Inside Each Enneagram Type’s Head at a Party 🎉

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  • @AbbeyHowe
    @AbbeyHowe11 ай бұрын

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  • @dboot8886

    @dboot8886

    10 ай бұрын

    Isn't this just astrology for not superstitious people?

  • @jeebock2061
    @jeebock206111 ай бұрын

    As a type 4, I can confirm I love to talk about childhood trauma at parties

  • @jessicamarshall1975
    @jessicamarshall197511 ай бұрын

    As an 8, this is 100% accurate. Also I’ve thought ‘why is your mouth still moving?’ numerous times and ‘stop following me’ when I’ve figured out an excuse to move away from someone but they decide to follow me and continue on.

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    11 ай бұрын

    hahaha I'll put those in the next one if I do another "inner monologue" kind of video

  • @Jessicaunarex
    @Jessicaunarex11 ай бұрын

    Thank you for not wearing the cliched black when you did the 4. We 4s do love bright colors for what they mean to us.

  • @TylenOneal239
    @TylenOneal2399 ай бұрын

    I’m a 9w1 and the “I had something to add to that, anddd the moment passed, probably wasn’t very interesting anyway” hit *hard.* The equal attention is very spot on especially when I play Pokémon. I like to give all my team members the front seat until their next level up

  • @artsyanne1192
    @artsyanne119211 ай бұрын

    I’m a 4w5, so I could relate to both the 4 and the 5. I’m also an introvert so I would definitely rather hang out with the host’s fur babies than mingle with the other people. As soon as I get to the party I’m already wondering how soon I can leave without appearing rude.

  • @michelled.613
    @michelled.6132 ай бұрын

    As a 9, I can't tell you how many conversations I've wanted to contribute to, but by the time I felt it was polite to interject, they've already moved on to a new topic. Then I sit around feeling bitter. It's very frustrating!!

  • @invadertifxiii
    @invadertifxiii11 ай бұрын

    I definitely feel 4 and 5 which makes sense being a 4w5

  • @mwatson4970
    @mwatson497011 ай бұрын

    True, though as a 5, usually it's the Babies or that one friend I come for.

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    11 ай бұрын

    ooh, love a good cute lil baby!

  • @finnobrien8481
    @finnobrien848111 ай бұрын

    always love your vids! -type 8, who always keeps time on how long i am at a party while trying to find a non-ass-holish way to leave ASAP 😂

  • @candacechavigne5560
    @candacechavigne556011 ай бұрын

    The upsetting part is how accurate and verbatim some of the internal monologue for the 8 is. I feel callled out. 😂😂😂😂❤

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    11 ай бұрын

    👀

  • @AMoniqueOcampo
    @AMoniqueOcampo11 ай бұрын

    I love Lemon's face while Type 5 is petting him. He's all: "Bork Bork!"

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    11 ай бұрын

    he's such a goober

  • @mestimac
    @mestimac8 ай бұрын

    I always gravitate toward pets and babies 😂 Type nine is really relatable, too. "Why did that just come out of your mouth?"

  • @abbyw06
    @abbyw0611 ай бұрын

    Oh good my outfit is appropriate. As a 3, SO TRUE for me. 😆

  • @SOPIBU
    @SOPIBU6 ай бұрын

    "I should make them feel welcome", "Am I talking to much about myself? I should ask something." "I need to help more." Thank you for making these videos so relatable. They make me feel welcome and understood. You're a wonderful and thoughtful person Abbey, keep going! 😄

  • @ArcaneGinger
    @ArcaneGinger11 ай бұрын

    2w1 The 1 wing for sure, was spot on. Apparently, thats what I use in social events.. 2 is more along the lines of what I'm like for home family gatherings :)

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    11 ай бұрын

    Thanks for sharing!!

  • @Avionne_Parris
    @Avionne_Parris11 ай бұрын

    As a SX 4w3, I scope out the scene looking for that one person I'll have a deep connection with (4). I also seek compliments for my outfit (3). Real talk tho, if Lemon Drop is present at the party, all bets are off! Fun fact: I do accents when I'm nervous to meet new people :-)

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    11 ай бұрын

    Lemon is the true star of any party.... I'm literally throwing him a party for his first birthday this month 😂

  • @Avionne_Parris

    @Avionne_Parris

    11 ай бұрын

    @@AbbeyHowe Ooh, I know you'll go theme-crazy, Abs: Lemonade, lemon merengue pies, lemon heads, and, of couse, lemon drops (or is that just me :P) Whatever you decide, I know that party's gonna be LIT! Happy first birthday, Lemon :-)

  • @marciyoung2217
    @marciyoung221711 ай бұрын

    I'm a 6 with a strong 5 wing. I think my inner monologue is more about mental/emotional exit plan and safety than physical. So it is more... how can I get away from this person?...what should I say to be done with this conversation without upsetting anyone? That sort of thing.

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    11 ай бұрын

    ooh yes. that's a good point!

  • @UnderRooer
    @UnderRooer10 ай бұрын

    Your 9 segment gave me physical pain from how true it is!

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    10 ай бұрын

    sorrryyyyy

  • @enfieldjohn101
    @enfieldjohn10110 ай бұрын

    This was very funny, but true. I can't stand going to parties. My wife sometimes gets invited to them and drags me along. I never suggest that we go to one or that we throw a party ourselves.

  • @LapisGamer0500
    @LapisGamer05007 ай бұрын

    The 1,9, and 8 are the voices in my head every time I have to socialize! xD

  • @fangirl365
    @fangirl36511 ай бұрын

    I'm a 4 and most vibe with 9 and 5. That 4 doesn't have the social anxiety I do lol

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    11 ай бұрын

    😂 definitely a more extroverted four

  • @fangirl365

    @fangirl365

    11 ай бұрын

    @@AbbeyHowe Admittedly though, I thought something similar to “I’m the most interesting person here” in school, usually while dramatically gazing out the window of the school bus like in the movies XD

  • @brookec.b.3611
    @brookec.b.361111 ай бұрын

    Such a fun video! I'm slowly learning more about enneagrams. Your channel has been a big help! 🙌

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    11 ай бұрын

    yay! i'm so happy to hear that. Thanks for being here, Brooke. ♥️

  • @davidlengyel8435
    @davidlengyel843511 ай бұрын

    watched it like 3 times. this is so fun! love the skit

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    11 ай бұрын

    aww yay!! so glad you enjoyed it. i had fun making it!

  • @cmpicha2934
    @cmpicha293411 ай бұрын

    I knew the type 1 was me not far into it 😬 The actual words "social faux pas" have never gone through my mind, but the rest of the inner monologue and the mortifying feelings that come with one... very real. Other than that small detail, spot on! I also relate to the 9 more than I would like to, but that makes sense with having a strong 9 wing.

  • @sagieaesir13
    @sagieaesir1311 ай бұрын

    I love your skits Abbey! They're so much fun to watch, especially when I can guess which type it is before it shows up on screen. Got 7/9!

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    11 ай бұрын

    so glad you enjoyed it, Avalon!!

  • @KairaisnotaLiopleurodon
    @KairaisnotaLiopleurodon11 ай бұрын

    Hahaha you do a great job with this style of video. Thanks for the laughs, very accurate

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    11 ай бұрын

    i'm so glad you enjoyed it! it was fun to make.

  • @KendrixTermina
    @KendrixTermina10 ай бұрын

    i appreciate how you did the inner voices

  • @lindaweedmark6025
    @lindaweedmark602510 ай бұрын

    I'm a 4 vibing with the 8

  • @shofierc
    @shofierc10 ай бұрын

    As a type 7 I almost spit out my drink after I found out the 7 interpretation was so spot on 😭😭😭😭 I think we'd think too much in the conversation groups rather than actually engaging lol!! I'd like to dance and vibing to songs more tbh... it brings me more joy and fulfillments!!

  • @arachnid33
    @arachnid3311 ай бұрын

    So accurate!! ❤

  • @Phrema
    @Phrema11 ай бұрын

    The 3 was very me!

  • @hadstrotheluckyguy8180
    @hadstrotheluckyguy818011 ай бұрын

    AS A 2W1 THE 2 AND 1 MONOLOGUES WERE SO TRUE TO ME TOOO😭

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    11 ай бұрын

    😭 😂

  • @j_hafe.
    @j_hafe.11 ай бұрын

    That was fun, tried to guess which type for each - got most of them right ! (im 9w8 - hits home!)

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    11 ай бұрын

    glad you enjoyed it!

  • @marishaten7399
    @marishaten739911 ай бұрын

    Yet another insightful video. Your content simply gets better and better with time ❤

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    11 ай бұрын

    Marisha 😭 thank you for saying that.

  • @marishaten7399

    @marishaten7399

    11 ай бұрын

    @@AbbeyHowe 👍❤

  • @lizf1353
    @lizf13536 ай бұрын

    Though the Enneagram integrates some concepts that parallel other theories of personality,[7] it has been dismissed by personality assessment experts as pseudoscience.[8]

  • @GM-kh4tu
    @GM-kh4tu11 ай бұрын

    Madam, I did miss your videos and your face. It's good to see you're back, hope everything is working out for you ❤

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    11 ай бұрын

    Madam! So proper

  • @trinaq
    @trinaq11 ай бұрын

    Thanks for another hilarious, on point video, Abbey. I reckon that I'm a toss between a Type 2 or 9.

  • @lux_24601

    @lux_24601

    11 ай бұрын

    Same

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    11 ай бұрын

    thanks for watching and commenting, Trina!

  • @trinaq

    @trinaq

    11 ай бұрын

    @@AbbeyHowe My pleasure, Abbey, thank you for continuing to make hilarious videos! 😂🤣

  • @HighFiveFriend
    @HighFiveFriend11 ай бұрын

    Type 5. 👍🏻. And love your Enneagram sweatshirt!

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    11 ай бұрын

    yay! thank you. it's my fave 😜

  • @alexkay6676
    @alexkay667611 ай бұрын

    I don’t like how accurate nine is. Fantastic video. (Why are nines so self depreciating?)

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    11 ай бұрын

    it's sad!! that's why we need to tell all the nines how awesome they are, give specific reasons why, and encourage them to love themselves!

  • @alexkay6676

    @alexkay6676

    11 ай бұрын

    @@AbbeyHowe Must be why my top (or second top) love language is words of affirmation.

  • @Bloom-z8n
    @Bloom-z8n11 ай бұрын

    I mostly think like 8 5 and 7 the most. 1, 6 and 2 is the least.

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    11 ай бұрын

    thanks for sharing!!

  • @riri2575
    @riri257511 ай бұрын

    I’m a 4, relate most to the 8 in this video.

  • @riri2575

    @riri2575

    11 ай бұрын

    I’ve been relating to enneagram 8 often in the last year or two. Interesting how we each evolve.

  • @LunaFreiheit
    @LunaFreiheit11 ай бұрын

    You always trick me when 1 has similar reactions to 3 and it comes first 😂 I am like that’s 3! And then: almost

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    11 ай бұрын

    👀 they do have similar traits!

  • @Elexsaria
    @Elexsaria11 ай бұрын

    What if you're all the types?! Loved this video :)

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    11 ай бұрын

    hahaha you are a VERY interesting human then.

  • @_m3re
    @_m3re11 ай бұрын

    the 8 was too accurate help 💀 -8w9

  • @danab172
    @danab1723 ай бұрын

    You dont put all the numbers in the video. :(