The last few minutes of the video just remind me of the quote “don’t leave something good to find something better , cause once you realise you had the best , the best has found better “

@blessedbythebest1003

Жыл бұрын

Yikes

@bitterapple

Жыл бұрын

Love this!

@DUMERVILJEANRONALD

Жыл бұрын

❤

@Italianbabymakingpasta

Жыл бұрын

@@blessedbythebest1003 what

@blessedbythebest1003

Жыл бұрын

@@Italianbabymakingpasta yikes… 😏 as in, good point.

Yeah the biggest issue with Zanab was that she set herself up for failure constantly and imo insecurity makes people more unattractive. She told him she would look like a different person beforehand which was why he made that comment, and then even after he said I’m so attracted to you she questioned it by pointing out all the things “wrong” with here in that moment. So many other examples of her putting these negative thoughts into his head with her own mouth and comparing herself to the other ladies. I’m not saying Cole is blameless, he’s clearly pretty insensitive and also not emotionally intelligent so doesn’t realise it’s all a cry for reassurance, he just thinks it’s all jokes and goes with it.

@snippetsofacovergirl

Жыл бұрын

This explanation makes so much sense. Thank you!

@fabibibine

Жыл бұрын

💯💯💯💯

@CyciIvy

Жыл бұрын

BINGO

@AminaDanjuma

Жыл бұрын

Well said!!

@nikigracevlogs

Жыл бұрын

Exactly!!! 💯👏🏾👏🏾

And what's crazy is that Nancy literally told Bartise that his type clearly hasn't worked out for him and he still didn't get it. I just wish these women had some self esteem about themselves to know they can find and deserve better.

@Maria-wc3wr

Жыл бұрын

Maybe it’s the shame of getting married to the guy and not wanting to go back on your words could make us feel very shameful but walking away from a bad relationship is better than staying in a toxic one!

@blackswan6257

Жыл бұрын

What was there to “get” he wasn’t attracted to her period. It’s not something that can be changed or forced. It just is or it isn’t. SHE is the one that didn’t get it. And to add onto it, they weren’t compatible.

@nikigracevlogs

Жыл бұрын

She was wayyyy too good for him. Idek how that relationship happened 😓

@carmina7pulchra

Жыл бұрын

@@blackswan6257 I meant "get" as in sticking to his type isn't working out for him (he's not in a happy committed relationship, assuming that's what he wants) so maybe he should consider not focusing so much on physical attributes. I agree that he and Nancy were not compatible; they were trying to force something that would never work. Still, there was a lesson in the whole experience that he completely missed.

@sm00rezd

Жыл бұрын

@@blackswan6257 I feel kinda the same. She didn’t take any hints and he put the cheat sheet right in front of her

Raven is not a narcissist. She is a confident woman who goes for emotional connection, stability and respect over shallowness, physical attraction, and fickleness

@ola3rd

Жыл бұрын

What do you think about her jumping jacks in the pod?

@Thatmainchick

Жыл бұрын

@@ola3rd i think she did that cause she was bored. She wasnt that into the guy and his sob stories.

@DanieB322

Жыл бұрын

@@ola3rd I mean from a person with ADHD I could not sit still for a while when I was younger. And still now I have problem with paying attention too long without another( multiple others) stimulation(s) on the side. Some people just need to be doing something all the time. She said it herself, they spend hours in those pods, she just needed to move and relax her muscles like yeah it wasn’t the best but it wasn’t the worst either. Bartise took it badly because everything that doesn’t revolve 300% around him hurts his feelings( so like everything)

@DanieB322

Жыл бұрын

@@Thatmainchick for real

@lillybethford1915

Жыл бұрын

I agree, Raven is definitely not.a narcissist.👍The true narcissist is Zenab. Insecurities is not an excuse to destroy anyone on national television. She enjoys playing the victim and she’s an evil liar.

Most the people who go on these shows (Love is Blind, Married at First Sight ) need THERAPY not to pursue a relationship.

@yamiletmacias5311

Жыл бұрын

I feel like most people that go on are curious but producers definitely wean out stable contestants bc they want drama

@ELamy802

Жыл бұрын

@@yamiletmacias5311 Great point

@dolle9128

Жыл бұрын

like zanab

I’ve tried to force attraction to someone in the name of not being shallow, also because he “treats me right” in the long run I could’ve saved his time. It’s was painful for both of us.

@BenMallah342

Жыл бұрын

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@janea8093

4 ай бұрын

Same! Happened to my ex. Best person but no physical attraction. It was tough for both of us

Whew BREEEENYY!!! Snapped with the “don’t comment on her looks if we can’t comment on what’s in your bank account” 😂😂😂😂😂😮

This show is the biggest proof that love isn’t blind. All they can build without seeing each other is friendship. The rest is game of odds. If they see each other and there is no attraction then it’s not gonna work no matter how hard they try.

@justanotherblackqueen2017

Жыл бұрын

Exactly - if I am not attracted to someone on the outside I can only like them on the inside (personality wise) but never see them as a potential romantic partner because I just am not attracted to them 🤷🏾‍♀️

@sin3358

Жыл бұрын

Tbh they're all extremely attractive people (the girls at least) so I find it offensive that the MEN have the audacity to say they don't find the girls they end up with very attractive

@Ellannails

Жыл бұрын

You're absolutely right, and this is why I could never go on a show like this LOL

Zanab is deeply insecure. Cole didn’t make it ANY better at all but I don’t think his remarks would have been so hurtful to her if she was more confident in herself to begin with

@SunshineJoleen

Жыл бұрын

Nah I am not insecure about my weight but that only makes me _more_ annoyed if people make dumb comments like "Are you trying to lose weight to fit into your wedding dress?" Because at 5'4" 134lbs I don't need to lose weight... so I would assume that person only thinks so because THEY have a problem with my weight. I love my dark skin but if someone kept bringing it up like "Wear sunblock, you don't need a tan"... same. Especially if I'm sleeping with the person... little throwaway comments can hurt MORE if they are about things you actually felt confident about...

@thedebbyoshow685

Жыл бұрын

@@SunshineJoleen the comment about fitting into the wedding dress came after he learned she had only eaten 1 banana and spoon of peanut butter, plus she turned down the food he offered her earlier. It really wasn't a reach for him to think perhaps she's trying to get her "wedding dress body" by watching what she eats (which MANY women do, let's not pretend here). She came into the experience a deeply insecure, hyper analytical person and unfortunately a person with that mindset will always view small otherwise mindless remarks as an attack on their very being.

@StarringShameka

Жыл бұрын

@@thedebbyoshow685 thank you Debby 🙌🏾

@BreenyLee

Жыл бұрын

100% agree

@reemabakshi4758

Жыл бұрын

If she was confident she would have left him by the fourth episode, like Meeee

I never want to be with a man who uses the term 'nut' or calls a woman's parts 'a box'. They also use violent language like 'hit' in some of those clips you shared. Those guys seem kinda gross.

This video was exactly what I needed. There is a guy I have friend zoned but he’s a great guy and so many have pressured me saying I just need to date/marry him even though I’m unattracted to him! I refuse to do that because I don’t think that’s fair to him or me. Glad to hear you say I don’t have to force anything if it’s not there it’s just not there 🙌🏾

@harryschlitz4067

Жыл бұрын

Honesty is the Best policy, As a Man kind of in ur Friends situation, I hope he finds some Woman who can looks past his hideous looks. Would give me hope.

@MsSummers2u

Жыл бұрын

@@harryschlitz4067 honesty is the best policy which has always been my reasoning for not pursuing a relationship with him. And just because I am not attracted to him doesn’t make him hideous.

@fresh.prince7472

Жыл бұрын

So why you playing him like that he probably thinks you like him that's not cool

@harryschlitz4067

Жыл бұрын

@@MsSummers2u Thank You for Replying and Yes I agree, Honesty is the best, Hideous is a harsh word, Sorry..I have had it used on me more than a few times when Females thought I was not listening So….

@THEFASHIONPHASE

Жыл бұрын

I thought I was the only one. Attraction is important to me. I felt bad for not being attracted but still being pressured to settle

If someone truly wants you, they will show it through actions, how effective their communication is, their vibe, body language and how they treat you. If you have to constantly ask yourself if someone is into you or not, they act hot and cold towards you, then most likely, they're not! 💙KZreadr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

You know what I found interesting while watching this season? Its how Bartise was always talking about the physical attraction but then when he was talking to his sister she was telling him (and im not qouting her) "you arent superficial. You arent like people who only look at appearance" and I just felt uncomfortable cus the entire time I was repeatedly thinking "he is super superficial and childish"

@Belindarko

Жыл бұрын

You’re absolutely right! I kept saying during the show Bartise and Cole are both immature people only focusing on superficial things. They were both not ready to get married to anyone.

@nikigracevlogs

Жыл бұрын

The difference between Cole & Bartiste is that Bartiste just wouldn’t let the looks thing go. He’s also someone who would never be satisfied because he thinks love is based on feelings rather than actions. That’s why all the “love” in his past relationships “fizzled out”. Cole was willing and wanted to try. He legit wanted to marry her. Both immature clearly but I definitely give Cole the benefit of the doubt.

@butterflymage5623

Жыл бұрын

@@Belindarko the only reason why cole focused on superficial things is because she did, point blank. She even told him before she took of the make up that she would look different, but no one remembers for some reason. Dude rates her a 9/10.

No because if they don’t your mention beauty first cut your losses from the beginning. Attraction is foundation of a relationship and the way the men on the show treated the women they weren’t attracted to confirms the hypothesis.

Video suggestion: I personally and I know many other women have gone through relationships that left them feeling less than and the first thing a lot of us like to do is “glow up” not realizing that the physical transformation/ successes does not mend the brokenness inside and if anything it just reaffirms that we will somehow now be worthy once we achieve xyz… with my last boyfriend even tho he treated me amazing he told me that black women were not his first preference so I ended things but my self esteem took a big hit. I would love a video on how to heal INTERNALLY and release the shame and low self worth we feel from allowing less than we deserve. Thanks Breeny! Your videos touch so many lives I love you so so much ❤❤❤❤❤

@BreenyLee

Жыл бұрын

Love this!!

@hananecurious

Жыл бұрын

Girl I feel you!

@Londya

Жыл бұрын

I love this comment. I totally feel this way too. This is actually why since my last breakup in April of this year, I've taken a beat before immediately running to the gym. I realized that only addressed part of the issue, and actually that issue is the only reason why I'm single now, so it's imperative that I address that first, then work on the physical later.

@chanmc301

Жыл бұрын

@@Londya I’m glad you could resonate 🥰 but yeah we really have to be aware of our intentions behind certain “healing” practices. Wishing you the best in your journey!

@fizahaque

Жыл бұрын

Same here. My ex (we started in April and I broke up with him for the third time in November) kept telling me to watch my budget on food. In particular fast food, McDonald’s. So I first wanted to hit the gym. But now I realise “Hold on. Is it my appearance tho? I’m healthy. And I love my body. So it’s not health related. Do you really need to hit the gym when you run in the weekend?” And idk. It was just an epiphany so I definitely understand. I still have a long way to go in understanding what the root cause is. But we got this sis ❤

Before dating my boyfreind I wasn't physically attracted at all, then we become super good friends and I started falling involve with his personality, then started becoming physically attracted haha. Now I think he's the hottest guy ever 😂😂

@tobiaslawrence8928

Жыл бұрын

He's probably not bad looking to begin with.

@friendlyneighborkai265

Жыл бұрын

Yes this happened to me once I meet someone I wasn’t attracted too but overtime I thought they were the hottest guy I have ever met😂 and another time I couldn’t get passed the looks no matter what. The guy had a good personality but I couldn’t get passed the looks.

@tobiaslawrence8928

Жыл бұрын

@@friendlyneighborkai265 cause attraction and personality go hand in hand you need both.

@friendlyneighborkai265

Жыл бұрын

@@tobiaslawrence8928 yeah this is why I don’t agree with the people who say looks don’t matter because it definitely does

@astalavista5328

Жыл бұрын

@@friendlyneighborkai265 they matter to me I would rather look at someone's heart

Love might be blind but ego and lust have 20/20 vision. Bartiste was sexually attracted to Nancy because she's lovely and, uh, she was available. Once he saw Raven he was attracted to her for obvious reasons, and he saw her as someone who would bolster his standing among his peers and others. Men will marry women that they aren't attracted to because they serve them. They will not only step out on these women...but will feel justified in doing so. And they'll not be proud to have them on their arm. Women should avoid these men at all cost.

@BenMallah342

Жыл бұрын

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@annaleevalfig1119

Жыл бұрын

💯💯💯

I'll never forget last season when shake said love is blurry loooool

@BenMallah342

Жыл бұрын

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watching this video made me realize that I never wanted marriage I've just wanted to be validated which is why my type is my type. Never knew stability in my relationships and now I'm realizing its because that wasn't what was important to me. Not feeling rejected was. Finding some that made me feel like I had some type of solid reason to be alive and that the way I could show up for the world was needed in some way. Someone who would continue to affirm that for me so that I could finally have the strength to live instead of just survive. Wow so thankful for this video.

@edieandy1

Жыл бұрын

Great selfreflection!

@christaprophete8848

Жыл бұрын

This is deep!

@Maria-wc3wr

Жыл бұрын

I feel you 💕

@keepitsimpleplease9039

Жыл бұрын

Yep, I think Colleen didn't want to feel rejection again like she did with Cole. So, she settled for an emotionally unstable guy, Matt. She felt validated by him, but I don't think he's right for her.

*It's so so limiting when someone is fixated on their type.* I'm forever going to be attracted to men with beautiful hands, but am I going to not date someone who's a great person, honest, full of integrity and life just because they don't have the best looking hands. That would be mad!! Ditch your type and you may surprise yourself by attracting someone truly great! Loved this video. A great inspiration for my own channel 💕

@happygolucky9004

Жыл бұрын

I think that's reductive. Attraction has a strong connection with biology. Often humans are unconsciously driven to find mates with compatible but disperate immune systems. The heterozygous advantage is also a huge factor. "Types" can be a way to explain these preferences. We should allow and not judge people with their sexual selection, it's a part of nature.

@IEVAKambarovaite

Жыл бұрын

@@happygolucky9004 @Happy GoLucky there's definitely a reason why we're attracted to certain people, but I think it can be very limiting if we're too fixated on that and never try something outside of our usual type. You may not like peas because you never ate them. But what if you tried 😉

@happygolucky9004

Жыл бұрын

@@IEVAKambarovaite I think that's assuming that attraction is a choice. Forcing yourself to eat peas when you've never had them and forcing yourself into sleeping with someone are two different things.

@IEVAKambarovaite

Жыл бұрын

@@happygolucky9004 it's just a metaphor 😊 I guess, I'm just trying to express that I've noticed from my own experience and people I know that someone's type maybe very limiting and it's always worth being open minded. You don't have to be sleeping with someone you're not attracted to, but you can definitely go on two dates. Attraction sometimes grows.

@happygolucky9004

Жыл бұрын

@@IEVAKambarovaite I think that's a nice sentiment and glad that works for your life. It won't be right for everyone though and I think it's important not to judge people for their feelings and attractions. If someone feels strongly about sticking to their type that should be not only allowed but also not judged or convinced they should do otherwise.

I love when Breeny does show reviews 😩❤️

@melaninandaura9713

Жыл бұрын

Me tooooo

@ghadeeral888

Жыл бұрын

Saaaaaaame

@StephandNia

Жыл бұрын

Me too

@whitneyandrews2438

Жыл бұрын

If you love her you can also check out Marie-Laure who did a show review of breeny

@katyailnitskaya2459

Жыл бұрын

yes me too

When Cole said " you do look like a different person now" was the nail in the coffin. 😬

@MissExquizit

Жыл бұрын

It was a joke cos she had said it to him earlier in the day and then the scary monster thing, I would have said you’re a scary monster. It’s about not having the same kind of humour and it’s unfortunate. The more insecure someone is the harder it is to love them because they don’t even love themselves

Bartise didn’t like Raven until he saw her. I think that’s what she meant. In the pod without seeing her he said she was shallow but when he saw her then he was like I think we would worst perfectly together. He was just driven by lust.

@BenMallah342

Жыл бұрын

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I had to learn the hard way that you can't force attraction and that nothing can make up for attraction in a relationship. Thank you Breeny!

@veronica_sm_

Жыл бұрын

I feel you…. and I think it puts you in trouble and in danger when you go for somebody even though you know for a fact that they’re just totally not the catch for you….

@hannalowercase5928

Жыл бұрын

from experience, i personally disagree. i’ve been in relationships where i didn’t find the person attractive at first and i insisted on looking for “things” that would make me attracted to them and it worked

@butterfly-zr4sb

Жыл бұрын

@@hannalowercase5928 the same for me,i met someone i was obsessed with him and he's not,but in the end he becomes obsessed with even more then me!

@jeshurundaniel794

Жыл бұрын

@@hannalowercase5928 well I think people are different I cannot be with someone I don't find physically attractive

@rose-yeah

Жыл бұрын

I mean yeah. But most of men aren’t attractive while their wives are more attractive. So it can work but men are immature and stupid.

Thank you!!! I truly never got how people don't understand how just because you find someone attractive does not mean I want to be with that person. I've run across numerous men that were attractive (me, friends, strangers all knew this) but I would never date them. Or that I don't have a type, I just have characteristics and the guy must be attractive to ME! it's so weird that ppl can't grasp this. I've had men tell me in my face the "type" of men they can see me with not knowing I actually try to stay away from men like that because their ego and attitude is 0/10. I met a guy recently who I never thought I would like but I did.

One of the biggest confidence boosters I’ve had is when I started taking my makeup off around my husband, he would always complement me more. He will always say baby. You are so beautiful Waymore than when I have my make up on that definitely as a woman makes you feel good when you can feel beautiful and not have to put your face on.

Love is not blind because Cole and Colleen would of been perfect for each other 🙄

@StarringShameka

Жыл бұрын

Literally!

@fabibibine

Жыл бұрын

I know why he rejected her😤😤😤

@yourlittlesecret7575

Жыл бұрын

@@fabibibine Girl why because I cannot figure it out 😭

I’m at a point where I don’t have to be attracted to a man. He should be clean and well groomed, takes care of his body, with a nice smile. Those are my physical requirements. I am attracted to intelligence, and men who are attracted to me. You bring up a good point about this. This is why I believe that women shouldn’t shoot their shot. You can be beautiful but you’ll never know if you’re his type. If you’re not his type, he may engage you for a while, or sleep with you but he doesn’t want you. He didn’t want you to begin with.

@christinas7358

Жыл бұрын

Yes 💯

@princessslaya937

Жыл бұрын

Facts! We sabotage ourselves as women when we try to make the moves... let the man pursue and chase.

@Movemee387

Жыл бұрын

@@princessslaya937 she is saying the opposite of this

@jeshurundaniel794

Жыл бұрын

I'd always care about looks too along with personality if a guy doesn't look good i won't be attracted to him even if he has a great personality and I'm certain most men won't approach or want to be with a woman that they don't find attractive

@rose-yeah

Жыл бұрын

@@jeshurundaniel794 thank you.

I personally don’t think raven was acting narcissistic. She said she didn’t like that he seemed to only like her looks wich a narcissist would 😊

I just got out of a relationship with a man who was not my type and that I was not attracted. I dated him anyway and I kept on using the good qualities he had to gloss over the fact that he was not for me. Breeny, this video was refreshing and I will add on your points to the lessons I learned from my most recent relationship.

Absolutely agree with every point you made, especially regarding Raven and Bobblehead. I also want to add that my opinion on Bamboo is that he is very much in his feminine energy and craves so much validation like you mentioned. Raven was very put off by Boomerang because she could energetically sense his insecurity and feminine energy that made her disgusted by him. Raven is clearly a match for a true masculine leader, which Balloon was the opposite of.

@ktp.

Жыл бұрын

LOL! All the names for Bartise who I personally don't regard as "hot" at all. He's just so high on himself and it's obvious. I think he has deeper issues to reject an ultra feminine girl like Nancy who is the rare ride-or-die-for-her-man type of woman.

@LaraOmar

Жыл бұрын

@@ktp. I don’t think Nancy is a feminine woman, simply because she never stood up for herself or her boundaries. Bartise is the real feminine here, that’s why he was attracted to Nancy bc she’s in her masculine and doesn’t trust her intuition.

@naliboo6212

Жыл бұрын

@@LaraOmar girl, you get it. I love seeing women get it. People think femininity is about being cute and wearing dresses. It’s more savage than that.

as a young 21 year old man, i learned alot from your views on attraction. thank you so much for sharing your views!!!!

@BenMallah342

Жыл бұрын

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He seems like he doesn’t like how insecure she is. I don’t think he cares about looks so much. He doesn’t like the fact that she just won’t loosen up and be herself and be carefree. To him that’s what turns him off about her, not her physical appearance. What does it matter how you look if you’re going to be insecure and not be yourself because you’re so caught up in looking perfect. Beautiful women still get left and get cheated on, let’s be honest.

@nikigracevlogs

Жыл бұрын

Truuu

I believe that if God has someone for me, they will find me. I do not have to dress up with intentions or act in a kinda way for anyone. If a man approaches me and losses interest't cool, but I am not searching for nobody. The is sooo much pressure in finding the right person it is starting to be boring, honestly. I just wish we can all just relax and focus. Things happen a lot for people who do not care and just leave their lives. True love will locate me, that is my belief. My issue is that a lot of men always believe that you want them for just talking to them.

I can't wait to see your reactions to the second half. Because this whole season feels like a dumpster fire...

A man being attracted to you vs you being his type is a big big difference. When your his type - you could do no wrong in his eyes , he will chase and pursue you. When he's attracted to you- he will settle for you and tolerate you.

Why did these women stay with these men after they talk to them like this, is the real issue!

@mariabrown6926

Жыл бұрын

No self confidence

I just watched this last night and this whole situation made me so mad, I'm glad you're covering it!

Breeny you are looking sooo amazing girl!!! I'm so proud of you keep it up you are glowing 😩💕

@BreenyLee

Жыл бұрын

Thank you beauty!!

Love your explanation of types!! I tell people all the time I don't have a type. And I believe you're spot on about the ego view of it all. Types are telling on how mentally and emotionally matured he really is and what he's ACTUALLY looking for!

Every video you produce has so much value, Breeny! Thank you sis🙏🏼✨

@BreenyLee

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!

Absolutely spot on about Bartiste!! Love your analysis and yes they all need a slap 🤣🤣🤣

Another gold content love love this. Straight facts, and fresh topic that I haven’t heard. I definitely agree that men are really particular with looks but not so much with us because we’re more in the side of how they make us feel. ❤️💯

My auntie Breeny is back at it again 💯 I love how you are able to take these shows and pull PROPER perspectives. Keep them coming, Breeny! ❤️

I think he brought up “you look like a totally different person” as a joke because that’s what she said earlier. He even replied “that’s what you told me!” I don’t think he genuinely meant it or found her unattractive at all, He just thought he was being funny (but still I’d hate to hear it).

@nikigracevlogs

Жыл бұрын

Exactly! People are picking apart his comments without context 😓

I’ve been with people who I initially did not find attractive and then realised I should’ve gone with my initial instinct. I agree that us women value other qualities besides attractiveness but looks do help. Thanks for another great video!

You're so fun, Breeny! It would be so cool to chill with you and watch Love is Blind! ✨️ 💜💙🤍 💅🥂

@BreenyLee

Жыл бұрын

:) x

I've listen to probably a dozen reviews ...this one definitely topped the others ....detailed and brutally honest review.

A couple of things 1. For some people physical attraction isn't important, the same way not everyone wants a rich partner. Different people prioritise different things 2. I think having a type is similar to having a fetish. If you can only be attracted to someone with hazel eyes, something else is going on there

@CyciIvy

Жыл бұрын

AGREED

@raheemcamal998

Жыл бұрын

Facts

@princessslaya937

Жыл бұрын

Yes! Agree!

@mstcherie13

Жыл бұрын

Agree especially with the second one. Some people literally don't have a type and when people with a specific type hearvthat they sideyel it. I used to myself . As in getting older my gosh the physical is nice bothbwoukd be perfect but I am becoming more flexible.For some people it isn't about physical attributes as much. That's okay

@rose-yeah

Жыл бұрын

Why are you saying people? Say men find looks more important. Women don’t care that much. Men ain’t shit.

So glad I found you! You are spot on in your analysis on these couples!!👏🏽

Breeeeeeny this vid had me feeling like I was sitting around talking with a girlfriend!! You are fireeeeeee!

This is a good example of why Alexa and Brennon did work well. They both came there or the right reasons, yet are total opposites.. Same with Raven and SK. Its very important to be genuinely open minded you go on a show like this.

@nikigracevlogs

Жыл бұрын

Idk if Brennon & Alexa will work long-term. Hopefully I’m wrong.

You inspired me to start my channel I really celebrate and appreciate you

i can tell this will be good🙌🏾

Whew Thankyou i needed to hear thissss… my male friend is so lovely but im just not feeling the attraction.. time to cut itttttttt and set the boundaries of the friendzone. Also you look so beautiful 🧚‍♀️💕

@BenMallah342

Жыл бұрын

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Thanks sis,,,for another great conversation/pep talk.. Your'e were really missed ❤️

you know what, you made some amazing points! good catch.

This is such an eye opener! We need more videos like this Breeny! It was so well said 💓 always curious to see what your next video is, love you girl 🌸

Beautiful analysis Breeny ... very insightful 👌

Great breakdown!! Learned a lot from this video!

I'm new to your channel. So refreshing to hear your view and I totally agree with everything you say! Thank you!

Great video Breeny...so educational and entertaining.i watched the whole season but it makes more sense now.

He didn’t deserve Nancy, she truly is too good for him. Im glad Raven shut him down, I know his ego was hurt 😂

@nikigracevlogs

Жыл бұрын

Honestly 😅👏🏾👏🏾

Crazy i was actually thinking "where breeny hope she ok, I should check" ...here you are 😊❤

That Bartise is real nut job this season was so messy thnx gal for the review honestly am so disillusioned by love lately.

Ladies let’s not forget that when there are guys like Cole and Bartise in this world there are also guys like Brennon ❤

@x80WildCat08x

Жыл бұрын

Brennen is a cuck

@designerdiva423

Жыл бұрын

He’s spineless

@titlepending1302

Жыл бұрын

But Brennon is a bbbbb

@299justme

Жыл бұрын

@@titlepending1302 what does bbbb mean? Just curious

@blackswan6257

Жыл бұрын

He was alright. I think they just both settled for each other honestly.

OMG the video title is EVERYTHING!!

Stunning!

I love talks like these

I have a type. I believe there are levels to attraction and when you are with your type, you are even more attracted to them. For instance, ( I would not prefer to use a scale of 1-10 but for the example) ,I would be more attracted to an 8 of my type than a 9 of someone who is not my type. For men, I believe they are less flexible concerning attraction compared to woman. Remember, from what I can recall, Cameron's previous girlfriend was black...Lauren was black. He got his type.

Raven plan backfired on her. She was goin for resources not looks. But once reality hit that she have to consider someone else's way of living hit her like a ton of bricks.

YESS hopefully you can do the Ultimatum next?

Breeny, you are so stunningly gorgeous, and smart and insightful!

You really did explain , what I felt during these episodes!!

spot on every word also i love how Raven shut him down lol

Yes I love what you said in this video you made some key points. I just don’t understand how people date or marry people they don’t find attractive 😅

What an interesting video. I didn't know that narcissists gravitate towards each other for those reasons. Overall, this is on point.

Well said BREENY!!! Great perspective 🧐

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Breenyyyy I love these kind of reviews from you, pure gold 🥹

@BenMallah342

Жыл бұрын

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I've been dying for a new video. God bless push notifications

Thanks for the video. As you mentioned, many people on that show are driven by lust and a huge desire for fame. Love is a commitment made by people who are mature enough to know that looks, while important, cannot outweigh personality compatibility and goal alignment cuz that's what will make a relationship go the distance, not the sexual desire that will wear off once another hottie enters your vicinity 🙄

@BenMallah342

Жыл бұрын

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I’m so happy I’m over with wearing makeup. The sheer insecurity and inconvenience wearing makeup imposed on me, I had to quit wearing. Zaynab scene in the hot tub is sad, truly sad.

Love love love your skin color. So gorgeous

U gotta write a holybook of yours , I can’t believe how perfect in all aspects you are

I love love love this Thank you Goddess

@zainabibraheem

Жыл бұрын

Literally tho

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder for sure. My ex was the most beautiful man in the world to me when I met him, others did not see it and said I was out of his league but I didn’t care, they weren’t the ones dating him. We broke up because of his insecurities but I still think he was a gorgeous man. Ethiopian and Egyptian, he had a very unique look.

@ktp.

Жыл бұрын

This is exactly what is destructive about boring beauty standards. I see many uniquely gorgeous people who either have no self confidence or are self-hating by setting out to date anything that fits the North American version of beauty.

@alijade9494

Жыл бұрын

Beauty is not in the eye of the beholder

HOLY SHIT!! I havent seen your videos in a minute and now that Im back my jaw dropped at seeing the weight you lost! Holy Shit!! You look AMAZING!! You were ALWAYS beautiful and you rocked your previous weight like a Champ but now?? Sheeeeesh girl!! Congrats!!!!

breeny i love u so much thank u!

Never heard more truer words. 💯

Personally, as a female, I understand the "guy's" perspective after sex, because I'm the same way. And in my experience, the guys that I met were not like that to me. It's not a gender based thing, it's an individual thing.

I weirdly ended up watching most of ur vid ❤Learned alot ❤

Breezy could you pls give us content explaining about these whole vibe of alpha male and female. Just for some of us to understand ourselves better. Also would you consider yourself an Alpha female? I feel like this is such an important topic and we could have no other better person unpack that whole conversation best other than you. ❤️🌹

That last part of knowing your man's previous type... Absolutely necessary!

Raven is not a narcissist

thank you this was insightful

My type has brought a good time but never happiness, Security, protection, compassion, and reliability. It was heartbreak city. I don’t believe types form healthy long standing relationships, unless your type is being emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and physically appreciated, respected, loved, and honored. Go where you are appreciated and taken care of, where there’s a partnership and understand that relationships are responsibility and hard work. I’m engaged to a man that isn’t my “type “ but he’s hot, sincere, provides, protects, committed and many other things that made me realize my type was a limiter that only cut my blessings short.

@raheemcamal998

Жыл бұрын

Amen

You look absolutely gorgeous 😍 Thanks for you eye-opening and encouraging content. Greetings from Ukraine 🇺🇦

Agreed love is definitely not blind I pay attention to red flags especially if the conversation is only physical

Sis. You’re on point with everything you said!!! First time watching this kind of shows and omg!!!! I was cringing🥴🥴🥴🥴 what dating in 2022 looks like lol

@BenMallah342

Жыл бұрын

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