I struggle with my eating and money habits but l know all things are possible. I am not giving up determined to be financially and physically fit

@DyanaMariie

Жыл бұрын

And honestly that what it takes. Knowing your problem areas and despite the setbacks you’re like “okay, I’ll try again.” I STILL struggle with eating out and emotional spending.

@Extralessons

Жыл бұрын

Wow, that's really wonderful. Keep up the good work.

@aliyahgreen9935

Жыл бұрын

Keep going! I’m on the Same journey ❤

@Greenlynxmedia

Жыл бұрын

That is my goal for myself. I am looking forward to the new me.

@monellburton1200

Жыл бұрын

Don’t give up we can do this

"Discipline is honoring yourself." This part made me think about it differently, thank you soo much 🙏💖

@Extralessons

Жыл бұрын

That's true

@Wedrinkforhealthnotfortaste

Жыл бұрын

Discipline is honoring GOD

@leaguixxx9736

Жыл бұрын

@@Wedrinkforhealthnotfortaste Literally the same thing. It affects you the same way

@janellbazile782

Жыл бұрын

I agree, it definitely hit a nerve. New perspective.

@tamagojiken8672

Жыл бұрын

this

“You have to get comfortable being uncomfortable because new goals are new territory.” A word !

That part about being worthy first is really slept on. One cannot move forward if they don’t think they’re worthy of what they want

@nickandchrismom

Жыл бұрын

True!!!

@analisaradecki8479

Жыл бұрын

So true 🙂 amen 🙏

I’ve always wanted to study architecture, it’s been my dream job for a while now. Right out of high school I just doubted myself, the guy I was dating at the time said it’d be too hard for me, plus I was not the best at studying or getting up early, so I didn’t do it. This year (I’m now 21) I said hey… it’s still my dream job so I signed up literally last minute and I LOVE IT! I do actually get up at 7am for it, I believed myself and got rid of that limiting belief that I could possibly get up before 11 and be productive. I was actually homeless when I applied and the first two weeks I actually had to get up at 6am and take a hour bus ride to get there from my grandmas house, now I live in a BEAUTIFUL apartment with two great roommates 5 minutes from my school. I’m very happy, I’m so glad I trusted myself.

@im26c4u5

Жыл бұрын

I'm proud of you :)

@LyricsForTate

Жыл бұрын

that’s absolutely incredible, I’m so happy for you :)

@roushellereign8642

Жыл бұрын

You better focus, we're now your supportive aunts and we gonna need you to design our dream homes darling. There is no limit to anything in life. Keep going!! Proud of you.

@TheNittyGritty735

Жыл бұрын

@@roushellereign8642 RIGHT so happy and proud of her!!!

@lolaWWEWWFpunk

Жыл бұрын

I am so happy for you. Truly ❤️ May Allah protect you and increase His blessings for you. Ameen. NEVER GIVE UP.

“Change is rooted in discomfort.” That’s facts 💯and I needed that reminder.

What helped me with staying consistent with the gym was anytime I didn’t feel like going, I repeated the phrase “this is what I do” and after saying this I would talk about the gym like how I would want my future self to talk about the gym.

@trintrintenshi

Жыл бұрын

I love this! I’m on my fitness journey too, and what helps me is saying “You never regret going to the gym, but you always regret not going”.

@everydaywithsarah2577

Жыл бұрын

@@trintrintenshi Exactlyyyy

@dynamicdivinereadings6520

Жыл бұрын

I'm going to try this. Thanks 😊

@hnhrosales

9 ай бұрын

@@trintrintenshi that's such a good phrase! I'll use this with my goal habits, thank you!

I LITERALLY GOT UP AND PRAYED ABOUT DISCIPLINE THIS MORNING! In the midst of me trying to figure out the root cause as to why i feel as if I can’t achieve discipline , I then realized that it’s really the fear of the results. That the results won’t look like everyone else’s or they won’t turn out how I expect. But then thats where faith comes in! Because the word of God says “seek ye the kingdom of God first and his righteousness & all these things will be added unto you” - Matthew 6:33 Then I opened up KZread and your video is the first video to pop up and girllll GOD IS SO GOOD.

@terenlivas5186

Жыл бұрын

all the time!!! God bless you this new year sis

@mayra7970

Жыл бұрын

Amen ❤

@Lexlex11848

Жыл бұрын

Yes I am also working on my discipline and this popped up

@shantydag3124

Жыл бұрын

Amen ❤️❤️❤️❤️

It’s so crazy at 19 I realized I lack discipline and now at 26 after the countless mistakes I’ve made bc of it, I’m finally beginning to practice discipline. Practicing Discipline has been & is still hard for me.

@BeBreezyBB

Жыл бұрын

Struggling with Discipline myself when it comes to setting boundaries in relationships & with how I spend

@leahvann7328

Жыл бұрын

Same!

@hnhrosales

9 ай бұрын

I'm almost 22 and I realized this lack of discipline of mine since I was 14. And I'm still struggling with it, but I know God is helping me change

"Staying consistent becomes a lot easier because you're not self sabotaging and you have the discipline to stay committed because you know why you're worthy of it." 😍 Wow, I am stunned. Thank you so much for this video, I absolutely related and I'm so grateful for your vulnerability! You've gained a new subscriber. 🌼

@IamKeidra

Жыл бұрын

Love this! Needed this! Thank you.

@prmsolver

Жыл бұрын

Weird th

Discipline is something I definitely struggle with, especially when it comes to food and my budget. Writing things down has definitely helped me hone in on wasteful spending and get back on track. I’m so proud of myself because I am now down to two business credits cards to payoff. Started off with five. Your content has been so helpful on my personal journey. Keep up the great work and continue to stay safe and blessed!

@DyanaMariie

Жыл бұрын

As you should be!!! Paying off credit cards is no joke. Congrats to you!

@urgunnaluvmeh

Жыл бұрын

Very proud of you Winter! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

You hit the nail on the discipline thing. For a long time my problem wasn’t self discipline. It was just not knowing the most effective way to do things. Life is a journey filled with pitfalls and mistakes. I can’t believe people DM you and down you like that. You’re doing a lot better than me!

Wow, this really hit home for me. I really struggle with starting something and then stopping it. Start/stop, start/stop… I have been doing it all my life. Sometimes I get so frustrated and ashamed of myself and I get really angry. I have started budgeting countless times. I know everything there is to know about budgeting, but to this day, I have never stuck with it. 😢

@DyanaMariie

Жыл бұрын

There’s so much tied into our lack of consistency! Limiting beliefs, our life experiences, etc. Give yourself grace while you work through what’s blocking you!

@Extralessons

Жыл бұрын

It's not only you who stuggles my dear. Keep on tying until you get it.

This video has helped me realize how badly I need discipline but I sabotage myself for improving because of fear and that’s something spiritual I have to also work on. Thank you and stay blessed 😊

@Extralessons

Жыл бұрын

Discipline is really key for sure

@maryngugi8155

Жыл бұрын

I also struggle with spirit of FEAR I don't believe in myself

@anchuzaazuera761

Жыл бұрын

You worded it perfectly 😅

I've been doing journaling for the past week now. I hated not being able to remember what I did the night before. Now, I can hear my voice more clearly, and it's refreshing being able to go back and look at everything that I've accomplished so far. It's done wonders. Highly recommend if people feel like they are losing track of time and events.

I’m 21 and I have a BAD habit of spending money more than I save. Especially when I’m sad as well. I really need the discipline in all areas of my life. Im just doing research on where and to exactly start. I loved your video as well and it made me feel great💕

You are speaking facts with the statement you made regarding wanting to change your situation but being too comfortable to change that situation, even though you want to desperately change your situation. I struggle with this and I find my spiritual self dragging my physical self to the finish line. Life can be strange, but divine timing is perfect timing. 🙏

I struggle with my money and finances. I learned my lesson though. 2023 will be my year to stay things off right which I'm already working on it, but I'm going to work harder at the goals I want to achieve in my life

@mwashi401

Жыл бұрын

Yes!! We both can do it! Motivation and discipline is key! ❤

@Extralessons

Жыл бұрын

The struggles are not only yours but also with many people. Keep trying my dear again and again until

@Asia-rs6wc

Жыл бұрын

Same ! I stop buying things I don’t need and taking the time to find cheaper prices .

I love this video! Thank you! I only learned discipline because of my husband. When we dated I watched this man have 3 cars, buy a house and pay all the bills on a salary of 50,000 a year. Might I add we live in DC where it is not cheap! Watching him, encouraged me. I learned. Now that we are married we together make a decent amount and I will say it's because of the discipline of him. Great video dear. 💗💗💗

no way!!!! I literally just clicked on your video and 39 seconds into your video I was rubbing my journal because it’s soft (idk why) and the next clip was you picking up your journal!! we have the same one 😭😭😭 idk why that just made me so happy

@DyanaMariie

Жыл бұрын

Girl I love touching the front of this journal 🤣🤣

I’m working on my discipline currently…I’ve been such an emotional spender for so long it takes so much work to not fulfill that instant gratification 😅

@Extralessons

Жыл бұрын

You are not alone. Just keep trying the disciplines.

@sprts1v1

Жыл бұрын

True

When you said your current situation is "safe" because it's known/comfortable, I felt that in my SOUL. You are so motivational, I really needed to hear this right now. Thank you!!! 💜💜💜💜💜

Everything you said about our brains going into survival mode to stay comfortable is exactly what I struggle with the most when it comes to talking to people. And I can talk to anyone and have amazing conversation, so yes this video helped tremendously because I always think; oh I don’t like being around a lot of people, but it’s just that it’s not comfortable for me and I have to get comfortable with it day by day. Thank you for your positivity 💛

Discipline/Consistency is honoring ourself is a whole word! Journaling is definitely a game changer too.. Allowing our emotions/thoughts out judgement free is literally therapy in itself! Thank you Dyana!

Discipline is definitely something I'm working on as well as shifting my mindset to be more optimistic and less pessimistic. We can do this!

I literally bought some food after I said I was gonna save, then in the shower I said how I was gonna honor myself following through with it and literally saw this video this morning on my way to work. Funny how the universe works. Wishing you & everyone compassion, peace & love on this journey.

“Discipline and consistency is you honouring yourself”. This video came up at the perfect time. Thank you x

A breath of fresh air! 💎s Dropped: •truly figuring out what works for you - with grace •honoring self by working towards better future •*accepting* worthiness✨ •realizing worth leads to commitment (which is not “Try” but “Am”) This hit so hard for me and the visual was super soothing 🥹🌱 I self-sabotage a lot but this was the tea I’ve been needing. Bless you and Happy New Year 😌

Almost gave up in life thinking that I will end up to no good because of self sabotage and indiscipline....I have experiences a reviving in my heart...discipline is self honor....I needed this...thank you for saving my life....I am worthy.

Algorithm must be mind reading now. Ive never ever seen you a day in my life until today. You were randomly recommended and the caption was the nail in the coffin, i was drawn in. You really delivered an entire message. And messages within the Message. Ill have to watch this multiple times and actually do the homework. Thank you for doing the work and being an example of walking the talk. For helping us

I realized self discipline gon get you into doors that other habits can’t. This video fire fasho. 🔥

Thank you💕. I graduated hs & told myself I was taking a gap year. Truth Is I never had any intentions on going to college because I was scared & didn't belong in myself. Girl, I watched this video 3 times to ensure I received everything ❤️.

@DyanaMariie

Жыл бұрын

Sending you so much love!

I didn’t find this video by accident. I have also been journaling every day this year and it has helped me tremendously when it comes to thinking and talking to God. Environment has been testing my discipline and mindset, but I am determined to keep trying until I find the right fit. Blessings and prosperity to you this year! 💛✨

Your video really touched me I’m 23 years old I been through it this year has been a hard year but even though it’s been a hard year . I have done things that I never thought I would. I have anxiety and going out is so hard for me I be in the house like a 50 year old woman due to anxiety but your video help me to take it step by step and know that Jesus got me and know that yeah it may seem uncomfortable for a little while it’s not gonna be that way forever. I’m gonna be good because I got Jesus . I’m still figuring out my 20s idk what I’m doing lol but who really knows what they are doing we are all going and doing what we can and that’s all that matters.

@couleuredgirl6314

Жыл бұрын

Stick to GOD and his word!

@stacie333

Жыл бұрын

Girl same here I'm 23 I also struggle with anxiety and never go out always at home. The struggle is real.😭 I'll be praying for you.🙏

This was sooo good!! Thank you for the amazing advice. I heard someone say when your changing you’ll constantly be in battle with the old you. The old you can’t win anymore!!

@DyanaMariie

Жыл бұрын

Gotta help the new you speak louder than the old!

@deborahwatson3487

11 ай бұрын

You are so dam right!

So true! I realised I have great discipline when it comes to exercise but the food is where I’m like “ah live a little” therefore holding me back with my fitness goals! I needed to hear this! Thank you❤

Thank you for your testimony! Beautiful 🙏🏼

Aye run that sh* back turbo! ⏪️⏪️!! This was right on point for my 2023 “get your shi*t together” journey I am on! Thank you sister! I subscribed, liked & loved! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@DyanaMariie

Жыл бұрын

Thank you❤️

Thank you! I needed to hear this 😢❤

Just what I needed as I am giving myself the grace to start new life changes. Thank you 🙏🏾

That makes so much sense to say your mind has to be trained to accept new things even though it seems scary. I love that it becomes easier to be disciplined as you keep going!

thank you for this message. ❤

This message felt like it was for me. 😭 The things you were saying were SO spot on with what I am currently going through. Job, debt, scared to progress, all of it. I have been just putting the work in to change my situation already even though I am scared for changes to happen and I just have to believe it will pay off even though I am feeling uncomfortable.

Let me just say how well spoken you are. I thank god he gave you the ability to speak to us to help us become our best selves. I'm 20 years old so I struggle with discipline. As a college student it's like having a battle with myself because I try so hard like you said your brain is use to the old you instead of embracing the changes you are trying to make in your life. I love how you said to sit down making a list about facts vs. assumptions which a lot of us have. I'm saving this video so I can be remind myself if you stay discipline god will bless you with more blessings than ever before.

Thank you) this video is very helpful 💛✨

Thank you so much for your video💖💫

Thank you soooo much Marie!!!

You’ve brought me so much relief on this topic. Building discipline is a subjective experience, and it feels nice to know that other people struggle with it, instead of having to compare myself to stories of success around this topic. Thank you for sharing your journey and creating space for those of us who struggle 🙏🏾

Thank you so much, beautiful and needed words ❤️

You actually approached this from a whole different perspective and I've gotten the message Thank you ❤️

I AM SO THANKFUL your video popped in my feed. Your advice makes so much sense to overcome blockages. Thank you Dyana!

I really needed this message 🙏🏾

you are very wise very smart thank you for sharing!

This is the second time I’ve heard of someone writing down the why a goal can’t be accomplished! I will be doing this tonight. Thank you for being bold enough to share with us!

I really enjoyed this video, thank you!

Beautiful words and guidance. Thank you for sharing

Thank you definitely have me writing . Right now as we speak in my journal on things to help me push through when that time comes of “Feeling” like I don’t want to … although the feeling is temporary but the outcome is long term. Have a safe and blessed one!

Tyyy for this 🖤 feel like at times it’s my nervous system that just shuts down every am.. due to stored trauma etc. Which has definitely affected my confidence n ability to pull myself thru the days. Loved how u said we have to train the mind bc it’s made to protect us and keep us comfortable. Never thought about it that way and I have a BA in psych 😭 doesn’t matter how much edu we have, disciplining and healing ourselves is it’s own unique experience that can only be experienced through obstacles

Thank you sooo much! I'm working on this as well.

Thank you for this message. I’m working on financial discipline and consistency sharing my thoughts/creativity to grow my channel.

This is crazy. This morning I literally said I gotta work on my discipline because when I don’t stick to it I’m not honoring myself and been tryna find ways to stay consistent and this comes up. WOW! Thank you

Thank you so much for your commitment to discipline and consistency I honor you for that if you hadn’t gone thru your process you wouldn’t have been able to help me in more ways then you knw 🙏🏾 God bless you and my goals this year is to in February I’m moving to Philadelphia, PA the first time ever never done in my family and I’m scared personally but I believe God wants me to be different from my family and is placing me out of my comfort zone and im going to do it thank you

Finding your channel was definitely heaven sent!

✨✨✨ this video was right on!! Thank you for sharing! ✨☺️

Thank you so much for this video! I needed to hear this at this time in my life 🥹😍

I’m not sure if anyone has already said it but your braids are gorgeous ❤

this truly spoke to me. Because this is all that I'm going through. I talk myself out of a lot of things I want to achieve and etc. I'm gonna work through it and do it for me

Thank you so much for helping your community 💝 I just wrote down my goals and the things I’m going to do daily and weekly in order to progress

I keep seeing stuff about discipline everywhere, this video came right on time. I really, really appreciate your graceful delivery of this message. Thank you (And I love your plants!❤️ )

“I didn’t get here by luck, I got here by intention” whooo I felt that in my soul ✨

This was super refreshing to hear. Thank you so much for your tips, especially about writing things down, definately solidifies a goal into somethin you can work towards. God bless! 😊

Excellent video! So many self sabotaging things I want to work on. What stuck with me from this was to continue to know your worth which will propel me to commit because I know I’m worth it. Thank you! Subscribed💕

Thank you for sharing! I’ve been working on discipline. This was so encouraging and insightful. ✨

Phenomenal video!! Thank you for this! A lot of things I knew already but you're perspective is reassuring & empowering! Blessings goddess🙏🏾🙏🏾

this video couldn’t have come at a better time, i really needed to hear this. i felt like you were talking to my soul.

“You have to train your mind to think of the positive side of things” ❤ that

I just want to say my goodness! This came at such a perfect time in my life. I have been dealing with a lot of internal self-sabotage and even though I am aware of it, mannnn it does just feel easier to stay in my place of comfort because of my own fear. Thank you. You changed my perspective.

I appreciate this video so much. It made realize how much my actions and goals were almost shaped by others fears and assumptions. but now, my mindset has changed. thank you ‼️💞🥰

Im right there with you. Im going on 3 months of this discipline journey and God is good!

this was absolutely amazing life changing for sure my self sabotage is absolutely horrible and the question I’ve been asking all this time is answered . Thank you so much for changing so many lives ❤️❤️

Extremely helpful and enlightening! Thank you for sharing ♥️

I'm glad I stumbled across this video I really needed to hear this.

I like how you mentioned that there’s two sides of the brain-positive and negative that decides whether a person reaches their goals. Very factual and informative 👏🏾

Thank you so much for this video! I know exactly what I need to do❤❤

You seem real, down to earth and confident in the way you talk. I really enjoyed your presentation

Hii Dyana, I love everything you said, and I find inspiration of how to see discipline in a whole new light, training our brain for positivity and that it is ok to be uncomfortable trying new things. I know for me I struggle with discipline every now and then, but I am learning as well to train my brain into believing that I can do things I may be fearful of. It's a daily working process for me. But I pray that God continues to guide you and blesses you in ways unmanageable.

What you said about our brain and survival hit right at home! I am currently in a new job, not even three days in and my brain wants to flee! I am so tired of running. So thank you for your video, I will continue to fight and put my thoughts, my mind under subjection. I also struggle with liking myself so I need to speak life to myself and for myself

This has helped me a lot, I tend to self sabotage a lot. Going through a lot of anxiety in my life and just trying to push myself to make changes to feel more comfortable

I’m so glad I watched this because everything you stated is so true and I’ve been knowing these things about myself. It’s a real eye opener when someone is saying exactly what I live everyday. It all starts with just taking the steps and not holding back. Being comfortable is all fun until years pass you by and you realize you’ve been stuck and made no improvements in your life. I will definitely be using these tips 🖤 God Bless You 🙏🏽🙏🏽 definitely a new subscriber 🗣️🗣️🎯

Definitely what I needed at the right time, thank you for shifting my perspective! ❤

I just started journaling too, so when you said that I already felt like I was on the right track. My main goal is to continue journaling everyday to prove to myself that I can have some self-discipline and stay in routine. One thing I will share is that when you can control what you eat...you can control anything! Such an important goal to implement since better eating habits call for a better mindset and a healthier body. Thank you Dyana and good luck to everyone!!

I felt like I was really meant to find this video. Thank you for making it

Thank you for taking the time to talk to us. Putting yourself out there to the world isn’t easy, I know . I think we all struggle with so many doubts and I think I personally don’t give myself enough credit . I’m so happy we all have a chance to become better and better each day. I also don’t think we know how blessed we truly are . I’ve been working on counting my blessings , picking up on goals I’ve abandoned, and becoming more healthy . I also don’t beat myself up as much , just make a mistake and keep going . I write it down , pray on it and work work work . ❤

Just found your channel and this is speaking to me! Thank you so much 🖤

Thank you so much for this video it has helped me so very much... I have been on an up and down roller coster for so long and I'm just over it!💖😊

Spirit-touched. thank u

i really needed this. thank you.

This video is so beautiful and you’re a beautiful person thank you so much for this ❤

Thanks for this video beautiful Queen. Thanks for helping others. This makes the world go around.

Omg thank you!! I could’ve never known how to say it as perfectly as you did. Yes I have achieved a lot in my life and people would say that I did it by looks, or by giving something in return when it was actually all potential . I recieved things and gained things simply by me staying dedicated, having discipline, continuing on what I want. It’s never by what I did for somebody. It really does hurt when people accuse you of doing soemthing so you can gain soemthing when really, you gained because you did it using your strength. Just because they couldn’t do it does not mean you can’t and that’s what most people need to stop believing. We are not the same! Stay tru and dedicated and committed then you will get what you want. 😊