If You Think Your Ex Is Never Coming Back, Watch This!

If you think your ex is never coming back and you have no chance to get them back, this short clip will explain why you may.

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  • @MrGearoid65
    @MrGearoid65 Жыл бұрын

    I no longer care because I now know that my ex can't handle a real relationship. It's sad, for them but I have learned my lesson too. To be needy is to be vulnerable to abuse. Heal yourself first.

  • @mradityadwivedi3552

    @mradityadwivedi3552

    8 ай бұрын

    Thank you

  • @Jakas-qt6hj

    @Jakas-qt6hj

    8 ай бұрын

    Yeah same my ex needs some serious therapy.

  • @12BY6

    @12BY6

    7 ай бұрын

    Until me she hasn't had a loving relationship..dv and cheating from her husband...I loved her and supported her in every way a nd she ran away from me like a tiger was chasing as soon as we committed

  • @XANIMEBAKCHODI09

    @XANIMEBAKCHODI09

    7 ай бұрын

    Hello sir can you speak me

  • @emmanuelglenumenjoh9154

    @emmanuelglenumenjoh9154

    7 ай бұрын

    😂

  • @tyronejackson9541
    @tyronejackson95415 ай бұрын

    Respect yourself! Don’t chase anyone!

  • @toddsapper603
    @toddsapper603 Жыл бұрын

    After 2 years I would have to say I’m in the 50% that won’t hear from their ex. She didn’t even acknowledge me in my most painful time when my daughter passed away last November.

  • @mmt2310

    @mmt2310

    Жыл бұрын

    Omg Todd, that is horrible, I'm so sorry. Prayers to you & your family. I can not speak about your ex, but I can imagine if they truly cared about you, they are grieving for your loss ❤.

  • @LonelyRider87

    @LonelyRider87

    Жыл бұрын

    That's so sad omg so sorry dude.

  • @sloanmagnum5009

    @sloanmagnum5009

    Жыл бұрын

    That's a sign that she is gone forever and you need to let go completely and move forward

  • @r.maelstrom4810

    @r.maelstrom4810

    Жыл бұрын

    ​​@@sloanmagnum5009 think he aknowledges that. The problem is that the behaviour of an ex who probably was loving, caring and considerate during the relationshio is now so unfathomable after a breakup... It can be very emotionally, morally and intelectually devastating. You are thrown completely away into a void with only your soul to cope. You don't only feel betrayed, you feel fooled: you are eager to receive only a simple "hi", or a "how were you doing" from a person who showed you love for YEARS to reconcile (not even coming back), and nothing. You can get over them, but it's not that easy to get over what their turn the love and companionship between the two of you into.

  • @mba2ceo

    @mba2ceo

    Жыл бұрын

    Slores will be slores

  • @damnitjoey1019
    @damnitjoey10199 ай бұрын

    I think people don’t realize how important a heartbreak is. We’re all sitting here wishing we never felt heartbreak while there are people who’ve never experienced love so intense where heartbreaks come in. This is the arc where we take care of ourselves, not out of resentment or hatred but simply to accept what’s happened and move on the best way we know how. Be alone, go for a walk, pick up a new hobby, and learn to love yourselves again lads. Know your worth and know that being alone only makes you a better person in the long run. Stay strong fellas.

  • @bonnieleffel9571

    @bonnieleffel9571

    6 ай бұрын

    You are right on the money. I had to learn to love myself more than a man. That was a hard lesson to learn.

  • @user-cx1go2hm2c
    @user-cx1go2hm2c Жыл бұрын

    Absence makes the ❤ grow fonder!

  • @jimflammer9370
    @jimflammer9370 Жыл бұрын

    I would suggest moving on, do not look back, learn from the break up.

  • @upcycle4earth393

    @upcycle4earth393

    Жыл бұрын

    No it hurts and isn’t easy

  • @Ericgodisgood

    @Ericgodisgood

    Жыл бұрын

    Is not easy but I said disrespectful things in she moved on her brother said she over the relationship in to leave her tf alone stop texting his family so she will never come back

  • @naraendrareddy273

    @naraendrareddy273

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@upcycle4earth393Having no exes or with exes and a lot of pain, what would you choose?

  • @AvimadyeOrunni

    @AvimadyeOrunni

    11 ай бұрын

    This is the way to be. Us Guys need to become less emotionally attached in our relationships and you’ll be better off. I promise you. Value yourself beyond anything else. You’re all 10/10s. Take off your rose tinted glasses, grow some balls and don’t believe the hype. If they come back you won’t want them back. Walk around with the suck my nuts mindset.

  • @raqueledwards6061

    @raqueledwards6061

    11 ай бұрын

    Absolutely true!!!

  • @ladymiss9134
    @ladymiss91344 ай бұрын

    Some people just get mentally exhausted and want to be free from relationship responsibility’s . Nothing lasts forever and no one owes us anything! Just accept the loss and move on.

  • @KingTheJim
    @KingTheJim7 ай бұрын

    At the start of the breakup i thought i had lost her forever, but in time i realised that when she tried to come back, she was really the one who lost me. It takes a while but it gets easier as time goes on.

  • @alvpha

    @alvpha

    2 ай бұрын

    How long did it take for her to return?

  • @KingTheJim

    @KingTheJim

    2 ай бұрын

    Year and a half mate, and that was after leaving me where she just never came home, blocked me for year and a half, no closure, never even said why she left. She text me and i got excited, but she didnt reply to me asking her how she was for another month, and that was the turning point for me where i realised how terrible she actually was and is to me. I got unblinded in the end. You gotta try accept it for what it is. But if youve just broken up, whatever you do, do not contact her at all, show her you are fine without her, this is what made her come back, she saw me finally dating someone, and that was the moment where she realised she might lose me, so thats when she shouted me. All situations are different, if you really do love her and it was you that made the mistake, i wouldnt take my advice because it was her who left me for what seems no reason at all, i still to this day have never had an explanation, just some shitty ‘im so sorry i know i was wrong’ texts. Just her way to release her guilt for what she put me through Honestly bro, man to man, if you need someone to just ask shit about, trust me i really loved this girl, to the point i would still probs take a bullet for her now even if she cheated on me in the end like she did. So yeh bro if i can help in anyway, ill do that. I fully know what u going through bro

  • @doubleJJ01

    @doubleJJ01

    2 ай бұрын

    ​@@KingTheJim she left me 5months ago , after entertaining other dude behind me , I broke NC after 2months and it fails. I broke NC again after 40 days and somehow it's better and we talk and chat and call but eventually she starts ignoring me yet again when I talk about reconciliation , she ignored me for weeks or 15 days , i miss her so everytime she ignored me I text her again , its been a pattern of 10 days 15 days and I broke it....yesterday I broke it again , and she still hasn't reply to me , idk what else should I do , I miss this girl a lot and I want to work things up as in 2months we won't be studying in the same college anymore, I told her that clearly but she still took it lightly, I wrote a letter , audio record but its all in vein

  • @KingTheJim

    @KingTheJim

    2 ай бұрын

    @@doubleJJ01 bro you gotta let her go and find out she cant replace you. Go no contact, prove to her you can be without her, the more it seems you can move on, the more attractive you become. I know this will go against every fibre of your being, i know u wanna just message her, but the more you do that the further you will push her away. Go no contact, actually work on yourself. The second she thinks you are moving on, thats the exact moment where all her feelings about you will rise up and shel have to make a decision. Trust me bro i know it seems like you jus wanna text her find answers or whatever. But that energy you give off when your like ‘well fuck this i aint being a clown for you anymore’ trust me it will effect her. Right now shes in control, shes seeing another dude but knows if it fails shes got you as a backup. You have to smash that idea and show you can move on. Trust me bro its the only way and i know all u wanna do is text her and beg her to communicate. I made all those same mistakes, drew pictures wrote letters, all it did was push her away further. Any questions you got shout me bro ill help anyway i can.

  • @dugl

    @dugl

    24 күн бұрын

    ​@@KingTheJim 3.5 months in and no explanation too, just left one morning after 4 years of relationship. Blocked and everything. But she told me it probably won't be forever and in text message I felt strange because she still called me with cute nickname she always gave me and it feels more like she lied to herself to not to be in serious relationship with deep love. When she'll come back (if she will) I'm not gonna accept like nothing happened, I'm in so much pain I can't get up from bed all these months, she'll need not just explain everything and say sorry to me to recover. Stay strong guys

  • @dr0n3droid
    @dr0n3droid7 ай бұрын

    If you love them, let them go. If they come back, they're broken.

  • @vidbobanec8384

    @vidbobanec8384

    2 ай бұрын

    Did she come back

  • @aliciawinston6507
    @aliciawinston65074 ай бұрын

    I don't want to be in a toxic relationship! It can't be fixed moving on. Self care is everything.😮.

  • @thebackbencher005
    @thebackbencher00510 ай бұрын

    No coach it’s not about getting back with the ex- for me & most of us , it’s more about getting back that respect & peace & those times that was stolen & lost while pleading not to waste such hard invested relationship after breakup . It’s personal ...

  • @Rebelmutt507
    @Rebelmutt5076 ай бұрын

    So many of you in here say you dont care but then why are you here

  • @skftrust5384

    @skftrust5384

    5 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 wow good analysis..the answer is..I have taken my revenge ..hope others get motivated

  • @ADayInTheLifeOfJames
    @ADayInTheLifeOfJames9 ай бұрын

    They always come back in some way trust me

  • @Frannylucks5821

    @Frannylucks5821

    8 ай бұрын

    100%

  • @jgentile34

    @jgentile34

    8 ай бұрын

    Never had an ex come back lol

  • @MrDan2912

    @MrDan2912

    8 ай бұрын

    Yeah mine came back after 3 months completely cold and picked up her stuff. Stopped believing tbh

  • @nottoday9223

    @nottoday9223

    8 ай бұрын

    Bullshit hahaha

  • @valiantangel1998

    @valiantangel1998

    7 ай бұрын

    even if he does or doesnt, im moving on. he can remember what he lost, i pleaded at the end of the breakup and ik i have more respect and worth than that and he did regret brekaing up with me and he didnt want to he said but he knew he had to make this decision but i mean, it would be hard to resist him but whats stopping him from leaving again if he tries to come back to me

  • @juanitagonzalez8333
    @juanitagonzalez83337 ай бұрын

    Yes people let's show strength find a hobby go to work stay busy know your worth and add taxes

  • @jms7765
    @jms77658 ай бұрын

    Why would anyone want them back ? 5hey lost an amazing person. Let em go.

  • @user-wn1ui4fi8m
    @user-wn1ui4fi8m Жыл бұрын

    He wasn’t an honest man he was deceitful and untrustworthy he isn’t who I imagined him to be.😢

  • @upcycle4earth393

    @upcycle4earth393

    Жыл бұрын

    R u sure

  • @matt1yas

    @matt1yas

    7 ай бұрын

    Then it’s good you’re done

  • @pawel3241
    @pawel32415 ай бұрын

    My ex did reach back out. I did not respond back. She lost me. Thanked God for showing me she was not the one.

  • @Nismolover

    @Nismolover

    2 ай бұрын

    After how long did they reach out?

  • @dmitryisaev5955
    @dmitryisaev5955 Жыл бұрын

    Agree with your point. But why do the dumpers need to take this hard path of breaking up with their partner? Why not just to talk and work through staying in relationship? It looks like cowardliness on their part…

  • @lesliesantos8595

    @lesliesantos8595

    Жыл бұрын

    It honestly depends..my ex also would call me cowardly if i left. But i mean he doesnt understand how wrong it is to have kept a secret him being friends with one of his exes..i even asked him why this particular ex? And not all of them?? Even after i told him about my past he still didnt tell me about his ex. The way i found out was messed up..staying felt disrespectful to me..he slipped up her name in bed..and lied about it blaming it on a video game. And later i found out who was first in his contacts..so nope im not a coward for leaving him once and for all..😊

  • @upcycle4earth393

    @upcycle4earth393

    Жыл бұрын

    Yea well I like working things out too unless they want others subconsciously

  • @roshawngreene7069

    @roshawngreene7069

    Жыл бұрын

    It is cowardliness.

  • @caveman357

    @caveman357

    6 ай бұрын

    @@roshawngreene7069REAL coward behavior is trying to find out what’s going on, telling them it’s ok if we’re not being together. Then having them say they want a 2nd chance, and then ghosting after that

  • @averynmitchell

    @averynmitchell

    5 ай бұрын

    I am a dumper. I spiraled to my absolute worst point with anxiety, depression, in addition to ruminating thoughts about the relationship. When I was at my worst, he blamed me for not being able to meet his needs. I wanted things to change, and they didn't. Do I hope we could get back together despite what happened? Yes. But it got to the point where I didn't think I could stay for a second longer because it impacted my wellbeing so much. Taking care of yourself when it gets THAT bad is not cowardly, it's necessary for self-preservation.

  • @ditadrosa3482
    @ditadrosa34827 ай бұрын

    I Choose To Not Entertain The Past. Trusting God Through Prayers and My Discernment. 🙏 😇

  • @Thechosen77

    @Thechosen77

    4 ай бұрын

    Why?

  • @ditadrosa3482

    @ditadrosa3482

    4 ай бұрын

    @@Thechosen77 I’m Grateful For What I Have Lived, Learned and Always Learning… I Only Want People In My Life Who Want Me In Theirs! 🙏🏼💕😇 Accepting What Is.

  • @Thechosen77

    @Thechosen77

    4 ай бұрын

    I emotionally cheated on my gf, but before that I think deep down something tells me she didnt really love me even tho I did wrong...she would always disrespect me during argument, she called me a little bitch once, compared me to an ex, but something tells me she didnt love me, she hasn't texted me since 3 weeks idk why I reply this but I feel like you are going thru something similar @@ditadrosa3482

  • @sjb3028
    @sjb3028 Жыл бұрын

    My strength comes from finding myself And never letting them back. I never again want someone who bails. I promise you this I will leave them alone for good.

  • @DSILVAjeiy

    @DSILVAjeiy

    Жыл бұрын

    🤔 Not sure of your situation, but i can relate with feelings of rejection and being abandoned. So the ego always seems to hold as much pride. Ive learned that no one is perfect and relationships will never be as well. Try not letting your anger cloud your heart. There is the Fading Effects Bias, where we give the old crap from the relation a chance to dump all the negative and then humans start to remember the good parts of the relation a chance to rise again. Ive been with my partner gf for 5 years minus 2; i walked away for 2 years for us both to fix are own demons, so we dont continue to sabotage our situationship. Some people have to learn to grow up and mature 🙄 And we grow through hardships if you do the work. Now im in round two, while i am getting ready to walk away again from the girl. We should never tolerate being disrespected. The end of the day, you have to choose YOUr self-respect. Let those who cross your boundaries, KICK ROCKS barefoot 👣💪

  • @upcycle4earth393

    @upcycle4earth393

    Жыл бұрын

    Did u ?

  • @SoundsSilver
    @SoundsSilver9 ай бұрын

    I made all the mistakes. She reached out after four months to "close the cycle" with a couple cold sentences. No contact resumes, and this time it will likely last a lifetime. Unfortunately begging seems to prevent them from experiencing nostalgia, dumper's remorse, or realizing what they lost

  • @KT37915A
    @KT37915A Жыл бұрын

    When my ex and I divorced, I never saw or heard from her again and it’s been over 15 years since our divorce. When we were done, we were done. I moved on and she did too. Thank goodness for that too.

  • @mutechannel13
    @mutechannel13 Жыл бұрын

    Hearing from your Ex means nothing. They just want validation because they are bored with their options. They want to keep you on a leash so they can pull you back for their convenience. If your Ex left you. Never accept them in your life.

  • @intricatejayee

    @intricatejayee

    Жыл бұрын

    True, especially when you have kids. F the ex and the kids. Lmao

  • @DSILVAjeiy

    @DSILVAjeiy

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@intricatejayee Well said 💯🏆😆💪 Kick Rocks bare foot 👣

  • @WishesandWonder

    @WishesandWonder

    Жыл бұрын

    Facts 💯. Once you start to move on you won’t want them back anyway. Don’t put your ex on a pedestal.

  • @Originalman360

    @Originalman360

    Жыл бұрын

    @@intricatejayee 😂😂😂😂😂 naw maaann not F the kids 😂😂😂😂

  • @erikhorvath4297

    @erikhorvath4297

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah if you are a straight person you can think like that but not as a gay guy.. "bored with their options"😆 well that's certain we don't have many

  • @CharlesTvMotovlog
    @CharlesTvMotovlog Жыл бұрын

    nope, my ex is the one who should think that she had no chance on me, i know my value now, im fully awake. thank you coach craig

  • @jeaneengant6771
    @jeaneengant6771 Жыл бұрын

    And we had a connection like crazy.. but stepped out on me.. it’s been two months 😢

  • @rubio9478

    @rubio9478

    Жыл бұрын

    You can do better. Forget the one who hurt you. And just be happy.

  • @sloanmagnum5009

    @sloanmagnum5009

    Жыл бұрын

    To be honest, just because you felt that doesnt mean they felt that. Or maybe they felt it in the beginning but got to know you more and found out they weren't interested anymore. I've been on both sides of that and it is what it is. Not everyone is meant for each other.

  • @MaryNAdam

    @MaryNAdam

    Жыл бұрын

    Same girl, hang in there!!!!

  • @mitsuninkhiangte5771

    @mitsuninkhiangte5771

    10 ай бұрын

    then your connection is bluetooth

  • @akasickform

    @akasickform

    6 ай бұрын

    Make sure you read up on *trauma bonds* just in case If you realise it's a trauma bond you really need to look in to whether it's healthy to get back in that situation

  • @bonnieleffel9571
    @bonnieleffel95718 ай бұрын

    They always come back. I was so desperate for mine to come back, and whenever he finally did it was about six months that I waited and during those six months, I could hardly get out of bed I could hardly eat my hair fell out and I would cry all the time. I thought I had missed out on my soulmate or something so whenever he came back and he was a jerk and not the person that I had hyped him up in my head to be I felt really stupid for waiting crying and freaking myself out so much that my hair fell out, your ex is an ex for a reason maybe God took him away from you as a blessing and you won’t realize this until later on in life

  • @countdowntorevolution9986

    @countdowntorevolution9986

    8 ай бұрын

    so you let him back multiple times even after he was a jerk?

  • @bonnieleffel9571

    @bonnieleffel9571

    8 ай бұрын

    @@countdowntorevolution9986 I loved him more than I loved myself which was the problem

  • @robert04872

    @robert04872

    6 ай бұрын

    How did you forgive him? Mine promised me she'd never leave.

  • @bonnieleffel9571

    @bonnieleffel9571

    6 ай бұрын

    @@robert04872 I had to learn to love myself more than I loved him. It’s been the hardest lesson I’ve had to learn

  • @lucabilly8433

    @lucabilly8433

    Ай бұрын

    Mate, you are lucky! Imagine one year of waiting, praying, losing weight, surviving, trying to heal, going through an excruciating grief. Sometimes I wonder how I survived and made it so far. …and she’s not coming… i know that now…but let them lose us, guys. Let them…!

  • @techtutorialcentral
    @techtutorialcentral5 ай бұрын

    Mine is a cold hearted snake. She doesn't miss me.

  • @Believer_-

    @Believer_-

    4 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂 bruh😂

  • @rainbowstalin594

    @rainbowstalin594

    2 ай бұрын

    Felt

  • @khianuy9599

    @khianuy9599

    2 ай бұрын

    Same

  • @Alwaysblissfulvibes

    @Alwaysblissfulvibes

    2 ай бұрын

    Danggggg

  • @viewershunt9403

    @viewershunt9403

    2 ай бұрын

    Me too

  • @ByronRainer-AMG
    @ByronRainer-AMG5 ай бұрын

    Getting back with an ex is like buying a car again after you sell it. No, one does that.

  • @maryanngray4519
    @maryanngray4519 Жыл бұрын

    getting back, don't ever want that back , lm focused 💯 on me

  • @juliamiller2299
    @juliamiller2299 Жыл бұрын

    It depends on why there was a breakup in the first place. If either party cheated and infidelity was involved, there is no return. At this point, you just move on with your life and find a new partner. Never reconcile with a cheater. They will only cheat on you again if you get back together.

  • @lesliesantos8595

    @lesliesantos8595

    Жыл бұрын

    Right? And especially if they withheld important information..like being friends with exes. Even after slipping up their name and having told them about our previous history...like he still never bothered to tell me about that ex..i feel like he just used me to make her jealous..by posting our relationship on social media..for every month he made it his mission to do so..lol makes sense now..yeah i miss him but he definitely wasnt good for me...and he knew it..he told me n it makes sense sadly..i wish he had told me earlier so i wouldn't have started to get attached to him...or the routine we had .

  • @kiyokowilkinson158

    @kiyokowilkinson158

    Жыл бұрын

    True my mom always says you train people how to treat you what you put up with will continue bc you acce Pted the bad behavior is my interpretation of that . She's normally right weather I l8ke it or not . LOL be S T to everyone he4re going thru difficult painful situations . Remember you deserve moreo7t of your life you only get 1 make it your best one possible . Hope yo7 find what your look7ng for out there . 🫢🤞🏼🍀🍀🌿

  • @chineduchineyeze4039

    @chineduchineyeze4039

    Жыл бұрын

    Not always true !

  • @muemamutalo-2451

    @muemamutalo-2451

    7 ай бұрын

    Correct 💯,am leaving my cheating wife for good.though its hard but I will manage it

  • @akasickform

    @akasickform

    6 ай бұрын

    It would be unwise to return to any abusive relationship

  • @zeldsfan
    @zeldsfan6 ай бұрын

    Honestly speaking , I only want her back to talk about our relationship. Like, what went wrong and what worked. Kicker is, she is like, very depressed, mentally ill and completely and utterly changed when she Monkey Branched off of me onto a replacement for her abusive ex boyfriend (very very evil bad person)

  • @t.doleydoley652

    @t.doleydoley652

    2 ай бұрын

    Same here ❤😂

  • @Karamia0001
    @Karamia00012 ай бұрын

    If you love them, let them go If they come back it means no one liked them Let them go again

  • @karenevans9152
    @karenevans91522 ай бұрын

    I wouldn’t run after anyone.Never mind an ex me.I know my own Respect/Worth.Keeping it that way to..

  • @amandlaawethu1538
    @amandlaawethu1538 Жыл бұрын

    Between narcissism and gaslighting. They put his in so many categories. I now feel like I was the bad guy. Even my positive has turned bad. If were strong were toxic if were emotional were bata. The emotional manipulation & head games are to much

  • @liquidsleepgames3661
    @liquidsleepgames36619 ай бұрын

    She left me, dated someone else and is manipulating him

  • @pandorasmagicbox
    @pandorasmagicbox7 ай бұрын

    It happens exactly as Craig says. It did for me.

  • @brittaneyhonts8105
    @brittaneyhonts81059 ай бұрын

    😢 I miss him badly but I'm doin that the best I can by doing that

  • @annastacia3190
    @annastacia3190 Жыл бұрын

    You speak truth. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.

  • @Wildanimal864.
    @Wildanimal864.2 ай бұрын

    Coach Chris actually said 64% don’t hear from their ex during no contact.

  • @valiantangel1998
    @valiantangel19987 ай бұрын

    idc if my ex comes back, if he does then maybe we could work it out but if he dont, ill be fine, im trying to move on but its kind of hard because i feel like he feels something for me still but cant or wont admit it to himself or me. but i just have to show him ive moved on and hes kinda feeling sorry for himself now i can see that,

  • @rikmang
    @rikmang4 ай бұрын

    I appreciate you giving people hope.

  • @debbietafoya5954
    @debbietafoya59549 ай бұрын

    I moving on to bigger a nd better things no more narcissists!!

  • @mediniphukan5959
    @mediniphukan59598 ай бұрын

    My self respect and self love is above all of the rest. I don't even care how they feel about me anymore. I moved on and I am doing great 👍

  • @stephengialanedlla8891
    @stephengialanedlla889111 ай бұрын

    Rethinking and facing up keeps you motivated

  • @Mari-lv1rd
    @Mari-lv1rd9 ай бұрын

    I really needed help with growing emotional self control. Just thoughts of him puts me in tears.

  • @giomig24
    @giomig24 Жыл бұрын

    My ex went back to the ex husband . I was the rebound. No hope here , just staright moving on

  • @helensagal3594

    @helensagal3594

    3 ай бұрын

    Sorry about that

  • @astridrios1155
    @astridrios115510 ай бұрын

    I'm so scared that this is it...

  • @PatienceWithAnimals-be6uc
    @PatienceWithAnimals-be6uc8 ай бұрын

    Lol then when they claim to miss you but ignore your birthday

  • @stephengialanedlla8891
    @stephengialanedlla889111 ай бұрын

    The importance of showin strength and self controle

  • @captainbligh3894
    @captainbligh38946 ай бұрын

    Thank you Craig, I watch you daily . It helps.

  • @upcycle4earth393
    @upcycle4earth393 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks man I feel weak bc of love - sucks we have to play these mind games . Truth is there are men where the dynamics will never be that we have to resist to get attention jeez. This vid was short and simple ❤ just let it gooo they will come

  • @lakshmicosmo9551
    @lakshmicosmo9551 Жыл бұрын

    Driven past their house😅😅😅 Ur right about not chasing and I havent invested and i felt myself loosing control. Trying not to care at all. Thx Coach

  • @jeaneengant6771
    @jeaneengant6771 Жыл бұрын

    I’m really missing him.. 3.5 yrs😢

  • @i.s4005

    @i.s4005

    Жыл бұрын

    It’s been 1,5 years and missing also 😢

  • @upcycle4earth393

    @upcycle4earth393

    Жыл бұрын

    :(

  • @positivewordsofthedaysumli7215

    @positivewordsofthedaysumli7215

    8 ай бұрын

    U will be ok... just stay positive

  • @mst5113

    @mst5113

    5 ай бұрын

    he will come back reach out

  • @joyjamie

    @joyjamie

    4 ай бұрын

    Move on honey,3.5 years is too much time 😊❤

  • @Sunitha001
    @Sunitha0017 ай бұрын

    Thanks Coach Craig! In No contact now. Focussed on improving myself and getting to a place where its me before everybody else.

  • @ADORABEL25
    @ADORABEL2510 ай бұрын

    Ive messed it up.. miss him so much

  • @blaslcardenas353
    @blaslcardenas3533 ай бұрын

    I have left her alone!I kept no contact and she still is not coming back.

  • @HopeFaithExpect77
    @HopeFaithExpect772 ай бұрын

    She wont ever come back. Ive been NC for 5mos now. Its over. 8yrs down drain. She discarded me for a new supply. Her "true love" as she is posting.

  • @nielsdaemen
    @nielsdaemen Жыл бұрын

    Well I know 'cause I learn a little every day I know 'cause I listen when the experts say that That a good heart these days is hard to find True love, the lasting kind

  • @petridhskyriakos
    @petridhskyriakos19 күн бұрын

    My GOD!! That's EXACTLY what I've done. Unfortunately... I honestly admire you for your profound knowledge & understanding

  • @dorothywilliams9290
    @dorothywilliams92909 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for that advice I needed that may God bless you🙏

  • @ronniemcmullen9684
    @ronniemcmullen96848 ай бұрын

    I don't want them back and I'm so grateful and thankful for everything they said I have so much energy and peace it was all for a greater purpose

  • @ALPHASTRENGTHANDPOWER
    @ALPHASTRENGTHANDPOWER5 ай бұрын

    Thank you for your wisdom

  • @tyronejackson9541
    @tyronejackson95415 ай бұрын

    Well said!!

  • @dereckmearns4596
    @dereckmearns45969 ай бұрын

    You said it don't chase self respect i do believe this especial reading thank you for this especial reading.

  • @mberrynunez
    @mberrynunez2 ай бұрын

    Good message! Sometimes it's just our immaturity, either in the moment or even over a long period of time, that contributes to a breakup. Evaluate what you can contribute to a healthier relationship, and take the time to discover who you can achieve that with. It may be your ex or it may be someone new. However never chase your ex. Use it as a time to become a "whole person", someone that is happy to have someone else in their life, but not someone that "needs" another person to complete them. Many blessings!

  • @angelakeely5859
    @angelakeely5859 Жыл бұрын

    They're called an Ex for a reason🤔🚩

  • @MusicCinematicsLife
    @MusicCinematicsLife Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the video coach

  • @constantin_cerneidaniela4469
    @constantin_cerneidaniela44694 ай бұрын

    YOU ARE VERY HELPFUL/ENTHUSIASTIC TO HELP-THANKS. D.

  • @wickidblazed420
    @wickidblazed4204 ай бұрын

    It's been 2 weeks since my ex left me!! I'm sitting here crying over him!!! I keep hoping I'll bump into him or he'll come back after work....not a chance he's gone

  • @CxGameLol
    @CxGameLol7 ай бұрын

    I had my breakup but we never cheated on each other....we both had mental issues and she said we need to work on ourselves to be better and happy

  • @user-tl5bc8wb8f
    @user-tl5bc8wb8f2 ай бұрын

    Thank you universe I feel the positive energy flowing in me she will be back we going to be happy together she is my only and forever love ❤

  • @mrkeitt
    @mrkeittАй бұрын

    My ex broke things off with me a few months ago after a 2.5 year relationship. She brought me my remaining things last week and we talked in front of my apartment and made out like teenagers and had a passionate quickie. Days later she expressed that the moment was special and that her daughters and best friend suggested she give me another chance. Our breakup was due to trivial matters that became too much. Even though our vibe amicable and peaceful, she's an avoidant and i feel like the only way I'll get her back is too leave her alone. I'm now in NC again until she reaches out with something meaningful, if and when that time comes.

  • @vivianperdue4329
    @vivianperdue4329 Жыл бұрын

    If I never hear from him again I'll be cool with that

  • @lindaaquarium1236
    @lindaaquarium12369 ай бұрын

    Nice haircut coach 👌

  • @omkzion1353
    @omkzion1353Ай бұрын

    Baby momma lost feelings for me few months back bcuz I pushed her away n wasn’t showing her love, now she dating someone else, hope I get the chance to fix things n be a family again

  • @valiantangel1998
    @valiantangel19987 ай бұрын

    well i did kinda beg after the breakuo because i was confused and loved him and he said he even regretted it and considered getting back togthert but decided against it but says that he wont ever come back but i think he was just angry and hasnt resolved his feelings and got salty when i started to move on

  • @rosetoa767
    @rosetoa7678 ай бұрын

    No looking back! There is nothing in the past, I just move on! ❤

  • @lornaafrica3883
    @lornaafrica38834 ай бұрын

    Thank you

  • @AlexMosley-kr2ik
    @AlexMosley-kr2ik8 ай бұрын

    I needed that

  • @rajdavis4732
    @rajdavis47323 ай бұрын

    We appreciate you!!

  • @storm4515
    @storm4515 Жыл бұрын

    It’s been off and on with mine for 5 years and last time i saw him was November. Since then it’s been radio silence and in March on my birthday - he dropped gifts off on top of my car at my HOUSE 🤦🏻‍♀️. Since it wasn’t the contact I wanted, I never responded back to the whole gift thing. He always pulls this shit with the indirect direct approach. On top of that, the card he left with the gifts left no indication he wanted to meet up, talk, or any of that. The card was dry AF like a default birthday card from CVS that was in the clearance section. I dont think I’m being petty either, I think I’m just knowing my worth and holding a boundary. Do I love him and want him? Yes, but I’m not accepting stale ass breadcrumbs even Aladdin wouldn’t eat.

  • @LonelyRider87

    @LonelyRider87

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm envious of you; he ignored my birthday but it's ok I expected that.

  • @upcycle4earth393

    @upcycle4earth393

    Жыл бұрын

    Ehh you either want em or not

  • @davidking42086

    @davidking42086

    7 ай бұрын

    That was cold af. He acknowledged your birthday by bringing you a present. "Thank you" would have sufficed. You ignoring him totally should let him know to stay tf away from you forever if he has any self respect. Deal with your ego.

  • @maryl9180
    @maryl91807 ай бұрын

    No, no, no. No positive future lies in the rearview.

  • @robertasherman6752
    @robertasherman67523 ай бұрын

    You are so right 👍💯

  • @shawnbateman79
    @shawnbateman79Ай бұрын

    People want what they can't have. If you're always there for your ex whenever they need you, then they aren't going to miss you or want you back. Don't make things too easy for them. Go "no contact", it works.

  • @skftrust5384
    @skftrust53845 ай бұрын

    ❤ so true

  • @Kyle-MoneyProphet
    @Kyle-MoneyProphet27 күн бұрын

    My ex is still hanging on. She left me, but won't fully leave.. She still calls, texts, we see eachother a bit. She says she doesn't care, but her actions say otherwise. I can't do this forever though.

  • @Bluepearl187

    @Bluepearl187

    10 күн бұрын

    In that same boat with my ex.

  • @samanthareilly6968
    @samanthareilly69683 ай бұрын

    I didn't do any of that, I let him go and went no contact. He started contacting ME and is being cold and weird. But it's him contacting ME. I'm not chasing not doing anything.

  • @pallabibora2444
    @pallabibora24446 ай бұрын

    Thank you 🙏

  • @user-tz1hl3pf2w
    @user-tz1hl3pf2w16 күн бұрын

    Some coaches say that with those with low self-esteem like avoidants, after X amount of time there’s nothing wrong with US reaching out to them.

  • @ginevratortora2851
    @ginevratortora2851 Жыл бұрын

    I’m scared. It’s been 6 months of NC! I read all over the internet that it’s too late for him to come back

  • @akasickform

    @akasickform

    6 ай бұрын

    You need to move on Chances are that they will, just it'll take more time, but there is no point wasting any more time thinking about them when you could be using that energy to enhance your own life

  • @user-xh9gm4im4m
    @user-xh9gm4im4m4 ай бұрын

    Yes so right ❤

  • @RealityxFairytale
    @RealityxFairytale8 ай бұрын

    Him: you tried to call them Me: "could you lose my number?" lol

  • @jmdyt3626
    @jmdyt362611 ай бұрын

    I agree since our breakup I pretty much begged to get her back and before that she said she wanted to try getting back together but since talking even though she keeps saying she wants to get back together she takes 10 hrs to open my message and respond and I’ve been chasing her and have been completely drained for a month now so I’m just going to relax and back of and if she tries calling me, what’s apping me and messaging on all social media’s I’ll know if she truly wants me or not because I’ve been doing everything but I doesn’t feel like she’s been doing the same

  • @billybio6840
    @billybio68403 күн бұрын

    Once they add to their body count, no coming back

  • @veronicajohnson8253
    @veronicajohnson82535 ай бұрын

    You are absolutely right about that's my brother's thank you for these wonderful word's you have my blessings always love always god blessed always stay sweet smile 💖❣️💋😴🙏❤✅✅✅❤️❤️❤️💗💗💗🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @lucabilly8433
    @lucabilly8433Ай бұрын

    It’s been a year, mate!! She’s not coming back!! I am moving forward.

  • @richardandrusiak8346
    @richardandrusiak8346 Жыл бұрын

    Ill try to choose whats best for them i just wish to know she lived her happiest life

  • @curtiseby8593
    @curtiseby8593 Жыл бұрын

    Haven’t heard from her in 4 years

  • @ke6264
    @ke62642 ай бұрын

    The worst predicament you could find yourself in is being totally needy for someone who doesn’t give a damn about you. But with that being said, no contact is definitely the way to go. If you go no contact you will get over them.

  • @andys8702
    @andys87023 ай бұрын

    23 years we have been broken up for a year miss her so much she won't even look me in the face I'm still 💔