There’s a worksheet for today’s video here: vaycarious.com/breakthrough .

@thedigitalexpat

Жыл бұрын

I felt I was in alignment when I first started my bakery selling healthy gluten free sugar free bagels and baked goods. We started shipped nationwide and due to the financial difficulties and the pandemic we had to close in 2021. 😭

@Luvurselffirst

Ай бұрын

​@@thedigitalexpatI'm sorry this happened. Gluten free is a must because so many of have allergies we are just learning about. I claim you are on your path to your new opportunity!

I can remember when I told myself that I was leaving the US and go to Canada to escape an abusive relationship. I had no passport, no friends or family in Canada,but I was determined. With 2 small children, I made it across the border! I stayed there for a year. Within that year, I became a singer/songwriter and was performing on stage. I was getting recognition and my songs were being played in clubs. It felt so freeing. It feels good to remember those times😊.

@StephaniePerry

Жыл бұрын

Talk about a BREAKTHROUGH!!! Yes! 💗

@aishawf

Жыл бұрын

Woah! Super inspirational! Glad you made it and thanks 4 sharing! 🤗

@ChaChaWitYa

Жыл бұрын

💜💜💜

@TanzytheglowupG

Жыл бұрын

Awesome!!! I'm glad u escaped !!! And did big things!

@kjs9

Жыл бұрын

Wow that is amazing ❤

I have a simple rule of thumb, I go out of town once per month, out of state once per quarter, and out of the country once per year 👍🏼

@fdoctor79

Жыл бұрын

I love this strategy, Latrece! Continued success!

@stacia1525

Жыл бұрын

Love this strategy!!!!❤

@alvalindabushmann245

Жыл бұрын

Sounds fantastic...I haven't been to Europe yet but that is definitely on my list September or October this year. It's not just a want sometimes but a definite need many times. Thanks

@latreces464

Жыл бұрын

@@fdoctor79 thank you!

@latreces464

Жыл бұрын

@@stacia1525 thanks!

I often come here just to raise my vibrational energy and know there are options.

I feel stuck, and it seems like I've been here before. I am a 56-year-old mom of a 20 and a 17-year-old. College graduate, with a career mainly as an OSR. in a Toxic job, and live paycheck to paycheck. I traveled abroad in my twenties. I need to recreate myself. Need a life.

I've felt stuck before, surrounded myself with people that were stuck, when I left those people alone, I'm now free.

Feel stuck right now. A remote from anywhere job would help me immensely.

@alvalindabushmann245

Жыл бұрын

I think I would love that too.

I'm feeling stuck now. I'm living in a perpetual cycle of working to pay my bills and to go back to work again. I really want to sell all my things and move to another place where the cost of living is lower and the people are more friendly.

@LindaGreen-ox7es

18 күн бұрын

SAME!

I felt stuck in my 20s. It was a brutal life period! For me the way I got out of it was by moving to Bali, Indonesia for a year and really focusing on learning to meditate while there, not just running around partying and being a tourist. I came back a changed person. My life since has certainly had its ups and downs, as all lives do, but it has been like heaven in comparison to before.

@BeingTiffanyLAN

Жыл бұрын

i would love to do this. If you don't mind me asking, in what ways did it change you?

@IndigooceanOrg

Жыл бұрын

@@BeingTiffanyLAN the most important thing was that it let all the blessings I'd been working to get, finally be received by me. I didn't realizing that all my chasing was pushing things away. So many things I'd struggled in vain for a decade before got offered to me with no effort while I was there. Then when I came back it was with confidence and a rejuvenated nervous system. I was a nervous wreck when I left the US! But I came back and was able to move to NY city and be grounded and confident among New Yorkers. I built on all of that in the years after.

@aplusdiva7006

Жыл бұрын

I'm so proud of you, you faced a fear and you allowed yourself some kindness and patience.

@shoshanakirya-ziraba8216

Жыл бұрын

Yeah! I paid my brother in law to take my kids to the community pool 😊

@IndigooceanOrg

Жыл бұрын

@@aplusdiva7006 ❤

Right now I feel stuck, need to stop carry people's burden and pick up my own. Free myself, I need a Breakthrough in every area of my life.

I'm 31 years old, work as a pharmacy assistant, and I feel stuck! The job I'm in has become so repetitive and boring for me. I make $28 an hour and work for a good company, so it's "stable and guaranteed" work in this economy. I just know I'm not living up to my potential. I'm scared and have no idea what steps to take to change my situation.

@sweetcapricorn

Жыл бұрын

These thoughts and feelings are on point for your age keep pursuing

@mizzcashmoney1

Жыл бұрын

@@sweetcapricorn Thank you. I appreciate the feedback

@rosemumbua8817

Жыл бұрын

Hi, what would I need to study to become a pharmacy assistant?

I feel very stuck, sad, unfulfilled, disappointed right now. I wish I could just pack up and leave and reset. Mother of 5 my youngest is 13, married. I am a nurse and just tired of going thru the motions. I need to start living my life before I get too old to move. There has to be to life!!

I feel so stuck, so stuck. I retired in November, I have a decent retirement salary. But, I care for Mother right now, she has Dementia. I get a break when I take her to Respite care for 2 weeks, a few times a year. Mother does not do well in respite. I feel guilty when she is there. I feel accomplished, yet stuck.

@zakiyasimmons-earl3317

Жыл бұрын

Kudos to you for retiring with a great income! Caregiving is WORK, so please don't feel guilty for making time for self-care. You are giving your mother a better version of yourself while caring for her when you are refreshed. Praying for you and your mother. 🙏🏾💜

I’m definitely feeling stuck due to debt and an unfulfilling job. I’m so inspired by the many women who are traveling and discovering the world. I’m optimistic that 2023 will be better!

@aplusdiva7006

Жыл бұрын

Are you considering a new job? Can you do the snowball method in regards to your debt?

@lunablu3921

Жыл бұрын

@@aplusdiva7006 Hi, I am currently seeking other opportunities for secondary employment to help with my debt. I feel optimistic that 2023 will be better. 😊

@juliawhetstone5768

Жыл бұрын

Luna Blu..I am feeling the same..I love what I do(caregiving)..but just recently moved and not making the same money..feeling stuck..:-/

@lunablu3921

Жыл бұрын

@@juliawhetstone5768 Hi Julia! Feeling stuck just means we haven’t figured out the solution yet and having feelings of hopelessness. What about secondary employment if possible… Hoping and praying everything will come together for you. 🙏🏾😊☀

I felt stuck in the past so I decided that my job was not it and I wanted to quit. I looked at what I had and what I needed to leave. I started to contribute more to my deferred compensation and get rid of my debt. I marked how close I was being when an "any timer" and determined when I could pull the trigger. I read almost every blog about early retirement including sequence of risks and emergency funds. I learned that I would have to say no and mean it! I retired toward the end of 2020 and I have no regrets!

Relocated to England for 9 months. Needed a break and the experience of a new location......this was a YES in my life.

@victoriarichardson-zl5zn

Жыл бұрын

Wanted to live in England Canada and Italy over 13 years ago

@kiaharper7172

11 ай бұрын

Can you tell us about your time there? Did you know anyone before going?!

Watching the replay in April 2023 I absolutely felt stuck. I was in a relationship that was not good for me, working in a job that was not good for me, and walking around in an angry fog a lot of the time.

I'm stuck in a marriage of emptiness. I'm 61 and everyone around me think I should be happy in my marriage. I feel like I'm in this marriage for everyone else but myself. My husband have some many great qualities, but he doesn't meet my needs.

@Msterri4u

7 ай бұрын

Been there. Was married to me ex husband for 23 years. He was an excellent provider but we were unequally yoked. I felt like I was dying. Divorced now for 15 years and at age 63 I’m looking to retire from my unfulfilled job.

Hi Stephanie. I know you are not a life coach. I get it. I have lived abroad in the past. I have to get out of this oppressive country. I want to move to Rotterdam, The Netherlands. I don't have any money saved. I'm trying to get a remote job here in Atlanta, so I have income. I feel like a caged bird in America.

@MissBlossem

Жыл бұрын

I fled from the Netherlands! The cost of housing in Holland are high and it is a country with a lot of rules. I find the Netherlands very oppresive! Think it thru!

I am 64 and will be 65 in March. I'm not sure if I am stuck. I still work, but the possibilities I see since discovering you and what you offer a month ago has me a bit excited.

Yes yes. I have been a cardiac arrhythmia tech for 30 years and I'm also feeling stuck and not able to figure out how I can get out of it. I thought moving to another state new environment new people I would feel free-er. Nah. So, I just feel it's something I'm doing that's keeping me feeling this way and I can't put my finger on it. This definitely can't be it for me. Thinking therapy could help me understand why.

@alvalindabushmann245

Жыл бұрын

I just moved across country from NM back to the Eastcoast in VA. New friends, new goals, new plan. Go for it!

In my garden, planting new things, The harvest is kind of fulfilling but there's nothing like seeing your first plants push out of the dirt. Especially when you try a new vegetable , plant, or flower.

When I was in school for interior design is when I felt like I was in alignment with who I wanted to be. I was 49. I’ve been wanting to attend school for ID since I was 18. I had bad relationships, had a child, got married, had another child, moved to ATL, moved back to Washington, moved to Delaware, moved back to Washington, then I went to school for business, graduated, then 7 yrs later went back for my degree in I.D. I want to continue with I.D. But I don’t want to have to stay here in the U. S. Because I won’t make money anywhere else. I am trying E-Design soon.

I feel stuck at my job I need a new one

It stuck when you said "do it afraid" so I am. For me, that was life changing. I am going to retire this year and will hopefully be in Cuenca Ecuador by December. Following the dream✌🏾

Watching your channel has broadened my horizons SO MUCH!! 🎉 I get giddy thinking about what I can do and where I can go and who I can be! ❤ I’ve begun planning my life around what makes ME happy, and not around a job or what others think I should be doing. We have the God-given right to create our own lives! 🌈

I am feeling stuck right now..wish I could run away right now .I need a break..

I made all the wrong choices without putting myself first, and now that my kids are grown i feel like it time to get myself together..

My name is Gaya, I'm a Certified Nursing Assistant, got fired from my job, lost my home, my relationship, and not sure how to start over, I don't have an education, but always wanted to move abroad.

Went to Costa Rica for a short-term 3-week Spanish immersion.

Do it afraid!

Living in alignment season in 2019 when I quit my corporate job after 17 years of employment. BEST DECISION EVER.

Yes….I’ve felt stuck most of my life and even more today. Ready for a sabbatical ❤

"Ask, Seek, Knock" 🙏🏾

I came back to this. Working through the steps again ❤ I’m ready to take action. Thank you for all of your support and wisdom!

When I lived in Japan for 3 years - loved it❣️❣️

@saramatthews7159

Жыл бұрын

I would love to travel to Japan...Tokyo or Kyoto

My issue has been finding a remote job. I have everything in order to move abroad but idk why it’s hard to find remote jobs

@greenytaddict

Жыл бұрын

Maybe try to find something that isn't remote to ge the experience while abroad then look into finding opportunities that maybe remote or maybe make your own remote job. I worked as a teacher on Korea then went in to teaching online. Just a thought.

I like what you did to your hair Stephanie!

Felt in alignment when I got my certification as a CRT and my first job. No debt no real responsibilities just free to do as I want without limitations

@mizzcashmoney1

Жыл бұрын

What's a CRT?

@tashamonetformulations

Жыл бұрын

@@mizzcashmoney1 Cardiac Rhythm Analysis Technician. Sorry there's a missing letter CRAT/CCRAT

@mizzcashmoney1

Жыл бұрын

@@tashamonetformulations ohhh I see. I've been a pharmacy assistant for 5 years and desperately looking for a change. It's become very boring and redundant for me. I'm always looking for a new career idea. CRAT sounds interesting

@tashamonetformulations

Жыл бұрын

@@mizzcashmoney1 I'm actually tired of it and is looking for a change. Looking for something possibly remote.

You are so motivational. Thank you for the information. 😊 Thanks and be safe.

Feeling STUCK NOW!!

I feel stuck on what to do for money..I want something different but don't know what exactly..I know I don't want a stressful job and I want something I can do wherever I go..I am currently a CNA and know I can travel but I don't want a contract. I want to do prn/float. I want to work when I want to need to work and that's it. I never was supported in doing different things as a kid so as an adult I am so confused and don't know what I like. I am jealous of ppl with careers they love and know where they fit in at. Seems like I fit in nowhere..it's been a while since I done a job that brings me joy and doesn't feel like a job.

GM Stephanie and all you beautiful people!😊

Stephanie thank you for sharing your story about running. I definitely understand how you stopped running with the freshness of a new relationship. You taught a valuable lesson. Despite, your injury you did not let that stop you and you are helping others to change their lives. . . I have recently experienced a breakthrough. Things that helped me: * My relationship with God * Letting go of toxic relationships * Being willing to relocate (move on faith) * Detaching from material things and having joy with less physical items Keep shining Stephanie! I love your videos 💙

Feeling stuck now and so grateful for this video. This cannot be it!

I was on fire 28 years old living in Okinawa Japan modeling full-time doing what I wanted to do meeting who I wanted to meet being embrace by everybody I met I was on fire🎉❤

Feeling stuck and I believe for me to get unstuck I need to focus on my development in my purpose.

I’m watching the replay. I feel stuck. I know that I want to move away from THE US, and I don’t have the funds yet. I got my oldest daughter to agree to move abroad with me, but I feel like we are in a hamster wheel with bills. We are very creative women, but we are stuck at jobs because rent, food, utilities, car notes etc are very expensive and it’s just no end. We have managed to pay for a cruise for her birthday, and I feel like I have to get out of here to breathe for a minute. My 18yr old doesn’t want to leave the U.S. and that scares me to no end to leave her here. I’m an interior designer and I just started my business but it’s super slow. I work full time outside of my business because I need to make money. But it stops me from getting out and talking to people. I feel like I have so much going on that leaving is so far away. I want this easier life that you speak about, but in order to get there, it’s going to take so much. 😢 I am afraid because parts of Mexico has all the danger going on, then we also have Ghana on our list but they are saying it’s going to cost so much to move there and to live there. So, what should I do? 😢😢😢

@victoriagreen3047

Жыл бұрын

Try visiting for vacation to ease away the fear. Take as many vacations you need til the fear is gone.

Greetings from the future. Its sunny out and I am saying this cant be it. I feel stuck, I have an idea of what it would take, income outside of my job, possibly becoming a house sitter and a place to live when I'm not housesitting. Been in a job 22 years and since 2023 ive had this overwhelming abundantly clear feeling that I need to leave this job and not to go to another job. I am leaving early, taking days off because there are things happening that I feel. I cant vocalize them but I feel them. And I'm treating it like a warning to make moves to get myself out. I will have a retirement I need hope and a plan. I've been off work (FMLA) and it's been transformative. I've gleaned this much from being off for 1 week. Entrepreneurship is freedom, it's liberation. I cant make a clean break just yet but I can get started.

YES, feeling of STUCK! Yes I know it takes to FEEL Unstuck.

Exactly what I needed ... been subscribed but hadn't listened until today..I see as a sign.. I'm dedicating this weekend !! September. Thanks I feel giddy.. to start dreaming again

Blessings ❤

i've been feeling stuck and depressed for a while. this video came right on time... i've always wanted to leave south africa and i'm ready now

Yes I have that. And still unfullfilled and stuck. Did it for many, many years for striving for Black Excellence ; Ready to work on REAL !

31:48 I didn’t feel stuck my senior year in high school in my parents backyard doing homework.

Your hair is gorgeous Stephanie!!

Yes, I feel stuck now….and I’ve been stuck before in the past and was able to get out of it. Now, I’m feeling stuck again!

Thumbs up!

@StephaniePerry

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Terrie. 💗

I Just Moved From Michigan To North Carolina..My Prayer Was Answered To Move..I Am A Caregiver And Work Hours Are Not The Same Here As In Michigan..I Feel Stuck!!!..I LOVE To Travel But See NO Way To Save To Do It..Thinking Of Becoming A House Sitter So I Can Travel..

اشكرك لك على الفيديو الرائع من البداية حتي النهايه اتمنى لك يوم سعيد بالتوفيق والنجاح الدائم انشاء الله

Feeling stuck now, I have an idea what it will take me to get unstuck but that spirit of fear.....

I feel very stuck. It is hard to ask for help even in this group. I have made steps. But I am feeling overwhelmed.

Hi! So glad to have recently found your videos. I may have to answer in parts. I feel stuck right now and have felt stuck in the past. I have overcome this feeling to varying degrees in those instances as well. Right now I’m honestly just exhausted, trying to manage life stuff and mental health. I am very independent and resourceful. However I’ve not had consistent community most of my adult life. Being head of house has inspired me to grind for many years. In the last two though, I get that part time work is healthiest for me. Unfortunately it allows me to cover the base needs for my family and that’s it. To feel unstuck I need a few things. To be in an environment that I’m seen as a person with full value as I am, to have positive people who believe in you and support you, rest, and overflow income to make my plans tangible.

@BlueLotusPower95

Жыл бұрын

Sister Chrisitian Murray, I totally feel you on not having a community of consistent adults to support reciprocate back to what I as a resilient and resourceful woman that is independent by force. I am grateful to see so many other humans trying to figure this thing called life out when you blood tribe and friends are not going with you on this journey. Much Love Beloved!🫡🥳💎🎉🙏🏼

@Wake24

Жыл бұрын

I am there too! You are not alone.

Good morning 🌄 guys. I just got in

I’m so thankful for your platform. YOU have NO idea.

Love this video as it reminds us that we have options for our lives AND resources to support us. Wanted to share therapy online resource directories of Black Therapists: 1). Therapy For Black Girls; 2). The Boris Lawrence Henson Foundation (Taraji P. Henson's Foundation); & 3). Black Female Therapists

So many Americans seem to think if you ask how to get unstuck you are looking for a handout however, we are looking for a hand up!🔥🙌🏼💯

@Elaine-ee1eh

Жыл бұрын

Amen

@LateBloomer1111

Жыл бұрын

This is it

SOO glad you re-played this. I need a re-boot. Enjoy your time with your new friends, Step!

@StephaniePerry

Жыл бұрын

I'm glad it's helpful Sandra! We're having a wonderful time. 💗

I’m saving for my sabbatical this year -September in fact - I’ve cleaned up my credit 🙌🏾🙌🏾 however I feel a little fearful (I’m almost 62) I love your comments about taking time to find yourself thru rest

I’m trying to find a 40+ mom of toddlers entrepreneur group. I need that like minded energy.

Here because I feel so stuck😭😭 I have two children and I want to change our circumstances. Living paycheck to paycheck and not knowing how we are going to eat some nights 😢😢im sick of it. Having to wake up everyday with debt on my mind is just very frustrating and I can't help my parents because i am struggling .

I thank you so much for your videos and the knowledge I gain from the content and comments. Whats coincidental is that I'm typing this while sitting innn the Hospital pharmacy as a night time IV Pharmacy Tech waiting on 7 am to clock out🤣 Did you work 7 on 7 off as well?

Knowing your personality type could clue you into what natural aptitudes you possess already. For example, results from a Meyers Briggs test could open up an avenue that you hadn't considered before.

❤️ Beautiful Blessings

Thank you for this! I look forward to my breakthrough.

Love your hair Stephanie, tempting me to grow back mine

Your hair is so cute

I also feel my best when I am working the dream and making some progress

No longer Dread Friday and the Monday . May 8 will be my planned date.

I am glad you replayed this video. I live in Texas. There still is a Chuys restaurant in Texas. I know for a fact Chuys is still in Austin, Round Rock, Hutto, etc.

@StephaniePerry

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Anya! That's good to know. I hope things are good with you in Texas. 💗

@StephaniePerry

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Anya! That's good to know. I hope things are good with you in Texas. 💗

Yes! Yes! For fun and profit!🎉😅❤

Yes - Thanks giving yourself GRACE !!!!

Watching the replay & I'm unlearning the fear that was ingrained about bucking what the "American Dream" is.

😢 one day wont be enough for me. Working nights as an RN I sleep my day away. I need to block out 🚫 e to 4 days for sure. ....but I'm so afraid of missing out on my money. I want to be debt free again desperately but i also need mental health days. Gotta work on the balance

Good stuff! 2023

Yes. I feel it and I’ve felt it.

Ms. Perry, thank you so much for all you do. You are truly amazing and the wisdom you provides us is amazing. I really would like to speak with you one on one .😢❤

This is a very good topic, I'm here in MD. My times have been in a place of creativity

I'm almost 60, I feel very stuck and have no idea how to get unstuck. I have no idea what to do and don't know what I want to do.

@jeanwilliams6623

Жыл бұрын

Are you insterested in an Accountability group/partners

I was organized and had a plan for personal change. Due to California weather, I have lost my rental. I have to move all my rental belongings to my perment residence. I was in the process to preparing my home for Airbnb. Now the Airbnb has to be put on hold while I downsizes my belongings and prep to return to work and a new rental.

Stephanie this was so timely!! Thank you Thank you Thank you!

When I left my corporate job and went to India for 3 weeks

❤January 21 2023

@StephaniePerry

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for putting this on your calendar, Wanda. 💗

New subscriber here 👋🏽 Thank You for such a comprehensive list!

@StephaniePerry

Жыл бұрын

Welcome! 💗

I love your videos and they inspire me so much! You are doing such brilliant work! I feel stuck. (I don't know if I deserve to comment or follow you because I lack melatonin) but I just love all your excellent advice and encouragement to go for what gives you joy! You are amazing!♥️

This was a great conversation! Thank you, Stepahnie!

Feel the same about T Robbins

I am a "young" senior (78 yrs). I plan to move to Bali and just don't know how to move beyond the fear,

I know there is more for me, I know some day God will make something great happen this year

Breakthrough Day 11th April 2023 (watching replay lol)