Why This Mother And Daughter Are Having A Blowout Fight
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Eighteen-year-old Sharaya moved out of her house three weeks before graduating from high school because she says she is fed up with her mother’s constant illnesses. The two women have an emotional confrontation.
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@danny67762
3 жыл бұрын
BET
@Hii..289
3 жыл бұрын
I feel like this is fake
@Eli_frosty616
3 жыл бұрын
I subscribed
@Lothic
3 жыл бұрын
@@Hii..289 you're fake
@Hii..289
3 жыл бұрын
@@Lothic why yo hating
Anybody noticed the reversed roles? How the mother was acting like a child so much, that the daughter had to assume the role of a mom?
@destroyedtelephone4124
3 жыл бұрын
just because someone is a child does not mean they do not know nothing, i met 7 year old kids wiser than adults
@septbaaby
3 жыл бұрын
Yup that's a toxic parent. they expect roles to be reversed
@septbaaby
3 жыл бұрын
@Jayanna Spencer 😂
@septbaaby
3 жыл бұрын
@Jayanna Spencer oh well nobody was talking to you anyway lol so idgaf how you feel
@theodoreadams844
3 жыл бұрын
Irk 🙄
The mom wasn't even crying...the daughter was. Wow.
@meanbean6011
2 жыл бұрын
Shes just scrunching up her face lol. Like that is....not convincing...
@andizcorner
2 жыл бұрын
@@meanbean6011 she literally has tears in her eyes but yeah the faces kinda make it funny
@meanbean6011
2 жыл бұрын
@@andizcorner lol no the mom. The mom was just scrunching her face is what I meant. She's such a drama queen. "Lemme make a face and pitch my voice high then everyone will feel bad for me."
@akilahposh
2 жыл бұрын
The mother was definitely about to cry
@Lawer7
2 жыл бұрын
@@akilahposh no
Classic narcissist. She starts off gaslighting her daughter. Poor girl
@peacehappyb237
2 жыл бұрын
Yup! Poor thing.
@hailey_rose05
2 жыл бұрын
histrionic pd
@jamangel
2 жыл бұрын
!!!
@glynisross4049
Жыл бұрын
Nope. You kind of jumped to conclusions there. Over medicated on prescription meds. Got help, took it, now very well. the entire episode and a follow up gives a much broader picture than this blurb.
@TradBarbie
Жыл бұрын
@@glynisross4049 Oh *please.* No way did that chick stay good.
That girl is so mature. She clearly had to grow up fast. I hope her mom got help, she clearly needs it.
@lizromer4216
3 жыл бұрын
@HeyThatsAlex, she is. I saw the 3,000th episode, where Shemida returned to the show with an update. She said that since the show, her sister, Dana is her best friend, and her daughter, Sharayah lives right behind her mother’s house, and they see each other, every day
@User-eg4ws
2 жыл бұрын
That’s not mature when you want to put the person who gave you birth to humiliate her on Tv. There’s other way to resolve this. She chose to go to dr Phil to go viral 🥴
@emilyann4054
2 жыл бұрын
@@User-eg4ws Did the daughter write in? I thought the sister did.
@User-eg4ws
2 жыл бұрын
@@emilyann4054 they’re still immature, there are other way to handle things. My own mother also did a lot of f up things but I would never do something like this where you risk yourself and your mothers privacy and safety. Dr Phil is not even a Dr to begin with. What is she trying to accomplish here?
@User-eg4ws
2 жыл бұрын
@@emilyann4054 this video has like 17 million views . She or her sister whoever they are weren’t thinking properly. Just plain immature.
Damn that mom is seriously messed up
@inactive2378
3 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@Lothic
3 жыл бұрын
Wow 6 years ago
@maddy9040
3 жыл бұрын
@@Lothic IKR LOL
@oddconstantine
3 жыл бұрын
My cousin is 3 years old and can talk better than the mom
@JohnSmith-pl4sf
3 жыл бұрын
"she's your mom she gave you life"... This quote is disregarding children who are abused by their mother...
I really like this girl, she's taking none of her bullsh*t :)
@inactive2378
3 жыл бұрын
Fr
@LEGENDPantherJennings
3 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@thedimdolldashians4413
3 жыл бұрын
1k like👍🏽
@HurricaneJahya
2 жыл бұрын
Honestly
@iheartfcs6839
2 жыл бұрын
Right
that hair is... a choice
@Nelty.
3 жыл бұрын
I'm getting minecraft vibes of the daughter
@purpledragonstudios5174
3 жыл бұрын
yeah. a wrong choice 😂
@Nelty.
3 жыл бұрын
@@purpledragonstudios5174 lol
@inactive2378
3 жыл бұрын
Fr
@Natasha-lz9se
3 жыл бұрын
it's the wannabe dolly parton for me
I can’t take this mother seriously 😂😂
@alyssaa7337
3 жыл бұрын
The hair 😭
@gee1271
2 жыл бұрын
Her or her hat 😭
@sofiazalowitz235
2 жыл бұрын
literally same i thought it was a joke like bruh
@lovinpitbull8190
2 жыл бұрын
@@sofiazalowitz235 same
@cakepudding3220
2 жыл бұрын
The wig
Dr. Phil did that daughter dirty with that thumbnail
@zeze5319
3 жыл бұрын
I know I thought she was a bad daughter
@rainbowkitten8990
3 жыл бұрын
LMAO NO 💀💀💀
@seirrasky3581
3 жыл бұрын
Lmaooooo
The moms fake tears tho😂
@arbetor12
3 жыл бұрын
oh thank god I thought I was the only one who noticed
@oliviagrace6914
3 жыл бұрын
@@arbetor12 *God
@cheeseismypeace7273
3 жыл бұрын
If you mean 3:12 then she’s not faking it, she just don’t want to ruin her make up..orrrr..maybe your right
@bandoja5084
3 жыл бұрын
@@cheeseismypeace7273 😂
@arbetor12
3 жыл бұрын
@@oliviagrace6914 not dignifying that
This girl is so mature. I don’t even know her but I’m literally so proud of her-
@noabue340
2 жыл бұрын
Same ahhaha
@noemiarmas5773
Жыл бұрын
@@noabue340 She loyal Brave true like Mulan VI ⚙️ {Haliee Steinfeld}
@noemiarmas5773
Жыл бұрын
@@noabue340 She brave like Captian Marvel (Bire Larson) , Lady / Mary Amy Lee in DCEU Series : BEAST BOY FIRST LOOK
@gracem7967
Жыл бұрын
Me too. She is so brave and mature. I hope her mom got help.
@iknowexactlywhoyouare8701
Жыл бұрын
Not “literally”
That girl has been through so much! She’s so loyal, brave and true like Mulan
@benjamindouvier8738
3 жыл бұрын
Shut up your mom
@ssskullyy_
3 жыл бұрын
@@benjamindouvier8738 ???
@whaleygrande6611
2 жыл бұрын
@@benjamindouvier8738 💀 what-
@emmuhlu
2 жыл бұрын
Awww yea I love that
@fleetwood7538
2 жыл бұрын
"Like Mulan".... lol!😆
The way she looked to the audience like “see what I have to deal with” to try to make the daughter look bad. That’s so sad, you can see she try’s to blame the victim.
I got goosebumps when I heard that she is carrying this since she was 6
@johnymax2641
2 жыл бұрын
😭😭
@pockyfilms7078
2 жыл бұрын
Thats so sad
3:27 he totally agrees with the daughters, and what he did is what any person should do to fix the relationship between a mother and daughter.
@Its_sabribri
2 жыл бұрын
I know he was so done with her BS 😂
@MetroboomingmakeitBOOM867
Жыл бұрын
I would say the same thing
I feel really really bad for her daughter
This is the strongest young woman EVER!!
I have so much respect for the daughter! You can tell she's speaking from the heart meanwhile her mom is fake crying and blaming her.
Children matures early because of parents like these. imagine the sadness & pain she felt during those times, & the childhood taken from her
In case anybody is wondering how this family is doing, today, they’re actually doing better. I know this, because I watched the 3,000th episode, and Shemida came back with an update about her family. She said that her sister, Dana is now her best friend, and her daughter, Sharayah actually lives in a house, that’s right behind her parents’ house, so they see each other, every day
@Durka-Durka
2 жыл бұрын
Thanx!
@lizromer4216
2 жыл бұрын
@@Durka-Durka, no problem. Also, she’s been sober since 2014
@Noudilus
2 жыл бұрын
nobody cares
@Durka-Durka
2 жыл бұрын
@@Noudilus ☺️ I care deeply
@sugunajothee3339
2 жыл бұрын
@@Noudilus well if you see in this comment there are people do care. And the one who doesn't care is you, and doesn't even matter. Like why would you waste time just to type 'nobody cares' when there are thousands of people to care lmao just gtfo please.
"She's your mom, she gave you life" I hate this quote so much... Because this quote disregards children who are abused by their mother... That quote is indoctrination to children, it indoctrinates children to respect their mother, that their mother is always right, even when they are wrong... and disrespecting your mom is wrong even when she is abusive or toxic... The quote also indoctrinates kids into believing that it's wrong to rebel against your mom, even when she is a terrible and abusive psycho parent.... We shouldn't tell this to kids, because the meaning behind the quote is a one sided relationship between the parent and the child... This is where a unstoppable Force meets an immovable object...
@torianmcneill3794
3 жыл бұрын
No the daughter here is right she had to raise herself the mother is messed up listen to the daughter telling her telling her mother the truth the daughter didn't no way disrespect her mother okay the mother didn't write in to Dr Phil the daughter did the daughter said I forgive you mom the mother is messed up
@sunnycuteness4196
2 жыл бұрын
Mum always tells me, that it was her choice, and also her responsibility to raise me. I do not owe her anything
@amywalsh2001
2 жыл бұрын
most child abuse is done by the biological mother.
@irum4233
2 жыл бұрын
Not only that. But as in latam as peruvian,standing up to yourself is seeing as brat or as white ppl thing. When it's just defending urself.
@JohnSmith-pl4sf
2 жыл бұрын
@@irum4233 yes, children should understand that parents aren't perfect and they can make mistakes too, and parents should hold themselves accountable for any negative actions that may not be good for the child
They did her dirty in that thumbnail
I saw no tears in the mothers face… only her !
I feel so bad for the daughter, she was just 18 but this was going on way before. Because of her mother, she had to grow up so fast, she probably never even enjoyed being just a kid and having no stress. Hope she's doing okay now
@cartercolson7975
11 ай бұрын
I'm the 100th like :)
Mom's got the same shocked face mine had when I finally blew up and recounted every incident where she failed me as my mother. She thought I'd forgotten or wasn't strong enough to call her out. Couldn't stand the truth in her face and tried to run away. Like hands over ears! We no longer speak as was my choice. I feel much less depression, stress and anxiety now.
That is a failure of a mum
My heart goes to the daughter. She feels she does not have a life . I can relate . I can understand why she is angry
It’s clear that Shemida is narcissistic and is just too close-minded to recognize and/or understand Sharaya’s feelings
The thumbnail is the funniest thing about this entire video Edit: WHAT THE FAWK how to I have so many likes, thanks ig
@Amina-du4md
3 жыл бұрын
😅😅😅🤚🤚
@leilani.sherrodd6758
3 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@franklinbautista5028
3 жыл бұрын
Right
@user-du4gw
3 жыл бұрын
lol
@songgames2000
3 жыл бұрын
No it’s not ??? HER MOMS Hair is 🤣
I can fully relate to the daughter
@midnxghtxx6390
2 жыл бұрын
Same
@Marie-zc8ul
2 жыл бұрын
You guys are really strong, I can't even imagine what y'all must be going through, hope you guys are doing okay ❤
@Mar-ez3fs
2 жыл бұрын
Same😔❤️
@jamangel
2 жыл бұрын
yeah
When the parents are this way children grow up that fast. Poor girl. Stay blessed
I’m sorry I feel bad for the daughter but when they started yelling at each other I lost it
@lilydianang2033
2 жыл бұрын
same like her face expessions kills me
That hair....is a lifestyle
I don’t even know her but I’m literally so proud of her PERIODT🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔
That Daughter is so mature she is going to be a great mom or aunt.
the way when they fight there are no tears in the mom’s eyes and the daughter is constantly on the verge of tears. shows who really cares about the situation
so i see Dr Phil turned his comments on
@aolineXD
3 жыл бұрын
Yes
i love how this daughter can pour out her feelings like that, unfortunately i’m disrespectful if i do it.
@paijaneely5730
Жыл бұрын
Felt this in my soul
@loveabblepostion2329
Жыл бұрын
@@paijaneely5730onggg.
@GirlLunarExplorer
4 ай бұрын
My mom is the most exhausting victim as well. She will lose her mind if she thinks I'm criticizing her or judging her. 🤢
@loveabblepostion2329
4 ай бұрын
@@GirlLunarExplorer dang i’m sorry, one day you just gotta do it even if it makes her upset. you deserve to be heard out too
This was far more extreme than I expected.
This mom is so disrespectful it’s disgusting every child deserves a parent but every parent doesn’t deserve a parent this kid has so much potential and she’s so strong for doing this we believe you to keep on fighting! ❤️
The daughter drop this: 👑
dr. Phill is just having a show in front of him and he is just trying so hard not to laugh 😂
@liledgelordrapper1168
3 жыл бұрын
LOOL
@theatticaddict
2 жыл бұрын
He wasn’t trying not to laugh. He was clearly taking it seriously.
the fact that she was looking at the audience instead of her daughter is very telling
The daughter is so confident and I’m defo on her side
i think their roles have switched around 0-0
You can hear the pain in the daughters voice and see the hurt in her eyes
I can imagine how silent it was just hearing a mother and daughter arguing about their lives I can just imagine how awkward it has to be to hear the first airing and shooting of that episode.
Mad respect to the daughter bruh
Wait is the mom seriously saying that her daughter verbally abused her at 8? Really?! I am so glad she has gotten help that Dr. Phil provided to her
That daughter is such an angel
I love how Dr. Phil understood what's going on and sides with the daughter.
if anyone watching this video and is reading the comments and has been through this, i’m so sorry for you. you’re such a strong individual, you deserve so much better. a mom is supposed to love you through thick and thin and raise you on how to live in this world and teaching you right from wrong. a mom isn’t supposed to treat you like a best friend. and it’s completely okay to cut off your mother. cutting off toxic family members should be normalized. if you’re reading this, i love you. have a good day, i promise it will get better.
@GirlLunarExplorer
4 ай бұрын
It is hard to have a non-maternal mother; who seems to have no good reason for being emotionally unavailable or overwhelmingly bitter and selfish with all of her relationships.
The daughter is acting so well, she’s seriously handling the situation maturely and way better that the mom.
Kid is right
when she looked at the audience to gaslight her daughter... their family must be so tired every time
Damn that daughter… she has a LOT of anger 😢 I want to give her a big hug
@byefelicia8632
2 жыл бұрын
So its OK to have anger. Then why do people say that anger is bad? Its a natural part of being human.
@krystalharwood6359
Жыл бұрын
@@byefelicia8632 when it comes to killing someone when it gets out of control or not forgiving, yes. but if you get mad with someone for a time and then forgive and forget it is the right way to overcome it
That thumbnail make me click it lol
Wow. Good for that daughter. I felt that. 🥺👏
It's called emotional incest, they may be best friends but the mom relies too much on her daughter and shares everything to her like she's her partner, it makes the children grow faster and more mature when their parent talks about their problems all the time (hence why the kids feels more burden in their shoulders and wouldn't successfully enjoy their childhood much). Thankfully the daughter has sense of responsibility, the mom is so lucky to have her.
I have never seen a woman make so many crying sounds and put on such a crying voice yet NOT YET SHED A SINGLE TEAR
She needs to take care of her self her daughter can’t be there all the time because her daughter is going to move out of the house soon
Dr phil's face when their arguing 😂😂😂😂
I saw this episode and I really think this mom really needs help. She is a real narrasscist. And I give the daughter props for standing up to her mom
this is seriously so sad
She’s talking facts
I can't get over the fact that they both sound like *geese* when they're crying/yelling.
@BubbaWigglytuff
3 жыл бұрын
Facts
@gwennn.dolynn
3 жыл бұрын
True dat😂😂
@mashookie6875
3 жыл бұрын
OMG LMAO!!!😂😂
@nanciee2844
2 жыл бұрын
Lol
@adriannaplowden1837
2 жыл бұрын
OMGGGGGg😂😂😂😂😂🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚
Wow, I hate that crazy woman in 4 minutes or less! Lol
My mom is literally the same and I know it’s toxic but she made me addicted to it and made me incapable to life without her
Wow this is so emotionally depressing and draining I am so sorry for what this little kid and her siblings had to go threw 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Happy New year 2021!!!!
@az3375
3 жыл бұрын
It’s 2027
That mom needs ✨h e l p✨
@sairuzclyde2140
3 жыл бұрын
Yes
I wish I could find the whole episode of this
I relate to this so much other than the sick part. My mom has bad anger issues but she's always venting to me out of the blue and taking things out on me. She doesn't believe therapists work so she's truned me into her own and I hate it so much, its so exhausting
@laflare0005
Жыл бұрын
same
I hate how moms act like they’re the victims when they aren’t like bro what you crying for. You scared
Oh man this is heartbreaking to watch… but it’s great to see that she turn her life around.
The facial expressions the mom makes are very concerning💀💀
Frick this girl is amazing
It’s actually so wonderful to see something like this and read that people are supporting to the daughter. I can relate to this daughter so much and the way this mother was acting reminded me so much of my mother. My mum has been exactly the same way for the last 4 years. She has been in psychiatric hospitals probably 10 times a year for the past three years and she would spend each time in for the full 2-3 week admission. She would then come home, do no real mental work on herself, expect to just take her pills and sleep a lot of the time and for her depression and addiction to just leave. She would also continuously come out of hospital and only be able to stay sober for 2 weeks each time (sometimes a week) before she would relapse with drinking and would then deal with it by going back into hospitals. Every single day for nearly 4 years now she has woken up with anxiety and has convinced herself that she will wake up with anxiety for the rest of her life. Yet every morning when she wakes up for the first 20 minutes she will be fine. I watch her and she actually convinces herself every single day that sooner or later she will get anxiety and low and behold every day after that first half an hour she starts getting panic attacks. She puts little to no work into working on her sobriety and mental health and expects everyone else to do it for her. Whether it be doctors, family or medication. She comes home and it’s like she is on a constant mouse wheel of self destruction just to get back into hospital where she feels “safe” cause there are “doctors and nurses there to take care” of her. And when someone is so obsessed with being sick and unhealthy to a toxic level every single day it does make you go mad. I can see why this girl is so angry and exhausted. Can you imagine every single day someone you love so much constantly complaining, never smiling, always saying they feel sick, always crying, always sleeping to escape. And what’s so sick is then when you bring it up (just like this girl did) - you often get the mothers response. Projection, guilt, manipulation through tears and misguided anger.
Daughter: reasonable mature argument Mom: hElLo mAm WeLcOmE tO mCdOnAlDs
Why the thumbnail make her look like Fiona from Shrek😅
@Joseph-hw6iw
3 жыл бұрын
I was thinking more along the lines of, If "The Predator" started a family. Lol
This thumbnail is insanely funny!😂😂😂
@theresaneely304
2 жыл бұрын
No it's not
@jayjay6.087
2 жыл бұрын
@@theresaneely304 Yeah, it is!😂😂😂
@benshapiro8623
2 жыл бұрын
@@jayjay6.087 agreed
@theresaneely304
8 ай бұрын
@jayjay6.087 again no it's not! Not the face of someone yelling
@jayjay6.087
8 ай бұрын
@@theresaneely304 Bro, it is! ☠️☠️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💯
This is how my mom is and I've just learned to deal with it, it's alot of pressure but I get through it.
at 3:29 it gave me as much excitement as the portals scene in endgame
I feel bad for this girl! She shouldn’t have had to do this I was lucky enough to get adopted into a loving and nice family
I hope Dr Phil or one of the producers made sure this girl is financially set for life
As soon as the interview ends the moms “HHHAAHHH” weird breathing was too funny
The daughter is so mature.
Daughter has actual visible tears, mum just has a sad face & whining, then VERY quickly snaps to a blank face and normal tone.
Why did I laugh when they were fighting-
Go girl! Work it!
this girl is so brave and mature
“Why dont you like your mom, be greatful” oh! really?
I just came for one video n now i have lost track of how many I have watched
That is by far the most explosive moment on Dr. Phil I've ever seen.
How does one cry *so HARD* with *NO* tears??
@amethystvanderhyde5473
Жыл бұрын
I do it cause I hate crying in front in front of my mom if you’re talking about the daughter The mother needs mental help though
Dang this is sad 🥺😓
My face when I see my sibling pouring the milk before the cereal: *the thumbnail*
the mom be lookin like an off brand version of whitney houston 😭
I see the same case on the other side you know where the other options are it is like the same people but it was from 6 YEARS AGO!