Karen thinks TRESSPASSING is "NOT a CRIME" so she Destroys My Property - Reddit Podcast

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0:00 An Entitled Karen is constantly trespassing on our property, destroying our yard in the process, claiming that she has the property owners permission from down the street to be here! (u/Internal-Car8922)
6:29 My husband is blaming me for Christmas being ruined as he proceeded to yell at me in a way that I’ve never experienced before from him, in my life. (u/ThrowRA_cookiedough)
10:55 I am convinced that Christmas is cursed for me, because nothing good ever comes about on this holiday for me in my life. (u/brattynattylite)
14:29 My wife of 7 years and sister are no longer on speaking terms, and I am not sure how to mend this situation. (u/CrazyPossible6022)
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  • @Tontteman
    @Tontteman Жыл бұрын

    Last story: my guess is that, that dude is going to be very surprised when he get served divorce papers, he is totally clueless. It's almost funny, if it wouldn't be so sad.

  • @sirblack1619

    @sirblack1619

    Жыл бұрын

    He is trying to not have to chose between his family and his wife. But that is the American way. Divorce over anything.

  • @4Roman204

    @4Roman204

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sirblack1619 His family would only benefit from not enabling his crazy sister in a long run.

  • @revemoox1027
    @revemoox1027 Жыл бұрын

    last story: the sister doesn’t have an “intense” personality, she’s just entitled. op’s family continues to enable her personality by making other people apologize for her own actions. i’m surprised that the wife hasn’t divorced him after all that’s happened (including the MULTIPLE TRIPS where she’s left by herself.)

  • @sk31370n

    @sk31370n

    Жыл бұрын

    sister needs professional help asap

  • @lordgrape5015

    @lordgrape5015

    Жыл бұрын

    Same. I wouldn't be surprised either if she divorces him. It makes no since why he and the rest of his family are to chicken shit to tell his sister off lol

  • @thevalorousdong7675

    @thevalorousdong7675

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@sk31370n help only works if the person wants to change.

  • @souqnarn

    @souqnarn

    10 ай бұрын

    True, she should have divorced him...she was busy working, taking care of their child and taking care of all the trouble "the sister" did and the husband & family asked the wife to apologize. He even wrote as if the wife is the problem one, he should've listened back to this audio and repented...this is insane totally insane 😒

  • @j.t.robins5896
    @j.t.robins5896 Жыл бұрын

    In the second story, there’s some emotional issues with the husband. NOBODY blows up over cookies like that. He needs counseling. On face value, he needs help dealing with the divorce, and the fact that his children prefers moms house for Christmas instead of his. Looking at all the gifts under the tree, with nobody there to open them, AND the mother of the children not there, I believe that he projected his issues on his wife. If they get a divorce, that’s her choice, but nonetheless, HE NEEDS COUNSELING.

  • @AFancyDuck

    @AFancyDuck

    11 ай бұрын

    you are wrong.

  • @codmgamezz
    @codmgamezz Жыл бұрын

    People really need to stop with this whole “be the bigger person” bs. 1. his sister is CLEARLY a toxic B. and does not deserve an apology for her behaviour. 2. what does he expect happens after his wife apologizes? nothing will change. His sister will continue to act this toxic and his wife will probably hate his sister even more. If you keep on “being the bigger person” you just show toxic and entitled people that they can get away with their shitty behaviour because others will apologize anyways.

  • @krankarvolund7771

    @krankarvolund7771

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah being the bigger person also means acknowledging when a relationship is toxic and cutting it out XD

  • @kunfussed213
    @kunfussed213 Жыл бұрын

    How often does the OP expect his wife to be the bigger person? If the sister is in the wrong, she needs to be the bigger person an apologize. Stop pacifying her. 🙄😒

  • @rollitup419

    @rollitup419

    Жыл бұрын

    He expects it literally every waking moment, because he's a coward

  • @cosmiczgamer4378

    @cosmiczgamer4378

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly

  • @kunfussed213

    @kunfussed213

    Жыл бұрын

    @@rollitup419 That and probably just tired of hearing his sister mouth. He's only doing more harm to both his marriage and sister. 😡🥴

  • @thefanofeverything5039

    @thefanofeverything5039

    Жыл бұрын

    I like how his entire story was about how his wife was in the right, but then gets mad that his wife is upset about it.

  • @imblue8898

    @imblue8898

    Жыл бұрын

    True

  • @lauramiller7690
    @lauramiller7690 Жыл бұрын

    What's wrong with doing what your wife wants in backing her up and taking her side instead of continuing to enable your sister like everybody always has that's why the situation started

  • @leeannsampson6050

    @leeannsampson6050

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly! The sister needs to take accountability! The sister is a spoiled narcissist!

  • @maryjane4432

    @maryjane4432

    11 ай бұрын

    He wanted that luxury vacation

  • @FanTheLavigne
    @FanTheLavigne Жыл бұрын

    I can't with the husband blaming it all on the cookies as if his children haven't chosen to spend the holidays with their mom for years lol it's clearly not the issue

  • @leeannsampson6050

    @leeannsampson6050

    Жыл бұрын

    Rights? OP needs to get out now! As in RUN, don't walk, RUN! His attitude, behavior, and character is the reason why his kids don't want to spend Christmas with him, not OP!

  • @Paul-vw9tq

    @Paul-vw9tq

    Жыл бұрын

    Depression is a hell have a mental disorder. Why help him just leave him. Fuck those people who need mental help. So many nice and understanding people we have here.

  • @copperphilosophy4768

    @copperphilosophy4768

    Жыл бұрын

    Clearly none of y’all been divorced with kids it has nothing to do with the cookies from what is sounds like is he’s got some unresolved issues with what he’s looking for in a woman and he’s hurt and depressed because he doesn’t understand the kids want to be around their cousins and how come they don’t want to be around him he’s using the cookies as a lashing out device I also think that’s wrong of him to be doing that but the wife clearly didn’t know what she was getting involved in and if she thinks this is too much for her that she should walk away.

  • @Mr_PuppyYT

    @Mr_PuppyYT

    Жыл бұрын

    @@copperphilosophy4768 if the ops husband is my aunts x wich frsm reason it sounds like it is then yes he has emotional issues and his kids have always wanted to stay w there mother

  • @lolarichter9415

    @lolarichter9415

    Жыл бұрын

    Also why didn't op make the damn cookies himself? He said he only married a woman because he needed a mom not a wife... sounds like he was looking for a slave not a lover. No wonder the kids don't like him

  • @BM-wf8jj
    @BM-wf8jj Жыл бұрын

    Story #2: That's literally verbal and emotional abuse. I really dislike people that take their own misery out on other people and she shouldn't put up with that bullshit for a second. Even if he makes a heartfel apology, he said things that just can't be taken back and like the narrator said, he was just showing his true colors.

  • @Paul-vw9tq

    @Paul-vw9tq

    Жыл бұрын

    That right fuck that guy going through mental depression. Why should the woman who claims to love him help get him help? Just leave lady you didn't sign up for that. And if the next guy gets cancer fucking leave him too. You didn't sign up for cancer disable guy. In fact the second you see anybody with a runny nose leave them as well you didn't sign up for sick people. It all about me, myself, and I in this world. Fuck you loved ones you got to watch out for number 1 ya fucking self grandiose narcissist psycho.

  • @dutchvanderbilt9969
    @dutchvanderbilt9969 Жыл бұрын

    I really don't think that the husband in that second story was truly upset about the cookies the cookies are just the thing that he chose to latch on to and complain about. I get that he's upset that his kids don't want to see him obviously that would devastate just about anyone. But that does not give you the right to attack your wife and blame her for things that are outside of control and that have nothing to do with her.

  • @rollanddev

    @rollanddev

    Жыл бұрын

    Was going to post practically the exact same thing. But someone beat me to it. :) This doesn't sound like his normal behavior. He's hurt and lashing out, because when we're hurt, we can get irrational. Does not excuse his behavior - he needs to apologize to his wife 100% - but it's not like there isn't something underlying what took place, and that something isn't defining of how their relationship normally is. Letting the dust settle and having a supportive-but-boundary-defining chat about things sounds like a good way to recover from this in a constructive manner. ...Or I dunno. This is "Am I the Jerk?" so obviously he's the scum of the earth, can be assumed to always screams at her when things don't go his way, probably beats her regularly, and the only way forward is to go scorched earth on the relationship rather than first trying to pursue a positive resolution. All relationships, regardless of the past two individuals may have shared leading to this point, are soap bubbles waiting to pop! Any and all fights are a sign you're incompatible and MUST break up and go no-contact, and consider getting a restraining order ASAP.

  • @Paul-vw9tq

    @Paul-vw9tq

    Жыл бұрын

    I see someone never had to deal with some going through depression. Lucky you.

  • @Mr_PuppyYT

    @Mr_PuppyYT

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Paul-vw9tq Wth, this person is correct the ops husband has emotional problems and lached to the cookies because the kids don’t want to be w him and how do I know this may u ask because this may or may not be my aunts x husband’s wife

  • @Paul-vw9tq

    @Paul-vw9tq

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Mr_PuppyYT that's what I thought I implied.

  • @Mr_PuppyYT

    @Mr_PuppyYT

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Paul-vw9tq oh wate nm I just reread the comment sry for the inconvenience

  • @wiccastacey3864
    @wiccastacey3864 Жыл бұрын

    I'd like to know if there's an update on the last story.... I hope the wife put her foot down and told the husband if he keeps pressuring her that she'll just take the kids and leave him and serve him with divorce papers... the husband admitted that his family is enabling his sister, so why can't he get it through his thick skull that his sister is the one in the wrong NOT his wife? He should be backing up his wife NOT his toxic sister. I know what it's like to have toxic family members, I have a sister too that I refuse to speak to because she and her children (all except for one) are toxic, they get some kind of sick thrill from hurting family and spreading rumors about family, they are bullies. They get upset when people just stop talking to them and don't put up with their crap and try to ruin those people's lives like they have tried with me, but lucky for me my boss doesn't listen to BS and will hang up on them every single time

  • @cosmiczgamer4378

    @cosmiczgamer4378

    Жыл бұрын

    Same, I hope the husband gets served with divorce papers.

  • @aj3976
    @aj3976 Жыл бұрын

    As a father with shared custody of a child i understand the heart break of missing holidays with kids which is why i celabrate holidays i dont have with my kid and days i do have her on

  • @jerrystauffer2351
    @jerrystauffer2351 Жыл бұрын

    Last year at Christmas my cousin screamed obscenities at me for 2 hours and insulted me online until I had to block him. Grandma wants me to apologize to him. I'm tired of the family walking on eggshells for the most emotionally unregulated person. It's that way in every family it seems.

  • @WilliamWizer
    @WilliamWizer Жыл бұрын

    story one: note about the Karen wanting to see chickens. warn her once and set a hiden security camera. call cops next time she enters your property. if she doesn't listen/care, sue her for trespassing and property damage using the camera footage as proof. done. as a freebie, you make the world a better place to be. story two: if he married you as a compromise just so his kids could have a good mother figure for once, that implies that YOU are more worthy than whoever else that male managed to find. that means you are the best he could hope for. he's right in one thing. you aren't on the same league. you, clearly, outclass him. story four: dude, your sister needs profesional help. asap. she sounds like my ex-sister-in-law on steroids. and you need help too before you become like her.

  • @sarahgroot5394
    @sarahgroot5394 Жыл бұрын

    Story 1 - barbed wire fence then plant climbing roses along it. NO ONE is getting through that and it looks very pretty. We were forced to do it when school kids started using our backyard as a shortcut home up a hill. Here’s what happened….. We went to the school to ask them to speak to pupils about tresspassing. The children obviously ignored the warnings. After the kids ripped their clothing trying to climb the barbed wire and climbing rose fence, setting off our dog inside who injured himself as they climbed into our deck to tease him (we had security cameras installed) then entitled Karen’s complained about our fence hurting their children, followed by our calling the police who threatened to charge the parents for any damage caused by the kids (some of the senior local cops are family friends), and animal abuse by teasing the dog after seeing the video evidence, the complaints were dropped and our backyard was left alone. Does that make me a jerk? I doubt it, they were warned.

  • @nomendeathwalker3738
    @nomendeathwalker3738 Жыл бұрын

    last story He is def the jerk The sister almost ruined there wedding and talking about his wife Like take you wife her side she is in the right even the mom ignored her daughter for a year so says enough clearly

  • @cajsecret25
    @cajsecret25 Жыл бұрын

    In the second story you need to divorce that husband ASAP he does not love you he married you for the wrong reasons and he is going to make the rest of your life miserable

  • @MBST1

    @MBST1

    Жыл бұрын

    He is a complete and utter moron

  • @map_take_nap

    @map_take_nap

    Жыл бұрын

    I think both party’s are in the right he probably blew up thanks to pressure when the children left he probably couldn’t hold it in.

  • @rollanddev

    @rollanddev

    Жыл бұрын

    You haven't been in a relationship that's successfully lasted more than a year, have you?

  • @Paul-vw9tq

    @Paul-vw9tq

    Жыл бұрын

    Let me ask you something when people take wedding vows is it for better or worse or is it for better or until its inconvenient for me? The man is suffering from depression and may not be diagnosed. The guy is not seeking mental health because he might not know that he is depressed. Seem to me that she doesn't know either. I see the signs and that guy needs help and not to feel more abandonment, or he might commit suicide. But hey fuck him and his mental health that sounds like a him problem so just let him die. No one his family seems to care so why should strangers right.

  • @michellekrueger5122

    @michellekrueger5122

    11 ай бұрын

    Yeah just throw out the divorce action! Simple fix...the vows mean nothing? What a sorry ass society this has become!

  • @tylermatthews4251
    @tylermatthews4251 Жыл бұрын

    Wait, why couldn't he just make the cookies? Why do people always have to pin stuff on someone else when the other person has basically nothing to do with it?

  • @MsKayKay1980

    @MsKayKay1980

    Жыл бұрын

    OMG, I thought I was the only one thinking this! If the cookies were so important, seems like the easiest resolution would be for him to bake them.

  • @Paul-vw9tq

    @Paul-vw9tq

    Жыл бұрын

    It had nothing to do about the cookies. He was just to justify his kids not wanting to be with him. It can't be because they don't want to be with him it must be the cookies. When someone suffers from mental depression they do not think straight and struggle with outcomes that hurt them emotionally. Some men have a hard time dealing with their emotions and if he is suffering from depression its even harder to deal with. Sounds like you never suffered from mental depression, lucky you, but some of us are not so lucky and need help. Her leaving is not helping him. Getting to see a doctor to diagnose him would help him.

  • @generalatlasdiamokov1354
    @generalatlasdiamokov1354 Жыл бұрын

    I appreciate borderlands being in the background

  • @danielurban5802

    @danielurban5802

    Жыл бұрын

    Finally someone else that recognizes borderlands. Did you know that borderlands game is borderlands 3

  • @Powcake
    @Powcake Жыл бұрын

    Honestly, the sister in the fourth story seems pretty horrible. I think that it's just so petty how she is described as behaving.

  • @ARKdeEREH
    @ARKdeEREH Жыл бұрын

    The dad whose kids want to celebrate Christmas with their mom should just celebrate Christmas with his kids on a different day. My family celebrates Christmas whenever everyone is available. Sometimes everyone can't get time off from work at the same time or the plane tickets right at Christmas time are too expensive or something so we celebrate Christmas a few days later or earlier instead. One year we celebrated both Christmas and Thanksgiving within a few hours of each other on December 15th. The dad in the video could celebrate Christmas with his kids that way and do his very best to make it as enjoyable as possible for them so that they want to come back the following year.

  • @ElecticalCheetah
    @ElecticalCheetah Жыл бұрын

    First story: this is similar to one of my sisters friends who raises puppies to be guide dogs, it got worse when a very entitled aunt showed up and stole 2 of the puppies and called animal control to cover her tracks because she used the entitled wife to get to the puppies , aunt was caught but refused to say who she sold the puppies to and denies that she was there, well the entitled wife was mortified and her son was devastated that he couldn’t see the puppies anymore and told police of the cabin she owns where they found not only the puppies she stolen but several more in a barn Sadly my sisters friend had to relocate her business because of the entitled wife and aunt and she was unable to get the puppies back due to incompetence from the animal control

  • @R4yj4ck
    @R4yj4ck Жыл бұрын

    For story 2: girl get the hell out of there For story 4: bro listen to your wife. Your sister is not healthy for your family, and honestly you’re kind of manipulating her.

  • @jenniferhersey4980
    @jenniferhersey4980 Жыл бұрын

    Regarding the third story: I sincerely hope that the OP knows they did nothing wrong in the situation where their colleague lost their father on Christmas. The OP was trying to decide if they had done something wrong (or contributed anything negative in this situation) by helping their co-worker locate an IPhone charger- thus enabling the co-worker to get the phone call about her family tragedy. The OP was wondering if it would have been better for their co-worker to hear the awful news later, when they were not at work. I did not hear anything regarding the co-worker's living arrangement, but on the off chance that they live alone, I think it is better for her to get the call while she is at work and not home alone, with nobody to help her, hug her, hand her a tissue and most of all- just be there for her. This is the kind of news that can lead to terrible decisions when someone is distraught and alone and even not knowing either party in this story, I am still very glad that she was not alone as well as proud of the OP for caring this much.

  • @bluetiger4356
    @bluetiger4356 Жыл бұрын

    I totally agree with everything that you said about that last story

  • @DarkFoxGirl13
    @DarkFoxGirl13 Жыл бұрын

    I really love the stories you read! Also, thanks for putting the text on-screen. I've had problems following stories unless I can read along with the narrator, so thanks again. Although, I just wanted to point out that your background video of the video game might be triggering to people with seizures or motion sickness. I have the latter, so I had to pause to take several breaks to make sure I wouldn't heave. My friend has seizures and said she recommends you put a warning before you start the stories (if you don't want to stop video backgrounds like this, i.e. flashing UI, frequent blood explosions during group enemy attacks, etc.). That way nobody gets accidentally sick or hurt. Thanks for hearing me out!! 😊

  • @Durakken
    @Durakken Жыл бұрын

    In the 2nd story, while i understand how the wife feels, what has to be understood is that his blowup is a projection of his own self... He believes that he is the compromise and he is the failure. I would not take it personal, but simultaneously I would not stand for him putting that on me. He needs reassurance that he isn't a failure and therapy for his unhealthy projecting of feelings of lack of confidence. The worst thing the OP could do to him is leave or take it personal, but at the same time, understanding this, she shouldn't just take it.

  • @brianarnold8666
    @brianarnold8666 Жыл бұрын

    1st story; hmm i wonder why he's divorced

  • @kaitlinklassen6527
    @kaitlinklassen65279 ай бұрын

    I legitimately laughed out loud when the OP in story three said that business picked up because it was a whopping 5 degrees outside. I live in Winnipeg, Manitoba and 5 degrees (-15 in celsius here) is what we call Halloween. I then stopped laughing very quickly when Tyra got the worst news of her life and I just wanted to be there to try and do something for her 😢

  • @viviennemorgan7217
    @viviennemorgan7217 Жыл бұрын

    doesn't karen know that trespassing is a crime?

  • @QuickManEXE

    @QuickManEXE

    Жыл бұрын

    Karens can never do anything wrong, immoral or illegal..... in their own minds.

  • @slayer96da1st

    @slayer96da1st

    Жыл бұрын

    Even shoving slapping and punching right on top of your property

  • @Questor-ky2fv
    @Questor-ky2fv Жыл бұрын

    The trespass story: Ever hear of fences? Put a tall, sturdy fence around the yard, with a sturdy lock on any gate. Also , put up a solid, or near solid section of fence just inside your yard from the fence of the chicken property. This will make it very hard to see the chickens from your property. And pay a visit to the jerk's home to tell their family what they have been up to, and that they will be arrested if caught trespassing on your property again.

  • @liamspruyt
    @liamspruyt Жыл бұрын

    story 2: it pretty much seems he sees you as a nanny. a house in mother figure. not a wife. story 4: your wife is not in the wrong. you can still go to sisters events because you still want to see your sister. but your wife is right.

  • @kisathomas
    @kisathomas Жыл бұрын

    The Karen in the first one though 😂

  • @the_kleetus-yeeyee48
    @the_kleetus-yeeyee487 ай бұрын

    I felt bad for the dad who missed his kids, until he started yelling at his wife. My parents are divorced and I hardly see my dad anymore because I’m scared of staying there. His house is infested with rats, roaches, and spiders. At night you could hear gunshots and police sirens. My dad smokes and drinks and even being around that stuff makes me uneasy. Despite this I still care about him, he introduced me to some of my favorite shows and musicals. And he was a fun parent who gave me some freedoms when I visited him (my mom and stepdad were really strict)

  • @sarahgroot5394
    @sarahgroot5394 Жыл бұрын

    Story 2 - he’s hurt and lashing out. Talk to him and tell him how much he hurt you, while also telling him, you understand that he’s hurting himself. Be honest, but not brutal, If he throws another tantrum, go and stay with mum for a while. If things don’t improve by February 1st, you might wanna think about cutting track out of there because after that long it’s not getting better.

  • @lauramiller7690
    @lauramiller7690 Жыл бұрын

    Unless there's some unusual secret family recipe by cookies at a bakery cookies aren't the reason the kids didn't come it's because all the big family and fun at the mom's house sounds like he's just transferring his anger on to you I can see how it would make you want to leave but it might be worth a discussion and to let him know that that's something you're not going to tolerate

  • @BlxFrtsAwkDgh
    @BlxFrtsAwkDgh10 ай бұрын

    Bro really said glitch 😂😂😂

  • @rollitup419
    @rollitup419 Жыл бұрын

    Op in story 2 needs a divorce

  • @Paul-vw9tq

    @Paul-vw9tq

    Жыл бұрын

    Damn right, fuck him and his mental health. He can stick his depression where the sun don't shine. It's not like she made a vow to him to be beside him for better or worse right? I'm sure it was for better or when it's inconvenient for her. The best thing to do is leave him and not to get him help. Not her problem to help the man she loves. Who helps people they love? We should only help ourselves to whatever we want. Me, me, me that's all I need right?

  • @frankcutugno3576
    @frankcutugno357611 ай бұрын

    "Intense"? She sounds like a See You .Next Tuesday to me! 😊

  • @Fiercetits
    @Fiercetits11 ай бұрын

    Story 2: I think you just figured out what happened to his first marriage and probably why the kids wanted to stay with their mother. I think you should start the divorce process since this will likely happen again anytime the kids want to stay with their mom over him.

  • @jasoncarpp7742
    @jasoncarpp7742 Жыл бұрын

    *Story 1:* What the hell? How can anyone assume that trespassing on other people's property is *not* a crime, that it's perfectly okay to do? I don't get that. What's even worse is that the trespasser decides to destroy what's on the property. Why?! I hope that OP called the police and had the trespasser arrested. What I would've done is had a sign erected on the front lawn saying *"No Trespassing".*

  • @sabrthadid7608
    @sabrthadid760811 ай бұрын

    2nd story... Welcome to the reason his marriage broke up with his kid's mom. He has let you know how he feels about you (BELIEVE him) AND, he did it all behind closed doors where no one would see, then acts all lovey dovey charming in front of everyone to be seen... On the narcissistic spectrum much? Beware! If one stays with this type, more heartache is to come....

  • @Linda-xw9lj
    @Linda-xw9lj Жыл бұрын

    The person with the garden, put up a fence and gate.

  • @donnabrown9717
    @donnabrown9717 Жыл бұрын

    Hopefully these karens stop what they are doing permanently

  • @slayer96da1st

    @slayer96da1st

    Жыл бұрын

    They all deserve to have restraining order right now

  • @ShotByCupidsBow
    @ShotByCupidsBow10 ай бұрын

    2nd story She needs to leave that relationship dangggggggg. I want an update to this Christmas story.

  • @regulusdemon1509
    @regulusdemon15094 ай бұрын

    The christmas being cursed story reminds me of my story about my birthday from age 10 till now

  • @sirblack1619
    @sirblack1619 Жыл бұрын

    I really wish that we could have left the word "toxic" back in 2022. The last story makes me happy that my fiancé and I have already spoken on how to deal with dysfunctional so called family. We will not be dealing with them. Plus my soon to be in-laws are 8,000 miles away and I am good with that.

  • @M0rdH0rst

    @M0rdH0rst

    Жыл бұрын

    The over-use of the word "toxic" is toxic! 😁 Hearing those stories and looking at my family, friends and other relationships, it looks like I'm living in heaven.

  • @lockwoan01
    @lockwoan0111 ай бұрын

    Cursed Holidays (and Birthdays) I can understand the feeling a bit. A few years back, my stepfather's father died a few days before Thanksgiving. As sad as it was, it was expected - the man had been dealing with health issues for a while. Thing is, just before that Christmas, his mother unexpectedly died, catching him and his siblings by surprise. Now, before you think that the woman died of a broken heart, the pair had been divorced for 20+ years. As it is, last year, my uncle's stepson died in a motorcycle accident, after my uncle's birthday but before his own. Then, this year, while celebrating said stepson's birthday, my uncle fell and burned his arm - he's okay, just needs to rest.

  • @brittanybutts4529
    @brittanybutts4529 Жыл бұрын

    I saw somewhere before, it might have been one of these youtube videos, that when someone acts like the sister in the 4th story you should choose your adjectives for them wisely. Instead of describing the sister as having an "intense" personality, call it what it is: "childish" or "bitchy" or "shitty." Say it to her face. Never sugar coat it. If you start using negative words instead of euphemisms, she and others will start to realize that it is not ok behavior. Intense doesn't sound negative. It really makes it sound like everyone else just needs to learn to deal with it. If everyone starts describing her as she really is then it might shame her into better behavior. OP and his family has been enabling her.

  • @aschemariemotsch.6143
    @aschemariemotsch.6143 Жыл бұрын

    My heart goes to that girl Tyra. I know your pain

  • @samuelalleman4697
    @samuelalleman46973 ай бұрын

    1st story, I can think of a lot of, passive aggressive ways to stop the trespassing, though I don’t know if they’d be legal since they’d be causing bodily harm ie: bear traps, though with very large signage saying they were on your property. And that’s just one example.

  • @SenseiRaisen
    @SenseiRaisen Жыл бұрын

    Story 2: Good news, she will divorce that PoS. Also its funny because he wanted the kids, but you can guess why the kids didn't want him or why he is divorced. He didn't even make the effort to know what the kids wanted, and it took her to call the ex to know. But when she does it right the guy still get mad because she apparently "ruin all of this" and he keep paint himself as the victim. So that angers her and she pack to her parents place, while tell him: "you will heard from my lawyer".

  • @jogould1045
    @jogould1045 Жыл бұрын

    The christmas dad death call. I can totally relate my elder brother died early on christmas morning. It was the first call i got for the day. Since then my family has not celebrated on christmas day and we do not do presents. It just feels wrong to be happy on that day.

  • @Pissdrinka3000
    @Pissdrinka3000 Жыл бұрын

    In the first one I thought fr the chickens were trampling the garden😂

  • @christinamcewen2647
    @christinamcewen264710 ай бұрын

    "Overhearing frequent or intense fighting is stressful for kids. Stress can take a toll on their physical and psychological well-being and interfere with normal, healthy development"

  • @raymondgarafano8604
    @raymondgarafano8604 Жыл бұрын

    That had to be a very sad Christmas. It is heartbreaking, DUMP HIM!

  • @Paul-vw9tq

    @Paul-vw9tq

    Жыл бұрын

    Damn right, fuck him and his mental health. He can stick his depression where the sun don't shine. It's not like she made a vow to him to be beside him for better or worse right? I'm sure it was for better or when it's inconvenient for her. The best thing to do is leave him and not to get him help. Not her problem to help the man she loves. Who helps people they love? We should only help ourselves to whatever we want. Me, me, me that's all I need right?

  • @slayitha
    @slayitha Жыл бұрын

    Last story. What is with op making it seem like wife has to be the bigger person when husbands and his family are allowing the sister to be that way. At first i thought wife was in wrong, but the second husband wanted wife to brush things under the rug, hell no. The sister does not need to go to the family events if she is behaving like a brat. Stop enabling her bs. Shame on op for telling wife to set aside her boundaries. Unbelievably shameful on his end.

  • @slayitha

    @slayitha

    Жыл бұрын

    Yaaas, the comment for this one is beautiful! 10/10

  • @sim5737

    @sim5737

    Жыл бұрын

    @@slayitha Did you just reply to yourself?

  • @slayitha

    @slayitha

    Жыл бұрын

    @sim5737 i reply to my reply when i come across something new about same subject. So meh.

  • @zero00044
    @zero00044 Жыл бұрын

    Forget motion activated sprinklers. Just need a 20 foot prison wall with electrified barbed wire, motion tracking searchlights and a tornado siren. The only way to keep people like that off your property.

  • @grannydyess
    @grannydyess11 ай бұрын

    Good that trespassing Karen went to jail

  • @joyamos29
    @joyamos2911 ай бұрын

    For the last story, its pretty obvious that thier sister is toxic and needs a reality check. Op should stop defending her actions just because they don't want to deal with the fall out.

  • @michellewalker1033
    @michellewalker103310 ай бұрын

    Why can't daddy bake the damn cookies?!

  • @velveteenrabbit5940
    @velveteenrabbit5940 Жыл бұрын

    Holy shit this is the first time in my entire effing life that I've heard my own first name like used casually! I've met exactly 1 other person in my life named Tyra and my name seems unheard of outside of Tyra Banks lmao Its a weird feeling, it actually shook me XD Sorry for her loss tho

  • @CHop3996
    @CHop399610 ай бұрын

    Bro must have liked sweets to much

  • @elwen8525
    @elwen8525 Жыл бұрын

    Bro I think you could probably just straight up sue for destruction of property and trespassing

  • @Imfailingmath
    @Imfailingmath Жыл бұрын

    The second guy seems like he just lashed out in anger bc he was sad and childish

  • @thatrandomminecrafter6082
    @thatrandomminecrafter608211 ай бұрын

    I would put up an electric fence or just a straight up fence to keep that Karen out I am glad she is in jail

  • @rafaxpg
    @rafaxpg Жыл бұрын

    Why can't the husband himself learn How to make cookies? He's a grown adult, he should be able to learn.

  • @Cimorene1969
    @Cimorene1969 Жыл бұрын

    In the last story, OP has no idea he's basically saying his sister is more important to him than his wife. It's no longer a question of who's the bigger person. OP needs to stand with his wife and cut his sister out of their life, along with anyone else who thinks he should ask his wife to apologize to his sister, which, in effect, tells the sister she did nothing wrong. More than anything, OP's wife needs him to support her. He doesn't have to agree with her, but if he stands with her, he's showing her he cares about protecting his family. That's what she needs.

  • @scottwilson3117
    @scottwilson3117 Жыл бұрын

    Lady hit the bricks and leave the male Karen.

  • @kagome1000o
    @kagome1000o Жыл бұрын

    I still remember when my mom asked me to apologize to my sister in a scenario similar to this and I wouldn’t do it either. Thankfully, my mom excepted this because she knows my sisters in a hole but still.

  • @angelaprivette8810
    @angelaprivette881010 ай бұрын

    Sprinklers would have stopped that.

  • @spikertaker
    @spikertaker Жыл бұрын

    I totally get Tyra and OP in #3, we lost my mom to cancer on my 12th birthday, I was told at school by the councilor and my aunt so basically the entire school saw me breaking down, I wasn't very thrilled about my birthday since.

  • @ranv3y
    @ranv3y Жыл бұрын

    In story two I wonder if your husband can make those cookies let's see the failure

  • @Madej11
    @Madej11 Жыл бұрын

    Story #1: I thought this was my neighbor for a hot sec

  • @Furito-Chan
    @Furito-Chan Жыл бұрын

    Fun fact : "Cul de sac" is a french expression, we do use it but you can translate it as "bag's ass"

  • @funtimegenshin6973
    @funtimegenshin6973 Жыл бұрын

    In the Christmas story I'd have said no reason your kids don't love you get up and leave to my family and tell them everything

  • @CreatingArt3185
    @CreatingArt3185 Жыл бұрын

    The Christmas story the kids need to realise that they’ve got TWO parents and stop being materialistic it just sounds like the op husband had reached the straw that broke the camel back and vented on the nearest person at the time

  • @battleaxebizon6958
    @battleaxebizon6958 Жыл бұрын

    Buckwheat is a good gluten-free option for pancakes and waffles

  • @chrisdixon892
    @chrisdixon892 Жыл бұрын

    Story 3. I've had a big family member die and April fools day so when the message went out I screamed that it better not be a joke.

  • @spiraltail4635
    @spiraltail463511 ай бұрын

    I may not know my flowers, but I know a BI*** WHEN I SEE ONE 😂

  • @willisgordon2449
    @willisgordon2449 Жыл бұрын

    What a load of self pity!!!

  • @oliviajeanne7709
    @oliviajeanne7709 Жыл бұрын

    The story with Christmas I cried a bit because I know the feeling of losing a loved one too. OP you’re not alone on that my mom almost every thanksgiving always seems to get hurt SOMEHOW!? and even once sent in an ambulance to the hospital. I went to my dad’s while my older sister cooked the rest of thanksgiving while her boyfriend comforted her. I like to get my mind off things like that so going with dad was a distraction I needed.

  • @samcohen2483
    @samcohen2483 Жыл бұрын

    The narrator's Karen voice should be trademarked

  • @Obviouse
    @Obviouse Жыл бұрын

    Your take on the first Christmas story with the kids was the most pathetic way you could possibly handle that situation

  • @judysheets6435
    @judysheets643511 ай бұрын

    Dude! Back your wife, ghost your sister for a while. Tell sis to no yellin!

  • @demonanight
    @demonanight Жыл бұрын

    2nd story: yes leave now!!, he just showed you his true side, and that blow up is probably why the kids want to be with mom instead of him, I know I'm with that guy and been for years 😢 I'm still trying to figure out how to get out.

  • @tonypenna7922
    @tonypenna7922 Жыл бұрын

    Once you hear how the AI voice drops about an octave in the last syllable of every sentence you can't unhear it.

  • @johnnymcneal5914
    @johnnymcneal591411 ай бұрын

    If they can't bake cookies get some at the bakery problem-solve

  • @mifcreativemint5786
    @mifcreativemint5786 Жыл бұрын

    The narrator have a nice voice, and usually they sound like a robot, but in this video they actually sounded like human

  • @Linda-xw9lj
    @Linda-xw9lj Жыл бұрын

    Cookies!!!! Leave his ass, divorce

  • @TheMagicianOfGaming
    @TheMagicianOfGaming Жыл бұрын

    They want her to stop trespassing... get fucking cameras and record her on your property.

  • @iononcantomascrivo
    @iononcantomascrivo Жыл бұрын

    The last story: OP’s sister is not intense, she's an overgrown woman child who never mentally matured past a tantrum-throwing 5-year-old. There's no such thing as resolving a conflict with a person like this. Even if you come to a seemingly decent compromise, there will always be a next time. I hate to say it, but this is quite common of someone who was coddled and always got their way. I used to know someone like this. Let's call her Molly. Molly was very typical of an entitled parent and quite frankly an entitled person. If wasn't for the fact that her parents are still alive, I would say this story was written about Molly. Molly was the type of person who expected everything to start and stop with her. If it didn't, it should. She was the most important thing in the world and should be at everyone's top list of priorities. I'm sure you know the type. She never kept a job and just lived off of her hard working beleaguered husband. She parentified her older daughter (husband's stepdaughter) and practically canonized her youngest son (daughter's half-brother). Since Molly never worked, always coming up with an excuse for why she couldn't keep a job or find one long enough for it to make a dent in her finances (but she always had her hair done, her nails done, full pack of cigarettes and booze in the fridge), she became an insufferable busybody who was not well liked by her neighbors. She excelled at gossip and sticking her nose where it didn't belong. Then social media came along. Molly was one of those people to parrot whatever talking point that was popular at the moment without doing any vetting or research to see if it was true. When she wasn't talking politics (a polarizing topic in and of itself) she was ranting about religion and Bible stuff. I have nothing against people who practice their faith, but Molly used hers as the basis for judging everyone around her when her life was hardly what would one call godly. Let's just say she totally missed the commandments that forbid stealing and adultery. People who didn't take her crap commented back that she was a big cheating witch and owed a lot of people money but never paid them back. Naturally, she didn't like the truth being exposed for everyone to see and this led to her getting repeatedly restricted. Predictably, Molly always played the victim, claiming that her freedom of speech was being violated. I remember one such incident where she, once again, stuck her nose where didn't belong and the person in the comment section that had been defamed threatened to sue everyone in the thread for libel. Molly, freaking out, called me up. I took her to task, letting her know that my prediction had come true: she had met someone who wasn't going to take her crap and was going to hold her accountable for her behavior. For clarity, Molly was about 50 years old at the time and should have known better. Molly said she had learned her lesson. I told her I didn't believe her and that when the next time eventually did occur, I would remind her that she said she had learned her lesson. Of course, Molly got over it, and went right back to being the nasty, vile witch that she truly is. The person that she tried to trample all over their boundaries was me. I anticipated her transgressions and had kept receipts. After declaring that I had a very good case of malice as well as slander, that I had also consulted an attorney, she was left crapping herself in her granny panties. I told her I knew suing her wouldn't do me any good because she was so broke she couldn't afford to pay attention. At best, she barely ever had two spare nickels to rub together. She tried to pull the woman card, the mother card, the friend card. I shot her down on all of those assertions. I did say that the court of public opinion would be more effective in exposing her for what she is by using her own words to indict her for her absolutely horrible behavior. To make an already long story much shorter, Molly turned into a ghost. I'm sure, in her twisted mind, she convinced herself that she was punishing me by withholding her attention. On the contrary. It was a nice mental vacation and she had inadvertently done me a colossal favor. I blocked her on everything and changed my number. I later found out from a mutual friend (whom I was finally able to wake up to what a toxic parasite Molly is), that she threw a tantrum that would have embarrassed a toddler. For further context, by that point, Molly was the mother of two grown children and was also a grandmother. I imagine seeing a woman in her 50s having a five-alarm meltdown because someone blocked her on social media is quite the unnerving sight.

  • @heatherfocht1171
    @heatherfocht117111 ай бұрын

    My Pa (grandpa in Geman) died on Christmas Eve when I was 10, and my grandma died 2 days after Christmas... I hate Christmas...

  • @kennethcarroll823
    @kennethcarroll823 Жыл бұрын

    Honestly... I would have simply built a fence to prevent that Karen mother from continuously walking over the garden.

  • @isaaccollins4533
    @isaaccollins4533 Жыл бұрын

    Last story conclusion: TAKE THEM BOTH TO THERAPY!

  • @Octbergal47
    @Octbergal47 Жыл бұрын

    On the jerk that is trespassing, if you can't do the automatic sprinkler system, maybe a good sturdy fence, that would complement the property. I'm sorry that some people do things like that. They have no concept of right, and wrong.

  • @blakensethsbricks3877
    @blakensethsbricks3877 Жыл бұрын

    His was so entertaining

  • @oliwiermiekus
    @oliwiermiekus Жыл бұрын

    Story1: Place motion activated AG (anti-ground) turret which you can shut down from a ditance to have an entrance to your garden and its loaded with sh## ton of paintball bullets

  • @darvish2012
    @darvish2012 Жыл бұрын

    If I was OP's wife in the last story, I'll give him an ultimatum: either you make your sister apologize, or our marriage is over! You have 3 days.

  • @cybermainstream

    @cybermainstream

    10 ай бұрын

    That's just as toxic. Have you tried getting someone who thinks they are right to admit they are wrong?

  • @Mario87456
    @Mario87456 Жыл бұрын

    17:58 That wife is right to say to say that I haven’t spoken to my cousins on my dad’s side for years due to my dad and my brother cutting contact for reasons I will never actually know (All I know for certain is that it has something to do with my dad’s brother having brain damage) for certain and overall while I have been upset about it at times, it hasn’t had a huge negative impact on me especially since some relationships are just not worth it it it means family drama.

  • @trustjah
    @trustjah Жыл бұрын

    I also give her permission to watch the chickens and it's worth about as much.

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