Watch the full episode with Jordan here - kzread.info/dash/bejne/npWHrZmJqMuWj5s.html

@LavishPatchKid

2 жыл бұрын

Marriage was about passing ownership of the female, who can't think for herself, from father to future husband. Just because secular law removed ownership - doesn't mean their biological inability to think for themselves isn't still present. Why on earth men would want to marry a creature that's supposed to get her thoughts from you - but instead gets her thoughts from corporate programming - to which said forces you now have to argue with until the end of time, I have no clue. It's like having pets in your house that the law states you now have to let do whatever they want. Idiotic. You can't use logic with a creature that doesn't grasp logic. You either own such a creature - or you have it no where near you.

People should take marriage seriously. Personally, I take marriage very seriously, which is why I'm not getting married.

@expatwealthasia8702

2 жыл бұрын

👏👏

@lokeshkbathina

2 жыл бұрын

Good one, mate.

@greenthumb1523

2 жыл бұрын

You have no need for intimacy clearly. Marriage is romantic. And for people who want to share houses, bank, assets.

@globaltempest8339

2 жыл бұрын

@@greenthumb1523Listen if you want my assets just come and rob me, no need to go through an overly complicated marital process just to end up with the same conclusion.

@XTheSpartanX7

2 жыл бұрын

@@greenthumb1523 you can have romance without marriage

"A bachelor is often a lonely man fantasizing about the joys of marriage. A husband is often a tortured man fantasizing about the joys of loneliness."- Mark Twain

@american5564

Жыл бұрын

Not a mark Twain quote

@truerosie

10 ай бұрын

Applicable also to women. I chose being single for life, + so glad I did. Now + then I wonder... but that's there whatever the situation you chose is. I love this quote, it's the truth of life, regardless of who said it.

@user-jv8rl7uh3i

7 ай бұрын

Don't get married bros - Mark Twain

The problem with marriage today is that not only can one party “escape,” but when they do, they get cash and prizes at the other party’s expense. Only a fool signs a contract where your counterparty benefits by breaching the contract.

@louisavondart9178

2 жыл бұрын

Ever heard of a PreNup ?

@joelt1002

Жыл бұрын

Have you heard of trust funds and international holding companies? A good estate planning attorney can structure your companies and assets in a way that protect them from divorce and civil lawsuits. Since ownership is not technically yours, but you control it, its not up for grabs to a third party

@Tootruetootrue

Жыл бұрын

That's CHUUCH homie

@Foxie770

Жыл бұрын

That’s why prenups exist!

@Foxie770

Жыл бұрын

Not to Mention trusts and corporations… I hold no personal assets. And if I get remarried, he’ll be signing a prenup limiting the amount of “cash & prizes” he can get. But I’m not gonna turn out the father of my children on the streets. Only an evil person would do that to the parent of their child.

I'm married to myself. We fight often.

@TheCG7

2 жыл бұрын

How TF did this garbage comment get 95 upvotes.

@ngugi7279

2 жыл бұрын

I'm married to myself and I'm the one 💍 😇

Find someone or something WORTHY to commit to, but never settle out of some sense of shame.

Been there, done that. Lost 2 houses and alienated from 4 of my children. Never again.

@chriss4325

2 жыл бұрын

That's what I am afraid of bc I can only afford 1 house.

@jeffharris8166

2 жыл бұрын

Ouch....so sorry

@CLANK...

2 жыл бұрын

Great! You should be an expert on how it shouldnt be done then 😆 next one will be perfect 👌 Ps. Fight for your kids bro. Whatever it takes, dont let 'alienation' be the narrative 💪

@centralprocessingunit4988

2 жыл бұрын

how much of that would you take the accountability for?

@chriss4325

2 жыл бұрын

@@centralprocessingunit4988 you sound like "her"

I always wanted to get married but getting married today is like playing russian roulette.

@AsAugustSleeps

2 жыл бұрын

Russian roulette with 3 bullets in the chamber.

@bigwhopper6501

2 жыл бұрын

@@AsAugustSleeps for me the pistol is fully loaded

@AsAugustSleeps

2 жыл бұрын

@@bigwhopper6501 Yeah I mean you are almost guaranteed to get screwed as a guy. Even if you don’t get divorced.

@jason76065

2 жыл бұрын

@@AsAugustSleeps oh you get screwed... just not the way you want

@PrincePetti

2 жыл бұрын

Work on your education and building wealth. Then marry a woman who is equally educated and wealthy to you. These are the marriages that succeed the most statistically.

I'm actually in the situation now. I'm 38, been looking for someone to settle down with, but I live in Los Angeles and most people are mentally ill. It's not easy finding a Conservative minded girl around Los Angeles. I just stay single, I figure if it happens great, if not whatever. Being single is way better than being married to someone you're not happy with. If the other person doesn't enhance your life, it's not worth it.

@ferndog1461

2 жыл бұрын

Volunteer. Serve for Big brothers. Sign up or host meetups. California marriages destroy people. To improve your odds, you could move to " fly over state", hire a good lawyer for a prenup, & roll the dice. " Better SOLO than in bad company. "

@markm0000

2 жыл бұрын

Move out of that hell hole. You won’t find a woman left around your age that is straight in the head. They’ve all been corrupted. If you somehow manage to stumble onto one there’s a good chance she’s faking it to get your money.

@legalfictionnaturalfact3969

2 жыл бұрын

bro, you hit the wall at 25. you waited too long to get your act together.

@legalfictionnaturalfact3969

2 жыл бұрын

@@markm0000 put down the barely le g al c p, dude. it's rotting your brain.

@tcskips

2 жыл бұрын

Everyone’s got their faults, you’ve gotta commit otherwise how’d you know you aren’t missing out on something that constrains you in some ways but liberates you in others. They don’t always have to enhance your life for it to be worth it.

I say this as an old man who was proudly and lovingly married to my wonderful wife until she died. No. Regardless of what JBP says, the real answer for men in the west is "absolutely not." If you want to know why, look at the numbers. The majority of marriages end in divorce, usually within a few years (7-15). 80%+ of divorces are initiated by women. 90%+ of custody goes tl the mother, even when she is clearly neglectful/abusive towards the child(ren). 95%+ of alimony isbstolen from men by the State & given to women. False accusations are used against men in "family" court as a matter of course. Leslie Levy showed us that when she hired a videographer to record her CLE class where she taught "family" court attorneys how to do just that, and then uploaded it to the official Williamson County website. If that isn't enough, then go watch Michael Long tell his story on Rekieta Law's channel. Go look up the multiple tales of fathers being stripped of their children because they don't want their children to undergo harmful medical procedures like puberty blockers & genital mutilation. Look at the stories of fathers being denied even partial custody or mere "visitation" with their own children because the father is allergic or otherwise medically unable to take the WuFlu injections. Look at the numbers of homeless men who were forced out of their own homes by the women they married & the State that those women used to destroy those men's lives. There is no longer any real benefit to marriage for men. Marriage is all risk, and no reward for a man. He no longer marries his wife, but he now marries the combination of her & her real husband Big Daddy Government, and any time she has a bad day she can send the armed enforcers of Big Daddy Government to kidnap/kill him. You can say "not all women are like that," but society, the law, and the courts ensure that all women *can* be like that at any time, and they will be *rewarded* for it.

@lijojose1730

2 жыл бұрын

If you lived with your partner for more than 6 months you are considered as married by state.

@sibyloftexas

2 жыл бұрын

You might have a point if it weren't for the fact that only 4% of custody cases are handled in court. That 90% figure is because of out-of-wedlock births and couples deciding on the arrangement themselves after divorce. Only a quarter of women actually receive any kind of child support. Only rich people deal with alimony which is like 1% of cases. Men simply abandon their families more and refuse to financially support their kids.

@RedPillLife1966

2 жыл бұрын

Well Said!

@abdullasulfikkar5282

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for saying the reality.

@sibyloftexas

2 жыл бұрын

@@DaveM86 even in those 4% of cases, custody is awarded to fathers as often as it is to mothers. As for child support, those are the figures. Look it up. There's a multitude of ways to avoid child support. Many women don't even bother to file for it or just leave the father off the birth certificate. I don't support child support. It doesn't work and just spreads poverty. Men can't pay child support with money they don't have especially if they're supporting children with other mothers. One guy in Tennessee filed for relief from paying it because he 30 kids by 11 mothers. They were getting like a dollar a kid. Mothers should get a basic income. It's ridiculous we don't pay them to raise their own kids but we'll pay teachers, day care workers and foster parents to parent other people's kids. Men are already paying taxes. Why should they pay child support on top of that?

Until divorce laws change men should stay very far away from marriage. Do not enter into a contract with the state.

@teaja211

2 жыл бұрын

sign up a prenup. As a woman i would never get into marriage without one.

@Slays_Media

Жыл бұрын

@@teaja211 male prenups are often voided due to the absurd difference in salary and assets between men and women.

@teaja211

Жыл бұрын

@@Slays_Media now if thats the case thats unfair. i wouldnt even get married without prenup.

@III............

Жыл бұрын

​@@teaja211 ​ tiesiog ba Prenups aren't cheap though. They cost thousands of dollars

@teaja211

Жыл бұрын

@@III............ seems avg cost is around 550 usd.

so cool that someone made this clip because this EXACT part was the part I called my brother about (he’s currently going through some marital problems) and I said “you gotta hear this”.

But this is making the assumption that the party with nothing to lose but all to gain from leaving the marriage doesn’t bail as soon as it gets difficult. It’s a fallacy in modern relationships.

Negotiation is one of the hardest things to master, but it will set you free.

@keksteig387

2 жыл бұрын

Any books/sites/podcasts etc. that you'd like to recommend?

@harleyseelbinder

2 жыл бұрын

@@keksteig387 I really enjoy Jordan Peterson, Jocko Willink, Jonathan Pagaeu, Sam Harris, Brett Weinstein podcasts. I also just started a podcast. I really am a fan of the books Crime and Punishment, 1984, Man's Search for Meaning, and Atomic Habits.

Marriage is a noble thing. But modern culture has desecrated its sacredness.

@baldeagle4710

2 жыл бұрын

especially with women having 3 babies with 3 baby daddies...claiming "Where have all the men gone"?

@louisavondart9178

2 жыл бұрын

Nobles married their daughters off to strangers for money and power. What was sacred about that?

@AB-jl1un

Жыл бұрын

@@baldeagle4710 You forgot to insult the men who abandoned their children.

@richardy2071

3 ай бұрын

@@AB-jl1un right because men are the ones leaving..wait... no... it's not the men is it?

For me it’s more of an issue of foresight. You can get to know a persons character and see a high risk of divorce. It’s a small minority of people that have the back bone to stay married during the worst times. Till death do us part. And an even smaller minority who have Christian beliefs and want their marriage Christ centered. They act like these marriages are easy to come by in this day and age. Why do they leave those things out? Otherwise they are just blabbing basic morals that everyone already knows. Telling people to get married is one thing, then helping people become marriage material is another.

@M.Sid9.3

2 жыл бұрын

Problem is Christians have mostly become liberalised and bringing LGBTQ into the churches... I don't find many practicing christians, I don't really know what that is... But Muslims practice their faith much more. Not to say some are also affected by the liberal values though. But more Muslims are Sunni Muslims and believe in traditional values than not Liberalism is a disease to society and family.

@jessicamiller746

2 жыл бұрын

@@M.Sid9.3 I agree. I read only 2% of Christian’s read the Bible. 98% are no different than atheists. This is why I’m careful with who I listen to when it comes to these people on KZread the vast majority are bringing a secular perspective on marriage, it doesn’t work for Christian’s or any people of faith.

@xicheung7867

2 жыл бұрын

THIS! 🙌

@Phd366

2 жыл бұрын

@Biden Colluded With China I’ve been married for years and going strong every day. I am a former catholic.. we do not practice any religion. Moral and religion are different things. Values and religion are different things.

@SightForMemories

2 жыл бұрын

@Biden Colluded With China Do unto your neighbour as you would yourself?

Absolutely. Just make sure he or she is your best friend.

I don’t know why I didn’t work out with my first partner but everything was so negative and I stayed for 12 years. Now I’m in a relationship that looks like how people describe what marriage should be…having both ups and downs. I love it🤣 we have had very difficult times but we both wanted to work through it and things got better.

@istanbulmuskisi5705

2 жыл бұрын

Hey Millie, can you tell more about the main differences? What was the difference between those negative things before and the challenges and hard times you’re having now that separate the experiences? Best.

@millier.206

2 жыл бұрын

@@istanbulmuskisi5705 yes, one big thing was that when I was upset or cried, my ex husband got angry at me (and refused to settle matters). My partner now always tries to comfort me with a hug after we have a fight. One time I was really upset and he picked me up like a baby even 🤣 my last relationship lacked kindness and understanding.

@marto7537

2 жыл бұрын

@@millier.206 so your advanced age has nothing to do with it?

@KD400_

2 жыл бұрын

@@millier.206 did u have kids from any of ur partners if so how were they impacted

@millier.206

2 жыл бұрын

@@marto7537 I don’t understand your question.

While I admire Dr. Peterson, marriage in American in this day is an awful deal for men. Everything can be taken away by the courts on a whim.

@legalfictionnaturalfact3969

2 жыл бұрын

and yet men invented marriage. hmmmmm. lol

@_Daniel_Plainview

2 жыл бұрын

@@legalfictionnaturalfact3969 so?

@snubbles9991

2 жыл бұрын

@@legalfictionnaturalfact3969 we also gave women the Vote...and that was a big mistake

@YM-hu4tt

2 жыл бұрын

@@snubbles9991 lol

@Sophie3647s

2 жыл бұрын

Funny because all men have to do is remain faithful and financially support family, but seems to hard which is why women initiate most divorces. Infidelity in marriage and finances just saying

" Better solo than in bad company. " California marriage is a BAD choice. Marriage in the more affordable, " fly over states", may be possible with a high quality prenup, relative equal credit rating, and mutual understood parachute procedures. Professional people with high paying jobs( men or women) are targets for exploitation via romantic tools. Marriage is nice, but the financial, emotional expense is not worth it. My 2 cents.

@legalfictionnaturalfact3969

2 жыл бұрын

yes, please stay away from us. we've been saying this for centuries.

@windblownleaf6450

2 жыл бұрын

gotta agree. data doesnt look good

@kevinpeterwareham8131

2 жыл бұрын

prenups are going to get thrown out by the whimz courts soon.

@spartak9425

2 жыл бұрын

@@kevinpeterwareham8131 already are - Dre's got thrown out, and it's safe to assume he had the best lawyers money could buy

@kevinpeterwareham8131

2 жыл бұрын

@@spartak9425 crazy world.

There's power in admitting that you are damaged and should not be in a relationship or marriage... When you can see this in yourself the option is clear, don't drag people into your dysfunction.

@abhijitdas6945

Жыл бұрын

Wow ma'am, what a beautiful comment

@redrock740

9 ай бұрын

Absolutely!

Not everyone should marry. Even though I was raised in a happily married, two parent family, I am a 66 year old woman who has never been in love and I have a very low libido. I have also spent most of my life celibate and haven’t had sex enough times to feel comfortable having sex. I have platonic friendships with men that have lasted for decades. I would make a horrible and unhappy wife. I’d rather be alone than be married and wish that I was alone.

@aloowalia2849

2 жыл бұрын

Are you married

@aloowalia2849

2 жыл бұрын

Are you married

@agnespowers5997

2 жыл бұрын

@@aloowalia2849 I have never been married. I will never get married.

@aloowalia2849

2 жыл бұрын

@@agnespowers5997 do you really like to be alone

@agnespowers5997

2 жыл бұрын

@@aloowalia2849 I have always been a loner. I am a solitary, single, celibate woman.

Legal system needs to get out of the "business" of marriage.

@SightForMemories

2 жыл бұрын

yea, especially if they favor one over the other, I agree.

I've been with my wife for 16 years and the most meaningful way to describe how our marriage works is both of us act symbiotically to one another. Always questioning and politely challenging if someone is 'out of bounds' on a subject etc. We then shift accordingly to what feels justifiable as correct for us. Of course there are disagreements but in the end the amount of our lives we've invested in one another is unbreakable. That's just us but I wouldn't have it any other way. I love her so much just as she tells me so every day. So in the end my advice to people wanting to get hitched is to always remain open, being ready and willing to merge both of your ideals into one that becomes shared, while still retaining your own individuality. I digress. Much Peace!

@M.Sid9.3

2 жыл бұрын

Totally Agree! Celebrating 10 happy years here.

@QualityQuad

2 жыл бұрын

I’ll pass

@fashioniconjaylienkay

2 жыл бұрын

@@QualityQuad Thank you for your insightful comment.

@QualityQuad

2 жыл бұрын

@@fashioniconjaylienkay np

@fashioniconjaylienkay

2 жыл бұрын

@@QualityQuad Thank you for taking the time to write 'No problem' in its short version because taking the time to write 'No problem' is a burden.

Do you know when Conservative Christians lost the "marriage debate"? It was during the 2014 same-sex marriage fight, when the guys leading the charge on the Right "in defense of traditional marriage"....were Rush Limbaugh (3 divorces, 4 marriages) and Newt Gingrich (2 divorces, 3 marriages...the last 2 marriages to women who were his mistress during the previous marriage).

2 жыл бұрын

Don't forget Dennis Prager; he's on his third marriage as well.

@mashah1085

2 жыл бұрын

@ And all the "traditional Christian family values" guys ...who voted for thrice-married Trump

@LSSYLondon

2 жыл бұрын

Bingo!

@richardy2071

3 ай бұрын

what does one have to do with another? Marriage is between one man and one woman, a sacrament before God.

@mashah1085

3 ай бұрын

@@richardy2071 It has to do with hypocrisy. If marriage is about "ONE man with ONE woman and a sacrament before God"...then why were the most vocal supporters ONE man who had THREE marriages and ONE man who had FOUR marriages? Or is marriage just a "temporary" sacrament before God ...until the man gets tired of his old wife and wants a new one. (In both cases Limbaugh and Gingrich? Their succeeding wives were all much younger than the man)

I got divorced - then didn't date for five years - then was in a relationship for about 7 months - then it hit me like a ton of bricks: I'm not happy in relationships. To clarify, I'm not out prowling around looking to hook up. I just don't want intimacy with another person in that way anymore. My last relationship ended 12 years ago and I have been at peace ever since. To be perfectly honest, when I look at most of the marriages of people I know, I see a lot of unhappy people. I see people sleepwalking through the habit of marriage. If it works for you and it makes you happy, more power to you. I'm just giving another perspective. It is possible to live unmarried - and not in a relationship - and have a fulfilling life.

@trequor

2 жыл бұрын

It's virtually impossible. What the fuck is your plan for the second half of your life? You expect MY kids to take care of you when you are old?

@jamesmilligan9496

2 жыл бұрын

@@trequor that’s what would happen in a care home, yes

@DrProgNerd

2 жыл бұрын

@@trequor I get this kind of pushback on this all the time. I can't tell you how many times I have heard people incredulously ask "You're going to die alone?" or "You don't want a partner?" It's funny how this reveals their unwillingness to consider the idea of being responsible for themselves. And as far as your kids taking care of me - my kids will do just fine in that role. They are grown and responsible - and they see me taking care of my parents - and understand this to be a part of life. Family cares for one another. Your "virtually impossible" assessment is strange to me. If I had just broken up and said "Here's my plan: I'm never coupling again." I could see how you might react in that way. But I said I have been single for 12 years and I am completely at peace - and you couldn't begin to fathom it. It's not like I did a triple backflip off a 10 story building and landed on my feet. I just made a decision not to take part in a social norm .....and that's it. The fact that you read "impossiblity" into that decision tells me how much you are reliant on another human for your survival. If that is acceptable to you, that's okay. It just doesn't work for me ....and that's okay too.

@Opal5674

2 жыл бұрын

@@trequor The nursing homes of the country are full of parents left to rot because the kids didn't care to take care of them.

@DrProgNerd

2 жыл бұрын

@@Opal5674 The inference here is that I should be married: live for another human and ask that other human to live for me - to subject myself to the will of her - or face the penalty of the loss of half my property - and indentured servitude by way of alimony ...in perpetuity ......all because someday, I might need someone to take care of me. You're forgetting something: wives put husbands in nursing homes too. Instead I will take the risk of doing what I want and spending money the way I want and enjoying my family and friends and never having to say those emasculating words "Let me run it by my wife - to see if it's okay". I will enjoy my life - taking responsibility for myself and my own happiness. And in the end - if I'm in a nursing home - and I'm fortunate enough to have my faculties - I will be left with the memories of a life well-lived - and not the regrets of having wasted the opportunity of living - waiting for permission.

“Call no man unhappy until he is married.” - Socrates

If I were to bind myself to a woman, she and I would need to have one very important thing in mind 24/7. We're both human, with our perceptions and scars and react/respond differently to situations, sometimes making mistakes along the way. Indeed, she and I would have to keep in mind to remain honest and be able to share about each other's struggles. If there's no transparency, I don't think there's any trust. And without trust, how can a relationship thrive?

@zenden6564

2 жыл бұрын

You can build trust, but as many men will attest, they never saw the termination of their trusted relationship coming. You might allow that predictable failure as an approximation, is a 50/50 thing, and that would be very generous IMO. Relationship failure usually has (far) more severe socio-economic impact on males than females. That is the brutal reality of how things stand in our Western world today. There are many things you can consider to mitigate failure risk with selecting a partner. A caution here: men are usually lousy at this part, with women we tend (biologically) to judge a book by its cover.

@M.Sid9.3

2 жыл бұрын

That one very important thing is God

@zenden6564

2 жыл бұрын

@@M.Sid9.3 would that it were that women in Western society had any fear of God or obedience to Gods laws. Western societies are effectively heathen these days and (broadly speaking) women obey the axioms of the Feminist ideology and anti-male groupthink. Hence the many decades long steady collapse of marriage rates and divorce rates amongst Caucassians over 60%, but conversely much lower in certain ethnic groups that's true.

@Vikingr4Jesus5919

2 жыл бұрын

@@M.Sid9.3 God, or Jesus?

@III............

Жыл бұрын

​@@M.Sid9.3 ​ M. Karim No, he's not. I want nothing to do with ''God'' or his enemy.

I think this is understandably the reason why both guys and girls are afraid to be with one person it's a very big thing and requires a deeper commitment and does take effort on both people I don't think being with multiple partners or people is bad or wrong either I just know that deciding to be with one person is not easy a person needs to accept it's not easy but it definitely should be mostly full of life and energy and passion happiness if those are missing then a nosedive is guaranteed

"There are two kinds of people in the world. Those who understand how contracts work, and those who get married." Bugs Bunny

@SightForMemories

2 жыл бұрын

If your heart is a piece of paper, then no, you should not enter into marriage, if your heart is a living being within your soul, that you can intervene on behalf off, then do get married.

@threethrushes

2 жыл бұрын

@@SightForMemories My heart is not a piece of paper; it's a cold, black stone.

researchers consistently fail to address the magnitude of this issue. People ultimately need love and validation. When a man doesn't matter to a woman, when she doesn't gaze at him with a loving smile, tell him she wants him/needs him, that he matters to her. A lot of guys have never had that. This will cause disillusionment/isolation/soul sadness and mental health issues in men. No amount of material things, por* will be able to replace that. The problem in the west is 2 fold. Incels can't get a woman and the ones that do get one, end up in divorce/breaking up or being cheated on and losing more than the lady. So they swear off relationships and end up lonely all the same. (Mgtow) Both have the effect of creating lonely, angry, atomised ppl and broken society with plummeting birth rates. And can spell the end of that society. What are we seeing in the west now? Falling sperm counts, falling testosterone levels, births, marriage, and a rapidly ageing society, with catastrophic debt levels. White ppl used to have close family bonds but now they no longer keep ties with family and send old ppl to homes. Jobs for life are a thing of the past, from where they used to form friends. White ppl lost their matchmaking culture and used to marry form within their own tried and tested social circle. With all that now gone, internet dating and cold approaching/PUA random women that u know nothing about is the way. Which can be toxic.

@laurasophie3059

2 жыл бұрын

I also think that internet dating makes people value relationships less because there appears to be "so many options" (even if in reality most are not). As well I think a lot of what you mentioned about men relates to why there is such a high rate of depression and s*icide in men

@kamrudkd

2 жыл бұрын

@Laura Sophie exactly....sadly its just the beginning I fear.

We were teenage boyfriend and girlfriend. 17 years later and still see no purpose in marriage. We are the strongest couple I know and have outlasted all our friends relationships. Marriage only keeps people together that shouldn’t still be together.

@baldeagle4710

2 жыл бұрын

you guys stayed together because you weren't married. marriage breaks people.

@majagrzybowska1981

Жыл бұрын

@@baldeagle4710 How marriage breaks people?

"Purification requires heat and pressure" I feel I should write that down and use it daily

@centralprocessingunit4988

2 жыл бұрын

delusional.

@Kanfachan

2 жыл бұрын

That’s just Jungian psycho babble

@LSSYLondon

2 жыл бұрын

Jung was a moron. lol

Also JPs daughter is a single mom. So consider the source.

@cyber151

2 жыл бұрын

I'm not advocating for a failing institution, while have a single mom for a kid. He is. What kind of incoherent response was that?

@jpPID

Жыл бұрын

JP is also happily married, consider this.

I think it can go both ways. I lived with a woman for 9.5 years and honestly I loved her alot. But because of how I grew up I didn't want to lock her in to somthing she would later regret. And I feel like if we were married she probably would have. But when we ended we viewed it as an end to a journey and a start to another. I don't hate her and honestly we fought over who would take more stuff (we both wanted less) 🤣 she's a great woman and I will always appreciate the changes she brought to my life. But we weren't meant to be.

@vinnyman4448

2 жыл бұрын

Good lord simp

@moe433

2 жыл бұрын

wow, this chick wasted 10 years of your life

@Gergentine

2 жыл бұрын

@@moe433 I guess, idk man I don't think life is a race, maybe I'm wrong, but I don't think so. I'm pretty happy and it's not like I have problems with women these days... so I guess I just don't see the problem 🤷 I guess I'm a simp... lol. Who would want to learn more while having the freedom to do what they want. You're right, it's awful, id much rather be locked into a relationship I never truly wanted with 9 kids 😆 what a mistake I made not getting anyone knocked up...

@moe433

2 жыл бұрын

@@Gergentine yeah, it's not a mistake that you didn't get that woman you were with for 10 years knocked up, it's a mistake that you didn't end your relationship earlier to find a good woman to knock up . . .

@TheSantos173

2 жыл бұрын

@@vinnyman4448 do you even know what simp means? That man described walking away from a woman after many years of being together without looking back

If a woman truly loves me and not the possibility of financial gain if and when she changes her mind then I don't need approval from the government and the church to love someone. There is literally nothing to gain as a man in marriage aside from "keeping her happy" or otherwise "proving" a commitment to the woman. A woman has great financial incentive to marry, divorce then alimony her way to fat stacks of cash and other assets, regardless of whether or not she had personally contributed or invested in said things. Marriage is incredibly unfair and it's pathetic men will willingly hand women a knife to financially neuter them when the fucking wind blows the wrong way down the line.

@Cybertech134

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly! Very well put!

@Macheako

2 жыл бұрын

You got it bro

@Opal5674

2 жыл бұрын

Only 10% of divorces even involve alimony

@legalfictionnaturalfact3969

2 жыл бұрын

it's not about love. it's about the contracts. being let into the ICU. being treated as POA in case of partner's incapacitation. marriage contracts have nothing to do with love. they are just something you do WITH someone you love BECAUSE you want to take care of each other in the most dreaded circumstances.

@expatwealthasia8702

2 жыл бұрын

💯 true

Any man who marries a woman who disliked or hated her father or any woman who marries a man who disliked or hated his mother will most certainly discover one secret to a happy marriage too late.

@Macheako

2 жыл бұрын

I dont hate my mother but I do tend to think she's wrong about everything....... wanna pre-diagnose my future too?

@Opal5674

2 жыл бұрын

I didn't even know my father. My EX husband didn't like his mom I met her and she wasn't bad at all. She was just a bit traumatized from all his dad put her through. She was a diabetic and one day we found her dead in her apartment and he didn't have a tear to shed for her. He ended up being just like his dad who didn't even raise him.

@wyleecoyotee4252

2 жыл бұрын

I hated my father as he was always cheating on my mother and the family. I have no use for such people...I don't care who they are

@Macheako

2 жыл бұрын

@@wyleecoyotee4252 He JUST cheated on her? For no other reason than "Muh Dick" ? You're absolutely sure about that???????? I'm just making sure.....cuz men in this country have been denied our RIGHT to a fair trial in the public sphere.... Just making sure you're at least giving the old man that much before you throw his ass to the wolves 😂

@wyleecoyotee4252

2 жыл бұрын

@Matthew Morton He cheated on my mother through the marriage. You want the reason? The reason is irrelevant. If they want to behave like they're single, they should be single..and spare everyone the heartache. The reason is that he didn't value and respect his relationship and family...just for his dick. Yup. My mum finally divorced him. He died alone. Karma's a biatch.

And you don't feel that you're in a position to wave you finger and say "you railed"., Unless of course you're saving your finger at a MGTOW and calling him a weasel. Thanks again Dr.. Petersen.

Married 15 years and run it very traditionally. The wife stays home and handles the kids and general household duties while I bring home the bacon and help out where I can if the wife doesnt already have it covered. The kids are well adjusted, smart and have plenty of friends and seem to be on a far better track than many of their peers.

@mrx-od3ji

Жыл бұрын

i wont get married i dont want too and i dont want kids.

I would absolutely love to get married to 'the one' and spend my life in blissful monogamy, raising children together and creating a strong, happy family. Thing is, the current legal systems in play mar that dream with a nasty-ass guillotine hanging over its neck at all times. What if she decides she wants a divorce out of the blue, and then runs off with EVERYTHING? My life would be irreparably ruined. I want it to be real. I hear stories from my Mom and Dad about their long years together and I yearn for that with all my heart, but today's ugly world and cutthroat courts make it an unreasonable risk to take.

@nindiaprastiwi9410

2 жыл бұрын

I hear you

@LSSYLondon

2 жыл бұрын

That's what a prenup is for. And if she runs off with everything I would ask what that means? Jeff Bezos parted with half his wealth because he didn't get a prenup and yet he doesn't seem to regret it. Assuming that you own far less - what will she run off with? 50% of your Honda?

@teaja211

2 жыл бұрын

sign up a prenup. if woman is decent she will be fine. if woman is a scam she wont sign up and its good riddance. its that simple.

@Ondulado.

Жыл бұрын

@@teaja211 sadly they don't always hold up. Nowadays women will make false accusations especially if they are trying to get custody of the kids

@AB-jl1un

Жыл бұрын

She won't file for divorce out of the blue. If your behavior is intolerable and you ignore her repeated requests to alter your behavior, she will divorce you. Men who claim they don't know why they were divorced totally ignored their wives' needs. The women were just a utility to them. An extra paycheck, available sex, a servant at home. They were warned for years that their wives were unhappy and didn't care, then acted surprised and victimized when they were handed divorce papers.

If you’re a woman, yes. If you’re a man, no.

As a woman....no.

This implies that marriage is the only way for a pair of people to commit. Been together 15 years though thick and thin never stronger than now without the symbolism and trappings of the vow. Many are beginning to realised the “wedding day” is just a social control construct and personal commitment is what makes relationships work.

@felipe7466

2 жыл бұрын

So you've never married at all? if that is the case, have you made it clear to your partner since the beginning of your relationship that you wouldn't ever marry in paper? I'd like to know more about it.

Only marry if you are aware of the benefits and risks and then only if you have the courage to do so. It would also help to inform yourself of male and female psychology/biology, both yours and your partner's. The two close friends I have who were married I predicted their divorce around 1 year prior to it happening. They said I was exaggerating, including their psychological counselors by the way. I was not exaggerating, the signs were there. One of the main problems I see is that most people keep observing the world as entirely nurture and like a Disney movie. They all expect their partner to change or they blind themselves to their behavior, or overpromise and underdeliver. You know how difficult it is to change? Try acquiring a new habit or removing a bad one. Now realize that the other person you are with is almost certainly shares that challenge. Almost everything is a trade. Both mgtowers and feminists think the other side are a bunch of opportunists and therefore relationships aren't pure enough or worthy enough. That's because they are both in belief of a utopia where both sides don't understand they have to work on themselves to be desirable. The only 2 valid points mgtow have are the distorted divorce laws and the family court; however, their contention that "women cannot love" is beyond absurd. I've seen EXTREMELY loving women, EXTREMELY forgiving women, but some of these men expect that every woman should give them unconditional love, like their mothers, when they behave, look, and live in a dumpster fire. And yes, I am also familiar with some of the extraordinarily entitled women that exist nowadays, it's a shame. Don't forget that your favorite "mgtow commentators" are selective in what they show you by the way. For example that jaded, bald bearded guy. He released a video the other day saying that women on apps were selecting the top 1% of men and picked like 3 women who had over 20-30 lays in a year. First of all, it didn't show that they picked the TOP 1%, it showed that out of all the men offered to them they only selected 1-2% of them, that doesn't mean those men are the top 1-2% of the pool. In terms of promiscuous women, those women exist, but go look at the statistics, by and large most women do NOT go around getting laid willy-nilly. You can either believe that they are extremely selective or they will get laid with anyone. Choose. That's another problem, by the way. Men think women are like men and vice versa. That's why men think that because women have access to every man to get laid it ABSOLUTELY MEANS that they would behave like them if they were in that position and fornicated everything with a pulse. The only entities benefiting from mgtow and feminism are corporations. They keep them as separate individuals filling their voids with material goods. Feminists purchasing antidepresants, pets, cat food and trips to wash away the pain. Men spending it on suits, cars and travel. I know I was all over the place with this stuff, welcome to my TED talk. Laters.

@richardy2071

3 ай бұрын

dating app data shows that the majority of women find the majority of men unattractive. Men aren't loved unconditionally, but having boundaries and preferences somehow means that they want to be 'mothered' but women want men to act like their fathers and somehow thats ok> More women have access to random sex than the average man. The average man hasn't had sex in a year. We are not playing the same game at all anymore

NO!

The government exists for the basic protection of life and property, and otherwise has absolutely no right to be involved in people's relationships.

Marriage is a trap to be avoided in the West. If you as a man want to lose at least half of your income, your house, your car, your children, your pets, your sanity; then by all means, get married.

@alanmike6883

2 жыл бұрын

And being a tax slave to fund single mothers

@alanmike6883

2 жыл бұрын

@Noor Kassem I meant society's as a whole. Being taxed to pay for someone elses kid

I haven't watch the video but I can already say NO.

Seriously Jesus Christ is the glue in my 33 years of marriage. My husband and I are total opposites and Jesus Christ is the only one who keeps us in communion. We are always aware of the evil that can tear us apart and we know that we have to be on guard ourselves because it is very easy to be destroyed, but through the intercession of Jesus Christ our marriage can survive!

Man... I respect Dr. Peterson so much, because he helped me in finding my way in life and grow pair of balls, but answer to this question should be "ABSOLUTELY NOT!". It's not only case of Murica. Even in my country - Poland, marriage for men is all risk, no reward.

I want to get married, but I’m waiting until morality is restored to modern society. If it doesn’t, then I won’t. I refuse to reduce myself to a shell of a man who feels lucky to be with somebody who won’t appreciate me. If women want unquestioned loyalty, they can get a dog. Mutual respect and a principle driven relationship is the only way you can have a long lasting, loving marriage.

@E.R.Hewitt

2 жыл бұрын

Might be easier to wait until you meet a good woman, there are a few around. Waiting until morality is restored to modern society is like saying I’m waiting for a year when there’s no winter. Just beware, you might not be good enough for a good woman in your current state.

@stevesizemore6274

2 жыл бұрын

Well- said

@jacobperez8921

Жыл бұрын

Dude morality is never coming back for the most part. It’s better to go out there and look for a good woman that still exist. Most women are no longer wife material these days.

I honestly think that people should allow your partner to get their way in a relationship, a lot of the times. Be a person who doesn't do negotiation is an egotistical trait that should never be entertained or accepted. A great reason to leave the relationship

@Kanfachan

2 жыл бұрын

Your comment contradicts itself. For one partner to “get their way” the other partner has to not get their way.

@khanyisileplatana8436

2 жыл бұрын

@@Kanfachan That how life and a relationship works like. Sometimes you get your way and sometimes you don't

Jordan Peterson, in my opinion, has to be one of the wisest men alive in the 21st Century. He is an international treasure, and must be protected at all costs.

@WCove99

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed. Too much of what he says goes over my head, though.

@duglife2230

2 жыл бұрын

@@WCove99 Same. Haha!

@WCove99

2 жыл бұрын

@@duglife2230 lol Good to know. I have processing issues. If I understood him more, I would follow him.

@scholaroftheworldalternatehist

Жыл бұрын

Uh, no. He is an effective communicator of repurposing other people's works and ideas but has no novel contributions that is the sign of true intelligence.

@orlock20

Жыл бұрын

While he is smart in various topics, you know when he branches into a topic he knows little about. This happens to any person, but it is more dangerous when it happens to smart people.

only with couples' counseling first, discussing values, children..., along with a financial agreement. It is a business contract in the end so set that up right from the start. Know who you are, and as much as possible, who your partner is.

@brucekirk5081

2 жыл бұрын

that is wholly naïve in today's world

I miss not only being OKAY but being more then Okay at thid time i know what i must do

Coming up on 3 years married. We’ve been together over 8 years in total, so maybe we wasted time, but we were long distance before we got married and I had to focus on finishing my undergrad. So no real regrets as I’m glad we got married eventually.

im married, now im prisoner, no sex, slave labour, pay everything

@jerrybruckhart9134

2 жыл бұрын

Always remember, victims are few and far between, most are volunteers.

@jinz0

2 жыл бұрын

@@jerrybruckhart9134 only reason I volunteer is because of my daughter

@jerrybruckhart9134

2 жыл бұрын

@@jinz0 As you should Sir, but that was not my point, the point was you volunteered to create that daughter.

@jinz0

2 жыл бұрын

@@jerrybruckhart9134 yea but that doesnt mean I volunteered for everything else, they are separate packages

@jerrybruckhart9134

2 жыл бұрын

@@jinz0 I get that, my point was simply this, you knew the dangers, but chose to ignore them.

I spent a decade of my life working my ass off to build a financial foundation that can serve me and my family. Working 100 hours a week, sleeping on a couch in my warehouse while starting my company from nothing, unloading 40 ft. containers by myself, etc. There is no way I would place myself in the position where everything I have built can be destroyed in a divorce court. With that being said, I want be a father and do not see my life complete without having children. So in my case, I chose not to get married and use surrogacy. If I can have twin boys with a surrogacy, I will be the happiest man in the world.

@makeitcount2985

Жыл бұрын

Great choice.... 👍

@ronmka8931

Жыл бұрын

Children raised on single parent households are bound to have mental issues later in life

@andre18762

Жыл бұрын

@@ronmka8931 single mother households

NOOOO!!! Getting married is the most expensive way to not have sex ever invented.

@patrickharvey5736

2 жыл бұрын

@@jasmitharani8918 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Well that depends. What do you mean by 'should'? And what do you mean by 'married'? It's not at all obvious.

@carlosmegana

2 жыл бұрын

Nice haha

Married and grew so much during my marriage as a man. Indeed, before getting married we agreed to work things out no matter what. It requires putting that pride aside and also sacrificing ones desires a lot. I highly recommend it, still in this day & age and despite what you hear. I also recommend exploring the traditional roles of husband and wife as a key to success.

@harbingertheheretic3541

2 жыл бұрын

If you still recommend marriage, then you are truly sheltered and ignorant of the destruction that women & the State do to men in the majority of marriages that end in divorce (80%+ of which are initiated byvw by women).

@Cybertech134

2 жыл бұрын

Traditional roles of a husband? You mean to be taken advantage of as a pay pig and be expected to protect and die for these malcontents? They paying you well on the plantation? 😂🤣

@AdelTheForsaken

2 жыл бұрын

I am truly happy that you found a woman who would cooperate with you! I pray you have a prosperous relationship😃 I intend to do everything in my power, so that my fiance and I have the same.

@M.Sid9.3

2 жыл бұрын

Good on you sir! :D we need more positive marriage stories out here!

@markm0000

2 жыл бұрын

Good job Jonathan. You succeeded at life as a man.

How I wish that some specialist who knew what he was talking about (preferably a man who had been through the worst that divorce can do) would say "if you're a man, then yes, getting married is like playing Russian roulette, but it's the only way you have a chance of a happy life." I might not agree, but at least I'd know he was facing the problem squarely.

Not now the entitlement is too strong. Even matchmakers have been making vids now saying female lists are too long and they are not willing to compromise. That reminds me of that Steve Harvey clip of the cake maker “bring out another screen, bring out another screen, bring out the final two screens.” 🤣.

Marriage is a business contract, favoring Woman for the purpose of bringing up children in the most healthy way possible and rightfully so. Men have no win unless the two are a rare compatible. Slippery slope, pre-nup or pay up.

@Kanfachan

2 жыл бұрын

How about no-nup????

I'm 43 and wife is 38.We're married for 20 years.3 children. It's not an easy ride but it is evolving and getting easier. Trust the nature.

@irvinargon

2 жыл бұрын

how many times did you cheat? serious question.

@TheSantos173

2 жыл бұрын

Say it brother, she won’t find this comment.

@dmitriylepihov4762

2 жыл бұрын

@@TheSantos173 👍you will not believe😂. I'm serious!

@TheSantos173

2 жыл бұрын

@@dmitriylepihov4762 how many times have you cheated

@dmitriylepihov4762

2 жыл бұрын

@@TheSantos173 zero 💪

She reserves the right to change her mind at any time.

I am just not sure why society expects everyone to get married. The 20/80 rule seems much more applicable. Twenty percent won't get married (ever); whereas 80% will. Seems a much better ratio to live with instead of the current divorce rate of 50/50.

For western men? Absolutely not. Of course its a good deal for women.

@onichanyi9214

2 жыл бұрын

SUGESTION.LIVE #однако #я #люблю #таких #рыбаков #Интересно, #забавно #девушка #смешная #垃圾

@onlinesurfer8725

2 жыл бұрын

What about Asian men?

@johngalt6838

2 жыл бұрын

@@onlinesurfer8725 it doesn't seem to benefit them either....

@wholesome122

2 жыл бұрын

Until you are in your 30’s, wake up in the middle of the night from work stress, have an anxiety attack, faint, try calling your mom but your mom doesn’t pick up because she is asleep and you aren’t her #1 person your dad is. My brother had a realization that he was alone in the world doing nothing with his life but acquiring material junk. He started thinking about the rest of his life without children and without grandchildren. Most people should probably get married with a small minority exempt. And build your marriage around serving and forgiveness and divorce is never an option.

@johngalt6838

2 жыл бұрын

@@wholesome122 divorce is not up to you.....a rate of 50% and initiated by women 80% of the time.

I always had the impression people are more in love with the idea of marriage, instead of the person they are married to. "I need to be married in order to feel happy" is a quite alarming claim. Further than that, I do like JP, but in this particular case, his opinion seems quite predictable. Get a job, marry, have children, die...same boring sh** my parents told me. They did it, my grandparents did it and both are miserable, so no, marriage can not be a general solution for everyone. So, whatever you choose to do, make sure you have the right intentions.

@centralprocessingunit4988

2 жыл бұрын

how could you even be a fan of a pseudo freak.

@fructosecornsyrup5759

2 жыл бұрын

I mean, it's literally the best route to producing happy children. Honestly I think instead of teaching some of the bullshit we have now in high school classes we should have classes dedicated to psychology and building better relationships with others. That way, marriage won't just be some fairytale dream for kids but it'd eventually be viewed as something to work at, which is essential to surviving marriages.

@fructosecornsyrup5759

2 жыл бұрын

@@centralprocessingunit4988 Damn son, who hurt you?

Unfortunately, tax makes it better for me if I’m unmarried. Also my bank account. Getting married these days is not cheap - unless it’s just a paper exercise. Everyone knows my partner and I are committed to one another. We are married in every way but the legal one.

@alexjones7845

2 жыл бұрын

Typically taxes are lower for a couple than the higher earning individual if single, at least in the US because each tax bracket start has a higher threshold for married people. How is it cheaper for you?

@onichanyi9214

2 жыл бұрын

SUGESTION.LIVE #однако #я #люблю #таких #рыбаков #Интересно, #забавно #девушка #смешная #垃圾

@Cybertech134

2 жыл бұрын

@@alexjones7845 Taxes are lower, but spending is higher

@harbingertheheretic3541

2 жыл бұрын

You might be legally married as well if you are in a jurisdiction where "common law" marriage exists, or there are other statutes about cohabitation or "long term relationships" being equivalent to marriage.

Somewhat attractive 36 year old woman and I have never been married nor have I had children. I feel like I am being smart about it. I'm waiting for the right time.

Checked divorce stats. Should you get married? Are you a woman? Yes. Are you a man? No.

@Opal5674

2 жыл бұрын

Lmao but women are the ones that want out of marriage more because they are the ones that are most unhappy. Most don't even get child support or alimony in spite of what you like to circulate on your man club. Only 10% of divorces result in alimony payments. Her getting the house only even means something if she hadn't contributed at all to paying for it and if it's even paid for. If it's not paid for she then has to cover that on her own. Even if there is a child support ruling billions of dollars of back child support owed in this country shows she didn't usually even get regular payments. You men need to realize with women having their own incomes now men don't have much to offer her she can't do for herself. If you aren't willing to let her stay home and raise the kids then you've really not got anything to offer.

@benjohnson8231

2 жыл бұрын

@@Opal5674 still not worth it for men. You'll lose custody 92% of the time. If you have multiple properties half of it is gone and decades of work out the window. Divorce is 50% and 80% of the time it's filed by woman. There doesn't even have to be a good reason anymore cuz of no fault divorce. Men are often stuck in sexless marriage which then push them to cheat. Woman make money now but their average is still sound 40-50k and most men don't even care about her money because her money is her money and your money is y'all money. If men are so desperate for marriage they should continue to go to the east where they find more success. What does a woman offer a men that he can't outsource for or do for himself

@Opal5674

2 жыл бұрын

@@benjohnson8231 Lmao I open my comment with more women file for divorce and then you add it to your own comment anyway like a robot because you are so used to giving that speech. Go ahead and outsource. I've seen the kind of men that get mail order brides and they are a sad desperate lot. A man at work recently told me he hadn't seen his Nigerian wife in 3 years and couldn't get divorced. She wanted a green card and he fell for it hook line and sinker. Half the time those agencies take your money and you don't even get the woman or of you do she disappears.

@beebee_0136

2 жыл бұрын

@@Opal5674 "... _but women are the ones that want out of marriage more_ ..." Going by your *own* logic and claim that "most" women are, in fact, "unhappy", don't you think these are all the more reasons why the general consensus by women should lean towards a resounding "No" in response to the question: 'Should you get married'? So, why is this not the case?

@Opal5674

2 жыл бұрын

@@beebee_0136 Women don't know they are going to be unhappy before they marry. They are brought up on a fairy tale. Some do fear it if their parents had a really bad relationship or if they've seen to many bad relationships.

50 50 probability? Nope. It takes two to make a relationship and one to break it.

I will figure this out

Simple response to JP. No, see how the current generation and future view it, it's a death trap.

@iliya2098

2 жыл бұрын

Could you explain what's wrong about it?

The question of before thinking about Marriage should be "Do you want kids" if you do then you will think of marriage. If you don't, you don't care about marriage.

60-90% Divorce rate initiated by women. Yikes.... 90% is if she has a Master's degree or higher

@M.Sid9.3

2 жыл бұрын

marry a traditional woman. marriage is a religious sacrament blessed by God Almighty.

@Macheako

2 жыл бұрын

Just don't sign any papers, though you still need to pay attention to these lame laws that just ASSUME you're married after X number of years.

@Cybertech134

2 жыл бұрын

@@M.Sid9.3 Society isn't built for woman to remain traditional and virtuous anymore. And the only way to really tell if your woman is evil or not is when it's too late.

@ferndog1461

2 жыл бұрын

@@M.Sid9.3 " traditional women " succumb to the whispers of their Western friends.

@piersclarkson9712

2 жыл бұрын

@@M.Sid9.3 know of plenty of Christian girls who have dumped hubby number one....

In some cultures it's either marriage or you're celibate and single. In that realm, the answer is always yes, but ofcourse to a matching person.

My advice to marriage. Don’t do it.

I regret getting married, I only got married because I felt I had something to my parents, family and others. I was in a very dark place at the time, my biggest regret in life was thinking that marriage was for me.

Even though there are no guarantees that marriage will last, i still think it is a beautiful thing and if you find someone who is willing to put in the work (and you put in the work as well), it is worth it in the end. My parents had a shitty marriage partly due to my dad (my mom isnt a saint) but i see my aunt and uncles marriage, it gives me hope.

@onichanyi9214

2 жыл бұрын

SUGESTION.LIVE #однако #я #люблю #таких #рыбаков #Интересно, #забавно #девушка #смешная #垃圾

@JoseDiaz-rd9fh

2 жыл бұрын

Hope can be a dangerous thing. We live in much different times today women are taught that men are disposable in many are treating them that way. It's not that I'm against dealing with women it's simply the cost to men it's not worth it

@AdamSchelenbergCom

2 жыл бұрын

I don't like the idea of treating a marriage as a job. We have jobs after all, why would you go back after job to another at home.

@robbenvanpersie1562

2 жыл бұрын

@@jasmitharani8918 not all men its just due to some men same goes for women

@centralprocessingunit4988

2 жыл бұрын

beauty shouldnt matter. this is why people have such poor lifestyles. life is about survival and efficiency and progression, not beauty. if people had their priorities right there would be less marriage and less religion and less broken people and less wastes of life.

I was prepared for the heat in marriage but not the kind of heat where the other person won't ever discuss the heat. That is a heat that is unbearable and unfixable and to have to walk away from that is excruciating.

If you love someone and respect yourself and your partner then you're as good as married. Save your money. Enjoy life. ❤

Still going through divorce. Recommendation to my son: No.

@CLANK...

2 жыл бұрын

Result: son robbed of any chance to have a healthy, thriving, love filled marriage because his dad projected his experiences onto him. Teach him why your marriage went wrong, that he may avoid those mistakes, dont teach him to avoid marriage all togther based on your bad experience.

@centralprocessingunit4988

2 жыл бұрын

@@CLANK... or just teach that he shouldnt get married, whether he is a good person or not, its better for both.

@goblinsgym

2 жыл бұрын

@@CLANK... That is the upside, maybe 10 to 15% of cases. The downside, in ~ 50% of cases, is divorce, also known as indentured servitude for men.

@CLANK...

2 жыл бұрын

@@goblinsgym so what is it about those 10 - 15% that work? Lets figure that out and teach it to our kids

@jerrybruckhart9134

2 жыл бұрын

@@CLANK... "so what is it about those 10 - 15% that work? Lets figure that out and teach it to our kids" In nearly all cases I could answer that for you, but you likely wouldn't like the answer.

Me vino a la cabeza el tema de Cordera : "Hasta el sol parece frío Si te invade la creencia Que el amor es en esencia Otra forma de prisión" Aprendió a Volar - Gustavo Cordera

Things are complicated .. indeed!

@NYC-ln9qd

2 жыл бұрын

That's right. No man with good sense wants to tie himself down with marriage.

I recommend reading Timothy Kellers "the meaning of marriage". It's a great book.

I don't live in the west but at this point I thunk the western men have give up on the idea of marriage , hell if they didn't go mgtow

@onichanyi9214

2 жыл бұрын

SUGESTION.LIVE #однако #я #люблю #таких #рыбаков #Интересно, #забавно #девушка #смешная #垃圾

@Macheako

2 жыл бұрын

not at all. We'd just like a goddamn WORKING Definition......enough with all this crap abstract verbiage....

@yass-1323

2 жыл бұрын

@@Macheako my English isn't that good could you please explain what do you mean

@Macheako

2 жыл бұрын

@@yass-1323 Yea, no problem. The term "Marriage" ends up having "Multiple Definitions" in our multi-cultured society. Do we take the Christian definition? The Jewish one? What about people over here from the middle east? Do we adopt THEIR definition of "Marriage" ? But ultimately, here, Marriage just boils down to: "The Set Of Laws Associated With Signing A Marriage Contract" which is no good for romance lol 😂

Part of me would just love to find the man of my dreams and settle down and all that but I haven't been able to find a boyfriend in 6 years let alone get an engagement proposal, so part of me is just like "it doesn't even matter" and I'm just going to live out my life and see what happens

@-whackd

2 жыл бұрын

It should be easy to find a boyfriend if you're fit and healthy, unless you need to change locations.

@wyleecoyotee4252

2 жыл бұрын

@We are all One It's easy to find any guy, but a suitable man for pairing is next to Impossible to find

@bootscooty

2 жыл бұрын

@@wyleecoyotee4252 this seems to be the issue I'm experiencing

@troymark2298

2 жыл бұрын

- most modern women give there prime years to chads then want a betta simp to mop up and pay for their free ride through life only to divorce once she’s financially secured by having kids then bang - she’s off chasing chads around again and a skanky single mom .... nah thanks

@Mishkola

2 жыл бұрын

@@troymark2298 too much of your worldview is extracted from bitter people on the internet. Also, a 'betta' is a fish; 'beta' is the pop-psych word you're looking for.

Marriage at current is a risky and bad deal for men. The odds of a good and rewarding outcome are very low. There are more men that are happily divorced or single than that are happily married. Marriage can give a guy family, a great love affair and purpose. We all hope for that. But most likely he will get distroyed in family court. There is no way of knowing how a women will respond when she falls out of love or finds a new love. It's a gamble. Most women's commitment is only as deep as thier happiness. When they are no longer happy, they are no longer committed.

Damn Chris, how many segments are you cutting this interview into? You already put timestamps in the video of the whole interview.

50 percent of marriages don’t work, I think you can be adults and stay with one person with out signing a contract and if there’s problems in a relationship work through it if you actually care about the person… and don’t get me started on spending a ton of money on weddings and rings etc… but that’s just my opinion… all about your perspective

I agree that the average couple needs to get married as the concept of commitment has been twisted and perverted. But my boyfriend and I just celebrated our 14th year together. I’ve only ever been with him, we met in high school. I don’t want the piece of paper, the government has no place in my relationship and the fact that there are so many state or federal benefits makes me very weary. We’ve committed to each other and stayed committed. I think if two people want to be together more than they want to go on some kind of wild goose chase for their narrow version of perfection then they will stay together. No piece of paper will solve that.

@M.Sid9.3

2 жыл бұрын

marry each other with 2 witnesses in the sight of God. no paperwork needed.

@Macheako

2 жыл бұрын

wow........good for you chick. For real lol. You sound like the kind of woman I'd wanna clone 😂😂 if I could lol I wish you and your man the best

@RedPillLife1966

2 жыл бұрын

What state are you in?. After 10 you are considered "Married' by the state.

@fashioniconjaylienkay

2 жыл бұрын

Congratulations Marianne. My wife and I are 16 years together. It's lovely to see people who can retain a tight bond especially these days. Much Peace to you both!

@robertmaxa6631

2 жыл бұрын

This is my personal opinion, of course. I believe "other" co-habitating arrangements will be treated "as married", like "common law", in the future, since marriage rates, and in turn divorce rates, are falling. We gotta keep divorce lawyers in business, after all.

No

By his own admission, this Negotiating Position is a fantasy that is fully stacked against men. JBP how do you negotiate when she has 50% of your assets and has 100% of her Box? Is there a societal incentive for her not to negotiate in good faith? Let's cut the BS please.

@blackmanops3749

2 жыл бұрын

He gets it. He has even acknowledged that women must change family court and that the presumption must be 50/50 custody. At least that is what I recall hearing from him.

@jasmitharani8918

2 жыл бұрын

Women finds hard time finding a mate after their break up while men tend to make more money as they age, still find young women to marry. Women pays hidden punishments while men pays visible punishments.

Married for 21 years, 4 children........love my wife and enjoy my marriage but I would not do it again. The pressure of the family commitment is too much most days, when that person or your children get sick or face the hard hits of life it breaks you. I would suggest to stay single and not take this course of action. All said, if I did not have a spouse and family I would have pulled the trigger on myself a while ago.

@beeticket

Жыл бұрын

It sounds like you honor your duty of always being the rock of your family, but do you have anyone to talk to about the stress it causes you? I think you should open up to someone you trust about the emotional toll it takes in you. Your comment seems like a cry for help.

@crgtylr

Жыл бұрын

@@beeticket Nice insight, I don't have anyone. Running Han Solo. 🙂

Don't get married. I scan through the comments and they are the exceptions. The rule is that she will take at least half of your money along with the kids, 60 to 80% of the time . Build your skillset and wealth. If you want kids, get a surrogate.

@expatwealthasia8702

2 жыл бұрын

💯 spot on

@zenden6564

2 жыл бұрын

👏👏👏👏👏👏

@takemichi6870

2 жыл бұрын

No surrogacy, coz it's exploitation of poor financial weak women by rich people, rather Adopt a kid.

It’s simple, if you wanna get married, you will have to be smart for both of you.

Thanks J.P I love you

Getting rid of alimony would be a good step in the right direction.

@wyleecoyotee4252

2 жыл бұрын

@jasmitha rani It means a they need a high paying career to leave. Oh ya...most do now

@aygwm

2 жыл бұрын

@@jasmitharani8918 no, it means they need to focus on keeping their man. Jesus

@SightForMemories

2 жыл бұрын

@@aygwm what man are you that decides for another, to inflict damage to a relationship?

@jasmitharani8918

2 жыл бұрын

@@SightForMemories survival comes first before Jesus!

@whatoc334

2 жыл бұрын

I don't think we should get rid of Alimony but Alimony after like 20 -30 years of marriage, if the wife quit career to raise the children and take care of the home she should be looked after, because who would hire someone who hasn't been working for 20 years. However, let's say you both got married in your 20s, found out it didn't work by your 30s then I don't think signing a piece of paper to someone should ruin you financially. That person is in their 30s they can take care of themselves. Also, my husband makes less money than me, so Id get wrecked if we got divorced (but I understand why the law is there).