I Regret Leaving My Wife for Another Woman
I Regret Leaving My Wife for Another Woman
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He wouldn’t feel any regret if it worked out with his side chick.
@erismana2105
10 ай бұрын
Exactly, he deserves to be alone the rest of his life
@ebbypetes
10 ай бұрын
Exactly.
@benb7727
10 ай бұрын
Great observation.
@Ryan-wx1bi
10 ай бұрын
Bingo. He's not sorry he left his wife, he's just sad now that he's alone
@denisedevoto5703
10 ай бұрын
Nailed it.
His wife wasn’t sure if she was a Christian any longer, so he decided to cheat on her? What a man of God! 🙏
@aselyne5631
9 ай бұрын
Insane huh
@ambertorres4444
9 ай бұрын
Exactly, he is supposed to lead in love and love her like Christ loves the church. All he did was show that he was not a spiritual leader and not rooted in his faith.
@SuperValencia101
9 ай бұрын
You dont understand. This was why they formed religion... It was to control women... This is what he tried in 2023, cause he knows women are suppose to take him back... History proved this to be true... And thats why he is crying because he was the loser here. He cant believe it! 😂 thank god women are waking up and throwing away that book called the bible
@teresabrewer4052
9 ай бұрын
Wait, wife, you may not be Christian.. Now I can cheat on you, heathen
@tjaspire
9 ай бұрын
Most people who believe they are saved have never even cracked open the Bible. How do you know what you even believe if you don't read God's word, nor do you apply it to your life? I call these folks, "name-only Christians." They'll stand before God on judgement day thinking they're cool, and then God is going to be like, "Do I know you?"
You don’t feel regret for destroying your marriage. You feel regret that your side piece left you.
@momfromnj911
22 күн бұрын
Right..this guy is UNREAL
Oh wow, so you cheat on your wife and then the person you cheated with realizes you aren't marriage material? Who'd have guessed...
@kassassin_brahgawk
Ай бұрын
You lose em how you got em
@glynis1007
Ай бұрын
😂
@spndrtwentythree5239
Ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@nneoma6106
Ай бұрын
A 7 year marriage, too? Hope she's smart enough to walk away.
@Prettynikki815
Ай бұрын
Lol "well when you put it like that...:
If you are this guy’s wife, DO NOT COME BACK! The trash took itself out!
@lorrainea.285
10 ай бұрын
Make that sewer trash!!!!!
@mdooms76
10 ай бұрын
Whew great comment!!!
@kdbee6086
10 ай бұрын
Amen to that
@kdbee6086
10 ай бұрын
And you can tell with this one, if he did it once, he'll do it again!
@tabathia7633
10 ай бұрын
I love this comment. Well put. When I broke up with my lousy, no-good, Sob, he went right to his girl-fr. which was in another state. My mom saw them, didnj't know about our final Div. It was all I could do, to calm her down, she had a bad heart, and just loved this guy, well........... His final ending came five yrs. ago, court again, facing 4 yrs. prison term, suddenly he passed on, who knows why? P.S. his girl-fri, was in and out of prison, for prost. and drugs. I never did any of that, I'm clean , ready to teach I.T. to anyone who wants to learn. Thank you Lord, for letting me, be me. ❤❤
As a Christian, I'm offended that he thought the answer to a wife who was questioning her faith was to cheat on her. I can't.
@getthesensation
3 ай бұрын
The cheating came first. That's why he left.
@onyourcoffeebreak2476
3 ай бұрын
It's still not going up to what he did so this guy hasn't learned anything.
@RB-bb2tw
3 ай бұрын
The cheating tells you exactly the condition of his faith.
@davidl9155
3 ай бұрын
😂😂
@crazygeechee
3 ай бұрын
Right. Its the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard He got dumped at Whole Foods and went to a restaurant stop to cry Shame on him
A lot of men REALLY DO NOT understand the side chick is only there to torment the wife and have fun with the husband. Once the wife leaves, the side woman is no longer interested.
@Malibusunrise
Ай бұрын
They’re possessed by demons
@elettramia6380
Ай бұрын
Good point, they have very low self esteem and feel that they are the woman worth cheating on your partner for. It gives them a false sense of confidence. This is why I Would never be with a man who I knew was in a relationship, it’s absolutely insulting to believe I would be that desperate and pathetic
@judigemini178
Ай бұрын
Wow, nicely put...these weak men are super dumb & they deserve every consequence of their own dumb actions
@whiteowl80
Ай бұрын
Many times the side chick doesn’t even know that she is a side chick till they’re already involved with this person.
@joanstepleton1637
Ай бұрын
Lol, a lot of men also lead double lives where the wife and the side chick don’t know about each other.
“Keep an eye on me” implying you’re gonna kill yourself to get your ex to talk to you is a bullshit move
@mcmarin9932
Ай бұрын
Thiiiisss! The manipulation is astounding. I bet he didn’t keep an eye on his wife when he moved in with the woman 🙄
@diane4488
Ай бұрын
@@mcmarin9932 Yes, he didn't care about his poor wife. And I doubt he can genuinely get down in his knees, and say how very sorry he is. Because he isn't. What a piece of trash.
@ElsaLisa-oc8hv
Ай бұрын
He hostages himself to guilt trap her. Classic.
@farmhouseonthemountain
29 күн бұрын
Omg, yes and I can't believe he didn't call him on that. And that's how he got her to come out. This dude is a manipulative a hole.
@moonsharn
29 күн бұрын
It’s a classic Narcissist move
She didn’t want to have kids with him for a reason. Her instincts knew.
@phalynwilliams4119
3 ай бұрын
Exactly! I hope the wife realizes that being rid of this failure is the best thing for her.
@phalynwilliams4119
3 ай бұрын
The wife is a fool if she takes him back.
@jasminegreene8159
3 ай бұрын
I agree. Look at how he acts when he doesn’t have his way? I hope she doesn’t reconcile.
@timehgta_smg3058
3 ай бұрын
@@izealliaeldridge1901 hold up SHE SEDUCED HIM! SHE HELPED RUIN HIS MARRIAGE
@Jwa-fo6nb
3 ай бұрын
I wouldn't have a child with any man, no matter how much I loved him, its not worth the risk
I have no empathy for this "man". He hurt his wife by tossing her away, and after his side piece dumped him, he wants his wife back? Naw, man. You got what ya deserved.
@gm6034
10 ай бұрын
For real. At first I just thought he made a huge mistake in screwing up and wanting to be needed. BUT then when I heard he was dumped I like ohhhh this guy just wants his wife back because he has no one. Had his side piece stayed he would have remained with her. His wife needs to NOT take him back. But if she does, she’s a dumba**. Life is too short to waste your time on dumba** people.
@venitiousquash7400
10 ай бұрын
He’s kidding right?
@ellencox8415
10 ай бұрын
@@venitiousquash7400 no. He is the perfect representation of modern culture. Zero loyalty. Zero duty. Zero accountability. Whatever feels good in the moment.
@BrendaBaBoom
10 ай бұрын
@@gm6034 🎯🎯🎯
@sueblack5794
10 ай бұрын
Got to give to him, he wasn't asking for empathy but more of "how to get his life back". He still doesn't care about the wife. He just can't be alone.
He doesn't want his wife back. He just doesn't want to be left alone with his thoughts and he wants free therapy from her.
@rizen9457
Ай бұрын
Yesssssssssssss
@duvessa2003
22 күн бұрын
That sounds about right.
@DoubleA-ou7pj
10 күн бұрын
And a place to live
@TheArtzytype
8 күн бұрын
Emotional labour vampire
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
He's more hurt over the mistress dumping him than him hurting his wife by cheating🤦🏾♀️He didnt even acknowledge that he hurt her smh.
@jayrodriguez4119
3 ай бұрын
He's a Narkie.
@Rp-pc1rl
3 ай бұрын
Because cheaters are yhe appitamy of selfishness.
@nomg563
3 ай бұрын
He’ll continue to attract people like him who will most likely use him and spit him out like old gum until he wakes up
@ch3rrikiss
3 ай бұрын
@@Rp-pc1rl"epitome "
@Raidersmomma2489
3 ай бұрын
Because if things had worked out the way he wanted them to he would have never been sorry in the first place he is only sorry because he is facing the consequences of his actions
If he didn't get dumped, he would never think about his wife again.
@user-si4kn9gz4o
3 ай бұрын
she need to leave him
@user-si4kn9gz4o
3 ай бұрын
he cheated because he wanted to.
@jayrodriguez4119
3 ай бұрын
He did her a favor by leaving and now she needs to do herself a favor and stay gone. This guy sounds like a codependent just needs somone all the time.
@jeanwagner7031
3 ай бұрын
EXACTLY!!!!!!!!
@anglophils645
3 ай бұрын
I disagree. I think it's key that he realized, that if he had tried as hard with his wife, as he did with his mistress, his marriage would have worked. He did some growing and learning. If his wife ever really loved him, she'll give him another chance. Read Paul's Letter to the Corinthians, Chapter 13, on the nature of love.
I've been divorced for 13 years. Last year, my exhusband called me threatening to kill himself because he caught his girlfriend in bed with a man. He did the same thing wanting his old life back.
@sophiasana2393
Ай бұрын
What have you said to him? If i may ask as a sister
@bettyhappschatt3467
Ай бұрын
It might be a good day to get a new number.
@mamajojo2300
27 күн бұрын
@@bettyhappschatt3467 LOL! A good day to get a new number! LOL! I declare you winner of these internets! LOL
@BagznBirdz
17 күн бұрын
OMG what a douche! So glad you divorced him. He has no right calling you regarding ANYTHING, least of all his heartache over another woman. Good for you for saying he wasn't welcome back in!
@jauntycommander1065
7 күн бұрын
Mine too. Only his side chick got pregnant by another man and wanted nothing to do with him after she realized that what he had was because of me bringing home the bread and holding it down. He started losing everything. Has a new woman now and tried to cheat on her with me. He won’t change and I just want my money
Am I hearing this right? He dumped his wife for a girlfriend a year ago and now, because his girlfriend dumped him a couple of weeks ago, he's now sad and wants his wife back??!! 🤦🏻 What about his wife's feelings all along?
Leaving your wife and then using her for emotional support after you're dumped... yikes
@CrystalM1917
10 ай бұрын
Special breed of narcissist.
@djpuplex
10 ай бұрын
Sounds like something a woman would do.
@yogaqueen1527
10 ай бұрын
She is a fool for being there for him
@JKNat9004
10 ай бұрын
@@yogaqueen1527Buuuhhtt, according to the state of North Carolina, they are technically STILL MARRIED. Also, who would want on their conscience that they weren't there for someone who was considering taking their own life? My only hope for this guy, who put up with craziness after leaving his wife, is that he can get his life in order, even if they continue through the divorce. I think it's good he reached out to her, and am impressed with her for not hanging up on him.
@djpuplex
10 ай бұрын
@@yogaqueen1527 He's a even bigger fool thinking she cares. Look at all the comments in this section she's probably loving every second this.
"Because she is not a believer anymore" and then he does the most ungodly thing ever. Unbelievable
@visionarylifeministries4055
4 ай бұрын
That Part!!!
@monmon-vk8rz
4 ай бұрын
Hm. I have to wonder if he felt like the wife wasn't being "wifey" enough. I say this bc he also mentions her having second thoughts about kids, and bc traditional spouse roles are often justified by religion. "Not being a believer anymore" in this context could mean she was turning away from the more traditional "woman" roles, or that she wanted to center her life around something that wasn't just him and potential kids. It would explain why he felt the urge to step out on and ultimately replace her
@a.r.8954
4 ай бұрын
100%. I heard that code too. He was frustrated with her growing independence and humanity, which is frustrating to men who see women as servants. As their patriarchal god teaches them to do. I see the cheating as rather in step with that entitlement, not some shocking betrayal of his beliefs. That being said, I'm sure his community would have had a lot to say about him leaving his wife and moving in with a single mother out of wedlock lol@@monmon-vk8rz
@suckmanutsbach
4 ай бұрын
@@Ofwudann except it's allowed in their religion and not his
@dcliffy4332
4 ай бұрын
He's scum
Don’t encourage him to bother this poor woman ever again, John! He has no remorse for what he did to her!
@momfromnj911
22 күн бұрын
THANK YOU!! 💯
This is a narcissist that’s trying to play victim. If his side piece hadn’t left he would still be in that relationship.
He doesn't want his wife back. He wants a bandaid to make HIMSELF feel better IN THE MOMENT.
@anndeecosita3586
6 ай бұрын
He wants place keeper. It doesn’t matter who it is. I had an ex who did that. I actually found out through digging on Facebook he had a fiancé back in Puerto Rico I didn’t know about. I thought his trips were to visit his family. Later I think she dumped him because he started showing up at my home leaving notes. I ignored it at first then I went off on him and told his cheater butt to stay the h away from me.
@kate2create738
4 ай бұрын
He certain would regret reading the comments of everyone calling him out for the selfish being he is.
@bluebellcrushedvelvet
4 ай бұрын
No he doesn't want a BANDAID!! Let's call a spade a spade!! He wants a fking handmaid that will also s*:ck his d^%k!!! He wants someone to love HIM but he doesn't do anything to love BACK!!
@kzfingerprint
4 ай бұрын
And he will absolutely use her for that bandaid
@heatherangel9700
4 ай бұрын
Exactly. He doesn't really want his gf either. He just doesn't want to be alone, and will take any woman who will have him.
I’ll be honest when a woman changes her mind on having kids in a long term relationships or marriage it’s because she doesn’t feel safe and secured.
@stephkais5613
10 ай бұрын
Yes. His ex wife saw something about him that made her not want to begin parenthood with him. She made a good call!! The man is selfish and manipulative.
@tinaa7239
10 ай бұрын
Exactly.
@niyah7139
10 ай бұрын
Leaving your wife to immediately move in with a baby mama that's not yours. Only to have her moves her baby daddy in. 😂😂 she's totally using this guy for money while she still has sex with the baby daddy under the same roof. What a fuckin loser ..🤣🤣
@daniellebishop535
9 ай бұрын
Absolutely this
@kellharris2491
9 ай бұрын
She was getting that intuition. Sometimes you just know things you can't explain with words.
Any man who leaves his wife for you is not worth having
@kai2-11
17 күн бұрын
Because he will eventually do the same thing
@tiana4102
4 күн бұрын
And any woman who knowingly sleeps with a married man, isn't worth having.
Wow. I really hate this caller. Incredibly selfish.
He'll rather have ANYONE than no one. His wife deserves better. He doesn't love her, he hates being alone.
@faithinthejourney6409
3 ай бұрын
Uuuufffff that was raw and hit hard …. facts!
@lorrainem8234
3 ай бұрын
💯
@carlel121
2 ай бұрын
Exactly! He is just escaping the pain, without thinking about his ex, nothing is more selfish than that.
@sarahrobertson634
2 ай бұрын
Best comment ever
@DawnSuttonfabfour
2 ай бұрын
My view has always been no one rather than anyone. Works well.
It was very manipulative of him to contact his wife to say, "Just keep an eye on me." That was purely attention-seeking. He is selfish and still hasn't learned anything.
@lcam9241
5 ай бұрын
Right! Of all people to call, her? Not his siblings or parents. Really trifling (and weird to be honest).
@barbaradixon9279
4 ай бұрын
Then call the authorities & put him away to get lots of attention
@crazyonebyfar
4 ай бұрын
Yeah he might as well said "grab your luggage, we're going on a guilt trip"
@PathologicallyIncurious
4 ай бұрын
100% - screw this guy and his “hurt.” He’s not sorry or feeling bad about what he did to his wife, he’s just regretting letting a great woman go for something “fresh & exciting” 😒
@lcam9241
4 ай бұрын
@@PathologicallyIncuriousI love your name 😊
Divorce asap because he’s more heartbroken about the side piece
@elovesp1
20 күн бұрын
🎯
My ex was similar and then got mad at me when he needed a place to stay and I said No, because in his mind I have no right to peace. Eff that guy.
@jennprescott2757
Ай бұрын
Good job. Your sparing yourself a lot of grief!
@mrv2308
Ай бұрын
Why isn’t this obvious to people? Why would you? Haha
@Teenywing
Ай бұрын
I’m so happy that you listened to yourself ♥️♥️♥️
@naturallytajy973
Ай бұрын
Good for you for saying no cause most woman would give in.
I hope his wife hears this conversation and doesn't take him back. Not once did he acknowledge the pain he caused her or act remorseful. He spoke more highly of his affair partner and how pretty she is ("like you wouldn't believe" barf). This isn't about him realizing he made a mistake and lost a good thing, this is just him feeling sorry for himself. What a fool.
@FollowPickMeekPodcast
10 ай бұрын
None! Just like most narcissists, he wants her to come back to fulfill his needs and his guilt. I pray she trusts her intuition and leave this clown where he is.
@sonofhibbs4425
10 ай бұрын
Seriously well said. This guy needs to burn until the Good Lord cleans the rot off of him. Until then he’s a selfish man child.
@patymartin8568
10 ай бұрын
Love your comment. Sooo 👍 true
@MonaLisaFace
10 ай бұрын
His "lowest moment" was when he got dumped by the girlfriend, not when he cheated on his wife.
@mitylene_bailey
10 ай бұрын
She's listening with a giant glass of cienna and a bowl of shrimp cocktail
My husband left me for a co-worker. The pain is like surgery w/out being put under. I have zero sympathy for him.
@Rebecca-ci3zc
10 ай бұрын
Same here, after 27 years. My life is very peaceful now without him.
@blueseptember2174
10 ай бұрын
Surgery without being put under...that's 💯 exactly how it feels 😢
@whendoigettosayfuck
10 ай бұрын
Emotional pain is secondary to physical pain. When you are screaming in pain from a physical injury, all your emotional problems are put to the side. Be happy you were not beaten and crippled with pain for life. My surgery reminds me every day of the abuse.
@squiggleworks9
10 ай бұрын
@@whendoigettosayfuck what happened to you is completely awful but does your experience invalidate hers?
@blueseptember2174
10 ай бұрын
@@whendoigettosayfuck I agreed with her about the pain because I have been through both. Being left and a 5 hour surgery where the epidural wore off and I could feel them pushing on my organs before I screamed and they put me under. She's right. That's what betrayal feels like everday.
I hope the wife hears this and hurries up and divorces this guy. He is so selfish.
I have noticed a lot of men have a much harder time being alone than women do. This makes the healing process much harder for them.
@L.Fontein7
Ай бұрын
I live in Florida among the elderly and I've noticed that too. Many men will remarry after the death of a wife. The women after the death of a husband not so much because I think they took all the BS for so many years they've had enough and are happier finally being on their own.
@smch6416
Ай бұрын
Healing process? He's not the wronged party..
@daisy9910
29 күн бұрын
And they refuse to get therapy.
@Mari-lv1rd
25 күн бұрын
@@smch6416right...he is the forever child who only is "OK" when he is cuddled and comforted. To be alone is his horrorshow. Time to grow up and face life like a grownup. He rolled the dice and lost...start over and remember what hsppened! what you did and the consequences of your actions. There is a tomorrow, become a better human.
@vanessasingh39
6 күн бұрын
Most men are like that. If you read statistics- men almost always remarry after divorce or death of wife
🤣 He committed adultery because she said she wasn't sure about her faith?! This guy is so full of it.
@CF.
10 ай бұрын
I agree, he’s full of ish
@WidgetWW
10 ай бұрын
I LOL’d at that part
@CyeOutsider
10 ай бұрын
Well he had to find some excuse to blame his affair on her.
@alexisjankowski3281
10 ай бұрын
It wasn’t the real reason. He simply started lusting after another woman and he didn’t need much of any reason to sleep with another woman.
@mahamehanna9826
10 ай бұрын
As if his faith is strong! Committing adultery is a sin in all faiths. Besides, once a cheater is always a cheater. This man can never be trusted. His wife should go on with the divorce procedures, and hopefully she’ll meet a better man who treats her right and makes her happy, if she wants to remarry. Or she can be single, free, and happy.
He’s so sad over his breakup and not about his DIVORCE, he’s such a pathetic excuse for a man ✨
@lindamusser7370
Ай бұрын
I call that kind of person a schmuck.
@landonevans818
Ай бұрын
Not all men are perfect some men have to figure it out. Jesus died on the cross for our sins and allows us a second chance at life.
@danikahholdman2609
Ай бұрын
@@landonevans818 lol
@user-pd7gy2xz4l
Ай бұрын
@@landonevans818 NOPE its still pathetic. He is a grown ass man. I feel no sympathy and he is embarrasing.
@candiedconnor
Ай бұрын
@@landonevans818yeah, no. That man is still pathetic.
My sister lived with a man and his two kids. His ex "needed a place to live" and moved in with them as well. I asked my sis how she could be this naive. I tried telling her that they were 100% sleeping together. She argued it the entire time. She finally broke up with him and he confirmed..... that he absolutely was sleeping with his ex the entire time.
@mercedesb2299
Ай бұрын
My daughter had a friend do the exact same thing. It was crazy enough that my daughter was actually filling me in on the whole saga. She tried to tell her friend what was happening but finally got so frustrated she started ranting about it to me instead to make sure that she wasn't the only one seeing the scenario for what it was. It worked out exactly as your sister's did.
The grass is greenest where you water it.
@bootdownthedoor
Ай бұрын
Sage words.
@sparkles999rose2
Ай бұрын
That’s sweet
@LOD50
17 күн бұрын
Light bulb saying❤
He doesn’t feel regret, he feels inconvenienced.
@ladybluelotus
2 ай бұрын
Agreed! That's the best description.
@GreenGrasshoppa
Ай бұрын
He just wants his maid/cook back. -_-
@landonevans818
Ай бұрын
Feel compassion for once in your life.
@landonevans818
Ай бұрын
Not saying what he did was good but sometimes you have to give people a second chance at life.
@hikerhobby1204
Ай бұрын
How do you know how he feels? Thats creepy if you can read peoples minds.
The side chick moved in her ‘boyfriend’ into the home is funny AF😅😅😅😅😅😅. Karma is a b**h. Ex-wife if you are reading this? DO NOT TAKE HIM BACK!
@KimontheWeb
3 ай бұрын
Amen!
@SatumainenOlento
3 ай бұрын
😅😂😂😂😂 I was laughing my head off in here as well!!! 😅😂😂😂 Until I could hear the hurt in his voice. He did lost the child also 😢 I think that he really just want to have children and perhaps that was the one underlaying issue that made him to look for an another woman and family. And no, he was a BIG FOOL. Karma is a b*tch.
@meilingflesa8140
3 ай бұрын
I couldn't agree with you more
@hfowl2907
2 ай бұрын
Agree 😅
@donnaeilerman7458
2 ай бұрын
Exactly! What if the side chick decides she wants him back? Does he dump his wife again?!?
This guy doesn't want his wife back. He just doesn't want to be alone. If she takes him back, she'll never know if he truly wants to be with her.
@blueseptember2174
Ай бұрын
Yes that would take lots of time and actions on his part. Years probably.
@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living
15 күн бұрын
This. This is the REAL reason why a lot of men try to go back to the woman they left for someone else when things don’t work out with the side piece.
The only thing he regrets is being dumped by his girlfriend... Oh, I hope that his ex-wife was smart and didn't take him back.
No!!! Two adulterers in a "relationship"... and it DOESN'T work out?! Shock! Horror!
@LegendaryCS4
3 ай бұрын
I never feel bad for people like this. They need to learn their lessons the hard way. You knowingly engaged in a relationship that is an affair? Your fault when the immoral person acts immorally TO YOU. Cheaters like to think they’re “special” and an exception to the rule, when cheating is a personality defect, not an act of love. (Clarification “you” is being used towards people that cheat, not in regards to the person who made this comment)
@veggiesaremurder
3 ай бұрын
@@LegendaryCS4 I hope you understood I was being sarcastic, lol. And yes that's called the "universal you" or the "collective you". Anyway, I couldn't agree more. I remember hearing someone say that " adultery is the most morally irresponsible thing you could do to someone". I like that. "Morally irresponsible". It's so true. You're doing something completely devastating, carelessly and premeditatedly, because you care more about your own gratification than you do about the feelings of the person who loves you. It demonstrates a severe lack of character. It's selfishness at its peak.
@naturallyhoneybrown
3 ай бұрын
lmbo, delusion is no joke
@Lilydee
3 ай бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@PrincessCassandra
3 ай бұрын
lmao!
These videos are helping me identify the red flags in weak men.
@SippenSomeTea
2 ай бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏
@heydibear1079
2 ай бұрын
😂exactly
@melgm002
2 ай бұрын
Totally 🎉
@ashleycope1237
Ай бұрын
💯
He is one of those people that is afraid to be alone.
@bonniejeanrussell2028
Ай бұрын
A Narcissist needs a supply
It's almost like actions have consequence 😐
In this call, he sang praises about his former mistress, then didn't show anything but indifference about his wife, but wants advice about getting back with his wife ONLY because he doesn't want to be alone. She better stay far away.
@LaciRae
Ай бұрын
i heard the opposite.
@leigha1023
Ай бұрын
Isn’t that the truth
@AM-lc6hy
Ай бұрын
@@LaciRaeI heard the same thing as you. I heard him uplift his wife. I heard this man's pain for what he'd done.
@guellaliguemra2321
Ай бұрын
@@AM-lc6hyPain that only appeared after he got screwed by the mistress. Where was the pain before?
@Indigo565
Ай бұрын
@@AM-lc6hyhe said she was there for him and she had it together to the point where he felt like he didn't matter. He said his mistress was beautiful. It's clear he view them differently
A very sad person. Calling ur ex wife to gaslight her by using "suicide" is a sick thing to do.
@latoshastanfield5523
10 ай бұрын
Yeah he is a bastard
@Kamingo170
10 ай бұрын
I don't know about all that but city boys we up
@mystiquevening
10 ай бұрын
Yep!!
@alluringbliss4165
10 ай бұрын
He is a selfish man.
@erind2261
10 ай бұрын
The petty me would've said 'Do it!' & hung up
Same thing happened to my father, the second wife lasted two years then she took ALL of his money and left him, served him papers on Christmas.
@themissmay
Ай бұрын
He was also religious.
His wife deserves far better than him. Now he wants to rebound on her. What a selfish and immature human being. He deserves to feel the pain. His wife deserves a real man.
It's telling that he said "I just want my life back" cause he's alone, not "I want my ex back" because I still love her. He doesn't love her... He misses the stability she brings.
@CrayolaCoffeeBean
3 ай бұрын
Exactly
@YeshuaKingMessiah
3 ай бұрын
He misses living in a couples world as part of a couple It’s a lonely life
@jillphillips1667
3 ай бұрын
Not true repentance
@mish375
3 ай бұрын
This says it all. He wants the lifestyle: he doesn't love his wife and never did. It was all about status to him. This conversation was incredibly selfish on his part because it was all about him and there's no recognition of the pain he's caused her or the rest of the family.
@avirei98
3 ай бұрын
I feel like I've had a man date me before that very reason and it sucked because he was my first love and he was only with me because I brought him peace instability. He literally cheated on me with the girl that he did nothing but argue with and when I left him he pursued her just to find out she didn't actually want him. She just like the attention and the money. He was giving her the money that he convinced me he was giving to his mom and I told him that didn't make logical sense like she has five boys. You are the youngest. Why is she asking you for money and she is married. She has a husband like why would she ask her youngest for money that we need. It didn't make any sense but he told me I was being selfish and that was his mom and I'm being a bad girlfriend so I kept my mouth shut. Turns out the entire time I was right it was BS. He was giving the money to his ex and cheating on me made me feel like a fool because my gut told me something was wrong but he told me I was being insecure. And when I left him and I told him what could have stopped him from cheating he told me nothing. He told me I did everything a man could possibly want but there was nothing more I could have done and I didn't know how to take that because if I gave you my everything and it still wasn't enough then what the hell. But I treat that like a lesson now. Now I know a cheater is going to be a cheater no matter what you do. So you just have to make sure you pick the right person for sure. It sucks though because it makes me feel like I've become jaded because I am now a lot less patient compared to how I used to be. There's a lot of things I just refused to tolerate early in a relationship and I'm so easily kicking men to the side. As soon as anything happens. And I know that's not okay. I just don't want to be made a fool again
🤢 you cried to your wife about your girlfriend dumping you and it making you "suicidal". If it weren't so disturbing a situation, it would be comical!
@erismana2105
10 ай бұрын
He is malniptive and manipulation is a form of abuse.
@dolphinbear661
10 ай бұрын
Manipulative af
@katrina3560
10 ай бұрын
@@erismana2105 ABSOLUTELY! His phoney bologna big, sad tears disgusting. He also attempted a bit of smearing her via the vague "she doesn't believe anymore" statement. Then TF he still interested for!? He should 🪨 🪨 🦵
@brendamoon2660
10 ай бұрын
How dare he? I just imagine if his wife was my daughter or friend. After dumping her for another woman he has the nerve to call her for sympathy?
@jamessanders8895
10 ай бұрын
@@brendamoon2660I would have told him to call 911 instead of me. They have more training in that, and they accually care. 😂
He needs a Place to live. Hense the poor wife...using her. Hope wife has standards and great self respect.
my dad did this decades ago... crawled back to my mom... then eventually ran off (sneakily) with a Philippino woman across the world (on guise that he just wanted to 'see Asia ')... then gradually decided not to go back home... except to get his affairs (and divorce) in order... he got married to this second woman 10 years ago and is still with her. No one talks to him anymore.
@PrinceRoyceFan667
29 күн бұрын
Is your dad Ben Hart?
@davidhenningson4782
29 күн бұрын
@PrinceRoyceFan667 I think that's giving him alittle too much credit (maybe in his own head though...)
@aelh123
26 күн бұрын
@@PrinceRoyceFan667 lmao Benny clapped back with receipts. He gave his ex a 1.8 million dollar settlement + 12k alimony + child support until they where 22 years old 😵💫 she just made that Tik Tok because “ my dadddy wouldn’t pay my medical bills” meaning “my dad won’t pay for grief counseling because my bf dumped me “
Crazy how he wants to get his wife back. But then says the other woman was beautiful like “ you wouldn’t believe.” Sounds like his wife will always be the backup plan…
@kerrymillar1267
3 ай бұрын
Yes I thought that too Why is this still Impressing him when she moved another man in with them. Some people are crazy!
@lucianaromulus1408
3 ай бұрын
Wife is absolutely the back up plan. He wants her at home while he goes on the prowl. This man deserves to be single forever.
@masixchell
3 ай бұрын
Right?! Like he was waiting for the cohost to co-sign and be like “ohh ok so she was beautiful - aw man that makes it all ok” 😵😵💫. He let that other woman run alllll over him. Thank God his wife never bore him any children 🙏🏽🙏🏽 Hope she’s happy and thriving without him.
@videodj310
3 ай бұрын
It sounds like she was a placeholder, she was the best he could Get at the time until he found his actual type smh Now because it didn't work out with the side piece, he wants to go back to his wife
@katamadordelvalle7972
3 ай бұрын
He and the wife were having problems in the marriage that he fails to mention. Why didn't she want kids? He blames her changing for his cheating and walking out on her. He expresses no accountability whatsoever. He just says that he needed to work on his marriage the same way he worked on the relationship with the girlfriend while living with her and her ex. The girlfriend went back to the ex and had him move in to get this guy out. She used the excuse of not wanting to keep her child away from their father to wash her hands of her role in breaking up his marriage. I'm so glad he got dumped and in the most degrading of ways: by being cuckolded in front of his eyes. 👏
She was correct to never have kids with this caller. The levels of fantasy.....this dude should not be a father, he's a mess
@erismana2105
10 ай бұрын
He only used that reason to cheat . Cheaters dont make good parents
@dolphinbear661
10 ай бұрын
@@erismana2105 hey, whatever it takes to keep this out the gene pool, maybe in a decade or so, after staying alone and doing ALL the therapy, it's possible he could change his entire personality and live some truth. Maybe, 🤔
@redbougainvillea
10 ай бұрын
Yes, it's entirely possible his wife knew what a hot mess he was before he cheated and didn't want to bring children into it. Then he doubled down on his immaturity and turned that against her.
@erismana2105
10 ай бұрын
@@thecreativemind6675 its common sense but dead beat dads defend dead beat dads so go off
@lucindabreeding
10 ай бұрын
@@thecreativemind6675 You didn't ask me, but the cheater in my family wounded his children in addition to their mother. Cheating is a character issue, and I no longer believe a parent can be a good parent while simultaneously defrauding the mother or father of their children. Cheaters put their ego & their sexual gratification before their spouses and their children.
Sounds like KARMA!!! He gets what he deserves and I hope the wife finds a good man
So she had two men to support her and her child financially??? What a smart woman! 😂
@vanessasingh39
6 күн бұрын
And didn't have to lie about it, they were in the same house😂
@Peem_pom
4 күн бұрын
Neither of them married her though
@Peem_pom
4 күн бұрын
Honey it wasn’t only her child, one of the men was the father and was equally his responsibility to care for the child… you’re painting an inaccurate picture of a cunning woman, when all of these men are equally culpable!
He’s the kind of man I pray I never meet. I would rather die alone.
@ladybluelotus
2 ай бұрын
😂 same, love. I'm with you on that one.
@_AnotherOne
Ай бұрын
Man?!
@Steven-zt6rs
Ай бұрын
@@_AnotherOnecarrier of testicles
@leslietarter2096
Ай бұрын
Agreed
@MalesAreDemons
Ай бұрын
@@_AnotherOneYes MAN what is he
Dear wife of caller: Run away from this man-child. Run to your divorce lawyer’s office and file the papers. They DO NOT change. He’s just sorry he got what he deserved and now he wants you back because he has nothing else. He wants a pity party. Not a marriage.
@CrayolaCoffeeBean
3 ай бұрын
I wouldn’t even say he’s “sorry he got what he deserved,” but rather, he’s “upset or sorrowful that he didn’t get what he wanted”
@rebelks88
3 ай бұрын
In NC you can file papers with the court after a full year of separation and not need to pay a lawyer.
@marvin2678
3 ай бұрын
man child ?
@kathleenbueter1272
3 күн бұрын
@@rebelks88 In the meantime, needs to steer clear of him and not have anything to do with him
I’m glad he explained to him how it’s a glimpse of what his wife went through. And he has the nerve to say he’s lonely and tells her to check up on him.
Nope. Had same happen to me. 7.5 years, at age 24, he left for a girl he dated in 8th grade. Left me holding the bills, filing bankruptcy and being alone with no help from parents or anyone. I would have NEVER taken that back. Sorry. Especially hearing him talk about the girl he met that way STILL. Oh waaah I lost all I had…and your wife? Be off dude. Go sleep in your car at the rest stop 👋
@ABab-jf2jb
Ай бұрын
Hats off to you. Don't take anyone (male or female) back when they cheat.
As someone whose husband cheated with the most amazing ( LOL )woman in the world, who cheated on him dumped him and married someone else 2 months after our divorce was final, I can’t help but have a bit of a giggle at this. Actions have consequences dude.
@lorileonard5813
10 ай бұрын
@@prevaloir5362 LOL. No. I sarcastically called the woman he cheated on me with the most amazing woman in the world.
@SomeBody-ce3gq
10 ай бұрын
Girl you ain't alone, I'm laughing too 😂 good riddance!
@lucindabreeding
10 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry. This happened in my family and it sucks. It taints every memory you share with a cheater. It poisons everything. The only perk is knowing that our cheater will never ever truly bond. His high is his orgasm mixed with the excitement of conspiring against girlfriend du jour. We found out he was a true blue serial cheater. This guy is a mess. Apparently wanted a kid so bad that he made a semi-life with a woman who had someone else's child. Good god.
@Brainjoy01
10 ай бұрын
and this is why men marry the girl nextdoor but cheat with the instagram models. instagram models have no heart, and traditional "simple" women are considered boring or unattractive. its depressing.
@Hiiamsamm
10 ай бұрын
@@Brainjoy01 I wouldn't say it's just instagram models. It's anyone with more than average looks because there are more options to choose from in the gene pool. Male or female. It's basic biology at this point.
John should've called him out on how manipulative it is to randomly send your ex-wife, who you left, a suicidal text to keep her in your life. This dude doesn't deserve her or anyone at this point in time
@jet4415
10 ай бұрын
What a gaslighting move!
@bekind2416
10 ай бұрын
I think so too. I understand wanting to stay neutral and be kind to him but a good way to use the platform is to hold some people accountable because they do bad things. Even though it may come off harsh
@erismana2105
10 ай бұрын
proves what a lil b*tch he is
@msthang5366
10 ай бұрын
EXACTLY
@msthang5366
10 ай бұрын
@bekind2416 he lost all credibility to me.. I understand being kind. But this dude is manipulative and had self esteem issues that he needs to deal with, and that wasn’t address properly.
Even now he can’t be by himself. He doesn’t miss his wife, he just can’t stand the thought of being alone with his own presence.
You had a glimpse of the pain your wife experienced... Ouch!
To this caller’s wife: Please don’t take him back. He never would’ve called you or this show if his mistress didn’t break up with him. This man is using you to be his emotional dumping site. If he meets a halfway decent looking woman between now and the next time you all talk, guaranteed he’d put you on the back burner again. He’s not healed and it’s not your responsibility to be available to him.
@leehalloway8787
4 ай бұрын
Exactly. If his side piece didn't leave him, he would be having a good old time.
Ex left me for his co-worker. At the time I was devastated, now I am beyond grateful he's gone. I wouldn't take him back if he had a winning lottery ticket stapled to his forehead.
@blueseptember2174
8 ай бұрын
I hope to get to this point of gratitude. I'm still in pain.
@spectre3492
4 ай бұрын
Lol
@itzurgurlElenore
4 ай бұрын
he was a problematic person😂😂😂
@Xanadue.Xaviera
4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 *high five*
@phalynwilliams4119
3 ай бұрын
@@blueseptember2174, you will get there. It takes time. Start with gratitude and everything else will follow. It is a process.
So, if the ex-wife takes him back, he knows that she will take him back every time he meets a new woman and moves out. This guy needs to get his own place alone, get into therapy and find out who HE is. We know he's a louse but he needs to learn that also.
What a big slap in the face! I hope the wife doesn’t take him back. He only wants her back because he got dumped. He will definitely do it again
You can tell he feels no remorse for hurting his wife, he still said that his side chick was beautiful ‘like you wouldn’t believe’ he’s still caught up and heartbroken over her. He doesn’t care about his wife. This man is a coward and manipulative.
@tinasapienza6552
10 ай бұрын
He got what he deserved. He called the wife because he was lonely. He chose to destroy her world then goes running back when someone else destroys his. He’s a complete POS. Dr John was very kind handling this the way he did. Honest but still kind.
@catblack4091
10 ай бұрын
Yeah that pretty much made me want to vomit!
@stayroxy
10 ай бұрын
100%
@veracityhunter7777
10 ай бұрын
Yes I caught that as well
@cbase06
10 ай бұрын
Dude!! That’s what I was thinking
One of these days I want John’s response to be “That’s what you get. Next caller.” Sometimes you’ve got to call a jerk a jerk.
@33Jenesis
10 ай бұрын
Coddling people like this guy is never going to make them a better person down the line.
@georgewagner7787
10 ай бұрын
He's trying to make him face what he did.
@esmeraldagarcia2848
10 ай бұрын
😂🤣😆🤣😂🤣😂
@blackreign7661
10 ай бұрын
🤣😂🤣😂
@angorachic
10 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
Thank you John Delony for always standing up for women and children when they need you most! This man is delusional if he thinks he is worthy is going back as if nothing happened. He needs to be single for a long time and think long and hard about what he did, but most importantly he needs to make sure it NEVER a happens again. What a disgrace.
Wife, I hope wherever you are, you are healing and thriving. Without him!!!!!
He left his wife because she wasn’t sure if “she was a believer anymore.” But he goes around and cheats on her like the “believer” he is. Such a hypocrite, disgusting sinner.
@jimmytwotime6875
3 ай бұрын
Christians, am I right?
@dallasjansen2226
3 ай бұрын
Comical.
@tideio
3 ай бұрын
It’s a complete excuse
@kerrymillar1267
3 ай бұрын
And allows another woman to humiliate him by bringing another man home to live. It’s unbelievable 😮
@whispersinthedark88
3 ай бұрын
@@jimmytwotime6875 so right, all the men who have cheated on me were Christians...but they had the balls to say non Christians have no morals.
This man is not sorry for hurting his ex-wife.
@freedomdance7
3 ай бұрын
No he's not. He's just like leach, can't live on his own. Pathetic.
@hollyallyson4111
3 ай бұрын
Exactly. The only reason he's even trying to get her back bc he's homeless and familiar ppl feel soothing after a break up. I worry that she will take him back based off her reaction to him reaching out. I have unfortunately been in a similar situation before I went through therapy. At the time, I was willing to do whatever it took to get my ex away from the other woman, even if that meant taking him back. The situation was triggering something from my childhood that at the time I was unaware of. He used this exact same guilt trip on me - crying, no place to go - knowing I had a big heart and would struggle to leave him out on the street. That man tortured me for years but I eventually had enough and I am actually grateful to have been through the experience today. It opened up all doors and my life is significantly better now because of the healing work on myself I had to do in the aftermath. I hope she doesn't have to learn the way I did though
@hollyallyson4111
3 ай бұрын
I actually live in the same area as this dude. Wish they'd release his real name. I think he's around my age
@erismana2105
3 ай бұрын
@@hollyallyson4111 They have you fight to "save" them from the other woman/man all while stringing them along and crazy making with you, so when it's your turn to be left they already know what you will do to "save" them while they get the new supply "trained" . Also it's how they spin the "crazy ex" story because you have ripped yourself apart trying to fight a fight that was never real ..
@meilingflesa8140
3 ай бұрын
No he's not, he is only sorry his gf dumped him
This happened with my ex. 😂 He cheated on me with his co-worker. I found out 2 weeks after we broke up and I went back in the dating pool. 2 months later he texts me begging for me to come back. Monica got too clingy and he just wanted a FWB. I laughed so hard and said no thank you.
I love how John calls this guy an idiot without calling him an idiot. And the dude doesn’t even pick up on it.
This is a narcissist who feels sorry for himself and has no regard for others. Wifey if you’re reading this, don’t walk away, RUN!!!!
@liba4089
Ай бұрын
right! this is hovering! run, wife, run!
@joecuster6926
Ай бұрын
Truth
@moonsharn
29 күн бұрын
Absolutely!!
He mostly wants his wife back because this isn’t working. He will cheat again.😮
@isay207
10 ай бұрын
Never felt so alone I bet his wife felt this way when he left he didn't care then😂
@sueblack5794
10 ай бұрын
A future 5 time divorcee this guy.
@abbyxiong3931
10 ай бұрын
Yeah sad but he will.
@roymercer22
6 ай бұрын
Not necessarily. Conviction and redemption are real and Christ can change hearts.
@prettyfeet22
6 ай бұрын
@@roymercer22 you’re right. I hope he has changed.
This call gives me so much joy 😂 congrats buddy, YOU PLAYED YOURSELF.
He doesn’t deserve his wife! He threw her away life trash & when he got dumped, he wants his wife back! But only until he finds another woman to leave his wife for, AGAIN!
Did this dude say he felt distant from his wife because she wasn't a believer (assuming from a religious aspect) and then proceeded to cheat on her? I don't think religious texts condone cheating?
@meganchristensen3378
10 ай бұрын
Came here to say this!
@gessrinky9129
10 ай бұрын
I wish John would have checked him on that.
@lobi5104
10 ай бұрын
He is so oblivious to his own bs.
@chocolatte8301
10 ай бұрын
I was thinking this too
@CrystalM1917
10 ай бұрын
EXCUSES.
May his ex-wife meet a guy whose also been cheated on, and they live happily ever after forever laughing at their horrible exes.
@Skmskmskm
3 ай бұрын
This sounds somewhat similar to my story… and I would never ever ever ever ever take him back. God delivered me from evil For Sure!
@priyankapawar1912
3 ай бұрын
Yes, may that women finds a good man 🌻
@lucianaromulus1408
3 ай бұрын
That would be a dream come true.
@meilingflesa8140
3 ай бұрын
Good idea 👍
@tiawarren5403
3 ай бұрын
Agreed!
“Reap what you sow” means something.
The very next day after I found out my husband was cheating, with this "amazing woman who is going to elevate him in life (his words) " after 10 years of marriage, I come home the next day with him sulking, red in the face, crying and angry because she called off their affair and he tells me She betrayed him, he feels blind sided. Those words will forever be with me.
the audacity of this guy lmao got exactly what he deserves
@user-ih9dg3uz5y
10 ай бұрын
Me hairy drunkin ole Daddy got what he deserved. Another bottle of Jack Daniels
@jimsmith8359
10 ай бұрын
You all missed an important part of this. He was with his wife for seven years, and she said she didn't want kids. That's not a marriage. In truth, his first wife dumped him too. She said he wasn't good enough to procreate.
@OdachiRain
10 ай бұрын
@@jimsmith8359 he stayed with her for 7 years wasting her life and NOW he leaves because he finds a gf but now neither of them want him
@queenofswords420
10 ай бұрын
1000% eff this guy for real lol thats what he gets
@jimsmith8359
10 ай бұрын
@@OdachiRain he stayed with his wife for seven years, who didn't want any part in raising his children. Society has lost its mind. You totally dont understand what love and marriage is.
He left his wife for another woman and he's blaming her. Isn't he marvelous?
@mrv2308
Ай бұрын
I bet she takes him back… embarrassing
@AM-lc6hy
Ай бұрын
I didn't hear blaming. Guy asked a question and he gave his reasons.
@annewalden3795
Ай бұрын
This man only thinks about himself .Why doesn't he try to apologise to his wife because he might learn some useful information?
@kirstyvanwell4024
Ай бұрын
What a man. 💪🏻🤮
Proverbs 6:32 He who commits adultery lacks sense; he who does it destroys himself. This is a vivid example. There is forgiveness, but there will be scars and unintended consequences.
Thank you, Dr. John, for mentioning his need to tell the truth. He Um'd and Ah'd his way through the entire first part of the call. That he called his wife asking her to monitor his movements via GPS was beyond the pale. He was letting her know that if he did something horrible to himself it would be on her head. Another great summarization on your part.
He never said a word about missing his ex-wife. He is just desperate. Whatever problem he had with his ex-wife is not magically gone.
@1farahnaz
10 ай бұрын
Evenmore, his level of disrespect will become even worse after all of this as happens with abusers. Cheaters are emotional and mental abusers and he already did enough damage to last a lifetime. I hope his wife knows it had NOTHING to do with her, and everything to do with a weak-minded and amoral man.
He didn't cheat because his wife was losing faith and reconsidering children. He cheated because she's smarter and more capable than him and he couldn't stand that. He wanted a damsel, not a partner. And now he still doesn't want a partner. He wants a mommy and a therapist.
@NataliaSolakian-kc1sn
3 ай бұрын
He sounds like he needs to mature as a man with the Word of God. He shot himself in the foot. He needs Jesus and His Word and learn how to be a man of God.
My ex did this to me. Said it was the worst mistake of his life. Yeah only because she cheated + dumped him.
Stay single xx the grass is never greener on the other side! He is crying for himself, no one else.
When you jump straight to suicide threats as a sympathy ploy, before you barely have even apologized. This is a man used to getting his way.
@BrendaBaBoom
10 ай бұрын
🎯🎯🎯
@AP-vo2mp
10 ай бұрын
I would be embarrassed, but there is always that one manipulative person who only cares about himself/herself.
@Merbella
10 ай бұрын
Narcissist tactic!
@SirenaSpades
10 ай бұрын
Good point!
@Skyesoceaneyes
10 ай бұрын
And the way he said it sounded extra slimy and pathetic to me.
This is hilarious. Trash takes itself out EVERY TIME! I hope his ex is happy and healthy :)
@hotmess9640
4 ай бұрын
I wish the trash sitting in my kitchen would take itself out lol
@katiavoznaya2395
4 ай бұрын
Exactly what I wanted to say here! ;)
@tocaanimals4628
3 ай бұрын
The way I bust out laughing when he said she dumped me 😂😂😂
@caitlinjohnny3828
3 ай бұрын
Foreal and hope she finds a real man of God to love her like the bible tells him to and that she's sure of her faith. Salvation shouldnt be questionable
@zammymynakersnackstbmoth
3 ай бұрын
I hope she has the best hair day everyday and sleeps good every single night. ❤
It kind of difficult to feel bad for someone who caused themselves the self-inflicted wounds.
He wants his wife because her girlfriend dumped him? This is typical of a Narcissist. He only thinks about himself, he doesn’t realize the damage he creates. I hope his wife files the divorce ASAP!.I’ve been there and know his kind. It never gets better. Run!
“I left my wife because she lost her faith and didn’t want kids with me.” She probably lost her faith in Him and the Marriage. No woman wants to have children with a man who steps out on her! NONE.
@BagznBirdz
2 ай бұрын
And she knew he was looking to step out of the marriage first chance he got. Women have an instinct.
At least he got dumped by a “girlfriend”, his wife was dumped by her “husband” for some random girl he met at work. So if he thinks what he’s going through is painful, he should stop and think what his wife had to go through.
@otiliamanuelajurj
3 ай бұрын
This kind of ‘’man’’ doesn't feel any empathy or compassion for a woman.
@shiamaxwell3482
2 ай бұрын
It’s a good thing his wife didn’t have children with him , she can ghost him if she wants to, and I hope she does .
@thewrongshoes
2 ай бұрын
He probably doesn't care about anybody's feelings but his.
@jennprescott2757
Ай бұрын
Right? He obviously has no remorse at all
Delighted, hope his wife is living her best life.
He has shown his wife that she is disposable. Down the line she may decide he’s disposable, too.