She should report the SIL and send her letter because people like her should not be any where near DA victims

@Meipmeep

19 күн бұрын

Absolutely needs to report on the SIL

@Joey15811

18 күн бұрын

Definitely

Super proud of everyone who supported her. That’s a good company to help cover costs

hidden camera in the bedroom ( I believe is illegal she was being filmed indecent without her consent). he punched holes in the walls out of anger( she would be next) then blamed her for it( refused to take responsibility and tried to make her look bad) add the whole tracking thing. the husband is an abuser.

Op, stay strong, you know in your heart, that had you tried to escape while he was around that it would have turned out very bad for you. What he was doing to you was wrong on so many levels. Thanks to your grandmother and her wisdom that you are safe. Do Not, have any one on one contact with Ex or his family. That's what they are trying to get you to do, it's all about control, don't give them any. And it would be best if you dropped the friends, that's your old life. Stay safe and I know Grandma is so proud of you ❤❤

People make me sick. You don’t need to be explain jack to anyone. I feel your grandma was giving you that push to get out of there. Stay safe and get therapy for what you have been through. So glad you made it safe.

Good thing you got out of there Be safe and don’t let your guard down. He may try to hire a private investigator to find you if he is that far gone Good luck and be safe

Here's the question she should be asking... If he thinks she's cowardly, oversensitive, stupid, etc... Why is he willing to work so hard to get her back in his clutches? If he thinks so little of her, why fight the divorce? If he's so great, and she's so not, then he could easily get another wife, right? Right? So why is he so mad, and why is he so determined not to let her go?

@lindah3803

16 күн бұрын

Simple. The way he sees her is: She is mine. She belongs to me.

@mannydcbianco

14 күн бұрын

My thoughts exactly. There's a reason he is refusing to let her go peacefully, and it has nothing to do with love, care or compassion. Quite the opposite: it is because he is a sociopath or psychopath and his ego simply cannot accept that she left him, that she is in control right now, that she bested him. He is furious. He might not have been physically abusive yet, but eventually he almost guaranteed would have turned to physical violence. OP leaving him while he was gone was the perfect opportunity. Had she tried to do it while he was at home chances are that's when he would take the leap from mental abuse to physical abuse.

One day, one of "their friends" who defended him to OP will look her up. To apologize for not believing OP. For defending her ex. They will tell OP what all he did/had done to his present/divorcing wife. Hopefully when that time comes, OP will be in a happy relationship. Be living the life she wants.

She did everything right. GOSO and NC with narcs.

How crazy is it that the SIL work has to do with victims of DA? Omg!!! That woman needs to be forbidden to deal with anything that has to do with DA victims.