The call with Justin was so good. I can even relate to this at 32. I think many people are afraid to admit they’re lost. But truth is most of us are.

@amysmiles9751

Ай бұрын

You thinknyour alone, you think your the only one that things didn't work out for but it probably happens to more of us than we know.

@raydonovan9013

Ай бұрын

It gets a bit better by 50. Do everything physical now. Overnight, stuff goes wrong. Travel and explore.

@_JEBUS

Ай бұрын

No matter what you do it will never feel enough. You can have a career, money, a family and still feel that it's not enough. Be at peace with where you are in life because you're always going to have a crisis. You may think the void is a new car, a new job, a new city but when you make that change tomorrow there will be another void. It never ends.

@Elizabeth-ef2mm

Ай бұрын

@@_JEBUSyes, exactly what I was thinking. As cliché as it sounds, peace and happiness come from inside and achieving these states are an inside job. Also, wherever you go, there you are. Doesn’t matter what city or state you move to, you take yourself with you 🤷‍♀️

@pyao

Ай бұрын

Also I have to say if you ever feel like you’re just completely not in control of yourself anymore, mood stabilizers as an option helped my life a ton I can actually feel the good emotions now and not just the bad ones even in hard times

To any 20 something year old reading this: I’d argue that MOST people are absolutely lost & confused in this season of life and often times even well into their 30s/40s. The world isn’t what it was 30, 20, or hell even 5 years ago pre-covid. Be patient & kind with yourself. Many try a lot of different paths before they find one that resonates. And bear in mind, action isn’t the result of passion like many of us have been led to believe. A lot people don’t have an inherent passion for anything in particular and that’s ok! More times than not, passion is the result of action. So go try things. DO. ACT. START. Don’t shy away from hard work, it’s good for you. Our society’s really good at making everything feel like it’s the end of the world. It never is. Keep going. You’re doing just fine.

@blueseptember2174

Ай бұрын

True, people always say do what you're passionate about and I'm like what even is that 😅

@nicolen3146

Ай бұрын

@@blueseptember2174 same. It wasn’t until I started in my career (which I wasn’t exactly passionate about but I need to pay rent and eat lol) didn’t really like it, tried something else in a different setting (all medical field but different) and boom. Love what I do. Sometimes you’ve just gotta try different things!

@blueseptember2174

Ай бұрын

​@nicolen3146 can I ask what you do for the medical field? I'm just trying to add to my list of ideas 😅

@nicolen3146

Ай бұрын

@@blueseptember2174 I’m a registered nurse. I was working a traditional setting before, bedside in the hospital. Now I’m a manager in an outpatient clinic. There are many things you can do with a nursing license and so many different types of jobs you might have never even considered/heard of. Not to mention the job security. It’s a good field if you have the heart for it.

@karr1990

Ай бұрын

Yes girl! 🙌🏼 great advice! Just start something & passion may just follow ❤️‍🔥

First caller...i relate to you. I was a national swimmer in the 80s and was highly sought after and had scholarship offers to multiple schools. Then in my senior year , i had a terrible motorcycle accident and a head injury and lost my ability to compete at the top level. I had no real connection to my family and lost myself entirely. Got married way to young for security and spent many years finding who i am who i wanted to be. It was devastating. The needs of athletes after their sport ends is HUGE. I understand that need to have an anchor, a place to plug in, to be part of something and other people. It is really a tough road. Loneliness, emptiness, lack of purpose and identity. I can't tell you how many times I asked, who am I and who doni want to be amd what am I even capable of outside of swimming! I got all my self worth feom swimming as I did not have anyone encouraging me outside of it. I so feel your struggle and well done getting help it is a long haul but the best work you will ever do!!!

I didn’t expect that second call to touch me the way that it did. Kudos to Jeannie and Kyle for calling in together. I'm rooting for them 💙

As someone who was married to an alcoholic, Jeannie, Al-Anon helps. My marriage didn't make it, but the experience was the greatest growth as a person I have ever experienced. I would have NEVER wished any of that on myself or an enemy. Never. But I am truly, in my soul, grateful that I faced the problem, did the work, and came out happier than I could have ever imagined. Life can get RADICALLY better. You deserve joy and laughter and serenity. It can happen. And for what it's worth, man, Kyle, the same goes for you. The Big Book is the most bonkers book that I ever read and it saves lives every minute of the day. This is the greatest opportunity you will ever be given. Live. Live with a big heart. Love your family and let them love you in ways that make you cry. This life is SO WORTH IT.

I really identity with Justin. Being 22 and feeling stuck and angry at how life hasn't gone how I imagined

@wisefoolxx

Ай бұрын

I wish I had the foresight that he has when I was his age, I had no clue what awaited me. 20 years later and the sense of loss and confusion has entered the building! I actually feel really positive for him because he's asking himself the right questions now instead of later.

@mmkvoe6342

Ай бұрын

I am early 30s and life hasn't gone as I hoped or honestly really thought as an adult. We get to just wake up every day and connect with God somehow, and then do what He says. That's what recovering addicts learn to do and it's the way to live whether you have an addiction or not. His plans are always good, not bad, if we make it His problem that we are here and needing to become something with our years on the planet. "You can have what you want or you can have something better." While it hasn't just been easy (the life I expected wouldn't have been easy either) I have several times had experiences that have definitely been good in my adult years (instead of the life I thought I would have, I've had a few other lives instead, one after another), and I suspect they have been, all together, a lot more fulfilling and rewarding than what I had planned on or what other people planned for me; and the promise continues to be that what's yet to come will continue to be better than what I would dream up, as long as I just live one minute at a time and do my best with my time and taking care of responsibilities.

@reneeantwi-boasiako3974

Ай бұрын

@@mmkvoe6342 Amen 🙏🏿❤️

One day when Justin The Fireman saves a life, the life of a child, he will on that day be SO glad he made this choice, that he wont care what anyone ever thought about him "letting them down".

This episode is for me :-/ I hate acting this way. It all stems from pent up anger too... But there isn't a safe way to express it to the person I need to address it with.

@melrose331

Ай бұрын

Jujitsu is a good physical activity to move emotions through the body in a physical way while also using that strategic part of the brain-in a healthy way.

@kellylott9296

Ай бұрын

​@@melrose331 I didn't know this. Thank you so much for sharing this with me. I really appreciate it and find the topic intriguing.

@EmpressRetard

Ай бұрын

Sometimes you need to accept the things you cannot change, and change the things you cannot accept. If there's no way that you know of to release that anger, you need to simply get over it. Feelings are not a choice, to an extent, but behavior is. Believe it or not, you can train your brain as well, To deal with emotions differently, and simmer down from negative feelings quicker than before. Takes many many months, and likely years, but it's possible. I have been incredibly depressed most of my life, and a few years ago, I thought there was hardly a person on earth who hated life as much as I did. The day I chose to live despite that, and simply hold myself accountable for my own emotions was the day I saw improvement. You have to fake it til you make it sometimes. Is my depression and panic and woe gone? No. But I have a way better grip on it now. You know how you are supposed to behave, or not behave. Letting yourself blow up at people is a choice. You don't need years of therapy, you just need to hold yourself accountable for your own behavior, and stop blaming external factors, Then make the serious decision to change.

@michele21auntiem

Ай бұрын

With me it is anxiety. if i dont deal with things making anxious i do it. trying to do better.

@kellylott9296

Ай бұрын

@@michele21auntiem I'm proud of you for seeing a need for change and trying to fix the problem. I hope you succeed. I can't even find an anger management group. In my area I was told you can only get it if it's court ordered. Like great, wait til something bad happens before being allowed access to help.

The call with Jeannie and Kyle made me tear up, I hope they get through this and become stronger together.

The Texan accent that John picked up with the second call was cracking me up 😂 🤠

@flashthecorgi2053

Ай бұрын

I know, I just love it when the Texan accent comes out! 😂🤠

I really enjoy the longer calls ❤

As a social work grad-student and some one who dreamed of becoming a soccer player (but could only play semi-pro), Justin has to grief his dream of playing pro baseball. This is what is holding him back. He did what he could in baseball and should be proud of himself. You are brave, Justin.

As a family member that takes the lashing I’m done hearing the person can’t help it and needs to get the anger out.

@lylagray9669

Ай бұрын

I agree. I know it is tough in life, but yelling and 'going off' on people you love is NOT the answer.

@beastshawnee

Ай бұрын

Acting out does not remove the anger. Sometimes it scares people around you to treat you better but usually just makes them want to run away.

@9WEAVER9

Ай бұрын

There's no excuse for failing to cope before hurting loved ones. Accountability is all the only option, and if that means going somewhere to vent privately and safely then so be it. But it's not acceptable to put loved ones through outbursts during failed coping.

@joywebster2678

Ай бұрын

Often helping them find a physical outlet that's healthy, a casual team, or a solo sport they love, helps them burn off their angry energy appropriately.

@lorryr255

Ай бұрын

My son used to lash out at me when he was little. I didn't want him ashamed or hiding his feelings but I couldn't accept him using me as the punch bag. So that's where I drew the line. We made him his "calm down corner" with a real punch bag, somewhere to sit, to hide, something to hug, things to destroy if that's what he needed. It took a while for him to realise that there would be no attention, discussion or remediation as long as he was directing his anger at me.

Her: "Have you thought about your family?" Him: "Why would I?" Honey, what else does he have to do for you to wake the eff up?

I really hope Justin gets what he wants out of life because he sounds like the kind of guy who really worked hard for his dream and came so close. As a matter of fact I wouldn’t be surprised if he could reach his dreams of being a pro if he eliminated all the distractions out of his life like alcohol and women and just focused. And if that doesn’t work out I’m feeling pretty confident that he can still do something with his life that involves baseball. He clearly loves the game and he clearly knows how to play so why not stay involved in it? Even making KZread videos showing people how to swing correctly etc. I compromised on my dreams so I could do the “practical thing” to have a family but it hollowed me out. I’m finally starting back with following my dreams again and it’s a game changer. Good luck Justin.

@doctorposting

Ай бұрын

lol women didn’t prevent him for going pro weirdo. the vast majority of athletes don’t go pro. nothing wrong w that

@blueseptember2174

Ай бұрын

​@@SarahConnor562😂😂😂😂

I struggle with my temper and lash out to. So I can relate. Trauma from an emotional stunted mom and mentally unstable dad. But I started therapy 3 months ago to get it under control and stop hurting my loved ones.

Poor Kyle, I’d drink too. I lost my Dad and it’s disorienting. He wants to stop feeling for a second. Resources are scarce.

Dr John is so strategic in his questioning

If they don't stop they're not gonna have anyone to love. 😮

Last call is pretty wild. How do you after 12 years put your family into stupid debt? Dude must’ve fallen off the rails in his mind.

@SuZenHealz

Ай бұрын

Everyone talks about dangers of social media influence on developing brains but nobody has talked about the impact on midlife males! My guess is he started paying for porn and it escalated from there…

This is an excellent episode. I could relate to all the callers, and the advice was on point

I’m 22 and have similar feelings to the first caller. I have been in school all my life and have 1 year to go. What to do next is a crazy prospect. I am hopefully going to have a degree in chemical engineering. That will yield good pay I suppose but everyone is constantly asking me what I want to do in the industry. Another one I constantly get is why don’t you have a girlfriend? I have never had a relationship and that’s a daunting task that I feel so unprepared for. I just don’t know. The best idea I got is just to go and work some oil rig or something and make a bunch of money I guess. Then quit after 5 or so years. Get a much more laid back job somewhere then idk. I really don’t know. My parents I think would like me to live at their place forever. They want me to get a job 15 minutes up the road and just live here forever. I could research jobs I guess but none of it sounds particularly interesting. I think I would like a difficult job but I have never really had one so maybe I don’t. Wow I really just needed to ramble.

@theshunnedBandersnatch

Ай бұрын

The transition from college to "real" adult life can feel so daunting! It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders--good luck with whatever path you choose 😊

@joywebster2678

Ай бұрын

I live in a college town, 2 universities, and one community college. I often meet students. One young man was fi ishing his chemistry degree and was fascinated by nuclear chemistry. He was offered a variety of jobs, and he took the most interesting to him. New town, not city., and then planned in 3 yrs to go on to get his masters. Me who hated chemistry was so fascinated to see his passion to experience new things through chemistry. I hope you find your passion.

@Gyj-s1l9479

10 күн бұрын

I loved your rambling! You're still young and have time to answer your questions. Sometimes people need to get the real taste of their desired profession before answering how you're going to make an impact(s). Good to read about your ideas, okay to be uncertain, but be okay with a plan not working and able to proceed to another. There are many jobs that are looking for newly grads; can even start smaller than an oil rig like research in a university where you MAY find a more direct path. Everything will be okay, explore your career and see the diversity within it. Hard thing is, not let it define you as a person. Everything will be okay, everything you're going through is normal. 😊 As for the girlfriend, she's out there, you just gotta get out into the world and you'll find her through your journey.

Amazing information and advise. Very helpful.

Stuck in Monterey? I would love to be stuck there

Man. I love what you guys are doing. Be sure to tune into some good family, friends, or a podcast. So many of you guys… are doing it. Do not ever stop. Love from NJ. C.L.

I’ve had a quick temper my entire life and my outlet was swimming/powerlifting until after college. I know a degree comes from my parents/upbringing (very critical/body shaming, harsh response to any criticism, quick to argue/yell and my dad being overseas/ now diagnosed with PTSD), but therapy and my ADHD medication (diagnosed at 26) has majorly impacted my day to day and relationship with my wife. Also in the same boat as the first caller, I get angry still around my parents and tried talking to them, but nothing good ever comes of it, they still view it as criticism/an attack.

@nikkita1688

Ай бұрын

I think learning/knowing the trigger point that turns conversations south with people helps. You acting differently will help. Like refusing to raise your voice or be bothered, for example. Idk what your "thing" would be, but it almost takes them off the target bc they're so surprised. Maybe write a letter so they have no one to argue with

@aliciahernandez6203

Ай бұрын

My parents are the same. I do nothing for them that will trigger me later on when they act nasty towards me. Literally we just have a superficial relationship. we say hi and bye.

@SuZenHealz

Ай бұрын

You are “doing the work” of self awareness for everyone around you 👏😇

@joywebster2678

Ай бұрын

A therapy period to learn to shift your focus with people like parents as we hit our 25s, 30s can help shift our perspective on who we are, who are parents are, to each other, and letting go of old business and expectations. For me I came to realize my parents weren't going to change, or apologize, and I needed to let the dreams and hopes for the family go. So I shifted to a more distant, polite, relationship, but stopped offering my heart to them. Much more peaceful.

@aliciahernandez6203

Ай бұрын

@@joywebster2678 you explained it soo well!

Dr Delony is the goat of counseling. Good job Dr D

22:48 Love Love Love your advice and ❤ your delivery 💕

1:28 that was me too bro 😔 great medications are available to help take that edge off. Life changing. 🥰

Perfect advice ❤

1,000th like 😅 I really resonated with this call. I will use these steps, thanks so much.

BTW 75-% of people in USA live paycheck to paycheck now…It’s Not easy to move to a new city or even down the block like I just did. (to a smaller apartment than I have had since 30 years ago. ) Downsizing is hard when you are a crafting /Art person.

I wish when a caller says “I don’t know” as an answer to a question John asks, that he would say, “ I don’t know is Not an answer”…. It is just lazy to respond with “I don’t Know”

"thats where id put my money... No pun intended" 😂😂😂😂😂 god i love you john stay golden forever 💗

I think the first guy doesn’t like himself and feels like he was meant for more

Virtual counseling is great ❤❤❤

I don’t know any marriage in my personal life that I envy. I’m single and a very sensible young adult male. Often times my friends come to me with their marital problems. The chemical reaction in your brain which is defined as “love” just doesn’t seem worth the onslaught of inevitable problems. Anyways, I wish everyone peace, happiness and healing.

@blueseptember2174

Ай бұрын

I know some wonderful married couples. They all have a very centered life. ❤

@SaystheTruth3

Ай бұрын

Totally agree!! No one ever seems truly happy. Just miserable mostly.

@dk1828

Ай бұрын

💯

@karr1990

Ай бұрын

I had to think a good while about it, but I came up with one married couple that I aspire to be like. This just motivates me to work extra hard on making my marriage one that other’s can admire and aspire to be like. 💞

@izzywox8246

Ай бұрын

My husband and I before we got married came together and agreed that most marriages we know are a mess. And that we could build something different if we both wanted to. People don’t talk. That was my parents problem. That was his parents problem. It’s the age old problem, you can have different. But you have to advocate, strive for it, and your actions have to match. It’s a hard find and a hard sell. I wouldn’t have considered it before I met my husband

Baseball player is mad at his parents for encouraging his sports career (maybe he never wanted it to begin with, but only for their approval) and now he’s resentful it didn’t pan out, which is why his anger picks up when they are around.

@Rocky_lilRhody

Ай бұрын

My thoughts exactly.

The third caller was just painful for me to listen to. My ex told me that spending money made him feel like he had money even when he didn't have money. If he lost his job he might go out and buy new furniture for example.

Justin's call gave me the a-ha moment I've needed for 20 years. My husband and I are fiftysomething and before he met me, Hubby went from being a high-school football player (with an angry, controlling father at home) to military man. He's been out for nearly 30 years, but i still hear stories about his military gang. Since, he's jumped from job to job, occupation to occupation, and hobby to hobby, completely immersing himself in each one, from the outfit, to the gear, to the lifestyle, the friends, even the values. He's been lost and angry for a long time, but I never considered that leaving the military and all that goes with it, might be part of Hubby's anger. Justin, fix that now because your future wife and kids don't deserve that anger.

I'm so sorry Elizabeth 🙏🏿 ❤️

Great show. Especially the last bit from James.

@jedavis00

Ай бұрын

Thank you. I think Kelly got my point although I don't think I expressed it well in the email. My whole life I was taught and shown that men don't have feelings and never talk about anyone's feelings. Something bothering you or troubling you? Work harder. Go chop down that 50' tree that's been bugging you. Work some OT. Take on a couple side jobs. Bury yourself in work and You'll be too tired to be troubled or worried or think about anything else. Hearing John on multiple shows tell someone to ask their wife How can I love you today' boggled my mind. I could not comprehend. Why would you say that, wth, she's the happiest she's ever been and so am I. But I've also heard him say it to others that millions of men need to hear this and I am one of them. It's ok to sit and listen to your wife talk for an hour or more about feelings. I don't have to work so long and hard I physically am so exhausted I fall asleep the first place I sit down just so I can bury my past and my feelings and not deal with anyone else's either.

@flashthecorgi2053

Ай бұрын

@@jedavis00James, you’re an amazing man. That shows a lot of courage that you were willing to take Dr. Delony’s advice even though you thought it was stupid and apply it to your life. Have to admit I did laugh at the “red blooded American man” don’t know exactly what that means 😂 but good for you! You’re a great husband and your wife is lucky to have you!

@AndiAlexander1

Ай бұрын

@@jedavis00what a beautiful evolution of the soul you’re on! Congrats!

@jedavis00

Ай бұрын

​@@flashthecorgi2053I'll take most of the advice. Never going to stop working on my truck until I see 400-500,000 on it. Then it will be the next truck. Maybe then I'll be too old to work on it.

I can relate...

@kellylott9296

Ай бұрын

I hate that I can relate to your comment.

Wow, the second caller hits close to home regarding the alcoholism. Not the other stuff so much but still in about the less than one month my husband sober.

Caller 3: Get out. He's robbing you blind. Get your name off that joint account and half whatever is half of yours out of it.

Wow. He encapsulated the anger thing so well. I am just like justin. He is angry that his value is based on performance. Me too

John didn't sign off the episode in the usual way. BRB on my way to do drugs and drop out of school

Dr. John I am exactly the same as this guy. I also have suicidal thought lately. I don't know how to be happy or nice anymore since my mom and heart Dog passed away. I have a wonderful boyfriend whom I live with. He took my pitbull and I into his house with his dog. I tend to messed up this relationship too. When he needed me the most and just end me to be there for him when he is going through this stressful time. I tend to pick a fight with him until he broke up with me. I don't know how to be happy anymore.

monterey is such a beautiful place to live damn

Nice shout out with the RATM quote John! Freedom!

Justin, I know Dr. D already recommended a ton of books, but..read The Second Mountain: The Quest for a Moral Life Book by D. Brooks! I’m currently reading it and wow… very helpful in why we feel lost and stuck in the valley of life.

Justin if you read this I live in Monterey too and am around the same age. Let’s get together and go to/watch a baseball game sometime man. You’re not alone brother.

Sounds like Justin only had one plan for his life ,more than likely he’s probably comparing his life to others and feels like a failure, which makes him lash out as defensive mechanism.

What happened to "you are acting like a child". It is nice to hear Dr John engaging with someone regarding anger issues.

Kyle really brought out the 🤠 in Jon's accent 😂

(3rd caller) Poor woman. Imagine thinking you know your husband of 12 years pretty well, and then you discover something like this.

The last callers story really hit home 💔

Emotional maturity....

21:48 😂❤ 57 😅here 😂

Caller 3! My ex did this and I discovered he had A closeted alcohol problem.

AKU PUN 🌟 ...

For me it was writing..

Justin, you're still young. Do you realllllly truuuuly know how many times you can fall down, dust yourself off and try again❓️😨MANYYYYY. Take a walk on the wild side. Heck, if you realllllly love baseball and it isn't just your family's dream, take a walk on the wildside and join the military baseball team. Each branch has a team. Apply @ the Branch Sports Office. Try out with each branch 🪖 If that's too much of a wildside walk, @ least moooove to another state. I bet you have plenty of clothes, sports equipment, etc that says, "Just Do It" ✔️ Time to put that emblem to the test Best wishes buddy. We're rooting for you😘

Kyle is hanging on there desperate to cry his heart out. Just do it. All his roots have been ripped out. But its people that are here and now and today that matters most of all. Best wishes to you both.

I believe the husband is buying a bunch of stuff so that in the divorce, she wont want any of it and then he can liquidate it after finalized divorce. All that stuff is his " untouchable savings"

Is this my dad calling in?

@melgm002

Ай бұрын

Not sure.

Why even call when your husband is a thief of money, a vacuum of love and joy, and a general asshole? What’s the point? That’s not a life partner. That’s a leech. You know he has to go! And idgaf if he does feel emasculated. Good. I hope he does. No one was stopping him from earning more than she did. She didn’t stop him. Possibly he doesn’t have the connections to get a job like that. Possibly not the credentials. But honey- Be real careful around him as you boot him out. And after. These boring angry leeches can also be dangerous if they blame you.

💜 me too 💞💓 15:40

Why did this pop up when I was thinking of leaving my marriage as well 😂

I never lash out at anyone....since I have no one I love....

@SuZenHealz

Ай бұрын

Chicken or the egg?! 🧘🏻‍♀️🧘🧘🏽‍♂️

This narrative of telling young people they have to have their whole life figured out by the time they finish high school is ridiculous. It's okay to finish high school and go to college.l, Finish college and still not know what you want to be when you grow up. You're so young. It is okay to be a jack-of-all-trades. Try out different trades or fields of work. See what you like. You're in your twenties, you have time to figure it out

Anger is a gift - RAGE

Or has money spender done something so wrong he knows prison is in his future? Or he is in debt to the wrong people, so he is like screw it all! Since she earns most of it, its not his money his spending.

It always leaves a bad taste in my mouth when John creates a narrative for the caller and gaslights them until they're like "oh yeah I guess" and then he uses that narrative to say whatever he's going to say.

9:05 ❤💗👍🏻✌🏼💯

❤

I think for the 3rd call the husband feels emasculated. The wife does pretty good and will be without him. He doesn’t have a purpose. He is not the main bread winner, went through a first divorce, doesn’t pay the bills. Their children are about to leave home. He doesn’t know who he is, he can’t be the man. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t blame the wife at all. It’s on him to get the balls to be a man and not a child. He has been accommodating with that until he couldn’t take it anymore and instead of dealing with it, he acts like the child he is. Be a man dude and grow up.

Bro needs CrossFit.

@peterlee584

Ай бұрын

Yes. But, he also needs therapy. He probably also needs antidepressants, ar least for a little while.

@peterlee584

Ай бұрын

@@SarahConnor562 It depends on the type of woman he wants to attract.

@peterlee584

Ай бұрын

@@SarahConnor562 I actually meant, does he want a superficial, selfish eho doesn't give a damn abouy anybody, but herself. Or a Woman of substamce, strength and character who is in it for the long haul and is willing to work tohether to build a loving and stable future together. I think I already know what type you are

@peterlee584

Ай бұрын

@@SarahConnor562 So?? Maybe you should be.

@peterlee584

Ай бұрын

@@SarahConnor562 I actually don't do Crossfit, but thank you!!

BORDERLINE HAS ANGER I KNOW PRETRY SURE I HAVE IT😮😮😮

Is Jeanine the caller from before who's husband made out with the neighbor on a golf cart?

@pyao

Ай бұрын

God I’d love an update on that one, after watching it with my mom we both agreed as the daughter and the wife both of them would have been laid out LMAO

Does the husband spending all the money have a terminal illness? Maybe that’s why he’s spending so much?

@SuZenHealz

Ай бұрын

Depression for some looks like “Shopping instead of suicide” He may be thinking he’a running up debt that a life insurance policy could pay off… Terrible burden to leave debt and broken hearts 💔

@WhatTruthDoesForUs

Ай бұрын

Not with the answer he gave her……

Justin should go join the military

This is why u put ur identity in Jesus

Don't get into relationships with people who already have kids.

@SaystheTruth3

Ай бұрын

What ?? Lol

DRIVE YOUR LAMBORGHINI PARK THAT PLACE DRINK ANGGUR BAKAR ROKOK AND TALKING TO THE MOON ...

I'm not going to even comment on this video

@sarahalderman3126

Ай бұрын

Well it seems like you failed at that😉

@SaystheTruth3

Ай бұрын

Lol! I actually love your comments!

@dabd8175

Ай бұрын

@@SaystheTruth3 thank you for the support it's hard to find motivation sometimes especially with all the toxic dog moms in the comments.

@karr1990

Ай бұрын

@@dabd8175the toxic dog moms felt personal lol

@dabd8175

Ай бұрын

@@karr1990 the legion of dog moms are out to get me. If I ever go missing or stop commenting contact the authorities on my behalf

Submit

@izzywox8246

Ай бұрын

To Delony? 👀

Financial "Infidelity" is not even on the same planet as adultery nor is it a legit reason to leave.

@joeystewart4487

Ай бұрын

@@SarahConnor562 That's fine, but it's not a biblical reason to leave. You figure out how to work it out.

@SuZenHealz

Ай бұрын

Who says he’s not paying to cheat? And there are betrayals worse than infidelity

@izzywox8246

Ай бұрын

You can only speak for yourself. I would see it as a type of infidelity. And also a very valid reason to leave if severe enough. You can’t live your life waiting for someone to pull the rug from under you, no matter how ‘biblical correct’ it is to stay in a place where you are so nonchalantly disregarded. It’s stupid.

@SuZenHealz

Ай бұрын

@@SarahConnor562 You just have won the internet for me 🫶💯

@SuZenHealz

Ай бұрын

@@joeystewart4487Is there biblical justification for false witness, or lying on the daily for years in the faces of cherished loved ones? Betrayal is betrayal