"Sometimes you gotta eat mom's spaghetti."

@INRamos13

2 жыл бұрын

Wise words

@themainmanfred

2 жыл бұрын

i relate to this mans messed up words and reactions to rambling. i ramble a lot and people think im nuts and make 0 sense but in my head i understand it perfectly

Active duty soldier who lost a friend recently and is having a hard day: thank you, i feel less alone about the things you were saying about life, time now, and loss. Im glad to know im not alone

@benjamin_john_turner

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry for your loss, hope for you to bounce back brother

@nickw4197

2 жыл бұрын

im sorry for your loss.. may god watch over you.. thank you for your service.

@ZeranZeran

2 жыл бұрын

Do it for him and by do it, I mean what makes you happy. That's what he'd want. I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm not religious, but I believe your friend is watching over you, and waiting for you someday to meet again.

I love how a lot of these people apologize for 'rambling' when all I hear is a cohesive, emotive story that sweeps me away. I wish the best for all these people, and thank you for sharing the story!

My husband passed away in my arms on April 9, 2019. We were together for 21 years. We were junior high sweethearts. He is definitely my soul mate and my other half. I miss him everyday. Sometimes if something awesome happens, I still have the urge to call him. I often dream about him, only to realize when I wake up that he has passed. He has definitely made his spirit known to me though. Our love transcends time and space and I will love him for the rest of my life. We have two kids and when I look into their eyes, I see him. So in them, I still have a piece of him.Please hug your loved ones and appreciate everyone in your life. REST IN PARADISE 💜💜Gianni Marquez 💜💜

@realgucman

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that. I hope you are doing well.

@selenasanchez4244

2 жыл бұрын

@@realgucman thank u for ur kind words. I am doing the best I can. God is good and I am blessed. 🙌

@nexxusty

2 жыл бұрын

@@selenasanchez4244 God snatches your husband from you, and that's your take? I can't even. Honestly.

@ZeranZeran

2 жыл бұрын

@@nexxusty People like you are why atheists aren't taken seriously and are largely clowned on. You see this moment, and you take it to mock someone. You stopped aging mentally around 12, and you'll never go past that point. Enjoy.

@selenasanchez4244

2 жыл бұрын

@@nexxusty yes that's my take. Everything happens for a reason my dear. You can be mad at God but what good is it going to do? The fact that "that's your take" is totally your business! Sending Light and love!🥰

Syrmor, please never stop making these videos. Hearing all these people's stories of their lives and experiences, whether they be good or bad, make me think and feel in ways I wouldn't normally and its just incredible to hear these stories so I may learn life lessons from them.

@narutofan4545

Жыл бұрын

Smoke some weed with it

I'm so glad I found this channel. It's so organic and real.

I'm gunna hug my wife super hard when I get home, this is super powerful.

this is worth 70 therapy sessions right there, even the ''you gotta eat mom's spaghetti'' advice.

@HardlyaDavidson

2 жыл бұрын

Symbolism is a hell of a drug.

@fryone

2 жыл бұрын

@@HardlyaDavidson Its a scary one indeed Sir

Losing someone like having an ex or someone you loved is hard enough as in just separation. But death is what scares me. It hurts enough as it is when someone leaves you, but having them gone for good is just awful, especially if it's under terrible circumstances.

@samuel-rw3xt

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah , like when you break up that person chose to go away , and in a sense makes it easier knowing that , but when someone dies , they were robed from you , death is a bit scary , even when you don't notice it it scars your soul , I only noticed that my dad killing himself changed me more than I thought recently , I was to young at the time so it didn't really impact me the way it should , but after years I started thinking and that changed the way I am and act , after acknowledging that I felt better understood myself , death is scary way more scary them I thought , I always felt ok with death but now i am scared :/

@Enrico_Dandolo

2 жыл бұрын

@@samuel-rw3xt believe what you want, but if there is an afterlife where we can see our loved ones again, death is the only way to get there.

@samuel-rw3xt

2 жыл бұрын

@@Enrico_Dandolo yeah but the uncertainty of it makes me prefer to live in the present instead of hopping for that time , but well it would be cool to talk with him normally , our relationship was not the best , he was not a good man

@chilliewhk

2 жыл бұрын

Having someone pass away that was close to you is something that will change your life forever. I lost my best friend a few years ago, and I can never just not think about him. Every day I remember him, his jokes and his friendship. Not being to just pick up a phone and just talk with him. I'll never really recover from it, but life moves on regardless of how I feel.

@samuel-rw3xt

2 жыл бұрын

@@chilliewhk I fear that I may lose my best friend , it's a great fear , so I hope that you can be okay about it , and whatever he may be he is probably happy to know that you still think about him , my best regards buddy

Losing someone you love is a difficult kind of grief. As a daughter who lost my dad to the affects from treatment from cancer, it was and still is very very difficult. Death is still scary. I wish mediumsea the best! I hope they know they’re never alone!

I wish Mediumsea the best. I hope their life is lived well and with the most purpose they desire. Thank you Syrmor for sharing their voice for us to hear and experience.

I re-watched this at least 20 times.... the past video and this one really hit me. When my ex left me 4 months ago, i felt like everything we created was destroyed and everyone I knew i lost due to keeping my life as tight as i can... Now i regret it and I simply feel alone. But just re-watching this video gets me by... Keep it up man!

I also had a cockatiel and he was grumpy his whole life. I thought we raised him wrong or didn’t do enough to make him nicer. The beginning of this video made it really clear to me he was just had that kind of personality. Miss you a lot Chipper.

I love this guys storytelling Also, Scooby definitely said Ruh Roh on multiple occasions

@brockwilson4108

2 жыл бұрын

I couldn't find any ngl lol

One thing i wish.. Is that my dad would do something like this.. My mom died when i was 2. Leaving my dad devistated with 2 young children to take care of on his own.. From what i've experianced and now know about mental health etc.. He must have been so depressed and sad, but he kept it all to himself. Never really spoke to us about it, never cried infront of us. But he wasn't happy either. He wouldn't really smile or laugh that much, just watch tv, go around and do his things, cook food etc.. And that went on for many many many years which has lead to him and i having a HUGE disconnect as i never got the love and care i would have liked as a kid.. We just slowly grew apart.. But one thing i would LOVE to hear, is his story. What it was like, what he felt, what he was thinking.. Was he scared? Was he afraid to do the wrong things? He lost his partner who was always there for him and now has 2 children. It's not like he knows what to do you know?.. But it's so hard to talk to him. He has softend up his iron "stone cold" heart quite a bit in the last 5 years. But growing up as i did, mostly just hanging around with my sister and then myself & friends.. It's like he is a stranger to me.. That i really care for.. One weekend, like any other 2 years ago. My dad was a bit tipsy and decided to hug me.. Which is not a strange thing to do right? But i think that is the first time in my whole life of 22 years HE HUGGED ME.. I've always huged him as a kid but never really got any of that back. So after he hugged me that time i actually felt loved you know?.. Shit had me crying for a solid 20 minutes afterwards..

@maddogproductions9911

2 жыл бұрын

I would suggest slowly working your way up to talking more to your father and maybe at some point asking these questions to see his perspective. I may just be a random optimistic person but I think it’s very much worth it to have that communication and understanding between you guys. Love you and hope you have a great day!

@catcrapinahat

5 ай бұрын

You very much matter to him and he did not deal with the grief in a healthy way leading to it affecting his children. This is a plea from someone who had to learn the hardest way possible don't wait till he's gone , I bet he knows it was wrong to be so cold but parents aren't perfect and they don't always make the best choices.

It’s nice to see human interaction on an emotional basis. There has been such a monumental lack of peace and love. Hate has been prevalent more so that I’ve noticed for the past 5 years. I’m glad these videos and you, exist

Not gonna lie having taken some major steps in my own life with my partner recently (saving up and moving into our first home together) there is a part of me who has thought about how scary it would be if they suddenly just keeled over and never got up or was in some sort of car accident. It's terrifying. This is the person I chose to spend my life with but they're no more invincible than any other person I've seen articles about just passing away or getting sick or in an accident and it does worry me. Not to a point I stress about it every day but it's something where I try to imagine my path afterwards and how I would cope. It's so difficult to truly picture and I genuinely cannot imagine my life with them gone abruptly. Would I be okay on my own? Would I ever think about dating again? Would that come across as feeling like the other person is trying to replace someone in a way that is impossible for them to achieve? I honestly don't know. It isn't fun to think about but I guess I'm trying to be at least somewhat prepared incase something ever happens. Seeing Cool Spot guy here tell his story after a few years at least gives me an example of someone who has gone through that and processed in their own way and still living their own life which is nice or comforting to an extent. Hope Mediumsea continues doing well despite what he has gone through.

@felsonduem7100

2 жыл бұрын

I've been married for nearly 4 years and my wife is my entire world and reason I do things. I love her so much and this is the biggest fear of my life, knowing that it is a possibility that everything can be taken away from you at a moment's notice

@ZeranZeran

2 жыл бұрын

I'm single right now, but I've been in a great relationship once. I think it's pretty sweet that you think like this. Good sign.

Oh hey! I missed this guy, hope he is doing well

Its been a while symor, glad your posting

@Zorrr

2 жыл бұрын

you're*

@mothmen1399

2 жыл бұрын

It's been a week since he uploaded lmao

Syrmor, I had the most cathartic cry a few nights ago to another one of your videos. Actually to a series of videos. I haven’t felt that way in a really long time, the release opened up some weight off my chest. Thank you. I tried to write how I relate to this story below. It’s honestly just word vomit, but I need this outlet right now in my life. Take it or leave it. Thanks again mate In freshman year of high I based my whole spectrum of emotions off of my very first love. I could be happy unless she was, or at least that’s the lie I made up dredge on. Eventually I became a dependent of her attention and affection, seeking it in all of our encounters. Hell I even wrote love letters to this girl before(and during) when we dated. I was honest to god in love with her. At one point the feeling was mutual, even leading her to make a care package for me to remember her when I vacationed away with my family for weeks. She hand wrote 50 slips of affirmations, added aloe Vera for beach sunburns, some of her art which she was so embarrassed to show me. But I was busy thinking how somebody even went through the effort to draw me. Although, this wouldn’t last more than 3 months. Eventually she would get back with her ex-boyfriend, who was a terrible manipulator. He was my friend before I even met this girl, but mostly in passing. Like I would hear from my friends that he was a freeloader and a liar but when your 14 the weight of those words didn’t quite hit yet. After she broke up with me the first time and got back with him, I snapped. No, I broke a little. I even went as far as to beg for her back as I never got a clear answer from her. It was odd, one day we can make out on her couch, and the next she was bashing my heart out with a flail while the guts theme is playing. We eventually got back together only, some hit for was off. Then, we broke up, the day RIGHT BEFORE the prom. MEANING I HAVE TO GO SINGLE NOW. Now this night changed me. I nearly wanted to believe that it was over, but I just couldn’t. And the whole night at the prom with my friends was just a mask. There’s nothing more I wanted to say to her than I love you one last time, and she say it back. But I eventually even quesitoned if anything we shared was real. Furious at the fact I get cheated on twice and broken up the night before prom, I get violent at home. I start to punch holes in the walls, I hide myself from family crying alone, even in my gaming I notice I get angry easier.. Until finally the final nail in the coffin arrived. My parents finally had enough of each other. I saw it coming really, my mom was a furious woman when she would get angry, borderline psychotic episode. Hell one time she threw a blackberry past my dads head into the drywall behind him during an argument. And my dad being the professional man he is ends there argument and patches the hole the same day. So, eventually I decided, though it felt forced, to move up with my dad and attend the high school by him. Perfect. I can escape this torment. Rebuild. But I just, couldn’t stop that gnawing thought in the back of my head that tells me “You’ll always be worthless”. I finished high school with limited trauma fortunately, but I didn’t make many friends. And given my depressed state and new location, by the time I graduated the new high school I realized I had 1 friend. The rest I severed ties unknowingly. I didn’t text group chats, I didn’t go out with friends, I didn’t go outside in general. Too many reminders.

this hit me right in my feelings I lost my dad back in 2021 and I played Elden Ring this year really fun game I’ve played every single souls game To date and my dad watch me play the first two when I was in let’s say seventh eighth grade and I always wonder what would he think about Elden ring and I never really realized that he to would have grown with the times so when I heard him say that about how we are in love or love you persons whole mentality thought processes and emotions all that just really kind of hit thank you for that, Bring some solace and helps out with the grieving process.

"I've done stuff on the internet before... I know how comments go." Well, how about another positive one for the tally, Mr. Cool Spot guy? I hope you and the pair of parrots have an incredible nice day and night tonight❤️

I can't say much, but all I can say is that Mediumsea is amazing for continuing how they have. To talk to him specifically - you, sur deserve all that you can get out of life going forward. All the joy and more.

This is crazy. I watched his previous video 2 years ago, only watching around 5 syrmor videos at the time, and his story really affected me the most. I've been thinking about it now and then, and about how emotionally broken a person can become. I also remember him explaining where his avatar came from, and the funny but also sad juxtaposition of that in relation to the sad story. 2 years later I return to syrmor's channel and it just so happens that a sequel recently came out. Really happy he's feeling better now. Really happy about the message that it sends, that humans are able to find happiness even after losing someone so close to them. Wish him all the best.

I can’t express how much his words relate to my life, even though I’ve gone through a fraction of his struggles, yet somehow, his understanding of self loathing and his learnings from it, convey a message that can be understood by billions and interpreted in a way by others that helps them with their own struggles, like me. So thank you both for putting these words out. Everyday is a moment to share your life with others.

Always enjoy these videos Two videos released barely a week apart is a blessing

My heart goes out to mediumsea. Thank you for sharing your experience. Your story is very helpful to those of us who are going through difficult situations.

The insight and wisdom here is really moving. Even if I'm not currently in his circumstance, I feel really impacted by his words and want to keep them close to me. Thanks mediumsea.

I'll never recover from the fact that Scooby Doo never said Ruh-Roh

@Ivearted

2 жыл бұрын

That part went over my head!?! Please help!!! 🥴

@littlebirdy3545

2 жыл бұрын

@@Ivearted He said it at the very end as his answer to "if you could tell everyone in the world one thing what would it be?"

@INRamos13

2 жыл бұрын

He did. In many occasions.

@30seconds57

2 жыл бұрын

@@INRamos13 i cant find a clip of him saying it on youtube or when i google it 😰

@30seconds57

2 жыл бұрын

this is messing me up

Damn these type of stories always make me feel grim and depressed.

@Yolocheese

2 жыл бұрын

I feel the same way sometimes dude, but there are definitely some happy stories on this channel that might make your day better. Regardless, have a good day and don’t let that feeling take control of you buddy. God bless 💪🏾

@sleepyarcheremiya955

2 жыл бұрын

@@Yolocheese yeah I saw them happy stories! And thank you! May God bless you too.

@stridsvagn-1226

2 жыл бұрын

As depressing as these stories are, they are things that could happen to anyone, sadly

@nihilisticpuppy3799

2 жыл бұрын

They are incredible reminders to be immensely grateful, for *not* having experienced such fates or realities. Realistically speaking, we have so much more than we are ever conscious of actually having.

@themainmanfred

2 жыл бұрын

this is why i go around vrchat just trying to socialize with the coolest people and maybe ill get to hear a cool life story

I cannot believe it has been two years. All the best to you mediumsea

Thank you for opening up about this.. it's really helping me figure things out.

Pls do more of these. These help more than you could imagined. I get therapy from these.

I remember watching you videos years ago, happy to see you’re still uploading. these videos always give me a nostalgic feeling, I wish more of your videos would come recommended to me I’ll have to start watching again.

@MaxR52

2 жыл бұрын

hit that subscribe buttonnnnnnnn

I don't know if it's appropriate to bring this up but Scooby-Doo definitely said ruh roh

@natthekiwi7074

2 жыл бұрын

There’s going to be a spike in Scooby Doo searches thank you this guy lol

@digimbyte

2 жыл бұрын

both scooby and the jetsons dog said it. its from the same company/studio they even used it in the name of a Halloween special Scooby-Doo! 13 Spooky Tales: Ruh-Roh Robot September 24th 2013

@chrissysconvos

2 жыл бұрын

Thinking the same thing but didn't want to be rude lol =)

I totally get when he talks about drinking yourself to forget your problems just delays the process of healing. I drank for 3 years very heavy to get over a girl and couldn’t shake the feeling. When I quit drinking, I finally was able to heal. Drinking is just putting bandage on your mental health.

The stasis thought was very impactful on me, its the way i feel about my past friends, the fading memories of someone , who is long time an another person.

I dont know who needs to hear this or who will see this, but, each and everyone of you is loved. Life is very short and we take alot for granted, please tell those close to you how much you love them before its too late. Always remember to be kind to others as we dont always know what eachother is going through. Peace and love to all

All cockatoos are assholes, every Australian knows this and we don't understand why Americans keep them as pets.

@reedy_9619

2 жыл бұрын

Hence the name i guess

@ZeranZeran

2 жыл бұрын

I'm American and its weird they have started to fly around wild here in the last few years.. in the 90's they were NOT wild animals here, they were considered pet birds. How have so many people let their birds go to the point where entire flocks are starting in new countries!?

@angusmatheson8906

2 жыл бұрын

​@@ZeranZeran Because cockatoos are dicks, so people get fed with them. Also they are clever and strong, so they can escape and survive in the wild. they wat just about anything.

@ZeranZeran

2 жыл бұрын

@@angusmatheson8906 They really are dicks. Never understood why people had them. CockaTIELS are actually very sweet and affectionate birds, and they're dumber! Cockatoos are annoying. Sounds like Jurassic park flying over my house some days

Man this video just came up in my Snapchat memories because of a quote he said. I miss your videos dude they really were a great help. I hope you're alright symor and thanks for the therapy when you provided it, I honestly forgot ya existed till I saw the snippet.

I appreciate your channel Syrmor. You're easily my favorite KZreadr and I am so happy every time you post. I think your content is important and meaningful and I know a lot of people appreciate you too.

Very well spoken. I think being able to mature eventually and see things from such a realistic angle is important for healing and coming to terms with how things are now. I hope it gets better and that everyone who's dealing similar things are doing okay.

My dad's been gone for four years and we lost his brother a year or so later and it still feels like yesterday and I still struggle with the thought that he isn't gonna call me again or go to his house or anything of that nature sudden deaths really are the worst and some of my family thinks im never gonna get over it and they are probably right I just wanna learn to live with it and make him proud even though I feel like a complete failure i'm glad we were able to catch up with this man

Just found this channel. Thank you. Subscribed.

I love you red man

This channel is absolutely amazing and I will do everything I can to spread the word.

Hold on to memories by disturbed is a perfect song for this. My heart goes out to you.

That last statement cut deeper than I thought it would.

I love you syrmor, thanks for sharing stories like this 💯🙏💕

@Rahmations

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry I can't take you seriously with your name

I definitely understand what he's saying about accepting the person is gone. I recently lost my last grandmother. I'm one of the few atheists of the family and it came in handy when I walked up to the casket and saw her body. I didn't feel anything hugely impactful standing there staring at the casket. I thought to myself "That isn't her. That's just a thing, not a person." It also helped that they had to use so much make up and prosthetics she looked like a Halloween prop...Don't die outside where nobody can find you for hours if you want an open casket.

@slimeballsake

2 жыл бұрын

I can't choose or know when imma die bro 😭😭😭

@Katzykeens

2 жыл бұрын

Eh, imma be dust after o3o so it's no biggie. But you're right. The body is only a vessel we pilot o3o 🌈💖 once it stops working, then that's all it is. A body.

@raccoonchild

2 жыл бұрын

I'm kind of underslept and that last sentence cracked me tf up

This whole video was honestly an enlightening experience about loss and grief I feel like overanalyzing the whole scooby doo thing because it honestly connects to how sometimes you have an idea or a concept of something rather than the thing itself so you sometimes think that it's one way when it can possibly be not and that speaks of how the finality of death really messes up with your perception of things

This is one of the best channels on KZread

Boy I sure can relate to this, I've been through the ringer since 2019, and it is still going.

this guy speaks incredibly well, I hope he’s doing okay

I feel like this is what KZread is for. Genuinely coming from the heart. Trying to Steer others in the right direction. Rather than tear away at each other.

I get that, and it sucks to lose a individual that is unique, from the most notable details to the smallest they all form an individual is I distinct-able from many other who may look sound or smell like in truth they are nothing like their counterparts, that you grew to care and love for due to their simplest actions/interactions and losing that familiarity make things feel more empty/ hollow the hardest part of moving past that is accepting that that time spent with them is not enough and at best the moment you had and shared can continued to be shared with those in your circle and or eventually out towards other you know

i havent watched in a while but the stories still hit hard

Every syrmor upload day is a good day

8 months and trying to keep on living, people around think I got over it bc I act "normal" - I'm not, absolutely not. I barely started to scratch the surface of how deep the cut goes. This vid helped a bit somehow, thank you.

That was beautiful. Thanks for sharing

After many years later I will never not watch a Symor video. Even though I've not lost any of the two ex's I can relate. At least one ex wanted me too be the best me and keep being the best me after 8+ year breakup and trying to find ways to socialize has been hard now harder after a recent break-up, Giving people the chance to learn how I got myself to where I'm at now wasn't easy and it's tough wanting to explain my experiences .. huge learning process I'm still trying to adjust into my everyday life. Some day's are easy some days are hard but it's not a forever type of thing moods can come and go but learning how to handle them is what gets frustrating. Everyone that read this and is having a type of hardship ect just know you're not alone and your moods and feelings are validated and normal, just keep doing the stuff that makes you ... you. 💙 Anyways hope you comeback too twitch streaming again Symor.

@bobsagits

2 жыл бұрын

Also I meant lost as in they have passed away. More so they ended in abuse.

I’m crying happy but philosophical tears.

This interview hit home for me a bit.

this hepled me somehow... thanks & be well

This guy is so strong. Legend.

Hey syrmor, could you also upload the audio from your interviews as a podcast series? I'd love to listen to them on the go

9 years ago I lost my dad, and it's something I've never really gotten over, I've come to terms that he's gone but I will always have this hope that he will come back. I always have this thought of it being just a sick joke or one of those dreams where you wake up and you've lived a whole different life in your sleep.

I love how this series remind people that there are people out there that are not some big celebrity, or a shit headed social media influencer that have a story to share.

My teacher says "be anxious for nothing", then he gives you the teaching and power to live that out.

Far out, it’s so impressive to see how the mind repairs itself after trauma. Props to this guy, it definitely sounds like he is on the right path.

All of my losses have never sunk in and I don't think they ever will.

This is beauty. This is the documentation of life and it’s strife.

I love this guy hope your doing well cool spot

Ohhh that scooby do ending was great! Thanks!

This shit is too real. God do I miss my brother

I love how at the end when given the chance to impart some sage wisdom he ops to give us a scooby-doo fact

Thank you

3.5 years of a relationship... she broke up with me and yea I feel like she literally died to me.... 4 months later and I feel the same and can't accept that it's over.... everyday is agony and It's my doing.....

love you syrmor

I had to try and watch this video about three times before I could finish it. I've lost someone a long time ago.

Very interesting. Especally the middle when he talks about he was scared about the time he had wasted as younger. I think about my selfe too.

I feel for him. He has it a lot tougher than me...

Amazing video, spectacular ending

This is a really stupid comment to make on a video about a very serious topic, but the mouth animation's default 😯 shape made my brain end all of his sentences with an "oo" sound 0:20 "And also you might have to contend with the fact that you got a cockatoo, and the cockatoo decided to be a complete assholoo, foreveroo, for the rest of it's lifoo"

aww so sad i watched the whole thing this is unreal

@Zaxoncrack

2 жыл бұрын

This just came out what ?😅🤣

so i searched up scooby doo saying ruh roh on youtube and the first video was a 30 second clip of scooby saying ruh roh but if you click on the video it says its actually the jetsons dog and now im freaking out trying to find an actual clip of scooby doo saying ruh roh wtfffff

Wish I had come across Syrmor when I was on vrc. You basically have to lie to your friends and family over a lot of emotion and troubles. Edit: Just talking to a stranger feels more vomfortavle if theyll listen.

This video hit deep...

It was the dog from the jetsons, not scooby. You blew my mind with that one

@digimbyte

2 жыл бұрын

both scooby and the jetsons dog said it. its from the same company/studio they even used it in the name of a Halloween special Scooby-Doo! 13 Spooky Tales: Ruh-Roh Robot September 24th 2013

he never said that... the guy is right. be well everyone

I need to have a conversation with someone like in vr chat. Someone random, I feel like if there's anyplace to talk about stuff it would be there

@reedy_9619

2 жыл бұрын

Why there rather than any other chat room ?

@Dargon1o1

2 жыл бұрын

@@reedy_9619 You're kinda face to face to a person in vrchat and you can see people's gestures which help interpret/show what they're saying and how they're feeling

I'm not crying...

I lost my girlfriend last December, 2 years we spent together, coming up on 3 in 8 days, she killed herself. At the time, I didn't know what to do. I didn't eat, didn't sleep, didn't drink, didn't clean myself, did nothing I was supposed to do unless forced to. Its never talked about, how going through that can almost kill you too in more ways than one. And people saying "you'll get over it, it'll be the exact same" no, it never does. You never fully heal, but that's ok, because I'm starting to do better, I'm still not dating or anything and it still hurts every time I think about her, but I'm trying to do better and that's that's counts. I'm getting a tattoo, a symbol from her favourite show on my chest soon, it's to not only remember her by, but to help me move on from her (plus it looks badass) but I'd like to thank everyone, as someone who's lost a partner, thank you for listening to this guy and reading my comment.

Love the realness, as always. What's the name of the katamari world they're in?

Wtf do you mean Scooby never said that??!!

@digimbyte

2 жыл бұрын

both scooby and the jetsons dog said it. its from the same company/studio they even used it in the name of a Halloween special Scooby-Doo! 13 Spooky Tales: Ruh-Roh Robot September 24th 2013

The last minute of that video my reaction was pretty much "yeah...yeah....yeah... WAIT HE DIDN'T!?"

As a religious person who has lost a lot of people I don't quite think we or at least most of the people in my religious community think someone isn't gone and therefore we cannot process death. Rather we view death as not the end so while it's sad to loss a loved to be separated from them and they are gone right now that hopeful optimism is that our family and friends will eventually return to us at a later date. Furthermore I think the meaning of someone's life and the memories of them ARE them in a sense. What would Walt Disney be without his companies legacy or Mark twain without Huckleberry Fin. Our legacy is what we are in the end and I think while for some people that legacy is hard to witness as it only reminds them of death for others it's a symbol of that person that no matter if they are truly gone they are still with you influencing your day in some way. Just my 2 cents i guess.

@Katzykeens

2 жыл бұрын

I think that's just how he understands the concept of heaven, he also listed it as "spirituality" which can encompass other things like the concept of "ghosts" I wouldn't t take it personally, he needed to view it as "she's gone forever" in order to process his own grief o3o How you process yours is just as valid friend 💖

No this is gonna be sad

It's accepting what happened and there's nothing you can do about it. If you feel bad your bothering yourself at that point. Remember the good and bad memeroies of someone that made you who you are today. Go do something good with the life you have for them

I'm glad mediumsea has found space in his life to be happy again. I hope it's not insensitive to ask, but i was wondering what happened to his wife that caused her death, two years ago it was still being investigated i think?

@Katzykeens

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah I don't think they ever found out :(