No video

WORST Jobs for Each Enneagram Personality Type

The absolute WORST jobs for your personality (and then the BEST careers for you! )
Don't Know Your Enneagram Number? Get Your Free Typing Guide ➡️ bit.ly/3bUDXdb
WATCH NEXT: Worst Things to Say to Each Enneagram Type • WORST Things to Say to...
ABOUT THIS CHANNEL:
Explore your personality by diving into the Enneagram with certified Enneagram coach, Abbey Howe (3w4). The goal of this channel is to help you discover YOU through the dynamic lens of the Enneagram of Personality and other topics surrounding personality like mental health, introversion, and extraversion! #EnneagramWithAbbey #enneagramcareers #enneagram #enneagramhumor #typology #personalitytypes
FIND YOUR ENNEAGRAM TYPE:
*Take the test here: truity.com/?a=2788847
Another test I love: assessment.yourenneagramcoach...
What do the numbers mean?: bit.ly/HowToFindYourType
SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL:
One time donation: www.buymeacoffee.com/abbeyhowe
Join a thoughtful & exclusive Enneagram community: / abbeyhowe
SAY HELLO:
Join the Email List: mailchi.mp/d892c9514d61/abbey...
Instagram: / enneagramwithabbey
Facebook: / enneagramwithabbey
Twitter: / abbeyhowe
TikTok: bit.ly/AbbeyTikTok
Pinterest: bit.ly/EnneagramPinterest
FTC DISCLAIMER:
This video was not sponsored, but links in this description might be affiliate links. If you purchase a product or service with the links that I provide, I may receive a small commission. There is no additional charge to you! Thank you for supporting my channel so I can continue to provide you with free content each week!
Abbey Howe
WORST Jobs for Each Enneagram Type
• WORST Jobs for Each En...
🎶 Music by Epidemic Sound and Bensound🎶

Пікірлер: 218

  • @ILoveJesusMySavior
    @ILoveJesusMySavior2 жыл бұрын

    I'm a Type 5, INFJ, Autist, and Misophone, and I was trapped in retail for YEARS. I am lucky to be alive. But I actually kinda liked when customers asked me to look in the back even when I knew what they wanted wasn't there. They might as well have been saying, "Honey, you're so overwhelmed out here with all the people... why don't you take a quick breather in the back away from everyone?" I'd go stand in the stockroom and take deep, cleansing breaths, all with the customer's blessing... it was beautiful.

  • @hannahhutchison1177

    @hannahhutchison1177

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same. The immediate relief of the quiet stockroom! Those breathers were a lifesaver.

  • @Wulfex
    @Wulfex2 жыл бұрын

    As a Type 9, software engineer was a decent choice when you can buckle down, write code, and work with a team to make a product. What's not great is when you suddenly find yourself managing a bunch of people because no one wants to take charge on the project and you just say yes to everything to keep the peace. Send help.

  • @Jessicaunarex
    @Jessicaunarex2 жыл бұрын

    This was funny. Though as a Type 4 who works a robotic job, I find that the worst job for a 4 would involve that which doesn’t allow the 4 to escape into dream. So, in that sense, robotic jobs are not that bad. I actually prefer them, if I am forced to work. Repetitive detail allows me to to escape into daydream. Prob the worst job would involve the 4 to be ever present, where there could be no daydream-an air traffic controller, a cop, an ER surgeon, I imagine. A lawyer. Your husband is spot on in his response. The 4 CAN do robotic work as long as there is an opportunity for self-expression elsewhere. It doesn’t become our identity, in other words.

  • @loisrabies8713

    @loisrabies8713

    2 жыл бұрын

    Good point. Jobs that have unneeded stress are the worst. I’m not about to make a job like that my life. When you are stuck thinking about things you don’t care about suck.

  • @mickeyc2137

    @mickeyc2137

    Жыл бұрын

    good points I also think that sales jobs are terrible for 4's because you have to be inauthentic and kiss assy and there are strict sales quotas that have to be hit which we hate goals especially if obtaining the goals forces us to not be ourselves

  • @Rmetr0

    @Rmetr0

    Жыл бұрын

    As a 4w5, I liked programming in school and that's why I went to the uni where I studied programming. But now I am not that satisfied being on a real job as a programmer... And I think that's because in school I could write programs however I want (there were no strict rules, any solution that works was correct + the teacher used to give freedom in which tasks I can choose). + I dreamed of making my own games and programs. But now not only I have to do strictly the task that was assigned to me, but also the way of coding is different: there are a lot of already existing technologies and principles of coding where you cannot really express yourself, you just have to do things correctly as other people decided. You even have to name variables and functions by some conventions, not however you want...

  • @Rmetr0

    @Rmetr0

    Жыл бұрын

    P.S. But I'm not complaining even if I'm a 4 😂 I just wanted to tell my story Actually, I am learning day by day to work on that job and to accept that there are things that need to be done that strict way and I'm also trying to give myself as much freedom of expression as possible in other aspects of life ✨

  • @Rmetr0

    @Rmetr0

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mickeyc2137 Yess totally can relate, sales is like the opposite of me 😂 But actually I'm now interested in sales skills because I started to notice it helps receive more money, so I think it could be actually really helpful. Maybe it's not that easy and natural for a 4, but I believe everything is possible 🙏🏻

  • @lux_24601
    @lux_246012 жыл бұрын

    As a 5, I busted out laughing at the "I'm correctly answering your questions" bit 😂 reminds me of my days in fast food. Also, I saw your post about you struggling with your mental health so I hope you're taking care of yourself 😊

  • @rebeccahorne9487

    @rebeccahorne9487

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lol, yep. "I'm providing you with facts! Why are the facts insufficient?!"

  • @HighFiveFriend

    @HighFiveFriend

    2 жыл бұрын

    “5” here! In HS when I worked at BK I loved being in the back… making burgers and fries. I was *insanely* efficient and could do the work of 3. The few times they moved me to cashier/drive thru I HATED it and informed them I would quit if it continued! 🙌.

  • @annacooksey7276

    @annacooksey7276

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yup. I'm a 5 and worked A LOT of retail. I ended up opening up a lot and becoming a bit more social because of it. It made me more adaptable, yet, I still prefer a different environment.

  • @ashleybro6933

    @ashleybro6933

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, my 5 husband (he's a ten! but lol you know what I mean) got fired from a food service job for going off on a customer, and this sounds just like it lol...I love him but retail and food service are *not* for him

  • @oryx3

    @oryx3

    2 жыл бұрын

    "As stated earlier, there are no other colors..." makes sense to me!

  • @elphieofkiamoko
    @elphieofkiamoko2 жыл бұрын

    I'm a 4w5 who got stuck in retail and oh my GOSH it's soul crushing. I used their education benefits to go back to school and get a degree in Graphic Design, so I think you nailed it XD

  • @mostfrozenburrito
    @mostfrozenburrito2 жыл бұрын

    I’m a type 4 and I literally did a bookkeeping course and was set on doing accounting but as I did the course, I had a sense of horror come over me at the thought of sitting at a desk doing numbers all day

  • @jayhloe
    @jayhloe2 жыл бұрын

    As a type 3 I literally quit my job because I refused to wait a year for me to get a raise or to even get recognized. It is embarrassing when someone who works way less and does way less than you do only for them to get that raise and for you to put in all of that hard work not to even be recognized by your own job. Why stay if you can’t grow. That’s literally downgrading my character and for that I had to go.

  • @catchthesun15
    @catchthesun152 жыл бұрын

    Type 8 here, had to open my own business, because every time I heard a supervisor said "When your name is on the door, you can make the rules", I would think .... "Fine, then I will."

  • @ecedmonds

    @ecedmonds

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly. I have coworkers that call me Boss lady and tell me that I should be running the place daily. I simply agree. Whenever I figure what kind of business I want to open up life will be much more fun.

  • @CandaceNDiaye
    @CandaceNDiaye2 жыл бұрын

    I’m an 8w7 and this is accurate. I was an executive assistant once upon a time and was miserable. I do much better in a leader role than a support role. Something that drives me nuts is a manager who says they want legit feedback and opinions, then you give it to then and they get upset. I have no patience for that. And, true to my wing, I hate really monotonous work.

  • @marybradleyblack
    @marybradleyblack2 жыл бұрын

    This cracked me up as a 9! I remember years ago telling my kids I was tired of being the referee!!! Give me my peace please

  • @ridirih9807
    @ridirih98072 жыл бұрын

    As a Type 5, I did really well as first a high school teacher, then as an elementary teacher. The variety of personalities and needs of my students balanced really well with clear-cut rules and schedules. The only drawback for the kids was, when the bell rang, that was it for me. I might take an additional 5 minutes for someone, but I wasn’t the cool teacher hanging out for an extra half hour with the students. I needed quiet, and I needed space to recharge. 99% of my interaction was during class. Since many of my students later told me how much they had enjoyed me as a teacher, I must not have been that bad ☺️

  • @Youtuber111-p2x
    @Youtuber111-p2x2 жыл бұрын

    type 8. got promoted to supervisor. place was running like clockwork, something that hasn't happened in a while. manager pulled me aside, said i was being too bossy. quit a few months later. if ur not gonna appreciate the work i do, why waste my time. their loss.

  • @14xx07
    @14xx072 жыл бұрын

    As a type 4…. But I’ve come to accept that finance/ coding jobs pay better than music and teaching. Combined. 🥺 I’ve taught preschool for awhile and within 2years, I’ve creatively out performed and quickly reach the pay cap for preschool teachers in my country.. erm.. we get really really low pay.. :( am trying to see where can I work in quantitative sector. As a single 26year old (2020), self-supporting a career switch studying psychology.. I hope to be able to help my parent pay off the house and also be able to bring my parent to places before it’s too late.. 🥺😔

  • @kanryuseizone8338
    @kanryuseizone83382 жыл бұрын

    As a type 5 and have been worked in retail for few years, I absolutely hated that job

  • @jbr2991
    @jbr29912 жыл бұрын

    Abbey, As a One, I burst out laughing when the bartender wanted everyone in a straight line. Then she says using her mouth and hand signals , “Eyes on me.” As a retired teacher of first graders, I used to do that every time we would line up to leave the classroom. Then I would provide my students with the following instructions: stay in a straight line, be quiet so as not to disrupt other classes. And I would always end with, “I love you, and I know you are going to do this perfectly.” I had never even heard of the Enneagram back then!!! 😂

  • @Catlily5

    @Catlily5

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, she definitely sounded like a teacher.

  • @ccverdera6298
    @ccverdera62982 жыл бұрын

    Type 8 here, this was spot on. I actually used to be a waiter. It was horrible! The managers were all on power trips, they’d try to bully everyone, you were constantly reminded of how much you didn’t matter, etc. Thankfully, I am in school now and doing much better. Hope to have my own business (or 2) when I graduate. I love how accurate your videos are ❤️

  • @evangelle82

    @evangelle82

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly! Type 8. Good luck in school! When i was starting in my career... I have worked many jobs and as a contractor before. As long as I had support of Management to grow and learn new things, then I thrive. If people have power trips... or start bullying employees.. I don't yell. I don't use sarcasm. I speak TRUTH and ask that Manager questions? It has DEFINITELY pissed of some lower/midlevel managers. lol. Don't care. I will sleep at night upon your grave. Then I'm here to scorch the earth and stand up for the underdog. Yes it cost me some jobs, but I am now in the place where I am valued and loved :)

  • @fsi8583

    @fsi8583

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes it's sucks

  • @tasegomeara
    @tasegomeara2 жыл бұрын

    I’m a type 4 and a primary school teacher- my kiddies really do make me feel special and I try to repay them by making each of them feel seen and accepted. It’s a great career for a 4 IMO, you have a lot of creative autonomy, feel like you’re making a difference and it challenges you to be practical and disciplined.

  • @--thatbih
    @--thatbih2 жыл бұрын

    As a young introverted type 5 I had my first job yesterday working at this soup place and I can honestly say it only took me 4hrs to already want to smack the shit out of somebody but I can't because "the customer is always right"

  • @timdavis2220
    @timdavis22202 жыл бұрын

    As an 8, I once wanted to work as a host in a restaurant (I was in emergency medicine and looking for something I thought less stressful) ...until the owner related a story about the woman who called the host over to complain that her lettuce in her salad was too green....and I knew if that happened to me I would have been fired for the response I would have given her. Retired now and logging my property with a chain saw is just the right amount of control for me.

  • @timdavis2220

    @timdavis2220

    2 жыл бұрын

    By the way, the best nurses I worked with were all 2's...

  • @hannahcrossett3415
    @hannahcrossett34152 жыл бұрын

    As an 8w9, I get the secretary issue. While the w9 may not have the loss of that client, that basic conversation would be there just not thought outloud.

  • @samarasketches6519
    @samarasketches65192 жыл бұрын

    I'm a 4 but I related to 3 the most. I want to be acknowledged for my work and creativity and even watching that part made me want to cry...

  • @rebeccahorne9487
    @rebeccahorne94872 жыл бұрын

    Type 5 here! A hard job I've had: Caregiver, for strangers, through an agency--needing to carefully balance being emotionally invested enough to be perceived as safe and personable, while NOT being too emotionally involved, so as to not cross professional boundaries. Best job so far: caregiver for my own partner. Rarely have to leave the house, never have to fake emotions or hold them back artificially, can problem solve, my work is genuinely appreciated, can meaningfully discuss problems. Caregiver isn't an obvious job for 5, but it can work if you're in touch with your emotions.

  • @alexistokarska9541

    @alexistokarska9541

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah! I find mysekf not emotionally involved most of the times, but my dream job is being psychologist which actually involves socialising, being emotionally involved when needed, but also logical at times, and It may look like it's not good job for a 5, but I'm so ito it and I love to be my "friends groups psychologist" as i like to call it. We are not emotionless and we can take care of people very well, It just depends on how is this planned out

  • @kevinatkinz2612
    @kevinatkinz26122 жыл бұрын

    The type 5 interaction is exactly what it's like working in retail. And I'm a 5 working in retail.

  • @JH-yj7kk
    @JH-yj7kk2 жыл бұрын

    I'm a 5 and I absolutely hated working in retail and serving in restaurants. Like I would actually go home and cry in the shower some days. Never again!

  • @ryanchurchill5081

    @ryanchurchill5081

    2 жыл бұрын

    My current job is manager at McDonald's so yes I hate my job.

  • @yt-sh

    @yt-sh

    2 жыл бұрын

    happy you got out

  • @Jedidragoon
    @Jedidragoon2 жыл бұрын

    I’m a type 5 and worked At Walmart for years. I survived by never being in the same position for more than two years. Yeah…

  • @AMoniqueOcampo
    @AMoniqueOcampo2 жыл бұрын

    Type 9: Instead of being a referee or divorce lawyers, they should be cheerleaders or paralegals. Type 8: Since they don't like being undervalued, I see Type 8s being lawyers. Type 7: Poor Type 7s in data entry! Their work should be more along the lines of advertising! Type 6: Since I have 6 in my tritype, I can finally get why I don't freelance. Coordinating projects is way more their jam! Type 5: Type 5s make the best librarians. All that information at their fingertips! Type 4: Fun fact. My mom is an accountant. The financial world baffles me. But I love tutoring kids and they definitely like me! (I wouldn't say no to a ghostwriting job tho.) Type 3: In one story that I'm writing, I have a Type 3 character who works for a newspaper and films herself as the action is happening. They gotta be in the room where it happens! Type 2: I know that stereotypically Type 2s are seen as being good teachers, but I think they would make good chefs or owning a bakery or a cafe. Hospitality is their jam! Type 1: The way that the bartender talked is very teacher-like! LOL! Since I go to Type 1 in growth, I think Type 1s would make amazing teachers for subjects like math or other higher level subjects. But aside from that, I see them being great editors.

  • @shrutiupadhyay9275

    @shrutiupadhyay9275

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m a type 8 going into law lmao

  • @buffyfan5

    @buffyfan5

    2 жыл бұрын

    As a type 5 working in a public library... it's basically retail.

  • @aashizo

    @aashizo

    2 жыл бұрын

    oh yeah, ill be doing mass communications with advertising as my major!!

  • @EveInTheMachine

    @EveInTheMachine

    2 жыл бұрын

    LOL you called me out at type 5... I keep checking to see if our library is hiring. 🤣

  • @omerkitov2192
    @omerkitov21922 жыл бұрын

    oh my GOD college admissions! Didn’t even think about that. I thought you were gonna do a job where you have to be alone most of the time or that doesn’t have a strong community for the 2s, but a job where you gotta hurt people is wayyyy worse.

  • @Susanne_218
    @Susanne_2182 жыл бұрын

    I'm a 5 and a secretary, which suits me just fine. I work mostly on my own, don't have much contact with other than a few colleagues, and I get to be detail-oriented. Only trouble is that I struggle to speak up at meetings, because I feel I need to know more before speaking. But I'm getting better 🙂 Worst job I ever had was in McDonald's. Not me at all.

  • @angelabuckeye
    @angelabuckeye2 жыл бұрын

    I don’t think type 8s want to be the boss, they just don’t want to report to idiots…. there are very limited options so we end up HAVING to be the boss because there aren’t options 😂😂😂

  • @loveteachingesl

    @loveteachingesl

    Жыл бұрын

    My 8 husband says exactly that! Not to have to control, but not to be led by someone he doesn't respect or who isn't as smart as he is.

  • @nnek10
    @nnek102 жыл бұрын

    As a type 1 I really related to the worst job for type 4. I work in insurance and feel exactly like a robot. It’s horrible and definitely purposeless.

  • @samarasketches6519

    @samarasketches6519

    2 жыл бұрын

    How did you comment this two hours ago?

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@samarasketches6519 Oneka is in the Patreon so she gets early access 💕

  • @samarasketches6519

    @samarasketches6519

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@AbbeyHowe Oh ok!

  • @kelseywarren-bryant2682

    @kelseywarren-bryant2682

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes! I’m a type 1 and can’t stand data entry jobs. They’re not challenging and often leave me feeling bored 🥱 Something that’s meaningful, fast paced, and requires attention to detail is my cup of tea

  • @rupinderh01

    @rupinderh01

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@kelseywarren-bryant2682I 1w9 self preservation and do medical coding, I don't think it's right for Mr not meaningful. I don't like fast paced though. Maybe a mentor for young people or coach or teacher suits me , also I like art

  • @jloudwig
    @jloudwig2 жыл бұрын

    I'm a type 7 and I recently got hired as a Documentation Associate. Now, I'm already starting to worry about my self 😂

  • @Lizzzi86
    @Lizzzi862 жыл бұрын

    I'm 8w7 and I was secretary for one year and a half for a tax consultant, but I was very lucky because my boss was the kindest person in the world, very good with everyone, even when he wanted a copy or a document or that I call someone, he asked that in a way that seems like he was asking me for a favor, not like in a bossy way at all. So I was feeling like I was taking care of him 🤣 Also I had the freedom and power to set his agenda and to be firm with customers that didn't want to pay 😌

  • @jessicascott3227
    @jessicascott32272 жыл бұрын

    I’m a type 4, and I had to take an accounting class for my business minor. It has been the worst class I have ever taken, because of the repetitive nature of the homework and class. I could never be an accountant ever. It felt like my creativity was completely squashed.

  • @kourtneytrent3456
    @kourtneytrent34562 жыл бұрын

    Not me being a type 5 and watching this the morning before I start my new retail job 😆

  • @mariongivhan4574
    @mariongivhan45742 жыл бұрын

    You acting out type 1 gave such strong Amy Santiago energy :D and also, very accurate. As a 1, if I don’t live up to my standard, things are not going to go well

  • @maddietodd4987
    @maddietodd49872 жыл бұрын

    Lol wow! Type 1 here. I got my degree in musical theatre but ultimately decided that that is a passion but likely not a career for me. A year after graduating I was an elementary music teacher for a year and it was my least favorite job I’ve ever had 😂 and you literally mentioned both of those things as no go careers for 1s! My mouth dropped! Lol

  • @rycroftphilostratem3536
    @rycroftphilostratem35362 жыл бұрын

    Jeez you're such a good actress!!

  • @asiminamarouda7532
    @asiminamarouda75322 жыл бұрын

    I'm 4w5 and I can't do any of them ...

  • @ChrisAstrology
    @ChrisAstrology2 жыл бұрын

    I am Enneagram 7w8 and my worst job was working in McDonald’s

  • @AbbeyHowe

    @AbbeyHowe

    2 жыл бұрын

    Why did you dislike it?

  • @ChrisAstrology

    @ChrisAstrology

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@AbbeyHowe I dislike it because it was a lot of routine work. Also both customers and employees were very rude

  • @emilybaker6193
    @emilybaker61932 жыл бұрын

    Another horrible job for ennegram 9's is a real estate agent... negotiating a difficult escrow is a nightmare for a 9... I would know cause I'm a 9 and I was an agent for 3 years

  • @mikemcconville2495

    @mikemcconville2495

    2 жыл бұрын

    9 here. I’ve known all along to avoid real estate

  • @kristinb5073
    @kristinb50732 жыл бұрын

    The “Do you row?” comment in the Type 2 section was underrated comedic gold. 💀

  • @micromyuze
    @micromyuze2 жыл бұрын

    Type 5 who used to work retail. I was the type that would form a strategy for the smallest detail and I was good at it until a customer became unreasonably awful. There were a few occasions I turned into that 8 after being insulted or threatened--they thought a short, Asian lady wouldn't fight back. So you are right. I put 200% into that job but it's better that I stay far away from anything related to customers.

  • @hannahhutchison1177

    @hannahhutchison1177

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes the strategizing was one of the fun aspects. I used to plan tasks to take me away from the front lines. Going into 8 mode is great for catching thieves and quick change artists. I also was assumed to be an easy target lol.

  • @michaelluzecky4026
    @michaelluzecky40262 жыл бұрын

    As a type 6 I understand the negatives of freelancing. However, I also wing 7, and I tend to appreciate freelancing more now than I did a few years ago. With that wing 7 I see why I rather freelance than work full time in one place, not to mention when I get consistent freelancing jobs, I get paid more in a day than if I worked full time.

  • @axrf03
    @axrf032 жыл бұрын

    Funny thing, I'm a 7w6 data analyst and sales op specialist. So, my job is to fill data and organized customer's database. I love my job because I can learn about our company and customers, I can listen to music and go to my 5 sides quicker. Also, I have a great marketing and advertising background, sooo I'm the full package =P

  • @Sam-bs8by
    @Sam-bs8by2 жыл бұрын

    As an Ennegram 7w8 I’m currently working as an admin assistant, and it’s a pretty miserable experience for me... I’ve only stuck to it this long because it’s temporary while I study to have a job I really want!

  • @DariusLong
    @DariusLong2 жыл бұрын

    Ok, the type 2 one was absolutely hilarious to me! Definitely a great video Abbey!

  • @renee2994
    @renee29942 жыл бұрын

    I am 8 and I agree pretty much. I am not a boss I am an assistant lol I am a good tram player but I do get upset if the boss gives something to one n not the other..that's when I fall apart lol

  • @hazydayz988
    @hazydayz9882 жыл бұрын

    Funny enough I’m a 7 and I love data entry. What I cannot handle is being a receptionist because I can’t deal with being yelled at by angry people. 😂

  • @thebabygiraffe4921
    @thebabygiraffe49212 жыл бұрын

    I'm a 3 and 4...and you're right!!! I thrive in competitive environments where I am recognized.

  • @jilyana5739
    @jilyana57392 жыл бұрын

    After watching this I just have to say, you're doing an amazing job with this channel. I appreciate your content and look forward to your videos *hugs*

  • @InvaderNax
    @InvaderNax2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah I'm a type 1 bartender and I love it. The jobs I found hard as a 1 was anything where I was told that speed was vastly more important than the quality of the work and was punished for being slow due to trying to do the job at a high standard.

  • @quelll7143

    @quelll7143

    Жыл бұрын

    Thissss

  • @akpenguin1859
    @akpenguin18592 жыл бұрын

    Not gonna lie I didn’t think this was going to be accurate, but as usual, you nailed it! I’m a type 4 receptionist and when I have to do accounting sometimes I feel like falling asleep. And to think I went to school for accounting and absolutely hated it! (4w5)

  • @marishaten7399
    @marishaten73992 жыл бұрын

    Great video! It was educational and entertaining in equal measure. Looking forward to many more awesome contents from you!

  • @AlskaNoelle
    @AlskaNoelle2 жыл бұрын

    Now I’m going to have crazy pregnancy nightmares about being a referee

  • @evangelle82
    @evangelle822 жыл бұрын

    Type 8 here and that is pretty much accurate. I have worked as a Secretary but as long as I had support of Management then it's an amazing environment. I use that opportunity to learn HOW Management thinks, and what they value (to become one, one day). When Managers are abusive or start bullying employees (especially when I was contractor)... I ALWAYS spoke the truth. Even if I pissed all of the midlevel Managers off. lol. Don't care. I will always speak honesty. That lost me some jobs but at least I can sleep at night. I will always stand up for the employees, the vulnerable and underdog. At least now I'm working for the Government where Employees are valued.

  • @MrAgentTurner
    @MrAgentTurner2 жыл бұрын

    As a 5 I'm totally fine with retail, you moreso hit the mark of not wanting to be a politician, or anything that gives me attention!

  • @lolagomez7130
    @lolagomez71302 жыл бұрын

    For a type 9 is a great job to be a secretary, just contrary as type 8

  • @AfroditeBell
    @AfroditeBell2 жыл бұрын

    I’m a 7w8 but good god did I feel the 8 one… I’m a stay at home mom so no “official job” in the workforce…but my husband basically says this is why even if I did work, I couldn’t do it for very long… I’m a passive enfp, but I will flip to a very aggressive ESTP if the environment I’m in, isn’t up to par…and most workplaces want yes men, and barely function properly.

  • @FK-tr9mw
    @FK-tr9mw2 жыл бұрын

    You're such a good actress

  • @GirlGamerRULES
    @GirlGamerRULES2 жыл бұрын

    As a Type 4, I hate the idea of working a desk job, something that anyone or everyone does. I can’t imagine because another cog in a machine, I want to be the one finding beauty in said machine and living a life that is unique and different :)

  • @Penneylanetravels
    @Penneylanetravels2 жыл бұрын

    Haha…my heart literally started racing when you were enacting a freelancer. Talk about a nightmare! And yes…I’m a 6w5 😄

  • @ItsKimOlson
    @ItsKimOlson2 жыл бұрын

    8: I felt seen IMMEDIATLY, in that intro! Yes to all!!!!! I'm currently working on a project where I feel undervalued and not in control and I want to quit right now! I'm fully aware of my Enneagram and how to control it, but I can only do so much. 8 w/ 7: Explains why being a Customer Service Agent made me want to unalive myself and why Multimedia Entertainment Journalist is THE GOAL.

  • @sophielawson5122
    @sophielawson51222 жыл бұрын

    type 3w2 here! I literally fall asleep at night imagining myself win awards and get recognition lmao. Cannot imagine being a ghostwriter lol.

  • @INFJWay
    @INFJWay2 жыл бұрын

    Abbey, this is hilarious! 🤣 I cracked up when you got to Type 1. It's exactly how I would respond if I was in that job. Thank you for your fun videos. 💖

  • @seforaker
    @seforaker2 жыл бұрын

    Ahaha 5w6 here Been in pet retail for 6 years 😂 I'm not here to say you're wrong because all of the negatives discussed are definitely things I hate. However I have been able to research and learn pet nutrition and products and I love customers who want ALL info and allow me to just dump info on them. I now work on the website for the shot and I love it so much. Flexibility, no registers, no phone calls, sometimes I do product photography, and I process online orders. I love it but probably because pet food keeps evolving and allows me to learn new things. If I got yelled at for folding shirts wrong I'd leave on the spot.

  • @hannahhutchison1177

    @hannahhutchison1177

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm 5w4, I agree. Learning a new skill, even just simplistic as retail can be enjoyable. Business is so much more multi-layered then generally assumed. Strategizing how to do business well and conserve social energy can be tricky, but so doable!

  • @seforaker

    @seforaker

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@hannahhutchison1177 it's also helped me to realize I am capable of being a boss one day and learning my limits. I love business and am shooting to be my own boss.

  • @vcasxsnk
    @vcasxsnk2 жыл бұрын

    8w7 here and i would literally jump off a cliff than not be doing what I wanna do/undermined and underpaid, I hate corporate culture lmao. my ideal field of choice is humanitarian/social justice and diplomacy, where I can debate and give tangible policy ideas while representing an entity that aligns with my interests!

  • @vcasxsnk

    @vcasxsnk

    2 жыл бұрын

    i was mistyped as a 3 way back but I relate to 3 a lot so when you pulled out the ghostwriter card I snorted, I love to write but would *Die* if I had to ghostwrite!! i would love to publish serious works under my name and if I'm stretching it, publish romance/fantasy novels under a pseudonym because I have a pretty serious irl image so it won't bode well with it XD

  • @CrankyPants_W
    @CrankyPants_W2 жыл бұрын

    As a type 2, I feel attacked and known at the same time!

  • @thirstwithoutborders995
    @thirstwithoutborders9952 жыл бұрын

    I worked in retail and in hospitality as a 5 and what I brought to the job more than excellent customer service was knowing the business and products inside out and quickly training others. If someone would have come up to me with "other colours", I would help them find an outfit that fit their needs and bodytype much better than whatever they were looking for. I obsessively researched Kibbe and such in my free time while I worked for an international clothing chain on the weekends, and more often than not, customers bought what I told them to buy.

  • @Avionne_Parris
    @Avionne_Parris2 жыл бұрын

    100% agree on the type 1 no bartender lolz. Funnily enough my type 6 sister is a teacher (stability, check) who runs a bartending biz on the side (her counterphobic is showing lolz). But Im a remote digital analyst who does geek out over doing reports and setting my own schedule. My previous role at the same company had varying deliverables, impossible timeframes and a micromanager, it was a perfectionist nightmare! Im also an aspiring writer who thoroughly enjoys the self-editing process :-) Hope you're doing great Abbey, take care of yourself 🤗❤😎.

  • @ZosiaDabrowski
    @ZosiaDabrowski2 жыл бұрын

    I'm a 9 and my worst job was in retail with an obsessive KPI sales culture and being micromanaged and bullied by a very unhealthy-8-like manager. It was the first thing in my 21 years of life (including school bullying, struggling at uni and parental attachment issues) that had ever damaged my self-esteem. But now I'm 25 and in two weeks I'm going to finally start my career-starting job as a provisional Psychologist working in youth mental health :)

  • @Catlily5

    @Catlily5

    2 жыл бұрын

    If teens are too oppositional for you then try adults.

  • @fk3798
    @fk37982 жыл бұрын

    Awesome video, as usual! However, as a Five (5w4), I am actually going into a public speaking position and I love it 😂 TV broadcasting is so enjoyable for me. But yes, retail sucks in that way, repetitive questions that suck my soul. Could you do videos about the Tritypes? I'm really curious about them. Pretty sure that I'm a 5,4,8.

  • @donnere1
    @donnere12 жыл бұрын

    Omfg, I'm a 7 and had a data entry job. That is exactly how I handled my job, and henceforth I got fired for not being productive enough 😅

  • @dsingman3
    @dsingman32 жыл бұрын

    7 here. I’d probably find a program online to automate my data entry so it takes 10 mins to do and I can spend the rest of the day watching KZread videos 😂

  • @1jediwitch
    @1jediwitch2 жыл бұрын

    INTJ-A Female 5w4 here, & yeah - pretty much spot on.

  • @1jediwitch

    @1jediwitch

    2 жыл бұрын

    Take care of yourself please 🙂❤

  • @13thravenpurple94
    @13thravenpurple942 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this 💜💜💜

  • @Savitar.2020
    @Savitar.20209 ай бұрын

    I'm a 5w6 in customer service. It's very hard to have to acknowledge that "The customer is always right" and to force a smile. Can't wait to finish college and start a career.

  • @uchwha
    @uchwha2 жыл бұрын

    Today i had a work in group and they were yelling SO much and talking at the same time, i got so angry lmfao can totally relate ( I’m 9w1)

  • @sirbradfordofhousejones
    @sirbradfordofhousejones2 жыл бұрын

    Type 7 federal employee- I’m saved by KZread videos and Spotify. If I couldn’t, I would have quit YEARS ago

  • @insertprofessionalhandlehere
    @insertprofessionalhandlehere2 жыл бұрын

    I LOST IT at 8! I know sooo many 8's and what was just RIGHT ON the mark! xD

  • @kathyhughes8196
    @kathyhughes81962 жыл бұрын

    So good! You nailed the 9!!

  • @reksnote
    @reksnote Жыл бұрын

    I’m a type 5 that works in retail & I knew you were going to say retail. I hate my job, I hate customers. I hate everything. So yeah. Definitely accurate.

  • @radiyhakhatun1041
    @radiyhakhatun10412 жыл бұрын

    Both 1 and 5 statements matches me.

  • @realSimoneCherie
    @realSimoneCherie2 жыл бұрын

    OH MY GOD YES! As an 8, Exec. Assistants have a HARD job. Was my first job out of college & everytime I was asked to get a lunch order or run an errand I felt like I was the boss's wife or something... 😫😩Absolutely not for me.

  • @ThePastAnalysis
    @ThePastAnalysis2 жыл бұрын

    I'm an Enneagram 1w2 and you hit the nail on the head. Jobs like those frustrate me to no end. For example, I majored in history in undergrad and historical research is diametrically opposed to my preferences. Historical research really requires a broad start. You can't be too specific, because that evidence might not exist. As an Enneagram 1, it was very stressful not having those clear guidelines. Legal research is soooooo much better.

  • @trustyourself-ashleyching3646
    @trustyourself-ashleyching36462 жыл бұрын

    The college admissions officer was gold! 🤣

  • @leadwithjim
    @leadwithjim2 жыл бұрын

    I think I am going to cry .... LOL I am a type 7 who is stuck in a data entry type job .... I am so depressed and miserable all the freaking time!

  • @lilypad54
    @lilypad542 жыл бұрын

    i’m a 5 in retail.. love hiding in the dressing rooms when crowds come in

  • @hannahhutchison1177

    @hannahhutchison1177

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes, the hiding and memorizing the spots to hide. Also always needing to do tasks away from the customers. Mainly popping up to solve problems like register errors. Fixing the registers was always fun.

  • @lilypad54

    @lilypad54

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@hannahhutchison1177 i LOVE tasking so much but the registers are our place are simply unbeatable

  • @invadertifxiii
    @invadertifxiii2 жыл бұрын

    I'm a dog groomer assistant -type 4

  • @sofiasara98
    @sofiasara982 жыл бұрын

    Ha! 1w2 who used to be a college admissions counselor. I think twos would actually be great at a NON highly selective school. I didn't actually make final decisions on whether students were admitted; I just got to connect with my students and occasionally help them through the appeals process if they weren't initially admitted

  • @timhrim
    @timhrim2 жыл бұрын

    Have been watching "A Million Little Things". Loving it. Was wondering their types

  • @fukamachimmd7870
    @fukamachimmd78702 жыл бұрын

    Woooow amazing video, is a very great theme

  • @SaraAdamsPoodleROO
    @SaraAdamsPoodleROO2 жыл бұрын

    Yes, agree, retail is totally terrible for a 5! Another horrible one for 5s is waitress. Wayyyyyy too off-the-cuff and improvisational. I completely shut down and under-functioned.

  • @alissandracoffey4692
    @alissandracoffey46922 жыл бұрын

    OMG your portrayal of Type 5 was me in my last job, in.....wait for it.....retail.

  • @samiraaparazita1420
    @samiraaparazita14208 ай бұрын

    I loved how you diy-ed the refree's t-shirt with black tape over a white shirt 😂

  • @evegeorgiamusic
    @evegeorgiamusic2 жыл бұрын

    as a type 5 lawyer here who also spent some time doing diplomatic jobs, I don't entirely agree with the part about politicians . I think for type 5s our worst type of job is one where we must continuously give ourselves emotionally and without sincerity such as a primary school teacher or a caregiver. it's hard for us to do that. I would argue that when type 5s are at their healthiest, they're at the forefront of the societal change that they want to see. we think critically and lengthily about things we feel passionate about in order to become experts, but we aim to share those thoughts with the world as we believe that we are offering a better option. a great example of this is Stephen Hawking!

  • @hannahhutchison1177

    @hannahhutchison1177

    2 жыл бұрын

    I agree with that. I wonder though if politics may be draining since most of the work primarily involves people. Then again I survived retail for 8 years by mapping out pockets of time to myself. Perhaps political jobs have decent enough down time to counter balance the social demands. The expectations of the public may be considered tiring. Then again any 5 would probably need to strategize how to best avoid that pressure/drain on energy.

  • @evegeorgiamusic

    @evegeorgiamusic

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@hannahhutchison1177 yes, at the end of the day it's all about strategy for us. I love conversing with clients and doing pro bono. but only when I plan pockets of time for myself (as you said). also my job is a lot of detail orientated paperwork too, so I do get a balance. we really are just creatures of schedule haha

  • @amandadillon9335
    @amandadillon93352 жыл бұрын

    Not me being a referee from ages 10-16 as a type 9 experiencing the worst anxiety 😟

  • @juls_krsslr7908
    @juls_krsslr79082 жыл бұрын

    This was so funny! I was laughing out loud. The 2 was especially good. The worst job I ever had was retail. I thought everything about it was beyond asinine, and, unfortunately, I'm the kind of person who has a hard time hiding how I really feel, which did not go over well with the managers or the customers. To this day, I have nightmares about having to work retail again. I'm a 6w5, so even though I really hated that job, it didn't cause me as much anxiety as the job I have now which routinely lays off employees and reorganizes every year. I feel sick every time I get organizational announcements because I never know what fresh hell is coming my way. I worry that I'll lose this job, then have to go back to retail.

  • @oliviadawn9002
    @oliviadawn90022 жыл бұрын

    My boyfriend is an 8, and he’s currently an associate at Home Depot. He’s extremely smart and hardworking, and his manager trusts him a LOT. I think they recognize that he’s competent enough to potentially be a manager. That being said, he hates his position right now. He keeps telling me that he wishes he was getting paid more - did I mention that picks up a LOT of other people’s slack? I’m finally realizing that his need to have a better paying job where he’s more “in control” is part of his personality!

  • @jenniferferguson1517
    @jenniferferguson15172 жыл бұрын

    As a 9, i did not do well as a supervisor, because of the confrontation required and I felt like i was never allowed to make anyone happy without making someone else mad.

  • @thescapegoatmechanism8704
    @thescapegoatmechanism87042 жыл бұрын

    Ooooh my goodness, that type 5 is so accurate. Probably not a good thing that I’m an assistant manager too! 😂😭