I'm not my sister's puppet! [Hello Counselor/ENG, THA/2019.03.04]

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Hello Counselor EP. 402
- Guests : Hyunyoung, Seo Yuri, Cho Junho, Im Hyeonju, Ha Sungwoon
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  • @emmanuelaf.corputty7708
    @emmanuelaf.corputty77085 жыл бұрын

    Have to admit that they are beautiful sibling 😂

  • @harishpatel1599

    @harishpatel1599

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yeah that is why both participate in beauty pageant from young age but i really want them to find a perfect career for themselves specially younger one she has so much depression and later they can try for acting, modeling too

  • @maryjustinenicoleaguirre9011

    @maryjustinenicoleaguirre9011

    5 жыл бұрын

    BubbleTea 94 yep I also admit they are reallyyyyy beautiful sibling

  • @umulkheirandirahman3713

    @umulkheirandirahman3713

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@host2407 Wow😥

  • @h444llers

    @h444llers

    4 жыл бұрын

    Agree

  • @jjunielogy1733

    @jjunielogy1733

    3 жыл бұрын

    @ミlia_berryミikr

  • @MsHarosa
    @MsHarosa5 жыл бұрын

    "are you watching Sky Castle?,that's how yeongjae's life was ruined" hahahahaha

  • @orion9970

    @orion9970

    5 жыл бұрын

    The best comment ever

  • @victoriabarron4994

    @victoriabarron4994

    3 жыл бұрын

    Tell me how you know thats my real name (except the min)

  • @kizkizzess1892

    @kizkizzess1892

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@victoriabarron4994 😲😲😲😲😂😂😂😂

  • @andang5433
    @andang54335 жыл бұрын

    who's care if she good looking or not. She shouldn't be controlling her sister like that. I have a little sister myself, but I never trying to control her life like this. This is so wrong!!!!!

  • @irwinyco4237

    @irwinyco4237

    5 жыл бұрын

    My parents tell me to join singing competitions since I was good at singing since I was 3yr.old.But I told them I don't want to join it.Though they accepted it💗But it's still wrong to force someone else to do something for them.It's like you're the boss and someone else is the slave.

  • @hanh6822

    @hanh6822

    5 жыл бұрын

    What do you mean, people are just saying that the two sisters are pretty... It has nothing to do with attitude .

  • @rainbows5232

    @rainbows5232

    5 жыл бұрын

    but at the same time the other sister has a wick personality, and that what happens when you put two people at totally different spectrums. even if another person is at fault, you should still learn to hold your ground, if its not her sister, then it could be someone else. imagine if she had a controlling boyfriend, a girl like that wouldnt get out easily

  • @Aexxan

    @Aexxan

    5 жыл бұрын

    100% agree

  • @b.o1869

    @b.o1869

    5 жыл бұрын

    Your sister is lucky. unlike my big sis she controls alot especially that mom is not here anymore and I'm having a hard time 😪

  • @shinyg3837
    @shinyg38375 жыл бұрын

    The youngest is too nice. I hope she will find something that she likes! Fighting ✊

  • @choohah5604

    @choohah5604

    5 жыл бұрын

    She cares about other people too much which is good and bad in the same time.. 😣. Good luck pretty little sister 🖤

  • @christabeloj5237

    @christabeloj5237

    5 жыл бұрын

    I wish I was that nice 👍😫😫😫😫

  • @madeinbusanjkjm
    @madeinbusanjkjm5 жыл бұрын

    Irrelevant to the story but they are both so gorgeous! OMG

  • @ohjiggly2585

    @ohjiggly2585

    5 жыл бұрын

    Made in Busan hi my fellow jikook god

  • @Likelyfairy

    @Likelyfairy

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@ohjiggly2585 lmaoo

  • @sq64

    @sq64

    4 жыл бұрын

    OMG I LOVE U

  • @N.O.A.I

    @N.O.A.I

    4 жыл бұрын

    Woow Why am i happy to see your comment ..

  • @rurii1i

    @rurii1i

    4 жыл бұрын

    Made in Busan ikr!!

  • @MihiroNai
    @MihiroNai5 жыл бұрын

    People here have commented that at least her sister care about her. Well my mum care about me but she's the greatest control freak ever. I'm 28 and still have to tell her if I want to go out or I need to ask for her permission to travel. She also decided my career path and now my work is miserable even though around people say i'm lucky to be an engineer but i hate it so much. So I relate if people would say to the young sister "well she looks pretty and she won 1st place why is she complaining". She doesn't want to do it, that's what matters. My mum also would say hurtful remarks about my acne or weight and then later she says "I love you" ??? And if I say my opinion on something she guilt trip me and say I'm rude. That's manipulative behavior.

  • @Bucherviews

    @Bucherviews

    5 жыл бұрын

    I hope there's a way you can escape soon - you've only got one life, you need to start living it for yourself! I know it's more difficult than a lot of people think when it comes to emotional manipulation and parents, but honestly, it'll be for your own happiness in the end which is important above all. Stay strong x

  • @juleskumiknox2987

    @juleskumiknox2987

    5 жыл бұрын

    sometimes it’s nearly impossible to leave people but if it gets to the point where she becomes emotionally abusive, I hope you can put yourself first, best of luck

  • @ledylady9678

    @ledylady9678

    5 жыл бұрын

    Toxic mom. I'm sorry

  • @bsjdbhkqvwgusbbdjxjnsjbsdj9383

    @bsjdbhkqvwgusbbdjxjnsjbsdj9383

    5 жыл бұрын

    I dont mean to offend u, but what is your dream/goal? Y didnt u persue it instead of engineering?

  • @MihiroNai

    @MihiroNai

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@juleskumiknox2987 I'm soon able to leave so thanks for the support

  • @yeout_cookie4484
    @yeout_cookie44845 жыл бұрын

    *not gonna lie but these two sisters are beautiful af-*

  • @nayananandakumar6271
    @nayananandakumar62715 жыл бұрын

    To everyone who is telling the older sister still had the best interest of the younger one in her mind, yes she did but the way she was trying to do it was the problem. Its her sisters life and she should be deciding what to do with her life and not her sister. The younger sister is 22 an ADULT and not a child. Am an older sibling myself, my sister is 10yrs younger than me. I scold her when needed and support her with things when needed. That's how they grow up, you make take a wrong decision or make a mistake but that's how you learn to do things right.

  • @BB-bb9qr

    @BB-bb9qr

    5 жыл бұрын

    i wish my sister can be like you. I'm (20 yrs old) 10 yrs younger than my sister but she always clings to me and tells me what to do with my life. I shared my opinions but she scolded me for being disrespectful. I'm moving out this fall so I don't have to be stressed all the time.

  • @emilylhirsch
    @emilylhirsch5 жыл бұрын

    22:17 THIS DUDE STILL SHOOTING HIS SHOT IM WHEEZING

  • @sunnytae4565

    @sunnytae4565

    5 жыл бұрын

    IM GLAD I WASNT THE ONLY ONE WHO SAW IT SKSKSKSKKSS

  • @emilylhirsch

    @emilylhirsch

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@sunnytae4565 I WAS IKE WAIT HE STILL GOING HZK

  • @narutofanltw4873

    @narutofanltw4873

    5 жыл бұрын

    Omg just saw that hahahaahha lmao,it was cute at the beginning tho (when he first saw her).

  • @chimcham6762

    @chimcham6762

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lol fr! 😂😂😂

  • @borriblood7036

    @borriblood7036

    5 жыл бұрын

    Gross

  • @baekhyunstantbhbut9161
    @baekhyunstantbhbut91615 жыл бұрын

    i’m just going to leave this here because this strongly reminds me of something i heard just to get by: “Not all toxic people are cruel and uncaring. Some of them love us dearly. Many of them have good intentions. Most are simply toxic to our being simply because their needs and way of existing force us to compromise ourselves and our happiness. They aren't inherently bad people, but they aren't the right people for us.” Daniell Koepke

  • @RK-zf4jw

    @RK-zf4jw

    5 жыл бұрын

    👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @Jana_7
    @Jana_75 жыл бұрын

    Yeongja is an angel. Such a wonderful person. (just my opinion)

  • @Jojo01171

    @Jojo01171

    4 жыл бұрын

    My opinion too! She is an Angel and wish the guys would stop making fun of her!

  • @meisyadwimorlina5321

    @meisyadwimorlina5321

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think so

  • @w1nt3r9

    @w1nt3r9

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Liessa Abiane Be quiet

  • @nin4033
    @nin40334 жыл бұрын

    I'm glad the sister actually realized that she was in the wrong, the apologies usually feel so fake on this show but they actually seemed to solve their conflict

  • @angelinab.7590
    @angelinab.75905 жыл бұрын

    The two sisters are beautiful

  • @crayons1584
    @crayons15845 жыл бұрын

    the fact that one of the counselors/guests is still trying to ask her out after hearing about the problem🤦

  • @came8363

    @came8363

    4 жыл бұрын

    y u sad right? I thought I was the only one thinking that

  • @catherinesmith5793

    @catherinesmith5793

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lol I found that hilarious, the sis doesn’t seem bad tho she just loves her sister and wants the best for her a bit too much she’s like a parent controlling their kid and needs to let loose a little. My parents were like that and I kno they both love me to bits they just want what’s best for me and over time learned to be less controlling, the sister def will too she seems like a good person

  • @sextuplemillionsellersfan7961

    @sextuplemillionsellersfan7961

    4 жыл бұрын

    That’s a big problem in Korea, most Korean don’t care whether they have done something malicious as long as they are pretty or handsome And it is disgusting to me

  • @Faeriiexx

    @Faeriiexx

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@catherinesmith5793 Not an excuse. Love doesn't excuse controlling and disgusting behaviour like that

  • @bbibbi.8326
    @bbibbi.83265 жыл бұрын

    i can’t believe people are saying this ain’t a serious concern? munji, the younger sister, was hospitalized TWICE in ONE MONTH, but nOoOoOoooooooOoo the older sister just wants the best for munji right?? making her so stressed that she lost her hair and went to the psychiatrist is is TOTALLY wanting just the best for her right? just because she is good at it doesn’t mean she likes it yk. for example, compared to the rest of my classmates i’m really good at english but that doesn’t mean i want to participate in english storytelling competitions. i have terrible stage fright and going on stage makes me cry and shake like crazy bc i’m terrified. munji is beautiful and she is good at beauty pageants but it doesn’t make her happy. in fact, it made her depressed. just because everyone else is depressed doesn’t mean being depressed is normal and the fact that the older sister said that being stressed and depressed wasn’t a big deal INFURIATED me. if you love someone, let them do what makes the happy. if the older sister really loved munji, would she have made munji go through all that bullshit? you can encourage someone to do something outside of their comfort zone and that’s perfectly fine, but to force someone to do something they don’t like to the point where they’re crying every single day? that is not love. love isn’t making someone miserable for the sake off fulfilling your own dreams. love isn’t disregarding someone’s struggles, saying everyone struggles just like that nowadays. love isn’t dictating every single little thing they do. love isn’t thinking you know what is best for someone. they are their own person, they know what they want best and you either support them or you fuck right off. if you think this is love, then you probably are just like the older sister. i pity the people you supposedly ‘love’.

  • @alishaslimbicsystem3827

    @alishaslimbicsystem3827

    5 жыл бұрын

    FACTS

  • @idilkaraali

    @idilkaraali

    5 жыл бұрын

    Oh and no one said that it’s not serious, the studio has 200 people in it and 150 said that it’s a concern I don’t understand what you’re so getting worked up about

  • @saniyam1348

    @saniyam1348

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@idilkaraali fifty people is still a lot. and there are people in the comments that don't think its a concern.

  • @megan4826

    @megan4826

    4 жыл бұрын

    Literally preach

  • @catherinesmith5793

    @catherinesmith5793

    4 жыл бұрын

    It’s obviously Iove you can’t say the older sister doesn’t love her younger sister, she loves her so much she wants her to succeed and while she didn’t go about it the right way her intentions were not malicious she thought after a little tough love her sister would find happiness and success (cause everyone knows in SK success/wealth = happiness) yeah she should control her a little less but a lot of ppl who love like parents do that as well where they control a bit too much, that’s the concern and that’s the problem but don’t go saying she doesn’t love her sister that’s just bs

  • @urbantokyo4313
    @urbantokyo43135 жыл бұрын

    THE SISTER TELLING THE CONCERN LOOKS A LITTLE BIT LIKE WHEEIN FROM MAMAMOO TO ME

  • @peachyoo

    @peachyoo

    5 жыл бұрын

    looks like yeri from rv to me ^===^ KEJSAVKQJ (the sister who caused the concern, not the one telling KSJAK read it wrong :c)

  • @AtNightStar

    @AtNightStar

    5 жыл бұрын

    She looks like Jiwoo from Kard to me

  • @clover.9995

    @clover.9995

    5 жыл бұрын

    rightttt

  • @beething3458

    @beething3458

    5 жыл бұрын

    ....sigh

  • @eunhyyk9268

    @eunhyyk9268

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@beething3458 💀

  • @hkhan1338
    @hkhan13385 жыл бұрын

    Finally someone who actually looks like they'll try to change

  • @xBlueEyedGoldilocks
    @xBlueEyedGoldilocks5 жыл бұрын

    The younger sister is way too good for this world from what I can tell. She is super pretty and won competitions yet she doesn't have a high self esteem because she feels like she didn't work for it herself because her sister made her do it. She's also to nice to rob her sister from her dream even if all this time that meant doing things she hated and even got so sick of she had to be hospitalised twice in 1 month. She does say she doesn't want it but not enough to make her sister (and mother apparently as well) stop controlling her life because she knows they do it out of love (or so she says). Really she is beautiful inside and out and she really doesn't deserve this. I'm sure she will find her dream eventually but I don't really think she needs to find it right away. She is one of those people who will do good at everything so whether she wants to be a nurse, a police officer or something completely different she will do well. I hope she won't have to do those competitions anymore and that she can find her own dream and I also hope her sister can find her own dream as well.

  • @yujibell
    @yujibell3 жыл бұрын

    at first i didn't think older sis was that bad from her intentions, but the fact that she's dismissing her younger sister so much that she becomes physically and mentally ill is just awful. older sister needs to acknowledge the hurt she's been causing

  • @AyvrialMarmey
    @AyvrialMarmey5 жыл бұрын

    I feel like everyone needs a 영자 in their life. She gives good advice, is positive and can also make you laugh ☺️

  • @shjns_
    @shjns_5 жыл бұрын

    How can any of you watch her crying sadly and say that her sister has her interest at heart? Baffling. She went to a freaking psychiatrist!!!!

  • @catherinesmith5793

    @catherinesmith5793

    4 жыл бұрын

    Because she does nobody is saying the sister was right, but the older sister obvi loved her younger sister she wanted her to be successful and thought controlling her will do that so she wouldn’t make mistakes, while that’s wrong, she didn’t have malicious intent her intent was always good and that’s why this was able to be resolved by the end of the episode

  • @choohah5604
    @choohah56045 жыл бұрын

    I must admit that they both are pretty. But dont force people do the things that they dont like to do 😌

  • @gracio1231

    @gracio1231

    5 жыл бұрын

    Krystal Chi so true I for one don’t like to do anything by force from people

  • @lisaoppa5784
    @lisaoppa57845 жыл бұрын

    The pink guy look like he doesn’t wanna be there haha

  • @Serendipityismy

    @Serendipityismy

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lisa Oppa who is he?

  • @Sabrina-vc9yt

    @Sabrina-vc9yt

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@Serendipityismy Sungwoon from Hotshot

  • @yiwen4683

    @yiwen4683

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@Serendipityismy my baby sungwoon😭sad that wanna one disbanded

  • @yionane

    @yionane

    5 жыл бұрын

    Sungwoon from Wanna One (😭)

  • @izzrinscover9440

    @izzrinscover9440

    5 жыл бұрын

    HAHAHAHA

  • @spammmedubu
    @spammmedubu5 жыл бұрын

    I feel her. Actually maybe all the youngest in the family having older siblings or relatives who wants to dictate your life probably experienced this too. *The pressure they give you is too much stress for you to take. And when you fail, that pressure became a dismay.*

  • @victoriavlasov7270
    @victoriavlasov72705 жыл бұрын

    The younger sister looks so much like KARD Jiwoo

  • @cris6752
    @cris67525 жыл бұрын

    I only noticed sungwoon was there at the end, he’s so quiet that it makes him sMOL:

  • @shincarisma
    @shincarisma5 жыл бұрын

    I HOPE EVERY COUNTRY HAS THIS SHOW

  • @thefunnyfine1277
    @thefunnyfine12775 жыл бұрын

    She is such a nice girl! Really caring and lovely.

  • @marzipanmerci1068
    @marzipanmerci10685 жыл бұрын

    The big sister has a fierce look compare to the little sister, which has softer features, which probably one of the important keys to her winning the pageant. The big sister should just focus on herself instead of shoving her goals to the little sister. We should talk more about what the big sister wants to do with HER life instead of the little sister's life. With her persona, she could be a tiger mom, or a high achievement teacher, or a prominent image for her company or something along the line. She's fierce, driven and energetic. It's just she's coaching the wrong person. If she still wants to join the pageant herself, she definitely has no time to dictate someone else's life in the mean time.

  • @MissGenie0607

    @MissGenie0607

    4 жыл бұрын

    The older sister lost because she was too short and she doesn’t qualify for miss Korea due to her height

  • @stopbenedict2310
    @stopbenedict23105 жыл бұрын

    Older sister is a control freak the younger one needs to take a firm hold of her life and stand up for herself... Not everyone knows what they want to do with their lives while in their 20's let her find her own dreams and just be there to support her

  • @omaracevedo4784
    @omaracevedo4784 Жыл бұрын

    Both sisters are really pretty. The older one should continue to be in pageants since she likes them so much and let the little sister explore other dreams.

  • @rebeccatraster8162
    @rebeccatraster81625 жыл бұрын

    That whole family has great genes. Look at them at the end too. Theyre sparkling.

  • @VerYCrear
    @VerYCrear5 жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry but the older sister doesn't have her best interest. If she did, she wouldn't have allowed her sister to get to the point to have to visit a psychiatrist and she wouldn't say that all 20 year olds go through that. As a mother, I can say I'm strict when it comes to school and grades but I would never decide my daughter's career. I have a younger sister (11 years to be exact) and when she comes to me I always ask her, what makes you happy? Go for it! I can give my opinion but that's really all.

  • @VerYCrear

    @VerYCrear

    5 жыл бұрын

    @MidnightFlower13 At what moment did I say my child owes me anything? First of all, if you're a student, you don't work, you don't have siblings, you don't have bad parents, you don't have a physical or mental illness , there is no reason to fail at school. If you are here on KZread posting replies and you failed 2 classes that means you were slacking. An education is not for a parent but it is for you. I work 40+ hours a week, I'm a single parent of a teenager I have completed 2 degrees, 1 of them Magna Cum Laude and now on my 3rd degree and still 4.0 GPA. If you think life is hard right now when you're young wait until you're an adult. You'll be in for a rude awakening.

  • @danithehermit41126

    @danithehermit41126

    5 жыл бұрын

    29BWA That’s everything my mom would have said. We had no excuse when it came to school so I understand where you are coming from ( I’m not a mom but I am an adult) But also sometimes when you try your best you still fall short. For example I terrible at math and I worked really hard to get a C+, instead of my mom scolding me she applauded that I gave my best at something I suck at. However failing was never an option.

  • @VerYCrear

    @VerYCrear

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@danithehermit41126 I'm the same. My daughter struggles with math but I'm ok with a C. What's important is that you give your all. It's not about getting all A's it's about the effort. 🙂

  • @danithehermit41126

    @danithehermit41126

    5 жыл бұрын

    29BWA Exactly. However she’d never accept me failing anything especially since I was born in the land of opportunity as she says lol

  • @catherinesmith5793

    @catherinesmith5793

    4 жыл бұрын

    She does, she’s doing it out of love I’m not saying it’s rigjt but her intentions were out of love for her sister to be the best and most successful she can be her intentions were good and not malicious

  • @nadeuldan6195
    @nadeuldan61955 жыл бұрын

    I know this shouldn't be the focus of this concern but they're both so beautiful

  • @Izumi70V3Naruto
    @Izumi70V3Naruto5 жыл бұрын

    I always pay attention to their concern and everyy comment everytime I watch Hello Counselor But this time when my ultimate bias is hereee.. I cant take my eyes off Sungwoon 😅😅 He is so smoooool and cute compare to the others here.. Uri cloud is toooo preciousss OMG 💎💎💎

  • @yiwen4683
    @yiwen46835 жыл бұрын

    My baby sungwoon 😭 😭 I want to see 11 of them on stage together 😭

  • @tishellefrancois7840
    @tishellefrancois78405 жыл бұрын

    I cried because this is similar to what I went through I was forced to do a beauty pageant I didn't want to do and my self esteem dropped even lower

  • @brexlieza1317
    @brexlieza13173 жыл бұрын

    As Yoongi once said..it's ok to not have a dream right now, as long as you are happy. That's what matters.. It's what kept me going all this time being at my late 20's and still have not realized a dream 😔 We can find our dreams anytime but happiness is rare now a days we should hold on to it if it's there..

  • @a.j7781
    @a.j77815 жыл бұрын

    *When the younger sister cried I did to, I seriously feel her pain* 😭

  • @user-os9fx2ne8m
    @user-os9fx2ne8m5 жыл бұрын

    OML genes must be amazing in that family they are both so beautiful

  • @wmmv2019
    @wmmv20194 жыл бұрын

    I saw in the end of the show her sister is proud coz even her concerned problem got 150 score and be the winner of that week! She's always winning in everything she does , no wonder her sister so excited😂😂

  • @timslee0618
    @timslee06184 жыл бұрын

    This reminds me of how some parents force there kids into sports that young and when they get older they resent there parents. I agree with what Miss Young Ja said about some people find there goals in there 30's or 40's. That is what happened with me and I have friends who is supporting me to reach that goal

  • @kartivijay1109
    @kartivijay11095 жыл бұрын

    This is exactly what I dealt with, my parents always decided what I'd study or where I'd go and what job I was to get in the future, as soon as they gave up I had no idea what I wanted to do😞 but luckily I managed to realise I loved to teach and I'm finally gonna do what I want 🙌🏽

  • @gabylin07
    @gabylin074 жыл бұрын

    After i watched this, i feel so grateful for having my life now, no one controlled me, no one tells me what to do, i can do everything that i want and i can be anything that i want 💝 i hope she live a better life after this show and do what she wanna do. 💝

  • @arlo7493
    @arlo74935 жыл бұрын

    Wow she’s really pretty

  • @unanana2199
    @unanana21995 жыл бұрын

    There's a sulky boy between the mcs hhahahahahha

  • @sake-bc5ul

    @sake-bc5ul

    5 жыл бұрын

    totodiedes light and that sulky boy is sunghoon ♥️ who looks like he’s done with his life and is wondering why he’s there 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @unanana2199

    @unanana2199

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@sake-bc5ul i know who is he but smtm he really look like jimin at first glance

  • @aatikasaim4753

    @aatikasaim4753

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@sake-bc5ul he's not sunghoon he's sungwoon

  • @azaril8715

    @azaril8715

    5 жыл бұрын

    That's cutie sulky boy tho hahahhahaha

  • @cynthiasang7615

    @cynthiasang7615

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@unanana2199 and sungwon is jimin best friend right 😂

  • @katherineyen914
    @katherineyen9145 жыл бұрын

    WHY ARE THEY SO PRETTY

  • @delanie_black
    @delanie_black3 жыл бұрын

    Everything aside, They're both gorgeous

  • @teddy2271
    @teddy22715 жыл бұрын

    I'm kinda impressed how she can still be confident and outgoing when her sister is controllin her life too much

  • @sugarmilk28
    @sugarmilk285 жыл бұрын

    No matter how much someone says they love you.....maipulating, restraining, and having no respect for your own opinion is not caring. People who use the excuse that they love you to control you is suffocating.

  • @thesoonyoungtohoshi0615
    @thesoonyoungtohoshi06155 жыл бұрын

    I really do think it's so insensitive of the older sister to say that _anyyone in their 20s is stressed, everyone is depressed_ . She's saying it like depression is just a normal, everyday thing and it's nothing to be worried about. But when you're among those who are clinically diagnosed with one, it's a struggle. When you hear people like her talk about depression, it makes you feel more like you're just making up all the struggles in your head. It pushes you to deny the fact that you're in dire need of help. It makes you say to yourself, _no one can understand, everyone will think of you as crazy so just shut up and keep it to yourself_ and then one day, it'll be over for you. 😔 In this day and age, it's sad to know that there are still people who are so "uneducated" about mental health issues. Some are still not in touch with the fact that it exists and it can happen to everyone.

  • @catherinesmith5793

    @catherinesmith5793

    4 жыл бұрын

    She said depressed not that they have depression, and in SK that’s honestly kinda true

  • @razonjoanify
    @razonjoanify5 жыл бұрын

    Having the best intentions for someone specially a loved one means letting them making their own decisions, the older sister believes she has the right to control her life but she absolutely doesn’t. Let your sister live her life, and deal with yours more.

  • @gyuvie3071
    @gyuvie30715 жыл бұрын

    i am actually crying right now

  • @rapitasinaga6516
    @rapitasinaga65165 жыл бұрын

    I agreed on Yeong Ja words. You can find your goal anytime, be it on your 20s, 30s, 40s, or later or even ealier than that. As long as it is you who run the life not someone else, so you would notice what you truly want in life. The older sister should settled with giving advice and examples not directing.

  • @user-ns2ju3mt9s
    @user-ns2ju3mt9s5 жыл бұрын

    idk but she's so bright and pretty! ❤

  • @trancd822
    @trancd8225 жыл бұрын

    She is so cute telling her sister that she won't do pageant. Go girl!

  • @hareanaemahazien2767
    @hareanaemahazien27675 жыл бұрын

    When they get home YOUR ENTERING THE PAGEANT

  • @takameichigaro337
    @takameichigaro3373 жыл бұрын

    If I have an sister like her, I would literally move out of the house. She's so lucky her younger sister is so good and seems like to have a good personality.

  • @tiffinie9366
    @tiffinie93665 жыл бұрын

    just bc ur good at something, it doesn’t mean it makes u happy or its ur passion.

  • @ElizabethNathinge
    @ElizabethNathinge5 жыл бұрын

    The story of my life. My parents have a say in my life and I am scared to tell them anything because they always-- I'll cry while typing this. I relate so much.

  • @xsomili5501
    @xsomili55015 жыл бұрын

    These sisters love each other so much, compared to the other sisters that had been featured on this show

  • @shuzenloo6439
    @shuzenloo64395 жыл бұрын

    Why are they so pretty tho. 💕💕💕 It would've been resolved if she dares to speak up about her thoughts. Sometimes older sister/brother will have you do something because they think that you're still very young and incapable of doing your own right choices and they want you to do the right thing. I'm the youngest and I totally understand the younger sister but I also understand the older sister. Ps: srsly tho. They're so pretty. I can look at the older sister for days. I love her hair and makeup so much

  • @sojucea
    @sojucea5 жыл бұрын

    Her eyes are so pretty!

  • @yionane
    @yionane5 жыл бұрын

    Sungwoon oh my god💕💓💓💘💓❣️💓💌💓❣️💞💌💕💓💌❣️💓💕💓💓💕💕💓💌💘

  • @Esqm
    @Esqm5 жыл бұрын

    Match making session was hilarious lol they are beautiful siblings (I only got this far in the video so far)

  • @israwirantirahman8270
    @israwirantirahman82703 жыл бұрын

    They are really pretty

  • @354el
    @354el5 жыл бұрын

    Wow...if I had a sister who tried to do that to me, she'd catch those hands. Thank God my own sis is loving and wants me to find my own thing. This girl is lucky that her sister is such an angel.

  • @insanity6292
    @insanity62925 жыл бұрын

    I can tell that her older sister really thinks highly of her. I think if she just lets her younger sister be, she won’t disappoint her because she knows that her older sister is doing it out of love/concern. But since the older sister is getting involved and controlling her life, she wants to break free.... but it doesn’t mean that she has the rights to take control of her little sister’s life and place her bets because she sees potential... just because she can’t accomplish something does not mean that she has the rights live her dream through her little sister. But I can see how well both of these girls were raised...

  • @Dani_1012
    @Dani_10125 жыл бұрын

    The younger sister has the most gorgeous smile 😊☺

  • @chaerry5329
    @chaerry53294 жыл бұрын

    This is totally random but like, people from Daegu are so beautiful/handsome! ♥️

  • @jovitavania7224
    @jovitavania72245 жыл бұрын

    Woaaa that's Ha Sungwoon I miss him a lot

  • @sunshinesid514
    @sunshinesid5145 жыл бұрын

    Both of the sisters are very beautiful and i just hope the older one lets the younger sister do what she wants in her life and instead of forcing her broken dreams on her the older sister should change her dream or try to make it come true focus on what she wants to do

  • @ruthiralte6860
    @ruthiralte68605 жыл бұрын

    Ohh Sungwoon oppa 😍❤❤

  • @yuqiihx_9476
    @yuqiihx_94765 жыл бұрын

    I can relate to this. When I was in 5th grade my aunt forced me to take piano classes I didn't enjoyed it at all. So later on I quit but then I said I wanted to be a dancer or a designer in the future but my aunt said I should be a doctor and I don't even have an interest with being a doctor.

  • @angelicatamara7810
    @angelicatamara78105 жыл бұрын

    SUNGWOONIE!!!

  • @amajohn556
    @amajohn5565 жыл бұрын

    They are so beautiful

  • @flower-zn4ir
    @flower-zn4ir4 жыл бұрын

    Lmao if only i could send my concern to this show. Gurl, i just pretend you go there on my behalf. We got the same fate 😂

  • @shototodoroki3435
    @shototodoroki34355 жыл бұрын

    Dudeeeee 4:30 had me dead he wanted to ask the older sister out lol 😂

  • @juliak8684
    @juliak86844 жыл бұрын

    the younger sister is so sweet i think i'm in love

  • @nyckim2949
    @nyckim29495 жыл бұрын

    The Daegu dialect is strong... I love it !!! :)

  • @greshanworld4182
    @greshanworld41825 жыл бұрын

    Older sisters beauty is so eye catching

  • @enna8598
    @enna85985 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful siblings 💕

  • @imnotblackpinkfanimtheirai5300
    @imnotblackpinkfanimtheirai53005 жыл бұрын

    lol I'm dead when they play "We all lie" xD

  • @sunflowersandroses2521
    @sunflowersandroses25215 жыл бұрын

    They so beautiful I felt like I was watching a kdrama scene when they were talking to each other with the emotional music in the background

  • @ishi8994
    @ishi89943 жыл бұрын

    솔직히 드라마 좋아해요!

  • @nainaarora1885
    @nainaarora18855 жыл бұрын

    I have a slightly similar relationship with my brother... it's just hard....he is 10 times better than any other brother in the world but he is much too harsh...in a effort to make me improve my life he is too critical and constantly hurtful with words...I don't think he understands how much it hurts. Just because you are not using curse words doesn't mean aren't abusive in a way....this Barrier in communication has barrier between us

  • @dezsafauzahmaharantisuryan3231
    @dezsafauzahmaharantisuryan32315 жыл бұрын

    Both my parents did this to me once, and it made me almost didn't graduate from highschool. I fight them to let me choose my dream for the whole 8 years ever since i'm still in junior high. And finally they let me do what i wanted to. I'm doing quite well now in my college because i choose the major i want not theirs.

  • @qsister1
    @qsister15 жыл бұрын

    I teared up a bit too. I understand where the older sister coming from but you can't force someone life path. they have to do it themselves.

  • @belenlen18
    @belenlen185 жыл бұрын

    not important but they’re both so gorgeous

  • @misspapillon24
    @misspapillon245 жыл бұрын

    When you truly care about someone, you have to respect their autonomy. I can imagine what people would have said if the older sister was a man and said the things she said to her sister. Her words deeply wounded her and her actions are authoritarian. Maybe older sister isn't conscious or maybe she knows, but I hope things changes from now on and they develop a healthy sisterhood

  • @tammyling1873
    @tammyling18735 жыл бұрын

    Lol I’d JSUT like to applaud the editors for the song we all lie 😂😂

  • @sirilim4261
    @sirilim42613 жыл бұрын

    Ahh that piano track from My name is kim sam soon.. Gave me flashback.. thank u now Iam about to watch that drama again😂

  • @ntzkyh95-27
    @ntzkyh95-275 жыл бұрын

    This story really remind me of myself. A few years ago when I just graduated from high school and wanna sumbit college. My parents esp my father want me to become a doctor. At first I said I want to become physicolog, but they said nothings good come out of it. So, I start to negotiate with them and finally submit college with veterinary medicine major. Doctor for animals. The fact that till now I still not sure what I'm going to do in the future scary me. You dictate someone's dream make them have low self-esteem, anxious, etc. I hope the sister really change her mind, not just in front of camera. Actually they're a lovely family and beautiful sisters.

  • @esveaz

    @esveaz

    5 жыл бұрын

    cheer up! i very much root for you! i have dogs and in my place we really lack of vets. often cross my mind why i never thought about being a vet. (and no turning back for me cuz, i took accounting major) it's not like i dont support your actual dream. but i'm trying to ease you when you said you're not sure what are you going to do in the future. either doctor or physicologist are both hard jobs, but both helps others. both are good. and what could be better than helping animals who cant speak? :) i wish you luck and cheer up. fighting!

  • @ntzkyh95-27

    @ntzkyh95-27

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@esveaz Thank you so much for your kind words 💜 I got teary eyes reading it. It's just sometime I think it's ironic how I hate animals, don't really like touch them but I choosed this past instead to be a doctor like my father want. Even fore years now, I still cannot touch dogs because of my childhood trauma. I'm still overcame my trauma everyday.

  • @esveaz

    @esveaz

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@ntzkyh95-27 a friend of mine who work in animal field (im not sure what it is but he took care of many endangered animals) said that if you have a trauma against an animal thats starting from early childhood (not from before you were born) you can be cured slowly by using therapy. i hope you'll overcome it soon, dogs are precious and im sure they will love you too! :)

  • @ntzkyh95-27

    @ntzkyh95-27

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@esveaz I hope so too ~ It's during my kindergarten, when I were 4 or 5 y.o. A dog bark and chase me out so I have to hide in a drain. It's still clear in my mind lol, and there's 2 times that I got so scared. I like watching dog's videp like in SBS show. But to see it by myself nah... Btw, I think you're a nice person :)

  • @esveaz

    @esveaz

    5 жыл бұрын

    ​@@ntzkyh95-27 as for me my trauma is against rats and mice, it's so hard that i can't even see their animated pictures, or even their vids, i would cry or scream when i see one. my friend gave me a tip for the therapy you can go slowly from watching vids and seeing photos, later slowly seeing the real one (no need to straight touch them) until you can find what's good in them and you may slowly like them. well as for me now, i can see their pic/vids but still doesnt dare to see the real one XD i may suggest you look for different kind of dog breeds, maybe one of their type could be your favorite and it may help you cure faster. my suggestion is Pomeranian cause that's one of my fave. sorry for too long text ^^; . i think you're the first person to say that. hahaha. btw what year are you in vet major?

  • @oreopls69
    @oreopls693 жыл бұрын

    junho really make full use of the media, only those at scene are able to do such a thing so lucky. Sometimes i feel actors are lucky, able to experience different stuff in the film. He is trying out his luck to date the sister lol.

  • @namjoongivemesomeheight8583
    @namjoongivemesomeheight85835 жыл бұрын

    My family usually tells me that I should be an artist, but I say no. But they keep telling me. They dont force me, but I just like it as a hobby.

  • @rehanandleena149
    @rehanandleena1495 жыл бұрын

    i love that actress from revenge note anyone else

  • @ainasyuhada6184
    @ainasyuhada61845 жыл бұрын

    Thank god my sister is kind af eventhough she does nag a lot 😂. We're very close and i can say that she's my bestfriend i share everything with her, problems and also clothes, skincare, makeup. She always buy me things for me and support me. After watching this i realized how lucky i am to have such a great sister. 💕

  • @putria6338
    @putria63385 жыл бұрын

    SUNGWOON IS SO SMOLLLL 😍ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

  • @AtNightStar
    @AtNightStar5 жыл бұрын

    The sister telling the concern looks like Jiwoo from Kard

  • @bloodbabe.2226
    @bloodbabe.22262 жыл бұрын

    “You must tell her, If not you’re making her a bad person.” No she’s doing that by herself, her sister was hospitalized and crying everyday but all she cared about was her in the pageant.

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