Many men are responsible for breaking their marriages then they start complaining in their old age

From keeping 'mpango wa kando', wasting away the family finances, irresponsible alcohol intake to beating up their wives, most men are breaking their marriages and destroying the lives of their own children. It's in their old age they are realising their mistakes when their wives already left and they have been left with no one to take care of them.

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  • @highlyfavouredblessedchild5022
    @highlyfavouredblessedchild5022 Жыл бұрын

    Was married for 20 yrs man bought 6 plots with his individual names while hiding the titles in his parents home we later parted ways marriage was bitter and unbearable...almost 5 yrs later he remarried squandered everything with the woman who came with 2 kids and they got 1 together..meanwhile the Lord openned a door for me to go abroad using the same man before we separated... by God's special grace I own 8 plots that are even more valuable than what he had😊 ..glory to God He serves justice to those that patiently wait upon Him...wamama chanukeni mjipange kama mzee niwa raha na vituko most importantly put God at the centre of your life live a holy life that honors Him and surely He will reward you

  • @nancymuriuki5931

    @nancymuriuki5931

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi blessed child would you please advise me on jobs available abroad coz am also going through hell.Kindly

  • @highlyfavouredblessedchild5022

    @highlyfavouredblessedchild5022

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nancymuriuki5931 my dear Nancy pray to the heavenly Father to give you devine connection with destiny helpers and surely He will great is His faithfulness...where I am you only go as a tourist or work permit its visa free...Ngai gùtirì undu umuremaga wahuhoya na umwitikie...wishing you nothing but the very best!

  • @nancymuriuki5931

    @nancymuriuki5931

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Nancy our God is truely a miracle working God

  • @mariannanjoki4662

    @mariannanjoki4662

    Жыл бұрын

    Pewa soda kwa bill yangu

  • @soniroberts6865

    @soniroberts6865

    9 ай бұрын

    God rewards us

  • @gladwellgathara1632
    @gladwellgathara1632 Жыл бұрын

    Yes yes Been married for 18 yrs. Everything was in man's name. He threw us out. I came out worse than a Church mouse. Was depressed and traumatized. Took only the love of God to be alive. Women outside there,let's open our insights.

  • @jecintawanjiku9735

    @jecintawanjiku9735

    11 ай бұрын

    Waah😢

  • @elizabethbutiko6608
    @elizabethbutiko6608 Жыл бұрын

    Wow! A wake up call for women. Act according to how your man treats you. If you do not know where his money goes to, be mysterious with your finances as well. Great insights.

  • @annemuthoni1781
    @annemuthoni1781 Жыл бұрын

    Was married for 22 yrs lost everything and now in Saudi Arabia starting all over again, never give up or look back, God is indeed faithful 🥰

  • @wanjiruciru6237

    @wanjiruciru6237

    Жыл бұрын

    He will restore tenfold.

  • @annemuthoni1781

    @annemuthoni1781

    Жыл бұрын

    @@wanjiruciru6237 Amen 🙏 trusting the process, thanks dear 🥰

  • @soniroberts6865

    @soniroberts6865

    9 ай бұрын

    God is not yet done with our marriages, He'll restore it, just wait..Saudi Arabia is a learning institute,it's a class, you'll come back well established and firm... he's also in school...you'll graduate with wisdom and knowledge to the Glory of God my sister...It's not yet over

  • @bilhahnjeri6427
    @bilhahnjeri6427 Жыл бұрын

    Wa Kiama is the best she gives us the best advice

  • @veronicandirangu3637
    @veronicandirangu3637 Жыл бұрын

    I think Wakiama should have a seminar with men and talk to them so they can change their behaviors .

  • @babieuniya
    @babieuniya Жыл бұрын

    Today's show is an eye opener to many women, personally I have learnt something. I have suffered kwa meli ya mapenzi😢😢😢

  • @realstoriesmedia
    @realstoriesmedia Жыл бұрын

    I love WaKiama, could listen to her all day

  • @felkadumas9863
    @felkadumas9863 Жыл бұрын

    Nie ma nyendete mutumia uyu na ngoro yakwa yothe .. your kids are lucky thanks for educating women

  • @puritygichuki353
    @puritygichuki353 Жыл бұрын

    I love this lady free of charge ,have seminar with men wanatuhangaisha.all the way Mrs Kiama my Kiswahili teacher back at high school .

  • @lizzysnest3913
    @lizzysnest3913 Жыл бұрын

    Do joint investments if your man is responsible otherwise invest on your own. A lady's wealth belongs to the family but for men the family can starve when he has wealth.

  • @beckyshii4805
    @beckyshii4805 Жыл бұрын

    Mûthoni u r very beautiful n always looking under 18 muishie huyo Mungu

  • @bethmwas5963
    @bethmwas5963 Жыл бұрын

    I love Wakiama,she was my kiswahili and CRE teacher back then in secondary school Dr. kamundia Gathuthi girls, tulimpenda sana she was our role model.we loved her dressing code.big up.I love your advice

  • @rositanjuguna7561

    @rositanjuguna7561

    Жыл бұрын

    Wow good to hear that about wakiama Ngai amurathime

  • @marymugwe7150
    @marymugwe7150 Жыл бұрын

    This lady is so practical. Your family is lucky to have you as their matriarch. Tunakupenda

  • @johnrerai6134
    @johnrerai6134 Жыл бұрын

    A good show. Very helpful. Always inspiring. Be Blessed

  • @bettynjoki3115
    @bettynjoki3115 Жыл бұрын

    Very well said

  • @florahsoila
    @florahsoila Жыл бұрын

    why do men feel they are the one who have the last stay? why do they give their mothers a chance to enter into their marriages? they disgust me alot!

  • @jemimahjemimah5525
    @jemimahjemimah5525 Жыл бұрын

    Karibu nchelewe weuh, tuned in team Gulf

  • @bernardkiarie5662
    @bernardkiarie5662 Жыл бұрын

    looking good everyday.and doing an awsome job.

  • @patriciajones9747
    @patriciajones9747 Жыл бұрын

    Support you 100%

  • @nancygeorge2110
    @nancygeorge2110 Жыл бұрын

    Ukweli wakiama I salute you, you have educated me alot,

  • @wambuinderitu2461
    @wambuinderitu2461 Жыл бұрын

    Aki you ladies are blessed ❤n you're both glowing 😊

  • @zipporahwangechi7031
    @zipporahwangechi7031 Жыл бұрын

    Wow ❤❤ congrats 👏

  • @marthamacharia310
    @marthamacharia310 Жыл бұрын

    At that time (before 1979) women were not issued with National IDS & hence could not buy property in their own names.

  • @elizabethngotho4165

    @elizabethngotho4165

    Жыл бұрын

    Your work is awesome teacher and wakagoni doing great jobs to enducate our women's to Keep the marriage safe.

  • @winniemathu3168

    @winniemathu3168

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes both women and men had no IDS. Always buy in your name ID or not.

  • @nelaswanjiru1209
    @nelaswanjiru1209 Жыл бұрын

    @ Margaret Mwangi.Kama ako hivyo ni sawa.Ucio nì mùthuri ngatha.👍

  • @eunicemuthua3435
    @eunicemuthua3435 Жыл бұрын

    Well put....using common sense !

  • @janekamau6681
    @janekamau6681 Жыл бұрын

    Wakiama I support u 100%, aki some men have made women to go mad 😡 or get sick 🤢, u have a very good counseling. You talk the truth.

  • @eunicemuthua3435

    @eunicemuthua3435

    Жыл бұрын

    Many women develop mental health issues

  • @bancymunene3436

    @bancymunene3436

    Жыл бұрын

    Not some, aaaaallllll ....😢. It's the degree of mental issues that are different.

  • @danmtuli9484
    @danmtuli9484 Жыл бұрын

    …can listen to you all day long, women are great starting with my mum🇰🇪🇹🇿

  • @rebeccaetter1104
    @rebeccaetter1104 Жыл бұрын

    Wakiama you're beautiful, Monica too. Lovely show

  • @emilynyambura959
    @emilynyambura959 Жыл бұрын

    Mum wakiama,u alway looking good, sweet 16

  • @joycemaina2126
    @joycemaina2126 Жыл бұрын

    Love wa kiama n Monica...show Iko moto.

  • @lizkiarii9279
    @lizkiarii9279 Жыл бұрын

    Wakiama you look so beautiful the hairstyle is On point and suits you.

  • @eunicewambui8040

    @eunicewambui8040

    Жыл бұрын

    Very true

  • @peninahkabugi7173
    @peninahkabugi7173 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks kagoni n wakiama for enlightening us.your videos makes me laugh mpaka machozi inatoka.God bless you.

  • @eldoretvictory4595
    @eldoretvictory4595 Жыл бұрын

    THEY SHOULD STOP COMPLAINING AND HARVEST WHAT THEY PLANTED.

  • @njorogekamau5078
    @njorogekamau5078 Жыл бұрын

    Hi beautiful kagoni. I love following your interviews. But can you bring interviews on men too. They too go through a lot silently. Thank you and good work. Your future is bright

  • @trizamaina5283

    @trizamaina5283

    Жыл бұрын

    Monicah

  • @estherwanjiku3235
    @estherwanjiku3235 Жыл бұрын

    Tuned from qatar ❤

  • @hezekiahmaina8711
    @hezekiahmaina8711 Жыл бұрын

    What if a man doesn't want to work, kazi yake ni kukaa kwa nyumba akingoja, bibi anafanya kazi anajenga, anasomesha watoto, then jamaa anajigamba kila kitu ni chake, huyo mama hata akipeana mwili ni makosa?

  • @reachelnjeri2390
    @reachelnjeri2390 Жыл бұрын

    Mama Sharon doing good job.

  • @susanngugi2489
    @susanngugi2489 Жыл бұрын

    True our first plot he wrote himself secretry so no more buying together

  • @irenewanjugu221
    @irenewanjugu221 Жыл бұрын

    Kagoni mko wathaka sana....thankyou for this beautiful advice......may God give us wisdom...

  • @maryakajj4127
    @maryakajj4127 Жыл бұрын

    Me am still young woman and I take lone for him300k in Kenya women aki what I went through because of that ngaii

  • @winfredmwangi4113

    @winfredmwangi4113

    Жыл бұрын

    Woi! Pole sana gal.

  • @elizabethmuringa152
    @elizabethmuringa152 Жыл бұрын

    May God help us to overcome this,they are much much painful

  • @leahwambui8694
    @leahwambui8694 Жыл бұрын

    Wakiama the you are talking is like you were listening outside my house 😂😂 you and your money are mine.

  • @faithwairimu9428
    @faithwairimu9428 Жыл бұрын

    Wakiama is the best

  • @beatricenjeri740
    @beatricenjeri740 Жыл бұрын

    Mutumia kuma tene onangiagire mburi mucii niyo yambaga guthinjwo niguo indo ciake ihuke ndagakiragie muthuri Ati niari indo! Mundu niehithire twake.

  • @njorok7368
    @njorok7368 Жыл бұрын

    Hahahahaa 😂😂😂 hakuhanda.tuboga.haduthura.mitheko ona video itathirite.😅😅😅

  • @lucywambui7398
    @lucywambui7398 Жыл бұрын

    My mum was thrown out after 40 yrs.

  • @jecintawanjiku9735

    @jecintawanjiku9735

    11 ай бұрын

    😢

  • @maggyfire774
    @maggyfire774 Жыл бұрын

    Qatar in house 😂😂

  • @margaretmwangi217
    @margaretmwangi217 Жыл бұрын

    What about a husband who buys everything in the house. Anajua ile kitu iko na ile imeisha

  • @warugurumurimi1259

    @warugurumurimi1259

    Жыл бұрын

    If you have a job please ensure you have some investments by yourself please. That type wants to leave you penniless and make sure you fully depend on him. That is a way to control you

  • @marthawanjiru4911

    @marthawanjiru4911

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@warugurumurimi1259 ❤❤😊😊

  • @catherinew3115

    @catherinew3115

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s a control freak. He can simply give the wife the cash to buy what’s needed unless she is extremely wasteful.

  • @annem2980

    @annem2980

    Жыл бұрын

    @Margaret Mwangi, in this case you look for something you can do to make your money. My cousin is like this Ata niyeye anaendanga soko.His wife is a hse wife I told her to be doing some vibarua ,joined kumbato amefanya mambo mengi ya investment na bwana hajui.

  • @sophianjenga8120

    @sophianjenga8120

    Жыл бұрын

    Huyo anaweza kukupea heart attack

  • @felkadumas9863
    @felkadumas9863 Жыл бұрын

    Someone tag samidoh and jimal roho mbaya 😂😂

  • @njorok7368

    @njorok7368

    Жыл бұрын

    I thought about Him all through

  • @susanngugi2489
    @susanngugi2489 Жыл бұрын

    And always looking for way to sell what is under your name

  • @petergitau1632
    @petergitau1632 Жыл бұрын

    Hi monoca... boy child wa hii show yako huwa ndio mwenye makosa juu ...u only interview mwenye kukusewa.... ebu siku moja jaribu utafte mwanaume mmoja amewai achna na mkewake...akuelezee about his marriage na ikafika wakaachana au ni nini kiichangia ndoa kuvunjika....

  • @nahashonngariuku4346

    @nahashonngariuku4346

    Жыл бұрын

    thankyou and she needs do so.. objectivity

  • @jamesnganga1418
    @jamesnganga1418 Жыл бұрын

    Kabisa

  • @josephkamau5526

    @josephkamau5526

    Жыл бұрын

    Wa Kiama speaking bitter truth

  • @jamesnganga1418

    @jamesnganga1418

    Жыл бұрын

    @@josephkamau5526 kabisa

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