I can see why the ex husband had another girlfriend....

Having low self-esteem is no excuse for acting like a jerk to your kid and your friends I hate how people say oh I was going through this so I act this way people need to grow up if you’re going through something get help

Her and her damn cookie baking!

0:22 clearly we need to get back down to earth now

wow i cant believe she has been smiling the whole time like its a big joke and like its her kids fault that she CHOSE to be a mom, you cant just take time off from being a parent? wtf

What a basket case this one is.

Nah girl. Your weight is thru the roof.

if she wanted to have fun wait until the kids are 18

Her face the whole time ‘😄’

This is a midlife crisis get her some therapy

So I think she is trying say she wants cookies

YOUR KIDS COME BEFORE EVERYTHING ELSE!!!!!! PERIOD!!!!!!!

She talks like it’s not her responsibility I could never do this to my daughter . Ever !

I think it's good she's feeling better about herself. I think there should be a balance though with good times out and good times with family. Her kids still need there mom so that should be her first priority, it's important for her to be happy but she also should remember her kids need her

@tauresattauresa7137

7 ай бұрын

Antidepressants can have the same effect. She is a mum, if not, then get someone else to adopt her.

Why does she keep smiling like lady this is serious

My 1st husband pulled this stuff with me (pawning me off onto another man because he wanted to leave). It messes up your head and I have been in therapy for at least one decade for it. Dear God.

I've literally heard "Stay at home and bake cookies" in every clip of her, and honestly it makes me wanna puke 🤮

Your kid's should be your hole life you can still have fun with your kids how is she not in jail for child abandoneding a man goes to jail just for not paying child support

Rip to her neck it’s gone but never forgotten

Yeahhh you give up your right to be selfish when you decide to procreate.

You can tell she is loving her attention on the show instead of being ashamed of herself as she should be. She is disgusting!

Bro just take care of your daughter

I'm curious on what does she mean by Young people

She must be lying on her profile lol

What a vile human. Damn.

They don’t want to be home cooking anything your not responsible having kids don’t make you grown taking care of your kids then your grown

She does not want to sit and bake cookies....just eat them.

Good lord that green menace can barely breathe...

This woman is a completely entitled "me me me " you don't get to decide when you can be a mom its not the same as video games you don't turn it off because you're bored