I could watch her speak for HOURS! her wisdom is SOOOOOOOO profound !!

@maha88888

6 жыл бұрын

Johnny Arellano right?! My soul resonates like crazy whenever I hear her speak.

@chewkarin8285

4 жыл бұрын

Me tooooooooo. I love all her talks

As an educator in the education system myself, I find her so refreshing and wish more teachers would watch her! We need more conscious educators in this form system

Thank you for discussing disciplining the child. I sucked at "punishment". Couldn't remember how long a time out was. Lol. Always forgetting my childs "wrong doing" so quickly. But yet, needed to somehow encourage wise choice making. I had to get reeeeally creative. Couldn't spank. Sucked at time outs. Wasn't a reward for "doing good" kinda mom either. I always just tried to put her in her own drivers seat and offer myriad consequences. So much less stressful. And she learned so much more quickly than I could have ever dreamt possible. I was raised in a gently abusive environment. Not wanting the same pitfalls yet zero direction available matching my vibe frequency. So wonderful this generation has you and any unsung hero for consciousness doing this work. Indefatigably. 🇺🇸🙏🏻❤

I deeply emphasize with your insanity. God, I love her! Dr Shefali is hilarious and so inspiring, she has helped me tremendously on my parenting journey. Her rawness is so refreshing

That`s amazing! I resonate with every thought! Many people around me doubted my way of parenting. Including my husband )) Sometimes the only thing which kept me holding to it was my doughter`s saying every day "I love you to the moon and back and even more". Hearing "Thank you" from her after moments when I chose to behave from my heart rather than do "what a good parent should" kept me flowing. What a relief to know now that my heart is the right teacher and that`s really hard but the right way! And even more! It turn out that the parenting can and should be even more "insane" by words of others, more "heartminded", more "whole" by the words of my heart. Thank you eternally Dr. Shefali! Thank you Mindwalley! Thank you Vishen!!

First principle in education: Your children do not belong to you.... You do not belong to them. Peace and love from Algeria!

1:00:42 "The child is forever grand and forever worthy. But when they look at us, reflecting through _our_ eyes, _our_ inner shame, they feel the schism starting. And they go, 'But _I'm_ okay. I didn't do something _so_ bad. Why are you yelling at me like that?' . . . . So that look is from _your_ inner schism, that you are now projecting onto him and now you're believing he's carrying it so you're perpetuating it . . . So you work on your inner wholeness, and keep healing your own inner child . . . " Thank you, Dr. Tsabary.

Dr Shefali has really helped me understand my parents better

@victorinaevelyncastillo8360

5 жыл бұрын

An Awakening-let’s breathe - she found the cure.

This was one of the best fireside chats at MVU. Thank you so much Dr. Shefali!

"Not where the soul is abducted in obeisance", girl, this shit is so fucking tight. LOVE YOU for your conduits ability. Endless thanks for being brave enough to be so present and available to others. 🇺🇸🙏🏻

Dr. Shefali, everything you say makes perfect sense and you make parenting sound so much hopeful! I would LOVE to see you in person very soon!!! Thank you Mindvalley for sharing this nice chat!!! 💙💚💛🧡

I love Dr. Shefali,her work is amazing

Identity is form. Form is grounding for spirit. Choosing form to ground in comes in vibrational matching. "Coalescing". To forever say "there are many beautiful things about many things, choose what feels good to you and I will try to see that with you. And that collective of choices will be your identity. And it won't be the doctored tailored regurgitation. ...lol, atleast not until we hit a critical mass of conscious belief. Then we'll have to use the same mechanics to answer those future questions." Thankfully critical mass on this form of conscious conversation will take a while, so, let's take great notes while we're here now. So people of 300 years from now will see how we did it. Sorry so chatty but THIS presentation is a really good one.

Dr.Shefali thank u so much,love to watching u. I am having now two years old daughter so called “high demanded” , every time u are talking about your daughter I feel like it is ok what I am going through with her. Thank u , greetings from Czech Republic :))

Dr. Shefali, you are such an inspiration. It is a pleasure to indulge on your intellect and humor. Hope you will come to Croatia soon.

As a Christian, I agree with her stance on religion. God dwells within us, we should look within for our spiritual life.

Dr. Shefali has come into my life at the right time. Love it.

God damn she’s good! Soooo good 😊

Love you Shefali! Thank you for speaking truth!!! Just a huge support for understanding what's going on with me as being a parent!!!!

An eye-opening point of view, inspiring and deliberating. Thank you!

I keep coming back to this interview, it's the most enlightening, covering all my issues really in one clip. I've seen others of her that were informative, but this one hit all the right spots. I'm glad I've discovered this, even though it's been 3 years of messing up, & feeling like the monster/psycho/dictator mom. Only feeling like a true mother once a day. But now AlhamduliAllah, I feel the joy of motherhood 50% of the time, which is still work in progress. & I do fall back to my old monster mode psychopath, but the dictator is totally dead. Yay!

Love Dr. Shefali! This is great

Amazing Dr. Shefali..The best video, chat session I have ever seen on parenting

Hai mam, Iam highly surprised to go totally with u... Iam childless according to the world' but I feel the motherhood by knowing that a child an individual, who shld learn move & do everything all of its own,. at times my work is to acknowledge the child saying yeah it's quiet natural.... God is so generous by not giving a baby of my own & to be with my stupid living... Yeah Iam running a tuition centre with 30 to 40 children who r all receiving a perfect parenting & teaching it to me....

Mind blowing session. Dr Shefali is too good.

Love this lady

Love love love this! Fantastic!

She is so wise!!! Thanks for sharing this ❤️

An amazing , insightful conversation! Thank you!

Thank you !!!!

Brilliant discussion, love, love, love it. Watched it for the 4th time. Life & language lesson, all her PhD words are improving my own grammar :)

Lmao. "2 months old already a mistake shop is closed", aaaahahahaha Love it

You are awesome Shefali

“He’s like it’s already too late.”❤️❤️😂😂

Awesome interview.. Thank you Vishen and Dhefali:) Very informative...

Oh my gosh! I miss her sooooo much! I took a year long course in 2017 with her and I haven't been the same since. This video reminded me of her gift to the world.

@mmulematjila2565

6 жыл бұрын

where? and how?

I feel quite certain my reverse psychology on grades worked well for my child. Lol "Mommy doesn't care if you graduate or not. These are the choices, these are the paths and these are the end results." Of course I also said "if you take paths i disagree with we simply won't be in the same world." Haha Not that I won't love her. Just that my life is independent of hers and hers is independent of mine and we each make choices. I just love her. And i tell her i trust her ability to make excellent decisions for herself. And she knows she has a long life to explore all her choices and consequences. Its so freeing. And she is an amazing human to know. She's 18 now. Its taken so many different techniques but the one of "hands off" (though it took me time to learn it and I sucked at it for probably the first 10 years), ...hands off is so much more profitable for spirit. Kinda makes me wanna cry when I feel me with her. Just so fluid and true and accepting of life as its happening. Shit I wish I could bottle and sell. Simple lived nirvana. Yes. Even with the suffering. Suffering just shifts a bit. Into something tolerable in a desired way. A learning way.

" I am not that dedicated" 🤣

awesome

I started you course in Mindvalley 😉

❤

When I 1st heard her talk I was swept away.... but something gnawed away at me.... and I realised she would make a GREAT cult leader. Those extended moments of penetrative eye contact b/t her and the interviewer. I believe she is actually a covert narcissist. I have a LOT of experience with these types of people and have been in several cults myself, eg. the Hare Krsna's, Siddha Yoga, Satyanada Yoga, & Advaita Vedanta groups (which I actually quite like as a philosophy - mainly Ramana Maharshi's idea of who am I). I was with my child today and it hit me like a tonne of bricks. I am here to tell him right from wrong until he is old enough to decipher it himself. Simple. And there will even be times when I raise my voice. When she tells you that you're doing it wrong, that ''no one should have children for several generations'' (she has said that in 1 vid) that is a red flag, classic cult leader technique!!!!!!! Peace out peeps, stay true to you xx

With regard to systems: Me: are you sure you want to choose this school? My daughter: yes Me: you've been in an elementary of exploration school and homeschool and now you want a rigrous academic experience? My daughter: i know (She was 12 when she was deciding) Me: so, you can't stick to a schedule at home without me prodding, but you want to attend the best highschool in town and work tirelessly on getting A's and attempt to get into a really good college and become something the world is telling you to become? My daughter: yes. (As her mother I knew she was capable of both failing and succeeding at this endeavor) Me: ok. Well, let's apply and see what happens. She applied, she got in, she moved in with her father and for 6 years lived a very routine reality. Every morning was exactly the same. Every class was the same time. Every requirement to attain grades to acheive a graduation from the classes as well as, ultimately, from the school itself, was accomplished. Simultaneously I kept saying "you can always drop out if you think you can't handle it" My daughter: no mom. I can handle it. And she did. And I of course told her she needed As in THAT SYSTEM to acheive the goals THAT SYSTEM placed before her. My daughter: i know mom. As a free range mother who knows anything is possible because billions of systems are always entangled and overlapping, I simply said "ok". Now? She is in a gap year. And I am so thankful for her deciding to do that. She graduated with grades that allowed her to apply for honors college but at the last minute decided to look at her life differently. Her growth in just 6 months post highschool is phenomenal. Why? Because she is seeing for her own self other aspects of other systems. Not just the 1 system of academia from just 1 perspective. The discourse around this topic for her and I had evolved so well that to witness her today is pure joy. To be entirely detached from the outcome that her success is wrapped entirely in a degree from a school for a career has freed us both. Its really great. Honestly. And she moves so slowly in a world moving so quickly and always rushing through systems with nearly zero instruction on the human organism and its natural evolvement. Very pleasing. And I suppose, if I had a dream that some idealic child were to be? She is ABSOLUTELY a favorite person for me on this earth. Because she truly is aware of a great deal more than most her age. But her journey is different. She isn't having the same conversations as her friends who all chose college. She is choosing to see the systems of her own truth and learning to navigate those. What is this when I help this person this way? What is the math for living here "for free" with regard to responsibility to that ability? She cares for the animals as payment. She works in the garden that feeds the household as payment. She works on the house inside and out. She practices her art. She studies for her own self what she wants to learn. And if we have 100 years, and she is 18 doing all this in just 6 months after being released from the rigor of an academic system designed to ensure all beings do what is required in that system to attain whatever the reward was/is (diploma/grades that matter)...i would have to say she is one of the most successful 18 year olds I know. Its slow. Steady. Intentional. And I value that because the world is swfit and wreckless and ignorant to many degrees. Thankful for the ability to HEAR in my own mind when as a parent I may have expressed "government over reach". Lol To the outside worlds that neeeeeed the degree and neeeeeed the recognition of accomplishments and neeeeeed to show the world, she may seem lazy and disinterested and disconnected. But I see her process. And so I merely reaffirm her. "Stay focused. Give freely. Practice. Be honest. If someone is giving alot? Take and return with balanced giving, or? Tell them to stop giving because yer trying to keep your inner spiritual checkbook in balance on the physical plain" ...shit like that.

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@SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd

25 күн бұрын

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@SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd

25 күн бұрын

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@SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd

25 күн бұрын

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@SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd

25 күн бұрын

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@SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd

25 күн бұрын

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Shes right tho

one thing about this Indian lady that amaze me is why she doesn't have Indian accent?

14:26 Modern age interviewer

Perfect The form is a conduit. The childs body is form. That child's body is not our own. That is the first step to understanding. Remove the notion of ownership of the other and their form. To somehow immediately be aware a parent is to CARE for that childs form to keep its form safe, but not claim that childs form as their own. As if to imagine a child is leaving "home" right at birth. Hard to separate child in utero from ownership. Can you discuss child in utero and formlessness as well as ownership. Example; Because in utero infant IS in fact directly part of my own form, is then the only want my own health and in that the future forms safety without my wanting it per se? Looking for words for in utero. I am pro choice. Precisely because form and formless and will and laws of what my universe has shown me. Do you have meditation or practice to remove the illusion that child in utero is a separate being when attached to host form? I have already decided for my own life, however, I feel this could be an excellent conversation for prolife and prochoice on the physical plain to create some depth of awareness while still preventing a disconnect to "life". Anywho... Excellent work. Endless thanks for your energy work on this earth in these times. Namaste

I never lie to my kid. If my kid said "whats this song about", i said "a man wanted to have sex with a woman". Cognitive awareness is so great like this because when a child of 7 asks about sex, they have nearly no way of understanding its entirety. And by the time they're 10 they're nearly ready to begin a more rigrous sexual understanding and need to learn healthy sexual expression. Don't worry so much about telling them the truth. Its alot like the adult jokes in kids movies. Even if you explained them in ABSOLUTE detail, they wouldn't have the capacity. And lieing COULD result in some funny adult conversation when child matures, OR could become a gateway for building a lack of trust. I told my child to lie when she felt her life was being threatened. Like the backpack. Is this knowledge going to eat my child? Kill my child? No. Its sex. And normal. And the less taboo the greater the likelihood of them being responsibly curious and ALWAYS having a parent they can deeeepky trust for truth and guidance. Chocolate cake isn't spicy. Its fucking delicious. But what can happen to the body if too much cake? We've had cake for dinner and dinner for breakfast and we refused to be forced to conform. Lol. Yes. When chocolate cake is breakfast? It ABSOLUTELY is thee most important meal of the day. No lies. Unless death is immanent. Spirit WILLS us toward even greater truth. Trust it. Well, unless you have truly unruly mentally and emotionally challenged angry children with zero impulse control. Then, sure, get creative with truth. My opinion.

Breakfirst is the WORST meal in a day ! Understand that !

really disappointed that she used ocd as an adjective

She is wrong in a lot of things and right in a lot of things.

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