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@tigger4011

8 ай бұрын

Why do your videos not have a SAVE button, please? If i want to switch to watch on my TV it's a lot quicker to find something if it's saved to a playlist.

@TheRosiebeam

8 ай бұрын

Jimmy Carr has watched a few Andrew Tate video's n now he's ready for podcasts

@GadgetsPhoneHub

8 ай бұрын

14:34 to 14:45 it’s frozen Chris, might wanna tweak it, cheers

@tigger4011

8 ай бұрын

@@TheRosiebeam Eh? He's been doing them for years. Check out the list on his website.

@CONEHEADDK

8 ай бұрын

Seriously, dude - you should (if you dare) have some Co2 realists in the studio. It could be me, but that wouldn't change anybody's minds, so I suggest some of the mean scientists like fx Willy Soon, just to mention one.

Shoutout to Chris, Son of William, for being the one podcast host over 1m followers that doesn't constantly interrupt the guests.

@TheMightyMidget

8 ай бұрын

I like this podcast as well since Chris seems to go in with the specific intention to pull out and work round the mental processes and congregate knowledge of his guests. Whereas someone like Rogan who I also like might have a roadmap or topics he wants to hit but I don’t feel he had questions prepped as compared to Chris; both are great at letting guests speak. I remember RFK a few months back actually complimenting Joe on it and it was a wholesome moment.

@odoylerules4503

8 ай бұрын

AMEN

@HunterSeesCreative

8 ай бұрын

Lex Fridman is another one of the true greats

@Greginlaseries

8 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@thestuff4321

8 ай бұрын

Jimmy barely let Joe get a word in on JRE

I must have been naive, but I didn’t realize how intelligent and well spoken Jimmy Carr was off-stage. I really enjoyed this discussion! Very insightful.

@B0Davis

8 ай бұрын

All successful comedians are intelligent. Comes with the territory.

@benjaminbradley780

8 ай бұрын

Not that intelligent - he had to pay the taxes in the end. And we'd all definitely be capable of doing more and thus, living a fulfilling life. However Jimmy, we have to pay a large amount of this thing called tax - don't know if you've heard of it. But it tends to take our money and limit to some degree our capacity and fulfilment in life

@elvisleeboy

8 ай бұрын

​@@benjaminbradley780I'd question the intelligence of someone addressing Jimmy Carr directly in a KZread comment, particularly when it is a reply to someone else's.

@PazLeBon

7 ай бұрын

@@elvisleeboy if i was guest on a podor programme i suspect id watch the pod and view peoples comments.

@deemulcahy6553

7 ай бұрын

If you become a famous comedian and be relevant for years then you’re going to be very intelligent

I second what Jimmy said at the beginning. I’ve actually implemented a lot of small things mentioned in different episodes of this podcast and my life has improved dramatically. Thanks Chris.

@djVania08

8 ай бұрын

You can be specific. :)

@alexanderyekhanin8830

8 ай бұрын

Could you give an example please? :)

6 ай бұрын

1miljon%

6 ай бұрын

@@alexanderyekhanin8830 Here's a couple: 1. Competence without confidence = a lack of belief Confidence without Competence= self-delusion. 2. The first step to achieving a massive dream is conquering tiny impulses.

Already, @ 4:26 "you can work for anything in life as opposed to you can have anything is the difference between ambition and entitlement" such a well worded thought.

this was probably the best podcast I have ever listened to. Jimmy Carr just blew me away - I didn't expect him to be such a smart, thoughtful, sensitive person. I savoured every word, learnt much and just so much fell into place listening to this. thank you

@jetnavigator

6 ай бұрын

Carr goes into the garbage bin of fascists over his covid stance. Utterly detestable.

@RorschachRev

5 ай бұрын

​@@jetnavigatorit is a math problem you obviously don't understand. death rate, disability rate, sequential damage, cumulative damage, etc. PhysicsGirl has been bed ridden for weeks and she is young and normally healthy

"Its easy for me to say, I'm rich and famous baby" Is something you don't hear said enough from rich and famous people. Loved Jimmy Carr when i was growing up, dude seems pretty genuine.

@welshgruff

8 ай бұрын

Just wish he would pay his fair share of tax so as not to increase the burden on those who are not rich and famous.

@Station9.75

8 ай бұрын

@@welshgruff- Even if they did the government would piss it all up the wall and find other means of keeping you poor. It’s all by design.

@gambar

8 ай бұрын

Genuine and highly intelligent. Gotta love this bloke.

@gambar

8 ай бұрын

@@welshgruff LMAO, do you really think that tax money is there to help the ones in need? You can't be THAT naive...

@OldManShoutsAtClouds

8 ай бұрын

​@gambar do you really think that the rich and famous not paying taxes doesn't result in higher taxes for the poor sods just trying to survive each paycheck? Certainly you can't be that naive...

I never expected Jimmy was capable of this. He is brilliant.

@rhenriksen

8 ай бұрын

To be such a concise, tight wordsmith requires a keen mind and a sharp command of language. I expected nothing less when I saw that he was the guest here 😊👍🏻

@europa_bambaataa

8 ай бұрын

which parts did you like? I tried the first 30 min & I'm still sorta waiting for the good part

@benn125m

8 ай бұрын

As Jordan Peterson said to him , comedy requires incredible amount of intellect.

@nathanrosman-bakehouse359

8 ай бұрын

​@@europa_bambaataa31 minutes in

@Rjmc19

8 ай бұрын

I’m surprised as well! Pleasantly so too. This felt like a mind massage. So great to see him, a chap not at work, just talking. One of my favourite podcast episodes ever.

I just finished listening to this on Spotify and came here to write this comment. This might just be the best podcast you've done, and maybe one of the best podcasts I've ever heard! The both of you are hitting some great points here. I loved the bit about the guy who loses his leg, as it it a story I can relate to deeply. I had an accident back in 2019, leaving me paralysed and have used it as a catalyst to make huge improvements in my lifestyle, such as giving up alcohol and tobacco and starting to workout and eat healthy, a huge story of personal growth and I have to say this episode has truly resonated with me on a profound level. It's incredible how adversity can be a catalyst for positive change in one's life. I want to thank both you and Jimmy for this truly enlightening conversation. It's discussions like these that make me keep coming back to your podcast. Keep up the fantastic work, and I look forward to more episodes that touch hearts and inspire positive transformations. Thank you for sharing such meaningful content!

@PazLeBon

7 ай бұрын

idrink and smoke more ans see that as personal growth cos thats what i wanted to do

@mazzy1959

7 ай бұрын

Excellent comment, well done to you! Adversity really can be the great catalyst, exactly. Keep up the good work mate 👍🏼

@FreddotheWheelchairGuy

7 ай бұрын

@@mazzy1959 thanks so much. It’s like a comment I hear Chris using often, How is the worst thing that ever happened to you, the best thing that ever happened to you? Challenge yourself to come up with an answer, the mind is very powerful 😉

@mazzy1959

7 ай бұрын

@@FreddotheWheelchairGuy I certainly will, that's really something to challenge ourselves, myself on there. Thank you for the reply, I appreciate it. All the best to you ☺

@thumper1747

7 ай бұрын

I said the same after I watched him on the Rogan podcast. I’ve got a 30 year old son and a 33 year old daughter, both are their own journey and both will receive selected gems from this conversation in the form of clips posted on individual streamed albums - just to make sure they hear what I’ve heard. Jimmy is brilliant and a lot of commentators here use words like insightful and thoughtful, it’s no coincidence

Dude you're hitting some high level guests! Loving it!

I am amazed and mesmerized by the intellectual depth of Jimmy Carr. I was literally taking notes throughout the podcast.

What a great conversation between these two men. I had no idea Jimmy Carr was so insightful

@cashflow3465

8 ай бұрын

I read his book and was pleasantly surprised how deep he is.

@karlmoody4891

8 ай бұрын

Most high-level comedians are.

@garrygrant2394

8 ай бұрын

Jimmy Carr is a very bright guy like many great comedians. Didn't realise he was so optimistic though.

@MeneerHerculePoirot

7 ай бұрын

Jimmy Carr went to Cambridge and graduated with first class honors. He's no lightweight.

Wow. I love Modern Wisdom, but this particular conversation has taken it to the next level. I actually took notes so I could remember all the talking points. Incredible.

@Ochtone

8 ай бұрын

Agreed

@AlbertoBalsalme

8 ай бұрын

Agreed with comment right above, it'd be great to see the quotes that impacted you the most!

Having listened to many of your podcasts, it's never struck me just how good your sound editing is (or whatever it's called in the business). Everything is beautifully clear and so easy to listen to.

I have to say that one of my favorite things about this podcast are the brief moments of silence in between the talking. It's refreshing to hear a podcast or talk show that doesn't need to be full of constant, frantic chatter. Quite relaxing actually.

@Miss_Atlantis

4 ай бұрын

I wholeheartedly agree! And they do serve a role and purpose as well! And pervasive cuts and edits to remove the silences in editing can be quite frantic and bothersome too!

"Charm isn't someone you like it's someone you think will like you. Charisma is you come to me. Charm is I come to you." - Jimmy Carr

I love hearing Jimmy speak earnestly and thoughtfully like this

The interview starts.. And Jimmy starts interviewing. LOVE THIS ❤

I always used to think Jimmy was a one dimensional comic back in the day. Boy am I wrong about that today. I've learned so much from him the last few years. What an enlightened individual. Thanks for the podcast. Big love, kindest regards, Richard U.K

@CherryDiMilo

8 ай бұрын

Great that you think that but funny how I thought back then he must be intelligent and on point just by listening to his jokes and thought process...😊... crazy how people see things differently...

@RichardRatner.1972

8 ай бұрын

@@CherryDiMilo I was so young as he was when I used to not think much of him. He's certainly the man now. All the best buddy. Kindest regards

@PazLeBon

7 ай бұрын

thats cos YOU were one dimensional, oh the irony haha

Jimmy is right. We need to combine creative writing and public speaking as a course in all schools. True skills to take into any avenue

This is my favourite interview you’ve done, Chris, along with EVERY SINGLE ONE with Alex Hormozi 👑 It’s so nice to see you’re listening and not interrupting, unlike many other podcast hosts. You genuinely seem interested, which is refreshing. Great effort!

“You can have anything, but you can’t have everything.”

I’ve followed and adored standup comedy for 24 of my 39yrs, and Jimmy is the first one I’ve seen/enjoyed who is great on stage, but somehow an optimist off stage. Normally great comics are also hardened cynics, and many of them can’t have these deep conversations. So this entire podcast was eye opening and engaging. 🍻 ❤️ Keep doing what you’re doing, CW. There’s not enough positive content circulating on the internet.

32:15 As a venezuelan, I highly appreciate this guy for saying it in a platform like this. Had not seen anyone before mention it.

Always been a big fan of Jimmy - But i've got to say this is without a doubt one of your best podcasts. You touched on so many topics that i'm currently feeling/interested in. Also, when you mentioned "Personal Growth Guilt", it was like music to my ears hearing that. I've never thought about it potentially having a name and being something that other people are feeling, because i've been struggling with this for a couple of years now. Thank you for this.

I’ve seen Jimmy Carr perform multiple times in New York and Hong Kong. I got to meet him in person after a show at the Comedy Cellar. He is genuinely a good dude and very friendly. I didn’t know he was so thoughtful and perceptive.

I find it interesting how comedians such as Jimmy Carr, Jim Carrey, etc almost always have much more thoughtful and intellectually deep perspectives than dramatic actors.

@Undoing88

8 ай бұрын

Maybe it's all in the name? Can't be coincidence. Guess I'll name my kid James Carrington in the name of science.

@MadelaineGerman

8 ай бұрын

I think it’s the live v. camera performance of the comedian v. dramatic actor types. Comedians live by their wit, raw courage to be themselves and their political savvy. Dramatic actors live by their looks, publicity, egoic manipulation and ability to pretend to be other people. They’re both valid games, but comedians seem more like battle-scarred war veterans whereas dramatic actors feel like well-coiffed courtesans.

@YourPalHDee

8 ай бұрын

It's almost as if somebody who creates art for a living is inherently more intelligent and valuable than somebody who imitates art for a living 🤔 Who'd have guessed?

@odoylerules4503

8 ай бұрын

real comedy requires intelligence and emotional intelligence

@rhenriksen

8 ай бұрын

A comedian both writes his own material, and performs it. An actor just performs.

Such a remarkable culture this show has grown!

I put yesterday that your conversation with Steven Bartlett was my favourite podcast of 2023, I was wrong, it’s this one. Fantastic conversation that I didn’t want to end.

Totally agree with you Jimmy!! 💥 Chris doesn’t talk about himself enough. We watch you Chris because your content and delivery is fabulous but also because we connect to you as a person. You are a good friend to some of us and therefore completely interested in you and your journey ❤

I once met a woman with 8 children and she named all of them Alex, she said it was easier... Alex come and do the dishes and 3 of them come, I said what if you want to speak to 1 of them? She said I just use their last name.

@icarusjumped2719

8 ай бұрын

I think thats a bit of a comment on the modern woman.

@Lawrence-tw6yc

8 ай бұрын

@icarusjumped2719 it was a joke but you're probably correct

@MuhammadVilchez

7 ай бұрын

Brutal🤣🤣

@tommygun6559

2 ай бұрын

Jimmy Carr is on this podcast, right?

@GR_BackingTracks

10 күн бұрын

Irish joke

This is one of the most authentic podcast episodes I've seen!!

Chris, by far the best conversation you’ve brought to us, thank you to yourself and your guest. Thoughtful beyond boundaries. So many topics in one conversation and as such worthy of a relisten, and contemplation, probably several times over. Relistening tomorrow morning during a workout with my box friends doing “The Impossible Mile Challenge”.

Hey Chris. First off as a 29 year old who has struggled to find people who want to think about the expanse in more than just complaining about politics or sports teams, i appreciate what you have built here. More than just the podcast but the community around the show in creating a unique way for many to connect. I think it’s super important given that most of us have adapted to hiding our interest in these topics probably since our early adolescence as most of our peers had no interest in this type of thinking. I think you need to understand that as you grow, you’re not only sharing insights but sharing people like Jimmy Carr who clearly share a similar passion and make the rest of us understand that we can tap into that part of our lives and there are others out that you can engage with for extended period of time and build relationships upon. Sincerely, thank you for that. I just also wanted to throw something out there regarding free will and predeterminism. What if people weren’t much different than the atoms that make them up. Quantum mechanics looks at the probability of an atom being in one place but doesn’t say exactly where it would be because of its complex existence. What if the possibility of choice is predetermined for us but there is a level of free will that determines which choices are made and determines the ultimate outcome. Schrödinger’s Free Will problem if you will.

I beg to differ, Jimmy - you are phenomenally charming - what kindness, humility, capacity to truly see others!! I'm completely won over!

Man, minute 50:00. I teared up for a bit. I think something clicked when I heard this idea of being thankful to those people and things that happened to you (some sort of traumas) as they might be a good reason for your biggest accomplishments in life. Cheers to that Chris! I lowkey think finally managed to touch on something that I had somewhat unresolved for a while.

@jaymz5577

6 ай бұрын

I agree. First, I just started listening to Chris a few weeks ago. I've loved every one of the episodes so far. I haven't listened to this whole episode yet, but I had to stop after the topic at 50:00. I was also that only child who felt alone and didn't have a lot of friends. To entertain the idea of sitting down with my tormentors and saying thank you.... I'm not there yet. That's a lot to think about.

Such an amazing conversation. I share your podcasts to friends on a regular basis so that I can have these types of talks as much as possible. Big fan Chris. Thank you 🙏🏽.

Such an amazing conversation. The synchronicity and the depth of this episode is something else!

Jimmy Carr is remarkably intelligent. Refreshing. I love listening to two people wrestle with the unquantifiable problems we all face. Took a lot from this, looking forward to the live show in Nobember.

this interview increased my respect for Jimmy Carr soo much. I already admired his dry sense of humor but his thoughts and their clarity just gives me goosebumps. I can only hope and strive to get there one day.

possibly the best conversation yet. insightful, informative and thoroughly enjoyable. thank you both.

This podcast episode is a work of art. Not gonna lie Jimmy blew me out of the water. The pauses, the pace, the subjects discussed, it was an awe inspiring display of sincerity that I have never seen. Keep up the good work Chris, you are doing an amazing job.

I listened last night to Jimmy Carr on the Joe Rogan show in and now this one. Thought Jimmy was a bit nervous with Joe. This is a much better interview….. you are a better interviewer…….Brilliant

Jimmy Carr is a brilliant comedian and a philosopher 🏆 👏

@YourPalHDee

8 ай бұрын

Echoing the ideas of other philosophers that you've read, doesn't make you a philosopher. He's just smart enough to understand beneficial philosophies.

Chris, you and your shows are so inspiring. If others could actually take the time to think and converse like this imagine the problems we could solve. What a great guy Jimmy is and thanks to him for being on the show. Some of his comments remind me a book I just read. "Time and the Art of Living" by Robert Grudin. Thanks again.

Modern Wisdom is rapidly becoming my favourite podcast, outstanding guests and the perfect interview style. Keep it coming!

Thank you for doing this! Jimmy is such a brilliant thinker and comedian!!

Thank you Chris and Jimmy ❤, already on my 3rd listen and sent shared links 🔗to this episode to all of my friends & family.

This podcast is amazing (new subscriber), ive taken so much energy from this. And will probably come back to this when i get a bit stuck. Came up with my own quote im gonna use from now on. "The obstacles that you face are usually the ones you have put there in the first place"

If you follow enough of these podcasts, you can see how much these guys reiterate their stories and concepts.

Thanks Chris and Jimmy! This dialogue was extremely insightful and inspiring. Keep doing what you're doing brother. The world needs it!

The amount of effort and money you invest into your set is bonkers. Visual perfection. Well done 🙌

@ok_roman

8 ай бұрын

Could be a green screen and virtual set. You can tell these days.

What a goddamn pleasant suprise. I've always appreciated Carr, but never go into his comedy too much. That being said, this episode was an absolute gem. Great perspective, breathe of fresh air hearing his outlook on a multitude of topics with humor sprinkled in. Great episode.

This was pure gold! From both of you! Thank you Chris!

Even near the very end this was an interesting interview. Love it when two ppl connect and interrupt and bounce off each other like this. Heard a few new thoughts that will influence me for quite a while. Thanks

This idea of a mini podcast with the newsletter is an amazing idea. I love your newsletters and more people should know them.

I love these settings with the lighting and everyting. its perfect

For a guy who stood up for mosquitoes needlessly dying of aids in Africa, Jimmy's quite a lovely guy. Thank you for this conversation.

Great episode this. Listened earlier by subscribing on Spotify! Jimmy Carr is a great podcast guest and you brought a lot out of him. Cheers Chris 😄

So much said in this podcast just makes sens . I was wondering what was happening to me in the past years, suddenly i had a feeling that i am not in the right place ,i am not doing the right things. This year a lot if personal growth took place ,trough books , sudden thirst of knowledge, ideas, podcasts like yours. The fully developed brain part hit me when listening, and it just nakes sens. Grateful to be alive when all this information is out there and free to just soak it in. Thank you ❤

Absolutely fantastic! Worth every second. Thanks Chris 🙏🙏👏👏

Wasn’t expecting such profound conversation on this talk. Solid

This is by far my favourite episode you've done

How ironic that while standing in line at the Paramount door for Jimmy's 7:00pm show in Austin, I realized that @chris was three people in front of me - and then saw the next day this podcast dropped 😅 I love your show, was tempted to tell you last night but didn't want to break in.

Man, I really needed this one today. Thank you, Chris & Mr. Carr

Another great talk Chris! Thanks so much!

I have always thought Jimmy Carr is a brilliant comedian. Thanks for showing us that he is brilliant, full stop.

Thanks! Love your pod

I wasn’t expecting Jimmy to be as insightful, before this I used to find his content entertaining, now I find it enriching. Thanks Jimmy, and thanks Chris :)

Chris, you really are an amazing interviewer. And you seem like a genuinely good person. I'm right there with you on being an only child and dealing with the tormentors in the past. And seeking genuine, actual friendships. Too bad you don't live closer! But keep up the good work! I just found you a few weeks ago, and with each episode I watch, I'm more impressed.

This was an informative and helpful conversation. Thank you gents 🤙

seriously AMAZING podcast - one of your top 10 for sure!

Holy crap that was good, definitely listening to that a few times, packed with useful advice and information, well done both of you👏🏼

Amazing podcast with Jimmy. He is a really intelligent guy. Would love to see more of him. You guys resonate well. Loved every second of it ❤

My son introduced your podcast to me about 2 months ago. Bravo, Chris Williamson! I enjoy your podcast very much. I learn a little bit, laugh a little bit, and get to know guests a little bit more than I did before. Your interview style is unique and captivating! Thank you for doing what you do! I look forward to more . . .

1:57:07 - “There’s nothing you could buy in a shopping mall that you would give a fuck about in 10 years.”

Jimmy Carr is awesome thanks for the chat

That was outstanding gents! Easily the best podcast episode I've ever had the pleasure of listening to.

This has been the most unexpected, interesting, entertaining and educational podcast/KZread video I have yet watched. Well done

Love the explanation of what the difference is between envy and jealousy!

I find it fascinating how much wisdom many comedians carry. Truly the archetype of king’s jester being the source of truth exists for a reason. I would love to see EP’s take on humor and the how is comical ability and wit tied to extracting knowledge and truth from lived experience.

@vladutzuli

8 ай бұрын

It's impossible to be funny if you have the same perspective as everybody else. The humour comes from subverting their reality, which you can only do if you see it from a different angle than them.

Two of my favorites, both top drawer in their respective fields, great to see them together.

By listening to Jimmy I could clearly hear that he is an avid listener of the podcast by the simmilarities in mindset and mental models that he has about some of the ideas that slowly emerge over time from your show. Amazing guest and really out of the blue in terms of quality for me. Loved the frame change upon anxiety, that’s a useful gem. Thank you for this!

Thank you Chris, love what you do and thank you for introducing me to Jimmy Carr, love him!!

One of the better conversations I have ever gotten to listen to. Dense with wisdom.

Thank you for always bringing the best content possible for everyone. I have watched a few videos while I’m on my work computer and keep thinking “oh I’ll remember to subscribe later on after I drive home from work” as we aren’t allowed to sign in to KZread on the office computers. Finally subscribed, I’m sure there are many more viewers that are in the same boat. I’m wishing you to have as many subscribers as you want. 👍

What an amazing discussion. So many brilliant ideas and concepts.

Awesome episode, as always! Jimmy is extremely honest and charismatic. On making decisions today to make a better tomorrow - Jimmy said he "has always been quite good to himself," so I didn't expect him to dive too deep on personal darkness. The reason many people can listen to this and not gain anything is because they aren't in an emotional state to even consider getting out of bed at a decent time, never mind having a salad instead of a donut for lunch. In my experience, I'd make those changes and act completely irrationally. I'd have so much misdirected energy that I would say the strangest things to people and literally be jumping over handrails and shit, just because I didn't know where to focus myself. This is what is working for me: Eat half the donut today, watch your behavior throughout the day and write about it. Figure out where to direct your energy to produce outcomes that you want. When you feel you can navigate your emotions with just half a donut, eat a quarter of the donut and repeat the process. Meditation has been huge for me, in that just sitting with my emotions allows them to run their course and helps me target where they are coming from. "Doing literally nothing" is one of the most productive things I've found and I make time for it, at least, 15 minutes a day. Highlight your resentment, sadness and anger so you can clearly see when you're unconsciously reacting to things when interacting with the world. This is why writing is crucial to me for being able to accurately measure those "emotional metrics." They have become the most valuable metrics in my life. I think that every self-destructive behavior I've had/still have serves to protect myself from feeling things I don't want to feel. Betraying those parts of myself that were protecting me through substance abuse/food/compulsive behaviors entirely, at a moment's notice, would cause me to swing much deeper into the behavior after a few days because I had no compass of how to cope with the things I was feeling without them. It takes time to develop a vision for yourself and redirect your energy towards things that move you in the direction you really want to go. It's slowly relearning who you actually are, being gentle with all aspects of yourself and understanding the parts that tell you you need to smoke, drink, eat, etc. Hear where these parts of you are coming from and teach them that the things they believe to be true about the world can be revised to create a better life for them. It's learning how to navigate the world through your new, cleaner, lens. Hope this helps. Keep em coming, Chris.

@Kgothatso97

8 ай бұрын

I read this probably 3 times and could resonate a lot with the part about betraying past self destructive behavior then find yourself overdoing or over indulging in those actions. I didn't think that those behaviors served to protect me from feelings I didn't not want to feel so that's a new revelation. Slowly but surely working on improving.

@abdibcak1138

5 ай бұрын

Thank for The comment my friend. This was helpful for me really. I hope you’ll be in peace.

‘Persona is incapable of receiving love. It can only receive praise.’ Genius! Thanks.

Damn Jimmy Carr is actually brilliant

Jimmy is much more insightful than I would have imagined. He was also great on JBP.

Brilliant. Thanks very much for this. Much appreciated ❤

Really enjoyed this ep. Jimmy is such an interesting guy. Happy to see this friendship happening 👊

One of my favorite conversations to ever eavesdrop on.

I'm 5 minutes into this podcast and I just had to drop a comment to appreciate the camera angles and lighting. The opening flow of the conversation had me initially hooked but this level of production adds a different dynamic in the nuance of video podcasting. I'm a late comer to this channel - just wanted to send the appreciation forward to you and your team.

@PazLeBon

7 ай бұрын

lmao

"You gotta go with what you've got, or you're not gonna go." We need a book full of Jimmy quotes.

@1hour 39 was reminded of my favorite quote. "It's not about what you achieve, it's about who you become in the process "

Jimmy Carr is a fascinating individual! I had a vastly different idea of what he was all about, and I must say I would gladly sit down and have a conversation with this gentleman. Excellent viewpoints, amazing insight! Thank you for sharing this conversation! I really enjoyed it!

Age 63. Life long learner. Flat out living life, that's where wisdom comes from. My very 1st friend from age 4, died at age 10 from non- hodgkins lymphoma. I asked my parents to take me to the funeral home, I needed to see her in her coffin. We only get one life was no great mystery to me. I needed no epiphany. No philosophy required. My closest cousin to me as a very small child, we played as toddlers, just a few months age difference, we shared the same middle name. At age 19, she was murdered, stabbed multiple times by her husband. We get one life. I'm thankful for the parents I had, such calm, stoic, realistic, not morbid, great sorrow is part of life. Wisdom comes while living life. Persevere. Try not to think too much gents. Quiet your mind, acknowledge wisdom. Live. Your intuition is always right . Always.

Such great conversation!!!!! I love you, Jimmy.