Dr Shefali at THE HUMAN GATHERING

Shefali Tsabary, Ph.D., is a clinical psychologist with a private practice in New York. She is the author of is the award-winning, The Conscious Parent. Prefaced by HH The Dalai Lama, this book revolutionizes the parenting paradigm. Check more details at: drshefali.com/

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  • @kirsyssanchez9550
    @kirsyssanchez95505 жыл бұрын

    This truly just confirmed why I’ve felt and act the way I do. My entire life of feeling I didn’t belong in this world because I don’t agree with its customs and I just want to be me for whoever I want to be at that moment! This is just so inspirational and what great way of waking up to this deep breath of fresh air! Thank you!!!

  • @MusicMostlyIndian
    @MusicMostlyIndian6 жыл бұрын

    She is relaying the age-old wisdom of India. Read Ramana Maharshi - "Who am I?". Read Nisargadatta - "I am That". Read about Advaita Vedanta. She is articulate and is able to share the wisdom of the sages/ages in a very modern way. Wonderful!

  • @MusicMostlyIndian

    @MusicMostlyIndian

    3 жыл бұрын

    @faith umuk Yes - when we are more aware of our own strengths and the wisdom our own traditions bring, then we are able to deflect superficial (and sometimes popular) and unhealthy ways of thinking and living.

  • @thetaooftravel7913

    @thetaooftravel7913

    3 жыл бұрын

    she is certainly doing so and in such a contemporary way, jai ho!

  • @joyfullyenjoy

    @joyfullyenjoy

    3 жыл бұрын

    @faith umuk white people?? What has it got to do with white people..

  • @joyfullyenjoy

    @joyfullyenjoy

    3 жыл бұрын

    @faith umuk the very fact you use youtube is technology grow up this has nothing to do with the west. You have a force without you.. that the breath of the almighty..

  • @charubala6307

    @charubala6307

    Жыл бұрын

    She is an indian

  • @GPNetwork100
    @GPNetwork1005 жыл бұрын

    Dr. Tsabary is one of a kind. While being a professional she is also living in her humanist of NOW and total Presence. She is special. Listen to her each and everyday. You will gain by accident as the seeds falling from the tree. Love her!!!!!

  • @maureenceglia8571

    @maureenceglia8571

    5 жыл бұрын

    I loved what she said about not reading any books, looking at youtube, she does breathing meditation. (I'm constantly reading self help books and looking at youtube videos) I'm going to take her suggestion and for 5 minutes every hour I will listen to my breath and let it transform my life. Of course I loved this whole video. 😁

  • @Sunshowers902
    @Sunshowers9027 жыл бұрын

    She is so good that I had to pause in between to digest the information. Wow

  • @joshuhwah94
    @joshuhwah945 жыл бұрын

    The Buddha said if you see a Buddha outside kill the Buddha! Hahah I love this woman so much. Her wisdom and honesty is mind shattering. I have done the quickest and largest amount of healing since following her words. Ironically I’ve found, a lot of what she says, I have thought to myself at one time. The truth really is in you all along 💖

  • @LudmilaLimaVideos
    @LudmilaLimaVideos7 жыл бұрын

    32 minutes of wisdom! It´s so good to hear Dr. Shefali. Thanks for all these remembering!

  • @OKae88
    @OKae886 жыл бұрын

    This is the future of parenting, changing the global consciousness, one parent and child at a time. The time for global awakening here!

  • @youlaki16
    @youlaki165 жыл бұрын

    You are a “breath” of fresh air! Thank you! 🙏🏻

  • @saemafahmi5283
    @saemafahmi52837 жыл бұрын

    This is a full package. Always refereshing to hear you talk. Thankyou

  • @zayhenriquez472
    @zayhenriquez4724 жыл бұрын

    Dr Shefali you are really a true inspiration. I’m so blessed and got to you and you are teaching me so much. Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @tutis50
    @tutis504 жыл бұрын

    Wow! If you could apply just 10% of your wisdom... love your teachings!! Thank you!! Please keep changing the world!!

  • @geraldinepalaj1221
    @geraldinepalaj12214 жыл бұрын

    Realizing that I've been trying unsuccessfully (fortunately) to get my chilfren stick on the form when they were desperatingly trying to show (teach) me to get out of it. And my point of view was "how come my own children can go against me". And I was loosing all my energy in fighting them, asking myself what did I do to deserve this? when they were giving me a gift each day. Thanks to them 🙏. With all my gratitude ❤️

  • @brendac5724
    @brendac57247 жыл бұрын

    So hard not to judge, as you watch Dr Shefali speak, as she is so beautiful, eloquent, charming and smart. Wondeful messages, tho, breathe and go within. The rest is noise.

  • @Sunshowers902
    @Sunshowers9027 жыл бұрын

    Amazing human being 😍 I am in awe. She has no pride and is so real

  • @DarylMedia
    @DarylMedia5 жыл бұрын

    I love these talk especially when it’s Dr Shefali Tsabary

  • @bonnie7237
    @bonnie72373 жыл бұрын

    The most realistic, honest and truthful approach I have ever heard in my 61 years of life. Excellent! Supports the quantum approach to a resolution of dilemmas life has manufactured for us and we unknowingly became a part of.

  • @ABDULKHAN-tg6wu
    @ABDULKHAN-tg6wu5 жыл бұрын

    Awesome ...Wisdom so precious from Dr.Shefali..Much power to you doctor

  • @valerycroes7424
    @valerycroes74245 жыл бұрын

    OMG i love Dr Shefali soo much, Thank you for sharing your wisdom, Namaste

  • @jenna7060
    @jenna70604 жыл бұрын

    I love you Shefali .. and I didn’t mention docteur . ❤️😘

  • @fatboyannie
    @fatboyannie Жыл бұрын

    Shefali is still relevant 5 years later. Will never get tired with her no bullshit approach.

  • @kayajackson50
    @kayajackson505 жыл бұрын

    I’m so glad I discovered you today! Thank you for your beautiful message ❤️

  • @krainey
    @krainey4 жыл бұрын

    Shefali and her words are a gift to our generation ❤

  • @mahebg
    @mahebg6 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful and wonderful! I love her, this is the best refresh I hear in the last few years of teachings

  • @monikashealingyoga4853
    @monikashealingyoga48534 жыл бұрын

    It’s always such a pleasure to listen to you. The resonance is spot on always, so much validation and heart expansion. ❤️

  • @mindmomentum-emotionalwell6343
    @mindmomentum-emotionalwell63437 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your wisdom and inspiration - as always!

  • @AnneWalter
    @AnneWalter6 жыл бұрын

    OMG! SPEECHLESS.........❤️

  • @user-bk9mq8pr3f
    @user-bk9mq8pr3f5 жыл бұрын

    Amazing! I admire her

  • @Ourloveheals
    @Ourloveheals4 жыл бұрын

    She is an inspiration!!!!

  • @priyankasara8805
    @priyankasara88054 жыл бұрын

    27:30 Interviewer: wowow, let's not get too crazy 27:31Shefali: true , committed and in integrity with the message through the wise mind, declares the message. No reactivity , no stand up, no bigotry, no display of dejection that wisdom is not seen for what it is . True respect for your being Shefali Thank you, I learnt a lesson. respect. 🙏

  • @irinamim

    @irinamim

    3 жыл бұрын

    28:06 interviewer: maybe a litte 28:06 dr Shefali: the same 🙏

  • @blisswkc3344
    @blisswkc33443 жыл бұрын

    Thank y’all so much dearest 🌹 Y’all such an inspiration 🥰 Be Blissful Eternally 🙏😇🌈

  • @lateeshahinton5842
    @lateeshahinton58426 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for that!

  • @MakenaMirero
    @MakenaMirero4 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely feeling this message is all i can say. Thank you Shefali

  • @melissasue3328
    @melissasue33283 жыл бұрын

    Love her! Amazing wisdom every.single.time!

  • @monikashealingyoga4853
    @monikashealingyoga48534 жыл бұрын

    The teacher is always ready. It’s the student that needs to appear. ❤️🙏

  • @sarahwood-qj6by
    @sarahwood-qj6by3 жыл бұрын

    Your brilliant.. You are definitely changing the world

  • @eb6901
    @eb69017 жыл бұрын

    wow wow wow, thank you for sharing!

  • @m4ri5a8
    @m4ri5a85 жыл бұрын

    Just WOW. Thank you

  • @lauraezeanishealthyliving9644
    @lauraezeanishealthyliving96442 жыл бұрын

    I'm learning like crazy .... I've been following you for quite a while ... I'm on my pathway of liberation.... still few things to work on but that's the beauty of it ... thank you

  • @Illuminous56
    @Illuminous565 жыл бұрын

    She should teach the last higher GE class in college...Before we go ahead and start messing up life and have Children of our own. 😤

  • @Freetobeme8181

    @Freetobeme8181

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes!! I would even say way before college because kids are having kids really young like 15/16 😳

  • @thetaooftravel7913
    @thetaooftravel79133 жыл бұрын

    I LOVE THIS WOMAN!

  • @isagymluver3214
    @isagymluver32143 жыл бұрын

    Amázing! I love how much she’s bringing conscious awareness. Everyone we meet teaches us what we need

  • @tone4684
    @tone46843 жыл бұрын

    Universe blesses us, Thankyou

  • @matiyanko1493
    @matiyanko14933 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for going online 🙏🏻

  • @pkpillai5635
    @pkpillai56354 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much ❤🙏🙏🙏

  • @vivienrhodes4248
    @vivienrhodes42483 жыл бұрын

    Be accountable for who you are and grow more and it's on going

  • @jyotiashokgoyal
    @jyotiashokgoyal2 жыл бұрын

    Love Dr Shefali🙌

  • @sonnyvaldez3019
    @sonnyvaldez30194 жыл бұрын

    I love your truth!!

  • @heatherxlotus
    @heatherxlotus3 жыл бұрын

    Fantastic teaching on the breath! Life changing 🙏🏼

  • @silvestrerasuk1
    @silvestrerasuk14 жыл бұрын

    💥🔥🔥💥 WOW AND THANKYOU! sharing this now

  • @shaunalarabell5262
    @shaunalarabell52624 жыл бұрын

    This lady. ♥️

  • @moliephoenix
    @moliephoenix2 жыл бұрын

    Love this 💛

  • @sherrysteffen7765
    @sherrysteffen7765 Жыл бұрын

    The Super Sunshine's is so great ...Thank you Jesus...

  • @nicksilver_music
    @nicksilver_music3 жыл бұрын

    we appreciate you drshefali

  • @iBRiDGE380
    @iBRiDGE3802 жыл бұрын

    When a societys biggest concern is "what would we be doing if we werent suffering and arguing this way?"

  • @chewkarin8285
    @chewkarin82854 жыл бұрын

    I never get tired listening to her. She's my all time favourite speaker

  • @arthurb8924
    @arthurb8924 Жыл бұрын

    Wonderful!

  • @Matstothemats
    @Matstothemats4 жыл бұрын

    bloody god damn brilliant! xx

  • @antoinettecurran7683
    @antoinettecurran76835 жыл бұрын

    Fabulous 🙏 speaking the truth💖

  • @triptirathore9027
    @triptirathore90273 жыл бұрын

    It’s indeed great , should get more views

  • @rajnichhocker3508
    @rajnichhocker35084 жыл бұрын

    She is wonderful

  • @evrildindial8841
    @evrildindial88413 жыл бұрын

    Simply beautiful.

  • @evolvedconstructs7612
    @evolvedconstructs76125 жыл бұрын

    I love you from many lives

  • @kristinal.1495
    @kristinal.14952 жыл бұрын

    Amazing 😊😍🥰❤️ Thank you for saying about donations, bcs i felt that is correct way, how can u put price on something and decide the worthiness Thank you 🙏 ❤️

  • @bhikkudhammasambhava1203
    @bhikkudhammasambhava12035 жыл бұрын

    Dr.Shefali, You know the secret.

  • @gorn4ever620
    @gorn4ever6204 жыл бұрын

    Great talk, would love to meet her.

  • @tonydoyle2941
    @tonydoyle29413 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful as well

  • @iBRiDGE380
    @iBRiDGE3802 жыл бұрын

    Lovely, the mechanics of "the breath is now". That breathing happens in exactly the actual moment. And anything in the mind that is not exactly in that breath and now, is outside the now. "My bills" No, the now. Breathe. "My child" No, the now. The breath. To keep pulling mind from all the outside the now. With practice, the now expands. From the breath of the self to the collective breath. The world becomes less of a burden and more of an actual exploration.

  • @Wake-technology
    @Wake-technology6 жыл бұрын

    Here are the timestamps you can click on the numbers to start playing from that point: Dr. Shefali Tsabary, a clinical psychologist can revolutionise your life 00:47 Q:How are you going to 'fix' the world? A: Parental Evolution. 01:58 Ultimate level of Consciousness - untethered from all identities - achievable only through Meditation 03:36 Can you just wake up to the reality that you are creating every moment yourself. 04:19 Try to be non-judgemental - we can not be non-judgemental even for an hour 05:03 Advancement, Technology, Robotics and AI - "We can do all that when the basic innerself can sit with the self and is healed" 05:53 "We are humanity that is suffering because we do not know that we are divine.......so let us go inward before we go outward" 06:30 Mechanisation is devolution not evolution. Evolution is human connection. 07:37 The Self Help Industry perpetuates dependency on an external source. 13:26 Try sitting with yourself in silence for 35 minutes. Guided Vipaasana Meditation 13:51 Guided Vipaasana Meditation till 16:56 Q & A Session 17:52 It is NOT something you say - it is how you live your life. 22:47 When one is truly connected with the self, there is no agenda. When you are truly connected your field opens up because you are without judgement. 23:13 Being transactional blocks connection. Connecting is not a doing state it is a being state. 25:16 How do I live in this muck understanding it is all an illusion? This is the power of Meditation - it teaches you to detach - does not mean dis-associate. 26:23 Here, but not of it, part of it but not in it. This is the beautiful duality. 28:37 Refer Matrix the movie! 30:07 Importance of breath - Budha - 1. Breath is the most elegant pathway to the present moment. 2. Breath is constantly impermanent - teaches you life is in the now and it is impermanent. 3. Breath is the only thing we have with us all the time as a mediator between inner world and outer world of 'form'. 31:54 When you breath and meditate, you see how your thoughts influence your breath and your breath influences your thought - and you realise I am creating my 'cause and effect'

  • @kylegilbert4794

    @kylegilbert4794

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm simply seeking the easiest way to move through this "dance/drama" that is the spiritual detoxification process, and simply enjoy my life by traveling to beautiful places on earth, and continuing to teach AND learn God/source energy/PURE JOY AND TRUTH more and more. Going with the flow of LIFE, with a balanced mentality. Thank you sooooo very much for teaching and learning with me.... God bless y'all!!!!

  • @anig5540
    @anig55402 жыл бұрын

    I love you human ❤

  • @akimlew8280
    @akimlew82804 жыл бұрын

    At first hearing, it seems provocative- The World is evolving quite fast in Modern Sciences since the last Century- it is at Infancy level in Neurology. All that HB learns is from Others, starting from his Parents,the first Educators. As HB learns as early as in the womb of his Mother and absorbs All as a Sponge, seeping and absorbing everything (food for his Body, Mind, Spirit) that is being fed and exposed (good and bad) during his Childhood. HB may have ,or will surely have to decide over his choices after his learning, acquiring Knowledge, developing his Consciousness.

  • @paramshah6376
    @paramshah63765 жыл бұрын

    Love ❤️❤️

  • @nitinmahendru92
    @nitinmahendru924 жыл бұрын

    Awesome Thoughts🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @ophidiaparaclete
    @ophidiaparaclete3 жыл бұрын

    Pure science is humanity and LAW(LandAirWater) LAW is encoded into the mind soul and heart of humanity as freedom sound reason and liberty in, by, through participation. Giving ONE a reverence for all creation.

  • @ophidiaparaclete
    @ophidiaparaclete3 жыл бұрын

    Elect are witnesses in the preservation of freedom, divine human will to self-govern. Appointed the guardians of liberty, divine human domain of sovereign SAFETY.

  • @SC-vb2ui
    @SC-vb2ui6 жыл бұрын

    Dr.Shefali ,LoVe 💚You Beyond 🙏🏼 I would absolutely appreciate to listen you meditation.🙏🏼

  • @nehap17
    @nehap173 жыл бұрын

    🙏❤

  • @janetpasciak6419
    @janetpasciak64193 жыл бұрын

    If only the people who are really running this state that we are in now, could hear this, really hear this. We all would be in a better way. Stop trying to rule the world 🌎

  • @liz2776
    @liz27766 жыл бұрын

    I have a question, what about coaching? At 11:05 she talks about dependency on psychotherapists. That we should be able to "move on" from psychotherapy instead of looking at it at something that we need or the rest of our lives. But, in your opinion, is life coaching the same? Or should we be in life coaching forever? Do we need that as part of our long term personal development?

  • @GPNetwork100

    @GPNetwork100

    5 жыл бұрын

    Coaching is opening the self up to being the profile residing inside each of us that we keep hidden for no legitimate reason. A good Coach helps with bringing that person out versus TELLING or providing direction when the direction already exists.

  • @ameetarao8992

    @ameetarao8992

    4 жыл бұрын

    Liz , if I understand her ..... she talks about detachment to every form in this world and focus on our inside that has no form. That is where wisdom lies. Focusing on your inhale and exhale of air in silence. Hearing her one more time may help too. Then Coaching is not required.

  • @OKae88
    @OKae886 жыл бұрын

    Underrated, often misunderstood, but 100% true. Open consciousness

  • @mslingling2410
    @mslingling2410 Жыл бұрын

    AWSOME

  • @whiteangel7777777
    @whiteangel77777775 жыл бұрын

    32:58 she does a meditation

  • @gretanavarauskaite2904
    @gretanavarauskaite29045 жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @LibbyClarkeStudio
    @LibbyClarkeStudio6 жыл бұрын

    I am glad the audience is so responsive but the overt come-ons and fawning of Dr. Shefali is hard to watch. I think these fellows were really touched and were reaching back but I have a hard time with the way they expressed it. I think I may be attached to some ideas myself if I am taking the lessons from the video to heart. This was an amazing video to watch.

  • @auk8174
    @auk81745 жыл бұрын

    Does anybody knows her zodiac sign pleaseee? :D

  • @iBRiDGE380
    @iBRiDGE3802 жыл бұрын

    Its not just the exploration of space and robotics and tech. We don't have the capacity to meet that AI with the emotional depth of a new born. Like giving keys to a formula 1 race car to a child in utero. The "self" is us all at once. The space that contains us all. The energy beyond all labels and identities. "But who am I if I'm not christian?" Try just not judging anyone else until you notice you nearly never judge any other at all if ever. Then see what happens after a few years studying that. And don't worry about who you'll be. If you're removing judgment of others, a huge door opens.

  • @Farfalla626
    @Farfalla626 Жыл бұрын

    💖💖

  • @ophidiaparaclete
    @ophidiaparaclete3 жыл бұрын

    Form is legal personality superimposed over our true character and nature, self-governing sovereign self rule. Mind soul heart.

  • @charubala6307
    @charubala6307 Жыл бұрын

    ❤️

  • @luluavila7082
    @luluavila70823 жыл бұрын

    I'm so horrible I didn't understand her 😪 I feel depressed already I can't take charge in my family anymore 😞

  • @ophidiaparaclete
    @ophidiaparaclete3 жыл бұрын

    Friends-Obligations Family-liabilities Society-debt

  • @nehap17
    @nehap173 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Shefali. My son is 3.5 years old. Could you suggest one of your books that I can refer to ?

  • @iBRiDGE380
    @iBRiDGE3802 жыл бұрын

    The physical realm are the artifacts of yesterdays consciousness. To remain attached and detached is to see it like photos in a photo album of loved ones. Those loved ones aren't those photos anymore. They aren't the 2 year old. They're an entirely different reality. Life and its artifacts are very similar. The feelings in this realm require much practice to understand. You can't jump to knowing. She has the knowing. But it took years of deep self study. People get high on feeling good and generally tend to just watch people like her rather than be prepared for the work. So many addicts. So few practicioners. Because it is.work. And if yer doing it right it fucking sucks in the beginning. It can even catch ya by surprise after practicing for decades. Sure, the recoveries are more swift, but the physical realm is in a forever state of decay. The collective self of consciousness is eternal. To be eternal and witness the decay of the physical plain like aging in the human body. The whole as my personal piece is within my form. The artifact from another generation. And as I watch it age and decay over 100 years, my within is eternal. The brain has stored memories like a photo album, and I can make them real to me. But they won't be real to others as they are to me. No one can see that part of me. And yet, within, everything is stored neatly. The physical plain is like a museum I get to visit. Yes. Even when its a new swanky restaurant. Its already in a state of decay. And so I love it while its around. Its likely to be impermanent. Most things are.

  • @lifeoftolta
    @lifeoftolta3 жыл бұрын

    Dr. There is something similar in you & Aishwarya rai.🤔 (May be the beauty of soul that shines from within)

  • @ophidiaparaclete
    @ophidiaparaclete3 жыл бұрын

    The three temptations in the wilderness are: 1- Titles 2- Names 3- Status (Quo)

  • @ophidiaparaclete
    @ophidiaparaclete3 жыл бұрын

    Principle based rather than AGENDA driven

  • @statesticsandanalyses6348
    @statesticsandanalyses63484 жыл бұрын

    You are too Beautiful. . . ..

  • @nextlevelpowerinc813
    @nextlevelpowerinc8136 жыл бұрын

    her knowledge and the way to explain that data Is fucking amazing. Powerful

  • @cindydibetegmail4177
    @cindydibetegmail41773 жыл бұрын

    I suspected she you are a Vipassana practitioner all along. Metta to you sister.

  • @mummybey534
    @mummybey5343 жыл бұрын

    Damn I was thinking self help/development books and videos and everything. BUT just watch these videos and take ownership of yourself!

  • @mummybey534

    @mummybey534

    3 жыл бұрын

    Loved it

  • @ophidiaparaclete
    @ophidiaparaclete3 жыл бұрын

    A war culture profits in your lack. The more you need the more they prosper.