Never stop talking to my husband it helps me clear my thoughts and carry on with the daily chores, and when i ask his advice the answer will pop into my head.

Day 83. My man was my balance. My best. My gift. My everything. We were ALL IN. I cry any time of day or night. Yet, I hear him telling me to stay the course, stick with the plan. I see him looking in my eyes and saying I love you.

I miss my beloved husband so so much. I miss his texts, his calls, his voice, his love. Yes l talk to him out loud everyday and write to him. It brings me comfort. It keeps him close in my heart. I had so much more left that l wanted to say to him. I had so much more love to give. I am so glad that l have found your video. You understand grief and how a broken heart feels. Your words are a comfort to me.... 😢💔My broken heart will always cry for the man l love, and will cherish forever... My RAY was so kind and gentle, he was the best thing that ever happened to me. How l miss him..... 💔

What a wonderful video! You described my present life perfectly. Every time I leave the house, I tell Rosie where I'm going, and I usually ask her to ride along with me. (Silly, I know). When I come home, I say, "I'm home." and if anything unusual happened I tell her about it. So, I'm so happy to hear what you said about it being normal and healthy. AND, if I ask her a question, I can sometimes hear her answer in my head. And it's always in her normal voice. Thank you so much for sharing this video. It was exactly what I needed to hear today.

Lost my wife on Sept 18th to many years of MS and 2 years with Cancer. We dated for 4 years, and were married for 46 years. We were a perfect match from the beginning. I thought I was handling her loss because We knew it was inevitable, but her absence so terribly painful. She had increasing disability for the last nearly 10 years and over the final 6 months began to have difficulty talking, especially in the final months. I did everything I could to make her happy and comfortable. I talk to her every day as I go about my chores, or driving somewhere. I tell her what is happening with me and our Sons, Daughter-in-law and Grandson...but mostly I tell her that I MISS HER so very much. I have listened to a variety of these Grief videos...sometimes I think I am doing ok...but then I realize that I'm not. I loved her so much and miss her more.

@lifelosshope

7 ай бұрын

Roger that’s heartbreaking for you to miss your dear wife so much.. understandable as the depth of your love comes across in your words ❤️ We are never prepared for the shocking reality of death .. even when we expecting it . Sending love 💕 x you’re not alone

I speak with my granny... She passed away 2 months ago... I'm devasted, I was her caretaker, I miss her every minute of my life... I'm alone in the universe...

This is the second video of yours that I have watched, as I just found you tonight. You came up in my feed on you tube. I listen to you, and say yes, that is exactly how I feel. More so than anyone else I have watched, so thank you! I do smell Don's pillow, but not for his after shave. I can sometimes get the scent of him on that pillow. I loved his scent. When he passed, I didn't change that pillow case for months. And when I had to change my cell phone, they said they wouldn't be able to save the voice mails. I had 2 of his vm that I had saved for quite a while, so I had my neighbor copy them to her phone, then email it to my computer. So now I have them saved on my computer and can play them now and then. To hear his voice is everything to me. I talk to him often and say goodnight the same way we used to do. Probably would look crazy to most people, but I don't care. I miss him so much, and these things make him feel close. It will be 3 years this January, and I'm still doing these things. We were married for 30 years, and I'm 75 now, and still feel very married to him. I miss his presence, and these things make him feel more present. With no family, and we did everything together, it is very lonely now. I'm so glad that I found your channel. Subscribed after the first video. Thank you.

@lifelosshope

8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for your thoughts.. I love the way you talk about Don and how you keep him close to you by listening to the voicemails and long to capture his scent.. you are not crazy at all .. it’s poignant and beautiful to keep his presence alive in your life. Sending love ❤️ sorry for your loss

@caroldofflemyer1803

7 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my husband 14 months ago, and also have no family. It's devastating. We will be kind to ourselves won't we. God Bless you

@rowanmichel855

4 ай бұрын

I talk to my beautiful Husband of almost 39 years married all through the day and night I tell my Husband we are still married....just different now. Our love keeps us connected until its my time to join him. I also have no family so every milestone has been gone through by myself. I miss my Husband every second of the day. I generally dont listen to grief councilors as i do what ever feels better for me. So i will continue to talk to my Husband until we are together again.

Thank you for the information. So helpful to know im not nuts for talking to my BRIDE of 40 years. I share with family and friends that I talk to her pictures everyday. Gave up trying to hide my grief. I miss her so much. Thanks again

I lost my husband 2 years ago to covid, totally unexpected and devastating.. I talk to him everyday. 🙏 But everyday is so hard.

@lifelosshope

7 ай бұрын

That’s so tragic that your husband died from Covid.. 2 years is still considered early grief so it’s understandable you are missing him so much .. sending love 💕 x It’s tough .. you’re not alone ❤️

@naveensharmaI

6 ай бұрын

At least u had someone u loved... There is no one around here... Feels so lonely

@wendymott2213

6 ай бұрын

I also lost my husband 2 years ago. It's been tough and i understand what you are going through. The holidays were especially rough this year. I also talk to my husband all the time and toast him each morning with my coffee. We need to keep moving forward, embrace change and start new things in our lives. Love, light and peace to you and your family.

@marybethhomac7776

25 күн бұрын

I also lost my husband 2 years ago. I talk to him many times every day. I know he hears me and still loves me. But yes, it’s very, very hard. My heart goes out to you💞

My Husband passed 11 mths ago. I talk often to him and will not stop. He is near and waiting for me

@lifelosshope

7 ай бұрын

It’s important to keep your love and relationship with your husband alive .. talking helps us in grief to still feel that precious connection ❤️ Sending love 💕 x

@robynmichel6019

7 ай бұрын

@@lifelosshope Thankyou for your comment. I have just lost my 20 year old cat. I'm really alone now but do continue talking to my Husband. I may get another middle age rescue cat to save its life.

@lifelosshope

6 ай бұрын

Oh dear.. that’s awful news about your elderly cat 🐈.. it’s such a comfort to have another life as such in the house. Sounds a great idea to get a rescue cat when you feel strong enough ❤️ Sending hope & love. Know you are not alone as we share the journey & encourage each other. X

@robynmichel6019

6 ай бұрын

@@lifelosshope Thankyou I've got my 10 year old rescue cat. Unfortunately if you love you have sadness. We share something that only we know. No words are there for our feelings

I talk to my son all the time , only way i can keep sane - my heart is broken , my family all fell apart and his brother disowned me 3 years ago - and all December really hard to cope with. Everyone says move forward with life. Now I think he is lucky. Only solace is that every day I live, I'm one day closer to my own death. Sad that I now think like this.

I am not religious but more spiritual and I have seen a medium when my mom passed away in 2016 and it was so healing. He had my mom no doubt. I found so much peace knowing she is always by my side. I am going to see the same medium for my husband, so I can find more peace. I am talking to him because I know he is there🙏🏽

I tell my wife I miss her everyday. I ask the Lord that he would allow her to hear my voice as l tell her l love her forevermore.

Thank you for being so real and sharing those really hard feelings that most people don’t understand. I love your videos as you explore so many facets of grief. ❤

@lifelosshope

10 ай бұрын

Thanks for your encouragement.. appreciate it ❤️🙏 x

I learn so much from your videos. So important for people to feel "OK" talking to their loved ones and understand what a normal part of grief this is. After my son died, I talked to him constantly. I really felt his presence with me. As the years have passed, I only talk to him now from time to time, but it's still important to me to tell him things in our and his sibling's lives. Thank you for your wonderful and informative videos.

@lifelosshope

9 ай бұрын

Hi Kathy .. appreciate you taking time to share your thoughts and experience after the tragic loss of your son .. you’re so right that the outward talking becomes more internalised as they dwell in our hearts ♥️ x bless you

I talk to all my lost loved ones including my parents who have been dead 48 yrs.

@lifelosshope

7 ай бұрын

Our parents are our bedrock of love and safety .. it’s good to keep that precious relationship alive .. sorry for your loss ❤️ X

You are now my absolute favourite. I so felt the truth & sensitivity of your talk on loss of one’s partner/ husband. The void is so shockingly difficult. Endless thanks for saying everything that I feel & think.

@lifelosshope

8 ай бұрын

It’s hard to even comprehend the depth of the void unless you’ve experienced it .. thank you so much for your thoughts. It’s encouraging to know the pain is being used to help others in theirs. So sorry for your loss & sending love ❤️

Thank you so much....

@lifelosshope

7 ай бұрын

Thanks for the encouragement ❤️🙏 .we share the journey x

I lost my bf 2 months ago and I imagine him and talk to him, hug him , cry tell him everything this gives me some hope

@lifelosshope

6 ай бұрын

So sad to hear this about your boyfriend.. it’s heartbreaking indeed .. yes keeping the connection of love is vital to healthy grieving. Be gentle on yourself and take time to hold your memories and love 💕 sending love 💕 and encouragement x

I write in a journal as if I’m talking to him. If I have to stop for a bit I say back soon.

@lifelosshope

8 ай бұрын

It’s a great outlet to write in a journal Penny and pour out your emotions on paper.. so sorry for your loss ❤️ Thanks for sharing your thoughts

@lifelosshope

7 ай бұрын

Journaling is a great way of talking on paper.. thanks for sharing this as it’s such a helpful reminder ❤️ Sorry for your loss x

I lost my 35 year old son 4 months ago - I talk to him every day.

@lifelosshope

7 ай бұрын

Oh Carol … that’s heartbreaking to hear your precious son died so young .. sending love & prayers ❤️

❤

@lifelosshope

6 ай бұрын

Thanks.. sending love 💕 x Sharing the journey

@jennebeattie3168

6 ай бұрын

@@lifelosshope SO SORRY 😢 ❤️

My son who lives with me says I often talk and carry on conversations with my boyfriend who died 2 months ago ❤

@dinamiller9744

7 ай бұрын

But only in my sleep

@lifelosshope

7 ай бұрын

So sorry to hear about your loss.. it’s raw early grief and talking to him is natural as part of your life and relationship ❤️ Sending love 💕 x