She's not only had sexual trauma, She's trying to find the love she didn't get from her parents and trying to fill it with sex/boys/romance. Which hurts to see cause she's worthy of being loved, and I'm glad she has a sister who loves her so much to try to help her have a better life.

@spreadmorelove5235

Жыл бұрын

Don't leave out the sister's partner. She was the one who encouraged her to get her sister AND she's helping to support them both.

@alexismendoza9278

Жыл бұрын

Yes that happens a lot when we don't have out parents love we seek it in the wrong arms

@tieishalee6168

Жыл бұрын

I wish I had someone to help me like that. I had sexual trauma and did the same thing. I didn’t feel good about what I was doing, but didn’t know how to stop behaving that way. Now, 7 kids later and my children being taken advantage of by a family member I had to relive my trauma while helping them through there’s. Most of my children are grown except the last two and I’m just now getting help for myself. Growing up in my family there was no such thing as talking to a Therapist because it was for “crazy” people supposedly. Also, I was taught what goes on in our house stays in our house. I’ve tried my best to get my children the help they need because I want them to be so much better than me. When I overcome my pain and past I hope to help others like this young lady and myself. She is so lucky to have such a loving and caring sister and her sisters partner. She is going to have such a bright future and I’m so proud of her.❤ I forgot I’m logged in under my daughters account. 🤦🏾‍♀️

@DachildofGodshae

11 ай бұрын

Same for me

@bongythwala9840

10 ай бұрын

No they are so many kids that grow up without parents love but they are not chasing boys,thise child is a bitch

As soon as the older sister said she’s a “sex addict” I knew the younger sister was being hyper sexual as a result of sexual assault & trauma. She’s very self aware for her age but didn’t have the resources she really needs. I hope the best for the 3 of them

@876me7

Жыл бұрын

For her sister to call her a sex addict knowing what she has been through is extremely disgusting. A 16 year old girl who is promiscuous is not a sex addict, she’s obviously acting out trauma! She’s a battered and abused child. It is entirely inappropriate for her sister to refer to her as a sex addict. Smh

@hazelboyce7230

Жыл бұрын

@@876me7Who told you that the sister has the tools to deal with this situation? She’s probably communicating the best way she knows how. Sometimes we are too harsh on people, overlooking the fact that they too are dealing with their own trauma. The sister should be commended for taking her off the streets after her parents failed her.

@madeinjapan7612

Жыл бұрын

@@hazelboyce7230 two things can exist at the same time. Her sister should absolutely be commended for stepping up(which isn’t her responsibility) and caring for her sister. But that don’t negate the fact that the language she& her girlfriend used( ON LIVE TELEVISION AT THAT) towards her traumatized sister as if they don’t know why she acting the out the way she has is totally inexcusable. This is a young girl who has NEVER had a proper role model or the proper teachings so she tried seeking for love the best way she knew how. They need to handle her behaviors with more precaution and care so she can properly learn how to navigate her emotions simple. The black community has a issue with tough love & it’s honestly doing way more harm than it ever did good.

@SiedahDenise

Жыл бұрын

@@876me7 it was said the sister was not aware of the sexual trauma/abuse, with that being said it does excuse her using the term “sex addict”. But now that the sister is aware she expressed empathy, realized her language was inappropriate/apologized for it, & promised to adjust her behavior towards her young sister going forward. That’s taking accountability

@crazymusicgrlcheesecake

Жыл бұрын

@@876me7 A lot of people who are addicted to sex has trauma.

Her parents failed her and now her sister is trying to pick up the pieces smh. What a shame. She needs a psychiatrist.

@TeeSimmer

Жыл бұрын

Fr. Not her sister job but I know she trying her best to understand

@sashaswtheart79

Жыл бұрын

This poor baby. I pray she is able to heal and make the most out of her life. Good job to her sisters ❤

@LoganTaliaferro

Жыл бұрын

I am 14 and I have acted out I got suspended and did a whole bunch of others stuff and cried when my mom couldn’t see so that’s why I’m the way I am still because ..

@Bremonaee

Жыл бұрын

@@TeeSimmer it is her sisters job now! She has custody and she has to love her thru her pain now ! She needs that!!!

@palesasefurutshe6832

Жыл бұрын

​@Logan Taliaferro you still going to realize more stuff at my age( 22-25)14 is still so young. You'll be going somethings throughout your teens. Early 20s are a reflection of all of those things.

One thing this baby's sister was right about, she sure can articulate herself beautifully. To be 16 and able to tell her story and state what she needs? Moved me to tears. Please give this young lady the help she wants and needs ❤

@siasimone6202

Жыл бұрын

😭😭😭

@Howaboutyes11

10 ай бұрын

Fr

Omg she’s beautiful! Her hair, her skin, her style. The way she communicates is powerful. She’s more aware than most adults! Her sister just needs better language and ways of how to guide her into adulthood that’s not condemning. With therapy and positive hobbies/outlets she’ll be on a better path.

@justderreusdesigns4423

Жыл бұрын

Yes! And when she heals she’ll be a powerful force to be reckoned with 🙌🏽💪🏽

@jimt.626

Жыл бұрын

Anyone wish they could just give her a big hug?

@Monkeysrulaa

Жыл бұрын

@@jimt.626 I do

@jimt.626

Жыл бұрын

@@Monkeysrulaa I'm with you man!!!

@NamiY-bp6zx

11 ай бұрын

@@jimt.626 man me forsure, i grew up in a similar both parents addicts and i feel her completely. the hypersexuality is so much more prominent with that type of background and it’s so gross to put her down rather than help her with it.

Don’t talk bad about your sister in public when you know she faced so much trauma.The young sister is just so smart, she truly needs support from all she has faced.

I like how Karamo goes out of his way to not embarrass his guests or make them uncomfortable. When he was handed the screenshots of the things J'Lea was texting to boys he only read one text message compared to other shows where they would have just aired all of them out because they only care about their show ratings. From the very beginning when the sister was describing how J'Lea was interacting with boys I could already tell she might have been looking for the love she needed from her parents in the boys she was dating. She is a beautiful bright young girl and props to her sister and the girlfriend for looking out for her.

@queenxnaiya7460

11 ай бұрын

This also speaks because a lot of time people think embarrassment and tough love will help when that’s not it she’s being sexual because of trauma and she needs help!

@jimt.626

9 ай бұрын

He’s a good guy who is always there to listen to his guests. Unlike someone who’ll tell you to get off his stage

Sometimes us adults have to say sorry first. The baby sister is so beautiful & intelligent. I pray she turns her life around. She has a lot to offer the world!

@Leah-gh6rc

11 ай бұрын

taking accountability gives a lot of comfort to young adults it should be embraced more

@bohlalenchabeleng1370

10 ай бұрын

Kids emulate what they see. Saying sorry first teaches them to take accountability and to learn how to communicate.

@LifeofDestinyB

7 ай бұрын

Sadly thats something ppl dont seem to see. They think because they older they always right or because they didnt experience the samething that your actions or bad. They dont realise the language either

I feel really uncomfortable hearing about a teenagers sexual behavior being broadcasted to millions of people. I don’t think it’s healthy. Just imagine how terrible she will feel looking back at this vulnerable time in her life. She needs a therapist or child counselor not to be outted or shamed on television. Children should be protected at all times.

@whoisdis8201

4 ай бұрын

The comment right under you said how she was an outcast and treated differently in her school cause of the same sexual behavior. I think the people who have seen this atleast know the context now and treats her better

@PeggyRabbit32

4 ай бұрын

​@sandragreer1120 how do we know he didn't?

i'm freaking out because i went to school with this girl and it's so surreal seeing someone you knew on a show like this. Watching this video has put me to tears because everyone at my school in North Carolina judged her, and made her the outcast, and I fell under that umbrella even though I knew little about the situation. But even though, I kept my thoughts to myself and I texted her on the regular, I told her that i'm here for her, I tried to help mediate a situation she had with one of my friends and i never tried to make her feel like an outcast. And now i'm so glad that I never said anything bad or judged her outwardly because you really do not know what is going on in someone's life. It's such a shame that we can be blinded by other people's thoughts, and not really try to help the hurting. I hope she is doing better now that she moved away.

@daiixo7624

10 ай бұрын

awee omg that is so sweet of you!! and all those people at that school should be ashamed of themselves, she never knew better!! she's such a pretty and articulate girl.

@jimt.626

10 ай бұрын

I hope she’s a nice girl

@oluwaseunoshagbemi3628

9 ай бұрын

Please, show her some love. Thanks for coming out to say this. It gets worse and it goes in circles when friends and school mates judge people like this because they don't get to feel love from anywhere. She also mentioned that she had to beg people and that means she needs some financial support. I hope people can help her.

@jimt.626

9 ай бұрын

@@oluwaseunoshagbemi3628 well said. Why can’t people think about how their actions affect others?? Poor sweet girl

@krystalpringles7344

6 ай бұрын

@@jimt.626such a cruel world. I guess we have to help by showing kindness to everyone we meet. We never truly know. And maybe we can be a little hero.. not a villain in their story

It felt like the sister tried to embarrass her to make her change. I’m happy Karamo got a understanding and gave proper tools.

@Oratile-nl9eo

3 ай бұрын

Yes. I didn't like her body language and tone at all.

I really appreciate you hugging this baby as sincere as you did. SHE NEEDED IT🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

She made me cry..I hope she find her peace ❤she has a bright future!

@LoganTaliaferro

Жыл бұрын

She made me too like kAramo show is the best because I see different teen stories and feel like I’m not alone

@nkemuba4189

6 ай бұрын

I understand her, but everyone has a conscience. She is ungrateful to her sisters and very manipulative.

I’m really in love with this episode, he corrected them and let them both know she’s not being disrespectful, she’s in pain and asking for help. They both had their tunnel vision on now but it’s a good thing they all know what will work now!

@schoolgyaru

Жыл бұрын

having sex in public at school isn't "asking for help"

@Khalagessyca

Жыл бұрын

@@schoolgyaru Actually it is.

@theebunnyy8984

Жыл бұрын

@@schoolgyaruit’s a cry for help, she has a fucked up understanding of what love is and she’s thinks having sex can fill that void. Is it wrong hell yes but does she know any other way no that’s why she needs guidance not judgement. You probably understand and know that sex isn’t the answer to getting loved but she doesn’t

@MrBlackspidergaming

11 ай бұрын

@@schoolgyaru you clearly don’t understand adolescent psychology and development along with trauma response; I’m not gonna go back and forth about it, you can do your own research on that. Regardless, I said what I said, this is a beautiful episode and a great demonstration of healing

First I want to say I’m proud of this young lady for being so open with her pain and trauma and I want to commend her for acknowledging where the hurt is coming from and what she believes is the healing she needs. My advice to her sister is be mindful of how you portray your little sister during such a trying time in her life. Your support during this time will make or break your relationship going forward. She had to process the reality of abandonment, the hardships that comes with abandonment, being violated and no one to save her, watching her mom engage in sexual activity at all is horrific let alone at 6, as well as doors constantly closed in her face. Yes, she is acting out sexually however she is telling you verbatim why and that is your cue to learn how to be a vessel of unwavering love no matter how she shows up, as well as be the one to speak the life into her that her parents never did. That is the role YOU took on when you took over guardianship. I’m praying for everyone’s healing. I see myself in that baby and she just needs to feel heard so she can work through these traumas in a safe space. Much love 🫶🏾

@Bremonaee

Жыл бұрын

I love this❤️

@tanasha_tz1748

Жыл бұрын

Lw4zf q AD?😅❤😮😊😅😮😅😅❤🎉😢

@umubintu5246

Жыл бұрын

O what a Divine sense of reasoning! Being a professional in Safeguarding & the Protection of Children & Young People, i can relate with your position here and respect you a lot for this. GOD BLESS & KEEP you eternally, IJMN AMEN! May this Young girl find TRUE PEACE, GOD'S MERCY, DIVINE WISDOM WITH UNDERSTANDING, & REDEMPTION, BY HIS ALMIGHTY POWER AND GRACE, AMEN!

@philomenaezeh7770

Жыл бұрын

@@umubintu5246 Amen 🙏

@philomenaezeh7770

Жыл бұрын

Well said, thank you for these words of wisdom. God bless you.

I felt this deep in my soul .I was a out of control teen got pregnant at 17 I am now 31 . as a teen I wish I had someone to understand me and hear me . I'm so glad she have them hopefully now they have a better understanding of her pain and can help her through it .

@leonardobeng3955

Жыл бұрын

Understand you as a teenage how?, I am curious.

@Frenche1111

Жыл бұрын

@@leonardobeng3955 understand why she's doing what shes doing

@BigMantha

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this . I’m now 41 and was 17 and pregnant. My child’s father has always been there but it was still hard . Everyone in the church at the time labeled me and it took a lot to overcome . Wish you the best

Poor child. It’s unfortunate this is on the internet too. Even if she changes, this will be immortalized on the internet. 😢

@hellobosslady

Жыл бұрын

Well in the brighter side, her re watching this will show her how strong she is and that she’s a walking testimony. This one video alone can help 1000’s of teens and parents.

@Fannyyyyy_

Жыл бұрын

@@hellobosslady amennnnnnn 😭😭😭

@hazelboyce7230

Жыл бұрын

@@hellobossladyThank you, if everything was hidden, a lot of people wouldn’t have the impetus to believe that change can happen in spite of the challenges. Without a test you won’t have a testimony. Oprah Winfrey was sexually molested at nine, look at what she achieved.

@dejaniquenelson9458

Жыл бұрын

This video can help others tell their story.

@novlettebeech6502

Жыл бұрын

Hope later in life she can be a motivational speaker to young girls.

This might honestly be one of the best “talk show’s I’ve seen. He uses a neutral therapeutic approach versus a combative approach. I love this!

@liyah.85

11 ай бұрын

i wish there was no audience, i find them so toxic tbh

@bohlalenchabeleng1370

10 ай бұрын

Yes.

@londynk1085

Ай бұрын

@@liyah.85the audience is hella toxic. the boos the nos the claps in certain situations not even on just this episode. sometimes the audience does help but sometimes it’s just …🤦🏾‍♀️

calling a 16 year old a “sex addict” is crazy

@thibilebhebhe

11 ай бұрын

Especially if she’s been raped and she knew that as well and has seen her own PARENTS have sex IN FRONT OF HER when she was ONLY 6

@MorrisFamily18

7 ай бұрын

@@thibilebhebhe if you going to try and tell something or have an input on something maybe learn the facts first or at least ask questions. The addiction came before the abuse FACTS. That’s my sister I know. You think we would’ve went on a show to get help for her, if we knew she wouldn’t receive no help? Not at all.

@tashiaredd3421

7 ай бұрын

@@MorrisFamily18sis don’t let these internet psychiatrist tell you anything. Especially when they’re not living your life with your lil sis. I wish your sister, girl and yourself all the best and I hope y’all can get the help you need!

@taosoni7197

7 ай бұрын

that's why she apologised for her language. not?

@Leelee0112

5 ай бұрын

@@MorrisFamily18 ​​⁠​⁠wait i thought the abuse was first…abused since 6 and that’s why she became an addict. Not being mean just confused. And also @apedaaa …being abused is wat caused the addiction no? So in correct terms she was or is (hopefully she’s worked/working on it) a sex addict. And may God bless ur whole family.💕

That baby needs all the help and love in this life . Somebody that has not suffered parental abandonment really before won't actually understand her pains . It hurts .

@afterthestorm9355

Жыл бұрын

I agree. The sister was raised by a strict mother and that’s what she knows-but she needs to learn how to communicate open heartedness-like velvet over steel. Be tough in terms of clarity and boundaries-but do so from an open heart of love. This sister and her partner are trying to help-and at a volatile time in this teen’s life. I pray they can get her professional help AND share with her how to develop self love. I have hope for this family!

This grown man wasn't expecting that sudden rush of tears when she said "That's all I ever wanted to hear."

I love Karamo. He really tries to help people.

@jamescook7094

Жыл бұрын

No no no... look up the pink sauce episode he showed his true color... racism

@beamingbri6176

Жыл бұрын

Yes we love him! ❤️

@blackberry9013

Жыл бұрын

​@James Cook thanks looking it up now

@jimmyneutron8914

Жыл бұрын

@@blackberry9013 don’t waste your time this dude is an idiot .. Karamo apologized and it wasn’t even how he’s Tryning to make it seem

@jamescook7094

Жыл бұрын

@@blackberry9013 No problem gurl!

I just wish we could normalize educating and validating our kids. Instead of shaming and condemning them for having age appropriate feelings. When we shame and condemn we push them towards doing the very thing we don't want them to do. Create safe spaces of your kids.... This baby has so much trauma and her sisters are contributing to her trauma. " Complex Trauma is a real thing. I send love and light to this baby and her family.

The fact that she was able to self diagnose is mind blowing. what an amazing brilliant young girl. I wish her nothing but the best. I truly hope she heals so she can just flourish and be great. shout out to the big sister too for stepping up - it sure takes a village.

I felt this episode deep down in my soul!! . As a 33 yr old man & Childhood Sexual Abuse/Physical abuse survivor I can 😢totally relate to the sister . It’s heartbreaking 💔 because I can totally relate to how it feels to be abandoned… Trauma never leaves you & we all cope differently with childhood trauma . I am a Recovering Sex addict/alcohol thank God for therapy / healing ❤️‍🩹, inner peace & a good support system now . At 10-11 yrs old my innocence was taken away an I’ve never ever been the same again. Sexual abuse/molestation/physical abuse changed me but I’m forever grateful I didn’t become what hurt me !! I choose to break generational curses. So proud of J’lea 😥😥😓 that’s exactly why you never can judge a book by its cover. I’m still healing from a lot but determined to be the best version of ME. Wish I could jump through this screen & give J’lea a Hug 🫂. All she needed was genuine love & to feel wanted

@shamayagibson9717

Жыл бұрын

Virtual hug ❤️

@triniji

Жыл бұрын

I don't know you but I'm proud of you. I pray that you know the worth of all of the hard work you've put into being your whole self. Bravo on being that example to others!🫡

@stephenchristian3636

Жыл бұрын

@@shamayagibson9717 Thanks love

@stephenchristian3636

Жыл бұрын

@@triniji Thank You so much

@annbarber2226

Жыл бұрын

@@shamayagibson9717 pm

I understand wanting to intervene and help out a child butttt why bring her on a national show ... that's embarrassing plus putting her business on full blast

@crysamor6596

Жыл бұрын

I understand your point, but Karamo is what helped them to understand her! He definitely gave me a clear understanding. Buutt.. the sister could have kept certain things out or told Karamo off cameras

@LoganTaliaferro

Жыл бұрын

@@crysamor6596 fr

@crazymusicgrlcheesecake

Жыл бұрын

She was destroying her life. Being on Karamo was probably a highlight.

@jazzyjennshighway

Жыл бұрын

If taking her on national tv for karamos therapy to get her help then who cares about embarrassment. Im sure the little sister finally feels heard & better than she did before the show. Plus the sister has tools to help her. And rather its national tv or not, ppl gone talk regardless ijs

@rose.g.

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. They should've had her in therapy and been in therapy with her.

The teenage girl might be doing the wrong things but, I don’t like how her older sister said things that embarrassed her on tv. She didn’t have to say she was having sex in stairwells & reading her personal messages. She’s going through enough.

@Sparklespice777

Жыл бұрын

I just said the same thing like noooo baby that would have made me reacted more sadly

@angelbarrett9408

Жыл бұрын

Her sister aint good even to because embarrassed nation tv and talk down on her. That why young lady don't trust at all.

@biancarivas8451

Жыл бұрын

For real

@tamarav0

Жыл бұрын

Right

@schoolgyaru

Жыл бұрын

she wasn't trying to embarrass her, she mentioned those things so karamo can get an understanding of what's going on. even if she WAS trying to embarrass her, she needs to realize that actions have consequences

I’m glad they apologized becuase calling her a sex addict was extreme language, especially with her being 15. Sexual assault at a young age can make them hypersexual, it’s not her fault she’s trying to take control of her life and her choices

I think the sister and her wife are doing their best and commend them both.

@wsjlcsw

Жыл бұрын

Yes! I think so many are overlooking the fact that they took her in when they didn’t have to. Then with her behavior it’s stressful. So I agree I commend them, because they didn’t have to.

@rickyo7061

7 ай бұрын

​​@@wsjlcswfacts, I'm glad they brought her there.

The apology at the end causing her to break down. She probably never heard that before 😞

No but seriously. Give this man an oscar or SOMETHING. Dude hits the nail or the head everytime.

I’m so proud of this young lady for speaking her truth. Now I do have an issue with her sister knowing about her trauma and, instead of calling a therapist, she called a talk show. I’m just gonna hope this was her last resort bc this really felt like she brought her younger sister on TV to embarrass her & give her a wake up call & that’s not what she needed.

@marieleblanc759

Жыл бұрын

Facts and her sisters girlfriend made me MAD ASF with all that " we did this we did that " when truly they didn't do shit but hurt her more and made her feel less of a person then they didn't even get hurt the help she needed !! This was so heartbreaking to watch I pray that she gets the HELP SHE NEEDS & LOVE SHE DESERVES she is gorgeous and so intelligent 😢❤

@kylynnmcmillian2067

Жыл бұрын

The young lady is intrinsically intelligent and has a determination to do well and right. The girlfriend said she's like that because of them (big sis and the girlfriend) They are full of talk and little real listening - it is sad that she is not the only young person going through this pain and acting out due to it.

@schoolgyaru

Жыл бұрын

i'm pretty sure karamo is a counselor

@fikilesondela9969

Жыл бұрын

The older sister is also dealing with her own issues...the wrong one here is the unavailable parent and not her older sister..at least the older sister is trying..the least we can do is upplaud her for playing a motherly role.

@ri-cee2100

Жыл бұрын

Therapy is incredibly expensive and hard to get for a minor when you’re not their legal guardian or parent if she just got guardianship instead of waiting for everything to go through and get birth certificates, social security cards, this could’ve been a last resort and it’s free plus Karamo can provide a lot of FREE resources unlike a therapist I think her sister is doing the best she can and took a good first step in the right direction.

If the sister knows about these things, why is she so confused about her behavior?

@octaviacunningham1641

Жыл бұрын

Not everyone acts out that way. I know plenty of people who dealt with this and a lot more including myself didn't act like that. I do empathize with all of them though. The sister stepped up and honestly that wasn't her responsibility she saw a need and tried to help it wasn't the best way however she did try. That poor 16 year old needs help that the sister may or may not have the resources or understanding to give. Hopefully the will get some counseling.

@sherei9530

Жыл бұрын

She's only 5 years older and just learning to adult.

She is such a beautiful young girl. I pray she receives counseling, support and healing and that she goes on to do well. I applaud her sister and her friend for stepping up and filling the gap left empty by her absent parents.

Big sister is handling this so so well. Unimaginable! 😢

This made me cry so hard because every documentary that I watched where the child is promiscuous and acting out they have either witnessed sexual violation or been sexually violated themselves. I need all of us to start realizing that when children cut up to this extreme they need help. It is a cry out!! Control your anger and listen and get them help!!

Man I wanna give this baby a hug. Omg she's hurting and needs someone they cares and stay by her side. She's so precious. She can be great if she can get help with healing this trauma.

I wanna make this very clear these aren’t no fake tears my little sister is hurting she wants to share her story I understand everybody has a opinion but don’t sit here and say my sisters are faking this is something my little sister felt comfortable sharing with the world and more teens have went through this as well think wiser before using those typing fingers everyone isn’t perfect ❤❤ I LOVE U LITTLE SISTER APPRECIATE THE POSITIVE AND the negative I’ll pray for y’all

@RedLipsRedWineRealTalk

Жыл бұрын

I Love You Sani ❤

@TriciaWilson

Жыл бұрын

Love to you and all your sisters!

@mizzmention8555

Жыл бұрын

Girl don't be explaining anything to the ignorant 🥺 Best wishes, love and prayers to all of you 🤗🤗🤗

@dawnpratt846

Жыл бұрын

So , so true because this story brought tears to my eyes too ‼️

@faithabara1251

Жыл бұрын

You deserve a billion hugs

The older sister and her gf took heed to Karamos advice and Im glad they are trying to understand her and communicate better. Blessings to these sisters and the gf as well ❤️

The worst pain that is not often talked about is rejection and abandonment from your mother. We get our identities from our mom, we need both parents and this is the direct result of being motherless. I pray she heals and navigates life after this 🥹❤️

She’s such a dynamic child, been through so much she didn’t deserve. I hope she finds her true path.

her little yes sir at the end...... thinking about her and wishing her well always on her healing journey

@crystal11507

Жыл бұрын

People really don’t know the adultification bias black girls go through that has been ignored for centuries. It shows up in truancy, promiscuous behavior. Black women forever center black boys in every aspect of their life, and there is no funding in programs for black girls in comparison to black boys. Until bw care about black girls like they do black boys, this will never end.

I’m crying so bad 😢I’m so glad she has a sister who loves her. I hope she start to heal, she is a very intelligent and beautiful young lady! I really hope she keeps going and make a good life for herself ❤❤

As a teacher, I never know what my students are going through at home. I just receive their backlash. It is HARD. Hearing this helps me understand some of the behaviors. The disrespect is strong but I’m trying. It is so difficult to try and teach a child who goes through stuff like this. I feel helpless but I’m still trying. Not sure how much longer I can last but these kids need help. It is so hard.

@trinanineteen7398

Жыл бұрын

I understand when they are rude, nasty, crude, etc., it is hard.

@ManiAnger

11 ай бұрын

Prayers to you!

@monetblue2321

11 ай бұрын

I appreciate you!

@hiim4212

11 ай бұрын

Thank you for being one of the teacher who try and make school learnable and enjoyable

@lizdexamphetamine

11 ай бұрын

as someone who was fforced to leave school early bc of behavioral issues and a real messy family (that i was kicked out of in the last 4 months of being at school), please just give these kids the benefit of the doubt, ask them to stay after class, so you can ask them 'how are you feeling? whats going on at home? what's going on in your head, do you need any extra time, how can i make you comfortable to forget your homelife and focus in here?' cause most of these kids, they want an education, they want to do good, but the more rejection and punishment and misunderstanding they face the harder it is for them to want to keep showing up.

She doesn't deserve all that has happened to her...atleast she has a someone that loves her wholeheartedly,She'll get through this.

He’s a genuinely caring guy who goes out of the way to make his guests feel comfortable. He ain’t like someone who will tell you to get off his stage. And you know who I’m talking about

There's something I've been noticing that's so underrated that Karamo gives his guests, and that's giving them a hug, even though not everyone can be receptive of that, I think its such a beautiful gesture and can actually mean a lot to someone. ❤✨

I don’t like how big sis is coming off!!! She should have booked a private session , not a session on National tv downing and airing out her 16 yr old lil sister sexual business for the world to see and hear, especially knowing she’s been sexually traumatized as a young adolescence💔Than on top of that, being judgemental when I know for CERTAIN she than done things she’s not too proud of and wouldn’t won’t the world to see or hear. So why do that to your little sister?? This should have been a private session for baby girl❤ Wishing her much love, healing, and peace🫶🏾🙏🏾❤….

Wow . At 16 she’s been through enough, she knows what she needs , she’s asking for it and her mind is on another level than the adults in her life. I truly wish her the best and pray she gets the guidance she needs

as soon as i heard “sex addict” i knew that she was sexually abused/assaulted bc being “promiscuous” or boy crazy is a HUGE sign of sexual assault

*”What was the excuse when she was with her mother”?* Umm, she spoke in great detail and made it very clear that she was living in an extremely dysfunctional situation, so that is her “excuse”. I think the sister and the GF do truly love this beautiful young lady, and they want the best for her, but I think they’re going to need a lot of ongoing guidance to help bring her through this situation, and she definitely needs some professional help. I applaud the GF for encouraging the sister to bring her into their home. Also, just so we’re clear…babygirl is getting those good grades because of *HERSELF.* You all are the facilitators, but it’s her own intelligence that’s banking those grades.

@RedLipsRedWineRealTalk

Жыл бұрын

Actually she have those good grades because of us. If we don’t push her and help her with her work and check her assignments daily to make sure everything is done correctly and if not WE make sure to see that it will be done right. So once again I say she has those good grades because of us, before we took her in when she was with the mom she literally was failing everything, now she will be graduating from high school a year early. I couldn’t be more proud of her. I asked what was the excuse when she was with her mother because when she was with the dad she cried out for her mom then she got with the mom and walked all over top of her like she was the child. She did a lot of things to get with the mom to only get there and act grown. So when she got with us and realized she no longer had the luxury of being grown and doing all the grownup activities she quickly started talking that mom talk again, but not to have to mom and be with the mom but to just live like a grownup.

I just wanna run and adopt this baby and give her hugs all day long and tell her how valuable she is!!!! This was so sad 😢

This is one of the saddest episodes I hate when children have to suffer like this 😢

This was excellent. When children are acting out in whatever way, that’s the tip of the iceberg. The bad or unwanted behavior is a symptom of a deeper issue. What a bright and beautiful young person she is. Once her older sister & girlfriend have the right tools and that understanding, that young lady is going to (continue) thrive! Her being there, as beautiful and intelligent as she is, is already a testament…but her testimony once the healing starts is going to be extraordinary. Many blessings to this young lady and her older sister & girlfriend, glad she now can truly experience love being in their care.

God she is such a beautiful young lady. I am praying for her strength! She’s going to be so amazing 🤍

She looking for love in all the wrong places. She is trying to fill the void for abandonment. She was painfully honest with her pain listen to her and help her heal.

I couldn't hold my tears back. 😢I would like to hear an update, and I pray the sisters get some counseling.

This show has not been around very long .. but where it was at the beginning and where it has been these past few months is incredible. Karamo and staff are killing it.

as someone who took on their younger siter after she's been so much. I understood the sister's feelings but I also needed to hear Karamo's feedback. It's a hard spot to be in as a sister/guardian.

@moramorak

10 ай бұрын

This!!!!!!!!

If she only knew that never goes away. I got abandoned by my dad TWICE in the same lifetime. It sucks, but you gotta realize they are weak and you are strong. You will never get the love you're screaming for from the person you want it from, but instead look at all the other people that surround you with love. Karamo is such a gem❤

She’s a very smart girl, she knows exactly what she needs help with. That baby is crying inside and her sister cannot help her at all.

I want to hear the updates with her 🥺 she’s so sweet and her sister and her girlfriend were open to listening and growing for her.

This poor child. 😢 I pray she gets what she needs. But often times situations like this only lead you down a long road of mistakes until you surrender your will and desires to God who loves and cares for you. I hope her journey isn't as long as mine. 🙏🏾

This hurt me so much, what she went through. I feel so much for her. The sister should have given us this background. Don't make it seem like she is just a bad person. This baby is crying out

I felt this deeeeep in my spirit . I resonate w both sisters from being a traumatized teenager to now being a 33 yo mother of 3 (w a 10yo daughter whose growing into herself everyday) !!! This had me in tears . I salute Karamo ! He brings out the REAL in ppl everytime ❤❤❤❤

she is so cute and respectful i wish her well 🥺💕

From experience. A young girl that’s looking for affection or love from relationships too early is because they aren’t feeling enough love, support and affection from their parents or the people they really desire it from.

@simoneh.5416

5 ай бұрын

I typed this before it even fully started. Now hearing her story . It’s exactly what I said ! Whew

Her sis, though essentially lovely is ill equipt to take this phenomenally clever beautiful and abused young girl on.

She seems manipulative. The fact that she knows right from wrong and still chooses the latter

@ramonahamm6292

Жыл бұрын

It’s not manipulative.. it’s learned behavior.. she is only 16 and is repeating what she know and has witnessed..

@cherubsenchantedgarden7818

11 ай бұрын

You gotta be kidding me. There's no way you just said that... She's just aware of why she's the way she is she just has to break it

@sagephillip2446

11 ай бұрын

Sometimes it’s hard to break cycles Antoinette… she’s a product of her own environment. Don’t be so quick to judge

@kasshhbanditVlogs

4 ай бұрын

Exactly blaming everyone for her choices . She is a fast little girl, she uses the past traumas to validate the stuff she does. Tryna be everyone else

I’m so glad Karamo Hugged her, let her speak her heart out because she needed that ! She’s in pain, she just want the attention, the love and to know shes wanted by her someone ! But mainly her parent but since her sister has taken on the motherly role she desires that hole to be filled by her sister in the most vulnerable and genuine way.

Omg this baby🥺🥺 I pray she gets the support, guidance, and love that she deserves and needs 🥺🥺

@reannasimone3267

8 ай бұрын

And kudos to her sister and her sisters girlfriend for loving her and doing their absolute best!! I pray for the best for all of them!

Hats off to you Karamo, love the way you handle young lady who’s in so much pain. I pray they will get her some therapy and continue to show her love.

i totally understand how she feels because im going through something very similar .

She made me cry seriously. This young lady is so smart.

She is so beautiful. She needs alot of love and guidance.

Pretty, Articulate & Eloquent ! She is feeling pain. I pray that her mother will get see this show and turn her life around. I would have!!! But then again it is the willpower. Proud of the sister and the friend. They genuinely wants the best for her. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿 Karamo, I am surprise you didn’t offer her counselling 🤔

Baby girl recognize that you don’t want that consolation from those hormonal little boys either. It’s true that a lot of kids get into that kind of stuff but we grow and regret it boo. All that hair in her pretty face, she reminds me of me. I was her. Hiding out loud. Screaming under the guise of apathy. But I really had no one baby girl and you have 2 strong women who really care. Your life is just beginning ❤

Those that seek love, have lost love.

Wow she’s stunning ❤ She’s going to make it. I’ve sealed my prayer 🙏🏾 I also pray strength to her sister ❤

EVERYTHING out the way, Julia is so freaking pretty. Just look at her. Her style, choice of clothing, the locs, and her beautiful hoop earrings, I would love to befriend her. 4:42 This just hurts me omg 6:07 This is so disgusting, I just wish this woman the best.

Omg she’s so beautiful!!! I wish her the best on her journey. She’s so intelligent.

“ It’s easy for us to think that kids who’ve gone through stuff need tough love. But it’s exactly the exact opposite. Love should never be tough”

Such a real, nice man to hug her and hold her and let her cry and get close so she feels safe🥹 I’m crying 😭❤️

People that are on drugs should never have children, period!

@sherei9530

Жыл бұрын

Agreed. It seems the mom became addicted after J'Lea was born. Mama may have suffered a trauma as well. Where are dad and grandma?

I knew it was more. Poor baby! She’s looking for love in all the wrong places. Take your sister & her girlfriends love and become a better person than your mother was. You’re beautiful, bright & can be anything you want to be. Your sister just want you to make better decisions.

I couldn’t hold back tears watching this, im 18 now but i get how the younger sister feels.

Got me ugly crying. The pain and struggle that they all are going through...I pray that it gets better for them

I really hope she’s doing well. She is sooo beautiful and intelligent!

Karamo is such an amazing person for communicating his knowledge around trauma in such a perfect way that actually helps people. This made me sob so see a girl be so open about her pain and for Karamo to be able to help her. He's such an amazing person. ❤

I pray she gets the help she needs because she so young. It hurts to hear her say the people she needed in her life the most are not there for her. Thats her parents she loves and feels they don't love her by neglecting her. Just so sad, god blessings and love to this child. She needs to feel gods love would make all the difference. 🙏❤❤❤❤🙏👍🥰

Oh my... what a beautiful and intelligent young lady. I pray she finds the support she needs to heal from the hurt her parents caused, it won't be easy but just listening to her, I know she can do it. Bless her sisters for stepping in during this time, I know it's hard trying to raise a teen sibling... I've been there and felt like a failure. Even when I thought I was giving my all (love and support) it was never enough to heal those wounds that caused them to act out. I'll be praying for this family 🙏🏾

He’s such a great, caring host. You can tell he genuinely cares and that it’s not just about the views. This one brought me to tears because she’s clearly crying out for just love and affection- she’s just going to the wrong places for it. I pray she’s on a path to healing today 🫶🏼🙏🏼

My heart breaks for this young lady. Please get her the help she needs because they don't have the compacity to understand what she's going through! Of course, she romanticizes things when her life has been hell. The gf is speaking from her own pain and projecting it onto the young lady. It doesn't matter what you've experienced and survived it. It was still dysfunctional. She's not built for that! She's looking for love!

@RedLipsRedWineRealTalk

Жыл бұрын

You are absolutely wrong on every point. For one I haven’t ever been through no pain of this sort at all, for two my parents are very much so active currently in my life, for three we went on the show clearly because we love her and want the best for her that’s why we reached out for help, for four we refuse for her to throw her life away for a momentary feeling and not finish school or end up a teen mom. For the last reason I wasn’t raised that way I was raised that a child is a child and when you start paying your own bills in your own house you are an adult and can do as you please. When she finish college with her doctorate degree she’ll Thanks us for wanting the best for her. I’m not putting my pain off on her I don’t have any pain to put on her. I wasn’t ever touched or nothing like that. I just love her and I know she really want better for herself. We just had to get past that hump and Karamo got us over it. Hopefully we get the chance to give you guys an update so.

She is the most emotionally intelligent teenager besides myself I’ve ever seen.

MAN Karamo my guy. I’ve been courting your channel for awhile now and this segment right here did it for me. You just don’t know how many tools I be taking from you it’s ridiculous. I appreciate my brother!!!

She still in survival and fight mode. Hope she heal and overcome her pain. Blessings🙌🏾💫✨️

I would love to hug her. I hope she knows that she will be ok. It’s hard and I know what she is going thru hurts …. I hope she will be surrounded by positive people.

She is so self-aware and smart. She is going to change so many lives. She is so beautiful. She has taken her mom's addiction personally and that it's her. We have to get follow up on this princess

This episode rlly made me cry, I could feel her hurt through the screen and I pray she finds some of closure and the love she deserves.

From someone who felt like they were a inconvenience as a child, I know exactly how she feels, this is what happens when parents don't parent especially when a father doesn't make their daughter feel important and that she is loved and she matters. She will grow out of it but she is going to need help. She's hurting but most importanly she feels abandoned.