Is It Possible to Stop Being Possessive in a Relationship?

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Sadhguru delves deeper into the nature of possessiveness and how one can use it to shatter their illusions and hasten their spiritual growth.
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  • @mirsharipovbehzod
    @mirsharipovbehzod9 ай бұрын

    Pain of possessiveness has healed me. Absolutely true.

  • @telugulomatladudam3722

    @telugulomatladudam3722

    9 ай бұрын

    Same is applicable for the pain of ignorance if the pain of ignorance is unbearable we will know who we are we will realise self

  • @MusicaParaTodos111

    @MusicaParaTodos111

    9 ай бұрын

    Same here :/ Was ... a total life teach ❤

  • @testing38919

    @testing38919

    9 ай бұрын

    What did your possessiveness lead to that eventually heal you of it?

  • @stayhappylittlemermaid
    @stayhappylittlemermaid9 ай бұрын

    You don't have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great

  • @bisweswardas5135

    @bisweswardas5135

    9 ай бұрын

  • @knowpassword

    @knowpassword

    7 ай бұрын

    Not even to be great, just start..

  • @Corteum
    @Corteum9 ай бұрын

    Paraphrase: _Completeness doesnt happen by getting this or that (i.e. objects, possessions, expereinces, credit). It only happens when you're alive at/to your core. The moment you touch that, then you're truly alive... then you can play it like a game._

  • @jigarrpatel3606

    @jigarrpatel3606

    9 ай бұрын

    Stll need details explanation…

  • @Corteum

    @Corteum

    9 ай бұрын

    @@jigarrpatel3606 No. What it needs is practice and persistance. It's more practical.

  • @knowpassword
    @knowpassword9 ай бұрын

    “The less you have the more you gain!”

  • @gaurikasingh4473
    @gaurikasingh44737 ай бұрын

    So beautifully expressed my situations and gave the answer i was looking for thank you so much guru ji ❤

  • @user-vh1mc4ez6f
    @user-vh1mc4ez6f9 ай бұрын

    This man is the treasure in the current world

  • @humane_and_selfless__love722
    @humane_and_selfless__love7229 ай бұрын

    Thanks Sadhguru. 🙏 💕 Thanks for everything. 💕 I'm praying for the best for you and your family.

  • @ludibinoinprogress
    @ludibinoinprogress9 ай бұрын

    Fantastic Sadhguru 😊🙏🏻 thank you with all my heart for everything 🫶🏼

  • @amarendraborah6941
    @amarendraborah69419 ай бұрын

    Relationships thrive on mutual respect, mutual trust, reciprocity, and fellow - feeling ! When that trust is lost, everything is lost @

  • @priyaramdoo4762
    @priyaramdoo47629 ай бұрын

    Sadhguru you saved me ..I am so grateful to You❤🙏

  • @manrajchauhan5862
    @manrajchauhan58629 ай бұрын

    The Last Statement he made is the way I have been living ever since I completed inner engineering. And I would have never imagined it's way more beautiful and fun way to be. If not for this being I would have never tasted even a single drop of freedom. Thank you Will never be enough. So I surrender myself to the process.

  • @nupurbharti3157
    @nupurbharti31579 ай бұрын

    I am in the same situation right now When I try to walk away Consequences happen But this clear vision is much needed this moment

  • @user-bx7gv9dh5v
    @user-bx7gv9dh5v9 ай бұрын

    salute to video maker, the intro, BGs and Sadhguru's audio was all perfect.

  • @AmandaZ-ft2ow
    @AmandaZ-ft2ow9 ай бұрын

    Missed your videos! With Gratitude! ! !❤⚜️❤ Blessed Be! ! !❤🙏❤

  • @Devi-pg4rj
    @Devi-pg4rj9 ай бұрын

    How is Sadhguru so clear on everything 😁🙏

  • @saras03
    @saras039 ай бұрын

    A great mentor ❤🔱

  • @michae2869
    @michae28698 ай бұрын

    Amazingly enlightening

  • @CosmicDesending32534
    @CosmicDesending325349 ай бұрын

    Reactions from processions brings out the visual truth from Reactions 😊

  • @RickWitan
    @RickWitan9 ай бұрын

    🪷 Maharaj, thank You for Your insightful words. Attachment is suffering, regrettably. Please keep me off this path so I do not suffer just as my parents went through much much suffering. My humble pranams 🙏🏾🪷

  • @consciouschirag
    @consciouschirag9 ай бұрын

    Please also answer, how to not be pushy in relationships? i.e. not forcing ourselves, our ideas, etc. onto other people, accepting others & respecting their individuality.

  • @holyhelper7400
    @holyhelper74009 ай бұрын

    This satsang is of immense value.. where can get the full episode?

  • @aarchiagrawal938

    @aarchiagrawal938

    9 ай бұрын

    Isha downloads🙏

  • @diemtuatinhthan98
    @diemtuatinhthan989 ай бұрын

    To maintain a relationship, we need to understand each other to make the relationship better

  • @Penbuddy418
    @Penbuddy4189 ай бұрын

    Thanks Sadhguru for motivating us i respect you a lot

  • @heeralsharma9765
    @heeralsharma97659 ай бұрын

    Sadhguru Namaskar Pranam Blessings Please Aum Namah Shivaya 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @speaktruth3612
    @speaktruth36129 ай бұрын

    MY SADHGURU 💯 FOR LIFE🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤ PRANAM

  • @NondualityChannel
    @NondualityChannel9 ай бұрын

    Being possessive in a relationship will only cause both parties suffering. I am non-attached to my wife and she tells me this is the easiest relationship she has ever had.

  • @0nelight19-SaveSoil

    @0nelight19-SaveSoil

    3 ай бұрын

    when you are really possessive, there is only one party 😂 therefore I prefer Sadhgurus technology 🥰

  • @NondualityChannel

    @NondualityChannel

    3 ай бұрын

    @@0nelight19-SaveSoil You can not even possess yourself, so how can you hope to possess anyone or anything else?

  • @selvarajchettiar5039
    @selvarajchettiar50399 ай бұрын

    NAMASKARAM SADHGURU 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @alienallen2983
    @alienallen29839 ай бұрын

    👍 SADHGURU 🙏>>>💚

  • @jack-e-designs
    @jack-e-designs9 ай бұрын

    True.💗it’s all a vibe.💗🦋💛

  • @rudyponzio5871
    @rudyponzio58719 ай бұрын

    🙏🏻You can't even posses yourself. You can't love what you can't live without. That's called something else altogether. 🫐

  • @soubhikmukherjee2982
    @soubhikmukherjee29829 ай бұрын

    Namaskaram Guruji ❤

  • @luzbeelluzbella369
    @luzbeelluzbella3699 ай бұрын

    Sadguru!!! Buddha your Nemesis is my friend.

  • @ishakeister6725
    @ishakeister67259 ай бұрын

    Thank you sir

  • @user-oo7to1ly7c
    @user-oo7to1ly7c9 ай бұрын

    Wow… Amazing…❤

  • @kimgordon3695
    @kimgordon36959 ай бұрын

    "whatever you are doing, do it whole souled so as to Yah"

  • @harshsoneji2070
    @harshsoneji20709 ай бұрын

    Just at the right time Sadhguru.

  • @M.C.ME7
    @M.C.ME79 ай бұрын

    👑🔥 Thank U 💛

  • @navinnimgale155
    @navinnimgale1559 ай бұрын

    How lovely ❤❤❤

  • @raghavendrapachahara9643
    @raghavendrapachahara96439 ай бұрын

    Beauty of thoughts really 😊😊😊😊

  • @rutviumrigar1720
    @rutviumrigar17209 ай бұрын

    Thank you Sadhguru 🙏

  • @swarnalidutta7235
    @swarnalidutta72359 ай бұрын

    Very true❤

  • @subramanian5756
    @subramanian57569 ай бұрын

    This video came to me at a tight time..❤

  • @deltacharge
    @deltacharge9 ай бұрын

    I agree to the utmost degree of Agreement XD Nicee One!

  • @bowloflight2201
    @bowloflight22019 ай бұрын

    9:53 🙏🏽

  • @PadmaSahani-we1we
    @PadmaSahani-we1we9 ай бұрын

    Jai shree satguru ji 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @iammadhurima
    @iammadhurima9 ай бұрын

    Where can we get the full satsang?

  • @avinash6820
    @avinash68209 ай бұрын

    🙏🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍😊😊💖💖 Jai Gurudev!

  • @pallavivaidya7423
    @pallavivaidya74239 ай бұрын

    Shambho ❤

  • @MusicaParaTodos111
    @MusicaParaTodos1119 ай бұрын

    Redemption by the pain

  • @chaththa85
    @chaththa859 ай бұрын

    Thanks so much Sadhguru!❤ This came to me at right time 🙏🥹

  • @OfficialGOD

    @OfficialGOD

    9 ай бұрын

    ❤ 🙏

  • @chaththa85

    @chaththa85

    9 ай бұрын

    @@OfficialGOD ❤️🙏

  • @sachinbhat1857
    @sachinbhat18579 ай бұрын

    Where can I find background tune...

  • @user-nq4bk5su5n
    @user-nq4bk5su5n9 ай бұрын

    Sadhguru , during Kundalini awake I Felt that my head to hid was drown in Ice water. Is this chakra.

  • @108Marycelestial
    @108Marycelestial9 ай бұрын

    No never be possessive. Be good and considerate instead. ❤

  • @SuperJamalShah
    @SuperJamalShah9 ай бұрын

    Sadhguru, how would you differentiate possessiveness with persistence? 😊🎉

  • @AnthonyMoitzger-nw1id
    @AnthonyMoitzger-nw1id9 ай бұрын

    I believe both should be positive in a relationship. And celebrate it. For neither one walks alone anymore. Peace 🕉 and joy.8888 🎶 🙏

  • @sivaroyal4246
    @sivaroyal42469 ай бұрын

    Aum namasivaya 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @PiszonEnNorthCarolina
    @PiszonEnNorthCarolina9 ай бұрын

    Thank you Sadhguru

  • @PadmaSahani-we1we
    @PadmaSahani-we1we9 ай бұрын

    Bérhmànad sewrupa ísha ís jagdísha atí Anand sewrupa ísha ís jagdísha 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @kajalagarwala3697
    @kajalagarwala36979 ай бұрын

    What if the other person doesn't know how to maintain a certain boundary with others?

  • @ishaartworks
    @ishaartworks9 ай бұрын

    5:32 & 7:24

  • @rupalideshpande1746
    @rupalideshpande17469 ай бұрын

    🙏❤🙏

  • @tchaliz4925
    @tchaliz49254 ай бұрын

    I have been reading the comments, and well, intelectually, we all have the same understanding. But, feeling not complete as far as you can remmenber is not intectual thing at all, it s only a ball of pain that you carry inside, and all you dream of is someone you can give love, take care of, but someone you are not affraid to lose, cause ypu got used to lose what you love. What thought can cope with such basic animal / compulsive yes, pain ?

  • @Puranvlogs143
    @Puranvlogs1439 ай бұрын

    ❤❤

  • @ekansh6267
    @ekansh62679 ай бұрын

    💯💯🔥

  • @anamazinglife5628
    @anamazinglife56289 ай бұрын

    💜💙

  • @untouched5131
    @untouched51319 ай бұрын

    🙏

  • @saras03
    @saras039 ай бұрын

  • @uprise8942
    @uprise89429 ай бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @bohdanbasenko4092
    @bohdanbasenko40929 ай бұрын

    That’s me!!!😂😂😂 Right in the beginning of this video. It seems I am going viral 😄😊

  • @Royal__Vidhya

    @Royal__Vidhya

    9 ай бұрын

    Ohhh yeahhh it's look like uh😮😮😮

  • @Being_Unidirectional

    @Being_Unidirectional

    9 ай бұрын

    Yeah its you hhh

  • @shreeharikulkarni5614
    @shreeharikulkarni56149 ай бұрын

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @anoopcomputech4109
    @anoopcomputech41099 ай бұрын

    😊

  • @PadmaSahani-we1we
    @PadmaSahani-we1we9 ай бұрын

    Bérhmànad sewrupa ísha ís jagdísha atí Anand sewrupa ísha ís jagdísha 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @lokeshbarri6052
    @lokeshbarri60529 ай бұрын

    🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @Naresh14316
    @Naresh143169 ай бұрын

    Peace of vioce

  • @towerofresonance4877

    @towerofresonance4877

    9 ай бұрын

    Woice

  • @HAR_HAR_MAHADEV3335
    @HAR_HAR_MAHADEV33359 ай бұрын

    I don't shift but I decrease all my desires through entering a state of samadhi…..like a shiva did when sati died…..I wanna possess with samadhi state for skipping this time 💀na punyam na papam….na soukhyam na dhukam…..chidanada ruph shivoham shivoham

  • @TTtourrrrr
    @TTtourrrrr9 ай бұрын

    🧤

  • @CristianaCrina-cu9ov
    @CristianaCrina-cu9ov9 ай бұрын

    🙏🙏🙏❤

  • @fotispasas5324
    @fotispasas53249 ай бұрын

    Try what fully, I didn’t get that part please help

  • @prithwirajjadhav1611

    @prithwirajjadhav1611

    9 ай бұрын

    I'm not sure if this is the correct answer, but he told once that - If u disconnect for 3 days, no TV, no mobile, no visitors, no talking, just being there, silent, then many things will be suddenly clear to you within no time!

  • @aryabolke8226
    @aryabolke82269 ай бұрын

    🌺💖💖

  • @TTtourrrrr
    @TTtourrrrr9 ай бұрын

    111

  • @abhisheksingh-lp1vw
    @abhisheksingh-lp1vwАй бұрын

    I only thought of breaking up with her 😢 no one knows how much i think of her including her also. I am very much possessive to her against every single boy , even for her cousins also, i know this sounds cheap but it is. My body goes in a freeze mode .i can't focus. So much depressed.

  • @monikawy231
    @monikawy2313 ай бұрын

    Yes possessivess is bad

  • @StarLink85
    @StarLink859 ай бұрын

    ❤️💛💚💙💜💖

  • @tahiyamarome
    @tahiyamarome9 ай бұрын

    Life will relieve you of all you think you possess in any case. So enjoy what enters your life and wave sweetly when it leaves. Why do so many people get upset with intensity? Why do people who go fully into things get reprimanded, called too much, over- invested, crazy?

  • @rashmiyadav4062
    @rashmiyadav40625 ай бұрын

    💕💕💕💕💐💐💐💐🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @CosmicDesending32534
    @CosmicDesending325349 ай бұрын

    Put a fork on it 😅

  • @camilacatriman7293
    @camilacatriman72939 ай бұрын

    🙏🩵🦋

  • @CosmicDesending32534
    @CosmicDesending325349 ай бұрын

    Judgment is in the 👀 of the beholder😇👻

  • @juncuspatens
    @juncuspatens9 ай бұрын

    "Is it ok..." -Jagadish Vasudev "If they can get you asking the wrong questions, they don't have to worry about answers." - Thomas Pynchon

  • @user-du1lg5oz3k
    @user-du1lg5oz3k9 ай бұрын

    Medium selected. no, no choice

  • @samyadeepsengupta460
    @samyadeepsengupta4609 ай бұрын

    Possessive ness is not good

  • @chullotm1970
    @chullotm19709 ай бұрын

    Save Soil!

  • @user-jh2id1og5p
    @user-jh2id1og5p9 ай бұрын

    Earth is a prison not a school

  • @s.g.5318
    @s.g.53189 ай бұрын

    Get a cat you love, it'll teach you how painful possessiveness is

  • @tchaliz4925

    @tchaliz4925

    4 ай бұрын

    Dogs givve us unconditional love, cats teach us how to love and expect nothing in return, is that what you mean?

  • @A.Shek_
    @A.Shek_9 ай бұрын

    I am tired of listening into the same narrative from Sadhguru that all is in ur control, when you want to switch it on you can or you can just be or be high all the time e.t.c. I have never came across any of his followers who say Yes I am like that. I am tired of hearing this at the point that either I want to experience it staright on upfront or just forget about Sadhguru & his wisdom which is not going to happen !! Sigh...

  • @shivankchopra8552

    @shivankchopra8552

    9 ай бұрын

    I understand what you are going through, i am sometimes in same boat as you frustrated (even abusing) Sadhguru when I try to implement what he says into my life and things are going out of control. But it does work slowly when you are constantly trying to improve fiercely. I have done inner engineering, so when i practice shambhavi regularly, i start getting the power of sticking to making choices my way, instead of getting frustrated with situations and people. But this takes time, years of consuming mental shittiness takes sometime to cleanup man

  • @A.Shek_

    @A.Shek_

    9 ай бұрын

    @@shivankchopra8552 Heard ! Thanks man, perhaps inshud keep aside all complaints n struggles and practice shambhavi for atleast 6 months to test & analyse change if any. Its been 2 months of continuous practice from me till now & sometimes my practice mis successful & sometimes not(to much distracted by my own monkey chatter). Let's see after 6 months or a year. 🤔

  • @sgthasb

    @sgthasb

    9 ай бұрын

    solution is that swhen you try to get satisfaction out of hearing to your ideal or you want to find out something knew even if you had already read the title and found that what already will be content then you will be bored,,, so only solution is sadhna and practice.

  • @shivankchopra8552

    @shivankchopra8552

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@A.Shek_ Sure bro, all the best to you! Doing Shambhavi I have realized that you tend to get better with more practice. As in you build more insight into keeping the mind mum. It's like 1000 ways in which you discover how every thought is just shiet at the end of all day. At this point of my life, I am beginning to pretty much give in to the fact that if not for outer help like shambhavi, I by myself would never be able to direct my mind by my will. So I have like given into Shambhavi and let it do all the heavy lifting. Cheers! 🍻

  • @karunasreejetty917

    @karunasreejetty917

    9 ай бұрын

    Then make an effort. Do Shambhavi Kriya.

  • @PadmaSahani-we1we
    @PadmaSahani-we1we9 ай бұрын

    Jai shree satguru ji 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @sayanpradhan17
    @sayanpradhan179 ай бұрын

    ❤❤

  • @jurrinavanakker8723
    @jurrinavanakker87239 ай бұрын

  • @PriyaRathore-gn1ck
    @PriyaRathore-gn1ck9 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤

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