I Spent 12 Years In Jail For A Murder I Did Not Commit! Raphael Rowe

Raphael Rowe is the host of Inside The World's Toughest Prisons on Netflix, the worldwide-hit show that takes us inside the toughest penitentiaries on the planet. It’s a world he knows well, wrongfully convicted of murder, he spent twelve years in maximum security prisons before he proved his innocence and was released.
Topics:
0:00 Intro
02:02 Early context
09:52 Getting kicked out of school
17:56 Getting kidnapped
19:37 Trying to fit into an environment
25:35 Having a child
32:44 Your relationship with your son now
35:47 The moment your life changed forever
46:55 Were you hopeful?
50:46 The moment you hear the verdict
54:16 This podcast this streamed in prison
59:39 Did you think you were going to spend your whole life in prison?
01:02:33 Seeing people taking their own lives
01:05:40 People being paid to make false statements
01:10:25 Story about a chaplain
01:17:16 The first domino that lead to your release
01:19:43 The moment you found out you were being released
01:26:23 Did they ever say you were innocent?
01:30:33 How much compensation did they give you?
01:32:16 Psychological scars
01:37:48 What have you learnt about the importance of hope
01:41:58 Your foundation
01:48:41 Have you forgiven anyone for what they did to you?
01:52:46 Would you erase those years?
02:01:19 Finding love
02:07:31 The last guest's question
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  • @TheDiaryOfACEO
    @TheDiaryOfACEO Жыл бұрын

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  • @TwistedIllusionUK

    @TwistedIllusionUK

    Жыл бұрын

    Okay fine. I’ll click a button. You ask so much of me.

  • @richardwilliams7218

    @richardwilliams7218

    Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely brilliant my family and I couldn’t stop watching thank you so much guys

  • @blackrose8643

    @blackrose8643

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the reminder. Your content is so compelling it's easy to get fixated and forget to click the like button 👍🏿

  • @journeyofcompassion9001

    @journeyofcompassion9001

    Жыл бұрын

    I was so happy when I saw that you have Raphael on the Podcast as I watched the the series on Netflix last year.

  • @thewalrus1968

    @thewalrus1968

    Жыл бұрын

    dont get it... you witness violence and experience it as a child.. then use it as an excuse to be an abuser... sad and weak imho

  • @realtalkwithross
    @realtalkwithross Жыл бұрын

    Reach out to your son. He was 12, probably angry and probably spent the last 12 years being told you're a bad person. My dad never reached out and I was 11 when he walked out on me. From my perspective I always thought it was him that needed to fight for my acceptance and attention, forgiveness and by the time I became an adult I felt I never needed him in the first place. However, if he called and apologised to me and was genuinely sincere about it, I would have probably met him, sadly that's never happened. You'll regret it if you never try...

  • @frederickhenley8897

    @frederickhenley8897

    Жыл бұрын

    @@slattisreal you are so right. My dad passed away 2 months ago while he was trying to have a relationship with me I denied it. I believe the lies my mom told me over my dad's truth finding out months later too late. A lot of times us as children we will convict our fathers without hearing the whole truth. I hope and pray Ross take your advice .

  • @yasminharris243

    @yasminharris243

    Жыл бұрын

    100% reach out and don’t give up as it took me 27 years to be able sit down with dad to realise what he went through to understand not to hate and it mad about his actions and to accept the repercussions of his life to who he became. It takes an adult to understand life and put our self in other persons shoes. Not that, that’s an excuse but we can understand more as adults to make our own decisions and assumptions. As as a child we take on what our loved ones think around us may it be wrong or right

  • @timffoster6301

    @timffoster6301

    Жыл бұрын

    My dad was very present in my life. He was my hero. I understand that some are not as fortunate as me. This young man doesn’t know what he’s missing out on. Your dad is capable of being a hero. What a guy!

  • @bernicewalsh3432

    @bernicewalsh3432

    Жыл бұрын

    Perhaps his son would be better without him if he'd be too bossy. You know.

  • @cindy652

    @cindy652

    Жыл бұрын

    @@frederickhenley8897 I believe that children learn from their parents. So if a parent demonstrates to the child that he/she is not worth putting aside their fears to try to develop a relationship with that child, the child will definitely internalize that and would not know how to start the relationship with the parent. I believe the onus is on the person who has the most power in that relationship, i.e., the parent. My sister's daughter was prevented from spending time with my sister. My niece were told a lot of lies by her father. He tried everything within his power to keep my niece from my sister. My sister had to go to court so that she could be with her child. Anyone who has had to depend on the courts to decide who their child should live with knows it is a nightmare. Family members encouraged my sister to not bother with fighting in court, and to wait until her daughter was grown up to try to connect with her. My sister wanted my niece to know that she would do anything to have her in her life, however, my niece still rejected her. My sister's efforts paid off eventually, though, because my niece is 28 years now and she and my sister are very close. She's old enough now to say that she wanted to be with her mom (my sister), but was too scared to ask because she felt like it would have made her dad angry.

  • @natashaelliott2493
    @natashaelliott2493 Жыл бұрын

    He needs to reach out to his son. He is the parent, it is his responsibility. He says he feels it is up to his son to reach out, but as he mentioned that is due to fear. That is a chance he has to take. His son is probably thinking if he really cared about me, he would fight for me. It’s sad. We can never really imagine what he went through being wrongly accused.

  • @bladerubber

    @bladerubber

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly right ✅

  • @karinagrullon6640

    @karinagrullon6640

    Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely true because Although my father wasn’t wrongly convicted he does have my number and I’m pretty sure feels that I should reach out and I refuse because as you said he is the father. His responsibility. His mistake to correct IF he wants right? 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @hallieshouse13

    @hallieshouse13

    Жыл бұрын

    @@karinagrullon6640 I’m in the same position. My natural father is a complete moron. You’d have to be to think like this!

  • @heatherann4390

    @heatherann4390

    6 ай бұрын

    Unless you yourself are an alienated parent then you have no right or experience to give any sort of opinion on what this man should or shouldn't do.

  • @heatherann4390

    @heatherann4390

    6 ай бұрын

    ​​​​​@@karinagrullon6640relationships work both ways. You're obviously very entitled. Your his daughter. Do you know how to use a phone?

  • @talentsherpa
    @talentsherpa Жыл бұрын

    He’s describing a world that runs parallel to the rest of the world. I was sent to jail because somebody lied and the police believed her story without even investigating because, just like Raphael’s case, if they had done their job of investigating, the truth was right under their noses. I had to rebuild my life, and rebuild my business after paying thousands to the lawyers. Now, I’m launching a tech company and will take that same technology to benefit those of us who have found ourselves without a home. Thank you to both of you

  • @TT.3123

    @TT.3123

    9 ай бұрын

    I’m sorry that there were years of your life that got taken from you 😢 but what a powerful ending to your story that you took back what was robbed from you and did something good with it for society. Very moving!

  • @SamboDestroyer

    @SamboDestroyer

    9 ай бұрын

    Same thing happened to me!

  • @lipocordy1245

    @lipocordy1245

    8 ай бұрын

    You raped some one wrongen

  • @Mossyz.

    @Mossyz.

    7 ай бұрын

    This is why you should never talk to the police....They DO destroy lives !!

  • @angelicamichelle1646

    @angelicamichelle1646

    7 ай бұрын

    Wow can you share ? Im terrified of becomeing homeless. Ive thought i donr the right things ffollowed 5he rules now im in a legal battel that could leave me homeless

  • @KittyRoyalty777
    @KittyRoyalty77711 ай бұрын

    My dads in prison. I used to visit him a lot years ago but its become too hard for me lately, ive even become afraid to answer his calls . Hearing Raphael's story has struck a cord with me and allowed me to come to a few realisations i was too afraid to allow myself to realise.

  • @el4gmail

    @el4gmail

    10 ай бұрын

    That is wonderful to read🤗 Something so good will come from that...

  • @jameskelly9243

    @jameskelly9243

    9 ай бұрын

    Realize what?

  • @yettytube

    @yettytube

    8 ай бұрын

    I feel so sorry for him...just go see him ...

  • @kooskoos8181

    @kooskoos8181

    4 ай бұрын

    Good to hear. But what did u realize??? That u need to visit him more or talk to him more, or some inner personal stuff???? Hope all is well for u n ur family in 2024.

  • @bianchaesson1441

    @bianchaesson1441

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@graeme4896Absolutely correct!! We all have the potential for good or bad anyway!

  • @rosequartz7841
    @rosequartz78415 ай бұрын

    Love this man's raw honesty and ownership but also his humbleness . ❤

  • @bianchaesson1441

    @bianchaesson1441

    4 ай бұрын

    YES!!! Absolutely!

  • @mane360tv6

    @mane360tv6

    3 ай бұрын

  • @ameliel8792
    @ameliel8792 Жыл бұрын

    Awesome guy! I'd say he's very emotionally intelligent so I'm surprised he is worried about reaching out to his son. Anyone would be lucky to have a dad like this I'm sure.

  • @theGall

    @theGall

    10 ай бұрын

    he is emotionally intelligent and that is why he is worried. he should be worried.

  • @sponish0

    @sponish0

    8 ай бұрын

    He was absent at the start of his life

  • @sarahbritain5248

    @sarahbritain5248

    6 ай бұрын

    A fear of being rejected is probably there. Poor man

  • @bianchaesson1441

    @bianchaesson1441

    4 ай бұрын

    Wow!!! What a beautiful statement!! You're SO right!❤❤

  • @bianchaesson1441

    @bianchaesson1441

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@sarahbritain5248YES!!

  • @michaelburnett7809
    @michaelburnett7809 Жыл бұрын

    What a story, I did a long term sentence, I was guilty of it, I couldn’t begin to think how I would cope with it knowing that I was an innocent man, well done on coming out the other side, as you know some don’t make it. 🙏

  • @meretsteiner3124

    @meretsteiner3124

    6 ай бұрын

    😚

  • @andreawilson5420
    @andreawilson54205 ай бұрын

    my dad murdered my mother when i was 5 i’m now 47 and yes it has effected me only lately. life goes on and everyone suffers in some way . as an adult you know right from wrong . i was never shown affection , i’m a loving person and have a heart of gold

  • @WoundstoScars
    @WoundstoScars Жыл бұрын

    The psychological impact of being imprisoned for a crime he didn't commit must be astounding. Great interview Steve.

  • @raia9

    @raia9

    7 ай бұрын

    Yes - look at Nelson Mandela, 25 years for being a black man

  • @jacksprat429

    @jacksprat429

    7 ай бұрын

    @@raia9I think people need to be educated about Mr. Nelson Mandela. He was not imprisoned for being a black man. He was imprisoned for being a terrorist. He made bombs and bombed innocent civilians in a church. Yes, he was justifiably angry, because of the apartheid system, but he was a violent young man. He was incredibly intelligent, and became a lawyer during his confinement. He spent some years in a cell, but for the majority of his imprisonment, he was moved into a three bedroom house, in a different location, where, yes, he was confined, but had all the facilities and amenities, of a normal household, and being looked after by two prison wardens, who prepared his meals, and ensured that his laundry was done, and he made friends with his wardens, and was not mistreated by them, and had all his needs attended to, during those years. However, for 27 years of his life, he was unable to be free. When he was released, he eventually became president of South Africa, and he was, by his own admission, a calmer and more forgiving man, in his later years. When I was sixteen, he lived in the street where I lived, and there he and a friend stayed, and manufactured bombs, to be used in terrorist activities. This was approximately 70 years ago, and he was living in an area, during the apartheid era, in an upmarket area. Please make sure your facts are correct, and people are not misinformed.

  • @markozivkovic7409

    @markozivkovic7409

    4 ай бұрын

    It can happen to anyone.When a prison cell becomes available ,the police get to work .

  • @gladiammgtow4092

    @gladiammgtow4092

    3 ай бұрын

    Government is NEVER your friendp

  • @paulomoteso
    @paulomoteso Жыл бұрын

    Wow!! 2 hours flew by!! Didn't want it to end. Raphael's story should be a movie. Captivating from start to finish. Thank you Steven. This podcast is changing lives.

  • @blackrose8643

    @blackrose8643

    Жыл бұрын

    I was just thinking that I'd love to watch a movie based on his story.

  • @sherilicious6446

    @sherilicious6446

    Жыл бұрын

    OMG yes. This needs to be a film!

  • @QWSAZXCDEC

    @QWSAZXCDEC

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree. Why haven't they done a movie on this guys life. This story is incredible, and I'd love to know more on how he stayed so strong every day and night fighting in that prison for his freedom.

  • @fifilamoore1718

    @fifilamoore1718

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree it would be a very powerful life changing experience,I then would like to see a film to expose all those involvement in having a hand or even a finger in knowing to their core that he was framed and used as a scapegoat due to the colour of his skin and upbringing as an excuse to pin it on him. As you’ve not going to find a white educated person who where brought up in a upper class manner . I honestly don’t know how these people sleep at night to be honest, the guilt would eat me alive how ever I don’t lie either.🫶🏻fifi

  • @basharstats4482

    @basharstats4482

    Жыл бұрын

    u surely can watch wall paint dry for 12 hours and enjoy it. so boring 😩

  • @naiyalexic
    @naiyalexic Жыл бұрын

    This channel needs at least a billion subscribers. Every episode is absolute gold.

  • @gladiammgtow4092

    @gladiammgtow4092

    3 ай бұрын

    Government is NEVER your friend

  • @SirHefty
    @SirHefty Жыл бұрын

    Raphael Rowe is one of the best stories I've ever heard, such a strong minded guy - props to him for the best show on Netflix too

  • @lee-annedaly8681
    @lee-annedaly8681 Жыл бұрын

    Excellent podcast. Reminds me of the miscarriages of justice witnessed by many Irish men and women over the years of the troubles. Dehumanised every step of the way. Glad that these conversations are able to take place. Gang life, racism, terrorism an reasons why. Great work Steve and all the team. Amazing! Thank you.

  • @suzanneaylieff-phillips2822

    @suzanneaylieff-phillips2822

    8 ай бұрын

    I grew up with notes on doors saying no blacks no Irish no dogs so I now have a tee shirt saying more blacks more Irish more dogs

  • @alexandrasotiriou3069

    @alexandrasotiriou3069

    6 ай бұрын

    @@suzanneaylieff-phillips2822iiuoiiui I’m😅ivvvvvvvvvvvvvuii hiv

  • @almmason7

    @almmason7

    5 ай бұрын

    ​@@suzanneaylieff-phillips2822OH wow😢

  • @billgowing7744
    @billgowing7744 Жыл бұрын

    Taking bed and board charges from the compensation on a wrongful conviction is absolutely mind blowing.

  • @nicolamatthews2993

    @nicolamatthews2993

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree, hard to understand I get that they were there & given that, but when in those situations those costs should be waivered surely, 2 wrongs do not make a right !!

  • @jwsuicides8095

    @jwsuicides8095

    Жыл бұрын

    I know. That's something that drives me beyond angry.

  • @christinewatters2879

    @christinewatters2879

    Жыл бұрын

    It’s absolutely outrageous.

  • @jasminejones9937

    @jasminejones9937

    Жыл бұрын

    It's despicable !! (and petty as hell)

  • @jq4444

    @jq4444

    Жыл бұрын

    I would sue the holy bejeezus out of them. It’s inhumane and makes no sense at all

  • @stephaniebarker9244
    @stephaniebarker924411 ай бұрын

    OMG unbelievable they charged board out of his compensation. Fantastic interview and such a lovely man. I am so glad you had an epiphany and changed your life for the better and I hope your son listens to this podcast.

  • @bianchaesson1441

    @bianchaesson1441

    4 ай бұрын

    Yes, yes, yes!!!

  • @gladiammgtow4092

    @gladiammgtow4092

    3 ай бұрын

    Government is NEVER your friend

  • @HumbleWordsmith
    @HumbleWordsmith Жыл бұрын

    Raphael is legitimately one of the warmest guys on the telly, real genuine sympathetic fellow who has so much kindness in his eyes.

  • @joannemarichalar1952

    @joannemarichalar1952

    7 ай бұрын

    Humble Wordsmith! Love it. Love your comment.. stay cool😎

  • @Shootingstarz22

    @Shootingstarz22

    5 ай бұрын

    such humility

  • @kellyrichardson9562
    @kellyrichardson9562 Жыл бұрын

    Wow... the diversity of this content just gets better and better. These are the types of stories we need to hear and I'm glad this is over 2 hours. Thanks guys. I'll be commenting again when I'm done.

  • @TheDiaryOfACEO

    @TheDiaryOfACEO

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you! Let me know what you think 🙏🏽

  • @jeremyleathwood-hill6413
    @jeremyleathwood-hill6413 Жыл бұрын

    I’ve seen loads of podcasts with Raphael and this is by far the best one.

  • @syritasdoneitgoodytwoshoes2471

    @syritasdoneitgoodytwoshoes2471

    11 ай бұрын

    ive not seen a bad one tbh!

  • @MrNiceHk
    @MrNiceHk Жыл бұрын

    Interviewer is an absolute natural and shows wisdom and poise well beyond his tender years, kudos. I adore Raphael, such character and thoughtfulness. I binged watched his entire series, such and authentic person and tough as nails which usually comes in a quite package

  • @juliechurley2716

    @juliechurley2716

    6 ай бұрын

    Same. He has real charisma. Loved his prison series- very enlightening

  • @XOX74
    @XOX74 Жыл бұрын

    Wrongfully convicted, imprisoned, freed, then having to pay for his keep is utterly disgusting! The odasity is astounding! The justice system is a fkg joke! What a wonderful, warm human. I'm so happy you won. Hats off to you sir!

  • @jasminejones9937

    @jasminejones9937

    Жыл бұрын

    Very well said 👍

  • @sonjalivingston8241

    @sonjalivingston8241

    6 ай бұрын

    That sounds like something that would happen in America!

  • @gladiammgtow4092

    @gladiammgtow4092

    3 ай бұрын

    Every nation . Government is NEVER your friend

  • @KaileyB616

    @KaileyB616

    3 ай бұрын

    *audacity

  • @aureareis1232
    @aureareis1232 Жыл бұрын

    Wow, his story should be a movie. Loved every minute of this interview. His love story with his wife made me tear up. So much food for thoughts here 👏🏼👏🏼

  • @snoozygirl468
    @snoozygirl468 Жыл бұрын

    What I’ve heard today in this man’s story will stay with me forever.

  • @BritzieR74
    @BritzieR747 ай бұрын

    Love the series 'Worlds toughest prisons' and love that Raphael is SO open and knows himself so well. Great interview

  • @Alan78941
    @Alan789416 ай бұрын

    This has to be everyone’s worse nightmare, being falsely accused of the most unforgivable crime and everyone you cared about not believing you. I remember I once read a news article online years ago about how a man survived a death row sentence after he was falsely accused of assaulting woman and then brutally murdering her and nearly every single evidence pointed at him and despite taking a polygraph test to prove his innocence, he was still convicted. Apparently the crime happened around a time when there wasn’t that much forensic science and he also had a history of untreated cardiac problems so he looked guilty as sin at the time and the poor man did not get released from prison until he was old and frail. Thankfully somebody heard his pleas and decided to get the case reopened with modern forensic work and he requested another test which actually showed he was innocent but the poor guy will never ever get the 70 years of his life back, it’s truly heartbreaking 😢💔

  • @el4gmail
    @el4gmail10 ай бұрын

    Yet another BRILLIANT, eye-opening, educative, thought-provoking, levelling episode!! There will soon be a time, if it isn't already happening, where you won't be looking for guests to interview - they will be seeking you out to have their voices heard in the most authentic, transparent, truthful way possible!! Keep them coming, please DOAC/Steven 🙏

  • @thinker646

    @thinker646

    5 ай бұрын

    Agreed! Steven is amazing!

  • @GeorgieSeegar
    @GeorgieSeegar Жыл бұрын

    Watching this as a criminloogy student, i have always been interested in the experances that Raphael has been through having watched his netflix documentary and read up on his case and wrongful convictions. This podcast has really enlightend me to the real aspects of the criminal justice systems and how the public views convicted criminals wrongful or not. It has made me consider writing about this as a dissertation, possibly how the media and police officers can hider investigations into cases both accurate convicions and wrongful ones. This story needs to be shared for people to understand that you understand the individual before making judgments whatever the circumstances!!

  • @juliechurley2716

    @juliechurley2716

    6 ай бұрын

    Absolutely! Well put

  • @allydlovesherdogs
    @allydlovesherdogs9 ай бұрын

    What a fantastic interview 👏 I have watched this man over the years never knowing his past. I'm glad he got his wrongfull convection overturned. He certainly went onto bigger & better things in life & helping others. What a articulate, intelligent humble man he turned out to be. Glad he is happy & has gone on to have a family of his own. I hope one day he finally gets to meet his son. ❤

  • @sharonraymond787

    @sharonraymond787

    9 ай бұрын

    Yes an interview well done 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽...

  • @ElizabethWarrenYeahYeah
    @ElizabethWarrenYeahYeah Жыл бұрын

    Going back 35 years my nephews were invited to a summer celebration in the prison at the end of the road. The prisoners put on a short play followed by a BBQ. The children were treated inordinately well and came home with bags of sweets and treats that the inmates had saved their money for, worked hard for and gladly gifted to all the children who attended the event. The prison is now closed but while it was open and accepting prisoners, it was a large part of the community. Celebrities used to pop up and play an impromptu concert, the children would go along on Halloween and the inmates would gather in the hall while the children did their "guizing" in their Halloween costumes and the inmates gave a huge round of applause and treats when they finished. It's a shame that prisons can't be like this anymore. Health and safety would prevent any event. But back in those days it was a valuable part of the local community, the staff lived nearby and the prison encouraged interaction with the community. One instance I remember after a bad storm, the inmates along with the army from the other end of town, teamed up and did some repairs to buildings to make them safe for use. They cleared the streets of debris and downed trees etc. This was all done the morning after the storm hit at night. Changed days

  • @MaySmithereen

    @MaySmithereen

    Жыл бұрын

    Pretty disheartening, seeing the way prisons are often run, and the stigma that goes with being an ex convict. Warms my heart that those prisoners, all those years back, at least weren’t shunned and were given opportunities to still be a part of the community, despite their ongoing time. I hope they were all able to reintegrate into society without any major issues ❤

  • @TessC31

    @TessC31

    Жыл бұрын

    Gxu

  • @kathyborthwick6738

    @kathyborthwick6738

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes and integrating into the community in terms rehabilitation works! Have worked in Aboriginal & Criminal Justice system for over 40+ years and lowering recidivism in terms of community assimilation is precisely what we should be doing now! 🍃🦅🍃👵🏽☝🏾🇺🇸🙏🏽🇺🇸

  • @andreedwards9893

    @andreedwards9893

    11 ай бұрын

    kzread.info/dash/bejne/ZJZ_x5OelM64Xbw.html

  • @connormckenzie9596
    @connormckenzie9596 Жыл бұрын

    Raphael is one of my favorite presenters. His story is so raw and this captures everything so we'll. Smashing work

  • @riverdeep399

    @riverdeep399

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi, what shows does he present? I havent seen him before.

  • @syritasdoneitgoodytwoshoes2471

    @syritasdoneitgoodytwoshoes2471

    11 ай бұрын

    same

  • @bobjary9382
    @bobjary9382 Жыл бұрын

    Raphael tells his story with such love for everyone in it and love and acceptance for the young man he was. Its obviously taken him a long time and a lot of introspection to get where he is , but what an unbelievably sound person he has become.

  • @SusanBryantInsomniacBookworm
    @SusanBryantInsomniacBookworm11 ай бұрын

    The empathy and vulnerability demonstrated throughout this podcast - but particularly when talking about Raphael's son - was truly incredible to see. Such an insightful, and deeply moving, podcast. Thank you so much for sharing.

  • @theresonlyonequeenbee
    @theresonlyonequeenbee Жыл бұрын

    I accidently stumbled onto this. KZread autoplay. This interview was brilliantly done and put together. What an interesting guy. But also the conversation back and fourth, just brilliant.

  • @bezuayehukromm5418
    @bezuayehukromm5418 Жыл бұрын

    The way he talks about hope is just extraordinary. Thank you for sharing.

  • @bajansoldier5958
    @bajansoldier59589 ай бұрын

    Thank you Raphael for a frank and honest podcast.. What Met police and the judicial system done to you and the two other males is racial based, damaging and traumatic. I love your stance on forgiveness and you are absolutely right, they don't deserve your forgiveness and they should be coming to you to apologise, from the investigating officers, prosecutors, judge and those with too much power to damage other people in their hands. Thank you Raphael and wish you well on your healing journey 🙏🏿

  • @gladiammgtow4092

    @gladiammgtow4092

    3 ай бұрын

    Government is NEVER your friend

  • @alexwiseman9078
    @alexwiseman9078 Жыл бұрын

    Seeing this interview, I was brought to tears, not just by the tragedy of his wrongful imprisonment, but that my own story was able to relate to that feeling of unfairness, shouting into the wind and where nobody listened. Mine was the medical institutions, not the legal one. But his 10 years equalled to my 10......but I was able to open my doors, was familiar with technology etc. My heart goes out to this man and my admiration follows in how he has used his own experience to free others in the restrictions they might face.

  • @SillyDummyBunny
    @SillyDummyBunny Жыл бұрын

    I've been watching Inside The World's Toughest Prisons and I was so moved and happy that someone is raising awareness. I love Raphael and he is such an inspiration. When I saw today that you posted this I got so excited almost jumped of my chair. Thank you!

  • @chrisquinn3377

    @chrisquinn3377

    Жыл бұрын

    He really does his best to humanize and make you feel sympathy for some of the worst people and its given me a different perspective on prison and sentences etc...

  • @Jen-on4qy
    @Jen-on4qy8 ай бұрын

    I am from SE London and understand completely the upbringing, you have to get out to grow into a balanced person especially when you have been subject to Child abuse. Just want to hug Raphael, what an amazing man. I do hope he gets to meet his boy.

  • @marylynn374
    @marylynn3746 ай бұрын

    I appreciate this man's struggles. Especially how kind he is when describing his father, especially, when his father was so cruel. That is a man with a "Good soul". I wish nothing but the best for this man.

  • @elainebines6803
    @elainebines6803 Жыл бұрын

    I like the way you didn't interrupt. You listened and asked relevant questions at the appropriate time

  • @kateg6029
    @kateg60299 ай бұрын

    As a nurse I can relate with this man very much. I have nurses many people who were handcuffed to their bed and guards in the room. Your right about treating people as humans, and to spend time reinventing themselves. If you can’t be a role model then create yourself to be one.

  • @caitlinmclaughlin2797
    @caitlinmclaughlin2797 Жыл бұрын

    Sooooooo happy you had Raphael on! I’m 1 hour and 38 minutes in and I don’t want the conversation to end. Such a powerful conversation 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Thanks Steven

  • @breannascott6709
    @breannascott67096 ай бұрын

    I cannot fathom the psychological impacts on Raphael… and to re-live them over and over again makes him one hell of a humanitarian! Plus, he is ohhhh so handsome.

  • @faithsrealtalk2292
    @faithsrealtalk22927 ай бұрын

    Kudos to Steven Bartlett for being such a non judgemental person. You really honoured and respected this man in a dignified way. Beautiful interviewing skills too.

  • @cynthiaarons9373
    @cynthiaarons9373 Жыл бұрын

    This man is much more a humanitarian than the Sussexes. A very well spoken, intelligent and resilient man, who narrated his experience in a very detailed and clear manner. I hope his journey just keeps going up. I see he wears a wedding ring - many blessings to him and his wife! Best interview I have listened to.

  • @sandraforeman3070

    @sandraforeman3070

    10 ай бұрын

    What does this have to do with the sussexes, get alife you

  • @yvette4933

    @yvette4933

    7 ай бұрын

    More humanitarian than grifters William and kkkate

  • @GB-rt

    @GB-rt

    7 ай бұрын

    Sussexes are living rent free in ur head my dear..how does this even relate to them?? Obsessed much?

  • @SimonaCiuverca
    @SimonaCiuverca Жыл бұрын

    I got chills as soon as the introduction was running! how a person can build so much resilience to fight is unbelievable. Well done for showing another face of injustice in UK and the power of fighting.

  • @hwhy7753
    @hwhy7753 Жыл бұрын

    This is a fundementally refined man. His bleak childhood, his morbid adolescence, and his wrongful incarcination r a sequence of everlasting wounds. Yet he perserved his sanity, his soul, his empathy and his trust in who and what may come. He is the refined outcome of harsh life experiences. I bow to u, Sir.

  • @deborahbergman3566
    @deborahbergman3566 Жыл бұрын

    His inner "alpha" kept him alive, safe, and prosperous. He's just another testimony of the human experience overcoming adversity in the some of the most horrible circumstances. Mr. Raphael Rowe is one in a billion.

  • @juliechaumet
    @juliechaumet Жыл бұрын

    I just finished toughest prisons on netflix a few days ago and right after I thought to myself I wish Steven would bring him on as a guest and who would’ve guessed a few days later I see this episode posted! It’s as if you can read our mind… Such an incredible episode👏🏽

  • @staceystrukel1917

    @staceystrukel1917

    2 ай бұрын

    Putting people and animals in cages doesn’t work. Mental health in prisons needs to change. The goal is to get them back into society and be productive and not hurt others. The prisoners who can’t be changed don’t need to be treated with abuse either. They are there to keep society safe and their punishment is their loss of freedom. It’s not society’s job to seek revenge on people. We can do better.

  • @taaaylllorrr
    @taaaylllorrr Жыл бұрын

    What a great reminder of why I watch podcasts 90% of the time. Tragic, beautiful, insightful, inspiring… little capsule of humanity wrapped up. Well done, and thank you. 🙏🏼

  • @sherryjohnson36
    @sherryjohnson365 ай бұрын

    Wow, He went through so much and has overcome so much. I feel his soul's journey was to endure those many hardships. I feel his soul accepted this life mission, pre-birth. The injustice inflicted on him has placed him on an important reformation path. Praying for his continued growth, happiness, and peace. 🙏

  • @user-rm1zj2rn8l
    @user-rm1zj2rn8l7 ай бұрын

    This man is a god send especially after what ppl done to him but yet he still works to help all prisoners in the whole world ❤

  • @RoseMatthews90
    @RoseMatthews90 Жыл бұрын

    How is he talking about all of this without sobbing. What a life.

  • @glenwheeler1058
    @glenwheeler1058 Жыл бұрын

    Have watched Raphael's Netflix documentaries a tonne and was very pleased to see you sitting down with him, Steven. I never knew 80% about his life and this was such a great insight. I could have very much gone down the same route, I was involved with a group when I was younger that was just not me and I luckily got out just after my time at college. The tipping point to go down a certain path is always right there and it's very difficult in modern-day society with the pressure that young people have to live through to actually go down the right path, it's a struggle and I think a lot of people should see this discussion, it will help people a lot. Thank You.

  • @TheDiaryOfACEO

    @TheDiaryOfACEO

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for watching Glen, and thanks for being one of our top members mate. Glad you went down a better route! - Steven

  • @swampophelia2098
    @swampophelia20987 ай бұрын

    I love the way Steven frames his questions

  • @TheRawdigha
    @TheRawdigha7 ай бұрын

    I'm a bit late to the party, but I've just recently found your channel, so I'm playing catch up! I first saw Raphael on Netflix, and I enjoyed his presentation of the prison documentary. Hearing more of his personal side goes to show what a truly great guy this man is. It's easy for me to say, but if his son hasn't reached out yet, nows the time ❤

  • @lizih2765
    @lizih276510 ай бұрын

    this was my favourite episode and i have watched alot of them! what a genuine, brave, humble, relatable and empathetic man. i really needed to hear this today after going through a rough time and feeling misunderstood and unheard. really inspirational. thankyou for the motivation and thankyou for using your struggle to help others. it means so much.

  • @seamus9750
    @seamus9750 Жыл бұрын

    I sincerely hope Raphael's lad reaches out to him...can't imagine a more positive influence that can only add value. Some mothers are just pure evil to deny access to a father.

  • @joel4285

    @joel4285

    Жыл бұрын

    Maybe he can reach out to his son. I know his fearful of rejection but he will regret it when his older. What if his son is fearful of reaching out to his successful celebrity Dad who his never met?

  • @stevebelemu9703

    @stevebelemu9703

    Жыл бұрын

    🏠😇vvnhvdsaqzxcmn7chza😮‍💨fawqeoizmm,vcgf4qmzaqpo0hgbgaq🤣🤣xbghfhfjgjgtrufrrwqzmnr5hdutwqam,s01mbzufu6t8mnctzalkmht1oi z1vxufjjyvmvughdgvfydhjuffjvjufifgfdtjrycualkpomm,vzq2flfhj

  • @calikeisha365

    @calikeisha365

    Жыл бұрын

    It’s up to the PARENT to build a bridge with the child they left willingly or unwillingly. I mean he could arrange a meeting without custody or at the very least have a letter delivered to him.

  • @seamus9750

    @seamus9750

    Жыл бұрын

    @@calikeisha365 I'm personally going through a bitter court case in which parental alienation is rife...I'm basically mourning the loss of my child who is helpless because the system supports the offending parent.

  • @mariabain8717

    @mariabain8717

    Жыл бұрын

    What an Amazing person Raphael is …………..no words!!

  • @rebeccahands9895
    @rebeccahands98956 ай бұрын

    I hope your boy gets in touch with you. you seem like such a changed man now and so straight forward and so understanding of how people might perceive you. I hope that he gives you a chance

  • @charlesduggan7600
    @charlesduggan76006 ай бұрын

    This man has so much gumption, people haven't got that quality anymore. Full respect to a fellow south London man, I'm glad you're helping other as a result of the shit you went through. God bless you sunshine. You should have exposed the bent old bill though, IMHO. Have a good life geezer :)

  • @niadthomas
    @niadthomas Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely glued to this interview. Absolutely incredible story and Raphael is a captivating storyteller. So glad he pursued his innocence and is here to share his story. Wow.....

  • @BybreenSamuels
    @BybreenSamuels Жыл бұрын

    This was a powerfully, immersive conversation. Thank you Raphael for sharing what happened to you. And how you pieced your life back together. I love your warror spirit. I remember this case as it was the same time of studying my law degree. We were all troubled by this. Continued blessings for your life.

  • @gladiammgtow4092

    @gladiammgtow4092

    3 ай бұрын

    Government is NEVER your friend

  • @memoe6172
    @memoe61727 ай бұрын

    I’ve watched every single episode of the worlds toughest prisons, Raphael has been in some sticky situations when Inside them and I love watching his exploits ❤ the guy deserves every bit of fortune that comes his way

  • @olamao786
    @olamao7865 ай бұрын

    Wao !!!! This recall moved me in some ways. I never grew up in a council estate but I’ve worked in some of the environments and never did I imagined things like this could happened. Regarding his son. I sincerely hope he will pick up his courage and reach out to him. I’m sure he’s waiting for that as a man he is going to become. God bless you and tale your pains away

  • @naomihill6521
    @naomihill6521 Жыл бұрын

    Love Raf . Love hearing his story . His voice is so soothing , he could do a meditation vid to help people relax. Thanks for the interveiw it's amazing. New to your channel after seeing small clues on fb . New sub . Keep up the interveiw Steve. Your brilliant.

  • @aj7075
    @aj7075 Жыл бұрын

    You've had some great guests on your show, but Raphael is your best yet. Raphael will be reunited with his son 100%.

  • @rebeccaiop9061
    @rebeccaiop90617 ай бұрын

    I dont know why i decided to listen to this and honestly i have never heard of you and your work then i hear you mention my country Papua New Guinea 🇵🇬 and I am more than intrigued to check your work. Thank you for what you do and God bless your work.

  • @carmelliea1772
    @carmelliea17726 ай бұрын

    That’s such an inspiring interview. Watched it twice now. You know how the saying goes, there are no accidents in life. No mistakes. What happens is always here to help us become greater versions of ourselves. The plan is always perfect, just like sacred geometry or the miracles of the human body or the mouvements of the planets. All was necessary Raphael, and especially important, so you could evolve into this amazing being you are today, who set aside personal gratification and most significantly his freedom so that you would be so driven and determined to do whatever it takes in a corrupt system and be in the best position possible knowing the system inside out to rectify great injustice and then to be the mouthpiece for others not so fortunate and in such a big way!!!Only very angelic souls are capable of completing such huge and challenging mission bringing to light human rights violations. So forgive because in reality there’s nothing to forgive. We are the actors, screenwriters and producers of our life. It’s all for a purpose. You are even named after an angel.❤

  • @miramal1827
    @miramal1827 Жыл бұрын

    OMG the guest's last question, so on spot, and Raphael's answer...hope things start tot move in the right direction for him and his first son :)

  • @amywebster9423
    @amywebster9423 Жыл бұрын

    What an incredible interview. What an incredibly resilient man he is. Our Criminal justice system is beyond flawed and this kinda exposure to real experience is crucial in advocating for change. No truer words could be said about people in prison, they are human beings and they have often been failed by their environment and by society itself. Such a powerful conversation

  • @TheOne-lo4lz
    @TheOne-lo4lz Жыл бұрын

    This podcast has literally saved my life. It’ll be the reason why I become successful despite having a rough start in life. I owe you my life

  • @dz0681
    @dz0681 Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely love this episode!! Probably one of the best episodes so far, although ‘The Diary of a CEO’ never fails to amaze me, so looking forward to hearing more stories like Raphael’s.

  • @Miss-Placed.1
    @Miss-Placed.1 Жыл бұрын

    What a life story and what an amazing human. What he said about forgiveness is so true, we don't have to forgive people in order to move on and recover, it's not necessary. I have personal experience and can speak with some conviction on this. Well done Raphael, for all you have achieved and for the work you do now. This is by far your best interview Steven, utterly compelling. Thanks!

  • @tinas2857

    @tinas2857

    8 ай бұрын

    Also, forgiveness isn’t for them, it’s for you. It means you won’t allow what happened, stop you from moving forward and living.

  • @Miss-Placed.1

    @Miss-Placed.1

    8 ай бұрын

    @@tinas2857 yes I agree and I've forgiven many people, many of them don't know and some are deceased. I should have worded it a bit better by explaining that when forgiving is not right for me at the time, I choose the option of letting go instead. You can call it the next best thing. It aids the healing process for me and I acknowledge that while there's no doubt trauma has affected me, it doesn't have to dictate how I live the rest of my life :)

  • @electraruby4078
    @electraruby4078 Жыл бұрын

    God bless this man and all others who are struggling against the odds.

  • @JayJay-tb2rc
    @JayJay-tb2rc5 ай бұрын

    one of the best interveiwers in the game. i love the fact that he does great research on his guests and asks pefect questions while allowing his guest to answer. great guys

  • @LindaPow
    @LindaPow6 ай бұрын

    Podcast entrenapeurs are the best form of therapy for mental health .. whaty a great chat

  • @kieranickringill2701
    @kieranickringill2701 Жыл бұрын

    I love this podcast, It just shows how far you can come in life regardless of your struggles. 2 hours absolutely flew by such a interesting story

  • @Mohammad73942
    @Mohammad73942 Жыл бұрын

    So excited for this one! Hope everyone has a blessed day & remembers how much life it’s self is the greatest of blessing ❤

  • @TheDiaryOfACEO

    @TheDiaryOfACEO

    Жыл бұрын

    Let me know what you think! Have a great day 🤍

  • @gesmaypaynter632
    @gesmaypaynter632 Жыл бұрын

    Interesting story. It's powerful that this man managed to fight for justice 💪 . How many people are convicted for life without real justice. His story should be heard here and far. I appreciate real life story that main stream media don't cover.

  • @yvonnemcloughlin1575
    @yvonnemcloughlin15757 ай бұрын

    Another great interview. I'm sorry those 12 years were robbed of Raphael's life. I've always questioned that word "Forgiveness," it's a huge word. Finely someone has been honest about its explanation & makes perfect sense of it. You don't have to forgive those who did you wrong, Why.!? (I don't think anyone forgives truly if we are honest about it.) Process it, accept it & move on. Such a lovely Man & I wish Raphael good health & happiness for the future.🙏🏻

  • @Guido.Fawkes.1
    @Guido.Fawkes.13 ай бұрын

    This is an amazing interview. I am a huge fan of his Netflix series and always wanted to know more about him. Thank you Steve & team! Cheers from the US!

  • @SteelBonsai
    @SteelBonsai Жыл бұрын

    Im a big fan of Raph and have so much respect for him from the interviews ive seen him do and programmes he has been a part of his story is mesmerising,powerful and also shows the huge problem we had back then and still to this day with racism! I watch this now as a 34 yr old man and its crazy to think that this all happened to Raph the same year i was born 1988! Have thing's changed now imo honestly no not enough and racism is still a big problem in this country and around the world.

  • @richardpetts5149
    @richardpetts5149 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Steven, another incredible guest and very interesting conversation with Raphael, I’ll look forward to watching his series on Netflix. Quite incredible what he went through during those years in prison. Good to hear he has a lovely wife and kids in his life now.

  • @Docu-Snips123
    @Docu-Snips1237 ай бұрын

    Shocking what has happened there...what a nightmare, you should have been 10's of millions...the time you have lost is priceless, regardless of circumstance. You should also try and get InTouch with your son, your losing time holding back. don't waste anymore time, you can't get back. God Bless you both, really enjoyed this Gents..

  • @toypoodle50
    @toypoodle505 ай бұрын

    Brilliant interview. I admire Raphael. Raphael, reach out to you son. Please. ❤

  • @wendyfay16
    @wendyfay16 Жыл бұрын

    To Raphael, I'd suggest that you reach out to your son. You don't know what your son has been told about you, so that little boy inside of him may be feeling quite rejected and may have built a really tough shell around his heart to protect himself from pain. This may take a lot of work to break through, so even if your son hasn't tried to find you, I'm sure that deep inside, he wants to know his father even though he's probably feeling rejected by your absence in his life. It's up to the parent to make the first move towards reconciliation, even if it takes years. I'm still trying for reconciliation with my own son for the last 10 years, even though I have no idea as to why, but I do know that whatever the cause is in his mind, he's hurting deep down. We all need to know that our parents love us ... and sometimes we just need them to fight harder for us until they prove it. The more they reject us, is a sign that the hurt is deeper and needs us as parents to prove how much we love them by continuing to dig deeper. I wish you all the love and goodness in your life, and in your quest to become the father that you would have wished for. Please don't let them also take away your opportunity to be a father and to even enjoy the love of grandchildren one day.

  • @amandarachel8842

    @amandarachel8842

    Жыл бұрын

    We don't all know our absent parents love us that's is untrue to say , the parent is the adult , their child will always be their child , not matter what age ,

  • @margopaton3240
    @margopaton3240 Жыл бұрын

    Fascinating guy and life story. What a horrific experience to happen to someone. I truly admire Steven too. I’ve been glued to this interview. I have watched Raphael’s programmes. Steven is a gifted interviewer and businessman.

  • @pippapowling2306
    @pippapowling23063 ай бұрын

    I've watched this podcast several times. I'm often-times still conflicted. But the last 10-15 mins of this podcast are enlightening and where humanity can make a difference. I'm shocked someone was wrongfully locked up for 12 yrs. And yet, he's come out the other side and wants to make a difference.

  • @pateicialane4740
    @pateicialane4740 Жыл бұрын

    He’s very well spoken his vocabulary is very educated and he did that himself what a guy this story is amazing ♥️🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

  • @werqzeleke2815

    @werqzeleke2815

    Жыл бұрын

    Too much time on his hands to learn English language

  • @blackrose8643
    @blackrose8643 Жыл бұрын

    This channel always amazes me. The people I see on here and the stuff I hear from them is phenomenally life changing. Raphael is so real,I hope his son reaches out to him. Just brilliant!

  • @johnp2184
    @johnp21846 ай бұрын

    All of your interviews are interesting. This one is riveting. It gave me new insight into my own life. I've never been to prison or even arrested but there are some particular similarities between my upbringing & Mr. Rowe's. This interview changed my perspective on my upbringing, in an overall positive way & I am 65 tears old.

  • @Tluv_1955
    @Tluv_19557 ай бұрын

    I love ur videos man of God we bless and appreciate you from Canada . My goodness I’m learning a lot listening to what God is showing you ❤🙏🙏

  • @sarathelwell6701
    @sarathelwell670110 ай бұрын

    Brilliant interview. He’s an inspiration and sending love to Raphael and his family 💕

  • @shivanisarahfox5499
    @shivanisarahfox549910 ай бұрын

    Awesome episode. Have heard Raphael's story before but never in so much detail. Thanks for creating the space for this honest and open sharing. Thanks to Raphael for his courage and ongoing work, and respect to you Steve for making your guests feel secure enough to be so vulnerable. An impressive skill for an interviewer. Keep 'em coming!

  • @rayribeiro6741
    @rayribeiro674110 ай бұрын

    Ok yes I agree. This is the best podcast on the planet. Real people telling their real relatable stories. Brilliant. And thank you.

  • @nanceb4him
    @nanceb4him10 ай бұрын

    Great answer, you are who you are in spite of the wrong done to you! That is someone to look up to. You are a problem solver and a doer. You are doing great things to bring what you have experienced and witnessed full circle to bring compassion and help to those in need and being so badly mistreated. No one knows better than you. I am happy to hear your personal life is a support for you now and you are happily in love & with family. God Bless you and your family.

  • @nagelfamily
    @nagelfamily Жыл бұрын

    love the vlog - much respect for the delicate respect for unification of the son - its almost as if the Raphael wouldn't want to co-mingle his grief / loss with his estranged son's grief and loss. much respect.

  • @blueskye3031
    @blueskye3031 Жыл бұрын

    This was a very good talk inspired by this guy who has overcome the trauma of others in a position to be believable over himself yet he held on to hope that his truth would be heard. Blessings to him & his family.

  • @london_roubenl
    @london_roubenl7 ай бұрын

    Excellent interview, with an intelligent and incredibly articulate person, amazing succinct answers considering the time limit on the interview.

  • @HIP54
    @HIP543 ай бұрын

    Just watching this, a year later. Honestly, this is an example, of why I have continued to watch your interviews. Raphael Rowe, has surely changed his life and used his experience to change the way we view humanity, in places that dehumanizes people. I pray he uses that passion, care and emotional wellness, he has managed to for the most part, rekindled his feeling of love and hope to reach out to his son, who may be watching this podcast. We can never judge a person for what they have presented and struggle with. But we hope that he can access forgiveness for himself more importantly and feel the freedom to reach out to his man child and realease the heartfelt fear, he has felt. It was an awesome interview, that really solidifies your 'gift for this platform' and your natural ability to reach people, to help encourage others to see their own humanity and educate others in areas, that we may not have necessarily been able to access. So, thank you!

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