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  • @A1tch1
    @A1tch129 күн бұрын

    This video feels like it would be in a movie where all humanity's been possessed by social media and you're the last sane person trying to save the planet

  • @aichacarpentier4536

    @aichacarpentier4536

    29 күн бұрын

    Well, seems like our life is a movie after all

  • @amcsdmi

    @amcsdmi

    28 күн бұрын

    so a documentary then

  • @joshczuba

    @joshczuba

    28 күн бұрын

    in this together

  • @life-jz5en

    @life-jz5en

    28 күн бұрын

    Good analogy

  • @squidddy-dg2em

    @squidddy-dg2em

    27 күн бұрын

    everyone is a dopamine junkie and the average person is addicted to social media

  • @glorialeondar1056
    @glorialeondar105626 күн бұрын

    It really DOES come down to sitting in silence and allowing ourselves to be bored so we can find deeper meaning. How simple yet difficult.

  • @brandonramos8121

    @brandonramos8121

    25 күн бұрын

    its the most difficult in this era

  • @7letterbrandon439

    @7letterbrandon439

    24 күн бұрын

    Exactly, there is so much frequency in the world rn going through the mind its such an unbalanced reaction

  • @katherinecolson2350

    @katherinecolson2350

    24 күн бұрын

    and reducing that over stimulation

  • @ibrahim69r

    @ibrahim69r

    23 күн бұрын

    The thing is I can't do that, without being overwhelmed by the feeling of masturbation

  • @tarzan.CB.

    @tarzan.CB.

    22 күн бұрын

    Sensational.

  • @fylo2007
    @fylo200724 күн бұрын

    "The whole problem with being in a dopamine hole is that you're in a constant state of dissatisfaction. You're not chasing real pleasure- you're constantly numbing pain"

  • @tomotrono242

    @tomotrono242

    16 күн бұрын

    from now on im gonna watch paint dry as my source of entertainment and while im watching paint dry i wont be day dreaming i will be thinking about every particle of paint that is solidfying as i sit there watching the paint dry

  • @randomlittleidot

    @randomlittleidot

    15 күн бұрын

    goes so hard

  • @bcgaming4236

    @bcgaming4236

    13 күн бұрын

    lol this is actually why except its not physical pain its mental pain for me

  • @calebcrouch6133

    @calebcrouch6133

    12 күн бұрын

    That sounds just like addiction in general. I quit using various substances various times, mainly alcohol, and yes, at its worst I wasn’t drinking for pleasure. I was drinking to feel less like a piece of shite. Working out is one of the only things that helps me, it’s an addiction that is beneficial. And it motivates me to do better in every area of my life.

  • @jasfx7241

    @jasfx7241

    10 күн бұрын

    @@calebcrouch6133It’s not just alcohol and drugs bro social media, pornography, comparing your life with others you seeing online all of those are a terrible way to fry your dopamine system and overall your brain and at this point it’s unavoidable unless you just stop using phone (which you can’t we are already too addicted and we can’t imagine spending the day without the phone at least 95% of us) so in conclusion you need to be very strong mentally and try to discipline yourself so well so those aside things won’t distract you and put you in dark places of not wanting to move on except just feel like a failure.

  • @sumaiyamaryam9851
    @sumaiyamaryam985126 күн бұрын

    “you’re not chasing real pleasure, you’re constantly numbing pain.” This is one sentence I’ll hold on to from this video. It’s 3am right now where I’m from and I was laying in bed just so down, so defeated, so drained, and came across this. I didn’t even have an intention to watch the full thing when I clicked on it. A Godsend, truly. Subscribed

  • @benjaminsalazar9253

    @benjaminsalazar9253

    25 күн бұрын

    This sentence is so powerful

  • @Cyanide_Mallika

    @Cyanide_Mallika

    24 күн бұрын

    I realized this about myself that I am using phone as a numbing solution rather than to have fun or be entertanied every night till 4 or 5 am and feeling miserable the next day.

  • @Glosky8

    @Glosky8

    22 күн бұрын

    i understand that you are a believer in god, but you should thank this guy that took his time to do this video over the one "above"

  • @evanwhite3914

    @evanwhite3914

    Күн бұрын

    Wow same

  • @MiguelMedV

    @MiguelMedV

    Күн бұрын

    ​@@Glosky8 I think he meant God was looking out for him because he got recommended this video that Josh made, and he was in the right place to watch it 😁👍🏼☀️...

  • @jeffosendit2368
    @jeffosendit236813 күн бұрын

    "i thought of myself as a world to experience and explore rather than a problem to be solved"

  • @sarpsays

    @sarpsays

    13 күн бұрын

    Beautiful. That's something to think about right there.

  • @DlES-IRAE

    @DlES-IRAE

    11 күн бұрын

    Basically the quote from Dune :D

  • @damiloification

    @damiloification

    6 күн бұрын

    @@DlES-IRAEyup. "Mystery of life is not a problem to solve, but reality to experience"

  • @TheGameChallenger
    @TheGameChallenger21 күн бұрын

    Bro just casually distilled all the best self-help advice into 20 minutes, thank you.

  • @lauracraig8110

    @lauracraig8110

    16 күн бұрын

    Literally. This video is honestly one of the best I've watched this year - I've been watching a lot of self help content totally based around striv8jg and achievement and a hint of doom/shame. This video is actually useful.

  • @breddf347
    @breddf34724 күн бұрын

    Dr K calls this the 1 hour challenge. We spend most of our waking hours on the phone, listening to music, etc. Basically you just stare at the wall for 1 hour with no background noise. The first 20 minutes is boredom but the next 40 minutes brings a lot of thoughts up and let’s us process what we’re hiding from in our minds daily. Our Brian’s are so not used to silence for prolonged periods of time that some people experience hallucinations or deeply emotional moments.

  • @tiramisufm

    @tiramisufm

    24 күн бұрын

    I did this and it felt like I was flossing my brain

  • @tiramisufm

    @tiramisufm

    24 күн бұрын

    It physically felt so therapeutic like cold water was poured on my brain, and then I didn’t do it until months later when I did it like twice a week. I always craved that 1 hour, it lifted my spirit to be able to sit in “silence” but actually really tune into a controlled and managed spiral that would calm down and end with an existentialist optimism that doesn’t match ANY cheap dopamine in the moment.

  • @KingKoopah

    @KingKoopah

    22 күн бұрын

    ​@@tiramisufmlmfao flossing the brain good analogy

  • @verolreril250

    @verolreril250

    22 күн бұрын

    jokes on you I aint afraid of the silence:') Quite the opposite, my brain just never shuts the fuck up:D (not like overthinking or schizophrenia) just good old Adhd bullshit

  • @hellreaper2845

    @hellreaper2845

    22 күн бұрын

    ​@verolreril250 yo I'm the same way, except it's usually the same song on repeat (rn its bbl drizzy 😂), but sometimes it's depressing shit and that's really the shit I try to drown out

  • @hnng1439
    @hnng143921 күн бұрын

    "I will be free of any government that wants to control me, from any corporation that wants to monetize me, and any algorithm that wants to paralyze me."

  • @ydkcj
    @ydkcj28 күн бұрын

    being able to be bored for more than like 2 minutes is a superpower i never knew i needed

  • @joshczuba

    @joshczuba

    28 күн бұрын

    we got this

  • @mementomori5374

    @mementomori5374

    27 күн бұрын

    Just go for a walk with your phone in your pocket if your new with walking start with 20 minutes build it up to 45 min No music no phone it will do wonders for your mental health

  • @willtroy1986

    @willtroy1986

    22 күн бұрын

    I LOVE this video. No frills, no flashy production values to distract from the message, just simple strategies that are supported with well thought out examples and critical thinking. Subscribed, and will be sharing this video with friends who could benefit from it.

  • @mental_ofmusic

    @mental_ofmusic

    15 күн бұрын

    one of the best and simple superpowers

  • @Chris-xt7wd
    @Chris-xt7wd29 күн бұрын

    4:45 conscious consumption 9:19 creative work 13:10 physical care 18:40 engage with humanity 20:38 pragmatic optimism

  • @louskunt1066

    @louskunt1066

    29 күн бұрын

    way to miss the entire point

  • @lileav

    @lileav

    29 күн бұрын

    Thank you Chris. Good refresher after watching the whole video

  • @wild_cub_times

    @wild_cub_times

    29 күн бұрын

    @@lileav good point under a negative comment

  • @Chris-xt7wd

    @Chris-xt7wd

    28 күн бұрын

    @@louskunt1066 I actually did not miss the whole point. I watched it fully through and wanted to journal about each section. I figured someone else would have a similar idea so I wanted to make it easy for others to navigate the video, as well as me if I decide to come back :)

  • @joshczuba

    @joshczuba

    28 күн бұрын

    appreciate you organizing like this! So helpful!

  • @nameless2407
    @nameless240726 күн бұрын

    You’re 23 years old yet so matured in thinking. Cant imagine how you’ll be at 40.

  • @crazycat9003

    @crazycat9003

    22 күн бұрын

    Dead

  • @bred9901

    @bred9901

    22 күн бұрын

    Alive

  • @titaniumcranium3755

    @titaniumcranium3755

    22 күн бұрын

    ​@@crazycat9003 nah you would be

  • @net_lag

    @net_lag

    21 күн бұрын

    I also absolutely agree he is too young for sounding so mature with genuine wisdom

  • @Ch0senJuan

    @Ch0senJuan

    21 күн бұрын

    Addicted to heroin

  • @orp5us
    @orp5us28 күн бұрын

    15:32 NO ONE ELSE CAN FEEL IT FOR YOU, ONLY YOU CAN LET IT IN, NO ONE ELSE, NO ONE ELSE, CAN FEEL THE RAIN ON YOUR SKIN!

  • @joshczuba

    @joshczuba

    28 күн бұрын

    hahahahaha legendary

  • @werka607

    @werka607

    25 күн бұрын

    WTF do we live in a simulation? 😳 I woke up 30 minutes ago and randomly decided to listen to this song because it's stuck in my head and then I clicked on this vid and saw this...

  • @biko9824

    @biko9824

    25 күн бұрын

    Heard it today on the radio @ work :)

  • @KingKoopah

    @KingKoopah

    22 күн бұрын

    I thought these were lyrics from natasha bettingfields "unspoken"

  • @lucasd3658

    @lucasd3658

    18 күн бұрын

    ​@@werka607 youtube algorithm is kind of a simulation to be fair

  • @oseneva
    @oseneva28 күн бұрын

    This is basically the best video I’ve ever seen for a while.

  • @alittletrickery

    @alittletrickery

    26 күн бұрын

    facts

  • @janviyadav612

    @janviyadav612

    23 күн бұрын

    Agreed

  • @bermagot9238

    @bermagot9238

    18 күн бұрын

    What did he say in this video that you didn’t already know

  • @AnassNaqqad

    @AnassNaqqad

    17 күн бұрын

    ​​​@@bermagot9238 Most advices are not meant to teach u sth you don't know, they are rather meant to remind you of some things you keep forgetting, and the way you are reminded of them makes a big difference...

  • @bermagot9238

    @bermagot9238

    17 күн бұрын

    @@AnassNaqqad Fair point. I like that answer

  • @sonofharristhegod
    @sonofharristhegod25 күн бұрын

    I almost clicked off the video halfway through but my mind said " wait what are you doing". This video is awesome thank you.

  • @localsugarpuff4698

    @localsugarpuff4698

    12 күн бұрын

    same had a second where i wanted to click off but the video actually went by pretty fast after

  • @joooo2599

    @joooo2599

    3 күн бұрын

    Same! Getting through the first 10 minutes was rough I wanted to go on instagram lmao

  • @rafaelpag

    @rafaelpag

    Күн бұрын

    Same, about 7~10 minutes into the video I stopped watching it and started scrolling again. 10 seconds later I went back to it. It actually helped a lot

  • @meursaultroquentin
    @meursaultroquentin21 күн бұрын

    I was quite reluctant to click on this video fearing it would be the same "dopamine detox" grift so many people post, but I was pleasantly surprised. Good on you.

  • @user-fm5eh1fi5z
    @user-fm5eh1fi5z28 күн бұрын

    I'M SO GLAD you're on youtube. I used to watch you on tiktok but I deleted it a long time ago in order to have less stimulation, now I only watch youtube because it's less stimulating for me. Finding you on here is a blessing.

  • @joshczuba

    @joshczuba

    28 күн бұрын

    good to see you again! more on the way :)

  • @alittletrickery

    @alittletrickery

    26 күн бұрын

    congrats on deleting tiktok! Luckily I never had it but I’ve heard its a million times more addictive than instagram

  • @Timely-ud4rm
    @Timely-ud4rm28 күн бұрын

    KZread, recommending this video to me was your last mistake. I use KZread daily for music, background audio, and niche videos, but I often find myself switching between videos, even though I don't watch short-form content. When a video doesn't satisfy me, I'll turn to video games, only to later regret not working on personal projects or coding tasks I had planned. Your video made me realize that I can take control by using a system and being intentional. I've gone on walks before, but only about once a week. I'd like to start walking more frequently and using voice logging to process and digest the content I consume and the experiences I have. Thank you truly helped me. :)

  • @alittletrickery

    @alittletrickery

    26 күн бұрын

    Same

  • @jerryewald2223

    @jerryewald2223

    24 күн бұрын

    actually same

  • @Timely-ud4rm

    @Timely-ud4rm

    24 күн бұрын

    @@alittletrickery I'm glad you relate, I hope we both can be more productive but not just that but more happy without the extensive consumption.

  • @abdulovarlekin

    @abdulovarlekin

    18 күн бұрын

    Dude, how to use KZread JUST FOR music and background audio?? It's so hard, youtube know my interests (like my favorite games), it knows my weaknesses... its really hard on phone, without settings which can disable this rabbit hole (recomendations) like "youtube unhook" in desktop browser... You must have really strong willpower for it.

  • @RossLemon

    @RossLemon

    16 күн бұрын

    Personally, I've stopped all social media consumption except for KZread (although I don't consider KZread "social media"). I've even stopped bringing my phone into my room, so I just go straight to sleep instead of browsing KZread shorts for 2 hours before actually sleeping. I'm still consuming content, but I've found the content I consumed on platforms such as Instagram or Facebook was hot garbage that made me angry while the content I consume on KZread is typically more productive or valuable to me.

  • @RUBABSAZDA
    @RUBABSAZDA13 күн бұрын

    I'm crying my heart out right now. I've suffered this for so many years that I lost count. I have lost so many precious years from my life. Each and everyday I used to indulge myself into cheap dopamine consumption and most of the time it would go over 7/8 hours. I always blamed myself for not able to escape this bubble. The world didn't feel like the real world. And living in an abusive family as a financially dependent person, I couldn't ask for help. I don't remember the last time I felt so optimistic about myself . Thankyou!!Thankyou so much!!

  • @CrAzYDUde2587

    @CrAzYDUde2587

    12 күн бұрын

    You got this stranger, we will be ok

  • @khoido7357
    @khoido735721 күн бұрын

    17:05 this part about being in a culture of self improvement and the shame around not being enough hits home

  • @StrangerToEarth
    @StrangerToEarth29 күн бұрын

    Your voice is really persuasive, I instantly got hooked into this video because your voice and body language is so engaging it cut through the haze of consumption I go in on my phone. Well done

  • @joshczuba

    @joshczuba

    28 күн бұрын

    here to help :)

  • @alittletrickery

    @alittletrickery

    26 күн бұрын

    factssssss

  • @viridian9673

    @viridian9673

    26 күн бұрын

    @@joshczuba just fo curiosity's sake, are you a psych major?

  • @fiftysecwithoutza

    @fiftysecwithoutza

    23 күн бұрын

    @viridian9673 nah he’s studying rizzics

  • @simplyremington

    @simplyremington

    15 күн бұрын

    @StrangerToEarth lmao I clicked in your profile for reason and I saw your description that shit made me feel like I was trippin out😂

  • @Dibbz_TV
    @Dibbz_TV19 күн бұрын

    Best I can do is 10 seconds. Take it or lea-

  • @dimuc

    @dimuc

    12 күн бұрын

    Double it and give it to the next person

  • @Lordofpsychoticrat
    @Lordofpsychoticrat27 күн бұрын

    Thank you, what I love about this video is that you are not dehumanizing the viewer, but instead using a hopeful approach that if we all are in this, then we all can mature and become better as a whole species.

  • @alittletrickery

    @alittletrickery

    26 күн бұрын

    yeah this video was pretty great. It’s nice to feel human again

  • @sister_golden_hair
    @sister_golden_hair25 күн бұрын

    “It’s through the action that you find the clarity.” I audibly gasped at that.

  • @hanlitheron1291
    @hanlitheron129119 күн бұрын

    "see yourself as an adventure to be explored, not a problem to be solved." & "I am not a bad person for wanting to feel good." gut-wrenchingly beautiful lines. I haven't seen a video that truly made me feel as hopeful as I do right now in a long time. Thank you.

  • @geekedup-pf6yu

    @geekedup-pf6yu

    18 күн бұрын

    I'm tearing up

  • @xanxan-jay
    @xanxan-jay21 күн бұрын

    oh my god, what was that.. you just literally rewired my brain after weeks of overthinking, i hope you live a great life

  • @heictorbellato4894
    @heictorbellato489416 күн бұрын

    "I wasn't a problem to be solved, i was a world to be discovered and explored" that was a punch in my gut. Love your content mate, thank you

  • @dreamyfauna
    @dreamyfauna27 күн бұрын

    Redesigning instead of removing is an amazing piece of advice. We can't always run away and cut out what doesn't work for us learning to engage and allow the things in our lives to work FOR us rather than AGAINST us is necessary. Self help works for a while but when we're children we aren't constantly chasing a better version of ourselves because at a fundamental level we must accept who we are as we are. Thank you for this talk, it's bringing a lot of people comfort and hope.

  • @alittletrickery

    @alittletrickery

    26 күн бұрын

    Yeah, it can be difficult when you constantly do the good thing like read and journal and in two days your back to mindless consumption. This vid really helped me and so I’m algorithm boosting rn lol

  • @WakeupwithYacob

    @WakeupwithYacob

    26 күн бұрын

    I mean we can always live in an underground hut in the woods

  • @Oblisk
    @Oblisk12 күн бұрын

    The number one thing alongside sitting in silence that helped me bring myself into a mental homeostasis, is talking to myself. Quite literally talking to myself. After dinner, I will go outside in my backyard and walk around in circles in my grass area. It’ll be a way to walk off the food, but a time for me to reconnect to my inner self and spew out whatever is on mind. And that’ll lead to conversations with myself. And what do these conversations consist of? Anything I want to talk about. That’s the freedom of it. Out of anyone in the world, you are the only one who won’t judge yourself like others do. You have the freedom to say whatever you want. That’s if you allow it.

  • @ytmld
    @ytmld23 күн бұрын

    i honestly feel like Ive learned more out of these 20 minutes than over my last year of high school. this was the best spent 20 minutes Ive had in a long time

  • @DarrenSengs
    @DarrenSengs20 күн бұрын

    I wish there were more videos like this in my recommendations feed: no music, no animations, no special effects/transition; just the speaker trying to simply convey a message of his experiences and conclusions to the audience. But if it gets excess, then it defeats the point of what was trying to be established in the first place and goes back in the loop of consumerism. Is it deep? For some, no. Other, probably. I think the best thing to do is make do with what we have and acknowledge both extremes b/w excess and abstinence. The golden mean 🙏

  • @LordRuffles
    @LordRuffles2 күн бұрын

    When you talked about being “disconnected from your narrative” that’s when realization kicked me in. Put my hands on my head and starting to feel like I was in control again like those good old times. I also found myself thinking: “Why am I wasting so much time? It was this simple all along”. Thank you very much for this video, sometimes the KZread algorithm works well in the right moment. I’ll be back in a couple of days to talk about my progress ❤

  • @katrielanderson3808
    @katrielanderson380828 күн бұрын

    Thank you for holding me accountable and convincing me to focus, so attractive

  • @user-kj3mw4hr9r
    @user-kj3mw4hr9r28 күн бұрын

    This was a great video! The toned down setting, delivery, and no crazy edits and constant b-roll and aesthetic jazz really helped get your message across. First time in a long time that a self-discipline video has made me feel like i can actually take meaningful action on something.

  • @alittletrickery

    @alittletrickery

    26 күн бұрын

    It was such a good video!!! Out of all the self help, it really helps you transition into real life instead of the next video.

  • @JuliannaBosserman
    @JuliannaBosserman26 күн бұрын

    Yo this video definitely sparked the start of a huge mindset shift for me. I spent like an hour taking notes because it got me on such a good train of thought. Finally facing the truth of this cycle I'm in. Grew up with the phone at such a young age that only now am I realizing how much of a hold it has on me and my life. This video should be broadcasted to the world honestly. Every person I know is deeply affected by addiction in one way or another, and it's been so heavy on my mind as I'm just feeling the weight of everyone around me and myself turning into zombies, no autonomy, no self control. Really looking forward to understanding this more and more, thanks for the inspiration

  • @alittletrickery

    @alittletrickery

    26 күн бұрын

    Yeah this video was pretty great, I’m just hopefully boosting the algorithm. I honestly relate to what you’re saying so heed this warning, realizing how terrible the insta domamine is is only the first step. Genuinely, good luck. I hope you can find meaningful things to pursue in your life.

  • @bred9901

    @bred9901

    22 күн бұрын

    Make sure to keep it changed

  • @d.z.6669
    @d.z.66695 күн бұрын

    It helped. Put the phone away. Went for a walk in the forest. My mind was empty at first. Then ideas rise. I came home and continued my study. Sometimes it helps to hear from the outside what we know from the inside, since it resonates very well😊!

  • @kennyslg8914
    @kennyslg891427 күн бұрын

    If there was ever to be a library of KZread videos that are considered an important piece of history, as with films, this should be in there 100%. If every single person in the world heard this message, the world WOULD change for the better. I've always thought the same thing. Social media and the internet could be one of the best things for humanity instead of the worst if we started using it as a tool, rather than a toy all the time.

  • @alittletrickery

    @alittletrickery

    26 күн бұрын

    Ikr!!!!! This is going into my rewatch folder. Hopefully I’ll remember it if I ever get trapped again, but this feels doable.

  • @lukedmoss
    @lukedmossАй бұрын

    Also, I just want to voice my gratitude for your willingness to put out these videos. They are an excellent tool and resource. Effective and soothing - looking forward to any thoughts you continue to share here. Thanks!

  • @joshczuba

    @joshczuba

    28 күн бұрын

    only the beginning :) thanks for being here

  • @MKmagnifico
    @MKmagnifico12 күн бұрын

    This was honestly life changing. I’ve found myself stuck in this “dopamine hole” for ages now and this video is a godsend. I rarely ever leave comments on videos but I just had to say thank you. You speak so well and you’re helping so many people.

  • @mehrsataheri566
    @mehrsataheri5663 күн бұрын

    Hi. To be honest, I’m so glad that you’re making a situation where people actually can understand and start being aware. That’s the most important thing in today’s modern world. In the end, it’s only and only awareness :)

  • @rockinrobin
    @rockinrobin27 күн бұрын

    Just started music detoxing yesterday and glad to be recommended your video today

  • @alittletrickery

    @alittletrickery

    26 күн бұрын

    Idk what that is, but good luck to you! I hope you find something meaningful and fun to do with your time.

  • @dedkavsh

    @dedkavsh

    20 күн бұрын

    hey, I listen to music like all the time. what you're doing sounds like something i would like to try. so, can you tell me about music detoxing? thank you so much^^

  • @abdulovarlekin

    @abdulovarlekin

    18 күн бұрын

    I don't know, how you guys can be long time without any background sounds (even just music or calming rain/waterfall sounds from youtube for example), im almost all the time stay at home alone and silence just getting me crazy, stupid obbsesive thoughts starts messing my mind..

  • @dedkavsh

    @dedkavsh

    18 күн бұрын

    @@abdulovarlekin I think you can try journaling your thoughts. It's a good idea that might work for you!

  • @abdulovarlekin

    @abdulovarlekin

    18 күн бұрын

    @@dedkavsh sheesh, i don't think what this is good idea, sometimes, my thoughts going so fast what i don't have time to say them, moreover to write. sometimes its really weird thoughts, i think its better NOT journaling them.. But yes, i can try to start a diary how dude in video recommends.

  • @user-ej9rg3qn7p
    @user-ej9rg3qn7p18 күн бұрын

    The fact that you took your own hardship and pain and turned that into something for other people is admirable. This was such a lovely video, thank you.

  • @NightWink129
    @NightWink129Сағат бұрын

    Especially when I'm going through a difficult time, I *always* tell myself that everything will be okay and that we (meaning all aspects of myself that make me "me") are all in this together. It's a major part of how I show myself self-love. Thank you for your own understanding of that, and thank you for being a manifested reflection of my healing and conviction. Your words touched my soul, and I very much appreciate that, soul brother.

  • @Berci1511
    @Berci1511Күн бұрын

    Dude... I thought something was seriously wrong with me, but apparently im just overwhelmed. Way too overwhelmed, by everything. Jeez, i barely noticed how im a chronic content consumer, mainly youtube videos, as i dont really enjoy the brain rot of tiktok and yt/instagram reels, but still, when im alone and just sitting in bed or eating, i HAVE to watch something. It surely cannot be this easy to explain why i have been so unhappy for the last 10 years, it makes sense there's something deeper wrong with me, but the things you described make sense as well. Im flustered

  • @kumsalice
    @kumsalice20 күн бұрын

    i have diagnosed adhd so i already do struggle with dopamine even without social media, but before the quarantine i WAS able to control it! i had a phone, i was playing video games but I had my phone back then, I had the control. back then, i was working out with my friends after school for 2-3 hours and also on weekends! i was doing my hobbys, i was painting, going on walks. studying wasn't easy but it was easier. with the help of sports, like you said, going out and being connected with nature, with MYSELF was actually helpful with all of these! i never realized it but i am not doing those as much anymore and you made me realize the difference in my life. you gave me hope, for the last month i am actually doing all the things you said AND THE DIFFERENCE IS INSANE! I CANT BELIEVE IT! i told my friends about you and your advices, we all are doing better thanks to you. you always speak so understandingly and kindly, i hope you always have such nice people like you around you

  • @cordeliathefairy
    @cordeliathefairy24 күн бұрын

    "I thought of myself as a world to be experienced rather than a problem to be solved" This video was incredible to watch! Thank you, Josh, for sharing your consciousness with us!

  • @Sreynocs
    @Sreynocs21 сағат бұрын

    Within the first few minutes when you said “You are in control” I cried and knew I had to watch this video. That’s the one main thing I’ve been told and tell myself when I’m feeling overwhelmed and like I can’t do anything to change that. This video was so helpful, because it made me realize they I’ve been slowly doing these steps, I even had a breakthrough in the physical care area just yesterday that made me feel amazing. It’s good to know I’m on the right track and that I came to this path somewhat naturally. Gives me hope that I will get to a place someday where that excitement for life isn’t something I have to work at, that I will one day be permanently okay

  • @domenichiniivan8337
    @domenichiniivan83378 күн бұрын

    I'm actually feeling overwhelmed by the media this days, it literally feels like brainrot, I've been trying to consume less of the pointless media, so thanks for making this video

  • @anabittenco
    @anabittenco25 күн бұрын

    Ironically enough, I was just looking for content on addiction (games and social media) and couldn’t quite find what I needed. Then, your video popped up, and it’s exactly what I was looking for. Crazy how algorithms can be both so good and so bad for us. Thank you so much!

  • @lurobu
    @lurobu19 күн бұрын

    you are so eloquent. i really love the way you approach this issue with compassion. thank you for creating these videos!

  • @tripl3vizi0n98
    @tripl3vizi0n984 күн бұрын

    I have been overwhelmed sleeping in my bed almost everyday this whole month of may avoiding the gym, friends, and even my boyfriend. I cried last night admitting to myself I am feeding into negative energy and temporary satisfaction not facing my problems just avoiding the inner healing part of my own journey. I have everything I need and I am grateful yet I find my self struggling to believe I deserve a better life. Watching your video created a spark within me to actually devote real love for myself and true care. Thank you being alive, i appreciate your life. 💚

  • @harisaqeel660
    @harisaqeel66015 күн бұрын

    Its like he held my hand and sat me down and talked to me.

  • @oin_czn
    @oin_czn11 күн бұрын

    6:20 this’s totally right! I mean because of the big amount of intakes, you’ll “want” to do something because “it interests you”, but actually it doesn’t interest you, you wanted to do it ONLY because you find it cool, and you think it’ll make you looks special & unique in ppl’s eyes. And if you actually asked yourself whether you’re into it or not, your answer would be no. You need to turn off your distractions, and try to do new things, and you’ll eventually either find what interests you, or you’ll know what you’re good at.

  • @mitchieee143

    @mitchieee143

    7 күн бұрын

    recently I decided to tap in and just listen to what i was in need of. I felt I was craving knowledge and I wanted a challenge. I had always wanted to learn a new language, Korean, to be more specific and yet I had always passed it off as silly when the thought came up. so I decided to show up for myself. I set out time in my week and just started. At first I practiced in private as it’s such a vulnerable thing to step into something you know absolutely nothing about. I also wanted to make sure it really was just for me. Eventually I got a little courage as things began to make a bit of sense so I came out with my supplies and studied out in the house. one day when I sat at the dinner table studying completely engrossed while my parents commented on the new skill I was taking up I knewwww I had really followed through w what I needed. their appraisal wasn’t important ! ( As a recovering people pleaser this was huge lol ) I wanted to continue bc I needed to know what was next. our body or more specifically the mind is always sending out signals for what it needs but it’s up to us to take time and listen. Im glad I did. I’ve been consistent for a month now and I’m still excited to keep going.

  • @dhairyasheth
    @dhairyasheth27 күн бұрын

    I'm halfway through the video and man I haven't felt in order from like past 2 months. I've been going with the flow of my bad habits, I've just let them in, I'm tired of them at the end of the day and frustrated at myself before sleeping, and then I do them again the next morning, all the while making myself seem miserable in my own eyes. The biggest problem for me was when I started watching self improvement videos while trying to escape my bad habits, and I just felt bad about myself for doing these bad habits, they were just becoming my identity, I don't even know if was in control of them (at a deeper level) until I heard your words: "You're in Control." I don't know how to explain this but it felt like a breakthrough, I felt like I escaped something, I'm going to follow my routine tomorrow because "I'm in control." I need to remind myself that I'm in control of everything that happens. I'm in control of my desires, decisions & actions. I don't want to give away power to anybody else. If someone has read this far, just remember, "You're in control & You can control." You can't do something that you don't believe in, while you want to believe that you're in control, self improvement is not a game that could be won overnight, failure and self doubt is common and many people, including myself, tend to fade our beliefs in the process of failing. No matter how hard you try, you can't be in control if you never believe that you can. You changed my beliefs about myself.

  • @alittletrickery

    @alittletrickery

    26 күн бұрын

    Congrats! I hope you find something fulfilling to do with your time.

  • @geekedup-pf6yu

    @geekedup-pf6yu

    18 күн бұрын

    good shit man

  • @gun6674
    @gun66744 күн бұрын

    billions must see this. your kindness is a treasure. keep doing this.

  • @wasntmyintention
    @wasntmyintention8 күн бұрын

    The last 30 seconds alone really gripped me by the face and let me see the reality of my over-consumption. Then, the end, of course, comes with the IMMEDIATE KZread recommendations for other videos. And I felt a bit of disgust at that, for the first time ever. How could I have ever forgotten how insidious it was, to have videos thrown in my face? (Yet, I’m really glad yours was!) I’m at the same age, and it’s reassuring to hear you struggle similarly. Great talk and thanks for sharing with us- we all get to practice our humanity with each other because of you, and isn’t that really what it’s about?

  • @soop1711
    @soop171128 күн бұрын

    I have to say - this is an incredibly eloquent video and i think you have really summed up my cummulative thoughts on the modern world and our generation's place in it. I'm really impressed. Thanks for recording and sharing this. I have found myself on this side of the internet more often, and funnily enough I just uninstalled other social media in the last few days in an attempt to reset. I think it's important to mention that meditation is an especially important practice that would really allow people to grow and mature. Really nice to see everyone in the comments' awareness of this phenomenon and their exploration of your thoughts on it. Again - really great stuff. Keep it up!

  • @alittletrickery

    @alittletrickery

    26 күн бұрын

    Eloquent is the only way to put it really. So many words perfectly placed on a map that he helps us make for ourselves.

  • @steadyinlove
    @steadyinlove26 күн бұрын

    you’re dope as fuck. absolutely love the way you storytell and teach. clearly born for it. I see/feel/hear a lot of myself in you. we both have very minimal videos but are already making an impact, which is so fckin cool. moments and videos like this make me feel so proud of us as a society, which is saying a LOT. proud to see so many like minded young people stepping into their calling, bit by bit. gives me lots of hope. keep going.

  • @steadyinlove

    @steadyinlove

    26 күн бұрын

    was just meditating on the difference between investing and indulging. and how indulgence gets a bad wrap because of WHAT we choose to indulge in. but we can choose to indulge in presence and expanded awareness, mindfulness, learning, creativity, etc, it suddenly becomes a fulfilling investment rather than a cheap fix.

  • @Laura-lr5gd
    @Laura-lr5gd9 күн бұрын

    I rarely write comments on youtube films but this one is most definitely special. When you were talking I understood that I am not a problem, that's my willpower is not a problem. You were talking about how to make that change, how to improve and accept some of our weakness. And I genuinely understood that I just need to accept that, and keep going. I was building the feeling of wanting to quit scrolling on constant shame and guilt as you said. I feel that this is the time I start rightly motivated change. Wish me luck on this. And thank you I feel that this video is the beginning of some sort of change. Once again thank you

  • @lynly4062
    @lynly406219 сағат бұрын

    stimulation versus satisfaction: this is one of my favorite videos I’ve ever watched, I’ve only watched one video from this channel, but it has satisfied me significantly more than channels that I may have watched hundreds of videos from. We really are gonna be okay.

  • @WeAreSafeHere
    @WeAreSafeHere29 күн бұрын

    the most important video i’ve watched for awhile. thank you!

  • @joshczuba

    @joshczuba

    28 күн бұрын

    here for you

  • @nicole_erin_green
    @nicole_erin_greenАй бұрын

    The passion you have for this is so so important I’m hugely grateful for you and your content! Literally the only way humanity will prevail in the right direction. Following you in you’re journey for the better ✨

  • @lukiso5734

    @lukiso5734

    29 күн бұрын

    Nicole is beautiful

  • @joshczuba

    @joshczuba

    28 күн бұрын

    grateful for you nicole :)

  • @johnnyjackson9852
    @johnnyjackson985224 күн бұрын

    i straight crying dude. thank you for what you do and i wish the best for you and your loved ones.

  • @SixXGaming
    @SixXGaming2 күн бұрын

    Popped up for me when I actually needed it. I love KZread but I haven’t been able to treat it the same since reels came out. I don’t spend a lot of my attention on real videos anymore and I hate that I can’t at the very least switch off reels and be able to watch 20 minute videos that actually interest me. Thanks for this

  • @rasberries566
    @rasberries56628 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much for the compassion and sincerity in this video. I wrote down the suggestions on a post-it note and it will live on my desk. I appreciate you!

  • @Ishqkaari
    @Ishqkaari27 күн бұрын

    Hey! Thank you for just posting this non- over edited and non-stimulating video . A raw , real , simplified ,plain observations based and soothing video . What a lovely way of yours to put things so simply and in illustrative manner . Not even for 1 second i wanted to skip . Are you a teacher ? What a wonderful way of explaining. ❤ Thanks again ❤

  • @rachel7558
    @rachel75585 күн бұрын

    I thought I would be bored watching this video and I think in the beginning I was, but the more you spoke, the more peaceful I felt and I don't know why. I haven't even started trying to put these methods into practice and my mind is already so much quieter and calmer just from listening to you talk uninterrupted for 20 minutes

  • @toadettecos3299
    @toadettecos329915 күн бұрын

    This video was a godsend, I felt myself in a constant state of turning to scrolling to numb out my thoughts and emotions and I felt powerless. I was just scrolling for the sake of scrolling when I saw this video, clicked instantly and thankfully so, it has helped me a lot thank you sm❤

  • @DesoMcGrease
    @DesoMcGrease22 күн бұрын

    By far one of the most well-spoken, compassionate and positively informative videos on youtube on this subject, I really appreciate this, this was a gem of a find for me given i’ve been struggling for the past two years with mental health, and distractions have been a big part of the issue. I’ve found that if you are hurting enough; you are driven to distraction and escapism, through all the means you mentioned and then some. Thank you for the positive words man, taking things one step at a time, and videos like this really make the path forward a lot clearer, you’re doing gods work.

  • @Caroline_Klidonas
    @Caroline_KlidonasАй бұрын

    Found this video from your substack and am so grateful to have longer-form video of your work to listen to. How you discuss all of this is so fascinating and helpful. the first voice I've discovered that engages with the existential dread that (understandably) permeates this conversation with nuance and hope and without self-blame and shame. Also, I recently moved in with my friend after living alone for many years (and working from home). I've noticed a significant decrease in how often I reach for mindless scrolling. And I haven't experienced that cheap dopamine hangover feeling in awhile. I've even be reading more. I chalked it up to just having a lot to do with the move and having my routine interrupted. But then you got to point 4...I think it's because I'm simply connecting more with a human in my daily life now that I live with someone!

  • @joshczuba

    @joshczuba

    Ай бұрын

    Caroline! Huge fan of your work and I'm so happy this resonates with you :)

  • @navdeeprathore9106
    @navdeeprathore91067 күн бұрын

    "There is so much significance of small steps" so well put! Thank you for this.

  • @tigerlily9234
    @tigerlily923426 күн бұрын

    Why weren’t we this smart at 23? I’m 28. We didn’t think like this

  • @MichaelF321

    @MichaelF321

    24 күн бұрын

    To be fair, he's clearly pretty exceptional. Not your average 23 year old.

  • @jeremywaygay

    @jeremywaygay

    23 күн бұрын

    @@MichaelF321 tru, he has a sense of earnestness that isn't really the norm in our gen. we all gotta be talking with layers of irony 24/7 or else you seem "cringe" for caring.

  • @alicezventures

    @alicezventures

    14 күн бұрын

    the term exceptional is relative rather than exact​... so to be fair, it doesn't make sense to associate intelligence with age. yes, his characteristics are exceptional but not extraordinary. @@MichaelF321

  • @thesunshineblissproject
    @thesunshineblissproject26 күн бұрын

    This is gold. This video automatically played with autoplay. Was going to stop it, but after listening to the first two minutes your message resonated. Subscribed.

  • @ektamourya4406
    @ektamourya440626 күн бұрын

    When videos like this one show up on my feed I am instantly grateful that we aren’t too far gone yet. Algorithms clearly aren’t exploiting us to the maximum effect. Videos like this one still surface, give you a reality check and help you disconnect from the vicious numbing cycle of shorts and infinite scrolling. Thankyou Josh. My attention was yours for 20 minutes and you truly nourished it. More power to you ❤

  • @linguinelabs
    @linguinelabs16 сағат бұрын

    This video had a lot of helpful ideas. Also very inspiring given that we are the same age. The format of just talking into a lapel mic with a blank background is so disarming and genuine. Great stuff.

  • @biiig_dipper
    @biiig_dipper17 сағат бұрын

    this video was genuinely inspiring. It's given me the renewed sense of curiosity i have in reading and writing. it felt like an actual conversation with an adult who isn't brainwashed to believe that how we usually use social media is normal or someone who isnt overstimulated 24/7. that made it comforting i guess. thank you

  • @fantakouyate2307
    @fantakouyate230728 күн бұрын

    Really great contribution to the internet and the world.

  • @mamaprism
    @mamaprism26 күн бұрын

    Josh!!!! You talking that shxt I LIKE! Such a clear and concise video. So balanced across each level of being, mental, emotional, spiritual, and physical. Your acceptance of what is and willingness to baggage it from an empowered place is such a gift and I’m so glad we all possess it. Thank you for speaking to this and doing exactly what you spoke about in the end. We absolutely can train our humanity and teach one another new ways to be. Sending everyone so much love. You got this ✨

  • @TheWindNomad
    @TheWindNomad20 күн бұрын

    You have changed my life. I needed this so much. Thank you for helping us all heal

  • @eden2225
    @eden222516 күн бұрын

    I see a lot of videos about people quitting social media, but never one quite as impactful, personal, and deep as yours. Your advice touched me. Thank you.

  • @gayatrisahaay8780
    @gayatrisahaay878019 күн бұрын

    I'm 20 and from the very get-go, i've been weeping and sobbing while nodding along to you - and I know you get it cause you're 23. I just don't think older professionals or whoever can ever truly empathize with the feeling, they can provide a lot of useful science, but to have your foundational growing years robbed from you is something they just won't be able to relate to. really thanks so much for this josh, it's difficult to be a first-mover in these kind of situations, you're experiencing this along with the rest of us but you've had the presence of mind and the altruism to not only address it and break it down for yourself, but also to share it with the rest of us in this very digestable way. and it's also so important you did it exactly this way, and that it came from you. idk maybe these tricks are already out there, but i'd have never been able to actually take it in and process it if it were a snippet from a podcast with those large yellow subtities and some guy in a black button down - useless, albeit well-meaning. content AND form, you nailed them both. thanks again!!

  • @geekedup-pf6yu

    @geekedup-pf6yu

    18 күн бұрын

    we gonna make it brah

  • @Helene_experience
    @Helene_experience27 күн бұрын

    So much wisdom ! This is what I did intuitively, getting back to my body and enjoying what I’m doing, the brain loved it. I kept away the comparisons and competition from my movement practice. Now I’m just dancing whatever feels good moves on my favorite tunes to bring up the joy. Today I danced outside in nature and as a woman came by, I offered her to dance with me ! We danced for 10 minutes, ended up hugging and exchanging phone numbers to go on hikes together!

  • @littleminx79
    @littleminx7925 күн бұрын

    Your voice is so calming. I've been on a journey, and I have been being more mindful and more social - but when I have nothing I *have* to do, I still find myself on shorts just scrolling. Will keep working on it.

  • @mikan5699
    @mikan569912 күн бұрын

    this is genuinely one of the BEST videos ive ever seen on youtube. im glad i gave my attention to you for 20 mins cus this vid is really helpful and just what i needed. you really put my thoughts into words and executed them very well!! big thanks for creating such quality content, im grateful for the youtube algorithm for once lol

  • @CelaenaSardothien-zy9zd
    @CelaenaSardothien-zy9zd28 күн бұрын

    I think i just fell in love. I was hooked all throughout the video lol you, sir, are a beautiful person💖

  • @backfire10z29
    @backfire10z2919 күн бұрын

    I just happened upon this video and it’s resonated with a lot of what I’ve been discovering ever so slowly. 22 years old here and I think many of us around this age group are either coming to the realization that you are or sinking deeper into the dopamine hole. I think we are in somewhat of a unique position compared to every other generation in that we’re the first gen to have been brought up in this type of environment. It was a big part of many of our formative years but not all of them. I’m seeing even my parents starting to scroll through random memes (older stuff on Facebook but it doesn’t really matter) and it is kind of worrying me. I think our generation is best positioned to come to the same realization your entire video is about and really do something about it on an individual and collective level. And the humanity portion… oh man. COVID annihilated multiple generations on that one. What a great point to bring up, because it really is as important as the rest to align how you gain satisfaction and dopamine. Welp this is way longer than I thought it’d be. Anyways, great video, thanks for putting it up.

  • @ehtishamullah7534
    @ehtishamullah753415 күн бұрын

    This video has cured me. Watched it 2 weeks ago and started praying the 5 daily Salah. Now I can focus fully on my studies and have no desire to pick up phone needlessly, or even waste time. I do what needs doing, enjoy doing it and still have time to enjoy my family's company and sleep on time. As a Muslim, it is easy for me because I have 5 pillars that give structure to my day.

  • @ErnestLongwe
    @ErnestLongwe18 күн бұрын

    To be honest I wasn't even planning on watching this video, I was just endlessly consuming but now that I've watched I feel free and I've learnt a lot. This is the first video I have ever commented ever on KZread, maybe the stars aligned perfectly or something but this is the most value I have ever gotten. I thank you for giving me back my time and the consciousness I lost

  • @erikalarcon9644
    @erikalarcon964428 күн бұрын

    Much Love !!!

  • @williammccormick3787
    @williammccormick3787Ай бұрын

    Great vid, thank you for your wisdom!

  • @EcomCarl
    @EcomCarl25 күн бұрын

    It's so refreshing to hear advice that acknowledges the common feeling of overwhelm. Taking that breath and refocusing on meaningful tasks is such a powerful approach! 🌿

  • @KarlSkorger
    @KarlSkorger6 күн бұрын

    Staying bored is a way to deal with this

  • @whyherrodere3784
    @whyherrodere378429 күн бұрын

    Thank you 🩶 for your message. I was listening to you talk as I was doing chores and tbh I'd been stagnant in my goals for awhile. But i'm getting back to it 💪 good luck everyone

  • @wild_cub_times

    @wild_cub_times

    29 күн бұрын

    I send you strength and courage

  • @joshczuba

    @joshczuba

    28 күн бұрын

    you're crushing it

  • @morarhamude2592
    @morarhamude259228 күн бұрын

    must watch

  • @dinohuu1480
    @dinohuu148015 күн бұрын

    Your voice is so calming. I could listen to you for an hour straight

  • @dorfinn2196
    @dorfinn219613 күн бұрын

    I honestly came to this video with a “another self help” kinda thing but this was genuinely helpful insight. I subscribed lol felt like I had to. But I’ve been trying to get out of that hole for about a week or two I just graduated college and I want a change in my lifestyle. I couldn’t even be happy I graduated because I thought “now what” or “it’s gonna be harder now”. I feel like the changes I’ve been making are leading me to things that will help like ur channel. Thank you!

  • @bhenriquefranca
    @bhenriquefranca29 күн бұрын

    Um dos melhores vídeos que já assisti aqui na internet. Escrevo isso em português do Brasil, para mostrar que pequenas atitudes podem gerar mudanças incríveis no mundo. Estamos juntos nessa Josh, você é uma grande inspiração!

  • @hohurnham7583
    @hohurnham758329 күн бұрын

    this is a great idea, thank you

  • @huberthubert1636
    @huberthubert163617 күн бұрын

    Stunning! I'm not the person who comments videos, but this time I felt like that's the moment I need to go to the "action". Spend whole 20 minutes focused watching this video and I feel pure happines. Really high dose of truth a lot of people should get. Instantly subscribed, liked and commented! I support you man and of course everybody who's reading this comment. Keep it up lads!

  • @toadleyasmr
    @toadleyasmr8 күн бұрын

    wow this was profoundly well done, thank you for going out of your way to make this video. It's very grounding and something that so many people around me, including myself, need to hear.

  • @mymusicdiary216
    @mymusicdiary21629 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much . I really needed this reminder right now

  • @joshczuba

    @joshczuba

    28 күн бұрын

    You got this