Move out and if wife comes great if not file for divorce and be glad there are no kids.

This is why you shouldn’t get married until you can support yourselves.

@matthewgardner2144

2 жыл бұрын

Sweetie, did you listen to the segment?

@quelquun2018

2 жыл бұрын

@@matthewgardner2144 yes we did. Did you? He said they married young in college so they couldn’t financially support themselves from the get go so they have to move in with their her parents.

@shionajoseph3248

Ай бұрын

@@quelquun2018no. They had their own place and her family moved from Puerto Rico so they got a bigger apartment

@lisawintler-cox1641

Ай бұрын

@@quelquun2018 No, That was just the click bait title. After the Mother and Father showed up and settled into the tiny apt., they all moved into a bigger apartment together. Father left. Man wants to leave! Daughter has made a promise of care to her Mother (which Jon doesn't seem to get). I feel like your description doesn't match the video.

It's cultural and I 100% percent understand him. My husband and I were in the same situation until we kicked them out since the house was under our name. My family HATES us till this day for kicking them out. It's culture

@KS-cl8br

2 жыл бұрын

Good for you putting your family before some other people.

@eurekahope5310

2 жыл бұрын

Leave and cleave to your husband. No doubt it was brutal, but your husband must have appreciated your devotion. :)

@celiamartinez3

2 жыл бұрын

Glad you did what you had to do by putting your family first!!! We had to do the same with my in laws and they eventually got over it.

@luvofcooki3s

2 жыл бұрын

@@eurekahope5310 as do v V

@jamesmoriarty9603

Ай бұрын

Wait wait wait wait wait........... so your family came to live in YOUR house, then they got upset with YOU when you said "this is our house, find somewhere else to live"?? Were they paying bills? Working? Doing anything around the house? I have so many questions

I'm really, really confused why they got married at 20 when neither one of them could pay rent on their own!! 😱

@grod805

2 жыл бұрын

Why is that an issue? A lot of couples always struggle financially, should they never enjoy marriage?

@quelquun2018

2 жыл бұрын

@@grod805 what are they enjoying exactly?? Yes he sounds like a happy camper to me, that’s why he’s calling in the show 🙄

@pimaggot

2 жыл бұрын

2 incomes is easier to pay rent-

@l-train7876

Жыл бұрын

Didn’t he say they had their own apartment when they first came over from PR? But then moved in w/the family when they too came over from PR.

Everyone needs their own space. It's time for he and his wife to leave home.

@larrydastooge

2 жыл бұрын

It’s a Latin thing. Wife ain’t leaving mommy!!

@KS-cl8br

2 жыл бұрын

@@larrydastooge Then he needs to leave her.

@danielvega8797

2 жыл бұрын

@@larrydastooge that’s how it really is and I think the best thing to do is take her away from mom so she can realize she can be on her own

I’m confused about the math here… he got married at 21, been married for 8 years but he’s only 26?? What?

@abark

2 жыл бұрын

He messed up the math. They were married in 2015, so 6 years.

@victorias5272

2 жыл бұрын

He probably added the time they were dating to the total time together.

@matthewgardner2144

2 жыл бұрын

I just hope he's not a math major in college.

@talyahr3302

2 жыл бұрын

The giant banner on the screen clearly states they've been married for 6 years (not 8). 6 Plus 21 = 27 and he said he's 26 so it's probably not exact math but it's close. Just depends on what time of year his bday is and their anniversary.

@pimaggot

2 жыл бұрын

@@talyahr3302 😆

This is my exact story. Thankfully, we are on our own now. But I 100000000% relate. We lived with in-laws for 7 years. After 2 years, I wanted out. Wife did not. And the circular merry-go-round went and went for 5 more years. Except it was my FIL I had issues with. He didn’t want us to leave and he didn’t respect me. Thank God that’s over with now. We own our own house now. There is hope.

It is really difficult as it is 100% culturally. Latino culture is different in the way generations of a family live. Adult children living with their parents is absolutly ok in this culture . It is not frowned upon. They cannot even imagine what could be wrong about it. It is seen as loving and good children if they live or visit their parents daily! And yes ...they have a LOOOOOT of boundary problems but do not see the cause of it. And often children do not want to break their parents hearts by "leaving" them. The strongest bond with a lot of Latinos is not between husband and wife but between a mother and her children. And they love it (most of the times). Stand your ground and make your wife choose. Hopefully it will be you! And if not, you would have never been her choice anyway. Good luck and may you find happiness either way!

@QuyenNguyen-xs7oc

2 жыл бұрын

So much like Asian culture where I come from. I have my own house and don’t live with my mom (Dad had passed). Many of my friends and relatives are not supportive of this living arrangement and think I’m not a good daughter. There are many traditional things that I still treasure, but I feel strongly that as an adult, we all should have our own space and be independent. If his wife doesn’t want to move out, he needs to just do it and see if she will come along. And if she doesn’t, I would get a divorce for sure.

@FTBASTAR

2 жыл бұрын

As a Latino, everything you've said is 110% true! Family is #1

@kissablestyles

2 жыл бұрын

My Latino family is like this and my mom relied on her mom so long she didn’t even know how to take care of us when her mom died. I’m seen as disrespectful because I choose to not let her wrap her hands in every aspect of my life just so I don’t end up like her. I understand it’s good to be family oriented but in my family it has caused waaaayyy more problems than it has solutions.

@weekendnomad5038

Жыл бұрын

Not married tho!!!! Good point about the parent child dynamic.. Hated it growing up but In my mommas last years we were really close. I would take her on family outings to movies, zoo etc lol

@weekendnomad5038

Жыл бұрын

@@kissablestyles our family is toxic asf too lol

Agree with most of the posters. Culture is 100% the major factor, and as am American I don't think Dr. John quite comprehends. I live in the Caribbean and my mother was SHOCKED when I announced I'd be moving out on my own. I was 21, with a university degree and a full time job, but she couldn't imagine why I'd want to move out! By the way my older sister is almost 40 and still lives at home. Very normal in many cultures

@Coastpsych_fi99

2 жыл бұрын

I get it and am part of similar cultures BUT it can be extremely toxic and dysfunctional pattern which should not be excused as culture. If you respect your children and let them live at home to save for their own place that’s one thing but to expect them to live at home forever can easily render them adults unable to make it in the real world due to being dependent for example!

@thecramptons

Жыл бұрын

So why would he call and ask and “American” About a cultural situation he know nothing about?

@daryltgeorge

Жыл бұрын

@@thecramptons probably because the caller lives in America? The question is really about managing culture clash rather than throwing out one or the other

@thecramptons

Жыл бұрын

@@daryltgeorge 👍

@Matt-cr4vv

11 ай бұрын

This talk would’ve been 1,000% more helpful for the caller had John understood the cultural differences to explain the living arrangement and that the simplicity he sees in telling the wife to choose between them is an extremely detrimental ultimatum when considering their culture. For John he’s laughing like they’re just pesky kids who are so silly to not live in their own and how his wife should be able to easily make this choice and leave her mom but he doesn’t realize that Colombian culture commonly has all these people living together and thst leaving the mom outside of a few accepted reasons causes extreme conflict thanks to how mothers are seen in their culture. But not all Johns fault because this caller needed to tell him how the cultures differed rather than letting him provide advice when he clearly didn’t understand the rationale for he living scenario.

Boundaries are so important.

I’m Hispanic and I can’t imagine being married and living in my family’s house this long… the only way I’d do this is if we lost everything.. we would need a few months to a year tops. However I’m glad they aren’t gonna have student debt 👏👏👏👏 this is the silver lining in all of this

This is a tough situation because while we are telling the younger generation to grow up you can't grow up without having the difficult conversations and then making a plan to move forward. It is not fair to a young married couple to be taking care of the callers MIL while trying to forge ahead in their own life.

I got married in sophomore year of college to my wife (same age and year), but we made sure to get our own place. Everyone has different circumstances, but I'm a strong believer in the idea that a proper, private home is essential for a serious relationship.

@JDAfrica

Ай бұрын

100% - also, your missing out the best part of a first year of marriage. Banging on every surface, late night pizza naked in the kitchen, buying ur first sofa together, romantic dinners for 2 at ur dinette. Learning to cook her favorite meal (without her mommy adjusting seasoning the way she likes it).

Great answer Dr John. I might even be stronger and say your mother in law can’t live in “your house” either. He needs to see his mother in law every few months, not everyday as he heads off to work.

God no don’t let the MIL live in their house either. Geez

@randyadams1312

18 күн бұрын

She’ll see it as her house, because she’s the mother

Just fyi: should always be part of the discussion before marriage what you're gonna do if in your/your partner's culture that aging parents live w one of the adult children, and that person cares about the culture.

I wonder if they got married, and then her family immigrated.. so it's a weird dance of the mom being a dependent AND wanting to be in charge.

@JBCookies8885

2 жыл бұрын

You might be right. If the MIL lost her job, she knows full well that she will be homeless without their income. But, she can't handle not being a "mother" to them. "They need to respect their elders." Sadly, I don't think there are any winners until the MIL becomes self sufficient.

@eurekahope5310

2 жыл бұрын

A friend married an immigrant who divorced him as soon as she got her citizenship. People need to be aware that the prospect of green papers or citizenship is worth faking a relationship for years.

@JBCookies8885

2 жыл бұрын

@@eurekahope5310 her immigration status isn't clear from the video. Puerto Ricans are US citizens at birth. However, the MIL is Columbian. Did she already get her green card before the move? Sorry about your friend. Hopefully their ex won't try to get benefits. They will be on the hook of they do. When an immigrant comes to the US, the sponsor (in this case your friend) signs a paper that they will be responsible for any benefits the ex might claim (married or not) for 15 years. This only goes away if they become a citizen. *Source: married an immigrant

@melanieb2132

2 жыл бұрын

@@eurekahope5310 I know of at least 2 dweeby men who had "mail order brides" (both eastern European and too pretty for those socially awkward guys). The women divorced the guys as soon as they were able to stay permanently. I dont think that is the situation at all here, however.

@eurekahope5310

2 жыл бұрын

@@JBCookies8885 She was on a student visa but was able to receive permanent status and apply for citizenship because of their marriage. We were so heartbroken by this situation because he truly cared for her and she took off once she had her status, not waiting to play the field. And unlike the mail order types, their was no missmatch in attractiveness or age. It wasn't obvious to all until she walked out after she got her status. A relative married a gem of a person who is also an immigrant. I am not saying all relationships are mercenary, just that the potential is higher as it would be with a very wealthy person in relationship with someone of little means. I am glad it worked well for you. :)

It's really hard to be all adults when you live under the same roof as parents. This sounds like a very enmeshed-enabling situation. Your MIL is hurting her daughter by being ok with this and not pushing her daughter out to fly on her own. And John is right, she can't respect you as a man and provider while you are there. 😔😖😢

@starlingswallow

2 жыл бұрын

Joe, you may have to leave your wife. You can't change other people and if she is stuck on taking care of her mom OVER being married to you and having your own separate life/space, that's her choice. YOU have a choice too! What do you want? Need? DO THAT! Life is too short! John is right! Your MIL is holding the reigns by it being HER apartment!! John! Awesome advice 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻!!!!

He's from Puerto Rico... its their traditional culture for a woman to lock onto a man asap and then have him support her and the parents...

@probablynot1368

2 жыл бұрын

His wife and her parents come from Columbia, with a similar traditional culture.

@thecramptons

Жыл бұрын

Agree cultural thing, So why would he call and ask and “American” About a cultural situation he know nothing about?

Well he pays they bills so technically he’s the only respected one

He sounds so sad.... I feel so sorry for him 😪😪

Loved the accountability on Johns part. I’m rooting for the Caller. Your friends are best in situations like this!!

Ummm I think this got framed wrong completely. He clearly said that the young married couple let her parents move in when they moved to the US and then they as a group moved to a bigger place. Now mil doesn't have any income.... so grandma lives with them not the other way around. It still won't work because you need to kick out mil since she doesn't even care to get a job and support her self. The kids are doing fine they are support the mil.

@MrsFJohnson

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah. Dr. John misunderstood the caller. And the Hispanic/Caribbean culture is way different than the American culture.

@honeychild1498

2 жыл бұрын

@@MrsFJohnson I agree. However Dr. John did come around and say that MIL can come live in he and his wife’s home once they find their own home. He was trying to indicate that the husband has to become the man of the house so that he can get more respect. I kind of agree with that. He should not feel uncomfortable in a place that he pays for.

@Coastpsych_fi99

2 жыл бұрын

@@MrsFJohnson You are allowed to leave, reject or question your culture. You are not in a cult. Marriage in many cultures (im an immigrant too) is between families not two individuals. It’s a huge commitment to one person let alone their whole ass family!

As a husband he needs to lead his wife. Hes not yoked to be a husband. Best to quick now and start over with a clear path of direction.

Dr. Delony you’re literally the best

Listening to this caller layout how this had gone down is like watching Darth Vader telling Lando to hope he doesn't altar the deal further.

Nah I’m moving out next month are you coming or not the mother in law gets a job and pays for her own life or whatever happens happens you got this her mother in law is acting like a kid every where in town is hiring that’s her problem not yours

I’ve seen the issue a daughter staying at / or moving back home has…. My sister in law moved back in with her parents and kids/husband … she literally regressed mentality… she became a little girl, with juvenile thinking. Worst decision

Orlando rents have *soared.* Go get a small house to rent? On $50k/annual with Walmart part-time wages? Nope. Not in this market.

I think the advice is good, but there a good chance that MIL will still think she runs the house. I dont know Columbian culture specifically, but in some parts of Latin America the oldest woman in the house runs it. And I mean RUNS it. She chooses what they have for dinner, even if she doesn't cook it. She goes into whatever room she wants whenever she wants, etc. Now of course she very well may not exercise her "rights" but if it's their culturally it's tough. Going against it will seem mean and horrible even if makes sense or fits your culture better.

@jesussaves89

2 жыл бұрын

I thought Latin culture was patriarch with the man being the dominant one

@kissablestyles

2 жыл бұрын

@@jesussaves89 not if he isn’t around

@lepolhart3242

Жыл бұрын

They`re living in America though so they`re not in Columbia so if the mother in law wishes to live like they do in Columbia then she can go and live there. Living with several generations of the same family in one house is not the norm in America so if the mother in law doesn`t like it then she can go back home to Colombia. Don`t move to another culture if you`re not prepared to assimilate into that culture.

It’s time to move out.

Self torture. I couldn't do it.

His numbers are all over the place. He’s 26, married at 21, but they’ve been living there since 2015, and he says it’s been 8 years? None of that works.

@sanitary103

Жыл бұрын

regardless, it's an effed up situation. 4 or 5 or 8 it's all the same. a terrible situation all around.

Don't feel bad about the Orlanda! LOL I'm from North Florida and we call Miami Miamma, lol and Tampa is Tamper. LOL. But that's just because we're country butts.

move out NOW, and Hopefully baby girl will come along with you..... otherwise, you're just a fancy pet for her.

I have allowed my MIL to live with us for the past 15 years and let me tell you, it has been hard. I didn’t think it would go this long. She doesn’t pay rent or help pay bills. I feel like I come home to two women and my marriage has been robbed.

0:40 John clearly enjoys a variety of music.

@theshunnedBandersnatch

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@sanitary103

Жыл бұрын

Juvenile and cash money was the ish back then.

Sounds like the mother-in-law was a single mom (where’s mention of the father-in-law?). She’s getting her daughter to repeat her situation.

the wife in a spanish home it’s very hard to let go of your parents especially bc her mom is getting older and without a job. he has to leave and she will follow.

Says he got married at age 21 , now 26 an is married 8 years. Nothing he says adds up. Wonder about the job internship too.

This is genius

Colombian culture. Give her some grand babies and abuela is live in babysitter.

2:02 😨 I made the same face. That sounds so stifling and miserable.

lol I had the opposite reactions as john when I heard he was going from 50 to 70k as a software engineer. in other parts of the country if you studied well you start at 90 and go to 110k as a software engineer.

You also got understand Puerto Rican culture. Children are expected to help their parents. Dr. John needs to understand the culture before he gives out advice. I love you Dr. John but it took me a long time to understand my husband and how he had that drive to take care of his mother. He is from Mexico

@jesussaves89

2 жыл бұрын

My fiance is from Mexico too. But we discussed the cultural differences

@andrevaca6700

2 жыл бұрын

Helping your parents is different from living with them while they disrespect you (like his mother-in-law is doing in their relationship).

@Coastpsych_fi99

2 жыл бұрын

Not everyone adopts the culture they are raised in nor should they be expected to be. There is almost this expectation that because it’s someone’s culture you have to accept it blindly even if it makes you unhappy. These types of differences can be irreconcilable and lead to divorce.

@proudatheist2042

Жыл бұрын

Cultural expectations can create unhealthy boundaries, lack of respect, and problems that show up in a marriage.

@copperridgegrow3940

Жыл бұрын

This isn’t puerto rico. America has its own culture

Big problem is they got married WAY too young!! Not sure why people feel they need to rush into marriage, get a career, finish school first, THEN you can marry if it's still a good idea.

No one in that house is an ADULT !

No way could I put up with that. Maybe 6 months max!

You need to move and live in peace. Wifey chooses mom, buddy. Congratulations on graduating!!

Get out of your MIL apt. Find a place of your own. Find a place for you and your wife a place own. If you want a place with a mil plan. And she will have to live her space but not inside her apt.

Leave and she will follow. This is how it works with theses types

Her mom's not working so somehow mom needs to get a job so the daughter doesn't feel responsible for her. There are cultural issues, moved from Puerto Rico? and they tend to try to take care of each other in Hispanic families.. So hold on Dr. John before defining the issue in such a harsh way. Certainly keep working on getting their own place.

John Deloney Well,seems to me he gives advice based on his personal feelings.Not what is good for the caller's.

Run, run fast😂😂😂😂😂❤

Oh oh oh no no no!!! Love my parents but no no no!

This poor man is trapped.

You need to leave, if your wife chooses to come with you great, if she doesnt she was never your partner to begin with walk.

This is my life… and it’s been far longer…

“Weird romantic brother and sister.” J.D. has an odd manner, but he nailed it. I think he was really wise to say they should establish their own household, decide what kind of household it will be, and MIL can live with them, but it’s their domain.

Help the mil financially to move out of ur house or u change and move to a new house, yet financially helping ur mil during this transition for a time..u and ur wife both need to work together with this goal otherwise it wont end well...

Haha!! I’m Latin, our mothers are 2nd after God. However, it is not just Latinos, also Hindus, Italians and Jews have their mother’s influence in every decision.

@arpit.sharma

5 ай бұрын

As an Indian Hindu, I agree. But as an adult, you need to decide what you want for your life. The ideas can come from other culture

@devadii24

Ай бұрын

💯 🇮🇹 here… very true… 😂

Danm 🤦🏿‍♂️

Get Married housing in college... dah

Ahhh...LORD!!! 🙄🙄🙄!!!

Yeah Dr John is not understanding that the living arrangement isn’t a set up where the couple is “mooching” off his MIL in staying there the way it’s seen is culturally different than the US where it’s a normal thing to have an arrangement like this. His wife and MIL are Colombian and the culture of living with the parents and the childs relationship with their mother is polar opposite of the US. In Colombia children living with their parents into their 30s isn’t out of the norm and mom has a huge grip on her kids and there’s going to be issues tsking the child from the mom. When he spoke about then struggling he’s explaining that the culture of the living arrangement is largely because they struggle more there and living that way helps them all to support themselves. It’s completely different than here so Johns analysis of this is off because he’s viewing this as an American but not with the Colombian culture to grasp why this isn’t out of the norm. But the caller doesn’t make much effort to explain this to him. His wife being firm to not leave her mom is much different than US culture as well. A lot of the issue is that if you’re marrying someone you need to ensure you can work within that culture and make your choice accordingly. So when you’re looking to marry his wife you have to realistically consider that you’ll be living with your MIL for a decade or more and if you can do that.

@jangrosemartindale8740

Ай бұрын

MIL lost her job during Covid & does NOT work. He is paying majority of bills, wife is part time at school & Walmart.

I would like to hear the other side of the story. 🤔

@KS-cl8br

2 жыл бұрын

No other side needed. They need to move out. MIL can run her house the way she wants and the couple can do the same in THEIR home.

@janelleg597

2 жыл бұрын

Leave and cleave. There is no "other side "

Congratulations man, but you really shouldn’t marry while still in college. It’s okay to be boyfriend and girlfriend and really close without tying the not officially. You are not ready for a marriage, financially speaking.

But what are the issues? Maybe they can be solved? I mean plenty of cultures have multi generational housing so it’s not as as if it is impossible or inherently toxic

Whaaaaat?! She's not choosing her parents over husband there was no ultimatum

Never get married before you are 32-34 if you are a guy. It takes at least that long to accumulate enough life experience to make a decision what carries as much with with as little potential for anything positive as marriage.

Move out very soon. Good Luck.

Math isn’t adding up. Got married at 21. Is 26.used to live on their own. And now has been living with in-laws for 8 years

She is her mother child bro.

Hope he’s not a math major. None of that timeline added up.

Don't bring mother n law.

Don’t live with your in law basically if y are a man it will never end well, the bad things when you start opposing one another it will never hl

This was such a hard conversation to listen to. He didn't even bother asking what the conflicts are. He assumes that this is a household that doesn't respect a person who lives with their family because he doesn't respect people who live with their families. A multi-generational household where all of the adults contribute is not weird, and it's not a sign of dysfunction. It may not be working for this particular family, but reducing their family dynamic to a power play is gross and problematic. You can't claim to want to honor his culture and not even bother to find out what that culture is.

Host starts off insulting from assumptions instead of really listening. Not good.

If this dude had watched more than a couple episodes of the Dr John show, idk what could possess to call in with a problem like this. Dr John is already quite judgmental and expects people to live up to a bar that sometimes is unrealistic. But call HIM of all people to tell him you are 25 and still living in your mother in laws house and have neber lived anywhere else?! He must enjoy the pain or need tuff love or something.

John Delony screwed up at the begining of this call. He made assumptions without even listening to the guy, it's a cultural thing. Many hispanic families live in multi-generational homes. As for me the moment my mother in law disresected me in a place I" paying for she'd be out by the end of the week

Grow so cajones ⚽️ 🏀

Just saying, but the most insightful comment I heard was, "the only people I interact with are my wife and my best friend, who is a guy". If your wife isn't your best friend, you have greater issues than living with your mother-in-law.

@Cyanopteryx

2 жыл бұрын

Eh, I kind of disagree with this (and I'm a wife). It's two different types of "best-friendship". My husband has known his two best friends since childhood and they've been through a lot together. I don't feel like that invalidates the relationship between him and I, as we are also absolutely best friends. His close friends are part of our extended family at this point. And frankly I think it's healthier for men to maintain close male relationships after marriage, just as it's important for women to maintain close female relationships as well.

@missydonald6381

2 жыл бұрын

@@Cyanopteryx I completely agree everyone in your life doesn’t just stop being important just because you get married. That’s not a healthy mindset.

@melanieb2132

2 жыл бұрын

My husband wouldn't call me his best friend.. he would call his guy best friend his best friend. We are "best friends", but marriage is much more than that title.. I dont think we can judge the intimacy in their relationship based on that one sentence..

@MsHenrei

2 жыл бұрын

Yikes, I’m not my spouse’s best friend, neither is he mine. I’ve known mine for almost 4 decades. Spouse is a friend who gets me but my bestie is a bestie for other reasons etc.

@amandawithlov3908

2 жыл бұрын

Ehhh I wouldn’t refer to my boyfriend as my best friend before referring to him as my boyfriend. Nothing wrong with what he said. If anything I think he needs more friends.

2015? That's *six* years ago. Not eight. Maybe brush up on math?

@wufflerdance9481

Жыл бұрын

8 years in nov of next year 2023 ....they are rounding up since its 7 plus years

Dude needs to be a man and lead

Married at 19? That was your first mistake and then bad decisions after bad decisions after that. This kid is a beta. He needs to move out and live the bachelor life for 15 years then think about a long term relationship. Wow.

@crystalsnow1138

2 жыл бұрын

They were 21.

@Scott-got-caught

2 жыл бұрын

@@crystalsnow1138 as if age 19-21 makes a huge difference?! 😂 they're still immature at that age, jennifer!

@crystalsnow1138

2 жыл бұрын

@@Scott-got-caught For them they seemed totally unprepared and immature. But they are plenty of people who get married in their early 20's and are mature enough to handle marriage and the responsibilities that come with it.. My parents and my sister were all married at 22 so being young doesn't automatically make them immature.

@bethl

2 жыл бұрын

@@crystalsnow1138 True! But if you can’t support yourself or your wife, you weren’t ready!

@crystalsnow1138

2 жыл бұрын

@@bethl I agree, but that's not fully dependent on age. There are 30 year olds you can't support a family and there are 20 year olds that can.

DeLoney is kind of an *ss but good advice

@HereForFun98

2 жыл бұрын

Definitely agree. He was a bit rude to this caller.

divorce her! smh! you are in your 20s!!!!

Lost all respect for this Delony guy - he basically advocated for divorce. God’s going to have some serious severe eternal words for him, because God is against divorce and remarriage.

Most likely he got her pregnant and was forced to marry at that age🗣🗣🗣