I’m A Paedophile, Not A Molester | Ask The Mask | Channel 4 Documentaries

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‘We need a world where people can talk about this and they don’t end up dead.’
‘Mouse’ is a self-confessed ‘virtuous paedophile’, meaning he has a sexual attraction to children, but has made the conscious decision not to act on those feelings and abuse a child. Here, he faces some very difficult questions from members of the public.
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  • @Channel4Documentaries
    @Channel4DocumentariesАй бұрын

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  • @zarajones5428
    @zarajones54287 ай бұрын

    I think the blue haired woman was the only one who should've actually been on this panel. She was the only one able to not let emotions get in the way and speak sense. Writing people like him off (non offenders) as a "lost cause" only serves to drive them further away from attempting to get help and further towards offending.

  • @jabiro

    @jabiro

    7 ай бұрын

    why do you think they would offend at all?

  • @anthonygermain8025

    @anthonygermain8025

    6 ай бұрын

    Exactly

  • @kingy002

    @kingy002

    4 ай бұрын

    Well said, Zara.

  • @mabussubam512

    @mabussubam512

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@jabiroReasons. Nihilism. Opportunities. It's not a rule for them to offend, but there are reasons why they might.

  • @ombra711

    @ombra711

    4 ай бұрын

    There's barely such thing as a non-offender, I absolutely assure you that they own CP somewhere secret and are almost always caught with it. Viewing CP is offending (despite what this man says, he reworded a direct question, which leads me to believe he does have some form of CP) The other people on the panel are avatars for people who feel the same, people by nature are emotional, and their words reflect the exact thought of the many. You come off pretentious as fuck basically dismissing the input of "emotional" regular human beings, in favor of a clinical conversation.

  • @unknownmangafreak
    @unknownmangafreak9 ай бұрын

    It’s not “virtuous” to not attack children. It’s a bare minimum requirement.

  • @Maxibo234

    @Maxibo234

    9 ай бұрын

    The whole point is that he's a paedophile - he fancies children. He's got a mental disorder. The fact that he's willing to shoulder the burden unlike others who do molest children IS virtuous. These people need help. Molesters need prison.

  • @thefuturist8864

    @thefuturist8864

    9 ай бұрын

    True, but it *is* virtuous to refrain from acting out of desire when those acts would hurt people. Up and down the country there are people who attack others because they ‘didn’t like the look of them’ or some other selfish reason. A paedophile who has never attacked a child has caused less harm than someone who knocked the s**t out of some random person on the street. The ones we need to worry about are the predatory paedophiles who put satisfaction of their desire before the safety of a child.

  • @42o45

    @42o45

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@thefuturist8864 are you joking? Just because he hasn't acted out on his desires yet doesn't mean he won't it's only a matter of time he needs to be put down before it's too late

  • @danielcunningham6727

    @danielcunningham6727

    9 ай бұрын

    @@thefuturist8864 how do you know he hasn't acted on his desires? We only have his word on that he literally went and volunteered amongst young children you have to ask yourself his motives behind that as he wasn't very forthcoming about them which is even more suspicious if u ask me.

  • @FrostByteVoyager

    @FrostByteVoyager

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@thefuturist8864People don't realize how difficult it is. It's straight up a neurological deformity with wires crossing between maternal instinct and sexual attraction. It's a constant INSTINCT in their mind like a constant intrusive thought. Resisting it is very hard and we need to find better ways to help them cope these tortured individuals. These are people too, they feel disgusting and sick about themselves constantly.

  • @robharper6922
    @robharper69228 ай бұрын

    Unfortunately the woman with the blue hair was the only interviewer with the intelligence and mental capacity to deal with this situation. Maybe use her alone next time

  • @sarnobat2000

    @sarnobat2000

    7 ай бұрын

    Agree, the other woman seems unpleasant to me.

  • @thefrofairy

    @thefrofairy

    7 ай бұрын

    @@sarnobat2000 and hearing him express this wasn’t? She’s allowed to share her distaste but why cast her as unpleasant. She actually asked a very important question that nobody touched based on. Whether or not HE *himself* was ab*sed as a child

  • @theunemployedtrucker

    @theunemployedtrucker

    6 ай бұрын

    How would you deal and cope with sitting in front of this disgusting piece of crap trying to justify his sickening attraction to kids and kid's as young as 7 year's old. I think you would react just like every other human being who absolutely hates these disgusting things and get angry with him .

  • @theunemployedtrucker

    @theunemployedtrucker

    6 ай бұрын

    ​@@sarnobat2000Unpleasant are you for real, you think one of the women are Unpleasant and what the disgusting thing sat in front of her isn't for trying to justify his attraction to kid's as young as 7 years old.

  • @berrymckockiner5883

    @berrymckockiner5883

    6 ай бұрын

    ​@@thefrofairyhas nothing to do with the questions she asked, it was her energy and tone

  • @MP-mm1py
    @MP-mm1py9 ай бұрын

    My issue with this guy is that he admitted to intentionally putting himself in situations that have a high risk of him abusing a kid. Why are you volunteering at places with groups of kids?! He is intentionally tempting himself, and I don’t doubt he will “slip” at one point or another.

  • @aliciaa4000

    @aliciaa4000

    9 ай бұрын

    You have completely misheard what he said. He said pretty plainly that he knew he would not be a risk to the children when he volunteered. He did not in any capacity *intentionally put himself in situations that are high risk*. He does not feel as though he is a risk to children and yet still puts in precautions to avoid harm at all costs. Your belief that he will ''slip'' into harming children is unjust and frankly disgusting. It is very clear to me and to most that watched this interview that this is somebody struggling with a sexual perversion - a disorder of the mind. Something entirely uncontrollable and completely removed from any choice he could have made. Attraction is innate. Sexual perversions are medically recognized disorders. This person has in no way whatsoever done anything wrong.

  • @danielcunningham6727

    @danielcunningham6727

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@aliciaa4000 blah blah blah how do you know that? Check his hard drive I guarantee there's something dodgy on there.

  • @ZombieDragQueen

    @ZombieDragQueen

    9 ай бұрын

    You're assuming the reason he volunteers at places with groups of kids is for sexual gratification. We don't know where he volunteers or his motivation. As far as we know it might be a group for teaching children to make and fly kites because making and flying kites helped alleviate his anxieties growing up. I think what "Mouse" tried to get across is that his paraphilia is not obsessively compulsive as nymphomania/satyriasis. For all intents and purposes he could be anyone you meet. Maybe that teacher who seems to be harsh and overly disciplinary towards the pupils might be a paedophile, living BDSM scenarios in their mind and not that other teacher who seems to be very attached to the pupils claiming that they "get the kids, how they think and feel".

  • @Valdaur

    @Valdaur

    9 ай бұрын

    @@aliciaa4000I’m always suspicious of people who defend pedophiles.

  • @adil0028

    @adil0028

    9 ай бұрын

    He probably thinks he's Gandhi lmao

  • @cherylmillard2067
    @cherylmillard20679 ай бұрын

    His honesty is very informative, we need to pay attention to what he says and protect our children.

  • @davidz3879

    @davidz3879

    9 ай бұрын

    We don't know if he's being fully honest.

  • @DJMarcusGrant

    @DJMarcusGrant

    9 ай бұрын

    ⁠@@davidz3879but it’s the closest we’ve come to having an open dialogue with a paedo regardless of his level of honesty which is why this is so informative

  • @jkfdkjjd

    @jkfdkjjd

    9 ай бұрын

    @@davidz3879 The thing is about having that sort of attitude is that anyone on the panel or anywhere else could be a pedo and they aren't honest about it. You're sort of arguing that only people that are outwardly making a point out loud that they are disgusted by it aren't pedos which really obviously isn't the case. Like I have my suspicions that all these vigilante types that you see on the news occasionally like those are the real meta pedos.

  • @davidz3879

    @davidz3879

    9 ай бұрын

    @@jkfdkjjd I still wouldn't trust him.

  • @duxvoid2437

    @duxvoid2437

    9 ай бұрын

    Keep em of the Internet

  • @freya7084
    @freya70847 ай бұрын

    Tbh it must be horrendous to realise you are attracted to children

  • @James_the_Joe-ye9kc

    @James_the_Joe-ye9kc

    Ай бұрын

    It really is- coming from experience ;-;

  • @Simply-Director

    @Simply-Director

    Ай бұрын

    @@James_the_Joe-ye9kc wtf

  • @wolfeboyblue2186

    @wolfeboyblue2186

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@James_the_Joe-ye9kcsame man, I get it

  • @wolfeboyblue2186

    @wolfeboyblue2186

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@James_the_Joe-ye9kclike I'm sobbing right now just now discovering help for it after years

  • @James_the_Joe-ye9kc

    @James_the_Joe-ye9kc

    Ай бұрын

    @@wolfeboyblue2186 Do you have a safe support system for your paraphilia(s)? Places like Virped and MSC id recommend looking into if you haven't heard of them.

  • @asukasheridan7879
    @asukasheridan78799 ай бұрын

    I think the girl with the short hair hit the nail on the head with the last questions she asked and her summary at the end. There does need to be more open conversation around pedophiles being able to talk about their intrusive thoughts to enable all parties to understand and prevent any harm to children. This does NOT mean accept pedophilia but to recognise the problem and to get people the help they need to keep children safe. The more they are all demonised and labelled “a lost cause” the problems and issues are not being helped in any shape or form.

  • @mookchie

    @mookchie

    9 ай бұрын

    just a correction: intrusive thoughts are very different to this. people with intrusive thoughts don’t actually want to do or even think about the things they’re imagining. i understand the confusion but it can be quite stigmatising, especially as a lot of people struggling with pocd may actually think they’re p*dophiles when they are not

  • @lj8549

    @lj8549

    9 ай бұрын

    Nonce sympathiser. The ONLY known effective treatment for pedophilia is a bullet. The only other option is to jail/section him.

  • @asukasheridan7879

    @asukasheridan7879

    9 ай бұрын

    @@mookchie I understand what you’re saying especially around pocd and people believing things that aren’t actually true. Intrusive thoughts can still be thoughts that people might want to perhaps act on but hate that it’s a reoccurring thought in their mind. Trying to compare anything with the topic of pedophilia or relating to its thought process is a stigma nobody wants though so that I understand.

  • @barryoffeastenders

    @barryoffeastenders

    9 ай бұрын

    It’s tricky because essentially they are a lost cause. No amount of therapy will ever stop these people being attracted to children. Other than incarceration or chemical castration there is no way to stop them posing a danger to children

  • @senkuishigami3075

    @senkuishigami3075

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@barryoffeastendersmaybe getting to understand them will help on avoiding children getting harmed by them

  • @nocturnalnataliee
    @nocturnalnataliee9 ай бұрын

    If you're not emotional, intellectually, compassionately or educationally equipped to interview on this subject then don't. The damage can be significant. We need virtuous paedophiles to be open and talk about this, in order to protect children. If we shun, punish and judge the few opening that dialogue then we further push this underground, and by default, increase risk to children

  • @paparoachluver4eva

    @paparoachluver4eva

    8 ай бұрын

    I agree however as he doesn't go to therapy and he is actively and intentionally putting himself in temptations way (he volunteers with kids so he can perv on them). He's still a danger, it's only a matter of the time, it's the same with anything. If he was as virtuous as he clams, he would make sure he didn't go around children.

  • @ThePrincessnady1

    @ThePrincessnady1

    8 ай бұрын

    @@paparoachluver4evahe went to therapy. What else can he possibly discuss with a therapist? Also I’d imagine it’s very difficult to avoid kids altogether

  • @sistamya9981

    @sistamya9981

    8 ай бұрын

    @@ThePrincessnady1well volunteering with children doesn’t make it any better 😕 if therapy don’t work then throw the dude in jail or kill them simple as that

  • @llamapartyy

    @llamapartyy

    8 ай бұрын

    I do agree, however i don't think ANYONE with these desires should be normalized, and therapy should be a must

  • @gazeta925

    @gazeta925

    8 ай бұрын

    @@sistamya9981 this will be problematic, pedophiles could reach up to 5% of the population

  • @shus5787
    @shus57879 ай бұрын

    Protect our children at all costs

  • @naysx12

    @naysx12

    9 ай бұрын

    Definitely!!!

  • @shush97

    @shush97

    9 ай бұрын

    Probably the same parents who let their kids use tik tok and buy gta are saying "protect our children"

  • @lorraineq

    @lorraineq

    9 ай бұрын

    This is TRYING TO NORMALISE AND DESENSITISE US FROM HEARING FROM THESE SIK "PEOPLE"

  • @RooiT

    @RooiT

    9 ай бұрын

    @@shush97 dam bro bought GTA into this...

  • @FinancialHealth-ku1ry

    @FinancialHealth-ku1ry

    9 ай бұрын

    Too late

  • @wofutokerati
    @wofutokerati9 ай бұрын

    You can tell by reading the comments here who has kids, and who just wants to be Batman. As both a father of 2 and a Teacher, I think it’s utterly imperative that we don’t push these people into dark fringes through fear of physical harm. Recognition is NOT acceptance.

  • @ashadeofnight

    @ashadeofnight

    9 ай бұрын

    Exactly. Saying "just lock up/kill him" is effectively saying we don't want to try to intervene before a child gets abused, let that first child be abused then we will act. It's immature posturing.

  • @Daneal732

    @Daneal732

    9 ай бұрын

    Absolutely

  • @lj8549

    @lj8549

    9 ай бұрын

    There is no effective treatment for pedophilia. The only way to protect children is if he’s non-existent or jailed. He performed charity work around children because he fancied them. He thinks about children when he engages in sexual activity. The lack of insight in your comment is sickening.

  • @KB-hu7gu

    @KB-hu7gu

    9 ай бұрын

    @wokutoferati nope, not having that. If he chooses to go into "dark fringes" that is his choice, not something people made him do. Just like he chose to volunteer at a children's event so that he could eye them up. These people and their actions are not only insidious but deeply damaging to children and their parents. I speak as a victim, abused at the ages of 5 and 6, now a mum to a 6 year old and a teacher. I do not feel sorry for him that he feels suicidal, I deal with those thoughts on a weekly basis due to the abuse I endured because one of them thought it was ok to fulfil their sick fantasies. The only way to deal with these people is to isolate them from children completely. If that means shipping them off to an uninhabited island, so be it. The safety of children should be paramount in any society and while there remains no cure for these monsters, they need to removed from the society they share with children

  • @alexanderjohnson8333

    @alexanderjohnson8333

    9 ай бұрын

    @@ashadeofnightyou clearly lack the understanding. There is no treatment. Eradication is the only way

  • @kimle190
    @kimle1908 ай бұрын

    The fact that he has intentionally put himself in situations where he has access to kids is a recipe for disaster, its like putting a recoving alcoholic in a shop full of alcohol.

  • @infinitefather

    @infinitefather

    8 ай бұрын

    and the thing is the fact that it isn't even about having a relationship with them (in which would have some sort of barrier to first go through having a human connection before any of that other stuff), they are just mere objects of his desire - nothing different than a bottle of alcohol to an alcoholic.. so him being in those places is completely different than if he was a heterosexual around the opposite sex because at least there's on the same level - paedophiles are literally only about s** and that's exactly why they shouldn't be around them. so staying a pedo is pointless and only a recipe for disaster, they need to seek help.

  • @wudly9195

    @wudly9195

    8 ай бұрын

    The fact that hes ''accepted'' his desires and called himself a pedophile, as if it is a valid sexual orientation, shows how evil he is. Those thoughts are NOT normal. He needs to see psychiatrist. There needs to be some pedophile conversion therapy

  • @pharaohhermenthotip1553

    @pharaohhermenthotip1553

    8 ай бұрын

    @@infinitefather”paedophiles are literally only about sex” - what? How could you possibly know the psychology of a paedophile - assuming you yourself aren’t one - let alone make generalisations about all individuals who are paedophiles? Even in this interview the guy admits to being attracted to the personality of children. So I have no idea what possessed you to claim paedophiles only care about sex, and not love or anything else

  • @infinitefather

    @infinitefather

    8 ай бұрын

    @@pharaohhermenthotip1553 too bad they can't form a relationship with one. and no paraoh herment hotip, i am not a paedophile, maybe i just can't stand conversations with kids because there is no levelled conversation. what possible relationship could a pedo have with a fucking kid other than babytalk? thats nasty as hell, love that can't be reciprocated either which is just a delusion if u think that a kid would ever want to be with a fat old f*ck.

  • @skyandrews2613

    @skyandrews2613

    8 ай бұрын

    @@pharaohhermenthotip1553 That is not love! It can't ever be reciprocrated and frankly it is selfish. As a surviver, do you know what it does to a person as we grow up when we learn an adult befriended us just so they could use us or that they just viewed as an object of desire? He should be doing everything in his power to stop it, including not be around any children at all.

  • @rubz794
    @rubz7948 ай бұрын

    blue haired girl was the only one who didn't villainise him and instead tried to understand him. if people understood them more then they'd be able to get the help they need and prevent any abuse from occurring. right now they're stuck not knowing what to do with their intrusive thoughts and desires.

  • @Bot-rp7rj

    @Bot-rp7rj

    8 ай бұрын

    What a surprise the lgbtq supports this

  • @danielcunningham6727

    @danielcunningham6727

    8 ай бұрын

    Imagine my surprise that a rainbow warrior was sympathetic towards a nonce....

  • @prodcr16

    @prodcr16

    8 ай бұрын

    @@danielcunningham6727FACTS

  • @moshibunz

    @moshibunz

    8 ай бұрын

    Wtf understanding about being attracted to children

  • @rubz794

    @rubz794

    8 ай бұрын

    @@moshibunz understanding them so we can prevent abuse from occurring. these people need therapy and serious psychological help. if they're met with hate it won't help.

  • @teknon0tice
    @teknon0tice9 ай бұрын

    It cannot go understated, (whatever strong emotions this evokes in people), that anyone who is willing to speak openly about having these sexual inclinations, rather than keeping those thoughts to themselves so they escalate) should be encouraged to do so. There needs to be a clear message for people like him, that help and rehabilitation is available if they’re willing to come forward. Much though that may pain some people, if we can’t offer that basic compassion for situations like this, you will end up with many more people getting hurt.

  • @Maxibo234

    @Maxibo234

    9 ай бұрын

    Finally someone capable of more than a tabloid kneejerk reaction!

  • @themuttsrightnut

    @themuttsrightnut

    9 ай бұрын

    Sounds like normalising to me. Let's understand them from a distant planet

  • @goddz6145

    @goddz6145

    9 ай бұрын

    They should be put in a mental institution !

  • @ashadeofnight

    @ashadeofnight

    9 ай бұрын

    Absolutely. Refusing to consider intervention before children are abused is effectively saying you are ok with more children being abused

  • @Alapahauk

    @Alapahauk

    9 ай бұрын

    Yes, like you, very very few (accept the paedos themselves) can understand this rubbish, probably like 0.02% of the male population - yes they live amongst us and we'd never know. But mate, listen up! There is no help for anyone to 'get rid of' a sexual fetish/fantasy - These people don't need to 'control' their urges, 1) they don't want/need to (it's their little secret) and 2) they will almost certainly never act on them because for the most part they are 'normal' and are integrated into society, raised by good parents, know right and wrong, have compassion and empathy and dont want to hurt an innocence of a child. The whole point of this nonsense being given air time is for paedophilia to eventually be accepted and normalised. welcome to the agenda of the progressive clown world we live in. The final word from the actors in this debacle was: ""I don't think he is an evil person, what I take away from this is that not all paedophiles are going to go out there and intentionally molesting children". - The programming of the masses and normalisation of paedophilia is coming. I hate this world"

  • @nerdiisage6032
    @nerdiisage60329 ай бұрын

    It’s a mental disorder for sure, I’m sure he doesn’t want to be like this I can’t imagine anyone would but I’m thankful that he’s so open about it because we can learn a lot of information to keep our children safer.

  • @danielcunningham6727

    @danielcunningham6727

    9 ай бұрын

    Bollocks is it what has society become? We're now sympathising with paedo's?

  • @melfarm9109

    @melfarm9109

    9 ай бұрын

    Yes!! Very few mature, understanding comments in here, but yours is one of them. There's no point in them chastising him, he's trying to explain who he is and how he feels about things, but they don't seem to want to even listen.

  • @abizarreyoutuber6317

    @abizarreyoutuber6317

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@melfarm9109you said it well

  • @vandam30

    @vandam30

    9 ай бұрын

    @@melfarm9109 found the groomer

  • @rogersmith7525

    @rogersmith7525

    9 ай бұрын

    @@melfarm9109 some of these people are parents, do you really wanna listen to a person that wants to r***** your chid?

  • @kellsatmosphere
    @kellsatmosphere8 ай бұрын

    It must've took huge guts to come forward and talk like this

  • @CravingSolitude

    @CravingSolitude

    3 ай бұрын

    He’s literally hiding behind a mask.

  • @princillathornton3846
    @princillathornton38469 ай бұрын

    It’s really scary that he’s been allowed to work with children and he doesn’t really realise that this ‘attraction’ is wrong he just danced around the question…

  • @Philopolitico

    @Philopolitico

    9 ай бұрын

    He does talk about the “stigmatising” affects about drawing comparison to homosexual relationships and his attractions, which is a clear declaration of his knowledge that it’s wrong surely?

  • @watermelonineasterhay

    @watermelonineasterhay

    9 ай бұрын

    Thats the thing, as he's never been convicted of actually doing anything, there's no mind reader to say he's attracted to them.

  • @lj8549

    @lj8549

    9 ай бұрын

    @@Philopoliticowell he still seems to think it’s okay for him to work with kids

  • @theisopodgod7414

    @theisopodgod7414

    9 ай бұрын

    What is more frightening is that we live in a society where the Government wants to Normalize Pedophilia with PR stunts like this that are trying to Normalize and Humanize these monsters.

  • @charlessarsfield2816

    @charlessarsfield2816

    9 ай бұрын

    The attraction in and of itself isn’t morally wrong, what’s wrong is to pursue action based off of that attraction

  • @neilhunter495
    @neilhunter4959 ай бұрын

    Three things on my mind when watching this... 1) The pannel although restrained don't seem mature enough to be having this conversation (except on occasion the girl with the blue hair). Although it's an EXTREMELY uncomfortable position they're in, they seem more pre-occupied by trying to prove that they're the ones who are virtuous by not being paedophiles. Instead of listening to what the guy is saying and thinking critically about how someone like this can be dealt with appropriately, they're instead waving pitchforks for everyone to see. 2) 'Virtuous' isn't the term I'd use. 'non-offending' seems more fitting. 3) They of course found a gay paedophile to interview, enforcing small minded stereotypes. Well done channel 4...

  • @liannawilliams5210

    @liannawilliams5210

    9 ай бұрын

    I agree on all points you've made! This is a topic that needed professionals/academics who study this area.

  • @cmdjk1

    @cmdjk1

    9 ай бұрын

    I don’t think the panel were trying to act virtuous. I think they were deeply disturbed and somewhat emotional. But not virtuous. They had a normal, human reaction. Yes the conversation would have been different if they had a panel of people who didn’t let emotions guide them but I certainly don’t think the panel were acting self righteous in anyway.

  • @cmdjk1

    @cmdjk1

    9 ай бұрын

    @@liannawilliams5210But I think they wanted it to be discussed with everyday people.

  • @666Etnies666

    @666Etnies666

    9 ай бұрын

    I agree, I wonder if they had a panel of people in say 20’s, 40’s and 60’s maybe?

  • @davidharris3948

    @davidharris3948

    9 ай бұрын

    Yeah blue hair seemed to get the point of the interview the others didn't have the intelligence to actually grasp what they were there for.

  • @JSandwich13
    @JSandwich139 ай бұрын

    While i dont agree with him, as a victim of people like this, we need to make it to where people struggling with these thoughts have a place they can be open about it without judgement so we can get them the help they clearly need and prevent them from harming anybody. Once they've harmed someone, it is a different story.

  • @lj8549

    @lj8549

    9 ай бұрын

    Jail them. Only sure fire option. There is no effective therapy.

  • @JSandwich13

    @JSandwich13

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@lj8549It does seem that that's the best option right now. Especially since he said that most of them are resistant to therapy. At the end of the day, protecting kids is the most important thing.

  • @MrMarvel1984

    @MrMarvel1984

    9 ай бұрын

    No one would come forward if it meant jail. You'd then have to wait for them to commit the act. It is better to treat it as a health issue and offer them suppressants so they don't have the urge act.

  • @JSandwich13

    @JSandwich13

    9 ай бұрын

    @MrMarvel1984 yes. This was my thinking. And jail doesn't solve the problem. It doesn't help. It just locks them away which is good at keeping them away from potential children they could harm, but not good at giving them ways to cope or healthy outlets for their feelings or anything else which would prevent harm to children later down the line.

  • @nickclarkuk

    @nickclarkuk

    9 ай бұрын

    You provided the first comment I agree with here . I’m also a survivor of abuse by a man like this. We should do as in Germany where the Dunkelfeld project allows treatment before they offend without reporting them to the authorities . I don’t believe they can help attraction to minors in the same way as I can’t stop being attached to adult women . We should offer help to them to prevent harm to children without fear of reporting while they have not offended . If they do offend they should be immediately reported to prevent further harm .

  • @Sssssssslf
    @Sssssssslf9 ай бұрын

    I don't believe for one second that he hasn't viewed child abuse images, the ease and temptation is far too great for people like him

  • @Philopolitico

    @Philopolitico

    9 ай бұрын

    Given he has come on this interview and admitted to something he knew would have him labelled as a monster, surely some trust can be given in that he’s already being very honest?

  • @Sssssssslf

    @Sssssssslf

    9 ай бұрын

    @@Philopolitico I guess, I believed everything else he said just not that

  • @toeworm

    @toeworm

    9 ай бұрын

    How do YOU know what they feel💀💀

  • @Dylan-it5vi

    @Dylan-it5vi

    9 ай бұрын

    @@Philopoliticonah he said that cos it’s illegal.

  • @Philopolitico

    @Philopolitico

    9 ай бұрын

    @@Dylan-it5vi it’s definitely a possibility. My point was that the law is definitely not the worst trouble he could find himself in if his identity was revealed. Yes, he could go to prison for admitting to that. However, the social stigmas - which don’t apply to only illegal activities - and the violence attached to those would be far worse in his likely estimation, don’t you agree?

  • @DJTheBlondeSpirit
    @DJTheBlondeSpirit8 ай бұрын

    THIS IS NOT A SEXUAL ORIENTATION IT IS CHILD ABUSE

  • @binghamguevara6814

    @binghamguevara6814

    8 ай бұрын

    Read about early the Roman emperors, Hadrian, Caligula. Augustus, etc homosexuality and pederasty are brothers.

  • @carloscastro1192

    @carloscastro1192

    8 ай бұрын

    It’s not child abuse to be a pedophile. It is an involuntary thing. If you act up on it, then it’s a different thing

  • @gurogaisha

    @gurogaisha

    8 ай бұрын

    ​@@binghamguevara6814 listen dipstick if you think wanting to pound a dude makes you a child predator, your mother along with every other heterosexual woman in your life should be boiled in liquid feces for being pedophiles.

  • @benny1089

    @benny1089

    8 ай бұрын

    ​@@carloscastro1192Fr, no, it's not a sexual orientation, but it isn't child abuse if it's not acted on.

  • @selmahare

    @selmahare

    8 ай бұрын

    But he hasn’t abused children, so it’s not child abuse in his case. It’s a sexual deviance that he’s had under control.

  • @soshi4155
    @soshi41559 ай бұрын

    being sexually abused as a child continues to ruin my life. he’s confident enough to voice that he’s a pedophile and should be put on a list. especially as he volunteered to work with children. that should not have been allowed. he’s a danger to kids, even if he claims to not act on it. he shouldn’t be around them

  • @FrostByteVoyager

    @FrostByteVoyager

    9 ай бұрын

    Whilst I agree, people like this man who get therapy and do not act on their urges are the earliest example of treating this. It's even more important when you realize people develop these attractions when they have been abused also. This is something that can just spontaneously develop.

  • @davidz3879

    @davidz3879

    9 ай бұрын

    Action won't be takes against him unless he's arrested, so he can volunteer without being detected or stopped.

  • @cherylmillard2067

    @cherylmillard2067

    9 ай бұрын

    @@davidz3879 Unless he commits an illegal act, he can't be arrested. If a person could be arrested for thinking about performing an illegal activity, quite a few of us would be getting our mugshots taken.

  • @tcgfade0ut

    @tcgfade0ut

    9 ай бұрын

    I too was sexually abused as a child. I'm so, so sorry that we have that in common, and for what happened to you. I say that so you know how much I mean it when I say that, emotionally, I agree with absolutely everything you've said. Intellectually though, being purely objective, I have to ask the question: We're attracted to men/women. Why is it that we're automatically assumed to be safe around them? I think that's the point he's making. You don't choose who you are attracted to. But you do choose whether or not you become guilty of rape, or sexual assault. Being attracted to someone, doesn't in and of itself make you dangerous. And that must be true, else we'd all have some serious issues, not just a tiny minority of people. It's a really, really hard subject to deal with. And it's not helped by the fact that mostly, we're lead by our disgust toward these people, or we don't want to think about it at all. Rationality tends to leave the room. Really hope you're doing well.

  • @goddz6145

    @goddz6145

    9 ай бұрын

    @@FrostByteVoyager it’s a mental disease it can’t be fixed there are studies. In london they do electricity shock on there brain and it still don’t stop it

  • @emilyleander3597
    @emilyleander35979 ай бұрын

    I was molested at 6. When I tried to tell my sister and parents they thought I was making it up. This led me to start exploring sex with other children my age. The mental impact and turmoil that one incident caused me has ruined sex for me as an adult.

  • @lj8549

    @lj8549

    9 ай бұрын

    Sorry to read about experiences. There is NO effective therapy for pedophilia. The only way of protecting children is to jail these monsters or for them to become non-existent. Please report/dislike/unsubscribe if possible; it’s the only way to have the content deleted or voluntarily removed.

  • @Lv-hr2hh

    @Lv-hr2hh

    9 ай бұрын

    Do you now have blue hair and piercings?

  • @alexanderjohnson8333

    @alexanderjohnson8333

    9 ай бұрын

    @@Lv-hr2hhthat is such an inappropriate comment to make. You’re vile.

  • @cassanateli

    @cassanateli

    9 ай бұрын

    @@lj8549 So your response is to NOT understand it better and NOT learn how to deal with it more effectively? Do you realize your approach has led to countless people not getting caught for their crimes?

  • @MikeB-Android-Teacher

    @MikeB-Android-Teacher

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@cassanateli- A lot of these people aren't terribly bright buddy and it's best to just leave them to their own devices.

  • @IMold363
    @IMold3639 ай бұрын

    So I’m a psychologist and I find it interesting that we know so much of the science behind all types of people some would say are “abnormal” but so relatively little about these people. We have very little idea of how prevalent it is, precursors, individual differences… so many mysteries because it’s so taboo and even expressing a need to investigate rather than condemn is frowned upon. How can we fix what we don’t understand? Edit: for the people saying “just seek therapy”…that’s a very shortsighted thing to say. There are no “gold standard” reliable therapeutic treatments for this because again we don’t know enough. Also, what are you willing to bet that most therapists or psychologists would report people with these feelings Immediately? It’s becoming increasingly clear that not all pedoph*iles act out their fantasies. Be interesting to see why/why not

  • @user-ds3my5vm6m

    @user-ds3my5vm6m

    9 ай бұрын

    I'm a mental health practitioner and I too feel the same concerning the dangerous space of research into such persons.

  • @skyandthemoon

    @skyandthemoon

    9 ай бұрын

    Probably something to do with the bit of our brain that controls our impulses you have probably heard of that story about the man who had a pole impale his head and he survived it but then his personality completely changed and would shout offensive things and act irrational maybe surgery could be performed in that bit of them brain to stop pedos from acting on their urges or from having them but I agree more research needs to be done on them

  • @bostonteapartycrasher

    @bostonteapartycrasher

    9 ай бұрын

    Given how much everybody seems to feel the need to go out of the way to protest too much, methinks and that this taboo is a relatively recent phenomenon, I'd say at least some degree of pedophilic feelings are extraordinarily widespread.

  • @IMold363

    @IMold363

    9 ай бұрын

    @@bostonteapartycrasher I agree. When you look at the massive amount of allegations out there against celebrities, musicians, politicians, religious authority figures…Not to mention thousands of videos of normal civilians luring pedophiles into the open through social media.

  • @Davserban

    @Davserban

    8 ай бұрын

    ​@@bostonteapartycrasherI believe it was relatively "normal" hundreds of years ago and up till recently. However these types of feelings collude with today's society and so that is a reason as to why so many people are being found out. I am of course not defending them just pointing out how attitudes towards this were throughout history.

  • @cw9007
    @cw90078 ай бұрын

    I am an adult attracted to adults and have not had a sexual relationship for almost a decade (and I am not old). It has never crossed my mind to sexually assault someone. I accept that if I never meet someone, I will never have a sexual relationship again. I don't really think about it much to be honest. I don't see why a paedophile can't think similarly. As much as I abhor paedophilia, I don't know why it is such a stretch for people to believe that they can't stop themselves offending. It is like saying you don't believe a single adult who is attracted to adults can stop themselves from being a rapist.

  • @SQUELCH-zj7il

    @SQUELCH-zj7il

    8 ай бұрын

    They're attracted to children. Don't expect them to have the same humanity as you. Do you know what happens when a child is abused....they cry and scream. That's the kind of shite that these fuckers are aroused by and fantasize about.

  • @SeqZZ

    @SeqZZ

    8 ай бұрын

    Wow, someone with a brain

  • @Moonless87

    @Moonless87

    8 ай бұрын

    Because it's a sexual paraphilia, being attracted to people your own age isn't. Sexual paraphilias are VERY strong, it's hard for the person having one to control themselves.

  • @roseredremix

    @roseredremix

    8 ай бұрын

    Your brain, attraction, and impulses, are that of a healthy person. Peds are not healthy, they are sick. Their urges are not compatible to those that are normal. They are abnormal and do not think like you think-or their wouldn't be a problem in the first place.

  • @SeqZZ

    @SeqZZ

    8 ай бұрын

    @Moonless87 this is false. Plenty of pedophiles and people with other sexual paraphilias can control themselves

  • @alison4316
    @alison43169 ай бұрын

    If anyone finds themselves attracted to anyone but adults, they need to get into therapy _immediately._ There is something very, very wrong with this guy.

  • @slayer2608

    @slayer2608

    9 ай бұрын

    I agree 100% but what peroan if they were to Sunderland relise they’re a nonce would ever go to therapy and admit this

  • @johnchemo4248

    @johnchemo4248

    9 ай бұрын

    Hmmm...so....you want kids to only be attracted to adults in that statement?

  • @lj8549

    @lj8549

    9 ай бұрын

    There is no effective therapy aside from a bullet

  • @jorose8842

    @jorose8842

    9 ай бұрын

    @@johnchemo4248obviously they’re referring to adults. use ur brain kiddo

  • @johnchemo4248

    @johnchemo4248

    9 ай бұрын

    @@jorose8842 Hmmm...no, it says 'anyone' and anyone is 'any person or people' according to the dictionary definition, which is non-specific...!...even your little buddy snoopy knows that...pal...!

  • @Melancholian
    @Melancholian8 ай бұрын

    What he is trying to say is We should NOT normalize pedophillia, but we SHOULD normalize treatment.

  • @BulkBogan1920

    @BulkBogan1920

    8 ай бұрын

    There's only one treatment and that's death

  • @mabussubam512

    @mabussubam512

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@BulkBogan1920The same treatment works just fine for your autism.

  • @Melancholian

    @Melancholian

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@BulkBogan1920 and your psychiatric reasoning is?

  • @SWBGTOC

    @SWBGTOC

    2 ай бұрын

    That's not what he said or tried to say in any way. There is no treatment to pedophilia the same way there's no treatment to any other paraphilia. It's not a virus eating your brain, it's not a malfunction caused by something you can find and reverse. There is nothing you can do

  • @dynastygal
    @dynastygalАй бұрын

    Most child abusers aren't even paedophiles. It's usually about the power rather than the attraction.

  • @pigeonanimations6118
    @pigeonanimations61187 ай бұрын

    Kinda feel bad for people who just get cursed like this from factors they can't control

  • @TomtheToyReviews
    @TomtheToyReviews9 ай бұрын

    the questions they're asking are so stupid 'so do you watch like tv programs and stuff and look a kid and be like "i fancy him"?' uhhh obviously? he's a peadophile?? 💀💀

  • @ThePrincessnady1

    @ThePrincessnady1

    9 ай бұрын

    The panel aren’t exactly bright 😂

  • @noelynoelnh

    @noelynoelnh

    9 ай бұрын

    I think Channel 4 was trying to be as diverse as possible with this panel 😂

  • @TheAriesend

    @TheAriesend

    8 ай бұрын

    @@noelynoelnhblue haired girl only one who got the assignment

  • @TheAriesend
    @TheAriesend8 ай бұрын

    Blue haired girl the only person who should’ve interviewed him the others contributed nothing

  • @wes7186

    @wes7186

    7 ай бұрын

    I agree, only speaking with emotion, shouldnt have been there.

  • @Maz-zb9uf

    @Maz-zb9uf

    Ай бұрын

    Really ?

  • @BuxStop
    @BuxStop6 ай бұрын

    This is FASCINATING. I've always thought this, that there's a HUGE difference between thoughts and actions. If I imagine murdering someone, but don't actually do it, I won't go to jail. And therefore I think it's unfair to jail someone if they haven't actually harmed a child. I'm glad this person was able to have this conversation and he's right, we should be able to have conversations about this so people are able to have therapy without fear of losing job or losing their lives etc.

  • @barryoffeastenders

    @barryoffeastenders

    5 ай бұрын

    The difference is, you haven’t fantasised about killing someone, Nor do you face a daily internal struggle to prevent yourself from doing it. Thinking about something and having it as a desire are two very different things

  • @xinpingdonohoe3978

    @xinpingdonohoe3978

    3 ай бұрын

    ​@@barryoffeastenders everybody has sexual desires. If a normal man spends every day attracted to women, does that make him an innate rape threat? Gay men in the 40s wouldn't be able to come out or seek help, or act on their desires, much like this guy today. What was the not-so-humane solution back then?

  • @crazycatpetera1404

    @crazycatpetera1404

    2 ай бұрын

    @@barryoffeastenders Fantasying is irrelevant, she’s not arguing the sexual component - what she’s saying is there’s a big difference between thoughts and actions.

  • @barryoffeastenders

    @barryoffeastenders

    2 ай бұрын

    @@crazycatpetera1404 There’s a difference between thoughts and desires. These people desire something objectively immoral, here not just thinking about it. They want to do it and have to battle those desires. That’s the difference. They are and for the rest of their lives will be a danger to children

  • @rdred8693

    @rdred8693

    2 ай бұрын

    Exactly why I'm against criminalizing speech.

  • @alexkolanis007
    @alexkolanis0078 ай бұрын

    The fact this guy, who hasn't committed the crimes, WOULD lose his job, life, friends and everything if he did this interview maskless should make us ALL look deep. Been saying this for years, providing support networks for these NON OFFENDING sexual deviants would long term create less offender's.

  • @selmahare

    @selmahare

    8 ай бұрын

    Ditto. Very well said. The girl in the middle was just stupid. She was hearing but wasn’t listening and made up her mind about him long before he started talking. To her it didn’t matter what he was saying. That’s the very definition of dumb, and why we have so many offenders, people just refuse to listen and prefer to just shun. Well guess what, we can’t just get rid of them, cause to start and end with we don’t know who they are. So maybe we should listen! And as you said make it safe for the non offenders to share their deviant tendencies, so as to minimize the number of offenders.

  • @alexkolanis007

    @alexkolanis007

    8 ай бұрын

    @@selmahare exactly. Treat them as Patients NOT criminals before they start offending. I can imagine these people find it very difficult to supress these urges. Forcing them to live alone with it, suppressed and hidden from everyone is bound to create deviants.

  • @earthcitizen3939

    @earthcitizen3939

    8 ай бұрын

    As long as he hasn't acted on it (molested) I can't be mad at him. It must take a lot of self-control to not do something that you would want to, but that would make another person suffer. We all make choices every day, and to not molest is a moral choice.

  • @dmrgen

    @dmrgen

    8 ай бұрын

    that being said, he should seek help. those who really love him will listen to him and support him, those who dont wont. he doesnt have to disclose it to everyone, he can be smart about it. if he loses everything he worked for and everyone he knows, then too bad. im currently in therapy for my own thoughts. my mom loves me and supports me, and she would happily take a dozen bullets for me. if there is help to get, GET IT. i dont ever wanna hurt a child, and id much rather sacrifice my own happiness than end up hurting someone else out of lack of control. NOT ACCEPTING HELP IS EGOISTIC AND IMMORAL. 🔥 you never know if the demon is gonna escape, and if it does, youre gonna be sorry. kill the demon before it has the potential to hurt someone. BETTER YOURSELF, this applies to any situation. you owe it to everyone else.

  • @xinpingdonohoe3978

    @xinpingdonohoe3978

    3 ай бұрын

    ​@@dmrgen I don't know if you suffer from listening problems or cognitive problems, but either way you seem to have missed the part where he explained that it's literally not possible for him to safely seek help at the moment. If he does, he will suffer consequences, even if he's not any flavour of criminal. Or am I misunderstanding you? Are you saying you're also a paedophile who's managed to seek help safely? If so, that's probably the only case we'll ever know of it happening. The average level of cool-headedness a therapist has is not enough to refrain from spilling these secrets to whichever legal organisations he or she sees fit.

  • @CaptchaNeon
    @CaptchaNeon8 ай бұрын

    Instead of being angry we need to pay attention to what he is saying, I do believe there are people like him who isn’t abusing children and never will. It’s kind of like if you’re addicted to drugs but you’re choosing to not do them because you want sobriety.

  • @berrymckockiner5883

    @berrymckockiner5883

    7 ай бұрын

    Exactly

  • @shycele

    @shycele

    7 ай бұрын

    if he believed anything he said, then he wouldn't go out his way to purposely be around children. he says he will never offend but is always around them. "virtuous p3d0s" need to be put in mental hospitals until they get well, i cant believe society is protecting their identities and letting them run free. its a huge risk.

  • @amberleighsmith4280

    @amberleighsmith4280

    4 ай бұрын

    You can’t be addicted to something you don’t do 🤦🏼‍♀️

  • @cosmicllama6910

    @cosmicllama6910

    11 күн бұрын

    Even in that case, it's best for addicts to avoid the substances. Ex alcoholics shouldn't hang out in bars and people like mouse guy here shouldn't be around kids.

  • @Phoenix1664
    @Phoenix16649 ай бұрын

    As much as i despise his state of mind, i am very glad of his honesty and truth. He's atttacted to children and can't help it. Its not a conscious decision and he is mentally ill. As much as we must protect children, i feel sorry for him. He is a victim of biology. He's had been dealt a bad hand and a defunct brain. He's very brave to come forward, whatever else may be said that is horrible about him. I since he hasnt harmed anybody, he deserves compassion and therapy. If we could get to more pedophiles before they offended and got them help, maybe we could make the world better.

  • @dondamon4669

    @dondamon4669

    9 ай бұрын

    Should be locked up then like we do with suicidal people!

  • @Phoenix1664

    @Phoenix1664

    9 ай бұрын

    @@dondamon4669 We help suicidal people.

  • @RandomName-my2uo

    @RandomName-my2uo

    9 ай бұрын

    He's not being honest, he's lying to himself. He doesn't think he's a risk to children.

  • @Phoenix1664

    @Phoenix1664

    9 ай бұрын

    @@RandomName-my2uo if he was, he wouldn't have come forward. He's been honest about his brain. Lock him up, and all we do is make sure that more pedophiles never speak up, and cause much more harm. Your attitude puts more people at risk. His thoughts are not crimes. No thought is a crime. At some point in your life you've thought about killing someone. Definitely. So have I. Everybody has. Does that mean we need to lock you up? No of course not. Our actions define us. Not our thoughts.

  • @lj8549

    @lj8549

    9 ай бұрын

    You’re either a NONK yourself or just as bad, I’d have you against the wall too…

  • @FrancisTheBerd
    @FrancisTheBerd8 ай бұрын

    "Virtuous" and "pedophile" don't mix my nigga

  • @CSWdenji69

    @CSWdenji69

    8 ай бұрын

    True. But it’s all relative, to him it’s virtuous since he’s stopping himself. But to everyone else it’s not because it’s not even a thought that crosses their mind.

  • @FrancisTheBerd

    @FrancisTheBerd

    8 ай бұрын

    @@CSWdenji69 and also the fact he feels proud enough to brag about it

  • @Unknown-gg6wg

    @Unknown-gg6wg

    2 ай бұрын

    @@FrancisTheBerd his also a dumbass

  • @user-em4dx6sg7y

    @user-em4dx6sg7y

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@FrancisTheBerdhardly proud when he is hiding his identity

  • @mp71001
    @mp710019 ай бұрын

    I highly doubt he’s never viewed explicit content of CSA - that was a lie.

  • @t.r8918

    @t.r8918

    9 ай бұрын

    Of course he's going to lie to that..he doesn't want to incriminate himself

  • @xinpingdonohoe3978

    @xinpingdonohoe3978

    3 ай бұрын

    So how many of them have viewed it?

  • @Smacklover
    @Smacklover4 ай бұрын

    "Why wear a mask?" Why do you think? Maybe it's because most the room won't even wont even try to understand the problem and will be the one's with pitch forks and torches at his door later that night....

  • @xinpingdonohoe3978

    @xinpingdonohoe3978

    3 ай бұрын

    I thought the panel was dumb up until that question. After that question, I knew for certain.

  • @jessicayuan9016
    @jessicayuan90168 ай бұрын

    It would be better to let the woman with blue hair host the whole conversation because she apparently has the intelligence capacity to bring out more information through an interview than the other 2 people,who made the conversation more centured aroung their own feelings.After she asked if there is an option to not be around the children,I cannot believe the toppic immediately changed to something else by other hosts.If she had all the control we might get more out of the man's mouth not just let hem beat around the bush.I supposed this is a program focused on the social topic,not a chill youtuber podcast focusing on the host's personality and reaction to profite of making the audience feel relatable.Loads of journalists have interviewed people who have actually commitied horrible crimes,and they remained professional,almost "invisible". Also the camera constantly focus on those people's facial reaction while it's the guest who's talking.Maybe it would be a good idea to learn from other programmes,where the producers bring all the attention to the conversention itself

  • @Brandnewshoes

    @Brandnewshoes

    7 ай бұрын

    100% agree with you.

  • @Maz-zb9uf

    @Maz-zb9uf

    Ай бұрын

    She feel so sorry for him and buy into his Bullshit .

  • @b.l7491
    @b.l74918 ай бұрын

    The girl with the blue hair shouldve done the whole thing tbh. The others brought fuck all to the conversation

  • @Awaitingonyouall

    @Awaitingonyouall

    Ай бұрын

    lmao

  • @sphumelelesijadu
    @sphumelelesijadu8 ай бұрын

    The gay girl is an empathetic person. I just find it difficult to call someone inherently bad for an attraction they had no choice over.

  • @Bot-rp7rj

    @Bot-rp7rj

    8 ай бұрын

    You have choice

  • @Bot-rp7rj

    @Bot-rp7rj

    8 ай бұрын

    They do have a choice do some basic research

  • @sphumelelesijadu

    @sphumelelesijadu

    8 ай бұрын

    @@Bot-rp7rj and the research will rewire their brain? As a gay guy myself, I am very sensitive to the horrors of conversion therapy. It drove so many people to death. We should be careful not to inflict harm in the name of trying to prevent potential harm.

  • @danielcunningham6727

    @danielcunningham6727

    8 ай бұрын

    Of course the rainbow warrior feels sorry for him....

  • @danielcunningham6727

    @danielcunningham6727

    8 ай бұрын

    ​@@sphumelelesijadu🤮🤮🤮

  • @davidz3879
    @davidz38799 ай бұрын

    He said the men he's been involved with didn't have a problem with it. Were they like him?

  • @danielcunningham6727

    @danielcunningham6727

    9 ай бұрын

    Of course its other men....the rainbow brigade can't seem to help their disgusting urges.

  • @ThePrincessnady1

    @ThePrincessnady1

    9 ай бұрын

    Probably didn’t care one way or another

  • @keifer7813
    @keifer78133 ай бұрын

    As a straight man, I go through life not harming women that im attracted to. So why can't this guy live his life just like me? He's attracted to children but doesn't harm them. As long as he doesn’t work around them, I say let him be. Also, he should be open to therapy to fix him. Blue hair girl should aswell to fix her

  • @heiserberg_owo

    @heiserberg_owo

    2 ай бұрын

    Society mixed pedophile with offender, even though most offenders are not pedophiles and most pedophiles are not offender And therapy only fixes uncontrollable urges, there is no cure for something that is not an illness

  • @Farhiyasheik______
    @Farhiyasheik______9 ай бұрын

    We live on a sick sick world protect your kids at all costs. I am a victim, my dad abused me for years and I’m 29 years old and struggling with my mental health, the best way to explain this sort of trauma is being dead but alive constantly reliving it everyday, everyone says you’ll heal in time therapy will help I have tried everything but having your own dad abuse you for years is something I’ll never get over the only thing I can do is try and expect it and live with it . The struggles I had to face is severe depression , PTSD, anxiety, schizophrenia. With his childhood trauma it really does ruin your life no matter how strong you are.

  • @carolynnalvarez

    @carolynnalvarez

    9 ай бұрын

    Incest abuse survivor here. Schizoeffective, ptsd, Hospitals, addiction… it ruined my whole life. I’m sorry but im with you stranger. ❤❤❤ someday they WILL pay. Thats my only comfort. Love yourself.

  • @galaburdakirill2

    @galaburdakirill2

    9 ай бұрын

    chidhood sexual experience does not cause depression, anxiety, PTSD or schizophrenia, you're a liar

  • @sia9907

    @sia9907

    7 ай бұрын

    There is no proper healing, ever. I'm so sorry but it doesn't help anyone to pretend children recover. We can learn to cope better with life, and we can get treatment for our symptoms, and we can work on learning to like ourselves more, to stop hurting ourselves, but we are marked forever. It's why we need to have no tolerance for these men at all, ever, and not offer them an ounce of forced compassion. They deserve nothing.

  • @galaburdakirill2

    @galaburdakirill2

    7 ай бұрын

    @@sia9907 recover from having sex with someone? seriously? You're just trying to justify your intolerance. And paedophiles deserve freedom and dignity because "all people are equal in their dignity and rights"

  • @sia9907

    @sia9907

    7 ай бұрын

    @@galaburdakirill2 I don't need to tolerate child rapists and if you want to imply I'm somehow bigoted for calling out predatory sadists, go for it. Your victims are children because you're weak and powerless. Don't take on adults and expect to win.

  • @sarahserra9327
    @sarahserra93278 ай бұрын

    We need to address this. We can't banish them from society as we don't have the practical ways to do it. They have always been here and they won't go away so we need to help them in order to protect children.

  • @nicnac9147

    @nicnac9147

    8 ай бұрын

    Spade them

  • @Melancholian

    @Melancholian

    8 ай бұрын

    ​@@nicnac9147how would you even find out who they are? 😂 No one is going to volunteer to die

  • @liammeech3702

    @liammeech3702

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@nicnac9147 "Here at B&Q we have nonce-spades once for 49.99! - Make a house a home"

  • @lanahudson5388

    @lanahudson5388

    4 ай бұрын

    too bad pedophilia only became a taboo in recent years. Historically, people could marry as young as 13, and there was no age of consent

  • @jabiro
    @jabiro7 ай бұрын

    Not his fault he's attracted to kids.

  • @user-yp9zy1yc2n

    @user-yp9zy1yc2n

    7 ай бұрын

    Yeah maps are human beings too they need help and support too.

  • @Roseboygoku

    @Roseboygoku

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@user-yp9zy1yc2ndon't know if this is sarcasm but homie cogitat hes lenta loquentes in KZread😭 si me vides in via glarea necesse est skidaddle quia non ludo 👾👾🔥🔥

  • @jabiro

    @jabiro

    7 ай бұрын

    @@user-yp9zy1yc2n there is too much hatred out there for MAPs.

  • @user-jw8rr3zy8y

    @user-jw8rr3zy8y

    7 ай бұрын

    @@user-yp9zy1yc2nthis but unironically

  • @mothermovementa
    @mothermovementa8 ай бұрын

    The voice actor needs an oscar this is a brilliant performance

  • @naturesrhythm8506
    @naturesrhythm85068 ай бұрын

    I think the lady with the blue hair was perfect for this interview. She drew him out and we can understand more through listening to him. Obviously, this is very difficult listening, but we need these conversations.

  • @unknownmangafreak
    @unknownmangafreak9 ай бұрын

    Also if you know you have those thoughts, why would you put yourself in a volatile situation like volunteering with children? It’s really not that hard to make sure that children aren’t in your working life and limit social interaction with them. Because he doesn’t do that, he has kept himself as more of a risk/threat than he thinks he is.

  • @FrostByteVoyager

    @FrostByteVoyager

    9 ай бұрын

    It's more likely that he signed up for volunteering and that was the task he was placed on. To say anything would be to raise suspicion that hes a pedophile which is obviously a threat to his life. I think he seems to also believe that he likely cannot go his whole life without encountering a single child, so its better to actually be able to behave normally around them than intentionally hide away and not develop any sort of resistance. It's a really difficult situation

  • @goddz6145

    @goddz6145

    9 ай бұрын

    This is why they should come out and be put on a register so they are not allowed near kids even if they think the my won’t do anything What parent would want that near there children? Should be allowed

  • @ThePrincessnady1

    @ThePrincessnady1

    9 ай бұрын

    @@goddz6145but why would they be put on a list if they haven’t done anything wrong…?

  • @naysx12

    @naysx12

    9 ай бұрын

    @@ThePrincessnady1 this lady again! Are you his girlfriend ?

  • @lj8549

    @lj8549

    9 ай бұрын

    @@ThePrincessnady1 sicko.

  • @Gustoking37
    @Gustoking379 ай бұрын

    The fact that this guy came on and give this interview should be be some credit. He has provided an insight many don’t realise it could be a disease that can be cured… there are so many when you watch the programmes that it shouldn’t be dealt with so hastily. To resolve any issue you must go to the source / paradigm of why, only than an answer will present itself … by understanding which genes and life experiences equal to these thoughts, maybe there is a possibility to switch them of or re enhance them to not be that way …

  • @Goat.Herder

    @Goat.Herder

    9 ай бұрын

    I know people that have worked with nonces in n rehabilitation programs and the same thing is always said. There is never any changing them. This shit is hardwired into their broken brains, just like a psychopath, it's impossible to make them normal.

  • @goddz6145

    @goddz6145

    9 ай бұрын

    He came on and hit his face ? He could be anyone he could be a sex offended already 😳 all they want is to be normalised and that ain’t going to happen thank got ! We should care more about children then these dirtbags

  • @Alapahauk

    @Alapahauk

    9 ай бұрын

    lmao yeah okay, since when was their any kind of 'therapy' that ever cured sexual orientations, they tried it with homosexuals in the 60's, did it work? the answer is a BIG-FAT NO! sexual desires and fantasies are a phenomena, they have tried to understand them for long time - never have, never will. They ingrained into all of us from an early age and are completely individual with some evolutionary aspects involved. Why do some people have r8pe fantasies? and if you can find out why they do, will that stop them from fantasising about them? NOPE! wake up, the only reason this trash is even being given air-time is so that one day it will be accepted as normal and these comment threads prove that the progressive all inclusive, politically correct morons in the clown world we live in today, is doing just that! accepting this nonsense.

  • @lj8549

    @lj8549

    9 ай бұрын

    There is NO effective treatment for pedophilia. The only way to protect children is if he’s in jail or non-existent.

  • @sarasgambati8495

    @sarasgambati8495

    9 ай бұрын

    I’m so with you here we need these conversations in order to find the answers and stop this in the tracks and ‘virtuous’ peadophiles or whatever people want to call them should have services readily available in order to best support them in maintaining abstinence. If we find a way for these people to come forward we will be able to protect children in the long run that’s the ultimate goal for everyone no matter what side of the debate you stand on xx

  • @ShaawtyB
    @ShaawtyB8 ай бұрын

    We obviously shouldnt normalise pedophilia, but maybe if these people were studied more we could understand more. I understand the side of wanting to study them but also understand the side to want to eradicate them which wont solve the issue, theyre being born or made as we speak. If we looked into it more maybe we could change things for them, for the benefit and safety of society (children safety first and foremost)

  • @liammeech3702

    @liammeech3702

    7 ай бұрын

    Let's face it - the second they're understood they'll be all over the Pride-parades and it'll be night of the long knives 2: Electric-Boogaloo

  • @amandatyler4324
    @amandatyler43243 ай бұрын

    You cannot control your thoughts but you CAN control your actions. I am not at risk of cheating on my husband just because I am around other men I am sexually attracted to….so…give this guy a break.

  • @davidz3879
    @davidz38799 ай бұрын

    He chose to be around kids but won't say why.

  • @danielcunningham6727

    @danielcunningham6727

    9 ай бұрын

    Don't take a genius to work out why as much as he may deny it he volunteered for one purpose and one purpose only...

  • @davidz3879

    @davidz3879

    9 ай бұрын

    @@danielcunningham6727 He also doesn't say why he goes on forums to communicate with similar men. He sems to be involved as part of that community.

  • @danielcunningham6727

    @danielcunningham6727

    9 ай бұрын

    @davidz3879 exactly! There's alot to this that don't make sense if I was a betting man I'd say he's definitely offended before he's just never been caught sick freak thinks he has the moral high ground because he claims to not act on his fantasies.

  • @xinpingdonohoe3978

    @xinpingdonohoe3978

    3 ай бұрын

    It's not hard to figure out. Why do men go to the beach, where bikini-clad women are? Why do women like to watch muscular guys doing muscular activities? It's the same with him.

  • @barbiepriestley9898
    @barbiepriestley98989 ай бұрын

    It’s not right to be sexually attracted to a child it’s wrong and it’s crazy

  • @Mashmarriner69

    @Mashmarriner69

    9 ай бұрын

    It's not right at all, but nobody can help what they are attracted too and this needs to be talked about so we can help people like this and protect our kids.

  • @barbiepriestley9898

    @barbiepriestley9898

    9 ай бұрын

    @@Mashmarriner69 I don’t think they can be helped and they’re very devious with getting what they want being extremely friendly to the victims parents that’s where the education needs to start to recognise the signs

  • @jkfdkjjd

    @jkfdkjjd

    9 ай бұрын

    Yeah, but I could say the same thing about homosexuals. I am okay with gay/trans people etc. but seeing it does in fact make me uncomfortable and I do think some points purported by the alt-right or whatever you call it are kind of valid and have a bit of merit. With the fillia acting out on it sort of means harming someone else, this guy has the guts to say what he is.

  • @danielcunningham6727

    @danielcunningham6727

    9 ай бұрын

    Certain dodgy n*nce sympathisers are trying to claim its a mental health condition when in reality they all just need lead between the eyes.

  • @danielcunningham6727

    @danielcunningham6727

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@Mashmarriner69 help? What help do you suggest they receive? A weeks all inclusive to the Maldives? I certainly know what kind of "help" they need and it's not something they'd wake up from.

  • @gabriellejackson6327
    @gabriellejackson63277 ай бұрын

    I get why these people are upset and frustrated. But I also understand that this man has hardly any control of his feelings. If he hasn’t offended yet. It’s like a killer having thoughts that he hasn’t acted on but the struggle drives him crazy. It’s probably very difficult to deal with everyday.

  • @bencody4168

    @bencody4168

    7 ай бұрын

    Key word in what you’ve just said: “yet”. I have no sympathy for peadophiles. It is a mental illness not a sexuality.

  • @sia9907

    @sia9907

    7 ай бұрын

    @@bencody4168 and anyone who tries to force people into compassion, or misplaced empathy, is highly suspect. Stand firm. It's the only way.

  • @Perhapsx3

    @Perhapsx3

    6 ай бұрын

    ​@@bencody4168exactly, it's a mental illness that he cannot control. Why judge someone for something they don't choose?

  • @user-em4dx6sg7y

    @user-em4dx6sg7y

    Ай бұрын

    Killing is not a natural desire....body doeant need it....sex is a natural desire in humans. The body needs it and unfortunately do this guy he is attracted to the wrong ones making him a WRONGUN!! People are scared about his potential lack of control are we all as humans and society know the power of sexual attrcation in ourselves with our normal attractions he it hetero homo etc so would imagine it is the same with these paedos

  • @jessicawatson891
    @jessicawatson8919 ай бұрын

    I hope that people like this can eventually come out and get the help that they desperately need. If they haven't done anything illegal, they shouldn't be prosecuted. But they need the help before they eventually can get to the point of doing something illegal.

  • @andrewblunts-ringwalks4508

    @andrewblunts-ringwalks4508

    8 ай бұрын

    I’m attracted to woman but it doesn’t mean I’ll ever be a rapist. So I think (hopefully) the same applies to him

  • @TheEndermanNestGPage

    @TheEndermanNestGPage

    8 ай бұрын

    @@andrewblunts-ringwalks4508 you think that's the same? are you brain damaged? A women can consent a child can never

  • @xinpingdonohoe3978

    @xinpingdonohoe3978

    3 ай бұрын

    ​@@andrewblunts-ringwalks4508 obviously the same applies to them. Liking different demographics doesn't suddenly make your impulse control poof out of existence.

  • @joshthrower5657
    @joshthrower56579 ай бұрын

    Without committing the crime. These people need help in order to prevent the crime happening.

  • @heiserberg_owo

    @heiserberg_owo

    2 ай бұрын

    Not all of them needs help, there are many cases where no help is needed because the urges are under control, or not exist at all

  • @HXLproductions
    @HXLproductions9 ай бұрын

    I think as a society we need to accept these people are out there and if we don't act on helping them change their ways innocent children will be hurt.

  • @DJTheBlondeSpirit

    @DJTheBlondeSpirit

    8 ай бұрын

    ​@@SillyHStudiosgross

  • @TheLiteralDevil

    @TheLiteralDevil

    8 ай бұрын

    You're completely and utterly correct. That's the only way to help make sure children don't get abused.

  • @gemmaclark6663

    @gemmaclark6663

    8 ай бұрын

    Yes 👏👏👏 help them not Diss them

  • @Freethought1987

    @Freethought1987

    8 ай бұрын

    They cant be cured so what help can you give?

  • @MetaKirb7

    @MetaKirb7

    8 ай бұрын

    How about try learning about it first.

  • @ste9071
    @ste90719 ай бұрын

    When asked has he ever viewed indecent images, he paused before answering. This tells me that he has either tried to find such material, or has taken sight of it.

  • @jack-gn4yl

    @jack-gn4yl

    9 ай бұрын

    Not only that but he chose his words very carefully and spoke slowly. His speech pattern was very different from every other time he spoke. Increddibly suspicious, he needs his hard drive frisked.

  • @ThePrincessnady1

    @ThePrincessnady1

    9 ай бұрын

    You’re not right babe 😂

  • @yuotueb

    @yuotueb

    8 ай бұрын

    @@jack-gn4yl it's a voice actor, says in the beginning. you're diagnosing the wrong person.

  • @matts5164

    @matts5164

    7 ай бұрын

    The guy is probably in his 20s. I would be more shocked if he hasn't tbh. Does this mean he is viewing those now? Probably not.

  • @MsAdbright
    @MsAdbright9 ай бұрын

    I do think there needs to be a place they can go to talk to someone/get treatment without fear of getting exposed or reported. Hopefully that would help protect children.

  • @FoxyGuyHere

    @FoxyGuyHere

    8 ай бұрын

    Excatly, That's the only way.

  • @thisismetoday
    @thisismetoday9 ай бұрын

    This is such a difficult topic. I think it just shows that as with psychopaths or narcissists, humans are not all born the way we wish they were, but often born with traits/wiring that can be incredibly harmful to society. I’m not sure if blaming them really helps. Anyone with these tendencies will know full well that acting on them is entirely unacceptable. Maybe offering help to deal with these horrific thoughts would be more productive and prevent crime, than demonising these people. Just a thought.

  • @Mary-dk7mc

    @Mary-dk7mc

    9 ай бұрын

    They can't be helped

  • @Harry-fk5of

    @Harry-fk5of

    8 ай бұрын

    @@Mary-dk7mc They can have therapy and chemical castration plus other medications to basically give them no sex drive at all which could prevent them from acting on it

  • @omokok1877

    @omokok1877

    8 ай бұрын

    Sad cos they’re gonna have to be put down Doomed from the start.

  • @omokok1877

    @omokok1877

    8 ай бұрын

    ⁠​⁠@@Harry-fk5of maybe but they’d be too scared to speak out.

  • @matts5164

    @matts5164

    7 ай бұрын

    @@omokok1877 That's the big problem isn't it? We as a society want to eliminate minors from being sexually harmed yet we are not providing any treatment for Paedophile. I am sure many of them want to get help, but your whole if fucked if someone finds out.

  • @adammiller3188
    @adammiller31888 ай бұрын

    This is one of the most extraordinary experiences ive had as a viewer. Thank you for providing us with this and enable these individuals to ask the questions, we ourselves have. This person is obviously VERY SICK and needs urgent help. He IS a risk to himself and others for all he is willing to speak about it

  • @goyonman9655

    @goyonman9655

    8 ай бұрын

    What help fo YOU propse he could get

  • @roseredremix

    @roseredremix

    8 ай бұрын

    ​@@goyonman9655 he should immediately seek a chemical castration. So many people here are claiming therapy and psychology can't help fix his brain. So since he has horrific sexual urges and insists on volunteering with children, he should also volunteer to medically remove his sex drive physically.

  • @candlerosemint

    @candlerosemint

    7 ай бұрын

    @@goyonman9655 Stay away from children. Get therapy. Spread awareness.

  • @adammiller3188

    @adammiller3188

    7 ай бұрын

    @@goyonman9655 he's mentally ill. Self explanatory

  • @AlineBooneMusic
    @AlineBooneMusic8 ай бұрын

    I've gotta say, I would also not be comfortable with someone who had these feelings when I had a kid with me, but I also think it's quite sad when you do have those feelings and there's nothing you can do about it, I do feel compassion for those who do not act on these thoughts and feelings and definitely don't see them as bad people. Imagine you discover that you're like this when you're a young adult and all the guilt and inner turmoil it comes with, it must be awful. Also estimations say 1/100 have these feelings so most of us have met people like this...Zero compassion for those who actually act on it though, that's inexcusable.

  • @xinpingdonohoe3978

    @xinpingdonohoe3978

    3 ай бұрын

    More updated estimates have raised it to 5%. I don't remember if that's been publicly released.

  • @sarahaltizer2285
    @sarahaltizer22858 ай бұрын

    They need to understand that he is saying out loud the dark thoughts that everyone has, tho they vary in degree of social rejection or immorality. I have had some crazy thoughts I would never share with other people. What makes the difference is whether you act on it or put energy into obsessing over it or feeding those thoughts. That’s what makes a person…not your thoughts, but your actions. That said, this is a very complicated subject. I wish there were more therapists out there that people could be 100% open with.😢

  • @tiatitanic9302
    @tiatitanic93028 ай бұрын

    Did they purposefully choose the most frightening mask possible or did he choose such a mask? Blkkdy hell.

  • @Emily_nb
    @Emily_nb9 ай бұрын

    For people struggling to understand, compare to OCD. These people have obsessive, intrusive thoughts which they can try and suppress. However, they just come back stronger and they perform the behaviours to get some relief. Alternatively, think of a time when you had an intrusive thought and you tried to stop thinking about it- often trying to stop thinking about it makes it harder for the thought to go away. Now imagine you’re this person who has this morally wrong attraction and can’t help it. It’s intrusive. Consciously, the most he can do is seek therapy and support (although there’s still so much stigma) and not act on these urges. But at the end of the day, it’s something you cannot control yourself. This individual is doing the right thing for shedding light on peodophillia and by them sharing can even result in some research to find out the underlying issue (if there is one). You don’t have to fully understand. However, promoting awareness and encouraging people to speak out is the best step to prevent people acting upon these thoughts/impulses.

  • @graveburgers

    @graveburgers

    9 ай бұрын

    Don’t ever compare it to OCD. People with OCD do not want to act on their thoughts. Pedophiles do.

  • @thefuturist8864

    @thefuturist8864

    9 ай бұрын

    @@graveburgersIt’s clearly comparable to OCD, especially where compulsion is concerned. We might not *like* to compare it but that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t do so, especially if it could give a greater understanding of a condition such that we can make children safer.

  • @davidz3879

    @davidz3879

    9 ай бұрын

    @@thefuturist8864 But he's also attracted to men, so how does that work as an orientation? Why can't he stick to adults?

  • @ThePrincessnady1

    @ThePrincessnady1

    9 ай бұрын

    @@graveburgersit’s actually very very similar

  • @lj8549

    @lj8549

    9 ай бұрын

    @@ThePrincessnady1 no it’s not. There is no effective treatment for pedophilia, and you are clearly a sicko.

  • @animalsareprecious
    @animalsareprecious9 ай бұрын

    Frightening!!! The word virtuous does not belong with the word pedophile!!!

  • @juntus89

    @juntus89

    9 ай бұрын

    Evidently it does. Lol.

  • @maui313

    @maui313

    8 ай бұрын

    it doesn't, this seems to be a way to somehow humanise / normalise pedophilia

  • @Nitrogenoxidegorillas

    @Nitrogenoxidegorillas

    6 ай бұрын

    ​@@juntus89I T S H O U L D N T

  • @xinpingdonohoe3978

    @xinpingdonohoe3978

    3 ай бұрын

    Why?

  • @therealsocialgadfly
    @therealsocialgadfly8 ай бұрын

    I commend “Mouse” for his willingness to overcome the stigma society has attached to his predilections. I also very much appreciate the willingness of the lesbian parent to be open to understanding that we absolutely need to be better educated about pedophilia, and that we need to educate our children on this as well. Ultimately, we need to educate everyone on issues of consent and what consent means. Anyone beneath the widely recognized age of adulthood, which is 18 years of age, cannot ever maturely consent to sexual relations, with anyone. If we are going to protect our children, we must start respecting them not as property, but as people. And, we must act accordingly. We need a dialogue with our children as much as with pedophiles.

  • @roseredremix

    @roseredremix

    8 ай бұрын

    He's intelligent I don't believe he's honest. Admitting to a legal crime on KZread isn't in his best interests of course he'd say no. People have sexual urges and look for an outlet. He has an outlet of some type.

  • @Cicada-Screams

    @Cicada-Screams

    8 ай бұрын

    He shouldn't be volunteering with kids present. Its an excuse to oogle the kids at those events. Hes testing his own self control and eventually he might not be as strong willed as he says he is.

  • @gazeta925

    @gazeta925

    8 ай бұрын

    @@roseredremix it's called lolicon

  • @sia9907

    @sia9907

    7 ай бұрын

    You need to be better educated about paedophiles. Giving them the space to lie to people helps nobody.

  • @gazeta925

    @gazeta925

    7 ай бұрын

    @@sia9907 not checking them also help nobody and even help predators do their thing

  • @davidz3879
    @davidz38799 ай бұрын

    Describing himself as virtuous is a ridiculous boast.

  • @Maxibo234

    @Maxibo234

    9 ай бұрын

    Did he seem proud to you?

  • @davidz3879

    @davidz3879

    9 ай бұрын

    @@Maxibo234 No, but he's trying to legitimise himself & thinks he deserves credit for not acting on his urges.

  • @FrostByteVoyager

    @FrostByteVoyager

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@davidz3879he didn't come up with the term, it has been around for years and was coined by a news agency in America.

  • @davidz3879

    @davidz3879

    9 ай бұрын

    @@FrostByteVoyager It's the first time I've heard it.

  • @ThePrincessnady1

    @ThePrincessnady1

    9 ай бұрын

    The term has been around for decades. He didn’t coin it.

  • @jozzgreen2376
    @jozzgreen23768 ай бұрын

    I don't know if you will ever see this, but thank you for being so brave and doing this. This had to be heart-stoppingly scary, and regardless of the issue at hand, your bravery needs to be commended. Thank you.

  • @sullyqureshi676

    @sullyqureshi676

    8 ай бұрын

    You Nonce Supporter

  • @CSWdenji69

    @CSWdenji69

    8 ай бұрын

    @@sullyqureshi676”NoNce SuPPoRtEr” 🤓

  • @CSWdenji69

    @CSWdenji69

    8 ай бұрын

    @@sullyqureshi676bro definitely didn’t pass kindergarten.

  • @YashiFradkin

    @YashiFradkin

    8 ай бұрын

    @@sullyqureshi676another man child.

  • @Bot-rp7rj

    @Bot-rp7rj

    8 ай бұрын

    ​@@CSWdenji69your pic says it all you nonce

  • @TommyMissus
    @TommyMissus9 ай бұрын

    I think it's awesome he's come out and talked about it. Children may have been saved from this. If he feels it's in his brain, and he can't control it the same as we can't control being attracted to our peers, I think him coming forward to talk about it is way better than stuffing it in until something horrible happens. I know how everyone feels... they HATE his guts and I understand I have 4 kids I totally understand the hate towards someone like him, but I always think of the other side I have a constant "issue" with seeing things from the other persons view right away, and i also was a drug addict and I felt like it was something I couldn't change in my brain and i knew everyone would shame me for it, but if I would've just came out and talked about my love for drugs maybe I wouldn't have done the things I've done. Idk, I'm not even sure what im saying but I know this is a VERY touchy subject but IF, and only IF, it's something they literally can't control, then I think we need to talk to them more and be accepting of them coming forward (if it's BEFORE they've done anything to anyone) bcuz if the whole world hated ME for being attracted to grown women, and everyone was gay and being gay was only accepted, I'd have to live my whole life sexually frustrated bcuz if I even looked at pictures of grown women I'd be imprisoned. That would be nuts. Like idk what I would even do... But on the other side, it has to do with children and we need to protect them at all costs. This is such a hard topic man I hope we come up with a way to protect these children even more, even if that means to help ppl like this.

  • @WinterStones

    @WinterStones

    8 ай бұрын

    revealing his identity will save children

  • @Alexus00712

    @Alexus00712

    2 ай бұрын

    ​@@WinterStonesIf everybody knew which child would grow up to become a pedo once they were born.. Would you think the world would be a better place for everyone? What would this world look like for those people? Would they be born into a life excluded from everyone? Would it be hidden from the public until they became adults, and then isolated from the rest of society without warning? Would they be killed on the spot? If we were to fund research into "curing" this brain thing,and it happened to be actually possible.. And that it was proven to work the same way as any other attraction.. That would open up the Pandora's box necessary to validate every gay conversation camp in history.. If that was to be the case.. People could straight faced (no pun intended) say that being any orientation is a choice, and be proven as correct.. All my comment is, is just hypothetical future scenarios, (as of yet anyways, lol) nothing else, and I don't strongly believe in one direction or the other that anything I wrote either will or won't happen.. I just find speculating scenarios (no matter thier likelihoods) to be entertaining..

  • @BMFstudiosNYC
    @BMFstudiosNYC8 ай бұрын

    I knew a guy in college who used to say how disgusting it is for a guy to look at a 9 year old, but then I caught him checking out a 13 year old... hypocrites everywhere -- they never like to think of themselves as what they think is the "real thing" 🤣 Statistically speaking, I bet this dad (Lewis) has done the same.... just look at his reactions at 4:00 after the mask says that he was still attracted to younger kids as he got older. Lewis' thought process seemed to change through his body language almost like he saw that in himself... some real self reflection in that body language and later makes more obvious body language to act disgusted again. Shaking your head and making an effort to express disgust like he's doing is unnatural, like he's trying to convince those watching. "Don't look at me, just keep looking at the masked guy." 🤔😆

  • @xinpingdonohoe3978

    @xinpingdonohoe3978

    3 ай бұрын

    Sounds like those gays who don't want to admit they're gay, so they act extremely homophobic.

  • @user-em4dx6sg7y

    @user-em4dx6sg7y

    Ай бұрын

    There are paedo levels...some are into pre pubescent, others are into pubescent others into bit older...they have terms for it like hebephilia or something along those lines....

  • @CravingSolitude
    @CravingSolitude3 ай бұрын

    I’m shocked at the amount of people in the comment section defending a paedophile.

  • @mabussubam512

    @mabussubam512

    3 ай бұрын

    Problem may be your reading comprehension or autism. If worse, it's both.

  • @mygame-mg2vr

    @mygame-mg2vr

    Ай бұрын

    he never commit any crime, what right for you to judge him?

  • @CravingSolitude

    @CravingSolitude

    Ай бұрын

    @@mygame-mg2vr Because he’s a paedophile. He says he hasn’t done anything but we’ve only got his word for that. Would you be happy for him to be around your children? (if you’ve got any)

  • @scurbbb

    @scurbbb

    8 күн бұрын

    Hes admitted to being a pedophile. Being a pedophile is a crime lol​@mygame-mg2vr

  • @Sophie-wq5ct
    @Sophie-wq5ct8 ай бұрын

    This was irresponsible to put out. Pedophiles need to seek psychiatric help, punishment after the crime does nothing, preventing these people from hurting children is the only way to protect children. People like this need to be encouraged to speak to professionals without the fear of judgment because we need to know who they are and stop them before they abuse children

  • @nini.xo.1
    @nini.xo.12 ай бұрын

    Its good that he doesn't act on it and he's honest about it rather than abusing children secretly

  • @LLDJ_
    @LLDJ_7 ай бұрын

    I dont like these interviewers they are very jugemental and give there own opinion to much

  • @shycele

    @shycele

    7 ай бұрын

    its hard for any normal person to sit there and listen to a disgusting person who likes children without judging them

  • @WillJ3ll0
    @WillJ3ll09 ай бұрын

    The nerve to try and paint this child predator in any form of positive light is absolutely disgusting

  • @maxpowerii7368

    @maxpowerii7368

    9 ай бұрын

    think that’s a bit of an over reaction really. they aren’t trying to portray child abuse in a positive light but understand and reduce offending which in reality reduces victims.

  • @Mary-dk7mc

    @Mary-dk7mc

    9 ай бұрын

    literally, thats their plan, to make us see him as vulnerable.

  • @skyandthemoon

    @skyandthemoon

    9 ай бұрын

    Right they are sick they need to be researched on and kept an eye on I do agree that they need help or else they will just end up hurting a child after they get thrown into jail plus he purposely surrounded himself with children wtf so disgusting if he is so scared the last thing he should be doing is volunteering with children

  • @smelly1060

    @smelly1060

    9 ай бұрын

    How is this positive ¿

  • @Sebster-jg1bd

    @Sebster-jg1bd

    9 ай бұрын

    He is not a child predator as he has not offended YOU are the disgusting one

  • @throughthewoods416
    @throughthewoods4163 ай бұрын

    Trainee psychologist and helpline counsellor here. I have supported many survivors of sexual abuse and a few perpetrators. I can only speak for here in the U.K, but our approach to dealing with paedophiles is wholly inadequate. Whilst it's natural to feel hatred, suspicion and disgust at paedophilia as a non paedophile - if ee let this get the better of us, as we often do, it pushes them underground and more dangerous. We need to have honest, open conversations and provide services so that we can support people to have ethical, loving and respectful relationships across the board.

  • @Anglo_Saxon1
    @Anglo_Saxon13 ай бұрын

    It was lying about the kiddi-porn,course it's viewed it.

  • @xinpingdonohoe3978

    @xinpingdonohoe3978

    3 ай бұрын

    How can you be certain? What percentage of these people have viewed it?

  • @Anglo_Saxon1

    @Anglo_Saxon1

    3 ай бұрын

    @@xinpingdonohoe3978 Call it a hunch.

  • @user-em4dx6sg7y

    @user-em4dx6sg7y

    Ай бұрын

    Well even if he has viewed itz he ain't gonna admit it on TV is he

  • @danielcunningham6727
    @danielcunningham67279 ай бұрын

    Like he said when he was asked why he apparently hasn't viewed csa material his response was "because I'm aware of the consequences " which tells me he only hasn't offended yet because he's scared of being caught.

  • @MyrddnWllt

    @MyrddnWllt

    9 ай бұрын

    I think he said that from an ethical standpoint as in his sexuality must be restrained not just so that he doesn’t face the rule of law but mostly because his sexual pleasure shouldn’t allow him destroy a child’s mental state. He knows there’s something wrong with him and he knows that acting on his feelings will beget suffering and likely cause the child to be permanently damage. It’s often said that many paedophiles were victims of paedophilia themselves.

  • @danielcunningham6727

    @danielcunningham6727

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@skepticalandconcerned so why not say that then? I'm sorry but I can smell a rat when I see one if he hasn't offended he's atleast viewed csa

  • @JamieMXNicol

    @JamieMXNicol

    9 ай бұрын

    I am not defending him, as I do not care for these type of people, but this comment rubbed me the wrong way. You said " he only hasn't offended yet because he's scared of being caught"...yet if that was the case, why would he do an interview on national TV?

  • @danielcunningham6727

    @danielcunningham6727

    9 ай бұрын

    @JamieMXNicol you mean with his identity completely hidden? If there was no mask I'll bet everything I own he wouldn't of done it why would such a minor comment apparently rub you the wrong way?

  • @jack-gn4yl

    @jack-gn4yl

    9 ай бұрын

    Bingo. I don't think any pedophile truly feels guilty for their attraction, they primarily feel shame because of the stigma. If there wasnt stigma, no pedophile would have a reason to feel shame.

  • @meredithparker6004
    @meredithparker60042 ай бұрын

    I feel for him. Hes being 100% honest. It's not his fault. He feels it. But he didn't cause it or do it on purpose.

  • @japto9060
    @japto90607 ай бұрын

    to any other non-offending pedophiles reading this, ignore the comments who suffer from an ability to empathise because they're clouded by blind hatred and mob mentality.

  • @Roseboygoku

    @Roseboygoku

    7 ай бұрын

    So you like kids??? NGA WHATT

  • @ChillwithLaurenZen
    @ChillwithLaurenZen9 ай бұрын

    Holly was great in this, empathetic but firm

  • @lindasapiecha2515
    @lindasapiecha25159 ай бұрын

    It is So important that these people can come forward and recieve help b4 abuse occurs

  • @72horses75

    @72horses75

    9 ай бұрын

    Right? People don't seem to understand this at all. No one chooses this attraction and to call them monsters that should be locked up immediately without offending causes those who don't want to offend to offend because they couldn't seek help. We want to protect children, and allowing paedophile to open up and seek help this would significantly reduce the risk of offending. I would imagine how horrible it would be to be cursed with that attraction as no one chooses this horrid attraction, especially as it often times stems from abuse that happened to them as children.

  • @selmahare
    @selmahare8 ай бұрын

    The girl in the middle was the very definition of stupid. She was hearing but wasn’t listening and made up her mind about him long before he started talking. To her it didn’t matter what he was saying. That’s the very definition of dumb, and why we have so many offenders, people just refuse to listen and prefer to just shun. Well guess what, we can’t just get rid of them, cause to start and end with we don’t know who they are. So maybe we should listen! And maybe start making it safe for the non offenders to share their deviant tendencies, so as to minimize the number of offenders., precisely. I don’t think that these non offenders are lost causes, and it was horridly mean, stupid and ignorant of that girl to say that to someone who has never even done anything, and is very much candidly screaming for help, so as to make sure that he never will. The guy lives in agony, he needs support and mental health help, not judgment, not when he hasn’t done anything. In judging him, and making him feel hopeless about his sexual deviance, one is only but pushing him to offend. I do believe that his brain CAN be rewired, the current science just doesn’t know how yet, cause unfortunately (even tho child abuse is such a big problem) there’s no one in the scientific community who has yet bothered to look into it. Why? Because of the ignorant Nellies of this world (like Ms. Thing in this video) who don’t care to try to understand, and don’t get that there isn’t one problem in this world that you can solve without first understanding what has led to it.

  • @pooja_aggarwal

    @pooja_aggarwal

    7 ай бұрын

    what about the dude

  • @Whisper_Spells

    @Whisper_Spells

    3 ай бұрын

    I was thinking the same thing I keep seeing everyone target her, yet act like he wasn't just as bad as she was, but we know why. @pooja_aggarwal

  • @rdred8693

    @rdred8693

    2 ай бұрын

    @@Whisper_Spells I think both of them were equally annoying. The Blue Haired one did well.

  • @sparrow_solas
    @sparrow_solas3 ай бұрын

    I think what's most infuriating to me is that they're all glossing over the part where he said it's NOT HIS CHOICE to have this attraction, and he's a non offender that can be attracted to other adults.

  • @xinpingdonohoe3978

    @xinpingdonohoe3978

    3 ай бұрын

    Moral panic and ignorance has clouded generations around this topic. They're too stupid and unable to think critically. That blue female was probably the only one who had more than one action potential going between her neurons.

  • @hmg8915
    @hmg89158 ай бұрын

    I don't believe he never veiwed child porn..

  • @xinpingdonohoe3978

    @xinpingdonohoe3978

    3 ай бұрын

    Why?

  • @Br.soldier99

    @Br.soldier99

    2 ай бұрын

    It's very difficult to achieve

  • @xinpingdonohoe3978

    @xinpingdonohoe3978

    2 ай бұрын

    @@Br.soldier99 what's difficult to achieve? Viewing it, or not viewing it?

  • @Br.soldier99

    @Br.soldier99

    2 ай бұрын

    @@xinpingdonohoe3978 Viewing child pornography is very difficult, you have to go to the deep web or a clandestine browser, and also be careful with pedophile hunters

  • @barryoffeastenders
    @barryoffeastenders9 ай бұрын

    I would bet my life that he has viewed illegal images of children at some point. ‘Virtuous’ 🙄

  • @xinpingdonohoe3978

    @xinpingdonohoe3978

    3 ай бұрын

    Then how many of them have? If you take a random paedophile, are you going to assert that they simply must have viewed stuff?

  • @Brandnewshoes
    @Brandnewshoes7 ай бұрын

    Should’ve just had the blue haired woman interview him, cause the other two weren’t there to talk about ways to solve and rehabilitate-they were just letting their emotions get in the way.

  • @Dfgdf91

    @Dfgdf91

    2 ай бұрын

    Sorry for being weirded out by the literal pedo lol

  • @Sheldon1411
    @Sheldon14119 ай бұрын

    He needs to get help ASAP and it needs to be continuous. Not be around children, like treat it as an addiction. These people exist and we need to help them, jail is not prevention.

  • @lj8549

    @lj8549

    9 ай бұрын

    How is jail not prevention? …it would help him, it’d ensure he didn’t offend.

  • @davidz3879

    @davidz3879

    9 ай бұрын

    @@lj8549 He'd likely meet others like him in prison & offend with them after being released.

  • @danielcunningham6727

    @danielcunningham6727

    9 ай бұрын

    How is it not? If they're in jail they cannot offend so please explain how that does not help? Only thing that would be sufficient in my opinion is to make then take a permanent dirt nap.

  • @ashadeofnight

    @ashadeofnight

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@lj8549 That's effectively saying we don't want to try to intervene before a child gets abused, let that first child be abused then we will act. Because if its instant jail for coming forward for help none of them would. Which equals those first victims.

  • @kurtmaryville4941

    @kurtmaryville4941

    9 ай бұрын

    @@lj8549Wow, can’t believe you want children to get abused first… interesting/brave stance.

  • @dizmop
    @dizmop9 ай бұрын

    wow, this is amazing and gives a clear insight into this condition. The panel are pretty self-righteous in regard to this guy's openness, he's actually very brave to discuss this topic

  • @danielcunningham6727

    @danielcunningham6727

    9 ай бұрын

    Nonce.

  • @lj8549

    @lj8549

    9 ай бұрын

    Pedos are brave yeah? You’re a NONK and I’d have you against the wall too….

  • @Jm649
    @Jm6499 ай бұрын

    Wow this is crazy that C4 has done this... I've always wondered about people like this who are what they are, but don't like being that way.. So strange. I hope they can get to the bottom of it one day..

  • @lb8965
    @lb89659 ай бұрын

    So, not raping a child is a virtuous deed? No one should expect any praise for abstaining from such an evil act. If this man had any decency; he would not go near children and would try to get help,.

  • @DoflamingoDonxiquote

    @DoflamingoDonxiquote

    9 ай бұрын

    Dude context. When it’s an impulse and u don’t act on it it is. So stfu and learn to read.

  • @LGoosey
    @LGoosey9 ай бұрын

    Took a lot of balls to come on and talk about this

  • @KingdomofKinship

    @KingdomofKinship

    9 ай бұрын

    Oh please as if that deserves a reward.

  • @naysx12

    @naysx12

    9 ай бұрын

    @@KingdomofKinship EXACTLY!

  • @KingdomofKinship

    @KingdomofKinship

    9 ай бұрын

    @@naysx12 these nonce apologists in the comments 🤢

  • @ClassicGaming7

    @ClassicGaming7

    9 ай бұрын

    @@KingdomofKinshipI think recognizing the fact that he’s came on to be honest is different than excuse pedophilia

  • @markyinbelfastxx9088

    @markyinbelfastxx9088

    8 ай бұрын

    His balls need removing

  • @halfbakedproductions7887
    @halfbakedproductions78879 ай бұрын

    Reminds me of Ross Kemp doing a prison visit. He was in a cell with someone who was in for that sort of thing. The inmate said that in his view the kids might have 'enjoyed' it. The look on Kemp's face... he was absolutely speechless.

  • @danielcunningham6727

    @danielcunningham6727

    9 ай бұрын

    I watched that can't lie he's a better man than me I wouldn't of been able to keep my hands off his throat.

  • @benny1089

    @benny1089

    8 ай бұрын

    How is this the same? Mouse has never sexually abused a child or viewed cp. Totally different

  • @tacoblude8208

    @tacoblude8208

    8 ай бұрын

    @@benny1089agreed. This comment really pissed me off.

  • @CH-bn7qb
    @CH-bn7qb9 ай бұрын

    Just u watch it will soon be LGBTQP+ and in future will be normalised I mean nothing against the community but now we and our children are being told a man can be a woman and vice versa this will be normal

  • @LittleRayofSunshine69750

    @LittleRayofSunshine69750

    9 ай бұрын

    I’m afraid of this too

  • @angiezaz
    @angiezaz2 ай бұрын

    I don't believe that he hasn't viewed videos of child abuse ..

  • @Inatfromdenmark
    @Inatfromdenmark8 ай бұрын

    We need to have much more help for people who have urges against fragile people. We need to do research how the brain is working and if there is help to get. Also if these people can help other people. This man is not an evil man. He is highly reflective and as much as I am scared of people with these urges because of our children oc - we still need to help them. Discarding and judging does not help them.

  • @Tomoko--kuroki
    @Tomoko--kuroki7 ай бұрын

    I love how he tries to explain the concept of pedophilia in itself with in a purely logical standpoint with little self injected moral values. It makes it very understandable and gives a whole new view in to the world. I never understood why people couldn't differentiate pedophiles from groomers in itself.

  • @sia9907

    @sia9907

    7 ай бұрын

    Because there's no difference. Paedophiles offend. It's how paraphilias work. This is them trying to normalize it to make their own sickness easier to act on.

  • @jl4260

    @jl4260

    7 ай бұрын

    I agree mostly. I was empathising with him up until the point where he admitted to getting a job with children knowing full well what he is. I feel like that bit was glossed over. If not to perve on, or groom the children, for what reason that is not sexual at all would he have gotten a job surrounded by them? It's one thing to be unable to avoid children in certain settings, but he actively sought a job for closer contact. It gives me the ick I'm sorry.

  • @sia9907

    @sia9907

    7 ай бұрын

    @@jl4260 Please don't apologise for having a moral compass. Maybe use the time you seem to dedicate to being a good human being to learning more about what these men are like when nobody's watching? Check out a furry community expose. Or Google Jacob Breslow. Paedophiles want our kindness. This is their activism. We don't have to give it to them. In fact, I believe we should all refuse to on principle. So that we don't embolden them any further.

  • @zsnjA

    @zsnjA

    7 ай бұрын

    No way humanity can accept these abominations

  • @sallyann985

    @sallyann985

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@sia9907 not how paraphilias work in the slightest. I've seen your comments around, you're very ignorant and self-righteous. The worst combination of traits.

  • @Centorior
    @Centorior5 ай бұрын

    Good to know these things are talked about. And tbh I do think paedophiles have no choice about being who they are, but for a while I have thought that not all paedophiles will be child molesters. And no, the success rate of whatever therapies given to paedophiles to stop them from being paedophiles is probably the same as conversion therapy for gay people - zero.

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