Is All Hope LOST To Get Your Ex Back?

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Coach Lee (on Instagram at RealCoachLee) answers the question, "Is all hope lost to get my ex back?" If your ex has said something to make you think the breakup is absolute or that there is no chance of the two of you reuniting, watch this video.
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  • @jonathanb6911
    @jonathanb69112 жыл бұрын

    I always wanted to be the guy in the comments saying my ex came back, and this time I am. Thanks, Coach Lee. She texted me after 1.5 months, and she's practically falling apart at the seams to meet.

  • @jonathanb6911

    @jonathanb6911

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Nathan-sq9xv never say never. I don't know all the nuances involved in your situation, but changes can happen in amazing ways, if you just allow life to unfold. Good luck

  • @joshuaprince5145

    @joshuaprince5145

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Nathan-sq9xv I can connect you with this powerful love spell caster that helps me attract my ex back in two days👇👇👇👇👇

  • @yuliaamarfi

    @yuliaamarfi

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm happy for you, I hope I could be the one who wrote the same comment as well very soon!

  • @terrymccann2792

    @terrymccann2792

    2 жыл бұрын

    9 months in I still put myself into that position of looking forward to writing the same thing - im feeling better and letting go and leaving it to her now

  • @travis1418

    @travis1418

    2 жыл бұрын

    Giving the rest of us hope!! Happy for you!!!

  • @yahabibi6891
    @yahabibi68912 жыл бұрын

    Isn’t scary how you love them so much to a point where you actually start to hate them because of their actions, and when they wanna come back you don’t feel anything like before, ever again?

  • @11cesarrenato

    @11cesarrenato

    2 жыл бұрын

    yes, i think too much about this, like i've through before and this pain will go away

  • @siiNke

    @siiNke

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes. You will just be over them.. Its just damn chemicals in brain.

  • @rgue5509

    @rgue5509

    2 жыл бұрын

    wtf im not the only one

  • @websterfelicia86

    @websterfelicia86

    2 жыл бұрын

    Right, I'm starting to feel like I don't even want to get back with him anymore

  • @gabe9646

    @gabe9646

    2 жыл бұрын

    then that was never love. it was infatuation, and your desire to get back was only to fulfill your ego.

  • @Derek-rh9mi
    @Derek-rh9mi2 жыл бұрын

    “When a person breaks up with you, they’re not losing you, they’re giving you away.” So true. Breaking up is purely conceptual in the beginning.

  • @lnzprazak2711
    @lnzprazak27118 ай бұрын

    What's strange is how two months can feel both like an eternity and yesterday. I don't know what he's been up to, but I've been working HARD on my emotional, mental and physical health. Somedays I want him, others I'm like, 'to hell with someone who didn't see my worth'. Isn't this a wild ride? Best of luck to you all 🖤

  • @johnbaker2966

    @johnbaker2966

    8 ай бұрын

    I couldn't agree more. I feel exactly the same. It seems like yesterday she dumped me, yet, it feels like an eternity. Some moments I'm doing great, others not so much. The funny thing is, I have way more to offer her than she has for me, but I fell in love with her heart, which doesn't seem to beautiful now.

  • @johnbaker2966

    @johnbaker2966

    8 ай бұрын

    How are you doing now?

  • @erik_pokecollector

    @erik_pokecollector

    4 ай бұрын

    How are you doing?? we want to know!!! Anyway i'm living the same experience, just since half of January. Working so much on myself and giving her the break up and all the consequences ^^

  • @frankl7370
    @frankl73702 жыл бұрын

    I always find it weird that people think emotions and opinions can’t change over time. I’m sure there was a time your ex told you she’ll love you forever right?

  • @jamesrocks19

    @jamesrocks19

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yup.

  • @face2799

    @face2799

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah in my case it was not official but she said “I will always want you and want to be with you” just days before she ended it

  • @jamesrocks19

    @jamesrocks19

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@face2799 she said the same thing to me.

  • @JihadBunnydick

    @JihadBunnydick

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@face2799 That sounds like narcissistic behavior

  • @jeffjones6089

    @jeffjones6089

    2 жыл бұрын

    my gf told me at one point she wanted us to last up to a certain date atleast and told me to promise her i wouldnt break her heart.... i told her lets take it week by week and enjoy eachother. she agreed and 2 months later she ended up breaking my heart. go figure right?

  • @cnrailproductions8957
    @cnrailproductions89572 жыл бұрын

    I don’t want my ex back anymore I’ve learned there’s better people out there and I feel more free. And you will to if you don’t get your ex back. It’s alright cry do what you gotta do but move on and it will work itself out

  • @emilyweiler7843

    @emilyweiler7843

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same here ...

  • @kasabov5747

    @kasabov5747

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@davidgordon2406 It's like going on a video tutorial on how to make a Caesar salad, just to type a comment "I don't even like Caesar salads!"

  • @harshjones1688

    @harshjones1688

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m gonna get my girl back

  • @user-hk3el6wq9r

    @user-hk3el6wq9r

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your videos. I actually binge listen to them over and over. They help me stay focused, calm, and optimistic for the best possible outcome. Whether or not I get my ex back, I have the satisfaction of knowing that I'm doing everything correctly for the best possible outcome. The self improvement during this period helps distract myself from the breakup. Again, thank you.

  • @giving1261

    @giving1261

    2 жыл бұрын

    ÷ ¹³07²75³79⁴: MANIFEST A SPECIFIC CALL OR TEXT FROM SOMEONE SPECIAL. l Know a specialist that can help you with the manifestation.

  • @markzig1429
    @markzig14292 жыл бұрын

    It is UNBELIEVABLE how 100% correct Coach Lee is.

  • @m1ll1on4r3

    @m1ll1on4r3

    Жыл бұрын

    Any experience you wanna share with us ?

  • @markzig1429

    @markzig1429

    Жыл бұрын

    @@m1ll1on4r3 This was a year ago, so I don't remember everything exactly. But I do remember her sending me a message that read almost word for word how Coach Lee said she would. I remember going back and reading it while listening to his video. Almost exactly word for word! However, her message came before I listened to Coach Lee's video, and I did not react how he suggested. I wish I had come across Coach Lee a little earlier than I did. My ex has now gone back to the man who physically, emotionally and mentally abused her. A man who she told me was a narcissist, a compulsive liar, a textbook sociopath, "the worst person she has ever known" and someone who she feared "was capable of murder" (her words). And she lives across the street from me.

  • @Greendoves
    @Greendoves2 жыл бұрын

    Don’t loose hope. After three weeks of no contact I broke it & wished him happy birthday he responded and we met for coffee that day. I’ve done a lot of reflecting and watched tons of your videos which kept me going. We’ve learnt a lot whilst we’ve been apart and we need to communicate better and stop taking each other for granted. I’m going all in as I’ve always held back through fear of being left. Thankyou for keeping me company on those long sleepless nights 💖 hang in there beautiful people xx

  • @chaunceythomas4531

    @chaunceythomas4531

    2 жыл бұрын

    Keep us updated 🙂

  • @Rizzy_K

    @Rizzy_K

    2 жыл бұрын

    It sounds like you guys had a fake break up if you only were split for 3 weeks. Also, although you guys are reconciling, I don’t think coach lee would’ve advised to wish your ex a happy birthday. Shifts even more power to your ex.

  • @everilliem3292

    @everilliem3292

    2 жыл бұрын

    3 weeks is certainly not enough to grow or really work things through

  • @peterhoffman6896

    @peterhoffman6896

    2 жыл бұрын

    32 days of NC and seems like she moved on. Smh.

  • @everilliem3292

    @everilliem3292

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@peterhoffman6896 Stay strong brother! Happiness is from one's self.

  • @tachi5408
    @tachi54082 жыл бұрын

    Perfect timing, my emotions have been coming back so been feeling down, thank you for this video. Feel that much better again:)

  • @ezzg7503
    @ezzg7503 Жыл бұрын

    Coach Lee is definitely the best of the best out there, absolutely everything he says is so true and his voice is also so smoothing in a time when we're feeling rather low.

  • @nathanieldonley5502
    @nathanieldonley55022 жыл бұрын

    I love the way you ended this video. It relieved a lot of anxiety. Thank you Coach Lee for your integrity!

  • @George-Aguilar
    @George-Aguilar2 жыл бұрын

    Why would I take someone that discarded me and left me for trash. It’s been 2 years. I treated her good for 20 years. What a waste. Now I am so much better!

  • @RealCoachLee

    @RealCoachLee

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sounds like there are better things out there for you.

  • @George-Aguilar

    @George-Aguilar

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@RealCoachLee Thanks Coach Lee, your videos helped me through the hardest part. I’ve learned happiness must be found within first. I’m in better shape, making more money and planning to travel. I still care for her, but I’m learning I deserve much better.

  • @larrylovejr82

    @larrylovejr82

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's awesome !! Atleast your happy now. I take about topics like this on my KZread channel 💯.

  • @walterott3161
    @walterott31612 жыл бұрын

    Everyone of your videos have gotten me through these tough times..thank u coach lee

  • @emilasnamso1
    @emilasnamso12 жыл бұрын

    Coach Lee your videos bring me so much comfort (and hope) whilst nursing my broken heart 💔 Thank you 🙏

  • @kettymulauzi6124

    @kettymulauzi6124

    2 жыл бұрын

    I feel for you. Am in the same situation though and have been watching coach Lee's vedios and they give me strength.

  • @ruffatonido5496
    @ruffatonido54962 жыл бұрын

    20 years but you look so young. That's just amazing. Thank you for helping me through those times of agony. Been cheated by my ex and he twisted the story made me a villain so people would not judge him whenever they would see him with someome new. Good thing I've came to ur channel,and learned a lot. Ur teachings made me calm and handle the situation with dignity. Now i am fine and i no longer care about him. I'm gonna wait for that man who is deserving having me.

  • @mk_cosmetics106

    @mk_cosmetics106

    2 жыл бұрын

    He was 12 when he started as a coach 👀

  • @hashemmohammedi4541
    @hashemmohammedi45412 жыл бұрын

    After five weeks of the breakup, today I miss her again, but this video gives me energy ,thanks coach lee

  • @hollyirisdrucker2201
    @hollyirisdrucker2201 Жыл бұрын

    Three months after my breakup my Ex came back after I went into no contact. And started dating again. I met a nice man and I liked him a lot. When my Ex called me I was polite but, I told him the truth. After that he came on real strong. He asked me to meet him for coffee.. I met my Ex and he looked like hell. He told me he wanted another chance. I told my Ex I was open to that but, I wanted to move slowly. He agreed and we are now taking our time enjoying each others company. Hang in 😁 take care no contact works.

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    hollyirisdrucker, that's the smart thing to do, and I wish you both well. Coach Lee would want you to join his workshop, which will help you both immensely. know it's really difficult and I've certainly been there. I don't know if you are aware, but Coach Lee has a live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." It's an incredible learning experience that I just can't say enough about. It focuses on saving a relationship from a breakup/separation and then keeping it after. It includes a coaching call each month for 6 months. You can talk to Coach Lee's team about it. I think the person for this is named Johnny and you can make an appointment with him to talk about it at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. I think you'll agree that it's an incredibly eye-opening and immensely helpful experience for you.

  • @agnieszkadrewniak-kim3114
    @agnieszkadrewniak-kim31142 жыл бұрын

    Dear Lee many many thanks for those videos, they really help to get through the tough times of a break up. I had joined the ‘ no contact army’ 7 weeks ago and staying strong 💪🏻. I like your sense of humour as well 😄😄😄 thank you for being there 🌈🌟💖 lots of love and light to you and your family 🍀

  • @m8te338

    @m8te338

    2 жыл бұрын

    Any update?

  • @tyetr9853

    @tyetr9853

    Жыл бұрын

    Update us

  • @natasharosemillscoaching
    @natasharosemillscoaching2 жыл бұрын

    Great,advice, allowing space to give them an opportunity to miss you.

  • @skyeblu1477
    @skyeblu14772 жыл бұрын

    Couch Lee thank you so much, i did the NC rule and my ex reached out to me after 30 days. It wasn't easy though.xx

  • @LifeCrusaderCoaching
    @LifeCrusaderCoaching2 жыл бұрын

    I love the one-liners delivered with a straight face...Coach, ever considered stand up comedy? 🤣

  • @ceeze9923
    @ceeze99232 жыл бұрын

    I would like to say thank you Coach Lee for your videos. God works through you to reach the Mars l masses.

  • @garyheydenrych3850
    @garyheydenrych38502 жыл бұрын

    Hi Coach after all the drama , heart break and the fall out. The betrayal of a best friend and his wife and my church paster. And after listening to the anxiety music you have posted. I've decided I'm not going to wait for her I'm going to live on persue my passions. I'm going to come through this stronger, healthier and more grounded. A better person for it. I loved her dearly but the way things went down. I'm not sure if a reconciliation is possible. Enya helped me.

  • @momentswithrussell
    @momentswithrussell2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much coach lee you've been with me in my worst times✨

  • @JD_BigBLANKETS
    @JD_BigBLANKETS2 жыл бұрын

    Hey coach, after 10 months being separated from my wife we’ve finally started reconciling. I’m so thankful for your emergency break up kit. She’s saying she loves me, hugs me & kisses me and we’re talking about eventually getting a place together. I did a lot of self reflecting, I got a amazing new job, changed up my look (cut my hair, new tats & confidence) & I’ve come to peace living on my own. It’s just the sexual side of things she’s still a bit on edge about it She wants the emotional side of things, she’s said how hard it was being away from me because I was all she knew. & at the beginning before going into no contact I was her emotional support. Big mistake ik but yes I finally got myself to step away. All that without the full physical side of things. 12 year relationship with two young kids

  • @Steven-gg1bn

    @Steven-gg1bn

    2 жыл бұрын

    You're giving me hope. It's been 11 months for me so a little bit longer but just maybe... who knows...

  • @Rizzy_K

    @Rizzy_K

    2 жыл бұрын

    Her being on edge about having sex is a bit of a red flag to me because if she’s hugging kissing telling you she loves you and you guys are married, why isn’t she engaging in sex? Do you know if there’s another guy in the picture or maybe there was another guy while you two were separated?

  • @JD_BigBLANKETS

    @JD_BigBLANKETS

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Rizzy_K she attempted to rebound at one point. I took coach lees advice and went full strategic no contact at that point. Only speaking about the kids or when she reached out. That clearly crumbled on its own. I did all the wrong things coach Lee states at the beginning 🤯😨 I was surprised how accurate Coach is. When we started reconnecting fully my wife sent me this message “Believe me when I say it’s been horrible being away from you. You’re all I’ve ever known and I feel like a piece of me is missing.” Stay strong, & trust me. Staying away works

  • @Rizzy_K

    @Rizzy_K

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@JD_BigBLANKETS I’ve been NC for 106 days. I’m so tired of this

  • @highlyegucaded5710

    @highlyegucaded5710

    2 жыл бұрын

    3 months for me. It’s been a roller coaster. One day she says she doesn’t think this is the end of us. Another day she’ll say she has ZERO feelings for me anymore. At this point I don’t know how to feel or what to think she actually feels

  • @DailyOwO
    @DailyOwOАй бұрын

    Thank you coach Lee. I've been binge watching your videos these past two weeks. Thank you for being my support. Whether she comes back or not, I know I'll survive this.

  • @bookwarmtee7750
    @bookwarmtee77502 жыл бұрын

    No matter what I will be fine 🙂 I am so happy thanks to your videos! I just love how much power I hold for myself. Makes me feel good inside!

  • @gabbymontoya2085
    @gabbymontoya20852 жыл бұрын

    Just when I was questioning this today how odd.. with prayers and guidance ..

  • @victorialiaka3954

    @victorialiaka3954

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same here

  • @radostinatodorova4711
    @radostinatodorova47112 жыл бұрын

    Watched all your videos each one few times. Was hoping for a new one , thank you so much

  • @cocochannel8932
    @cocochannel89322 жыл бұрын

    You crack me up @coachlee “dwelling in darkness.” So funny and So true

  • @marlecmarine5393
    @marlecmarine53932 жыл бұрын

    Excellent video by Coach Lee, delivered with a calmness, confidence and knowledge that 20 years of experience in this field brings. Great advice as usual.

  • @alphamadaki8055

    @alphamadaki8055

    2 жыл бұрын

    +2348101367929⏭️⏭️⏭️⏭️Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of breakup..,

  • @serpico7308
    @serpico73082 жыл бұрын

    Dude Just now seeing this. I am in a dark period in My life. You have helped me tremendously.

  • @keepgrowing9941
    @keepgrowing99412 жыл бұрын

    Attendance check: present, coach lee 🥰🙋🏻‍♀️ sunday morning here. ♥️♥️♥️ i really need this, coach. Thank you very much. Stay safe coach, and keep inspiring us. ♥️♥️♥️🙏🏼

  • @theodusowens6954
    @theodusowens69542 жыл бұрын

    Been watching his Video for some time. I promise they bring me much comfort especially during my anxiety. You think about them all the time. Before you go to sleep and the first thing when you wake up. You hope for any sliver of hope. Been broke up since September 2nd. I had pleaded and almost begged her not to leave.I wanted to Marry this girl (Still do) I had to fall back... Too many ways she kept telling me she isn't there yet. She reaches out from time to time asks how I am or hows work. But anything about US she shuts down. I'm using NC and Radio silence now... I'm sure its gonna take some time for it to take its effects, but I'm hoping it brings her back because I miss her so much.

  • @MissRegina79
    @MissRegina792 жыл бұрын

    I really needed this video… thanks Coach❤️

  • @mk_cosmetics106
    @mk_cosmetics1062 жыл бұрын

    You are such a good man ❤️ you have a golden heart 💛

  • @alphamadaki8055

    @alphamadaki8055

    2 жыл бұрын

    +2348101367929⏭️⏭️⏭️⏭️Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of breakup..,

  • @carmensmith1453
    @carmensmith14532 жыл бұрын

    Words of wisdom from coach Lee ...too many tears in this relationship he's no longer handsome to me ...

  • @Ch2.0ris
    @Ch2.0ris Жыл бұрын

    This is your best video so far.. I am mesmerized

  • @SS-in1ts
    @SS-in1ts Жыл бұрын

    One of the best videos on KZread. Ever. Thanks coach!

  • @RealCoachLee

    @RealCoachLee

    Жыл бұрын

    Wow, thanks!

  • @valisgkaraoke1167
    @valisgkaraoke11672 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this amazing video, it did help me very much, life goes on.

  • @alphamadaki8055

    @alphamadaki8055

    2 жыл бұрын

    +2348101367929⏭️⏭️⏭️⏭️Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of breakup..,

  • @MIKE0o0o0o
    @MIKE0o0o0o2 жыл бұрын

    Its funny how it seens that after the break up you have to "return" all the happines you got from the relationship, you do that by suffering a lot.

  • @intesarsalim8031
    @intesarsalim80312 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much coach Lee ...ur videos are always making me feel strong and making me to stand on my feet ...During the no contact period. ..ur analysis on human psychology. ..seem to be the real one ...Thanks for uplifting my spirits.

  • @lemooncakee
    @lemooncakee2 жыл бұрын

    I’ve been waiting for you to upload a new video! Coach Lee you always speaking facts, thank you for your advice. You really changed my mindset, thanks to your videos. God bless you ❤️

  • @ben5091
    @ben50912 жыл бұрын

    Excellent video, coach. I needed to hear this. Thank you!

  • @garethedwards6331
    @garethedwards63312 жыл бұрын

    Dumped after short relationship, did no contact for about a month, decided to reach out for advice. Arranged a phone call and it went pretty well, she reached out a couple of weeks later to see how I was getting on after her advice. She has also started liking my social media posts from my recent trip away and we have texted a little! Keeping it casual, will probably talk again in a few weeks, wish me luck, trying to build up to a meet! These sort of videos have helped me cope so much with how to act and behave despite how hard it is not to want to chase them. Thanks Coach Lee!

  • @silviam.9224

    @silviam.9224

    2 жыл бұрын

    Updates?

  • @Z0FFY512

    @Z0FFY512

    Жыл бұрын

    man you reach out asking for advice is not romantic things, it’s a friendship things, you dont do it

  • @haroldcook5360
    @haroldcook53602 жыл бұрын

    All of you're videos are so full of great interest and information that's real good for all of us!!

  • @RealCoachLee

    @RealCoachLee

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Harold!

  • @topman984
    @topman984 Жыл бұрын

    Coach Lee is right 100% . I lost my ex after breaking up due to poor Managment from me after my breakup. I didn’t give her the breakup I was begging and bleeding and this got her away of me miles. It’s now 9 years after breaking up. I know my mistakes now during the breaking up I was too weak man and I managed the breaking up time poorly that’s why I lost her completely. Back in these days I didn’t know coach Lee videos. But his videos helped me understand a lot of what went wrong

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    topman984, DO you know if she's still around and single? I'm asking for a reason. Coach Lee has an excellent video called If you think your ex won't come back, watch this." It's excellent. We had cases up to 20 yrs. I saw a couple (on the News) that reunited 30 yrs. later. If she's spoken for, I recommend Coach Lee's Workshop for you. It's brilliant! Been there-I know how tough it can be. Just wanted to give you the heads up about Coach Lee’s live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." Seriously, it's a game-changer! This workshop is all about rescuing your relationship and then keeping your relationship strong after the breakup or separation. Oh, and get this: you'll also have a coaching call every month for 6 whole months! So you won’t be going at it alone or anything. To find out more, hit up Coach Lee's team. You can schedule an appointment to discuss all the details at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. If you do, it will blow your mind and give you the support you need!

  • @Liz-dragon-street.
    @Liz-dragon-street. Жыл бұрын

    If a person is breaking up with you ... Take a few months 2 go through the break up.. Feel the pain! Watch coach Lee❤ Afther some months the pain starts less and less... (it took me 6 months) then i found peace in myself. I found my life back .. Day by day i started 2 feel stronger and there are days i'm like, damn i don't need him😊 What he did 2 me was wrong! What i did 2 myself has nothing 2 do with self respect! I will get there. My life is getting better and better, do i really need him in it again 🤔 Damn, i love it, he is going through stages but then an the other hand i also go through stages.. Take time 2 heal foks🎉 And then when you are no longer in the controle of the ex you can find out (if he reach out) if you want them back ✌🏼 Much love from Amsterdam Love you Lee you gave me so much with your video's 🙏

  • @cocochannel8932
    @cocochannel89322 жыл бұрын

    I love how @coachlee is so enthusiastic about his clients and broken hearted people! He is our secret weapon ⚡️

  • @denisse010188
    @denisse0101882 жыл бұрын

    I’m hitting the 5th month mark of NC and imma be honest that’s there’s still rough days where I’m questioning what I did wrong. It was a short dating window but it hurt more than any other relationship I had. I think it was the fact that I’m in my 30s and that things were great until the last 2 weeks where it just fell apart really out of no where. The part that hurt the most was when he said we can be friends even when we had a whole discussion about how we were not looking for friends and how we found it irritating when people want to friend zone you. Oh well, not my first rodeo and life really does go on.

  • @mineseki5577

    @mineseki5577

    2 жыл бұрын

    How are you doing? Any update?

  • @pepperjack6421

    @pepperjack6421

    2 жыл бұрын

    Any updates? I found myself in a similar situation recently

  • @philipc7801

    @philipc7801

    2 жыл бұрын

    Update?

  • @briangorman3511

    @briangorman3511

    9 ай бұрын

    Falling apart out of nowhere is the worst@@philipc7801

  • @luvtunes09

    @luvtunes09

    9 ай бұрын

    Did he come back ?

  • @michaelbannon4467
    @michaelbannon4467 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this video... Spiritual food at the proper time.

  • @emmacarlavelayo7911
    @emmacarlavelayo79112 жыл бұрын

    Hello Lee! Sorry for my late comment 😅 busy at work though cuz im a RN Vaccinator here in my country 🇵🇭 Keep up the good work cuz am your loyal follower of yours! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @mikesamson1972

    @mikesamson1972

    2 жыл бұрын

    +2349155456138⏯⏯⏯⏯ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up......

  • @sellitall811
    @sellitall8112 жыл бұрын

    'Sometimes people get mad at me.' 🤣🤣🤣🤣 'And you dwell in darkness without them.' Coach Lee is so humorous, all my laughing facial expressions show under my mask! You are a riot, Coach Lee! ❤️

  • @kaylacupido9884

    @kaylacupido9884

    2 жыл бұрын

    I always laugh when he says "and you dwell in darkness without them" 🤣🤣

  • @Neonravekid
    @Neonravekid2 жыл бұрын

    The irony of the timing of this video....

  • @jiayingliu8538
    @jiayingliu8538 Жыл бұрын

    Everyday, I get up, the first thing is listening to your video, i am continuing the NC, but i still feel extremely hurtful at night, I always have bad dreams at night

  • @nazi6676
    @nazi66762 жыл бұрын

    You are so professional sometimes you say something that have exactly happened to me....

  • @Mzainie
    @Mzainie8 ай бұрын

    After 5 months of no contact, I still get panic attacks and anxiety. 😢

  • @rwentfordable

    @rwentfordable

    6 ай бұрын

    I know the feeling. I got really bad at 8 months. It's weird.

  • @steffybreezy8505

    @steffybreezy8505

    5 ай бұрын

    @@rwentfordable same .. 7 months.

  • @vickysk9681

    @vickysk9681

    4 ай бұрын

    10 months. Everyday is a battle. and I lose most..

  • @user-gc8dh2tm7p

    @user-gc8dh2tm7p

    Ай бұрын

    Going on 6 months, no idea what to think

  • @rodrigonatal8412
    @rodrigonatal84122 жыл бұрын

    I feel as God is talking to me thorugh you whenever I watch you videos... thanks alot

  • @RealCoachLee

    @RealCoachLee

    2 жыл бұрын

    As my father-in-law says, “God has spoken through a donkey on more than one occasion.” LOL!

  • @wintoby

    @wintoby

    11 ай бұрын

    I agree 👍 like God speaking.

  • @Rip5Minor1
    @Rip5Minor12 жыл бұрын

    Hello Coach Lee! I was wondering if at some point, you'd be able to make a video on exactly how to handle different dynamics between the dumper and dumpee after the ex starts to reach out more and what not. I know to use no contact, not ignore the ex, and to be reserved and stuff, but I'd be really interested in a dedicated video on how to handle certain situations after there is more contact happening. My ex has bantered with me multiple times now, trying to pull the "you never say hi to me anymore" card, and she has tried to ask me about like, everything thats been happening in my life but im not the one carrying the conversation. She's becoming warmer and opening up more to me, which is nice. I don't want to ignore her, but not sure what would be considered too much talking/too much intimacy shared. I think you get the idea, don't wanna ramble on too long, but would be a neat video idea to see your advice on!

  • @terael5637

    @terael5637

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello! How did things turn out between you two?

  • @Punchemyster04
    @Punchemyster042 жыл бұрын

    Glad to see you post man good work

  • @robertwhitehead5886
    @robertwhitehead5886 Жыл бұрын

    This guy is the real deal.

  • @JihadBunnydick
    @JihadBunnydick2 жыл бұрын

    If an ex says I miss you. Respond with "What do you miss?" Presents a bit of a challenge.

  • @alicesmith5904

    @alicesmith5904

    2 жыл бұрын

    I can recommend you to a man who heIped me bring back my ex, Wh'tsapp him

  • @giftyosas5152

    @giftyosas5152

    2 жыл бұрын

    They miss breaking up with you to feed their ego 😂 jk

  • @wintoby

    @wintoby

    11 ай бұрын

    I agree 👍

  • @MrSchmerzen98
    @MrSchmerzen982 жыл бұрын

    I'm happy for everyone that got their exes back or that moved on to a better future. My case is lost. She's gone for good, she even got a new bf and has been dating him for some months now. I'm at a better place than I was in the beginning of the BU, but I'm not "there" yet.

  • @janesalonga6835

    @janesalonga6835

    2 жыл бұрын

    Stay strong everything will be better. How long were you in NC?

  • @MrSchmerzen98

    @MrSchmerzen98

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@janesalonga6835 ever since day 1. About 10 months now

  • @JulieZeller
    @JulieZeller2 жыл бұрын

    Mine said "We have no future together." Yet for the 4 months post break up he kept talking to me...and flirting. Know better. CUT THEM OFF. No contact until they really change their heart. It isn't worth the hurt.

  • @xtc2006
    @xtc20062 жыл бұрын

    How are you not verified yet Coach Lee?! You def deserve that check next to your name

  • @RealCoachLee

    @RealCoachLee

    2 жыл бұрын

    I am on KZread and FB. Just not Instagram yet.

  • @kookaburrapants3106
    @kookaburrapants31062 жыл бұрын

    stopped counting days of no contact but it’s been well over a month! perhaps for the best :) good luck to everyone

  • @alicesmith5904

    @alicesmith5904

    2 жыл бұрын

    I can recommend you to a man who heIped me bring back my ex, Wh'tsapp him

  • @christianklein1632
    @christianklein16322 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for everything Coach Lee you are an angel.

  • @prospervilla9021
    @prospervilla90212 жыл бұрын

    I laughed upon seeing the title But stop and asked my self .. "Is this my situation?"... I answered.." No!...but this is my video to watch😘

  • @freakynikki08
    @freakynikki082 жыл бұрын

    It's supposed to be our 3rd anniversary in 3 days. After almost 3 months of our breakup, I'm deciding to just fully let him go & let go of the hope we'll get back together. Something in me says it's never going to happen. It's just painful trying to cling on to that tiny flicker of hope so I choose to just move on. On our supposed anniv, I'll write a "closure letter" and burn it along with the everlasting rose he gave me. Wishing everyone else luck and hoping you all find peace and happiness, with or without your ex.

  • @aseeyahsalihu4158

    @aseeyahsalihu4158

    2 жыл бұрын

    I can recommend you to (Mr oduma )who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works, I believe he can solve your relationship problems

  • @aseeyahsalihu4158

    @aseeyahsalihu4158

    2 жыл бұрын

    Message or call

  • @aseeyahsalihu4158

    @aseeyahsalihu4158

    2 жыл бұрын

    十2348073788494♻️♻️🎦🚻识你...

  • @lisabaughn

    @lisabaughn

    2 жыл бұрын

    How's everything going now? I'm beginning to feel the same way. I don't think I will ever hear from him again and I'm really starting to just let go, after about a month and a half of NC. We had a great relationship and I didn't think anything was wrong. Then out of nowhere, poof. 😪

  • @ovigavril7191

    @ovigavril7191

    Жыл бұрын

    Update ?

  • @unimportantsir7915
    @unimportantsir79152 жыл бұрын

    my ex came back after 1 month but it was really good relationship, long distance at the time and a lot of things happend but now its perfect again :) Thanks coach lee you helped me with breakup anxiety so much :)

  • @oluwadamilolabello5430

    @oluwadamilolabello5430

    2 ай бұрын

    Did you do radio silence or no contact?

  • @kurtzriley
    @kurtzriley2 жыл бұрын

    I’m 2 weeks in to NC. She wanted to keep entertaining the village even though we had something really dope going and she had some past toxic relationships that almost seemed like she looked at ours through smoky glass. It felt like she was just waiting for me to hurt her like her past partners and she couldn’t commit. Just one of those things u have to let the universe handle after u give it ur all. I hope to be back here after she reaches out. In my benefit I’m about to be too busy to even entertain other women in my life, time to elevate my friends 🙇🏻‍♂️😔

  • @nuhubakut3304

    @nuhubakut3304

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello I'm so excited my broken 💔💔 relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we leaving and happily together, I got help from a great man he's real and specific 💯

  • @nuhubakut3304

    @nuhubakut3304

    2 жыл бұрын

    Contact him 👇👇

  • @signsignsign74
    @signsignsign742 жыл бұрын

    Coach Lee, how much can medication help someone get over the feeling of loss during a breakup? 13 months here of no contact after my breakup of a 6 year relationship.

  • @jefffariss1685
    @jefffariss16852 жыл бұрын

    I got dumped less than two weeks ago, we had just gotten back from a weekend beach vacation. I thought everything went great, awesome trip and we both had a lot of fun. Then I get the “I don’t have the same feelings anymore”. I was in shock, I thought I was so caring and considerate to her wants and needs so it hurt. We haven’t talked much after, she just wanted her stuff back. It really hurts that she doesn’t seem to care anymore

  • @CryThunderdarealone

    @CryThunderdarealone

    2 жыл бұрын

    Update?

  • @jefffariss1685

    @jefffariss1685

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@CryThunderdarealone I absolutely forgot I commented on this video. The short of it, she came back. Coach Lee is absolutely correct, and no matter how counter intuitive it seems, no contact is the answer. The more difficult thing is, you may not have loved that person the way you thought you did, and certainly having the relationship snatched away is where most of the pain and desperation comes from. I couldn’t trust her the way I did, I didn’t love her the same. I always found myself second guessing her intentions and how long it would last. It ended once again, about 3 months ago, but this time, I didn’t want her back. I even went so far as to block her. At the end of the day, I was worse off with her than by myself, and I needed to heal from not only trauma of the relationship but things that would hinder my future relationships. No matter how much you love someone Danny, you’ve got to put yourself first, because no one else will. You will heal, don’t get me wrong, it’s hard, today may not have been great but tomorrow will be better. If it was meant to last, it wouldn’t have fallen apart so easily.

  • @CryThunderdarealone

    @CryThunderdarealone

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jefffariss1685 Hey Jeff, I really needed this right now. Just passing one month of NC and I’ve been really putting myself first this whole month, I’m definitely a better version of myself and that momentum is gonna keep on going! Today was especially hard but I think it’s just the loss that’s getting to me. Upwards and onwards friend, if it was meant to be it wouldn’t have fallen apart so easily 💪 thank you so much for that Jeff!

  • @ovigavril7191

    @ovigavril7191

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jefffariss1685 how long after she came back? I am asking ,because I think it’s the same thing for me ,it’s almost 2 weeks ,I did NC right away…

  • @lottofever3061

    @lottofever3061

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ovigavril7191 update?

  • @worlocx2939
    @worlocx29392 жыл бұрын

    To everybody reading this, I was a very positive man, suicide and depression never made sense to me. But breakups hurt you so bad man. My girl broke up with me 4 days ago, and I felt so lonely, I feel like nobody was gonna have my back, depressed, and even had suicidal thoughts. But then I consulted to my friends and family and things got better. But just a reminder to ya'll boys OR girls, that breakups hurt your partner so bad, so think twice, thanks

  • @eddyfnb5148

    @eddyfnb5148

    2 жыл бұрын

    I pray the universe grant your heart desires, Hey friends I got my relationship fixed with the help of a great spiritualist Who brought my ex after many months of separation,,,

  • @eddyfnb5148

    @eddyfnb5148

    2 жыл бұрын

    Message him now via WhatsApp

  • @eddyfnb5148

    @eddyfnb5148

    2 жыл бұрын

    ±19199806974⏯⏯️🇺🇸

  • @eddyfnb5148

    @eddyfnb5148

    2 жыл бұрын

    ±19199806974⏯⏯️🇺🇸

  • @ToxicVerixfy

    @ToxicVerixfy

    2 жыл бұрын

    Bro you got the online as your back bro breakups are no jokes they hurt alot its been for me 3 weeks almost just doing No Contact rule for 3 days now but shits hurt bro been praying every day to give my soulmate back and i promise to god to never lie again so i get your feelings its okayy man emotions makes your stronger and healthy later on i hope and pray for you too to get your ex back if you believe in your heart you going to get her back in the future keep that promise in your heart🙏🏻

  • @jannlewandowski5540
    @jannlewandowski55402 жыл бұрын

    Hello Lee...A lot of people say things in anger, but when they cool down, it's a whole new Ball Game. We've been apart now for over 10 years, and TIME was the main factor. After a 5 year engagement, he refused to marry me, so I left him. He rebounded 2 weeks later ,& married her. I LEFT HIM, AND IT TORE NE UP. He rebounded and married her 2 weeks later. CRAZY! It took a while to get over it, but I'm doing fine now. I believe he is a narcissist. All in all, I wish you all the best. I'm doing fine, since it's been 10.5 yrs. Best of luck to all of you.

  • @TonyRossiImpactGlobal
    @TonyRossiImpactGlobal2 жыл бұрын

    Ex wife and I have been divorced for 20 years. We spent almost every day together from March-June and then it stopped, I was very upfront about what I wanted, her. She said she wanted to go slow because she “wasn’t there yet”. Anyhow she broke it off end of July saying she just wanted to be friends. I declined and told her I wasn’t interested in being just friends and to let me know if she changes her mind. That was 7/27, it’s 11/11…only contact was when she called me, I missed the call. She called my son and asked if I’d bring her daughter to cheer. I did, but really no conversation other than thank you. Not sure what to do…

  • @kvs7876
    @kvs78762 жыл бұрын

    My mind tells me I should move on from her because she doesn’t deserve me. But my feelings and emotions keep pulling me back.

  • @doublea125
    @doublea1252 жыл бұрын

    The end is near Coach. She'll be coming back soon. How do I know? A mutual friend told me it was free balloon animal day. She could have asked for her favorite animal, an octopus. Instead, she got a penguin, which is mine. This was about 2 weeks ago. She still has it in her office, even though it's lost quite a bit of air.

  • @danvo1571

    @danvo1571

    2 жыл бұрын

    hahaha aww

  • @giving1261

    @giving1261

    2 жыл бұрын

    ÷ ¹³07²75³79⁴: MANIFEST A SPECIFIC CALL OR TEXT FROM SOMEONE SPECIAL. l Know a specialist that can help you with the manifestation.

  • @TheEmpress808

    @TheEmpress808

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lol this was cute to read. Best of luck to you mate. 🤙🏾

  • @rival_04

    @rival_04

    2 жыл бұрын

    Update?

  • @Road2Jannah416

    @Road2Jannah416

    2 жыл бұрын

    Update?

  • @jaimemint405
    @jaimemint4052 жыл бұрын

    Hi Coach Lee, thanks for your top notch Clips, they helped me a lot, the best thing is, i loved her, but it turns out, she has now a new boyfriend half of my age, an entrepreneur owner of a construction company, so the no contact rule does not really work out, but thats okay, we are "friends" and i am over it, mostly! ;-)

  • @adimasturd
    @adimasturd Жыл бұрын

    This man is a genius

  • @yasisanger619
    @yasisanger6192 жыл бұрын

    I needed this

  • @luza8154
    @luza81542 жыл бұрын

    I broke up my fiancé of 2 years , the attraction fell because of his relapse , or relapses 4 to be exact , I tried to be the supportive fiancé, but every relapse ate at me , it took a piece of me , I am in love with him , but now I need to love myself , I lost myself helping him pick up the broken pieces , but it was the broken pieces to my heart every time , I know he loves me , but he loves his drug more than me, so I left , I miss him dearly , but this is one of those situations where if you stay you will be dragged down to hell with them , and I can’t go there , it breaks my heart

  • @silviam.9224

    @silviam.9224

    2 жыл бұрын

    Updates? I experienced hell too 😔

  • @De_Los_Her
    @De_Los_Her2 жыл бұрын

    Great insights! 💥

  • @abizarhussainpoultrywala259
    @abizarhussainpoultrywala2599 ай бұрын

    V true n nicely explained really helps a lot do deal vd ur x i like it keep it up

  • @Potato-lq5sc
    @Potato-lq5sc2 жыл бұрын

    6 weeks no contact after a two month relationship and I’m kinda envying all these success stories of peoples exes coming back haha (can’t relate). It was my first relationship (not his) and after reflecting back and reading ‘get the guy’ by Matthew Hussey I’m starting to realise how little I knew and all the mistakes I made during the relationship. Not sure whether he’ll come back now or whether he’ll ever know what I’m truly capable of, but I’ll trust the process of no contact and allow the best outcome to reveal itself

  • @christopherrobindysart

    @christopherrobindysart

    2 жыл бұрын

    a two month relationship isn't really a relationship. not much for them to miss

  • @Potato-lq5sc

    @Potato-lq5sc

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@christopherrobindysart it was actually two and a half months

  • @lolmeercatz10

    @lolmeercatz10

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Potato-lq5sc I had the same thing I feel you, same length super intense

  • @lolmeercatz10

    @lolmeercatz10

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Potato-lq5sc did they come back to you yet? I'm like almost 60 days no contact

  • @meenudedha16

    @meenudedha16

    Жыл бұрын

    Update?

  • @c-fo3335
    @c-fo33352 жыл бұрын

    This hit the spot! Been separated and letting go, but she just text me a few days ago and said “I still care about you and I’m not a heartless bitch”. Well, i said thank you but you dont have to tell me how you feel-Im not stupid. TTYL…

  • @themetalave
    @themetalave28 күн бұрын

    After a year I am still here...Heal everyone..Take your time...Focus on yourselves...No contact is the only way for even a slight chance of rekindling a relationship.

  • @FellowGiant
    @FellowGiant2 жыл бұрын

    Was in a 5 year relationship with a girl got broken up little over 3 months ago it’s def stings everyday she just turned 25 I’m 23 we had something special and I def miss her these vids have def been helping

  • @nuhubakut3304

    @nuhubakut3304

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello I'm so excited my broken 💔💔 relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we leaving and happily together, I got help from a great man he's real and specific 💯

  • @nuhubakut3304

    @nuhubakut3304

    2 жыл бұрын

    Contact him 👇👇

  • @haiyenmai8703
    @haiyenmai87032 жыл бұрын

    I have watched all of your amazing videos, followed every steps and my ex finally came back after no contact. But he isnt trying to earn me back, he treats me casually. i expected him to make a lot more affort for me to feel safe and secure again but he said he already did his best. We're back together but it doesnt feel the same anymore. Idk if im the problem here...

  • @michaelg4044
    @michaelg4044 Жыл бұрын

    I have a cross that spells out the word hope; when my girlfriend was going through a rough time. I gave it to her; she hung it in her room. I know there’s still hope for us. And I like to think of that sign as like a horcrux of our love.

  • @jannlewandowski5540

    @jannlewandowski5540

    Жыл бұрын

    michaelg4044, I have a belief that I heard many years ago. WHERE THERES LIFE, THERE'S HOPE. Don't give up unless you know something for sure. If you feel it in your heart, or have a gut feeling. follow it. If it works out or not, you have Coach Lee's Workshop which is excellent.know it's really difficult and I've certainly been there. I don't know if you are aware, but Coach Lee has a live workshop called "Relationship Reignite." It's an incredible learning experience that I just can't say enough about. It focuses on saving a relationship from a breakup/separation and then keeping it after. It includes a coaching call each month for 6 months. You can talk to Coach Lee's team about it. I think the person for this is named Johnny and you can make an appointment with him to talk about it at myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite. I think you'll agree that it's an incredibly eye-opening and immensely helpful experience for you.

  • @mosesfigueroaful
    @mosesfigueroaful6 ай бұрын

    NC is cool, but I know I'm better off without her. There's no feelings left. Thanks Coach your videos did help me through the rough patch that was right in front of me. I made it through. Thanks

  • @RealCoachLee

    @RealCoachLee

    6 ай бұрын

    Moses, you are 💪🏻

  • @virginiashepard3232
    @virginiashepard32322 жыл бұрын

    I am amazed at your wisdom.

  • @hassanausman7952

    @hassanausman7952

    2 жыл бұрын

    Whatsazzz him👇👇👇

  • @alyssaroberts2675
    @alyssaroberts2675 Жыл бұрын

    Hey coach Lee, for about a month after the breakup I was doing the whole begging and pleading thing which now I know was the wrong thing but I never spewed anger and the last messages we had about a week ago I said it was probably best for us to take each other off social media and he agreed he didn’t want us to unintentionally hurt each other with our posts but expressed that it hurt his heart to do so but he understood. I told him he can reach out to me sometime and he said he would so I decided to go into no contact until he reaches out. I hope it was the right thing to do to take him off social media because it was only bothering both us seeing the other person. It’s a confusing process I wish I had seen your videos sooner.

  • @kolinsc2374

    @kolinsc2374

    Жыл бұрын

    any updates?

  • @ardentmasonry9459
    @ardentmasonry94592 жыл бұрын

    You don't think when your hearts broken ..you say and do stupid things .but you get stronger and move on

  • @ardentmasonry9459

    @ardentmasonry9459

    2 жыл бұрын

    Don't really want any of it anymore just taking day by day ..and life's getting really better

  • @justplaindan9595
    @justplaindan95952 жыл бұрын

    I had so much hope and everything and I believed in my heart that me and my ex had something sooo special , talked to me about so much intimate details of her life and lots of passion 😪 she assured me that what we had wasn’t a rebound and that she knows she wants to be with me long term (3months only ) out of nowhere she broke up with me over text saying “some girl I’ve been talking to can have me and she had enough “ Don’t know what to think rn

  • @alphamadaki8055

    @alphamadaki8055

    2 жыл бұрын

    +2348101367929⏭️⏭️⏭️⏭️Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of breakup..,

  • @debramcmartin905
    @debramcmartin9052 жыл бұрын

    No more chances at all of getting him back. And I am OK with that,now. I still.loved him,but not heart broken. Just accepting the status quo.

  • @fidelthomas69
    @fidelthomas692 жыл бұрын

    Its been almost 17mths after a 6yr Relationship where l was cheated on...did no contact and tried friendship...had arguments fall outs. I am thinking its about impossible for any kind of resolution there ia still so much anger.

  • @IndiansAuto

    @IndiansAuto

    2 жыл бұрын

    It’s tough being cheated on, you never get over that. Go on live your life. Maybe later on you can try again but you can’t trust. It’s up to you.

  • @signsignsign74

    @signsignsign74

    2 жыл бұрын

    13 months here after a 6 year relationship and I was cheated on too. Sorry bro. 😖

  • @edwinsuarez184
    @edwinsuarez1842 жыл бұрын

    My ex told me today, she’s interested in someone else. She went away in a trip and more than likely was with someone else. Your video has helped me especially today but I no longer have any expectations.

  • @user-hk3el6wq9r

    @user-hk3el6wq9r

    2 жыл бұрын

    Don't give up. Focus on you... your self improvement, and stay busy.

  • @pedrojsr6133

    @pedrojsr6133

    2 жыл бұрын

    Move on bro, if there is someone else just move on, at least she was honest with you. Give it time and you'll be okay.

  • @gc825
    @gc8252 жыл бұрын

    As long as you are not the one who is wrong, your ex can be angry but if youre right, prove hes wrong

  • @louiet475
    @louiet4752 жыл бұрын

    need to start following the advice, we ended on a pretty sour note... and ive just been begging and pleading while blocked through email... day 1 starts now.

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