In Praise of The Quiet Life

Quiet lives feel nowadays like lives of failure and resignation, but they may be no such thing: true ambition can lie in learning how to minimise stress and divert energy to properly important projects.
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  • @Scappo
    @Scappo7 жыл бұрын

    "It is no bad thing to celebrate a simple life..." -Bilbo Baggins

  • @samueleleuterius4236

    @samueleleuterius4236

    7 жыл бұрын

    A great character . Many praise to you

  • @janlessing6341

    @janlessing6341

    5 жыл бұрын

    "You are a very fine person, Mr. Baggins, and I am very fond of you; but you are only quite a little fellow in a wide world after all!" "Thank goodness!" said Bilbo laughing, and handed him the tobacco-jar.

  • @brendadrew834

    @brendadrew834

    5 жыл бұрын

    Love the Bilbo character all of them in the Lord of the Rings which was a big escape for me many years ago, commuting to work in the harried world of NYC., almost forgot to get off the subway at my stop because I was so engrossed in middle Earth! lol Went on to have a cat named Bilbo Baggins!

  • @janlessing6341

    @janlessing6341

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@albussd Direct quote of the last lines of The Hobbit. :)

  • @albussd

    @albussd

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@janlessing6341 Awesome :) I remember one scene in one of the Hobbit movies, where Bilbo has an acorn he collected from Mirkwood and he explained to a curious Thorin that he has kept it with him all along and plans to plant it in Shire. What a simple, delightful fellow. If there were many more people like him in this world, it'd be so much more peaceful.

  • @SteveV1960
    @SteveV19605 жыл бұрын

    I bought 12 acres of land then quit my job at the factory a year ago at age 57 and build myself a cabin there. Life is peaceful now.

  • @k.kangsar8305

    @k.kangsar8305

    5 жыл бұрын

    Can you adopt me please? Sounds like heaven there. It truly is.

  • @SteveV1960

    @SteveV1960

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@k.kangsar8305 you can come and visit me. Are you living in the US?

  • @k.kangsar8305

    @k.kangsar8305

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@SteveV1960 unfortunately I'm not, I live nine thousands miles away, in Malaysia. I guess sometimes we just need to accept the reality (the chances are very small for me to be able to come and visit you). Nonetheless thank you for your kind offer! And I wish you a very, very good life sir! :)

  • @karminiparsan4440

    @karminiparsan4440

    5 жыл бұрын

    How blessed you are...enjoy your life😂🤗🤗

  • @Emirates1598

    @Emirates1598

    5 жыл бұрын

    Best wishes, gentle man!

  • @Xzibit9
    @Xzibit98 жыл бұрын

    I am an introvert and I approve this message.

  • @helenaville5939

    @helenaville5939

    5 жыл бұрын

    Extroverts too can choose a simpler life. The people I know who live in small towns and villages have way more friends than those who live in cities. It's not about introversion vs extroversion, it's about more time and space, quality of life, stress-free living and high conscious relationships - especially the relationship with oneself.

  • @moose5790

    @moose5790

    5 жыл бұрын

    me too Tom :)

  • @melodymacken9788

    @melodymacken9788

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me too and so love my life.

  • @erroleabrown4317

    @erroleabrown4317

    5 жыл бұрын

    lts about not putting people down for being kind, the only people that choose to live in solitude are the ones that constantly get put down for caring and having any kindness, we neeed an end to haters. l want to hide only because l have so many people that know lm kind and really hate me for it.

  • @celinee.9562

    @celinee.9562

    5 жыл бұрын

    @grumpy old fart i love your youtube name :-D that's refreshing !!! You made me smile. Thanks for that ! Cheers !!!

  • @MicahBuzanANIMATION
    @MicahBuzanANIMATION8 жыл бұрын

    I think there are more people who can relate to this video than many realize. Many people just put on a show to fit in.

  • @finleycastello6512

    @finleycastello6512

    8 жыл бұрын

    I can really relate to this video.

  • @jonnyhatter35

    @jonnyhatter35

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Micah Buzan i've heard a quarter of CEO's suffer from depression. I wouldnt' be surprised if many of them wanna walk away from it all and go full Walden Pond on this bitch

  • @nikhilsukumar23

    @nikhilsukumar23

    7 жыл бұрын

    곽나현 Nothing can put it in a better way.

  • @loristrachan8633

    @loristrachan8633

    6 жыл бұрын

    They are know as sheeple - I would rather my own company than try to fit in.

  • @williamatkinson1907

    @williamatkinson1907

    6 жыл бұрын

    Micah Buzan that could be true

  • @elistae5536
    @elistae55367 жыл бұрын

    I once saw graffiti that said "Stop the glorification of being busy." It made me pause and think about why we glorify running around to the beat of another person's drum. I saw that about a dozen years ago, and never forgot it.

  • @deceptivepanther
    @deceptivepanther8 жыл бұрын

    Suddenly my life choices seem logical again. Forgotten that.

  • @aiki067

    @aiki067

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Ian P I was thinking the same thing

  • @charmedprince

    @charmedprince

    6 жыл бұрын

    Ian P :-)

  • @Rooted_Locs
    @Rooted_Locs8 жыл бұрын

    OH man the quite life...something I had as a child in my home village in Africa. Then we moved to the west...10 years later barely 23 years old, knee deep in school debt, majorly depressed and stressed out at work because I'm too "passive", "too timid"- I miss my village days- ....that's why I like that song by 21 pilots, "We used to play pretend, give each other different names, we would build a rocket ship and then we'd fly it far away...but now their laughing in our face, saying..wake up, YOU NEED TO MAKE MONEY!"

  • @watermelondreasymone7144

    @watermelondreasymone7144

    8 жыл бұрын

    I'm from Ethiopia, what country in Africa are you from?

  • @Rooted_Locs

    @Rooted_Locs

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Watermelondrea Symone hi Symone, I'm from Namibia

  • @MegaToonzNetwork

    @MegaToonzNetwork

    8 жыл бұрын

    +miniimufin APPLES

  • @opus0872

    @opus0872

    8 жыл бұрын

    yh tell me about it, I often stare at the stars, reminds me of the when I was young, me and father lived around Eastern Africa, I spent a lot if time traveling along with my dad from Kenya, to Tanzania to Somali and Ethiopia.

  • @MagpieEpicdude

    @MagpieEpicdude

    8 жыл бұрын

    Hey I'm African aswell moved to UK, I'm from Kenya and can agree with alot of this.

  • @kirstenrichards8558
    @kirstenrichards85588 жыл бұрын

    I prefer obscurity and being poorer where a simpler life is concerned.My mental health would thank me for it.The modern world is too materialistic,greedy and people don't appreciate the simple things in life.

  • @kenshobuq7105

    @kenshobuq7105

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hm, modern world? Its not so modern. But yeah.

  • @liborsionko

    @liborsionko

    5 жыл бұрын

    ...you forgot to add 'watching KZread' 😁

  • @dannysze8183

    @dannysze8183

    5 жыл бұрын

    I agree, me too.

  • @dasein9980

    @dasein9980

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@kenshobuq7105 what's not so modern, greed and materialism?

  • @JustMe-999a

    @JustMe-999a

    4 жыл бұрын

    You can be wealthy and not be materialistic. Stop striving for mediocrity. Being poor is hard on your mental health..........

  • @delvesdg
    @delvesdg8 жыл бұрын

    The best attributes I have acquired that contributed to a productive adult life is, how to be quiet, how to be alone, and how to be still.

  • @CeeLow53

    @CeeLow53

    8 жыл бұрын

    Happiness does not come from outside, but from within. I agree completely with your message. If we are not able to find peace and comfort within our own turbulent minds, then how our we going to fair when we include more dynamic and complex relationships and ventures to our daily living? Situations will become more complicated and our minds will be more demanding. Exterior goals should only be sought after when we have a concrete foundation to sustain their purpose. But we acquire that meaning through inter-reflections to know oneself.

  • @kbb6279

    @kbb6279

    5 жыл бұрын

    Productive adult life. Why productive? Productive in what way? I'm just wondering...

  • @carieyoung1111

    @carieyoung1111

    4 жыл бұрын

    Beautifully said!

  • @tracydanneo

    @tracydanneo

    2 жыл бұрын

    Amen.

  • @delvesdg

    @delvesdg

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@kbb6279 Productive as in the ability to produce, accomplish tasks, to encourage and enable progressive, rather than regressive, thoughts and actions.

  • @superiorseven4814
    @superiorseven48148 жыл бұрын

    Hello School of Life! Once you grow large enough you should create a sister channel for the soul purpose of teaching the younger kids. Directly addressing the problems kids go through & what obstacles they may face will surely have a huge impact. It could also be a good channel for parents to run to if they find trouble explaining something to their kids. You could call it 'Welcome To Life.' haha

  • @alexbensen2821

    @alexbensen2821

    8 жыл бұрын

    +SuperiorSeven Indeed

  • @DTMfun

    @DTMfun

    8 жыл бұрын

    +schooloflife do that!!!

  • @bryanl6592

    @bryanl6592

    8 жыл бұрын

    +SuperiorSeven supurb

  • @CeeLow53

    @CeeLow53

    8 жыл бұрын

    I 5th this recommendation!

  • @thisismichelle2908

    @thisismichelle2908

    8 жыл бұрын

    +SuperiorSeven WELCOME TO LIFE. haha. amazing

  • @friedricey
    @friedricey8 жыл бұрын

    Poignantly expressed. I see solitude they see loneliness.

  • @Infinite19cac94has

    @Infinite19cac94has

    8 жыл бұрын

    +friedricey the cure for loneliness is solitude - Marianne Moore

  • @RafireRocksNRules

    @RafireRocksNRules

    8 жыл бұрын

    +friedricey Good sentence, it is yours? I want to share it in my facebook.

  • @friedricey

    @friedricey

    8 жыл бұрын

    +RafireRocksNRules Go ahead use it. Came from my head space..

  • @johnmartin2813

    @johnmartin2813

    6 жыл бұрын

    What a lovely aphorism!

  • @johnmartin2813

    @johnmartin2813

    6 жыл бұрын

    +Alderwood ... This too is a lovely quote.

  • @thedamneddamsel8518
    @thedamneddamsel85188 жыл бұрын

    I'd rather have a sunrise gently open my eyes than the harsh sound of an alarm going off in the dark. I'd rather walk in the grass complete with morning dew than rush around my home, preparing for my 8 hour day. I'd rather ask myself what I want to do from day to day than have a stranger comand me what to do with my life. I'd rather live the quiet life and be happy and at peace than live a life full of noise, and have a mind of chaos.

  • @jussfati

    @jussfati

    5 жыл бұрын

    The Damned Damsel beautifully said!

  • @leonievw2466

    @leonievw2466

    5 жыл бұрын

    How beautiful! Did you wrote it yourself?

  • @gaganhk8176

    @gaganhk8176

    4 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful

  • @ganiwaseem9210

    @ganiwaseem9210

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nice

  • @nicolegenerale

    @nicolegenerale

    3 жыл бұрын

    this is art. and i agree wholeheartedly.

  • @GaragebornGrey
    @GaragebornGrey8 жыл бұрын

    I think this is spot on. There's been many times people are criticised for "lacking ambition" when they don't aim for a promotion or a bigger job, but sometimes it's because you realise you don't need it. Why risk more stress if you are already content with what you have? And if you're not content, it's important to realise the reputation and value gained from a higher position and pay won't make a difference. I've known many people that have gone for a harder job because they think it will make them feel better about themselves, it never does, not truly.

  • @charlie5thumbs351

    @charlie5thumbs351

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Joe Lay Very true. I just think there needs to be a balance though. Poverty obviously sucks and wealth has its dangers. People should just live more simply. I know that's relative, but we should all pause once in a while, slow down and enjoy the simple things God has blessed us with. We get so caught up in the excitement and magic of technology and wealth that we forget about all the wonderful things that surround us every day. But that is the danger of wealth. It blinds us and makes it difficult to draw that line that says, "enough!"

  • @IwasBlueb4

    @IwasBlueb4

    6 жыл бұрын

    Joe Great comment

  • @wu1ming9shi

    @wu1ming9shi

    5 жыл бұрын

    I think I already am living the "quiet life". Well, atleast technology wise. I don'thave Facebook nor a twitter account and if i had i would nly use it for work if it was demanded of me. I still use my smartphone as a normal cellphone i grew up with and the only "social media" i use is KZread. I couldn't have been better off. Yeah, sure i have become more isolated because of it but i have become the wiser for it too. Especially about myself.

  • @jsystems2806

    @jsystems2806

    4 жыл бұрын

    Totally agree. My family when they get together all they talk is about work, money ,money, money.... They do my head in. I see other people do it at functions. Huge cars my old friends have. Huge houses. I think is this what it takes to make you happy. And they reluctantly buy you a coffee when you make an effort to see them once in a while. I keep myself to myself now.

  • @ganiwaseem9210

    @ganiwaseem9210

    4 жыл бұрын

    Right said Joe. I've been criticised for not trying too hard. But it is just a choice. I don't want to be better off than what I am.

  • @thetallestdwarf7041
    @thetallestdwarf70418 жыл бұрын

    “I would rather sit on a pumpkin and have it all to myself, than be crowded on a velvet cushion." - Henry David Thoreau

  • @dabprod4962

    @dabprod4962

    4 жыл бұрын

    @The Tallest Dwarf.....Yep, one of my favorites from ol Henry David. My profile picture to the left is a picture of me with my arm around a statue of Henry David Thoreau in front of his cabin at Walden Pond near Concord Mass. My favorite writer.

  • @johneyton5452

    @johneyton5452

    3 жыл бұрын

    So long as it's a big pumpkin in the countryside.

  • @Jackgritty28

    @Jackgritty28

    2 жыл бұрын

    The quiet life is still a life, people are tired of working, be bitter about it, scared of poverty, fixated on making money, the recluse feels isolated,the meaning of life is a mystery, should we all have a career, or should we be obscure☢☣

  • @sarawawa8984
    @sarawawa89847 жыл бұрын

    There's this big part of me that just wants a simple job that makes enough money for me to live in a little apartment with maybe a cat. And like that's it. Everybody else in my age group have these big plans with their life centering on a career and I've been told ever since I've been in school that a career should be my goal and so I've felt like maybe there is something wrong with me. I don't really want a career. I'd just like a job. This video made me feel better about that.

  • @suheti

    @suheti

    7 жыл бұрын

    I do not really get why cat is often a necessary element in narratives like this.

  • @sarawawa8984

    @sarawawa8984

    7 жыл бұрын

    Suheti Lee because a dog wouldn't be happy in an apartment while I worked during the day.

  • @Qscrisp

    @Qscrisp

    7 жыл бұрын

    A little apartment and a cat? Luxury! I live in a discarded beer-crate in the gutter with only a number of unhygienic rodents for companionship.

  • @sarawawa8984

    @sarawawa8984

    7 жыл бұрын

    Quentin Crisp I feel like if you played your cards right you could turn into some new urban-landscape kind of disney princess.

  • @Qscrisp

    @Qscrisp

    7 жыл бұрын

    Wawa You have divined the nature of my innermost desires.

  • @burnindownthehouse
    @burnindownthehouse8 жыл бұрын

    There is one group that is forgotten in this video, and they often choose the quiet life. That group is the mentally ill, especially schizophrenics and schizoaffectives. They have enough noise and static in their head that they have to choose a quiet life. It's not a choice. It is a necessity. They often live in poverty and many of them are extremely bright. They just kind of fall off the grid. Society does not understand them. We live in a noisy and busy world which is constantly centered around making money and being productive. I think it's time to give respect to those who choose to live the quiet life and live life on their own terms. The next time you see a homeless man, you may want to think twice about who he is exactly. He may be a brilliant genius who has mental illness and he has no choice to choose the quiet life.

  • @VeganSemihCyprus33

    @VeganSemihCyprus33

    6 жыл бұрын

    Exactly, that's why we suggest a Resource Based Economy :)

  • @mkhaos4719

    @mkhaos4719

    6 жыл бұрын

    ... though homelessness is hardly the "quiet life" "I like the simple folk 'cause I'm not a complicated man," sings Facundo Cabral

  • @khappy1286

    @khappy1286

    5 жыл бұрын

    Nice post. I have dissociative identity disorder Past 30 yrs had to be quiet and w little money. Grew up rich and was award winning teen model and stage actress by 19 in nyc. Then breakdowns started. I was a good child and well liked by all. I had a prominent future. Then my brain was tormented for years. I am so grateful my brain is calm now. A real daily treat of existance. And I have always been very gifted. My heart keeps the broken ones on the streets close to my heart. Ty again for your post. ❤ God bless you.

  • @eraproductions9923

    @eraproductions9923

    4 жыл бұрын

    society doesn't understand them because they are genius and most of them are very misunderstood and looked upon as mental when if fact it's the other way round society is an illusion, shallow and quite mentally ill they don't understand a genius because they are to be honest quite simple. i don't think a genius would appreciate being felt sorry for. society is literally riddled with complete and utter useless chatter and mindless drama

  • @graceeve1113

    @graceeve1113

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@dogie1070 Ew, what's wrong with you!

  • @daserstereichen
    @daserstereichen7 жыл бұрын

    Yesterday I rode for the whole day through Germany on the train from NW to SE (Aachen to Munich). At sunset I was looking outside and it hit me. The fast life is that of being in the train all your life, you get to see the beautiful fields, the different colors of the sky, and markers of the season. But you never get to plough a field, to smell a maturing flower, to live close to the animals and the trees. Not to mention whats beyond those farms, the coast lines, the hidden escapes, the mysterious roads... So at the next train stop, get out there, get your feet in the mud, and smell those wild flowers, before you reach you desitination

  • @collectdailydoseofinspiration

    @collectdailydoseofinspiration

    6 ай бұрын

    Lovely insight! Thank you 🙏

  • @podfunk
    @podfunk8 жыл бұрын

    Wow! Well this one touched a nerve with me. First time I've heard my approach to life articulated with such clarity.

  • @JasonKeepBlazin

    @JasonKeepBlazin

    8 жыл бұрын

    from a hermit to another ✌

  • @KutadguB

    @KutadguB

    8 жыл бұрын

    +podfunk feel exactly the same

  • @JuandelaCruz001

    @JuandelaCruz001

    8 жыл бұрын

    EXACTLY!

  • @Davotheledge

    @Davotheledge

    8 жыл бұрын

    And another ;)

  • @jonnieve2483

    @jonnieve2483

    7 жыл бұрын

    #HermitMasterRace

  • @tenaciousrodent6251
    @tenaciousrodent62518 жыл бұрын

    The world is not a welcoming place for people who just want to lay in the grass and look at the stars wile listening to Tangerine dream.

  • @paxwallacejazz

    @paxwallacejazz

    5 жыл бұрын

    In Denmark it is

  • @EisforEvil
    @EisforEvil8 жыл бұрын

    "I'll take a quiet life, two handshakes of carbon monoxide. No alarms and no surprises, no alarms and no surprises, no alarms and no surprises please" -Thom Yorke.

  • @TurbSplash

    @TurbSplash

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Im black, even though the guy in the profile picture is white. Great song

  • @advocateforaimassist8217

    @advocateforaimassist8217

    8 жыл бұрын

    -lil wayne

  • @BlackRainbows1123

    @BlackRainbows1123

    8 жыл бұрын

    Yes.

  • @davarokrollberg9796

    @davarokrollberg9796

    8 жыл бұрын

    I was just thinking those very lyrics as I scrolled down to see the comments. Lo and behold there it is!

  • @Teddy0567

    @Teddy0567

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Im black, even though the guy in the profile picture is white. Very beautiful song indeed, but it's meaning is different from the video i think, since it's about conforming. Compromising political ideals in order to suffer less. This video makes a very idealistic image of living the quiet life, in real life, you'll probably won't live on the mountain side. You still have to pay taxes and even tho you feel autonomous, your peers will always continue to influence your ambitions and behavior. I think the best way to go is to think why do you do what you do? Do you have enough time to enjoy life for what it is? Are your ambitions a reflection of yourself? or a reflection of other peoples expectations about you? I think striving for integrity is the mid-way between the quiet life and a killing carreer. also the most realistic one imo :P

  • @namispondjamispond9282
    @namispondjamispond92825 жыл бұрын

    It's a pleasure to be content. My motto in life : Keep It Simple.

  • @oscarrzga4615

    @oscarrzga4615

    4 жыл бұрын

    Kiss philosophy.

  • @786ajim
    @786ajim3 жыл бұрын

    “A quiet secluded life in the country, with the possibility of being useful to people to whom it is easy to do good, and who are not accustomed to have it done to them; then work which one hopes may be of some use; then rest, nature, books, music, love for one's neighbor - such is my idea of happiness.” ― Leo Tolstoy, Family Happiness P. S. : A beautiful book.

  • @BlacKFooTBiggS
    @BlacKFooTBiggS7 жыл бұрын

    I thought I was the only person who looked around and found no joy in climbing a metaphorical ladder. realizing and accepting my mortality choose to spend my time my way till I die

  • @Hy-jg8ow
    @Hy-jg8ow7 жыл бұрын

    I always praise the rain.

  • @appiahallan

    @appiahallan

    3 жыл бұрын

    🌧

  • @annabelsmith7970

    @annabelsmith7970

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too but that’s normal in Australia

  • @scoobydoo1093

    @scoobydoo1093

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @mrmarten9385
    @mrmarten93858 жыл бұрын

    Correct, as not everyone is an hysterical extrovert.

  • @Martenbiter

    @Martenbiter

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Mr Marten i like your name

  • @mrmarten9385

    @mrmarten9385

    8 жыл бұрын

    martenLij ^^ I like yours too :p

  • @Martenbiter

    @Martenbiter

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Irving Verzijl ur just jealous because your name isn't Marten

  • @shweet7891

    @shweet7891

    8 жыл бұрын

    forreal

  • @gaz96wtf

    @gaz96wtf

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Caius Filimon I agree with this. Televisions, games, internet or just distractions are leading everyone to not think.

  • @francescleoduran3412
    @francescleoduran34124 жыл бұрын

    I keep coming back to this. I have high ambitions, and yet the road toward it rips my soul apart. I'm coming to terms with the fact that prestige and honor is not worth my soul and peace of mind. Some prices are just too high for certain types of character.

  • @Douglas77755

    @Douglas77755

    Жыл бұрын

    Well, well said

  • @hyperdrivepics
    @hyperdrivepics8 жыл бұрын

    One of my life fantasies is to move to a quiet, secluded place. Loud parties drain the energy right out of me. This video describes EXACTLY my kind of life.

  • @Xycopixie
    @Xycopixie8 жыл бұрын

    Voluntary simplicity! I am all for it.

  • @georgiana1754
    @georgiana17548 жыл бұрын

    I overcame the inertia a few years ago when I lost most of the things that made up my world. To my surprise, it felt liberating. Now I feel less cluttered, my thinking is clearer, I am more aware and compassionate, the choices I make are a lot more wise and based in what I want (which implies that I had to understand myself and what's best for me in the first place), I am amazed by the beauty and richness of the world, more careful with the things I do decide to bring into my life and I just feel more fulfilled. There is a certain kind of beauty and freedom in a minimalistic lifestyle and now that I came to know and love it, I wouldn't give it away for anything. I'm glad somebody took the time to explain all this in such a lovely manner. I will point people to this video next time I'm asked about my life choices.

  • @demigod5598

    @demigod5598

    2 жыл бұрын

    What Did u lose

  • @Santeri64
    @Santeri647 жыл бұрын

    Yoshikage Kira only wants a quiet life.

  • @SimulatedGoat

    @SimulatedGoat

    4 жыл бұрын

    Underated comment

  • @ShotTehTrick
    @ShotTehTrick8 жыл бұрын

    The only problem about having a quiet life is when a person who lives a loud life interacts with you.

  • @jsystems2806

    @jsystems2806

    4 жыл бұрын

    Everyone in my family

  • @joysfulljourney
    @joysfulljourney6 жыл бұрын

    I love all the school of life videos, but I think this is one of the most touching for me so far (and, by synchronicity or not, came to me at the perfect time). I've never been an ambitious person when it came to career. And because of that I felt (and still do feel) strange, like an outsider in my heavily career driven community. I don't dare to share that maybe all I wanted would be to work at a small bookstore with my peers, because that would seem stupid and a waste of my parents' efforts to give me a good education. Yet, all this pressure haven't changed what I felt, only made me approach it with a mean gaze - thinking I am probably just a lazy fool. It's videos like this one that make me feel validated in my "weird" existence, and for that I am truly grateful to the creators of school of life.

  • @rishikadembani8807

    @rishikadembani8807

    Жыл бұрын

    +1

  • @fzossima5604
    @fzossima56048 жыл бұрын

    Socrates: Beware the barrenness of a busy life.

  • @kbb6279

    @kbb6279

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yes.

  • @victorcamacho9654

    @victorcamacho9654

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @longschlong846

    @longschlong846

    4 жыл бұрын

    No

  • @helenaville5939

    @helenaville5939

    3 жыл бұрын

    Maybe.

  • @duncanmcauley7932

    @duncanmcauley7932

    3 жыл бұрын

    Perhaps

  • @CanisLupusSteparium
    @CanisLupusSteparium8 жыл бұрын

    I've always considered enjoying a quiet life as a personal goal of mine. As an introvert, I dream about leaving the 'rat race' and moving into a peaceful, aesthetically pleasing place in the country side. There I could pursue some intellectually and physically fulfilling activities, and live in a simple and meaningful way. Fame and great wealth are definitely not appealing to everyone. Still, it's the goal that society seems to impose on the general public.

  • @nekro29AT

    @nekro29AT

    8 жыл бұрын

    +jaggo84 That's exactly my opinion.

  • @GarageDinner

    @GarageDinner

    8 жыл бұрын

    The ways of the city life I guess.

  • @rahvithecolorful

    @rahvithecolorful

    8 жыл бұрын

    +jaggo84 Same here. I often feel that my lack of self confidence is really all that separates me from being happy, since whenever I think about it, I find that I personally don't need much at all to feel good, it's all the external pressure I feel to be much bigger and much better that makes me feel so small. It's come to the point where I feel bad just for not having those ambitions - that whole "you don't want it because you know you can't have it" way of thinking the video mentions.

  • @AlastorTheNPDemon

    @AlastorTheNPDemon

    6 жыл бұрын

    Peter "Avatar" Altmaier ...all the while making it impossible or so difficult to obtain you're too mentally exhausted to enjoy it. It's poisonous and self-aggravating.

  • @CherylFlynn1

    @CherylFlynn1

    4 жыл бұрын

    I obsess about leaving the rat race, too, especially about selling everything and living in an RV. I love my solitude, hate commercialism and would love the simple life as H.D. Thoreau wrote about. Trading time for money.....pretty sad to lose time.

  • @oowilliamm
    @oowilliamm8 жыл бұрын

    I feel like modern society made us unaware of our obsession with wealth and status. This is most common in big cities, where I see people just work their ass off, and they're constantly reminded that they are worthless. OR they start to have a nasty ego after gaining some status. When they're trying to be "social", they don't actually care how people are doing. They just want to know that they're doing better. I try to stay away from those types of people. It's depressing to see people act like that.

  • @PinacoladaMatthew

    @PinacoladaMatthew

    8 жыл бұрын

    Thats why I hate social groups more than 3 people, anymore than that people start to become less interested in exchanging deep thoughts and feelings, and the whole social thing just turns into a show off contest

  • @Hannah-qg3fp
    @Hannah-qg3fp7 жыл бұрын

    this channel is so amazing for my mental health. this is just what i need thank yo so much school of life

  • @jsystems2806

    @jsystems2806

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same here Hannah.

  • @Mr_Creasy_
    @Mr_Creasy_8 жыл бұрын

    Yup, some of the busiest cities in the world are also some of the most unhappy

  • @dannysze8183

    @dannysze8183

    5 жыл бұрын

    I can relate to that I live in Hong Kong. It is busy and expensive. The housing price of new built has reached 3000 USD per square foot. With the price of 500 square foot that is 1.5million USD, you can buy a 10 bedrooms castle in Scotland. the advantage of living a quiet life in a country is that it is much cheaper :)

  • @Lina_903

    @Lina_903

    5 жыл бұрын

    I come from a small scandinavian village. I now live in Amsterdam. Altho im still depressed, im way less depressed than at ”home”. Im very openminded and philosophical. Nobody undarstood my and i didnt feel a connection to anyone. I didnt want to live in the social game that everyone seemed to like back there. This doesnt apply to alot of situations. I feel more silence here.

  • @jeffreystern5886

    @jeffreystern5886

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@dannysze8183 I've been to HK five times. Love it. Causeway bay and Central!

  • @SpiteBellow
    @SpiteBellow8 жыл бұрын

    It's a kind of balance I think. Sometimes you're bored as all hell and you yearn for more in your life. Other times, you want to do nothing at all because you feel run down. To each his own, right? I would say both are necessary. Many people do just fine with weekends of quiet and weekdays of commotion.

  • @mumboslick89

    @mumboslick89

    8 жыл бұрын

    Well said.

  • @vankai6817

    @vankai6817

    8 жыл бұрын

    Or the opposite kind of week

  • @helenaville5939

    @helenaville5939

    3 жыл бұрын

    I disagree. Would hate to have a life where I'm content to be feeling either run down or bored as hell. But you're right to say it's a balanced life..... if swinging from one extreme to another is balanced :)

  • @thebigmalkowski
    @thebigmalkowski5 жыл бұрын

    I need solitude and alone time more often than I need people and the “world”. I enjoy my own company. I appreciate that others are not like me and gain the same peace I feel by being surrounded by others. But too many judge others by their own perspective, never realizing it’s not the only perspective.

  • @KikoJimenezElPistolero
    @KikoJimenezElPistolero8 жыл бұрын

    i found myself clapping after this video ended.

  • @slepepadda2268

    @slepepadda2268

    7 жыл бұрын

    This would have to be one of my favourite videos of 'The School of Life'.

  • @rubirenteria4088

    @rubirenteria4088

    5 жыл бұрын

    Clapping your cheeks ?

  • @elizabethcameron5763

    @elizabethcameron5763

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes. After this video I took a deep breath and smiled. What a beautiful video.

  • @XerosXIII
    @XerosXIII8 жыл бұрын

    End goal of mine, earn money, contribute society, retreat to country-side and be a recluse... with hispeed internet

  • @ViperGTS737

    @ViperGTS737

    8 жыл бұрын

    +XerosXIII and a private weed plantation

  • @XerosXIII

    @XerosXIII

    8 жыл бұрын

    Turbo-Fan shhh, they'll never know :)

  • @XerosXIII

    @XerosXIII

    8 жыл бұрын

    ***** get a family, have some kids, boot them out on their 21st birthday. I think that a good time after that

  • @youwillforgetinaweek

    @youwillforgetinaweek

    6 жыл бұрын

    Sounds like a legit plan to me

  • @VeganSemihCyprus33

    @VeganSemihCyprus33

    6 жыл бұрын

    Don't wait to earn money, it is a trap, live it now :)

  • @gwwayner
    @gwwayner7 жыл бұрын

    It is the age of information overload. I'm constantly bombarded by advertisements and click-bait at every turn. Teens cannot go more than 5 minutes without checking their cellphones. There are 157 channels on TV and nothing on. Highways are packed with vehicles. It goes on and on. I refuse to get a smartphone cos I don't want people who want something bothering me every minute, especially when I go out the door. Very soon I will be downsizing to a smaller manufactured home on a small plot so I will have fewer expenses and more recreational time. Is it any wonder the therapists have all the business they can handle with stressed out adults and teens who have no idea how to take a walk in the woods and relax.

  • @breannathompson9094

    @breannathompson9094

    7 жыл бұрын

    gwwayner I go days without checking my cellphone and it honestly frees me. People always bother me when they know I'm on, asking for something or wanting something. The media has practically ruined everything. Can't even read a newspaper without literally being like read-baited. I wish we could go back to like 2000.

  • @IwasBlueb4

    @IwasBlueb4

    6 жыл бұрын

    Lovely ...Enjoy ur new little home

  • @agneslaufer9579

    @agneslaufer9579

    6 жыл бұрын

    gwwayner YOU ARE BRILLIANT, I gave up on stuff and things 3 years ago. I love my simple life and never been so full filled and happy.

  • @ronaksingh1832

    @ronaksingh1832

    6 жыл бұрын

    It’s not that the phone is a bad thing. It introduces us to good ideas and gives us grasps of knowledge we never knew we were inclined too. It’s how you use your phone which indicates the state of your mind. If u watch videos which help your contemplation and help you gain knowledge the phone is not a waste of time. But again you can use your phone to always stress your mind by watching something you know is not good for your mental state and gives this sort of mind state to always text and catch up with people and that really does not help you with the peace of mind. In all the cellphone is only a distracting device if you choose it to be. For me it is beneficial as it gives me knowledge to contemplate deeper about my past, present, future and pleases my state of mind, it keeps me at peace.

  • @daisychain3007

    @daisychain3007

    6 жыл бұрын

    People are scared to take a walk in the woods because the media has hyped up some sort of danger there.

  • @kariaudar
    @kariaudar4 жыл бұрын

    I´m an introverted schizophrenic, and over the years I´ve mastered the art of living in a manner that is outwardly simple and unremarkable yet inwardly very fulfilling and rewarding. :)

  • @johnberry2877
    @johnberry28775 жыл бұрын

    As a registered nurse, I can totally understand the need for a quiet life. If I had been told the truth by college counselors about the sum of life this career drains from your soul. I would have run away so fast it would have been record breaking!

  • @dasein9980

    @dasein9980

    5 жыл бұрын

    Can you elaborate on this?

  • @lukeusriley
    @lukeusriley8 жыл бұрын

    I've always thought this but could never express it in words. Thank you :)

  • @Suzaku_Mizutani
    @Suzaku_Mizutani8 жыл бұрын

    I feel as if they have taken thoughts directly from my head. I have a seemingly radical view among my peers at school, and that I do not care for status and wealth. I don't care if I make $20000 or $70000, but if it cuts off my happiness, then I would avoid it. My classmates and everyone else at school, even siblings and parents say that I need to get good grades, to then go to college, then get a job to make money, retire at 60 with a good amount of money set aside for retirement and family. But I realize that the lofty idea that this can happen will most likely not happen. But yet I'm told to avoid my feelings of ideas of the future to focus on the assignment at hand, doing another worksheet that I know will never contribute to anything other then a score in some online book that states how good I am to society.

  • @SpookyTimestamps

    @SpookyTimestamps

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Caius Filimon I think you are right. Short-term happiness doesn't necessarily mean long term happiness. You can have a hedonistic youth that you pay the ramifications of later on. That being said, burning yourself out at a young age can leave you bitter to the point that you can't enjoy your later years. As with most things, it's a delicate balance and some hard-to-find spot in between the two extremes. Something to consider.

  • @tanhakate8563

    @tanhakate8563

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Kurtis314 Such a soothing thought! Glad to have read your perspective.

  • @BigHenFor

    @BigHenFor

    8 жыл бұрын

    You are grieving but give things time. What you have lost leaves room for something new. You will find it when you are ready and able to look for it.

  • @troydavis2887

    @troydavis2887

    6 жыл бұрын

    Yessss, I understand, brother! I felt this way in High School and everyone just thought I was lazy. They were the lazy ones though. They were too lazy to ask themselves the tough questions.

  • @0Ska0
    @0Ska08 жыл бұрын

    I left the busy corporate job life at the age of 25 ( I realized quickly that a cooperate life is a wasted life) I'm almost 32 and still living the quiet life never regretted leaving the job world and loving every minute of it. No alarm clocks, no stress, and no boss. Every minute is my own to do with it as I wish and every day is a new adventure.

  • @Sakurainblue

    @Sakurainblue

    4 жыл бұрын

    0Ska0 i have Just left corporate after only 6 months. I think ot's a wasted life too. I am searching other ways to substain myself, what do you do? I am 25, as you 10 years ago. It's a so dofficult choice, People don't understand.

  • @Sakurainblue

    @Sakurainblue

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Bill Deblahhhsio If be a man or a woman means be unhappy all your life, I will never grow up. Very greedy comment.

  • @happytx1860
    @happytx18608 жыл бұрын

    Lovely. I am so happy that I am retired. My life is my own. I learn for fun. Thanks

  • @sudevsen
    @sudevsen8 жыл бұрын

    if only the side of the mountain had a WiFi connection

  • @DanielDogeanu

    @DanielDogeanu

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Sudev Sen If you bring yourself a WiFi router, I see no reason why it wouldn't.

  • @davarokrollberg9796

    @davarokrollberg9796

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Daniel Dogeanu Carrirs router into cave. Confused why he doesn't have internet connection...

  • @DanielDogeanu

    @DanielDogeanu

    8 жыл бұрын

    CryptCode You might also want to bring a cable with you. A very long cable.

  • @XerosXIII

    @XerosXIII

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Sudev Sen Have no fear! Science will save the day!

  • @davarokrollberg9796

    @davarokrollberg9796

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Markus Brus ...

  • @JohnDoe-bf1fw
    @JohnDoe-bf1fw5 жыл бұрын

    Problem: Only the rich can afford to be poor without being homeless.

  • @davidthomspson9771

    @davidthomspson9771

    3 жыл бұрын

    What planet are you living on??? The 'poor' in this world have tv's and smartphones.You can live in a log cabin and be 'poor'and still be the richest man ever.

  • @JohnDoe-bf1fw

    @JohnDoe-bf1fw

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@davidthomspson9771 sounds cool. Where do I sign up?

  • @Wewereneveryoung

    @Wewereneveryoung

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@davidthomspson9771 definitely depends on your environment and mobility

  • @dianalove539

    @dianalove539

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@JohnDoe-bf1fw How can a man from the internet tell you? You figure that out yourself! Go and find a way...

  • @madipage8316

    @madipage8316

    3 жыл бұрын

    Depends. I know some poor people who have the most children, refrigerators loaded with food and always smiling

  • @koustubhdwivedy
    @koustubhdwivedy7 жыл бұрын

    The silence at the end of this channel's videos is powerful!

  • @miguelfernandes5628
    @miguelfernandes56283 жыл бұрын

    Im 40, work in the Covid unit of a major hospital, live in the same studio/apt for 10 yrs, commute everywhere on bike and just lead a quiet life in the middle of a big city. 2020 was a good year to me.

  • @akibjawad146
    @akibjawad1468 жыл бұрын

    School of Life is indeed the best channel.

  • @manjunathsrinivas1109

    @manjunathsrinivas1109

    8 жыл бұрын

    You said it!

  • @Vini2142BR
    @Vini2142BR8 жыл бұрын

    Me and my dad aspire for a kind of reclusion from the city, the busy schedule, the stress and constant fear. We plan leaving the capital, to go live by the beach. It makes me happy to think this may occur soon, for I see no beauty in letting the city consume our precious time. Of course money is good, but what does it worth if you dont have time to spend it with things you like? As a musician, all I want is to make my art and study a lot, in peace, by the beach.

  • @Vini2142BR

    @Vini2142BR

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Lua Veli ill have to hear that podcast, I have enjoyed invisibilia before, but not this one particular episode. Lua, its always a pleasure to hear news from you, I'm fine, even though not at the beach, I'm studying what I love everyday (so I love my routine, heavy but good), Music! Brazilian Music. It is so good, next month I plan to start studying german to maybe move to germany when college is over.

  • @Vini2142BR

    @Vini2142BR

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Lua Veli besides, como vai?

  • @bolivar1789

    @bolivar1789

    8 жыл бұрын

    Bom dia Vinicius! Todo bem comigo. I have vacacions right now, and there is nothing more beautiful than having time really....So all I am doing is reading, learning Greek, playing music, walking around the river and seeing a couple of friends. It is wonderful that you want to learn German. It is a very impressive language! You know, for this, there are Goethe Institute's everywhere. If there is one in your town, you could start there. If you prefer to learn by yourself, the best online course is Rosetta Stone. But if you don't want to pay, you can also go to the Duolingo websight. That's very good too. If you want to go to the university here in Germany and want to study music, you can consider going to Dresden. There they have a world music department. You could study acoustic guitar/jazz with a professor named Thomas Fellow. Just go to his website, choose English, and on the right click on "Teaching", you will see everything about the studying programm. One thing about Dresden is that unfortunately after the refugee crisis, there had been a rise in Neo-Nazi movement. But of course they aren't all like that. Besides everybody love Brazilians:-) And they say the city itself is wonderful too. In Germany the universities are for free. You could also study jazz in Holland, but there you will have to pay. I am here till August where I will go home to Turkey for a week. If you have any questions, write me. Have a nice day! :-)

  • @Vini2142BR

    @Vini2142BR

    8 жыл бұрын

    *****​ oh lua, thanks a lot, ill do my research. I study in a federal university, totally for free (and it is the 3 best of Brazil in music), it has free german classes wich ill try to pass the test, it even has possibilities for paying me 3 months in germany! But thats in the future, obrigado pelas respostas, você é uma pessoa incrível! Boas férias, divirta-se muito. Até mais!

  • @bolivar1789

    @bolivar1789

    8 жыл бұрын

    Oi Vinicius! That's great news! I knew you were making your own music, but you didn't tell me that you were studying music in such a great university. So I am sure it won't be hard for you to be accepted to a university here. Besides, it is always flattering for a professor, having a musician coming from overseas to study with him. The important thing is to apply to several schools ( at least three I would say) and then choose at the end the one you like the most. I am glad you have time. I will ask friends, where else in Germany you could have a good teacher. We'll keep in touch. Happy summer to you too! Um beijo:-)

  • @fishmen7776
    @fishmen77763 жыл бұрын

    My name is Yoshikage Kira. I'm 33 years old. My house is in the northeast section of Morioh, where all the villas are, and I am not married. I work as an employee for the Kame Yu department stores, and I get home every day by 8 PM at the latest. I don't smoke, but I occasionally drink. I'm in bed by 11 PM, and make sure I get eight hours of sleep, no matter what. After having a glass of warm milk and doing about twenty minutes of stretches before going to bed, I usually have no problems sleeping until morning. Just like a baby, I wake up without any fatigue or stress in the morning. I was told there were no issues at my last check-up. I'm trying to explain that I'm a person who wishes to live a very quiet life.

  • @vizaloron9242

    @vizaloron9242

    3 жыл бұрын

    FINALLY!

  • @PrestonHillMedia
    @PrestonHillMedia2 жыл бұрын

    this describes what i have done so well. i now live the simple life, having forsaken my career etc, best think i ever did. It is spring here and i watch lambs jump and play while the trees blossom and the birds make nests in my house. perfect.

  • @alphashifter2207
    @alphashifter22077 жыл бұрын

    Yes! This has been a tricky thing for me to explain to people. I love the quiet life, but I often feel pressure to re-engage with the rat race. Thank you for the encouragement to stick to it.

  • @ciandrehoward5135
    @ciandrehoward51358 жыл бұрын

    This reminds me of when Dave Chappelle purchased farmland in rural Ohio to get away from Hollywood and raise his family.

  • @EgmatXelugo
    @EgmatXelugo4 жыл бұрын

    i loved those 30 seconds of silence at the end. They let you digest and self reflect on what you just saw

  • @SpookyTimestamps
    @SpookyTimestamps8 жыл бұрын

    I'm getting closer to my 30s and already starting to get sick of the rapid, loud, stressful absurdity of living in the city. We are thinking of moving to a quieter life, so this video really struck a chord with me just now. Thanks.

  • @dojix96
    @dojix968 жыл бұрын

    I wonder if it could just be a case of longing for what you don't have. As a person in involuntary poverty, now that I just started working in an office, I feel so incredibly fulfilled by it, and I find that I love paperwork, because of how it feels like I'm doing something important, or something that matters to someone. I don't think I could stand the idea of living simply on a farm or a mountain. Maybe that'll come to change in several years, I can't know for sure.

  • @SaltVinegar2010

    @SaltVinegar2010

    8 жыл бұрын

    That's because everyone is different. You may enjoy the paperwork but someone else enjoys the farm.

  • @supernon08
    @supernon088 жыл бұрын

    Yoshikage Kira just wants a quiet life 😐

  • @mao7016

    @mao7016

    7 жыл бұрын

    supernon08 you should call the AMBULANCE before somebody gets a SHEER HEART ATTACK we wouldn't want that person to BITE THE DUST Don't we?

  • @saiyanpride5678

    @saiyanpride5678

    3 жыл бұрын

    Finally! A jojo reference!!

  • @gohighhustle
    @gohighhustle2 жыл бұрын

    Wow, I needed to hear that. I always feel so under pressure to do something BIG but I get overwhelmed by the thought of it and I'd just rather relax, learn new skills, and enjoy my life.

  • @fatfetus6468
    @fatfetus64684 жыл бұрын

    My name is yoshikage Kira I am 33 years old my house is in the northeast section of morioh where all the villas are, I am not married, I work as an employee for the kame yu department stores, I get home every day at 8 PM at the latest. I don't smoke but I occasionally drink. I'm in bed by 11 PM, and make sure I get 8 hours of sleep no matter what. after a glass of warm milk and doing about twenty minutes of stretches before going to bed, I usually have no problem sleeping until morning. Just like a baby, I wake up without any fatigue or stress in the morning. I was told there was no issues at my last checkup.

  • @terryzuniga2473
    @terryzuniga24733 жыл бұрын

    I can't explain to my parents how much I wish to at least get closer to this kind of lifestyle. Thank you for supporting us with the right knowledge and stories😌✨

  • @verenah.1190
    @verenah.11907 жыл бұрын

    You do wonderful work, School of Life - thank you! Your work is very much appreciated!

  • @theschooloflifetv

    @theschooloflifetv

    7 жыл бұрын

    Many thanks indeed.

  • @tactteam00
    @tactteam007 жыл бұрын

    Bringing sanity, clarity, and compassion to a loud, busy, distracting and judgmental world. Very grateful for this channel

  • @Paidinfullcc1gt
    @Paidinfullcc1gt4 жыл бұрын

    That is about the best message I have ever heard, who would think that in this day and age such a message would be preached. 👏🏻

  • @aemidaniels
    @aemidaniels8 жыл бұрын

    So many of my friends and former coworkers dont understand why I opted to live as an artist. Do I make a lot of money? Not even remotely! Do I have to rely on friends and family for things like food? Hell yes! Am I a parasite on society? Probably! But what I don't have anymore is the constant stress and uncertainty of the workplace. I dont get treated like garbage, constantly being told that nothing I ever do is good enough. I don't wake up after two hours of sleep ready to pull another 13 hour shift. I don't feel that constant burning rage under every breath anymore. I can sit back and enjoy the simple rotation of the earth. I can get proper sleep. I can BREATHE. Would I like to be making more money than I do? Well yeah. With money comes ease of life. But with taking things at my own pace comes ease of existence, and that means more to me in the end.

  • @aaligoa23a
    @aaligoa23a7 жыл бұрын

    I love the tone of all of your videos. The quiet, accepting and non-judging of it all.

  • @FredHMusic-gr7nu
    @FredHMusic-gr7nu8 жыл бұрын

    Before viewing a new video I say "teach me something new School of Life". You never disappoint me.

  • @EmberHarrington
    @EmberHarrington6 жыл бұрын

    Wow thank you So much for posting this! Much of my life I have felt like a fish out of water because I like quiet and have never been interested in climbing the corporate ladder or gaining status. Thank you for reminding me that there are more important things in life and that sometimes less is more

  • @beekinder6953
    @beekinder69538 жыл бұрын

    Joblessness is a very real problem in the UK. There is unemployment because there aren't enough jobs for everyone. If we could accept that some people are able to live happily on a reduced income then we could leave the available jobs for those who feel that they 'need' to work. Some folks completely identify with their jobs and don't have the imagination to live without identifying themselves in an employed role. Perhaps one day we will reaslie that 'not working by the clock as a wage slave isn't the only way to be.

  • @Matt-xp3yb

    @Matt-xp3yb

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Jazz Jizz Couldn't agree more. Well said.

  • @beekinder6953

    @beekinder6953

    8 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Matt, it's good to have people support this view. Way back when the silicone chip made its appearance many folks were concerned about the loss of jobs due to computers. Suddenly only one person was doing a job that previously employed 3 or 4 people. Concerns were raised and the government assured us that there would be enough work in the leisure industry to compensate for the loss of jobs. The figures didn't adequately take into account the growth of our population, ( and remember folks leave the uk as well as enter it, so no comments on immigration), and they didn't take into account that computers would reduce jobs within the leisure industry. But I guess they'd rather we point a finger at the 'unemployed' than take responsibility for the REAL situation.

  • @SwissMappin

    @SwissMappin

    6 жыл бұрын

    No, they cost too much money.

  • @junesummer4990
    @junesummer49908 жыл бұрын

    I dont know how you choose the topics but every new video seems to appear right when I need it and answers the question that I am having on my mind at that moment. Bizarre!!!

  • @francescleoduran3412
    @francescleoduran34125 жыл бұрын

    I love this. Thank you. Reminds me it's not too crazy to just want to stop and choose the simple, slow, and quiet life. Today's world just plucks out all the good and truth of me.

  • @barneyong2352
    @barneyong23522 жыл бұрын

    I am entering this phase in my life, and it feels scary and calming at the same time. This video makes it reassuring, that it will be okay. Thank you.

  • @daledesroches2318
    @daledesroches23187 жыл бұрын

    After spending years doing what others wanted me to do, I'm now happier than I've ever been living the quiet life I've always yearned for.

  • @rexdxiv
    @rexdxiv8 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Alain! You are the best Christian I know - and you are an Atheist! This video instills your message and gift and it is very gracefully presented herel. Keep up the great work sir, you are inspiring many of us and your work is very essential now!

  • @captbloodeye5596

    @captbloodeye5596

    5 жыл бұрын

    Fabulous comment. Thank you.

  • @davemarx7856
    @davemarx78568 жыл бұрын

    +The School of Life thank you for putting these concepts out there. so many goals that we believe are our own are actually just memetic legacies. being ludicrously wealthy, having fast cars, having lots of children and even attending a prestigious college... alot of the time we strive for these goals because it's what we believe "everyone wants" but not everyone wants these things. not really. maybe they're only doing it because their parents did. and their parents may have only done it because their parents did. one of the greatest challenges in life (to my understanding) is learning how to separate what you actually want from what you think you want.

  • @JD..........
    @JD..........8 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful! obviously not EVERYONE IS a strict extrovert, but that vibe dominates our western society and energy.

  • @Krilin84
    @Krilin845 жыл бұрын

    Having lived for several years on both extremes of the spectrum, I can confidently say that the extremes are problems, not because of their different attributes, but because they're extremes. To be happy, you need balance. You won't be content with a too simple job, just admiring nature for the rest of your life, if you're an intelligent, creative person. Equally you don't want to waste your life/time on things that does not truly matter to you. In essence you want freedom AND a stimulating challenge that capitalizes on your abilities and rewards you properly. You want relaxation AND stimuli for suffering - because suffering demands expansion of your consciousness and turns into growth. Jordan Peterson said it well when he said CHOOSE your damn sacrifice. That's the key, making a conscious, intelligent choice, rather than passing up the opportunity, or choosing unwisely, and ending up with less optimal types sacrifices and suffering.

  • @brancosousa87
    @brancosousa878 жыл бұрын

    Man I love the rain! :)

  • @Mr_Creasy_

    @Mr_Creasy_

    8 жыл бұрын

    +MINDFRA3K13 And overcast in general

  • @yong-haotan6576
    @yong-haotan65767 жыл бұрын

    Tao Yuan Ming's verses really hit home. Learning this since I was in secondary school, only now revisiting the English translation live up the meaning in me. Thank you, The School of Life.

  • @michaelsteven1090
    @michaelsteven10908 жыл бұрын

    I've always felt I was born in the wrong age..I would have been a great hunter/gatherer..I'm strong and tenacious, compassionate, and a quick thinker with high intuition..I would find and bring home food and fight off predators to protect my family..But here I sit alone, thinking about how many men in this age I see that would just fold doing these things..but yet, I'm alone in this day and age, living a quiet life, eating from a can (ie prepared foods) and dream of my highest potential on a mountain picking Chrysanthemums for a wife and family..Maybe all us quiet lifers were born at the wrong time..

  • @SpookyTimestamps

    @SpookyTimestamps

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Michael Steven You aren't born at the wrong time, nobody is. Maybe just the wrong habitat; but you have more power now than any time in history to move to another place. :) Don't blame the hand you're dealt, use it in a way to attain the life you think will make you happy.

  • @michaelsteven1090

    @michaelsteven1090

    8 жыл бұрын

    +McJ ..Ok then, lets say I believe you that nobody is born at the wrong time..So do you also believe that were all on our right "path" and where we are right now is where were supposed to be?

  • @SpookyTimestamps

    @SpookyTimestamps

    8 жыл бұрын

    I'm thinking that, in an objective sense in an indifferent universe, there's no such thing as a right or wrong path. On a personal, subjective sense, I think the right path is considering the situation you are in now and trying to veer yourself toward what will make you happy (while striving not to cause harm to others along the way), as that is the only thing you are able to do to try to achieve happiness. But I don't think people are born at the wrong time. I think you're just born when you are born.

  • @philc2889

    @philc2889

    4 жыл бұрын

    Michael bro, I feel you man! Just get into deer hunting mate, it’s probably the closest you’ll get these days.

  • @iek16
    @iek164 жыл бұрын

    Yoshikage Kira wants to know your location

  • @alinastanescu4430
    @alinastanescu44304 жыл бұрын

    Yoshikage Kira approves this mesage

  • @DevonExplorer
    @DevonExplorer8 жыл бұрын

    I love my quiet life. I love the rain too! Lovely video and hauntingly beautiful illustrations. Thank you. :)

  • @echoes9966
    @echoes99668 жыл бұрын

    Wisdom is the true wealth and introspection the greatest investment.

  • @yoshikagekira8225
    @yoshikagekira82254 жыл бұрын

    I just want to live a quiet life... ...With hands

  • @conlarious14yearsago69

    @conlarious14yearsago69

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lol

  • @bigreimu1878

    @bigreimu1878

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me too kira senpai

  • @paulstaker8861
    @paulstaker88618 жыл бұрын

    I make videogames for a living. At home, living with my ma and sister and gramps. Beats going to the office every 5 days a week and drink stale coffee anyday : )

  • @noturaveragehermit6958

    @noturaveragehermit6958

    5 жыл бұрын

    I wanted to do this being I live as a hermit and have nothing but time being I play a lot of games. But then I tried to learn to code and it all went downhill from there being everyone I ever talked to said one must learn to code for years before making a game I am 43 and don't see it happening lol. Others said you need a team, you need massive money, you need this and that. I wrote a short scifi book that flopped and told myself I would never again do anything like this. Because I learned I couldn't be myself, I had to be fake, say fake things, be manipulative, be fake on social networks and I hate social networks, pay people to give fake reviews, etc just to sell a dam 60-page book and that just ain't me.

  • @suheti
    @suheti7 жыл бұрын

    This channel just keeps in a constant awe that how each and every video is so helpful to me.

  • @connorhawes9630
    @connorhawes96308 жыл бұрын

    I struggle to put my deep thoughts I think of when alone into words but this channel does it to perfection. This idea of quiet life is something I've thought of before and I think a lot more people need to. I love this channel

  • @pedrolopes3542
    @pedrolopes35428 жыл бұрын

    A praise to poverty can only come from someone who never experienced it involuntarily... and this sounds like a praise to poverty. A praise to simplicity is probably what he should of had done instead.

  • @TheSilentdarkmuse

    @TheSilentdarkmuse

    7 жыл бұрын

    why son why do you think its a praise to poverty is it too hard for you to think straight based on characteristic of a topic ? In India Jain monks leave everything behind even Cloths but Indian top most richest follows Jainism thus the most richest and successful respecting that same "poverty" you are dismissing. Just because you believe Riches is the only way to success and pure answer to your soul doesn't mean it is actually, nevertheless everybody has their own reason to become rich and same way the people who wants to leave riches behind also have same reasons of commitment.

  • @aaligoa23a

    @aaligoa23a

    7 жыл бұрын

    To me, you seem to be trying to make this video praise poverty. I'd say it is not. I think that all it is doing is reminding us that we are able to choose poverty. Not that poor people choose to be poor.

  • @pedrolopes3542

    @pedrolopes3542

    7 жыл бұрын

    Little men, don't be condescending to me, because you don't know me, you don't know what I think and apparently you also don't know how to read or interpret texts. I made a distinction between voluntary poverty and involuntary.

  • @TheSilentdarkmuse

    @TheSilentdarkmuse

    7 жыл бұрын

    Little men, don't be condescending to me, because you don't know me what's there to know ?

  • @pedrolopes3542

    @pedrolopes3542

    7 жыл бұрын

    susheel sundar what is here to be known is not for you to find out.

  • @somedude9764
    @somedude97644 жыл бұрын

    This reminds me of some David Bowie looking guy with blonde hair with two exploding cats and then got run over by an ambulance

  • @zhmma
    @zhmma6 жыл бұрын

    I praise quiet life so much. Its beautiful and peaceful. I did had my more than fair share being very social. But the knowledge of self means more than anything to me. There's so much to learn and so little time! It flies!

  • @TheFolkUtopia
    @TheFolkUtopia8 жыл бұрын

    Best post to date. A warm thank you for the eloquent delivery of a concept or lifestyle so completely lost on far too many today.

  • @cellardoor199991
    @cellardoor1999918 жыл бұрын

    True. I'm from LA and don't belong here anymore. Currently looking for a job in the Midwest so I can move.

  • @osmosiswright9924

    @osmosiswright9924

    7 жыл бұрын

    I'm from the Midwest and I don't care much for it here because there won't be many opportunities for me for my (possible) future career, and overall I don't seem to fit in. Where I live, it's very community-based and everyone plays a role. However, my family is reserved so I never had a role I could play.

  • @cellardoor199991

    @cellardoor199991

    7 жыл бұрын

    ***** It's more than that: disappearing middle-class, rude anti-social people, conceited as fuck, etc. I've been living in Denton, TX for 3 mths. now. It's perfect! IT's like the NOHO Arts District mixed w/ Ojai, CA. Strong economy and middle class. Southern Hospitality and everything is cheap. The only thing that sucks is that it's flat as shit. I miss hiking. Gonna have to drive 1hr. for that.

  • @osmosiswright9924

    @osmosiswright9924

    7 жыл бұрын

    MR.X Yeah I'm not interested in that city. I can tell it's a city too busy for its own good, and the people there are superficial, annoying, and shallow.

  • @fradencornell8143

    @fradencornell8143

    7 жыл бұрын

    I'm also from LA born and raised there recently I and my family decided to move to the Midwest. If you love quite and settle then you'll probably going to like it here, good luck job hunting cheers.

  • @FinArkal
    @FinArkal7 жыл бұрын

    That's why I left medical school, no regrets

  • @angelicasomeone7460
    @angelicasomeone74608 жыл бұрын

    I do feel like simplicity and quietness don't always go hand in hand, nor do they need to. But there is something very comforting in both.

  • @SteezyG
    @SteezyG8 жыл бұрын

    I have the article "In Praise of The Quiet Life" bookmarked in my browser and its so refreshing to read. I want the quiet life and I'm trying to pursue it by Financial independence but your resources reassure me that if I fail I can still be happy and calm. Thank you.