I took a three month sabbatical from work. I wish I had taken a sabbatical from everything else because my family still managed to stress me the hell out. I will say, for those of you who are planning a career break, make sure your boundaries are very clear for everyone in your life, otherwise you'll be replacing one stress with another. Love this channel and this is a great conversation.

@GG-kp1hb

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this suggestion and reminder

"The grown children will figure it out", "the family members will figure it out".!!!! Thank you!

Resigned from my career of 25 years as a fashion stylist for HSN. I was physically and mentally tired. After taking care of my mom & watching her pass I did a bit of reflecting on my life. Now I'm a new business owner as a mobile massage therapist & other gigs. I love my new life. Learning how to manage my life on my terms. Love your channel ❤️

@rkms5606

2 жыл бұрын

🙏🏿 blessings to you. Thank you for sharing

@StephaniePerry

2 жыл бұрын

So sorry for your loss Dana. "I love my new life" are the most beautiful words in the world! Congratulations on your amazing life transformation. 💗

@MsKim510

2 жыл бұрын

So sorry for your loss. I love how you've found happiness in your new chapter. Thank you for the inspiration. 🌺

@donnaleak5045

2 жыл бұрын

Dana, I’m sorry for your loss and blessings to you as you go through processing this experience. Your words, “I love my new life” and “learning how to manage my life on my terms” are so inspiring!

@danadane827

2 жыл бұрын

@@donnaleak5045 Thank you so much😊

I take every Saturday as my 'no human contact Saturday', even my 87 year old mother knows not to call me as I'm not answering! I need a weekly rest day.

@sharjb2271

2 жыл бұрын

Love this!

@franchettabeckford6753

2 жыл бұрын

Saturday is my favorite day. I do what I want, see who I want, and avoid things that don’t bring me happiness.

@sandramorno3109

2 жыл бұрын

Love that! I need to start doing that

@miltoniaferrell6775

2 жыл бұрын

I do the same thing. I have to have at least one day just for me.

The 2/3/4 houses I could buy with my student loan debt is the type of cruelty I will never subject my children or my nieces or nephew to... the U.S. higher education systems is like it's healthcare system - a capitalistic venture

@marriejames01

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, I told my girls I’d pay their way through college if that’s what they want to do.

@franchettabeckford6753

2 жыл бұрын

I’m steering my nieces and nephews into other ventures. I hope a few will make traveling their careers.

@Heyu7her3

Жыл бұрын

2 HOUSES??? In this economy? It's THAT bad???

I left my job 5 months ago and it has honestly taken me this long to decompress from that stress. I didn’t have the money or the retirement but somehow we’re making it work. You have to determine what you’re willing to trade for your health and sanity. I realized that I value my life more than I value the stupid job, making someone else rich. I originally wanted to travel but then I realized that I just like the peace of not having to go in to work for corporate America. I will eventually find me another job but it will be on my terms.

@LeianaL0ve

2 жыл бұрын

I’m in the Same situation! Two months ago I quite my job . I’ve have to learn to accept I’m not going to be super productive I’m healing and recovering from burnout .

@ShawtySnapp07

2 жыл бұрын

This has been me since May of '21 and BAAAAAAABYYYYYYY, I am FREE and working on ME!! I'm not doing/going/listening unless feel like it. God's got me on the home front, and I'm starting to see things around me so much more clearly. I'm hoping to learn to love my life and get paid for it, lol. (Meaning getting paid to do something I love and enjoy)

@solinspired4428

2 жыл бұрын

I feel you it takes time to decompress from the mess.

@Dream-bebe

Жыл бұрын

Left my job July 2021 not looking back !! I am working on my self development and clearing my thoughts. 😊

I am physically and mentally exhausted! I've given myself til mid August to quit my job. 27. Years with the same company....No raise in the past few years but yet they want more out of me. I'm done ✔

"Grinding is rubbing 2 things together until they are broken down." Woo - so true and that's why I hit the pause button to re-center myself and get out of that race with the associated mindset.

Today was my last day at work. The stress from coworkers and not knowing what was going to happen next (new owners) was more than I wanted to deal with it at this stage of my life. I am 60 with a teenage spirit😁. I listened to this on the way home, right on time!!! I don’t know what I want to do, but I journaled the other day that my job is not ME and I am not my job. Thanks for the affirmation Stephanie!

@50fitnfrolushous

2 жыл бұрын

@Sum mer that will be easy cuz I have NO grandkids 😂

@CallMeErie

2 жыл бұрын

@50fitnfrolushous CONGRATULATIONS!!!! I hope your future is so much better than you could ever imagine!

Hey Stephanie! I'm in the middle of my first housesit on my year sabbatical journey! 5 bedrooms, 3 baths, big yard with ripe fruit trees, 2 loving kitties, bikes, close proximity to a 444 acre park and.... a car. The Golden Ticket of house sits out of the gate and you are the reason this has happened! The best cure for a difficult divorce! Thank you Queen!

@Vasper79

2 жыл бұрын

Well done. I just applied for one. What state/country did you get in if its outside of the USA?

@girlstriptherapy6507

2 жыл бұрын

@@Vasper79 Thanks. I'm in Rancho Cordova, east of Sacremento.

@deew1160

2 жыл бұрын

@@girlstriptherapy6507 So HAPPY for you! And obviously, you deserve it! I was just curious about how long is the assignment. Will you be there for 2 weeks, a month, or 3 months? This sounds so exciting!

@girlstriptherapy6507

2 жыл бұрын

@@deew1160 Thanks Dee. This sit is a month!

@deew1160

2 жыл бұрын

@@girlstriptherapy6507 OK, thank you.

I just took a break from work as a Registered Nurse. I'm mentally and physically burnt out. I wanna do something fun. I'm tired of calling code blues, bag patients and the toxic environment. I would like to get into event design and I love to create centerpiece and decorating

@layla8647

2 жыл бұрын

Sister I work in the healthcare as well. It’s a depressing place. Everything u said is FACTS! Funny I also enjoy interior decorating 🤗! That’s Awesome 👏🏾! That’s why end of July I am resigning from working in hospital. NEVER AGAIN 🤮!

@ChantalesprettylittleDIYS

2 жыл бұрын

@@layla8647 yes it's a very toxic environment. Congratulations and good luck on your journey

@yourroyallioness6607

2 жыл бұрын

Many blessings and well wishes to you! I quit a month ago-I was a patient access service manager in the ER. The burn out and stress was starting to effect and affect my clarity and multi tasking ability. Sadly, I continued on because my body was physically able to take the trauma. Then, my body and spirit started to break down. Indeed, it is absolutely draining to constantly pour into and uplift others, while never having anybody do the same for you. I understand completely where you are coming from.

@blackheartcardigan

2 жыл бұрын

@Dr. Alia Dixon, Nurse Practitioner a travel NP? How? I'm interested. Right now, I'm a travel med surg RN with 3 years experience.

@valm.5243

Жыл бұрын

So many of us in the medical field are burnt out! I'm looking forward to leaving my medical practice behind in the next 3 years to focus on ease and family.

I am unemployed now forced sabbatical. This is a needed break.

@deew1160

2 жыл бұрын

DO you, BE you, ENJOY you and the rest will follow . 😊

@pearlrichardson4179

Жыл бұрын

I am unemployed too due to job elimination 6 mos ago. A forced sabbatical but had/have been going through other life changes/crisis within those months. Considering retirement by 2023 or just work part-time. Weighing my options.

It is awesome to now know that I am not alone in my experience. After 23+ years as a retail pharmacist, I am 2 weeks in on my sabbatical. My time and peace is priceless!!

@yourroyallioness6607

2 жыл бұрын

Peace and wellness to you, sister!

I really love & appreciate this conversation. I’m realizing how I changed after taking a few months sabbatical. It wasn’t out of the country but I decided to move out of my home state without knowing what was next, meaning I had No job, no place to live no solid plan. I sold most of my things and left with what I could fit in my car. It was only 4 mos and I was back to work but with a different outlook on how life would work. I kept asking myself why can’t I just do this 9-5 and be satisfied but now I know it was that move that changed me. Thank you for all the information you provide! I’m ready to get out of America next 2 years.

@StephaniePerry

2 жыл бұрын

Yes! You're a new person in a new place. Once the environment changes for the better you get so much clarity. I'm glad that moved worked well for you Nichole, and I hope you're making progress on your move abroad plan.💗

I’ll tell you how they are out at 10 at night. Because honey, hush - the country does not leave the house before 8am, coffee shops do not open until 8:30am!!!! Okay! Work day here in Portugal is 9-1pm and 3-7pm with the 2 hour break in the middle. VERY different than US

@ninawestlake14

Жыл бұрын

Sounds like a dream😳

I resigned from civil service sometime last year. I took around 6 months before I decided I prefer contractual work. I no longer want to be locked in with a company or tied to a certain region of the country.

That's crazy about having the CO worker pass at work. So many Co workers have been rolled out of my job to an ambulance. I'm trying to locate work that I can do from anywhere. I also have a minor child and a recently adult child with a disability. Watching your videos I'm already gone (in my head). Black women need more self care

@deew1160

2 жыл бұрын

As a Black female, I wholeheartedly agree! We tend to support and put everyone else's needs before our own. We deserve guilt-free uninterrupted indulgence sometimes, too.

@marriejames01

2 жыл бұрын

One of my coworkers, a BW had a stroke about a year ago and had to retire early. She’s in her early 50s. People that talk to her say she’s still in therapy and she’s hard to understand. Very sad.

Stephanie you are right on point. Black women have been bamboozled by materialism. I leaned this early in my career. I took time off to be with my children and learned to prioritize what's truly important to me. I only work when I need to and have found ways to survive and focus on my own personal goals. I don't regret it at all.

I just took a career break but I didn’t travel - it’s been the best 💕💕💕

@StephaniePerry

2 жыл бұрын

Great! I'm so glad Brittany!! 💗

@StephaniePerry

2 жыл бұрын

@Sum mer Best of luck to you on your new life Summer! 💗

I do need your help!! I am 34 and EXHAUSTED..I work in property management for 6 years and I just started working with a new company in property management. And I’m ready to quit. I don’t have a savings due to inflation, but I need some help coming up with a plan to QUIT and take a break. But not be stressed about bills staying paid. I live in MD.

You are truly my Harriet Tubman! Thank you for this Underground Railroad. House Sitting is my new jam!♥️

Great share as usual; thank you Stephanie! This July makes a year since I quit my job and am still happily pinching myself that I left when I did. 🤗

@StephaniePerry

2 жыл бұрын

Happy Quit-aversary Gina! 💗

New subbie here. Glad you did this video because I have suffered and struggled so much. I’m 40 and exhausted. The grind has never suited me, but I haven’t been able to figure out how to stop. This is very eye-opening.

Stephanie, you have definitely found your calling! Thank you for inspiring us to live better, more free lives. I am still working, and the amount of cortisol I generate on a daily basis is no joke! I keep listening to you because I absolutely plan to follow your advice one day.

@StephaniePerry

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for your kind words Erika! We're not supposed to live our lives stressed all day every day. So let's take a break please. 💗

Every time I limit myself from buying more stuff I think about Stephanie, Shida, and Adalia. Why? Because it helps me to stay focused that I am downsizing and saving money so I can make my big move. It is not always easy but the big payoff will be when I am in Mexico. Thanks Stephanie and all you ladies.

Capitalism = grind forever Black Excellence = your Not Enough you will not be Enough! It’s time to listen 👂! Thank you 😊 Stephanie Perry!

This is perfect timing! I’m taking a 20 week leave starting in July! (Massachusetts - and other states - offers PAID medical leave. In MA, you can opt in if you’re self employed or if your employer has at least 50 employees you’re eligible. It doesn’t have to be physical illness it can be anxiety, depression etc too. Check it out people!)

@deew1160

2 жыл бұрын

Good information to know 👍

@cassie9701

2 жыл бұрын

Hello Gloria. Thank you for sharing. I did not see the specific name of the medical leave program. Please share. Thank you, Cassie

@cassie9701

2 жыл бұрын

Hi again. I did a little research. Located several sites. Again, Thank you for sharing. Cassie (Cassie Out Doors) (Cod)

@gloriaf4015

2 жыл бұрын

@@cassie9701 sorry I didn’t see this until now! In mass and the program is called PFML or “paid family and medical leave”

"We stop celebrating the hustle" OMG!! That hit home. She said a word!🙋‍♀️

"We stop celebrating the hustle!" Yes, indeed🙌🏾 I can relate to that.

"I learned I'm not a person who valued hard work." I feel that! I've been on a career break since Feb and it's now June. I haven't been traveling yet (your channel has been inspiring me to make it happen), but I finally got my very first passport during this break, which I'm so excited about!! I needed to hit the Pause button and it's been sooo refreshing & restorative. Currently, I feel ready to get back to work for income to support me while growing a new business that I started during this break as a life coach (something I can do remotely) and to finally travel abroad as I choose, but I'm coming to a job at this point with a whole different mindset. Ease is my new life purpose; it must run through everything I do. "Putting work in her place!"

Hi Stephanie, This discussion is right on time. ( long comment) I took a career break from trucking in October, '21. I didn't really plan to extend the break for so long. I've actually experienced some life changes, I.e. abandoning the strongly entrenched indoctrination of religion, the limiting beliefs of who I'm suppose to be ( influence of society, including our black community, family, workplace, friends, and religion) I was shunned by many (including close family members and long friends) because I decided for myself what was best for me and let go of what was not serving me or my best interest. I've been trucking (18 wheeler) for 8 years. I got tired of the demand on my time. Although I started my transportation business 11/2015, I still found I was trading valuable time for money. I was not enjoying my life and felt like I was living a fake life. I am All about BEING Happy and doing what my heart desires. I bought a van in August. I started living in it fulltime in October. I've been learning so much about myself including tapping into my intuition and learned to trust it. I just came off of a unplanned short roadtrip. I ended up at a Nature Park and camped in my Van on the campgrounds solo for the 1st time. I built my 1st wood fire, cooked, did a couple lives on Social media, journaling, visualization, nature walks, meditated, reflected. Waking up in nature to birds singing, chirping, squirrels clucking through trees, crisp air, rain was beyond Wonderful. I've exhausted the money I had and have no contract. I've been living/driving for Doordash and other means of income. On a holistic level I'm creating alchemy, transforming and healing into the person I truly Am. I am a free spirit who just can no longer conform to societies expectations and rules. My journey continues, but I'm determined not to go back to the old me. I'm free and the Creator & the Universe is taking care of me as I gradually but assuredly decide what and when my next move is. Thanks for providing the space for me and other Black women to share their experience of exercing autonomy and choosing themselves journey. 💚🙌🏾

I’m so tired and depressed I want to quit my job so bad and I’m eating out of stress

@umichgal1

2 жыл бұрын

Start with counseling if you can. There may be local places that will see you on a sliding scale fee.

This is so on-time! ❤️ I’m currently building my savings to take a 1-3 month break later this year. I experienced my first dose of burnout at NINETEEN😩 (way too young), after just three years of working. Almost 10 years later, I’m still on the hamster wheel and I AM DONE. I bought your house sitting course a couple of weeks ago and am SO READY to start so i can travel again soon. Im tired.

@solinspired4428

2 жыл бұрын

Take a longer break!

@earthtomarsz

2 жыл бұрын

@@solinspired4428 im really hoping to!

I’m taking one now. Since 3/22/22

@mikkih5809

2 жыл бұрын

Me too, due to a job loss…. New perspective & I love it!!!!

This is a video I really need to hear. I left my job a year ago. I hated my life. I still work with the same people temporarily and they continue to insult me by asking if the hours I work are legitimate. I either need a new career or continue to be self employed. Even that small change of not being their employee has made my life more enjoyable.

Stephanie thank you for this video. I am now transitioning to a new career in Front end web development and I am battling depression its not easy but doable for me. I encourage every black women who want to, to give IT a chance. BLACK WOMEN CAN CODE TO. Have a great day everyone!!!

@yourroyallioness6607

2 жыл бұрын

Wishing you all the best, clarity and understanding, as you embark on your journey!

@SJones-kk5lg

Жыл бұрын

Is that a lucrative career and what does it take to become marketable?

I staryed my career break in December 2020. It was the best decision I made Preparing for a return to work but I don't want anything permanent. My goal is to do temporary work from here on out.

In 2018 I took a six month sabbatical. I traveled for the whole time. Best decision I made my whole life. 4 years later and I feel the NEED to take another one. It changed my life for the better. My goal is to do these every 4 years or so until I'm able to work for myself FT

Your skin looks so GLOWY in these last few you have videos posted. It always looks good, but there is an extra glow lately. I love it! Also appreciate the insight from the 30+ women! It's motivating for me.

💕💕💕I love that for us, rejecting black excellence, We are excellent as we are, with no need to run around with capes on, self sacrificing, enough! As I dance towards joy and freedom I am 100% Supporting Stephanie Perry, and the work she does to liberate the chocolate, vicious woman! Take those capes off sisters and dance towards joy and a life of ease!💕💕💕

I took a 3 year sabitical and it was glorious! I recommend it for every woman. If you get a chance TAKE IT.

@sharjb2271

2 жыл бұрын

That’s great! Are you returning to a new job or business?

@HCVProgramDiva

2 жыл бұрын

Started a new business first, then a new job. Organized the business to run on auto pilot so it is an income producing asset.

@SJones-kk5lg

Жыл бұрын

@@HCVProgramDiva Do you mind sharing your business type?

@HCVProgramDiva

Жыл бұрын

@@sharjb2271 after the sabbatical I returned to working full time, but I work remote two days a week which gives me extended weekends and in office 3 days a week. My new gig is far less stressful than the old Job that was 40+ hrs in office, 45 minute community each way and being tethered to my phone and lap top as a “salaried” slave. I have it so much easier now and my sabbatical no doubt attracted this job.

@HCVProgramDiva

Жыл бұрын

@@SJones-kk5lg I work for a laid back public agency. My business is rental property I rent to older people on a fixed income and give them a nice place to live affordably so they appreciate their units and take care of them.

Stephanie, 🥰❤️I wanted to say how much my sister and I adore you! You are TOTALLY our kind of magical woman! 🙏🏼 We have watched EVERY ONE of your videos and interviews. We are from New Zealand, looking at 90 days in Mexico and then 90 days in either Costa Rica and/or Portugal. Wish we could attend your summit (we are not black). Sending hugs 🤗 and appreciation from New Zealand. 💋💋

In 2018, I left my day job in property management to finish my degree(after my request for a modified schedule was denied) and return to a career in fashion design and art. It was the most liberating and cathartic time in my adult life. Unfortunately, the pandemic wrecked havoc on my plans and finances and I reluctantly went back to my old company. I've been back in the work force for a little over a year and I feel all of the symptoms of a burnout coming on. My new goal is to save as much money as I can and leave the job next year - hopefully for good this time. 🙏🏾 🤞🏾

Whew I’m only a few minutes in and whew…. Things are being said!

Interesting about sleep in problem solving. I can attest that one of my last finals way back in grad school - it was Finance the subject I hated LOL - I looked at that final and it was only 1 question with explanation and a spread sheet. I cried, I couldn’t figure it out - I cried “I’m not smart enough”. I laid down and 40 minutes later popped up with the answer turned it in several hours late (then tend not to care in grad school) and I got an A on the final and an A in the class.

Took 9 months off in 2019 and lived in England.....loved it and set up to go back.

But sometimes U can NOT heal in the same place where the source of your TRAUMA is. Sometimes your New getaway place is your Healing place/space. Don’t you agree?

@denisejefferson4739

2 жыл бұрын

Honey you are saying a mouthful!

@sandramorno3109

2 жыл бұрын

I totally agree!!

Side note : YOU LOOK GORGEOUS! ( Ex-pat living in Germany )

@sagebentley

2 жыл бұрын

@@softfelines Hello! I like it very much! I've been here 20 years, seen & DONE a lot. All the best to you.

@StephaniePerry

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you. 💗

One day I will travel the world. Until then I will continue to take notes. Great for this channel 😇

This is so right. People do not allow for the Spirit of things to take the lead so we can discover new things about ourselves as human beings. We are too stuck in protocol/tradition. I think it's also why we are not falling in love and going through divorce. Most people are afraid to do things differently.

I resigned from my job in January 2022 (it was a bday gift to myself:) I was severely overwhelmed and stressed. This time has not been easy peasy but I'm grateful for the opportunity to hear myself think, spend more time with my teenage daughter and smell the roses. Due to the demands of my job, I was not able to travel as much as I wanted to but have made it my business to get a few trips in and I'm planning to attend my college homecoming for the first time this year. I love this new flexibility and don't think I can ever go back to a 9-5.

Sistah everything you are saying happened to me in 2019. It started out one way but ended another way. I was 62 before I discovered real freedom from within when I quit my job and left the country! Oh my how I hate to work! I am on house sitting! Help a sistah out! Thank You baby!

I'm thinking a year sabbatical next. I left full time work 7 years ago. Never looked back since. I quit on my birthday. Im still transitioning. I'll be overseas somewhere soon. I prioritize my time more than anything but plan on getting even more there. Not sure where I land. I just know what I'm not willing to do anymore.

Thank you for this talk. I took time from work to help my father transition and I started to understand that life can’t be about work. There are things like family like me that are much more important than work. I love my job but now it is only Monday thru Friday and I get to say how I use my weekends.

*My planned "sabbatical" was enhanced when my employer preemptively terminated me, allowing unemployment income.* 💫

I have taken at least 3-4 weeks off every year for the past few years and I have visited about 12 countries. I'm about to take off again in September to do my 2nd visit to a small island in Alaska. I take these breaks for religious reasons, relaxation, personal growth and overall mental health. I am a strong advocate for breaks.

@saramatthews7159

2 жыл бұрын

Can you please tell me about your experience as a black woman in Alaska? I would like to go sometime next year

@ddollx

Жыл бұрын

Whats your career?

I took a vacation last year, my first trip to Africa. I met up with a group a week later from the US. The time I had while waiting on the others was life-changing. I spent a lot of money, and had a travel agent but thoroughly enjoyed the mental and emotional freedom. Looking forward to fully solo, saving money and being freer.

I love your channel sis! I am soo inspired 💖 and grateful to know there are other women out here who feel the same way I do. I put in my 2 weeks notice yesterday, and I feel like a weight has been lifted. My manager was not happy lol 😅 oh well.. Tired of being a “strong black woman” ready to travel 🧳 woo hoo 🥳 I wish good luck to all of u!

@earthtomarsz

2 жыл бұрын

Love this for you!

@Katt8793

2 жыл бұрын

@@earthtomarsz thanks love ❤️

@earthtomarsz

2 жыл бұрын

@@Katt8793 ☺️

You look great as always!

@StephaniePerry

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Hyacinth! 💗

Happy to hear about this topic and how taking a sabbatical will help with our mental health!

Love your channel!! Working on stacking my coins too.. Definitely ready for a change

I'm so glad I found your channel. I wake up each morning more excited about planning my new life of EASE! I sincerely appreciate what you have shared with the world. Thank you for this gift to Black Women!

I’m retired at 35. I’d love to house sit for a few years because that would give me a reason to travel.

Hi Stephanie, my name is Stephanie as well my girlfriend shared your page and I can't wait to explore your channel I'm excited it's nice to see black women supporting each other this is wonderful

I am so encouraged by you and so many other women. However, I feel so behind being 47 and throwing school-age kids in the mix is just another challenge. Working is what we are taught to do and its hard to get pass that idea. I’m trying to get there. This degree means NOTHING if I am not living. Im in search of a coach because I need help.

@ninawestlake14

Жыл бұрын

I get where you're coming from,however i think she meant looking for an easy way to live and not the hussle and buzzle of living up to the Jones's. We are humans and get influenced by other people. Always thinking we are 'behind' or underachievers etc. The dark side of it is that it makes you ill,physically and mentaly. So we can 'cheat' our way out of it all and live easier and happier. Leisure is luxury,babes. Good luck!

Preach Ms. Stephanie! 🎉 It’s time for my second sabbatical break. Took care of my parents, raised my kid, did my job (then stepped away from that “good government job” because it was killing me! *first sabbatical Parents have passed, kid looking at a Gap Year, and the “what’s next?” “what do I want” questions are just as real for me at 56 as they are for her at 18! Thank you for sharing your journey and gathering us as we take time to ponder! Love what you all are doing to support black women’s journeys, dreams and voices ❤

I'm calm and enjoy my freedom.💃😎💕🙏 I'm retired on a small monthly pension. I've had to make a few changes to my spending, but no problem, I was never a spendthrift. My home and car are paid up. I keep my brain occupied, engage in seasonal employment, and thoroughly enjoy interacting with my family's grandchildren.

SIS!!!! I zoomed forward…. Landed on exactly what I needed to hear…

Facts...we aren't safe.

I have been thinking about this for a while...it must be a sign that I came across this channel..

Happy anniversary on your channel !

I wrote my letter of resignation and will be giving it to my supervisor soon. I plan to take a career break to focus on my health, wealth,family,education and starting a business! I am excited for this next season in my life! ❤

I just love you so much!!! Thank you for this!!! :-)

I am so ready for a change and need a career break with a money plan. Thank you for this conversation, Stephanie. I love listening to your videos!

Put work in her place sounds like a cool t-shirt.

Thank you Stephanie!! Your freedom is freeing!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

Love your channel! Thank you ❤️

Hi Stephanie - i’m watching in the future!!!! Thank you so much💞

You nailed it! Well presented

Black professional woman, Browne C. Lewis was found dead in her hotel room while on a business trip. Another over worked Black woman

@iamkerenlouise

2 жыл бұрын

She was young and very sad to see her die so young and working so hard. It’s a cautionary tale for us all.

@shirleygriffin7672

2 жыл бұрын

@@iamkerenlouise true. Stay safe and healthy out there in America.......... from the Ozarks on the houseboat on the lakes of the Ozarks

Needed to hear this at this very moment 💕

I get so inspired every time I listen to you - I have also traveled intensively - I typically will take - 6--8 weeks ( leave without pay ) from 2013 till early 2020 - I do also typically use my my savings and you are so right Stephanie is the best feeling ever - and very relaxing - I actually save so much money when I am out of USA- I live so much simpler life - Mostly all over Europe and Africa - AMAZING-!! and so peaceful !!You have inspired me !! my goal is to visit Asia - Australia, Mexico and Costa Rica - I want to try and take a Gap year soon !!I 💕❤️

Thank you Stephanie. I have recently been following you video's, and want to say how much I appreciate your courage. Courage to change something that will bring about healthier wellbeing.

I Love this channel.

I'm at this point...been with this company for 18yrs... job positions have changed, but still the same company. Now.. I'm ready to relocate and start fresh..I have no $$$ saved... idk how to move without$$$. I hear people say how they moved with no $$$...HOW??

@marriejames01

2 жыл бұрын

I think many of them sold their belongings. One lady on this channel said she sold her house and rented a room. I guess it’s all about sacrifice if this is really important to you.

I’m so glad for you channel

just getting started on my nomad journey; learning so much about other options aside from working a 9 to 5 and I can't wait until I am in the position to take off

Love the Title ❤💯👍🏾

I've been on leave since the end of February and will retire military 1 August. I'm telling you I needed this break. I enjoy my time more and now that I'm starting to career search I am picky. I refuse ro kill myself for a paycheck. I still believe in black excellence. For me it doesn't mean working to the bones. It means achieving what you want to achieve and showing other black people that if they want to do it, it is possible. I personally let my family and those I used to supervise know that personal and family time is essential. Don't make black excellence into something bad. That and consumerism are not in the same bucket.

I love watching these replays when I can't make it to Saturday 'Church'😆🙏

Thank you

What the what??? Did I find my tribe on accident???

@StephaniePerry

2 жыл бұрын

Welcome Dana!! 🤗💗

SUNDAY AFTERNOON - I missed this one, because I was on the Riverboat Twilight - Mississippi River cruise this weekend. I am watching you now, upon me arrival back home. Working a job has never been the center of my life ................................................................... technology free on the Mississippi river, childfree by choice in my later life.

(12-25-23) First time watching this video. 😊🤭👍. Thanks for sharing. Such motivating content.👍

This video is so interesting because I never personally overworked myself especially for a job that I absolutely hated and felt unfulfilled . I’ve never claimed the corporate ladder but have been looking into ways to make money doing things that brings me joy .. Other then that hustle culture or grind til you work yourself to the bone NOPE she needs her rest & celebrates being able to have it ❤❤❤

"Work is completely out of pocket and needs to be put in her place"...OMG, I LOVE that; oh and the RuPaul piece is hilarious!!!

THIS POST IZ D BOMB

I have taken a substantial amount of time off due to life changes in 2021, caring for a loved one which was beneficial to me...knowing myself then and now I am now truly discovering things I didn't know about even me...I trying to discover who,why and what makes me , me, trying to let go of the old and walking into the new, is there a method to this maddness?

I think I might want to house sit in the summers. I can see me and my child enjoying life in other folks homes.

Hi Stephanie, at 1:28:46 you were talking about the lady you house-sat for who was doing too much and had planned the whole trip and packed while her husband made coffee. My mother was like that and I just wanted to add that when people tried to help her, she pushed them away. She had all kinds of excuses lined up about why she had to do everything herself.