Nowadays this issue of househelps has become unbearable. Many men are sleeping with the househelps. Such a shame

Monica i pray one day i will give life story in this metha ya kagoni😢😢😢

I grew up as a christian but am now an atheist. I remember the bible says that it's ONLY adultery that can separate 2 people who love each. Forgiving adultery is like encouraging promiscuity. Siwezi

@irynejames5161

11 ай бұрын

And the God you knew when you were a Christian (as you claim) is the same God even when you claim to be an atheist. Its upto you.

@jom.8938

11 ай бұрын

@anitathuku3723- kudos! How is your relationship with an omuhusband interfering with your relationship with God? God is not a man so that he should lie- meaning men(your husband, yourself and I) are capable of listening to the father of lies and committing adultery and God has nothing to do with it. If a man decides that grass is greener over the fench- let him eat over there- a day is coming

@anitathuku3723

11 ай бұрын

@@jom.8938 I think your understanding of my comment is so shallow. Re read the comment because i will not explain to you like a 2 year old, or leave my comment and listen to the message said by the marriage counsellor.

@jom.8938

11 ай бұрын

@@anitathuku3723 - hmmm. Who hurt you? Shallow and speaking to adults as 2 year olds- tells that alot is going on. Insulting others will not heal your pain or issues. And from this 2 year old - forgiveness is not for the offender but for the offended. Peace

Today the discussion is 🔥 Thanks Kagoni for making this possible many people will take good advice....salimia our very able counsellor tunamupenda Sana... Pia wewe tunakulov🤗

Women should be deprogrammed from taking such men back.Its literally an insult mtu kurudi after such betrayal.Wakienda waende kabisa.Women r not cushions for absorbing mistreatment

Wakiama l love your teaching

Kudos was Kiama! You are such a truthful marriage counselor and I like the way you use the word of God

i think the pain that one partner(victim) choses to live with after such betrayal is on their own, cz God permits divorce on such account, adultery....so He knew it is painful and a human being might not bear

Wonderful talk

My bitter life story. Kwanza wangu alinitukana mbele yake n told me am a very stupid woman who never knew what happens in my own house😣😣😣those words ring a fresh to my mind daily since 2016 n last yr 2022 i still discovered their still together

@23BlessedLady

11 ай бұрын

😢😢

@Perry_1234

11 ай бұрын

Take heart mama

@estherkieyakinyanjui7220

11 ай бұрын

Mimi nilitukanwa na mpango, but I thank God for He is still in control. Take heart mams

@abigaelsamuel1307

11 ай бұрын

And God has done you well

@winniemwash8075

11 ай бұрын

To those gals sleeps with their bosses hubbies may God see them

Great woman,our mum wa Kiama,,Really graced by God...wise counsel mom,God bless you

You are doing a good job mum

It's such a hard topic, loaded with wisdom,

The truth is very hard to hear, and this wisdom is sometimes a bitter pill to swallow, but one thing I've learned is that a wife should keep herself fresh and value herself. Love Wakiama .

I love this mama

Thanks Monica n mum....ur topics are very educative n Godly,,mum wakiama augire arii gwataniro na bishop Jane kingori,✓ni ataranaga na ungai muingi muno,,,niii niliachwa na mimba ya 7mnth,,,akataftiwa bibi mwingine na mom in law,today it's 8yrs past,sijawahi olewa not dating am 34yrs,,,yeye alioa Ako na watoto....wakiama iguru riuii muthuri ucio wa uiritu wakwa niwe muthuri wakwa,,,we don't talk with him nor does he assist in any way,monicah na wakiama haha riu atia🤷

Such a wonderful program and it's true. Pay back time is always there. Ask my Dad after living us tukiwa watoi atì tha ici mutumia ùcio nìwe ethaga akìmùìtia ùteithio

Wakagoni we very funny that's why I watch your show Kwanza ukijifanya ati uko shocked ❤😂😅

Very nice topic

Hi Monica where do we send $ for lunch. Queen Esther really blesses me and she’s so genuine.

@COUNSELOR_WANJIRU_KIAMA

11 ай бұрын

M-pesa the same number on the screen and the name will be Esther Kiama. Asanteni.

If the wife is the agressive of the breadwinner and the man is idle.....automatically the man unless he has character will get into mischief.....women should get older women,dayschoolers.....wakiama you are wise ....many old wise women tell men around their forties are dangerous and can v destructive.....discuss when men and women get mid life crisis and how they should handle it ....

Ata kiri muthinyiri Ngai,ndoi kuhoithia,ndathiaga kanitha,menyai kigitio giketwo kirimu no ta ngurwe ihetwo ruru

They are not called med call them house help that is the good name please

Ndukiririe problem cia empty nest after retirement,Niki athuri matuage mutumia kairitu kanini ga kurorerwo thaa na arata ukerwo ndekwena,,nyumba ni thigithigi itathiraga,none based issues na many complain,if you don't adhere utaona chaputa makuuuni

😅😅😅 roho wa mwiri...mahoya... oh my goodness😅😅

I.left because he was planning to kill me...😢

I strongly bilieve God punishes people with mipango ya kando since most people these days fornicate freely before marriage. How then can he allow you to enjoy marriage founded in sin 🤔

@annekimani1178

11 ай бұрын

True,

Wakiama & Kagoni, my mum had a lady who once(by God’s grace) had a tongue slip and said while laughing “saa zingine hata utakasirika ukojole mboga hehehe”. By 6.29am the next morning I’d helped her pack her bags and given her tea and she was at the stage with all her money and in matatu back to their home. Dikweda goma 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽!!

@anitathuku3723

11 ай бұрын

What did she mean exactly by kukojolea mboga?

@irenejoyce8456

11 ай бұрын

@@anitathuku3723 literally to pee on the kitchen garden when she gets annoyed with my mum. I saw her out asap 👏🏽

True just serve him food..am the bread winner after he made funny decisions and was sacked from a very good job .. whenever he's around,he cooks food..but nampakulia .. it's just simple...vile hata wewe ukija nitakupakulia . Don't do shingo upande...guikira irio thani ti murigo..

.....ata wenye napatana nawao ni wanaume wawenyewe so I don't give a chance tondu ndingienda ona thuu yakwa igerere ruo gutarii mundu ungihota kuelewa uritu waguo

Psalm 53...those who say there is no God, they are fools...

A woman is the bread winner? How then does the man prove his manhood to others? He does the only thing that he can afford, move with cheap women to get.

Amen

Nĩma ti wega , Kau gatihota ũtungata wa mũtumia. No gĩthĩna

Ii ma tondu niu ndaikirio nja na joint account igicenjio, no ngai no akandihiria

@beatricenjeri8502

11 ай бұрын

Pole sana

narcissistic men never learn ........just leave

Is it a must to have a house help my friend ?

For a house girl , it is very painful &so shameful , forgiveness is so impossible

Athuri a Jamhuri nî Ngai, mxtcheeew! Pathetic!